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The only scholar I trust is Dr Zakir Naik. Alhamdulillah thank you Allah for him. Most preachers say things they believe are right. They limit us. But Islam is kind and logical.
Me too ❤️ but Zakir naik is not a scholar,he itself said that many times
Wo waseela Lena haram hai dr zakir nike n bolle te Quran m 25 aayat hai waseela Lena haram hai kdr hai woo aayat ??? Meko abhi tak nhi milli
@@mohammedtipusultan5251 look at Surah Younus 10:18
It's about intercessors
May Allah forgive us all
May Allah guide us all
you should check out some of the classics. ibn taymiyya is pretty cool he helped start the whole salafism movement. even respected muslims who weren't scholars like rumi can be very insightful. personally I like to hear a bit of everyone's stance and make an informed decision based on the teachings of the quran or with the guidance of my imam, but many people do recommend finding a school and a teacher of that school and sticking to it.
Islam*
Start pray 5times Namaz (Salah) for success in life and after death☪🌴🌅🌄🕌💖🕋
Bill gates and Steve jobs are highly successfull and they are atheist
@@frankfernandes718 but if they do not become a worshiper man and believe in god and they die in this situation, they will go to hell.
Please read sura mulk it takes 5minutes
@@man08839 so u r telling bill gates will go to hell?
@@frankfernandes718 Absolutely. As he doesn't believe in Allah and Allah doesn't want any disbeliever to enter Jannah. He is successful only in his life but will not be in the life hereafter, as he is a disbeliever. Hope you understand!
@@zaif9029 but Billgates has done very good deeds like funded schools in africa, india and played a vital role in eradicating small pox from the world and funding medical and schooling in various african countries still he will not receive Jannah thats stupidity just because he didnt believe in allah he will not go to jannah and allah doesnt exist and nor his jannah so its clear that Islam is a fake religion what did muslims did to world nothing
Love you sir.From Bangladesh 🇧🇩
Me also
Jongir baccha ke ken support koren?
Shala terrorist
Tomader jonno Bangladesh e muslim extremist ra Bangladesh er kharap obostha kore dicche
@@parash4059 মালায়ুন
I'm a revert Muslim and I find it very hard to restrict myself so much like this... islam is very hard religion to follow! Especially for people who never liked go follow rules in their life before like me! May Allah give me strength and faith inshaAllah 🙏 ❤️ 💪
Inshallah sister, Please be strong and practice
Sister, I am a born Muslim and I face a similar problems and even worse. I still slip up and can't resist looking and I regret instantly. I still struggle with lowering the gaze. May Allah make our Imaan stronger. Ameen.
It's for our own benefit. Who better knows us than our Creator.
In sha Allah may Allah protect you and make it easy for you if you put your mind to it and ask for Allah helps walahi it get easy for you remember mind over matter
Islam is not a hard religion to follow it is just the world is so much involved in haram things so it seems like it's very hard but trust me sister it not just stay away from haram things and see what miracle will happen:)
Subhan’Allah!! My husband’s ‘friendship’ with his childhood sweetheart turned into an emotional affair. I asked him to stop and told him how wrong it was, but he wouldn’t listen and was in denial about it. He left me and our children because he refused to give her up. Whatever they had/have it is wrong, it’s temporary and has left me broken hearted. I hung on for the sake of Allah, but I had to speak up and not allow myself to be used or treated like dirt. This is the second time with the same woman, but this time it went further( not physical as far as I’m aware of) , Subhan’Allah. I suppose after 22 years of marriage and the fact he no longer loved me played a big part 😔.
Astaghfirullah may Allah deal with them both and mashhallah for u having patience ❤
this is very important. We all have to practice this. JazakAllah
Assalam Alaikum
Jazaka Allah Khairan beautiful speech
From Korea
Korean muslim 😄
Love u sir from indian illegally occupied kashmir 💕
MashaAllah Sir ur explanation always clears the questionars questions
Really am impressed by your wacdi Sheikh manshaallah
JazakAllah khair the answers are excellent
Oh allah protect me from devil from eye, bless me to perform lower the gaze to opposite sex💯,AMEEN
Keralite?
@@afnahameed5187 yes
@@razin_mohamed_m.a7848 i forget why i asked you that. Oops! Anyway have a nice day
Much needed query answered...
Zazak Allah...
