I Quit My Dreams To Be A Housewife At 23 | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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LINDA, 23, met her husband Ricky, 27, at the gym where he was a health coach at the time. Ricky told Truly that there "was a pretty much instant connection". At the beginning of their relationship, Ricky didn't make much money, however, since becoming a successful investor in real estate, stocks and cryptocurrency, his wealth has skyrocketed. "In a month, I usually make around $100,000 or more," he said. While Linda interjected, "he’s being humble. [On] his biggest day, he’s made $100,000." Now the couple has a traditional marriage, where Ricky makes the money and Linda takes care of their home. "I believe modern relationships that do 50-50 are unhappy, it’s not natural," she said. "However much he’ll make that month, he’ll give me a percentage. I have never paid a bill in my life." Linda spends her days doing household chores, cooking Ricky meals and making TikTok videos. She has a big online following, showing off the couple's fabulous life, hopping between their homes in the US and Dubai. Since sharing her love of being a stay-at-home wife on social media she has received a barrage of criticism. "I get a lot of hate. People are really mean on social media, but I’ve gotten used to it." Commenters tell Linda "he’s going to leave you, he’s going to cheat on you, he’s going to abuse you." They call her "a spoiled brat" or say that she "brings nothing to the table" or say that she is "useless". The pair brush off the criticism, as their dynamic works well for them. But a loved one closer to home has also voiced concerns, "my dad wants me to do something with my life", Linda confessed. Her father Fouad explained that when Linda told him that she was going to be a housewife "it did not sit well with me, I always encouraged her to go to school." Admitting that he is "worried about power imbalance in the relationship." In this episode of Love Don't Judge Linda's father sits down with the couple to confront them on why he disagrees with their relationship setup.
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Producers: Kate Moore, Kathryn Lewsey
Editor: Garry Sykes
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I'm starting to think these "Love Don't Judge" stories are just as much bragging about finances as they are talking about their relationships.
Yeah off! Right now she's gold digger..... For married to a riky...... Basically she has an 💪❤ identify still saver beauty configuration at these point over an after yrs shall try to bare on own children's
Money makes the relationships work.
@@paulayanbowale5445 money mke over pleasure but can't fulfill on a ❤️ overseas dreaming as too forever because relationship at once does mke sure shrt term to an indeed long term of version gratitude
right cant be in love and broke as a joke
🙄. Yeah girl..most men don’t make 150k a month. Being a stay at home wife isn’t an option for most women
And if it was, why would they be a stay at home mom? If that man become abusive or doesn’t treat you right, you’re basically stuck in a loveless or stressful marriage.
@@myshiteu4934 to be fair, that’s why women often get to keep the house and half the money. I agree with you tho. Not being self sufficient long term is not a good plan for anyone
Because most women don't want to give up the extra shit that they don't really need. My husband makes close to $70,000 a year and I am a housewife and we live comfortably because we dont overspend.
@@melindaroop1346 that’s not the only thing though I want to be able to go on holidays and save for retirement and stuff what if your husband dies then what
@@myshiteu4934 why do y’all always make up these extreme horror story scenarios to try and prove a point when those said scenarios are not the norm?…
Nothing wrong with being a housewife but I can't stand the passive bragging. It says alot! Find something you like to do from home that you can make money for yourself not tik tok or follow what your dad is saying. Your dad is smart especially the way this economy is going
She can make money online. Content creators make money duh. Its 2023. Stop hating bc you have to work and she don't.
She's bragging for the TikTok views its her side hustle
@Base😊dTruth
Oh please. If I could give up working and be a stay at home wife to a multi millionaire, I’d do it in a heartbeat. Even if he did leave me or whatever, it’s called a million dollar divorce settlement. I do find it interesting she said she grew up in a traditional family, but her father encourages her to be independent and fulfill her potential. He gives her a good dose of reality in case her husband can’t take care of her anymore. It doesn’t mean she has to stop being a stay at home wife.
It's always good to know how to take care of yourself. What would she do of he died or lost his fortune?
If i was a supper ritch and i maried a girl i would defently sign a prenup. You never know what will happend in 5 - 30 years. Things change and so do love to. If they have agreed to a 50 50 setelment then she has nothing to wory about but if they have not i would prb listen to the dad.
Imagine how hard it is for a man to sift through the ones that are just looking for the lifestyle..? Good for him. Good for her-!
