Y'all are defending him when this man has contributed less than $2k to his child in 16 years, told his kid he doesn't want her, and beat on the mother. Smh who defends dead beat parents??
Yes! The defendant is NOT supposed to eat if the decision is him eating or his child eating!!! When I was a single mom, there were times (I’m not proud of) that I didn’t eat a meal so that my son could have food! That’s what parents do! Our children didn’t ask to brought here!! 😢
He has other children to take care of, so his firstborn doesn't matter apparently. She didn't deserve to hear him say that, and he's a piss poor excuse for a father.
I personally know how she feels. I thought my father loved me he told me he shouldn't have to pay child support because his mother, my loving grandmother, provided everything I needed! He adopted 3 stepchildren, and they became number one I never fully recovered after hearing those words. I am 60 + now, and it still hurts. I'm his only biological child ,my grandma was everything to me, we loved each other so much, she died in May of 2005 I miss her 💔 so much...
Yes, it’s crazy. I cut my dad off because he’s the same way. I’m the child! Everyone says “he will always be your Dad”… what is that suppose to mean? I’m his child and that didn’t make a difference to him
I have zero tolerance for parents who don't take care of their children..it's not left up to the child to come see their so called dead beat dad..and his azz not supposed to eat selfish SOB 🤬 There's a special place in hell for parents like that so called pear of pants 👖😈
My life currently everyone telling me “ He’s your dad “ but all these years he didn’t want to be in my life now I’m an adult he wants to talk to me and I’m supposed to act like everything’s all good. I’m good without him in my life I’ve forgiven and forgotten and moved on
He told her when SHE feels like putting in effort to have a relationship she knows where he is… after telling her it’s not her fault. Truly a dead beat dad.
No but the moms sure care about the $$$. I've seen the moms not spend child support money on no one but themselves. ...(mine included). So probably if the child don't care about the $$.... More than likely it's because it's never been there... not knowing what they are missing. I know dysfunctional...
The daughter look like she can just punch him at the end. That has to be the worst feeling to a parent who would care. He is a pitiful axx man to say the least.
He can't take responsibility for his bad parenting. And it is not the daughter's responsibility to visit him. It is on him to visit her. And "It's not on the way" isn't even close to a good excuse
People who are in the comments defending him y’all are sick! This man told his own daughter “he didn’t want her in his life”… y’all are sad! He didn’t need to talk
It’s so stupid. They’re more mad at the judge for holding his feet to the fire. We’ve seen so many PEOPLE come in here as reformed felons who are working and turn their lives around. There is no excuse for them defending him.
I’m glad this is the first comment I seen. If I would’ve scrolled down and seen people defending ANYTHING I would be in this comment section going off honey … I might still do it but Chile… idk
She said "I wish you weren't such a pos" and all he heard was pos, not the part where she wishes she had a father, "I wish you weren't such a pos so you could be in my life" that's what she meant.
Wow ya'll talking about JM didn't let him speak, THIS is the time the litigant didn't have anything to say. What he did say that was true was "January 9th to be exact" when he told her he didn't want her in his life!🤬
This dad is a loser making excuses why you can’t take care of your daughter when you said that you got other kids in your household is full of excuses to the young lady. I hope she continues to prosper in life she don’t need no one like that in her life.
Anytime she’s ready to make an honest effort??? That kid doesn’t have to do a damn thing!!!! I’m sooooo sick of dudes making babies and leaving then expect the child to chase them to get any attention, advice, or support for dozens of years . And then when the kid makes it in life successfully or the father gets old and sick... then all of a sudden, they wanna claim you as their child after years of neglect-
I’m glad JM didn’t let this man speak towards the end. When he DID let him speak, it was excuses and BS. He told his own daughter he didn’t want her in his life anymore? Then after the case he put the responsibility on the kid to start a relationship with HIM? Like… if u can’t be there financially, be there physically or at least thru social media… damn. SOMETHING! He didn’t even call her on her 16th birthday? You know how much that had to hurt and harden her heart? I don’t care what else he had to say.
Waittttttt why he hell is he putting ALL of the responsibility on his own child to talk to him!!!!!! My blood is boiling!!!!!!! This baby is better off without his stank behind!!!!
