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0:00 Entitled classmate demands I quit my job that I just got, and let him have it instead, as he feels he deserves it more than I do. (u/nerothic)
5:25 Entitled Husband is constantly gaslighting me into thinking I am misremembering events in my life, and I am so sick of it that I have now started taking notes of everything I say to him. (u/coldbrewcleric)
10:14 Am I the Jerk for ruining my wife’s friendship with her friend, all over us not being able to pay her back the money we owe her? (u/Working_Ad639)
14:02 Am I the jerk for not being ok with my in-laws staying over at my house for longer than what we agreed upon. (u/Ok-Surround-863)
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How does the video have 186k likes and only 20k views
OP2: You're married to an abuser. Period. Leave him.
i feel bad that op is being gaslit by her husband because he thinks that she has memory loss and i think that op should pack up her bags, move far away from him, divorce him through text and get a new husband.
so that way she can have a new life of her own.
Story 1 reminds me of this hateful woman who was in one of my former dance companies. When I got the role that she wanted, the harassment began. She even spread lies that I had slept with our dance company director to get that role, tried to turn others against me. It got to a point where the company director and I both threatened to sue her for defamation if she didn’t stop with the rumors. She was kicked out of the dance company and blacklisted after that.
I don't get why some people feel so *"entitled"* to something someone else has, some going so far as to harass and threaten to lie and say one thing about someone. That's so not okay.
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Story 2: it could be that the husband has the beginning stages of Alzheimer's disease and hasn't been diagnosed with it. He is in his late 40s and should be looked into.
I was thinking exactly the same, he is angry because he simply is unable to remember that. Many of those who have Alzheimer's turn short-tempered, angry and even violent.
It's also typical of male abusers. Which is WAY more common.
@@lolarichter9415 I don’t believe abusive antisocial personalities are anywhere near as common as people suffering from age related neurodegenerative disorders 50 million Americans alone suffer from Alzheimer’s and up to a billion people world wide suffer from one of over 600 different neurological disorders
the guy didnt say he want to pay her back. they just need more time from the sounds of it as he is prioritizing the home life first
Story 1: Yeah... i really wonder why that guy didnt get the job, and i'm rather surprised that, with his attitude, they even allowed him to intern that long, and is he really someone you want working at a school? We hear more then enough bad stories of horrible teachers, faculty and administration. Good thing the OP blocked this guy and that things seemed to work out good at the new job.
Story 2: Stuff like this is why its always good to record everything said and done... especially whe dealing with a lying, gaslighting, disrespectful, manipulative jerk like this bad husband. Honestly, i dont get why the OP is putting up with this guy. If i were her, i would threaten a divorce if he keeps it up... see how he likes that. No way is the OP a jerk here.
Story 3: OP is 100% not the jerk here, the wife is. She went on this trip knowing full well that she both couldnt afford it and couldnt pay back the friend in a timely fashion... and now she wants to blame this all on the OP for losing his job that he was laid off on? No, screw that noise. The wife is horrible with money and i would be very cautious with her around the bank accounts. OP needed to give some tough love to the wife here. OP is not a jerk at all.
Story 4: It really sounds like that the in-laws dont understand boundaries at all and are almost trying to take over the house while they are there. If i were the OP and the husband, i wouldnt want them there for 1 day, let alone possibly 16. Dont try and pull the 'family' or 'old' cards here.... if they keep acting like this, don't allow them to stay with you anymore.
the narrator thinks that op is a jerk, while the wife isn't, like dude narrator stop thinking that he's a jerk, when the wife is like first of all who keeps spending a whole lot of dollars on stupid things, second she brought a plane ticket, third she thinks that she's entitled to do whatever she wants and finally she thinks that she can do whatever she wants.
How is op the jerk in story 3 that's so much bs why you wanna say that when one the wife didn't say anything to the husband and then even going on the trip knowing you don't have the money. Why should he have to pay her back when his wife was the one to go on this trip and talk about paying her back. Not my problem shouldn't have gone on the trip knowing they were having financial problems
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IKR? The wife is the problem not the husband.
Came here to say this
yeah
Yea the wife is just a dumbass. She is selfish and I think it's messed up them telling the friend they're not going to pay her back.
last story: It doesn't matter who they are, you have the right to be mad at anyone taking advantage of you and your hospitality. I would straight up kick them out for those last 6 days and make them figure it out because they created that problem and I will deliver ONLY what I offered.
story 1: That's not entitlement that's delusional. Pretty sure someone else passing on a job offer is 0 guarantee that some other specific person will get that job. Last time I checked, the employer makes that decision. The correct response would have been "What ever hallucinogens you're on, get off them." then hang up and block.