Long live sir ❤️
when someone came to imam Muhammad bar aleihi wasalam, (it was a conversation I can't really remember what happened) but imam Muhammad bar aleihi wasalam said, when shay tan came to nabi noah aleihi wasalam, and when the shaytan said, I am going to give you a gift. then nabi noah (AS) said, why? shaytan said, its because you made dua to Allah to forgive all of those who oppressed Allah. nabi noah (AS) what is the gift, shaytan said three advices. the first one said the shaytan is, when there's only two opposite gender in the room, know I am the third. the second shaytan said to nabi noah (AS) is when shaytan said, when you are mad, know that I am there to make you more mad. the third one is, when shaytan said to nabi noah (AS) the shaytan said, when you are about to give zaikai, know that I am always there to stop you from giving. (I can't really remember the full Hadith, but it looks familiar like this one.) salam
Jazakallah...bht behtreen byan
change the concept completely about veil. May ALLAH showers HIS Blessings upon you Dr. Zakir.
Love you from Afghanistan 🇦🇫🇮🇳 god bless you....
Sir u are such a great legend 🔥🔥
Author
Brother or sister it helped me a lot to get change in my personality.
Thank you Dr jazak Allah Kheir
Thank you so much sir, it was so helpful
Alhamdulillah
Thank you so much
Love you sir, from Pakistan
Thanks to you sir for clearing confusion.
I've just started college which is a big jump from being at all girls secondary, It is a really big jump and quite hard to navigate around staying halal and interacting with the opposite gender. Especially to what degree you should be interacting.
As long as you try. It's not haram in of itself to not talk to a male for legit reasons, it's very important to be able to know how to speak to the opposite sex in a formal way, it's important for your future social professional settings, just be sure not make it about anything else but work.
@@SDSen we can be friends with different GENDERS with respect
@@blue-sj4mf yeah
@@fatimanoorahmad8720 so you agree also 💪👍
@@blue-sj4mf Ye I agree
Alhumdulillah this vedio opened my eyes ❤️
Best answer brother. You are 100% right what you said. May Allah swt guide us and keep us on the right path . Amin.
Please apply this in life PLEASE
Matchless !💙
Best ever teaching 😊
MASHAALLAH❤
I am big fan of u sir
May Allah always guide us on the right path AMEEN❤
Ameen
Crct situation also me🙌, allah akbar
Very nice answer
Alhamdulillah ❤️🤲
MASHALLAH 🥀
😟😟 May allah make us as a strong muslim🤲🤲
Love for dr zakir naik
Mashallah
Thank u
We ❤️ u sir...stay blessed.. excellent presentation ❤️❤️❤️
in sha allah
alhamdulillah
ماشاء الله وتبارك الله
Dr. Zakir Naik, I have a question and insha Allah you'll see this.
Question: How to handle a friendship of two opposite genders in an islamic way?
Situation: So apparently, I just started to practice islamic ways such as following the sunnah and such. But this friends of mine which are women have been my best of friends since high school. Since before I started practicing the islamic way of life. One of them is a muslim but doesn't practice the sunnah and the rest are christians. As now a practicing muslim myself, should I just tell them straight and truthfully that I can't hang out with them anymore because it's haram? If so, can I still talk to them casually online? Or should I just cut them off totally and never talking to them again?
PS: Those who would reply, I hope you all be able to understand my situation. No hates please. And I live from a christian country btw and was enrolled in a catholic school since kinder garden to senior high school.
same problem with me
Stay friend with your friends. How is that for loving thy neighbour if you deny them friendship? They love you, you love them, stay with them.
same here and i don't know what to do
@@williampitt1537 for the most part I agree but to be fair that's the bible you're quoting not the quran
Asalamualaikum bro
I was in same situation similar to u. But Alhamdulilla now i am in better situation
U had to first think of ALLAH SWT he is much more important and caring he knows me better he wanna protect us thats the reason for restrictions
I know its hard but if we do we will be rewarded much much much more better
just try to avoid the place/ situation. Where u need to interact
If u interact
Just try to lower your gaze
Talk with what is related to your work only bro
It should be purposefully Public And limited. Talk only
They will understand automatically that u are uncomfortable with them
they will be contacting to u when u are last from their cirle
U can tell to sister that its haram to talk unnecessarily. If she try to interact again again unnecessarily again and again if u follow the above rules
الحمد لله
I want to meet u sir...❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🧡🧡💮💮💮💮
I have lots of friend .They are better than same gender.They never allow me to down my dignity,self respect.
I also have friends with opposite gender i stay in my limit we never write haram things so its not haram
@@blue-sj4mf lol its against the shariah, you cant pick and choose. Its not haram if you say its not haram.
its a sin, against the shariah, doesnt matter what you belief. May Allah give you taufeeq. If you think it was right then what are you doing on this video? you know in your heart its wrong.