That means you had no dreams to begin with. She said she quit her dreams. I am about to get a PhD in philosophy and it's so fulfilling to do something I love. You tell me I should give up this to fix your lunches and make sure your house is spotless when you come home? Plus I have to give you intimate relations if you feel like it? No way. I would be depressed, and mental health is more important to me than having a lot of material.
With a good prenup, you would leave with less than you came with
Girl, you dad is amazing. And I hope she follows his advice.
Get a degree and if you never use it, then oh well. Education is the one thing that nobody can ever take away from you. And like her father said, if god for bid something were to happen to him, she needs to bed ready to work.
Her father knows exactly what he is saying but they both don't get it yet.. it's a little dangerous to hinge everything economic on one partner in this age. Times have changed, anything can happen
Considering the amount of money he makes and invests and how well he has done and continues to do I would think, at least I hope, that he has money set aside or invested for them and for her in case something happens.
@@shari9721 i agree, but the dad still is right. For instance, what he they end up divorcing for WHATEVER reason. Divorces are MESSY & all the "I wanna spoil her"...will be more like "now that I can't be with her, I don't want her having anything."
I mean, she is still in a great position, but damn girl get something going for urself.
That's one empty materialistic life if u ask me.
The value of a university degree today is poor. Every man and their dog is getting a university degree, then working a 9 to 5 job for years and years, and some not even getting a job in the position their degree qualifies them for. Statistics show that 50% of women today in their early 30's plus, are unmarried and childless. This is sad for women, no matter how many of us try to deny it. We need more mothers and not career driven women. We need compassionate and attentive women to raise the next generation of secure and wholesome people. So stop downgrading the concept of traditional marriages because its the only REAL thing that's making a positive change. It is a beautiful thing for a woman to be dependent on a man as it is for a man to be dependent on a woman in the context of traditional roles.
@@BellaIsMyBaby I agree. I think people forget that couples change during a divorce. your once sweet and accommodating spouse might become vindictive. The individual might take a good chunk of money and hid it (yes, people do this in divorce’s, businesses and so on). And to add (depending on where they live) she might not be eligible for alimony. And because they currently don’t have kids, she won’t be getting child support. The fact is, he can easily pull the rug under her foot and leave her in a not so lavish position. I’m not saying this will happen but it’s a common situation that many many find themselves in.
I think if she’s smart she will make sure that she’s legally protected if they were to ever part ways. So that she can get a percentage pf THIER money as she claims.
**also, who know what he’s doing with the money. She might only know so much. The dad seems iffffy and that should be enough for her to feel iffy too
“I love being a stay at home woman” two breaths later “i hire a cleaning lady for most of it” 🤣
Listen to your father. He's 100,% right. Don't be foolish. If the marriage doesn't pan out or your husband dies You will b screwed. Instead of buying channel bags. Use that money to finance a graduate degree...Now's the time.
Honestly she could flip that money 🤦♀️ I'm not against being a stay at home wife BUT GIRL don't just flush all your dreams down the toilet cause you got married...her dad said "what's your priority, tik tok?" Yikes, he's right tho I hope she listens to him.
She owns her own medical spa in Orange County. She can support her self financially if needed. You should worry about yourself instead of telling people on the internet how to live.
worry about yourself💀
@@sashak.4527 Oh shut up! No one forced her to put her business on the internet, so people can talk about it if they want
😂she is literally not doing anything.
I grew up poor and I married up now being middle class with my hard working blue collar husband. I'm a housewife and blessed. I have more security than I could have ever given myself and I give my husband a way of life that makes us both happy.
As the breadwinner of a household, I 100% support anyone who wants to be a housewife. 9-5 5 days a week worked when the wife was expected to stay at home and take care of everything else. But the work week hasn't updated to the standard of the wife having at least a part-time job. A 2 day weekend is simply not enough to get both the house AND your mental health in order.
There's no kids to raise All she does is play on TikTok all day.
I want to be a housewife, are you accepting applications?
@@OffshoreITguy Sure, come on over!
I agree about the 2 day weekend/ 2 days off straight not being enough.
If she works too, why would she take all the responsibility of the house?
She’s an influencer and these days it’s actually a career field , there’s no security in anything so might as well be happy and in love and at peace while you can ❤
She's probably more financially secure than most people ever will be penny pinching and living paycheck to paycheck.