Stand tall daughter. I’m 29 and my father is the same. Best advice I can give is cherish your relationship with your mom and find a genuine network of strictly platonic male friends and mentors to help protect and support you in life.
I'm so proud that this woman wanted better for her child and left her abuser. This man needs counseling for himself before he can have a relationship. I don't think their daughter should be listening to this. She already knows what is going on. This is what happens to people who play house before they are mature.
I literally understand the child’s angle but it is a BLESSING that that man is not in her life. He needs to to pay up for sure but his presence (and attitude) are not necessary and he could end up doing more damage.
That's the truth, I have 3 of my grandkids cuz of a broken person. It's sad and I'm thankful that I got them b4 they got totally broken... Ppl need to do better, u can't move forward if u can't get the past straightened out...
This had me in 😢 tears 😭 smh . I don’t understand men like this I’m currently fighting to get 70k in Child Support and My kids dad is this narcissistic as this man . My kids are 27,25,22 I’m still fighting for resolution. It’s sickening and sad 😔
@@judahmorrison Duh 🙄 your pretty smart of course it’s for me ! Because I’ve sacrificed and already done the job . Meaning my savings and everything else has taken the blow. Unless you’ve raised some children by yourself move around ! Because that’s a sacrifice you know nothing about . In fact it’s trickled down to our grandkids . Some men not all can be so simple in your reasoning. Child support is for both parents to provide just because you get by doesn’t mean you get away !
@@judahmorrison Okay my apologies for coming on strong . I’m extra sensitive about this subject because it’s hurtful a literal slap in the face . But I do need to lighten up I suppose
I wish you all the best of luck cuz I'm going to tell you I'm just like you I have not gotten no child support for a long time not since they've been born but I'm over it
He should be on his knees begging her for forgiveness, wrap her in his arms and give her the love and attention she deserves - instead he opts to interact with her as if she cause the malfunction in their relationship. And had the nerve to comment on the language she used when speaking to him - lucky for him it wasn't worse. She's such a beautiful girl I hope she finds the courage to overcome.
I hate parents like him. No matter what your relationship is like with the other parent, it never changes the fact that you're a father or mother to what you've created. I kno people who haven't worked in years and because of child support, they choose not to work. But even if that's how u roll, u can STILL spend time with ur children. That's all kids care about!!! I kno many broke dads that spend every available minute with their children unless the mom prevents it. My kids' dad used to be one of them and I never had to struggle for a baby sitter for work or vacation! My kids have soooo many wonderful memories with their dad that money can't buy!! That really matters!
🤣🤣🤣 once the defendant responded, with attitude and base in his voice!!!!!!!! I'm like here comes the pain , His demeanor was wayyy off and rude as soon as he part his LIPS 🤣🤣🤣 I got "GOOD LAUGH OFF MR EXCUSES"
It's never too late but they can start over and build a father and daughter relationship. Hope he sees the error of his way and change for the sake of his child.
You're the only one on here that made since everybody else is bashing the father if people would listen that man has his own torment it's on trauma that he went through as a kid and like he did admit he did do things to that lady and he admitted and he apologized but when you don't have a driver's license and that is what you do for a living is drive it is hard to pay the child support I don't think he don't want to pay it is just that like he said you been in and out of jail and he haven't found a job to do that but as a mother she should have just left it alone and took her her own daughter and just went on about her business and the reason why I'm saying this is because I went through the same thing you can chase a man and try to demand them to pay you money that they don't have and they don't have it because they been in jail or because they don't have a license so you know what I did I went ahead went to college and got my associate's got my bachelor's degree and I went ahead and took her out to children and they turned out fine yes he still owes me $62,000 but I'm not sweating it because at the end he's got to deal with it
NO!! she is older than when he took advantage of her mother!! He is a sick monster! NO CHILDREN SHPULD BE AROUND HIM!! He should have been castrated and locked up for life!! Preferably k!lled!!
You can tell a lot of y’all are super sensitive. There’s a way you are supposed to carry yourself in a courtroom. Judge Mathis is mild compared to most judges. Once they feel disrespected, you IMMEDIATELY get contempt of court!
I don't know exactly when this was but to the daughter, he doesn't deserve any more of your time or effort. Go and live your best life knowing that none of this was ever on you, not to fix or build the relationship. And to the mama you are doing amazing thing for your girl.