@@hamzamasood9097 proof it to me that its haram you harami
May Allah spread these islamic rules in our families, countries Ameen, so that it will become ease for all Muslims to follow Islam properly. Ameen❤
Watch all your vids ♥️♥️
Mashallah we all have to do our part😇🤲
Please always type ma sha Allah with A capital
Even the prophet and sahaba didn't make any segregation between men and women.
Men and women worked together, they talked to each other, they prayed together, they did hajj together.
We see that today as well.
And if the sahaba started to develop a feeling of love to someone, they just went ahead and proposed.
If the other person also wanted it, they married, otherwise they politely refused the proposal.
Yes your right we can be friends with different GENDERS with respect
@@blue-sj4mf exactly
@@shaikmudassir6455 thx that you agree with me
@@blue-sj4mf it doesn’t matters if I or some other person agrees with you are not, what matters is that what does Quran & sunnah teaches us.
Yes We can Be friends with opposite gender (With Respectful Manner) 👍🏻
Assalam Alaikum Allah Akbar
SubhanAllah Alhamdulillah
Inshallah
Being friends is good. How about a mixed group ? It is ok..
Assalamu alaikum
I'm an engineering student (boy) and in college some girls (students) try to make me shame for example by saying hey there is going a decent boy who is always on the path of Islam , he never talk to girls and too much more . And because of girls I leave them. in this situation what I have to do?
Listen, Alhamdulillah u are a very good muslim if you’re truly on the right path. Please ignore those girls or if u might, make them understand the beauty of our religion, and if they resist, dont mind it. This world is temporary and we must endure minor insults which may become a fruit for the hereafter
@@Ibn_Shaukatاسسلام علیکم
شکریہ
Masha Allah
Mashallah brother...
I don't believe that boys like you exist in nowadays...
Allah will see all of them on the day of judgment...
Please don't take them seriously...
Assalamu alaikum
Where do u live?
Wo 25 aayat konsi hai Dr shahab aap n bolle te waseela Lena haram hai ek aayat batao plz sir 🙏
But the third person in between both is shaitan so it's not permissible in islam
We CAN BE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GENDERS WITH RESPECT
@@blue-sj4mf respect or no respect, a man and woman can't be just friends. This is even besides what we practise in Islam.
I want to know that in what sense Dr. Saab discussed about secretary.....is it not ok for a lady to be secretary as long as she is following hijab????
how can i ask question from Dr zakir.?
Sir u r our pride
Our hero is getting old
Is time ap kis country me rahte Hain
Ya Allah forgive me OMG 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 Allah forgive me how to do sins for give me ALLAH
Ameen
5:19 REALLY MDE ME LAUGH
Can I please know what do you mean from 9:42 to 9:49 ? (timestamp - 9:42) If so , why ?
Assalamualaikum warehmutoullah wabrakathu
Because all Ummahhatul Momineen (wife of prophet Muhammad saw) is our mother.
Sir can our back face quran is it permissible
Rakhi sisiter and brother... Caught red handed in jp nagar (bangalore )
I am also keep a friend, she is a girl, but i want to teach islam and i want to give the message of islam, if the ultimate aim of my relationship is like this, is it permitted?
If u dont have the slightest wrong intention on her(Which is almost impossible),maybe thats permissible...just my opinion
No its not permissible to have any sort of relationship even to give her mesg of islam. Although, if u r giving teachings as a scholar or sth thats right.
@@fatimasalman790 TEENAGERS CAN BE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GENDERS WITH RESPECT
@@blue-sj4mf islamically, no u cannot be friends with people of opp gender
@@fatimasalman790 i dont wanna argue with you so yeah get lost
Sheikh .so is it considered Zina when they call each other and check on each other and also video chat?
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A GIRL AND BOY CAN BE JUST FRIENDS BUT A Sex loving PERSON CANNOT UNDERSTAND IT.
They can't be friends. Sex or no sex.
@@taurusking_1997 You are wrong ok I dont want to do further arguments so good bye
@@arghasenazad695 listen my friend. Though I do admire your kind heart and intentions to just be a friend. You have realize that there's a reason as to why men and women can't be just friends. Because opposites attract. Thats why when you see a woman you are supposed to keep your eyes down. Because Shaitaan exists. So one or the other would eventually end up falling. Especially if they are close.
@@taurusking_1997 I cannot have female freinds ?
@@taurusking_1997 we can be friends with different GENDERS with respect
what does quran say about transgenders?
AssalamuAlaikum Warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu Sheikh Zakir.
I am Mohamed Ausaf from Chennai
I have a question that:
What should we do when we get interest in our saving bank account (Debit Card) 💳
Give it to poor
And if possible convert ur saving account to current account
Pls seaech in sone orher videos
clearly speak if it's haraam or just disliked. Strong evidence for being haram?