That's a good point
Being an influencer may be a career field but that doesn't mean everyone is successful. True there's no guarantees in anything but you can bring secure doesn't mean mean you're not happy
I agree on that sad to say Job Security doesn't exist anymore like they used to. Especially in today's modern world economy plus covid killed and ruined a lot of things.
@@ojs5988 the thing is if he leaves her for another women she’s basically homeless sense she doesn’t pay anything or have a job
There is nothing wrong with her being a stay at home wife, however think she should pursue her education and have a good working knowledge of her husband’s business even if she never uses it or never have to run his business, anything can happen to him at any time, can’t always trust managers and accountants to do the right thing it all can be stolen from her
Supposedly women live longer than men
@@respecteverybodynohate9637 😹
@@respecteverybodynohate9637😂
Just stop with this education lie degree is worthless now, you get in debt and end being job less at the end. I am a nurse and can not get hired in the field and they pay nurses under the minimum salary. Someone educate the dad pls.
@@andreeadutzu3857she is rich she isn’t going into debt to go to college
The fact that she kept saying "he's so rich" means she's all about money
Ok and u act like u wouldn’t like if ur man makes that amount
They met and got together before he had made the money. He was working at a gym when they met and fell in love.
@@shari9721 he been made the money. He probably wasn’t rich rich but he was enough for her to notice.
The only live I see is her going for the money lol
And? If they are happy, why do you care?
Oh please any woman relying on a man like that would think about how much money he has. And they should, you don't wanna end up jobless and have a broke husband.
Must say I admire the dad, that is a loving father.🖤
I can see why the father is cautious. The husband's income seems to be, for the most part, not steady. What I mean is, while he makes a lot now, he's not bringing in the type of steady income a doctor or lawyer makes. Notice he "owns multiple businesses" but didn't detail what those businesses were. On top of that, they have 3 homes.
The headline got it wrong. She is living her dream as a housewife.
I'm just dreaming of the day I get to quit my job and be a stay at home wife with a rich husband. Girl you are living my dream. 😢
So go find one. There's lots of single men with money
@@Butterfly22593 in South Africa, not that much.
Delusional
@@r.1.336 home wrecking future cat lady that is probably gonna die alone on the eldery home
Best advice I've ever received is " it's better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it. "
I've always enjoyed Love Don't Judge because it's everyone's life to live how they want in their relationship but she comes across as judgemental the moment she opened her mouth saying "modern relationships that are 50/50 seem unhappy and aren't natural" this seems a little naive, immature, and hypocritical especially when you don't want people to judge your relationship. Don't look down on other relationships when you don't want people looking down on yours. Is somewhat negates everything that comes after in the video.
I think it's more like just her opinion not really a judgement, just the way she thinks and feels. I can have an opinion about something and I may not agree with it but it's not that I'm making a judgement about it, it's just not right for me, doesn't work for me etc. Like having an "open relationship" , I have opinions about it and I don't agree with it or think it's a good idea but I don't judge people who choose to do it.
I can't help but to feel a way about her "50/50 relationships are unhappy and unnatural ". Not that it angered me...but she has a point. 50/50 is never truly a thing when females are the only gender that have to deal with menstrual cycles, pregnancies, and childbirth...
If it weren't for her husband, she wouldn't have that opinion of 50/50 people
Honestly I can't do 50/50 nonsense because most women end up doing more of the child raising anyway so its always unbalanced
Studies have shown women do 8 hrs more housework than their partners a week. It’s never 50/50
Gurl, really? Just because this method works for you, you don't have the right to say that 50-50 relationships are unhappy lol calm down lady
If it works for you, amazing! But the rest of relationships don't need to follow that
If you are happy that’s awesome but it’s almost never 50/50. Women almost always are doing more domestic labor. If they have kids they do the majority of child rearing. It’s not bs studies have shown this
I'm glad their relationship works but saying 50-50 doesn't work is mad cringe.
50/50 is a myth. It's usually 80/20 because women are working 9-5, paying bills, raising kids, cooking and cleaning.
Males said they want 50/50 yet have no interest in child-rearing or domestic labor. Stats say married men live longer and benefit more than the women so she should at least be compensated.
Is doesn’t, though!! It’s extremely exhausting and depleting for a woman to participate in.
And let’s not forget that the 50-50 dynamic is a modern invention, while a natural relationship between a feminine woman and masculine man has ALWAYS required the man to be the loving protector and provider. And it’s not “cringe” at all to acknowledge that, in fact it’s cringe to dismiss that 50-50 is for roommates, while a husband must take care of 80 to 100% of the expenses.