Story 3 OP doesn't have to pay SHIT. He didn't so he would pay it back, she's not the one that took the trip his wife did..
Story 2’s OP has gotta leave that man. He’s an abuser. Keep taking those notes until then.
story 3 no op is not the jerk at all is all the wife's fault she is stupid with money and knew they were having trouble and yet still goes on a trip with the friend then acts like is ops fault they cant give the money is all on the wife who should have not gone on the trip in the first place
Exactly like why should I have to pay back for a trip I didn't go on and wasn't told about until after everything was paid for then pressured into having to pay her friend back when she was the one to talk about paying her back
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Seriously. The wife is an irresponsible AH on many levels. You don't get to make selfish, irresponsible decisions when you're married and expect your partner to just be okay with it. OP did not ruin his wife's friendship. That was all on her. There are NOT two sides here and Mr Narrator is way off base.
ya the narrator sides with girls a lot
this isn't the first or second time that the narrator sides with women or men, he sides witrh the friend in the wedding dress story instead of siding with the bride to be or congratulating her on her wedding day
Story 3: NTA. He had no choice but to get laid off from his previous job, and the wife should know about that. However, she is being careless about her spending and now owes money to her now ex-friend. The husband didn't do absolutely anything here except tell her to explain herself, which is reasonable. This is all the wife's doing, and in my opinion, he should divorce this woman.
in story 3 they literally say they dont have the money so that point is dumb on how he should pay them back
For the memory story, OP doesn't have a memory problem, that much is clear. I am 75% sure that the husband is a manipulative asshole. But to play devil's advocate, that other 25% wonders if HE is having memory problems. Like early onset alzheimer's. Not a great chance, but possible if this happens in other areas. Either way, OP needs to take action. If he's suffering a medical issue, he needs help. If he isn't, he's a liar and she needs a divorce attorney or a marriage counselor. Either way, he's the problem, not her.
ITA.
i think that the husband doesn't know that.
story 3: heres a rule to live by "if you cant afford extras; you dont need it."
How is the op the jerk for not paying the friend back for a trip that he didn't even know about nor was he even involved in? Thats like saying if my partner were to borrow money from a friend to afford an expensive as hell tv or pay for an expensive ass house knowing we cant afford the home nor would we be able to pay the friend back and then expect me to pay a debt she accumulated for a house I didn't even know we were getting. Its her debt its on her to pay it off not the op. I mean the op can choose to help out if they want but ultimately it's not their responsibility
Fun fact you're not entitled to a job
"I don't like that you're calling me out on my bullshit and holding me accountable for my words and not letting me gaslight you into making it your fault."
Keep taking notes. Record him. He either learns to be a decent, honorable human being or he leaves you and you have mountains of evidence for his lies in divorce court.
Story 2...get your husband to the doctor as soon as possible. This sounds exactly what I have been going through for the past few years. My husband has been diagnosed with early-onset alzheimer's disease. He could never remember converstions, even when i wrote things down. He would forget appointments or needing to do errands, and it got bad enough that I was looking at divorcing him. Once he got the diagnosis, it all made sense. A general doctor can help you but the best evaluation can be made by neurologists or parapsychologists. Best wishes!!
Incredible stories
Story 2: that dude has been gaslighting her their entire relationship, that's mental abuse. It's likely she doesn't even have memory problems, she needs to.leave him.
I had to start taking notes about what my husband said and did because he would try to do the same exact thing and it's infuriating.
The husband who was gaslighting the op is just like my father.
My father and my mom always fought over whose memory was wrong and then they would ask me who was right and who was wrong. I usually picked my mom bc dad drinks and forgets abt most of the things but it felt like I was taking sides and this made the relationship between me and dad very strained
Damn this is vas a good video keep it up man❤
“You two need to pay them back” his wife borrowed the money she needs to pay her friend back.
S3, husband is not the jerk, wife is 100%, went on holiday when you could not afford it and expect husband to foot the bill when you don't have a job
I just gotta say, if he deserved a higher paying position, he would have it or he should go to a place that does.