I’ve always had my dad in my life so I can only say what I would do and I would never ever speak to my father again. Especially after saying he doesn’t want me in his life. So be it!!
14 or 15? The plaintiff should've kept her fast behind in school instead of thinking about dating & he should've been in college or looking for a job instead of dating a child , this whole scenario is messy as hell. ..
Anyone gonna call him out as a predator for dating her at 15-16 years old and abusing her???!! the dead beat part would only be an expected result of the prior.
"i got kids in my own household" WTF?! i'm so glad the mom kept quiet and let judge drag his ass by his baby hair goatee! i am so sorry for that beautiful girl that he's her father. but i'm glad her mother left him and has been taking care of baby girl. did he say the reason he left things the way they are is b/c he knows she's being taken care of by her mom?! what a trashbag. i'm so glad she got to say as much. he definitely gives dope fiend/alcoholic vibes. and has the audacity to get indignant w/her about "blowing him off." a piece of shit, indeed!
I'm sorry, I shouldn't laugh, but @ 3:30, the way Judge Mathis just summarized everything the woman said when addressing the man without any sugar coating was just funny to me
This really hit home to me !!! My father wasn’t never really around he though he did something becaue he gave me money but not being there physically hurts !! We got into a real bad argument and this man told me I’m dead to him and to suck his private part !!! I don’t understand who would say that about they child and it’s something I will never forget and can’t put pass me !
omg... she said just what I did when I didn't tell my family that my son was hurting me - I didn't want them to not like him. aren't we dummies? man... damn love.
This man insults the judge, then has the audacity to insult is child and then insist she be the one to make contact for a relationship....no that is not how it works. He needs to make the overtures for that. He is stupid.
First he used his ex-wife is a human punching bag... Once a week... then he turned around and talked about how he spent seven years in jail. Then he acts like paying child support is an option because he's got to eat.
Y'all are defending him when this man has contributed less than $2k to his child in 16 years, told his kid he doesn't want her, and beat on the mother. Smh who defends dead beat parents??
Exactly. Seriously.
Other deadbeats
Deadbeats have a fan base of their own.
Other deadbeat and people who see deadbeat fathers as the norm.
People without any
Yes! The defendant is NOT supposed to eat if the decision is him eating or his child eating!!! When I was a single mom, there were times (I’m not proud of) that I didn’t eat a meal so that my son could have food! That’s what parents do! Our children didn’t ask to brought here!! 😢
Grind harder
Yup. I was married, but I also skipped meals so my kids could eat. That's what parents do if they can't afford to feed both the kids and themselves
🎯🎯🎯
@@terrancesmith4352 Let us hope that you are never poverty stricken.
THIS
He has other children to take care of, so his firstborn doesn't matter apparently. She didn't deserve to hear him say that, and he's a piss poor excuse for a father.
Seriously.
For real though
but he too does not take of them either.
I personally know how she feels. I thought my father loved me he told me he shouldn't have to pay child support because his mother, my loving grandmother, provided everything I needed! He adopted 3 stepchildren, and they became number one I never fully recovered after hearing those words. I am 60 + now, and it still hurts. I'm his only biological child ,my grandma was everything to me, we loved each other so much, she died in May of 2005 I miss her 💔 so much...
@@user-xe9lq1dg6i she's still keeping an eye on you, little girl.⚘⚘⚘⚘
I hate parents like him.... where the child has to make the effort after THE PARENT has done all the wrong to them😤
I also hate dead beat parents.
Yes, it’s crazy. I cut my dad off because he’s the same way. I’m the child! Everyone says “he will always be your Dad”… what is that suppose to mean? I’m his child and that didn’t make a difference to him
I agree with you!
I have zero tolerance for parents who don't take care of their children..it's not left up to the child to come see their so called dead beat dad..and his azz not supposed to eat selfish SOB 🤬 There's a special place in hell for parents like that so called pear of pants 👖😈
My life currently everyone telling me “
He’s your dad “ but all these years he didn’t want to be in my life now I’m an adult he wants to talk to me and I’m supposed to act like everything’s all good. I’m good without him in my life I’ve forgiven and forgotten and moved on
How does she prevent him from paying child support? Just get a job. Any job.
Of course. Excuses excuses.
That’s what the judge was trying to say, they will take what little you have as long as it’s something
Lol right.
