Anatomy of a Transition | with Schyler
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- čas přidán 14. 07. 2024
- Sky speaks about the motivations behind transitioning, from "autogynephilia" to gender dysphoria.
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@BenjaminABoyce I just wanted to say a huge thank you for having me on your channel. Your thoughtful questions and genuine curiosity truly made the conversation feel enriching! I feel like I gained more than I gave from our discussion.Thanks again for creating such a welcoming and engaging space for these important conversations.
There seems to be very little help for dysphoria apart from affirmation, it might be interesting to explore how dysphoria might have developed and why deciding to take on a role where he will be ridiculed was the best solution , it's almost as if feeling humiliated is part of the AGP.
Humiliation is a part of AGP for some, but not for others. Most agps, myself included, just want to exist as the everyday people that we are. This is as serious to us as serious gets, and if we don't pass, we get humiliated. If we get outed, we're humiliated.
Frankly humiliation just makes me sad and paranoid, not horny lol. That's why a lot of us strive toward passing. It's a sort of place to sit down, take a breath, and finally just live life.
"I had a California accent".
Lol, call me crazy but I swear, the Cali accent became nationally feminine-coded, and Mid-Atlantic nationally masculine-coded, seems like almost exactly 20 yrs ago, and most ppl combine the two (with just a touch of the old regionalisms).
Psycholinguistics solved. Nominates self for Nobel Prize *error 404 Nobel Prize not found*
Schyler, thank you for this interview. And Benjamin Boyce, too.
I think you’re great. Honest and smart.
That being said, you present as male, honey. People know. Women know. Some might lie to you and placate you, but people can tell.
I hope you find acceptance. You can be whoever you want to be. You are beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
Can everyone quit being rude and disrespectful to the guests that Boyce has on? MAYBE even treat them like real people? I feel like this has been getting worse for a long time now. It is simply cruel to meet someone’s vulnerability with these nasty comments and it’s ultimately going to lead to less people wanting to share their stories for those who actually need to hear it AKA not you. Jeeeeeez.
Every AGP gets raked in the comments, regardless of how interesting or respectful they are. As someone pointed out, this says more about the quality of the commenters than the interviewee.
@Darkstar951Or you could stop watching? Just a thought.
Ladies, any grown-ass man who's willing to be publicly genderspecial doesn't need you to protect him from the negative feedback in CZcams contents.
If this kind of stuff is what you call hate, what word are you gonna use when there's some actual hate?
@Darkstar951 It’s an open forum, banning people for inconsiderate opinions will backfire
@Darkstar951 I honestly don’t see any “hate” in the comments, at this time.
Schyler, thank you for your honesty amd youbare clearly self reflecting and intelligent. I still w9sh and pray ypu fond peace with who you are though, with who you were born as. It must be a difficult journey and i see you genuinely seek answers, but i still pray yu find peace one day with yourself.
I'm getting more of an impression of repressed homosexuality from Skye rather than AGP...
He straight up talks about pleasuring himself to fantasies of being a woman. That is what it means to be AGP.
He mentioned at 44-45 mins in he… “pleased himself” to the idea of being a woman.
@@StormBringer5 I'm not sure what your response is implying? What I will say is that him pleasing himself to the idea of being a woman does not negate repressed homosexuality, like I said I' unsure what point you're making and would love to hear back from you and your take!
@@kellymarieapplebee are you familiar with Blanchard’s typogology? AGP literally means “love of oneself as a woman”, and Blanchard’s basic, go-to example is “pleasing yourself” imaging that you are a woman. This is the most straightforward example of AGP.
@@StormBringer5 there is overlap in Blanchards categories with approximately 18 -20% of HSTS also reporting AGP and AGP who are not exclusively hetero-sexual but prefer other trans identifying males
Some of this dovetails with the Philosophy Babble episode I just watched with Iain McGilchrist and Mark Solms.
Wow! What a great interview, feels like her mindset and past experiences mimics largely of mine, definitely served as a good voice for me 🙏
Great interview, thank you.
Damn, the chat was like Fight Club.
you just broke the first rule of chat fight club!