It’s also extremely misogynistic to add more burdens and responsibilities to a woman’s life because us women already have MORE responsibilities than a man ever will, and take away from a woman’s right to CHOOSE to be fully loved, protected, and provided for. And feminism is all about respecting women’s choices, including when they want what is NATURAL and has proven its success throughout the literal entirety of human history.
@@winxclubstellamusa "US WOMEN AlREADY HAVE MORE RESPONSIBILITIES THEN MEN EVER WILL". Where did you hear that from? Your women's Lib class?😂 Does it look like she has more responsibility than her husband does? I'm a stay at home mom and a more traditionalist but practically everything you said right now was complete B.S
@@Naturefan354 that lady does have much in the video but many outside of it does.
I don’t see why women Lib is being brought up as of saying women don’t have responsibilities at all.
@@Naturefan354 we have to take care of ourselves to a degree of detail and consistency that a man never needs to, and we have to handle and organize a plethora of things that a man can’t do both inside and outside of the house, plus multitasking things, and we also naturally have more expenses and needs than them, so stop denying the truth that you are experiencing as we speak!
Us women are naturally and undeniably much busier, more burdened, and more vulnerable than men ever will be and we need to juggle and handle more than they will ever know.
For most of the video I was with her - that was until she said “we don’t need to make money”. They absolutely do need to make money to maintain their lifestyle and if shit hits the fan, if for whatever reason he needs to lean on her, she would have no skills or resources to help him provide for their family.
I am happy that they are happy with the way things are though and if this is what works for them they shouldn’t let others opinions change the way their relationship functions.
@@John_Onestrand id hope so
What surprised me is that she sounded bored and monotonous, no excitement whatsoever. I think that's what happens when you're just rich and have no outlet to make a change for the world (difficult or not), the boredom gotta eat you inside and she mention how she's afraid of losing the security. Plus, with people saying she's a gold digger and attacking her for the life that happened to her, she's rather in a rut. Rich people were expected to act in a certain way and I see this does not suit her much because I think she obviously regrets not following her dreams. She seems kind tho actually. I don't understand why she just didn't spend her time to continue her education considering she can afford it. But what I learned is that, despite being rich, you still have to have dreams. I hope she's okay and people stop attacking her by saying bad things are going to happen to her, I mean people are shitty towards her for no good reason.
I was also at home with the kids. Everyone warned and warned me but I was so happy to spend special time with my kids. Fast forward a few years, he became abusive and wanted to shoot us so I had to get out and LOST EVERYTHING!!!!!! EVERYTHING WAS ON HIS NAME AND ME AND MY KIDS WERE NEARLY DESTITUTE. IT WAS A NIGHTMARE AND AM NOW STUDYING...PLEASE LISTEN TO DADDY
You know a typical man doesn't behave that way right?
@@Naturefan354 pfft, the statistics says other wise.
@@myshiteu4934 If those statistics where true me and practically every female I know and our kids would have been threatened to be shot but not one female I know has.
@@Naturefan354 Girly in latin culture I can tell you men leave their women all the time and some can be very aggressive. I've known waaaay too many women with at least one boyfriend who would beat the hell out of them. Stop discouraging women to attain something for themselves other than being a house wife. Nothing wrong with being a house wife, but getting an education for yourself at the very least keeps you secured in the worst case scenario. Hard work also builds character. You never know what life will throw at you.
@@cloud9_26 I never discouraged women to do anything WTF I just said majority of men aren't so violent that they threaten to shoot you and your kids. And latina women can be equally aggressive but I'm actually married to a Latino man and he has never threatened to shoot me and our kids, much less beat the hell out of me! And men of any culture leave their women but women are the ones who iniatate divorce 90% of the time.
The key is to use a good part of your time as a homemaker also volunteering with various organizations within your community. This helps two things: you have fulfillment and humility in serving others, and your name and work ethic are well-known just in case you ever do need work. It rains on the just and the unjust; even if their marriage always goes well, it can happen to any family that suddenly both or just the wife need to be working.
Different relationship dynamics work for different people. If you love it for you, I love it for you.
She’s living the good life.
I went to college and graduated and I intend on working until I have children, but nothing is wrong with being a housewife. They're not lazy or gold diggers. Most housewives have children to care for and even the childless ones have husbands to care for lol.