He told her when SHE feels like putting in effort to have a relationship she knows where he is… after telling her it’s not her fault.
Truly a dead beat dad.
*Best comment*
Yep, got an ex like this so know one when I see one…🤬
He is an UNEMPLOYED deadbeat dad!🙄
@@lislortega2610 Same here and he was super abusive. He said that same exact line.
Fr
worst part is, children don't care about money. your presence means the world to anyone 16 an down. she just wants her farther..
true... she does want her faRther
Why the hell do you mean 16 and down.. You sound crazy. everyone isn't after money from their parents...
No but the moms sure care about the $$$. I've seen the moms not spend child support money on no one but themselves. ...(mine included). So probably if the child don't care about the $$.... More than likely it's because it's never been there... not knowing what they are missing. I know dysfunctional...
And I agree with the dude about ILLINOIS.
You can't get gainful employment without a drivers license...as these days... most decent jobs require them.
I don't have a FarTher...😹😹😹
Judge Mathis is shaming him on tv and I'm here for it.
Me too.
Yes
Truth! The father is a hypocrite and a coward!
That DEADBEAT deserves to get SHAMED on TV and the Internet!
Judge Mathis OWNS his you know what
It brought tears to my eyes seeing that girl hold back her tears.
honestly..
She ain’t holding back nothing. Her face had no emotion the whole video. She doesn’t care
@@chekers7 you know some people have a rbf right? Not everyone wears their emotions on their face
@@chekers7 I saw emotion. Just say you didn't see it. You don't have enough ability or info to come to a conclusion that she doesn't care.
@@chekers7I wouldn’t care about a deadbeat either! Why should she cry when she knows she has a piece of shit as a father
😂😂I'm glad Mathis rode out on him. Not only because he's an abuser, but because he seems like the type who get mad and call you the N word.
Judge Mathis wasn't playing
Amen!
So sad, I feel for the daughter, she deserves better off from her deadbeat dad...I don't blame Mathis for putting the father in check.
I LOVE how baby girl was secretly enjoying her "dad" get roasted by the judge. He deserves every word! I hope she gets the healing she needs❤❤❤❤
The daughter look like she can just punch him at the end. That has to be the worst feeling to a parent who would care. He is a pitiful axx man to say the least.
Facts
Facts
Wow! The defendant is a true Dead Beat Dad!! His daughter is better off without him in her life!! I am glad Judge Mathis went in on him!!
and a woman beater too!
He can't take responsibility for his bad parenting. And it is not the daughter's responsibility to visit him. It is on him to visit her. And "It's not on the way" isn't even close to a good excuse
Exactly.
People who are in the comments defending him y’all are sick! This man told his own daughter “he didn’t want her in his life”… y’all are sad! He didn’t need to talk
Black women defending him.
It’s so stupid. They’re more mad at the judge for holding his feet to the fire. We’ve seen so many PEOPLE come in here as reformed felons who are working and turn their lives around. There is no excuse for them defending him.
@@tom11zz884 I wouldn't defend him with a ten foot pole. Lol
I’m glad this is the first comment I seen. If I would’ve scrolled down and seen people defending ANYTHING I would be in this comment section going off honey … I might still do it but Chile… idk
Not defending him at all but a child no matter the situation should never speak to their father that way
My heart goes out to the daughter. She doesn't deserve to be treated horribly by her "father".
Wow, he's nothing of a father. Defendant, I have to take care of my own kids. Like his daughter is not one of his own . Pitiful excuse of a father .
How is it her fault that he can’t make his child support payments???
Exactly. It's his fault.
There's snail-mail, electronic transfers, garnishments for child support! He's trying to gaslight the judge!
Embarrassed to say my “father” is the exact same. He actually told me he has no children and to stop talking to him.
Damn really? 🥺
@@mzfancy4767 yes mam.
I'm sorry to hear that, I wish you all the best and take care.
@Celestial Black It's definitely his lost and he has to answer for his actions and lack of with The Most High. Stay blessed brother. 🤎
@@mzfancy4767 thank you. Much appreciated
The daughter is gorgeous I almost put my fist through CZcams when he said when you are willing to make a effort 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😡😡
She said "I wish you weren't such a pos" and all he heard was pos, not the part where she wishes she had a father, "I wish you weren't such a pos so you could be in my life" that's what she meant.