It's not about _using_ of the word (agp) that is to shame. It's simply that what is referred to by that word, the signified, is, at its core, something to be ashamed about. It used to simply called deviance and looked as such. If anything, employing the word agp aided in somewhat 'normalizing' as a form of sexuality.
It's not about using of the word (sodomite) that is to shame. It's simply that what is referred to by that word, the signified, is, at its core, something to be ashamed about. It used to simply called deviance and looked as such. If anything, employing the word sodomite aided in somewhat 'normalizing' as a form of sexuality.
Oh dear, after listening to all of this. I still think you're trying to convince yourself and everyone else that this is NORMAL and that it is it good and expansive. I am sure the struggles you felt as a male were real, but it still sounds as though you want the best of both worlds. We all have to settle for what we are born with and lead how to deal with that. You want men, you want women, you want to be male, you want to be female, you want to renal terms to suit yourself, you want a child so YOU can grow bit what about the child?? Do you you ever think about what this will do to a child?
I'm sorry, I still think the best way through this is self acceptance of who you are and as the rest of is, struggle with a bit of suffering and self sacrifice.
I wish all the best and I wish you Truth.
I have sent this in love, but I still think you need to work THROUGH ypur narcissim and homosexuality .❤
27:31 uh-oh, I did this too. I would pace and fantasize, usually not out loud.
So did my spectrumy lesbian friend in high school.
Every autistic person I know has done this.
it's pretty normal behavior
I've improved upon the Blanchardian typology:
_There is one type of trans, characterized by intrusive thoughts about one's sex, with or without erotic fixations or various elaborated culture-bound syndromes adopted to explain the intrusive thoughts._
Feel free to forget AGP, AAP, and GAMP, this works without them for both sexes and explains basically every known genderspecial subtype.
Im old school, could someone tell me if Schyler is a male or female? Im confused.
Sky is biological male who medically transitioned and now lives as a trans woman, meaning that socially the perception is of a female
Its a man.
Autogynephile
He could be an autogynophelia type man. It is a fetish like transvestite. They fall in love with themself.
@@anapontopina86this is definitely debatable. Most people would still say it’s a man imo. Especially if they are agp
If you're making the drastic decision to live this kind of alternate lifestyle, bringing children into it would be a huge mistake.
Ummm no if someone is stable and happy in there transition able to financially support then no reason why they shouldn’t be allowed to have kids.
@@Emperess_Emira perhaps you would feel differently if you heard from children who had a trans parent and the way it impacted them?
@@Gingerblaze so are you trying to say any trans person is completely barred from having kids? All kids have parents that have issues and impact them in one way or another. For better or worse parents try to do the best they can to raise the children but not everything is always perfect. That’s just life.
I think we need to separate the stories of those who have parents transitioning now while raising them in comparison to completing their transition before ever having them. The experience of both children will be different.
I think it's fair to say no one has any idea what will happen in the long term.
@@Matt24002😂
Yessss it is all about taking time
Good interview, she gives an insightful account of the trans experience.
The interviewer is a VERY handsome man!!!! 😘
my wife agrees!
@Darkstar951no two women look, act, or talk alike though.
If I do something the same way my mother does, I'm acting like a (specific) woman.
Am I a woman when I act like my mother?
Lots of interesting social and psychological dimensions mentioned in this one.
Very Interesting interview. Never hear any men with gender identity disorder (GID) expressing this way. I have the feeling Schyler is gay and was easier this way to accept his sexuality, and his problem with testosterone is that the libido is higher, so the struggle is bigger against your sex interest, if you come from a very religious background where particularly homosexuality is harder to accept. But what do I know... that's my personal opinion. Also, to be clear, not every person with gender identity disorder (GID) has autogynephilia. I think there are many different cases that can cause people to experience GID.
12 cats, I see you've accepted the Benjamin challenge.
"Herding cats, never gonna work bruh".
Benjamin: "hold my beer, indefinitely".
Open inquiry is medicine, that's great.
Very interesting and positive from Schyler. Now she's back with the Christians I'm wondering what the reactions are from them. I doubt they'd appreciate the female-female marriage or the male trans-female either.