She literally said she gave up her dreams of being a doctor to take care of her husband so it's a fair trade. Running a house is a full time job if a man that asks "what a woman brings to the table" it's absolutely a red flag.
If her father is concerned about the power imbalance he needs to tell Ricky to have a clause in the prenup that will give her a lump sum if they get a divorce.
They seem really happy so I wish nothing but the best for them 💖
I doubt being a doctor was ever a dream of hers. More like it was her father's dream for her. And more than likely the father wanted her to pursue that for the income, hence why she kept pointing out that her husband was so rich.
But you do know that men care more about body count than what degree or how much money a woman is making
@@CL-ew7wh we know. And that’s what makes men the worst gender. Shout out to all my virgins who make men’s life like hell. 😂
@@CL-ew7wh women that men don’t like should feel lucky. And women who chose to marry men have no self respect. You probably think why. Well, there is this study say that when look at women, they see them tools to use. So men see women as sex objects. You men don’t deserve women. Period
You put yourself through college just to give up your job once knocked up? No way. Yes running the house is a full time job but it is a dead-end job, a boring no paycheck job.
There’s nothing wrong with this lifestyle but the bragging about all of the superficial things you possess and all of the money you have, especially in the times we’re living in, is truly classless, tacky and gross.
It's not her fault people are struggling and broke
We arab girls know that women are princesses/queens and should always be treated nothing less than that.❤
I don't understand why people belittle housewives. Earning money is not the only thing a family needs. It's very important that you are being taken care of by your spouse.
"I love taking care if my husband just as he loves taking care of me". That's cute man
I love that they met before money was a thing and once he started to make money, he took care of her ♥︎ but I do agree with her dad, you never know when things will go bad so is always good to be prepared :)
Exactly I am sure they will last because they loved each other even before the money came.
Dad is telling her right,you have to plan for the what ifs and the rainy days because they will surely come..
No one's identity should be riding the coattails of someone else, husband or not.. I heard no mention of her getting out and doing charity work or finding hobbies.. She seems to only care about the material things and has no concept of the fact that as quick as he's earned that wealth,it can be taken from him,and then what..? 🤷🏿♀️
What if the man goes on debt and writes the wife as the owner of the debts
It’s wonderful that he is willing to take care of her because some guys like to live off of their woman and make all these kids that they can’t take care of. Im just saying at least don’t lose yourself because like the dad said… god forbid if he losses his business and something happens to him, how are u going to know how to do things if u never had any experience? And just remember that u are not going to be young and hot forever. Men get tired and there is always temptation. If he doesn’t ever cheat and doesn’t get tire of u 20 years from now, kudos to u.
I understand her dad. If something happens like if Ricky loses his job or if they divorce, she has no independence to pay bills or have any work history. I agree she needs to go to school and get a career.
She will make more money with one brand deal on tik tok than I make in a whole month with as a medical doctor.
If she wants to get a degree that’s great. But it certainly isn’t necessary, even to be financially independent.
My grandma and grandpa were like most families. My grandfather worked My grandma raised the kids. However my grandma raised 11 children. And she never bought fancy things and always stress about saving money.
I'm not sure what Linda does all day other than doing TikTok videos. One day the gravy train will stop she needs to be prepared
Am a nanny to a Jordanian couple in Kuwait. I have never seen a more hard-working woman in my whole life than my madam. Even when the baby is being difficult I hate to disturb her.
She told me her mom wanted her and all her sisters than the boys because she felt they had to work harder than the men in an Arab setting. She always wanted to go to school but her father forced her into marriage.
She's ok that this lady is ok being a stay at home wife, I would wish to have a rich husband to look after me BUT with life, it's forever changing, she needs to be able to atleast finish school. She could always set her own hours.
It's kinda unfair too, alot of Jordanians would love to have a good education, it's a poor country.
‘Ricki is ssooo rich’ 😂
I’m sorry but being a wife isn’t exactly a job or sustainable, being a mother and wife is a different story. What exactly do you do other than cook and clean(sometimes not even clean due to the fact that they’re adults)? Which is quite literally the bare minimum. I’m not judging anyones relationship dynamic if they’re both fine with it then so what, I just don’t see the point of it being a sole purpose.
She doesn’t even clean at that… they literally have a maid
When she’s 40 and has no education or job experience 😂😂😩
Poor thing, when he gets bored of her and/or she starts to age..she will see a different side of him and she is going to have so many regrets. It's so very important to have an education and your own money because men change like the weather. I hope she doesn't have to learn the hard way
All she has to do is save money and invest lolol
@@janisemills1 something tells me she ain’t investing her money right
@@BoddaBingBoddaBoom She probably is though. It’s very common even I saved money when my man was paying for everything.