She’s a beautiful girl and I’m so sorry she had to hear all that man. Absent fathers really don’t understand how much it hurts
Agreed!
Yes! He's terrible; telling the daughter to find him when she ready to talk.
He’s a child abuser!
Sperm Unit is STILL being a DEAD BEAT!!!!
I like how he put the responsibility on his child. Classic deadbeat dad behavior.
Smhhhh
As a father I have no respect for men who don't do right by the kids. Deadbeats are the worst.
Damn her and her daughter are twins
Thank god.
Spit her right out!
I'm not into skinny chicks but they're beautiful AF
The amount of times I watched JM go in on this man over and over and over ❤ he went in on this raggedy individual
Wow ya'll talking about JM didn't let him speak, THIS is the time the litigant didn't have anything to say. What he did say that was true was "January 9th to be exact" when he told her he didn't want her in his life!🤬
This dad is a loser making excuses why you can’t take care of your daughter when you said that you got other kids in your household is full of excuses to the young lady. I hope she continues to prosper in life she don’t need no one like that in her life.
I hate that the daughter is there to hear this case. 🙁
Who’s to say she didn’t want to be there
Anytime she’s ready to make an honest effort??? That kid doesn’t have to do a damn thing!!!! I’m sooooo sick of dudes making babies and leaving then expect the child to chase them to get any attention, advice, or support for dozens of years . And then when the kid makes it in life successfully or the father gets old and sick... then all of a sudden, they wanna claim you as their child after years of neglect-
He was definitely a JOCK in highschool
😂😂😂
Yall are saying JM should let him talk like everything he was saying wasn't BS.
Agreed
Right. They’re so eager to defend a dead beat. It’s wild.
After he told his daughter he didn’t want her in his life. Everything JM said about him he deserved.
The ones saying it are probably dead beats, too, and they are feeling offended.
@@Crystal-Love exactly!!🤬
He's been a deadbeat for sixteen years and he wants to get onto her for saying "shit"? Please spare me. 🙄
I understand her frustration but if I were in the situation I would’ve kept it classy without cuss words. Ijs 🤷♀️
@@lkb-il8iy..ok?
He sounds like my ex husband. Taking care of his step kids and treat our kids like they aren’t important. Sad sad sad
I’m glad JM didn’t let this man speak towards the end. When he DID let him speak, it was excuses and BS. He told his own daughter he didn’t want her in his life anymore? Then after the case he put the responsibility on the kid to start a relationship with HIM? Like… if u can’t be there financially, be there physically or at least thru social media… damn. SOMETHING! He didn’t even call her on her 16th birthday? You know how much that had to hurt and harden her heart? I don’t care what else he had to say.
His Beautiful Daughter is Better Off Without Him.
Yes indeed.
Omg this guy may not have money but he's worth millions in excuses
This man sounds like my daddy boy! I swear I feel this baby's heart ❤️
Waittttttt why he hell is he putting ALL of the responsibility on his own child to talk to him!!!!!! My blood is boiling!!!!!!! This baby is better off without his stank behind!!!!
I'm hoping one day this young lady will realize that her life will be immeasurably better without this person in her life.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Exactly. Can't miss out on what you don't have
He would’ve had a rude awakening fucking with me like this tbh
Stand tall daughter. I’m 29 and my father is the same. Best advice I can give is cherish your relationship with your mom and find a genuine network of strictly platonic male friends and mentors to help protect and support you in life.
Man it’s so unfair how people who DONT deserve kids are blessed with ‘em.
My heart breaks for the daughter 🥺
I'm so proud that this woman wanted better for her child and left her abuser. This man needs counseling for himself before he can have a relationship. I don't think their daughter should be listening to this. She already knows what is going on. This is what happens to people who play house before they are mature.
I literally understand the child’s angle but it is a BLESSING that that man is not in her life. He needs to to pay up for sure but his presence (and attitude) are not necessary and he could end up doing more damage.
This is really sad. Broken people raise broken children. We have to keep trying to do better. 🙏🏾💜
That's the truth, I have 3 of my grandkids cuz of a broken person. It's sad and I'm thankful that I got them b4 they got totally broken... Ppl need to do better, u can't move forward if u can't get the past straightened out...