Joe Biden is supposed to be Christian and he showers with his daughter
It be good for her to hear out Dr Jordan and if she a Christian she should listen to Dr brown.
I think I'm even more confused now.
Are you less likely to judge someone you don’t know?
@@danolsonrightnow probably why?
@@fashionforwardfellow confusion is fine, as long as it doesn’t breed contempt for the mere fact, imo.
What’s wrong with his cheeks? Why are they so red? Rash?
Or simply too much blush/incorrectly applied.
he has a filter applied.
@@Alaric11 That's not a filter, but simply tumblr make up.
12 cats? 12 ?! That's shocking . 🐿
Identity crisis, euphoria my ass!!!
"I told my parents on Easter night of 2018 that I thought I was transgender” ... “I slept the best I'd ever slept that night”
Schyler, ask your parents how long it was before they slept through the night?
Ask your 3 younger brothers, too.
I would sleep better knowing my child felt safe enough to share something like that with me, there are stressors that go along with any condition.
If your parents aren’t accepting your gender dysphoria in the meanwhile and dismissing your protestations as a phase, their sleep is not your problem. Respect engages with issues as they arise, not dismissing them until they bubble over.
I’m just a few seconds in, and yes…I did think it was gonna be about a trans cat 🤦♀️
Another great video. Transgender is real, but not at the current rate. It's mostly girls, and I understand it, since I had always wished I'd have been born a boy. Unfortunately, you cannot really change genders.
You can't change biological sex. Sad people are being missed to believe they can.
Sacha Bailey is a detransitioner a very good story to listen too.
Must have a tolerant wife.
Or a wife who feels trapped.
She seems cool but something about a transwomen raising kids just for those kids to grow up and realise that one of their moms is not only a man but their biological father who provided absolutely no fatherly role.. big oof…
@Darkstar951I'm gay. No research does not support what you suggest. Children deserve a mother and father wherever possible. That's not to say gays dont make good parents of course they do but to suggest a child in general does better if raised by gay parents as opposed to being raised by a mother and a father is ridiculous.
@Darkstar951I smell bs. The default argument .. 'there are studies.. ' whenever anyone wants to make a point these days. Use your own common sense.
@@racs9606 Common sense is a very unreliable guide when it comes to reality.
Nothing to worry about. Kids having their emotional needs met is more important than being indoctrinated into a gender role :)
@@AleksandreEyjolfsenHaving a gender role is important. It provides a structure for the physical aspects of biological sex (male and female). The lack thereof contributes to the problems we are experiencing today with gender and sexuality.
Puddycats in the jungle and on the hunt.
Sounds like saying, we should be more ok with trans. If adults want to dress a certain way or get elective surgeries, I don't particularly think that's my business, for the most part.
But beyond laws or harsh stigmas, if we're talking abt general NON-COERCIVE normative/cultural expectations, what abt the whole "erasing gayness" thing?
It seems more reasonable to me for most ppl to assume as a default, that culture should just be sufficiently comfortable with "gayness" (I thought we were, but I don't even know now) and treat most trans ppl (especially young) as probably just needing to become more comfortable with being gay ppl in their 'original bodies' in the social sphere, rather than altering themselves, unless some of them occasionally remain convinced they need to go pay money in their 20's for some surgery so they don't spaz-out.
Ok but aproximately 80% of trans identifying males are not gay.
You cray cray
Halfway in, and one of the most boring episodes so far.
So much pseudo-theoretizing and rationalisations and just rambling about God knows what. Came here hear their actual story, not the random pseudo-philosophical opinions. If I'd want to make sense of it on a philosophical/theological level, I'd turn to actual scholars or pastors, here I just want to hear the story, concrete, not philosophizing justifications.
I disagree
When you refer to your guest as "they" you are actually talking about one person. Why cave in to this bs?
@281992pdr isn’t a human name, yet you’ve adopted the language of your environment. 🤷🏻♂️
@@BenjaminABoyce Wrong. We have grammar so that children learning to speak, and also other language learners, will both be able to communicate clearly and so that they will not be confused by others using incorrect grammar (inadvertantly or purposely). The pronoun bs is another of the linguistic contortions of transworld. It is pernicious propaganda. As has been said before, and trans ideologues have latched onto: "Change the word/s, change the world". I'm done here.