A year ago when Covid began I was of course, like everyone quarantined. This left me with no one to talk to since I couldn't meet up with anyone.
While commenting on a CZcams video I made a friend and they told me that we could talk on discord and I agreed. After joining discord I made more friends after joining server.
However a week ago I read the translation of The Holy Qur'an and came across the verse which explains that people of the opposite gender cannot be friends.
Now all my discord friends are guys. I can easily back out from the friendships except three people. These three friends are the only friends who I shared my insecurities with and because of them, found a purpose in life. When I read the verse, I messaged all three and lied saying "I'm gonna need a break from my phone so I won't be using it for 5 days." The five days are over and I don't know what to do. How do I end this friendship? Out of the three, two of them consider me their best friend especially since they had a bad experience a year ago when their friend betrayed them and all. I... Don't know what to do. How do I get out of this friendship especially since all of them are strong atheists? It's been three days and they've messaged me twice asking me when I'll come back. I don't know what to do. I can't just suddenly stop talking to them because they don't have any close friends besides me. And they also have some disorders which is why I'm always looking out for them. Please, anyone tell me what story I should make or what should I do to end this friendship?
You are deciding to end this friendship with a good intention.It is said in a Hadith that every deed depends on it's intentions.Allah will certainly recognize that and give them comfort.You don't have to cut ties with them with a sudden goodbye but gradually grow distant and also have polite conversations while making them understand Islam and your limitations in making friends with the opposite gender.
@@nishshj JazakaAllah thanks! 😄
@@nishshj yes your right we can be friends with different GENDERS with respect
U had to first think of ALLAH SWT he is much more important and caring he knows me better he wanna protect us thats the reason for restrictions
I know its hard but if we do we will be rewarded much much much more better
just try to avoid the place/ situation. Where u need to interact
If u interact
Make a group of chat like WhatsApp group wre every one cn seewhat u say and dint ever talk in private chat box
If a boy and girl is alone third is shaitaan
You and he is alone in that chat box
Just try to lower your gaze
Talk with what is related to your work only bro
It should be purposefully Public And limited. Talk only
They will understand automatically that u are uncomfortable with them
they will be contacting to u when u are last from their cirle
U can tell them that its haram to talk unnecessarily. If she try to interact again again unnecessarily again and again if u follow the above rules
my best friend is non binary what should i do> not female but not male either HELP
brother pray for him and make dua for him that allah guides him .. to right path and right attitude and talk to him about how wrong his thinking/path is and if he is muslim you can remind him of ahadith and hellfire and that satan control his thoughs and if he wasn't a muslim you should invite him to islam and read quran ..etc and be good with him ..pray for him but don't stay close to him .. because you will be affected by his ideas because prophet muhammed pbuh said if a person lives with a nation/people 40 days he will become one of them .. so be careful my brother
My Muslim friends please don't listen to these radical people 💯💯🔥
who are you that we should listen to you? Are you any scholar? Mind your business remember we take our Deen very seriously
so , u want me to end my friendship with my best friend ugh
he’s not telling you, if you’re going to do it do it for the sake of Allah not anyone else 🙃
@@zarak7429 TEENAGERS CAN BE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GENDERS WITH RESPECT
@@blue-sj4mf thats not how it works
@@carabondish proof it
I was in a haram relationship ..but now I broke the relationship as it is haram so can I contact with him without saying any haram words...plz tell me anyone..
Haram is haram , if he really love you and respect you ask him to propose to you and marry you or he can give you some space as you are fighting to be righteous woman
Asalamalaikum sir, I do wear hijab everywhere I go but my question is can we wear jeans and T-shirts (loose one not fit r tight one) and hijab on that? Is it permissible in Islam? Bez even jeans and T-shirts covers full body like other clothes .. need answer for this I'm really confused sir .....
Ok so first of all i want to tell you that if you wear loose t shirts and loose pants that cover your whole body and no part of the body is being shown than it’s not a sin
The point of clothing is that ur body should be covered and ur body shape or body parts should not be prominent. Keeping that in mind, u can wear anything which is doing the job and its ok
Sister, please pay attention so that your clothes do not look like the clothes of opposite gender. Like do not wear jeans and shirts which are mostly used by boy. As the western women dresses, they do not care abt. this point...May Allah bless us all.. Ameen 💖💎💫
@@fatimasalman790 well said
@@shakiratazmin109 well said
WE CAN BE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GENDERS WITH RESPECT I AM 18 I WILL BE FRIENDS WITH WHOEVER I WANT TO
After watching this video, you comment this? Are you a kid?