@@janisemills1 true😂. Let’s hope, she is smart to do that.
Atleast be a housewife with a degree
All she has to do is save money lol
@@janisemills1 😂I mean. He is so rich, she can save money. In couple of years she will have a lot of it. It’s better than having a job. But you don’t know if the marriage will last years. So it is better to have a degree. Speacially before she’ll have children
That dad is a million dollar dad. The fact that he is even worried about a power imbalance for his daughter. Then there’s my dad saying my younger sister is pretty but dumb so she should just get a rich guy and she doesn’t need a career. My younger sister is with a guy that doesn’t have a career he just has a job that pays for the low income apartment. My parents want her to leave him because he is broke and she is pretty… I overall don’t agree with my parents and feel she should work on her career.
your parents are right, she should leave him and also focus on her carreer
the father is hilarious, never stops thinking about his family.
Is she atleast learning how to stock trade like her husband? 🤦🏽♀️
He could atleast teach her because if anything would happen to him she would squander all that life cover money because of tiktok and grief.
Wow it's amazing to me. And she will be in the situation my grandma was in which is in their older age when they get there if he goes before she does, she has no idea how to live. She has no idea what she would do or how to pay her bills if he passed away. I saw what my grandma went through it's sad. It's hard. I pray she will at least learn how to pay the bills and know whats due and when and how to pay them. Even if she chooses not to do them herself it would be good for her to at least learn
I will work;because I want my OWN money. I want to be independent. I do not want to rely on anyone for nothing, I do not want someone complaining if I purchased something. I do not want to ask for permission to buy something. I want to contribute financially to the union.
I just can't trust people enough to be a stay at home mom with no career or work experience under my belt because when things don't work out with the dude it becomes a whole mess of trying to figure your life out..
I mean they've been living like this for 8 years so I guess it suits them. They got lucky
It's something that works perfectly in India though, I think lotta people don't save and invest money well, you could make enough for both of you by the time you're 35 it's no big deal. You don't really need gucci and chanel or Iphone to live well.
She’s going to do whatever she’s going to do as an adult, Everyone else be damned.
No skin off my nose because it’s not my life, it’s hers at the end of the day.
I do respect her dad, he’s just concerned, and it obviously comes from a place of love rather than judgement.
Her dad is extremely sensible, and of course worried about his daughter who is going to be left with nothing if they divorce. No life skills, and no work experience. Also her comments about 50/50 not being "natural" tells me she is extremely immature and naive. Im all for people having the relationships that work for them, but she is taking a huge risk making herself dependent like that
@@ElMona I like independence personally, the art of freedom and such.
I think she just wants handouts, not that’s how things work in life like.
Agree
When the dad asked: “WHATS YOUR PRIORITY” 💯💯📌👌🏼
This relationship makes me so happy. I love this for her. My husband and I have a goal to make me a housewife by next year, when he hits that 6 figure mark.
Best of luck to both of yall! I was a housewife for 7 months before med school started, and it was the best 7 months of my life
I was low key hoping she continued her studies. Why not? She can afford it and I know she's a housewife but if she tried enough she can make it work.
3:48 How snobby
She's lucky to live that life 😊
She needs to be her own person first. What she loves is bragging about the stuff they own and that her husband can provide it. Take those things of her, she'll throw a tantrum for sure.
Bragging about never paying a bill in her life is not the flex she thinks it is...
The more expensive, the more she loves it.😭🤣
I would like to hear if this man feels she would still love him if he would suddenly have nothing at all and not be able to make all that money again. Does he feel secure? I'd have a lot of doubts don't wanna lie. I'd feel like she is with me for the lifestyle I afford her and so it's not that deep.
I'm tired of working hard and being independent. I want to be a house wife. I want to be taken care of.... I'm always tired 😫 😢 Gal I'm happy for you and jealous of you at the same time
Love that for her. If a guy fell for me and made that kind of money, I'd happily do the same thing. (Well, Id probably try not to spend all of my allowance lol i'd invest it or save some)
However, if she signed a prenup & he ever falls out of love, she's potentially going to be up the creek without a boat.
She owns her own medical spa. She has income
I love this life for her, but I do worry when she says she gave up her dreams. But she's happy so good for her
She can always go back to school. School and jobs aren't going anywhere. Women don't have forever to have children.