@@BenjaminABoyce No. We have grammar so that children learning to speak and be literate and others learning a new language will be able to communicate clearly, not confuse others and be able to pick up when someone else is speaking, either deliberately or inadvertently, in a confusing manner. Trans ideologues love the propaganda as they have latched onto: "Change the word/s, change the world". The linguistic contortions of transism have seduced many.
Your reply shows up just fine! 👌🏼
#38👍💨
Thanks for banning my comments . you're the best.
@@johndutchman that's probably Google's AI censor. There are certain words and phrases that get them dissolved without notice.
It's important to realize too that while we're serving others and learning to serve others and learning to craft our craft around others.... It leads to money and business and service business and capitalism.
shes not really agp because agp is being so in love with women that you want to be that which you are attracted to the most .. im not getting that message here at all.
It’s not uncommon for AGP’s to have pseudo bisexuality. (Meta attraction).
There are a fair few TW who claim to be attracted to men. Most will be AGP’s.
@@fabbie3862 ..but that all comes after being strongly attracted to women, the reason agps go with men is because that is what women would do, ..the man is not the target, he is like any other item of womens clothing etc that needs to be worn or used. Agp are not homosexual, they are in fact strongly hetro so much so that they want to be the thing they desire in every way even if it means going with men. Perhaps as a result of this they could become bisexual in due course but it doesn't suddenly happen without starting off as hetro first.
@@bepitan I’m aware of this, hence why it’s called “pseudo” bisexuality. I don’t disagree with you. I’m trying to point out that some people think certain AGP’s are homosexual because they “claim” to be attracted to males, but they’re not, they are heterosexual with “pseudo” bisexuality.
A lot of people mistake some AGP’s as being HSTS.
He straight up says he pleasured himself to fantasies of being a woman. That is what it means to be AGP.
@@fabbie3862 .ah ok ..sorry i got the wrong end of the stick.
Me, me, me…🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
How curious that a person is talking about themselves if the fucking interview is about that person's experience.
that's the topic
Yeah… when I read a biography, I want to learn more about the editor, ya know?
Is that a bullet hole on his chest?
@Darkstar951 probably from taking the wrong hormones for his body.
Vaccine adverse effect
@Darkstar951*He
Title #9🖕💨
Great guest! Sky's story is important to humanise and destigmatize trans experience, because they are so eloquent, respectful and balanced. I don't understand why they identify as AGP... they strike me as the homo/bisexual type according to Blanchard.
I wish the best for the cool and lovely couple, if parenthood is on the stars it will happen.
@Darkstar951ok, got it. I listened again to Sky's explanation and I understand now.
I don't know if there is something "wrong". I just heard from some stories about the risk of becoming a problem in partnering with other person or the risk of becoming an obsessive/compulsive sort of addiction.
If there's the possibility of integrating that in life and being happy, good 👌
This is a good example of why blanchard's typology is overly rigid and obsessively categorizing by sexual orientation instead of just looking at the actual motivation for transition is dumb.
If they were balanced, they would accept themselves, without hormones and plastic surgeries.
Both gay and straight TIMs are AGPs. They both fetishise the idea of being the "woman" in a relationship/in bed.
@@oceanview211-nh6ri in Sky's case it is clearly not only sexual because they had the fantasy of being a girl before puberty.
Shes cute for a He/She☺️💨
Hard pass.
@@chaucerianfraud6767 Oh come on, Have a sense of adventure!!!👌💦
@@chaucerianfraud6767 67 Was a fine vintage, Now try some adrogyne 69. ☺️💨
@@DHead5150 I am not into men. No amount of adventure will make someone gay.
@@DHead5150 No. I am not gay.
Sky had me at cat mommy 🥰
Awwww.
👎
@@chaucerianfraud6767 😾
@@helenablavatsky9136 💜[you and I will just ignore those who are "kittyphobic" in this thread 😸]
@@NinjaKittyBonks I still can't see Fraud. I think I like it better that way.