What a joke pathetic excuse
JUDGE MATHIS lit him up! ❤
The daughter looking like yeah judge Mathis get on him
I agree.
What am I supposed to do? Not eat? Make sure your kids eat before you do sir
This had me in 😢 tears 😭 smh . I don’t understand men like this I’m currently fighting to get 70k in Child Support and My kids dad is this narcissistic as this man . My kids are 27,25,22 I’m still fighting for resolution. It’s sickening and sad 😔
Stay strong 💪 lady
@@judahmorrison Duh 🙄 your pretty smart of course it’s for me ! Because I’ve sacrificed and already done the job . Meaning my savings and everything else has taken the blow. Unless you’ve raised some children by yourself move around ! Because that’s a sacrifice you know nothing about . In fact it’s trickled down to our grandkids . Some men not all can be so simple in your reasoning. Child support is for both parents to provide just because you get by doesn’t mean you get away !
@@tamaradula1331 jus talkin shit do ya thang
@@judahmorrison Okay my apologies for coming on strong . I’m extra sensitive about this subject because it’s hurtful a literal slap in the face . But I do need to lighten up I suppose
I wish you all the best of luck cuz I'm going to tell you I'm just like you I have not gotten no child support for a long time not since they've been born but I'm over it
The poor girl. My heart breaks for her.
There’s no excuse on earth to be a deadbeat dad!
Right.
Exactly!
A beautiful, beautiful daughter.
He called her kid at the end like she was a stranger. Pathetic. It’s not your fault kid. Not her name not daughter. Just sad
I drove without a license for 12 years and got caught several times, and still drove to pay that child support
Dude is making hella excuses. Sad
Agreed!
I feel sorry for the daughter. I wanted to cry when they said he told her he didn't want her in his life. He's despicable.
Same
What a waste of a man
A waste of flesh. Never been a man
Why do they have this sweet innocent child listening to all this? Unwise. God bless Alyssa.
He should be on his knees begging her for forgiveness, wrap her in his arms and give her the love and attention she deserves - instead he opts to interact with her as if she cause the malfunction in their relationship. And had the nerve to comment on the language she used when speaking to him - lucky for him it wasn't worse. She's such a beautiful girl I hope she finds the courage to overcome.
THE DEFENDANT IS A TRUE DEFINITION OF A DEAD BEAT DAD,I REST MY CASE.
Agreed!
I hate parents like him. No matter what your relationship is like with the other parent, it never changes the fact that you're a father or mother to what you've created. I kno people who haven't worked in years and because of child support, they choose not to work. But even if that's how u roll, u can STILL spend time with ur children. That's all kids care about!!!
I kno many broke dads that spend every available minute with their children unless the mom prevents it. My kids' dad used to be one of them and I never had to struggle for a baby sitter for work or vacation! My kids have soooo many wonderful memories with their dad that money can't buy!! That really matters!
Same
Mann they doing they thing with the up loads today and I'm loving it😆
Mom did a great job raising her daughter after being abused many times by him !
🤣🤣🤣 once the defendant responded, with attitude and base in his voice!!!!!!!! I'm like here comes the pain , His demeanor was wayyy off and rude as soon as he part his LIPS 🤣🤣🤣 I got "GOOD LAUGH OFF MR EXCUSES"
Sending the young lady soo much love 💕
It's never too late but they can start over and build a father and daughter relationship. Hope he sees the error of his way and change for the sake of his child.
You're the only one on here that made since everybody else is bashing the father if people would listen that man has his own torment it's on trauma that he went through as a kid and like he did admit he did do things to that lady and he admitted and he apologized but when you don't have a driver's license and that is what you do for a living is drive it is hard to pay the child support I don't think he don't want to pay it is just that like he said you been in and out of jail and he haven't found a job to do that but as a mother she should have just left it alone and took her her own daughter and just went on about her business and the reason why I'm saying this is because I went through the same thing you can chase a man and try to demand them to pay you money that they don't have and they don't have it because they been in jail or because they don't have a license so you know what I did I went ahead went to college and got my associate's got my bachelor's degree and I went ahead and took her out to children and they turned out fine yes he still owes me $62,000 but I'm not sweating it because at the end he's got to deal with it
NO!! she is older than when he took advantage of her mother!! He is a sick monster! NO CHILDREN SHPULD BE AROUND HIM!! He should have been castrated and locked up for life!! Preferably k!lled!!