I've been a house wife and stay at home mom but I do not miss it. Never got a break or moment to myself. Work really helped because that's where I can talk to other adults, make new friends, etc. But I would always go straight home to my family with more patience.
Aw the picture of them when they first met is cute... they both look great now and definitely their relationship seems cute
If hes at home. N she is too. She needs to finish up her college. Wealthy women didnt live like this. They had maids, butlers, etc.
Social media is ruining lives
"Guess what I just went viral" 🤪
Wow what an accomplishment! Her poor Father trying to talk some sense into her with her poor excuses. She sounds like a naive teenager. Please woman listen to your Father and start creating some security for yourself. You cannot tell me you have to cater ALL of your time to your husband. You just don't want to go to school, simple as that.
And she doesn't have to go to school if she doesn't want too. Not every woman want to go work for some boring ass job.
There’s nothing wrong with being a homemaker. But in this day and age, it’s wise to always have something to fall back on just in case (whether that be a degree or a little part-time business). God forbid something happens, or the marriage becomes abusive, you can make your escape without worrying too much about what’s in store for you financially. I say this as someone who grew up in an abusive home, with a mother who was reluctant to leave because she relied on my father for everything.
I’m sorry for what you had to go through growing up. I’m happy you were able learn from this experience to not make the same mistakes.
But you could argue her influencer status is a career to fall back on just in case. She could make more on one brand deal in one minute long tik tok than I do all month as a medical doctor.
She’s such an airhead. 😂
Even if the relationship works well. I do agree with her dad she should want more for herself in life. But that’s just my opinion.
" What is your priority ? Tik Tok ? " the dad was mad disappointed LOL
Aw I love her dad ❤
Her father is right! Also, what is she doing all day if they don’t have children? Scrolling through TikTok? lol . What a waste
Shes doing whatever she wants to do. You're mad about it. We all scroll on tik tok it doesn't matter what job you have.
@@BasedTruth I don’t have TikTok. But you do you.
@@hawaiiansoulrebel yeabto watch all the lonely women on there cry about men who are out of their league. This woman won the lottery. The rest of you are damaged goods.
Funny thing is, in real life Linda is a legit business owner. Though she does not mention that on TikTok.
She has a point though a marriage 50 -50 isn’t healthy because you want TIME!!!
Generally speaking, there's definitely nothing wrong with being a housewife. What's wrong is being a housewife yet still ignorant with basic adult things such as how to pay bills. Also, let's not romanticize giving up dreams for love. It's a case to case basis, but in her case, she chose the easier path/life. Not saying it's wrong, but let's admit she's not passionate enough about her dreams. Social media fever got her. There's nothing wrong with their dynamic. What's wrong is them thinking their income will stay the same forever.
You can do whatever you want with your money, but this generation is so comfortable. It’s good that a husband wants to take care of his wife, that isn’t bad at all. But settling down just because you’re comfortable and financially stable is bound to fail. I’d get it if they have kids but they don’t, she can do something more valuable with her time. People lose who they are with money and forget how to be humble and end up getting comfortable because they feel like that’s their only choice. Especially bragging about shopping every day and traveling and eating out all the time. DON’T get comfortable ladies, you can do so much more with life 👏🏼 (ps I am not saying being a house wife is bad, just don’t settle for less just because someone is taking care of you)
This is not going to end well for her in the long run
You're jealous bc she doesn't have to work and you do. 😂
@@BasedTruth yea I am so jealous that I own my own stuff soooo very jealous wowwwww
@@ericawilliam7985 yea because you have no choice but to work. You don't qualify for someone to take care of you and relieve you of the stress of mobility. Yall capping
@@BasedTruth I am happily married 😂 and I own 4 homes around the world..I now live in the Bahamas 🇧🇸 by the beach yea I am so miserable 😭
@@ericawilliam7985 you're happily married and you still have to work 🤣🤣🤣 i see why you're mad
Only this channel would post a video about a spoiled & financially ignorant girl punching down on working people, and act like nothing’s wrong
I love the dad for a reality check. Although her choice is to be a housewife is also valid.
This is the traditional life I want
Don't rack up debt!