@@minhaz3010 YOU CHEAP PPL
That Muslim driver likes me a lot.
He treats me with respect and dignity
But to protect my Muslim friend I didn't let her enter my car mostly so that he doesn't think about her in wrong manner.
Agar dil saaf Ho sab kuch thik hai for sure
@@minhaz3010 abe madrchd toh kia hai
@@minhaz3010 the kid is uploading roblox videos with a camera, so yes.
The boy has a boyfriend 😂😂
But humanity is oppressed if you don’t let male and female talk laugh and have sex.
From 5:02 😂😂
My name is Asad Ullah. My question is that can cousins of opposite sex be best friends?
no brother because you can marry your cousin in islam so there should be no talk or joking or frendship with the opposite sex of cousins only in important talks where they are not alone of course and take this as a rule if islam allows you to marry that person than he is foreigner for you and he is not a muhram so you cant be friend with .. its ok that your uncle your aunt your brother/sister of blood your same gender to make friendship wth but the opposite sex no ..
Any muslim can marry his cousin so in that case you can not have friendship with them ' opposite sex ' also neighbours .. collegues .. teachers ......etc
@@astrogirl7616 I only have 1 question. Massanger ya facebook. Don't bi use. ?? I have a lots friend on Facebook. So what I can do???
@@astrogirl7616 WE CAN BE FRIENDS WITH DIFFERENT GENDERS WITH RESPECT
The y different nmb wsp mesj if snot wc you position sends
wait so I am not allowed to look at men🤓😂
Yes my sister
@@sitraomer6029 bruh
LOL
3:20
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Now Islam is not compatible with the modern world
I beleive Islam is only five things
1) Faith on Allah
2) five time prayers in a day
3) Fasting in the month of Ramadan
4) Charity to the Poor
5) Visit Mecca once in a life time
That's it
I can't folow the culture of 1400 years old
@SAYEED ANWAR
Your statement is a kind of shirk brother. Learn more about Islam.
Peace
@Sayeed anwar kia jaahilo wale baat kr rahe ho
Liberal Muslim XD
According to your statement "I cant follow the culture of a 1400 years old", then you can not follow any religion at all because they are all just as old and "outdated". Stop hating on Islam and actually try to embrace it because there are millions of others doing the same thing with no issue.
What you said is right brother. People may hate you for this but i too believe that what rules Allah has set for us was the need of time 1400 years back. Now time has changed. We need to change too and be more progressive.
This is orthodox outdated approach.
It's not !!!
U can't deny biological realities
Coeducation is bad
Talk to people in general. Interact with your future spouse as a lover before getting married. That way you'll be able to avoid marrying the wrong person. Life is far more complex than any traditional religion has ever perceived it to be. To hell with this religious dogma!
then why are you watching this video if you dont believe in religion. Go do whatever you want to, what are you doing here.
@@hamzamasood9097 You can open to perspectives.
This guy ZAFIR make any 👧 girlfriend?
Bhai padai kar ye namaz bimaz me khuch nahi rakha🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@sumiyyahzuha9834 aise hi comedy keliye dekh raha tha entertainment hogaya me graduate ho ke 2 saal hogaye bhai me software engg hu
@@sumiyyahzuha9834 zakir naik ko entertainer of the year dena chahiye khuch bhi bolte rehta hai 🤣🤣🤣🤣 isliye islamic countries medical aur science ke field me piche hai 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@frankfernandes718 Lekin Islmic country's kisi se kam nahi hain. Islam me scientific bohot bate hain jo science ne kuch hi din pehele abishkar kia hain. What about that??? Proof chahi e to reply karna. Reply ke 1 week later mu pe marung ga.
@@zaif9029 acha bata kya proof hai abhi me muslim ban jayunga agar proof hai toh
@@zaif9029 konsa islamic country aage hai jara bata
What a back dated thought, shameless. If a girl and boy talks, u think it is trash. How sick r ur thoughts. Joking is a sin, but having a sexual slave is permissable. What a joke
Just dont bark,pls dont listen this if u arent a muslim
@@iswag434 I thought Muhammad s message was for the whole world, then why the hell is he a daee, he will be questioned, u guys don't think, follow blindly. Blind leading the blind
@@Jeezkv ur 100% correct,muhammed (SAW) msg is for whole world,but non muslims dont get the idea of muslims culture,u just critizcie,that y i said like that
Theres a lot of meaning in wwhat he said,u dont understand,so pls leave ,thats y i said like that
@@iswag434ur thinking is just believe don't question. Whatever garbage he gives you, u accept it. For once have a mind of ur own, world will be a better place