It’s not the daughter’s responsibility to mentor her father through his shit.
Not her child looking older than her. Y’all gave her the speak to the manager cut 😩😩😩
She’s beautiful & so is her haircut. She doesn’t look older than her mom. You sound bitter & jealous that you’re probably bald headed
😂😂😂I wanted to say the same thing… Looking like a 4th grade teacher
@@antonettestrong1430 LMAOOOOOOOO
I can't imagine what's going on in his own household.
He said “nice language” like he wasn’t beating on his mom, huh????
Exactly!
Bruh said one lump sum of almost 900🤣🤣🤣
The daughter has every right to feel that way towards him
Agreed!
“Nice language “ baby girl I need you to just step to the side cause if I was there 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
Im glad JM chewed his ass out, he deserved every bit
That a shame that he disown his own daughter plus, he beats on his girlfriend he need to be in his daughter life.
He needs to be in his kids life? No
so he can try to beat on her too? he needs to be permanently band from being alone with any woman family or not.
Agreed!
You can tell a lot of y’all are super sensitive. There’s a way you are supposed to carry yourself in a courtroom. Judge Mathis is mild compared to most judges. Once they feel disrespected, you IMMEDIATELY get contempt of court!
I agree with you!
Judge made him feel sooooo looowww 😂😂😂
Hope child support lock all men and WOMEN like this who don't make effort to pay 😤
I don't know exactly when this was but to the daughter, he doesn't deserve any more of your time or effort. Go and live your best life knowing that none of this was ever on you, not to fix or build the relationship. And to the mama you are doing amazing thing for your girl.
I’ve always had my dad in my life so I can only say what I would do and I would never ever speak to my father again. Especially after saying he doesn’t want me in his life. So be it!!
Poor excuse for being a man let alone a father ...
"What am I supposed to do not eat?" Uh YES! A true deadbeat daddy.
As soon as the defendant entered the courtroom I had a bad feeling about him.
I love how he has the audacity to tell her about her language. Like a big F U sir!
Boyyy he wanted to call judge mathis the N word sooo bad I just know it
14 or 15? The plaintiff should've kept her fast behind in school instead of thinking about dating & he should've been in college or looking for a job instead of dating a child , this whole scenario is messy as hell. ..
Anyone gonna call him out as a predator for dating her at 15-16 years old and abusing her???!! the dead beat part would only be an expected result of the prior.
He so sorry, he’s even putting it on her to make the effort
You could look at him and tell he's an abuser.
Exactly!
"i got kids in my own household" WTF?! i'm so glad the mom kept quiet and let judge drag his ass by his baby hair goatee! i am so sorry for that beautiful girl that he's her father. but i'm glad her mother left him and has been taking care of baby girl.
did he say the reason he left things the way they are is b/c he knows she's being taken care of by her mom?! what a trashbag.
i'm so glad she got to say as much. he definitely gives dope fiend/alcoholic vibes. and has the audacity to get indignant w/her about "blowing him off." a piece of shit, indeed!
I'm sorry, I shouldn't laugh, but @ 3:30, the way Judge Mathis just summarized everything the woman said when addressing the man without any sugar coating was just funny to me
He called her kid, not by her name; which I hope she has no parts his name.🤬🤬🤬
This really hit home to me !!! My father wasn’t never really around he though he did something becaue he gave me money but not being there physically hurts !! We got into a real bad argument and this man told me I’m dead to him and to suck his private part !!! I don’t understand who would say that about they child and it’s something I will never forget and can’t put pass me !
Smh. Disgusting & so sad to say that to you. 😟
omg... she said just what I did when I didn't tell my family that my son was hurting me - I didn't want them to not like him. aren't we dummies? man... damn love.
omg "unfortunately, my wife got the short end of the stick" was a really poor choice of phrase...
This man insults the judge, then has the audacity to insult is child and then insist she be the one to make contact for a relationship....no that is not how it works. He needs to make the overtures for that. He is stupid.
First he used his ex-wife is a human punching bag... Once a week... then he turned around and talked about how he spent seven years in jail. Then he acts like paying child support is an option because he's got to eat.
"i came to see you january 10th and you blew me off..." maybe it's because you told her you didnt want her in your life on january 9th.