It’s called “Love don’t Judge “ but she judges everyone else’s relationships🤔
I'm currently working on my partners house, we plan to sell it to one of my his siblings when I made enough money for the new house. Then we buy a house together in Germany, I suggested that I will be a parttime housewife, he agreed. Parttime housewife means working in the morning and cleaning/cooking, etc in the afternoon and evening. I want to work to have a good start in the morning, so that I can have a easy start in the afternoon. Also working parttime is necessary to have enough money to support ourselves. I understand her. But I do agree that school needs to be finished first to move on. Its always handy to have a backup plan.
If you want to be a stay at home wife with a more traditional role, all the power to you. But piss off with implying any women who doesn't choose what you like, is unhappy.
Here I'm... Thinking should I study or clean the house🤔
Reality is the guy is getting the short end of the stick. He’s relatively good looking, seems to not be awkward or a douche, he could have 10 girls a week and get a full time live in maid.
She’s making a very smart decision
very smart
But in the business world, having a wife is also more respectable. Honestly, I think he is more good-looking than his wife.
I agree with dad. Finish degree before kids to have a back up plan. Put money away for an escape plan.
I think she needs to continue her own career and her father is telling the truth, you can't rely on him forever
She could keep and invest her $30k monthly "allowance," as well as go to school. That would provide security. Having his child would cement support also, but that is no reason to have a child.
People can be dumb. But in reality, people are just saying the obvious. Everything is good now, but it might not always be. That's life. People want you to protect your interests because if he ever decides he's done or becomes unable to work, where does that put you and your children ma'am. It's not about having fear. It's about being prepared. Enjoy your life but don't be naive.
Exactly !!!!! Exactly!!!! She doesn't ask for nothing. He does what he is supposed to.
Linda is living our dream lives. Hi Linda
The interior if their home shows once again that money can't buy taste or class
If your life is so good, why are you online trying to convince us? Her husband needs to tell her about the finances and understand what he’s doing just in case he becomes incapacitated and she’s running around like a chicken with her head cut off not knowing what to do or how to run things.
Father said 'what's ur priority Tic-Tok'.😂
That's exactly how tic-tok generation think now a days. Nothing useful
Well, I suppose education is not for everyone, but the power imbalance, to me, is a real threat. At least, I suppose, her TikTok career allows her to generate some money. I think she should listen to her dad more instead of rolling her eyes. I understand that this is the character she has decided to play, but, even so, it does not seem that she really had dreams to give up, to begin with.
Aint shit wrong with this. Stop hatin
Vicky s like sooo riii chhh 😂🎉🎉
😂that woman is so funny. Little do you know, that’s what women who are stuck on their marriage thought. Anyway, I personally don’t gave a shit about women like her. She is an adult. And nobody is forcing her. Let’s get real thou, some women have no goals or ambitions. All they think about is being a housewife so that make sense😂. Some of us have hobbies and goals and education is what will make us achieve it.
I don't think there is anything wrong with what they are doing, both of them are OK with its fine. But the strong reality of financial abuse can't be ignored, her Dad's concerns are legit. She should build up more professional skills, experience in case things dont work out between the both of them or if she needs to start contributing income to the household.
Uhmmm, ok? You guys running out of ideas? There is nothing unique or special about this. Lol. Like isn’t this what men are supposed to do? At least traditionally? This is as “unique” as “I am a human being and I breathe everyday”. It would be more unique or interesting if it was the woman who was the breadwinner and the man was a stay at home husband.
Judging by her chopping skills, babygirl doesn't cook much. I hope she has a backup plan, men are sooooo unpredictable.
I thought the boss babe lifestyle is what as women we are taught to achieve. I realized in my mid 20s I was not happy making money & traveling alone & buying beautiful items. I met my husband at 22 & when he settled with a well job & got his own place I retired at 24 & got married. I love being a housewife 😍 I'm 29 now
Her father wants to the best for her to make sure she is self sufficient established as a security plan career unconditional love ❤️
Girl, you are lucky and I think what you all are doing is a good setup. The only thing that I think you need to do differently is you need to get a degree, learn how to invest... because if something happens to your husband you will be stuck.
A degree isn’t the answer to everything. It’s barely the answer to anything.
I agree with learning how to invest, especially when she can learn a lot of it from her husband who is right there.
But I think she will be fine without a degree. She can probably make more money with one brand deal for one minute long video than I make in a whole month as a medical doctor. I love my career so no complaints. But she will be fine.
Meh I'm totally ok with a man providing for my needs but I'm still my own person and I would still wanna work and do something.
If they are truly happy then let them be🤷🏽♀️♥️