Op needs to leave that husband. He's gaslighting her textbook style. He almost literally had the truth painted on him and he refused to say it wasn't just water. He wants op to second guess themselves into a corner until she stops believing that anything but his own twisted truth is possible.
Girl you have no memory issues!! He just does it out of spite at this point!! Keep notes if you want but don't ever second-guess yourself because you know what you did!
Story 2 - look lady, he is definitely gaslighting you, blaming everything on you for for own laziness and irresponsibility. You DON'T need to even start to defend yourself. Look for opportunity to give him a taste of his own medicine and when he gets upset, you continue to gaslight him, do NOT admit (just like him). 10000% sure he knows he is gaslighting you but just want to win the conversation, so don't get upset and do it back to him and enjoy it 😂
If I was the OP whose inlaws invited themselves for an extra six days, I'd prepare the house by boxing up anything private, personal, or important and storing them at a family member's or friend's house for the sixteen days, then I'd pack mine and my children's things on day the morning of day 11 and as we're headed out the door say to my husband "Honey, enjoy the next six days alone with your parents. The kids and I will be at my parent's place enjoying some peace and quiet." if he tries to stop me "I agreed to be a good host for ten days. The ten days are over. They are your parents and you love them, and lord knows I am not trying to stop you from spending quality time with them. However, it's up to you to deal with the rest of the hosting, because I'm emotionally, physically, and mentally exhausted. I cannot do this for a single day more. Also, the kids should not feel unsafe in their own home due to two grown adults constantly screaming at each other. We love you and we will be back in six days. Enjoy your bonding time with your parents, I love you honey, bye-bye."
8:12 this guy is purposely getting out of doing things his wife asked him by gaslighting her and can’t take responsibility, not tot mention he’s a huge liar. He’s upset and feeling guilty because he’s caught over and over lying and being lazy. Shitty thing to do
Story 4. The husband never said he was entitled to the money. He’s asking for a break because he literally can’t pay for it. Why is the reader acting like he’s the one who wanted to go on the trip.
My nice says to Story 1: „My way or the highway“, does that fit?
Story 2 no matter if she makes 6 figures you still have to pay her back
You lack reading comprehension like most Redditors to think the op in story 3 is the AH. His Wife definitely is tho.
Only 10 comments? Lets change that
Story 3: the narrator is way off. The op is not in any position to pay for the friend's borrowed money. The narrator convently seemed to forget that the op got laid off, has a family with kids he has to take care of, and is so in the red that they are thinking about downsizing. And to put in perspective the friend in this case is well off and the op isn't saying this as an excuse but is saying that because he's saying it gives him wiggle room because he didn't say he was never going to pay the friend back. He just said that until he can she's in a pretty ok situation. I feel like the op is unfairly taking the blame and if the friend is a it understandable person should work with the op to get the wife on a payment plan as its her responsibility.
13:30 tell your idiodic wife to take out a personal loan to pay it back. Make sure that debt stays with her, not shared
Regarding seond OP, the husband is not the jerk. He was not the one who borrowed the money. He was not consulted about the trip. His primary responsibility is to take care of his family, which his wife should have been thinking of. Wasn't the advice for the first poster is that the jerk classmate should learn actions have consequences? Well, this time, the wife has to learn that actions have consequences. It is her responsibility to make sure SHE repays her friend. It is not the husband's responsibility, especially since the expense was not for the benefit of the family.
You mean story 3? Story 2 is the mentally abusive husband who gaslight his wife to get out of taking care of any of his responsibilities
Story 3 kinda not the jerk sure they should have budge but they don't need to pay the money
In other words he wouldn't have gotten a job even if he did sending a resume because nobody likes him
I have to say for me personally, I think it’s the last story with the in-laws. I think both parties are in the wrong. Because the wife did say hey, if you can find a flight that’s cheaper for you. Let me know even if it’s longer and we can find wiggle room. It sounds like they did that and now she’s unhappy about it.
Hello five minute crew.
Last story Father in Law: **runs out of house with grandkids** “HELLO!” 🏠 💥
OP: “What was that!?”
Father in Law: “What was ‘what’?” **runs**
The first story: the egotistical jerk was behaving like a spoilt brat. If he gives that type of attitude out at any place he is working at he will never get a job. That’s the only reason why he didn’t get the job but he can’t handle the rejection so he blames everyone else and demands op to quit. Even if OP turned down the job there is no guarantee the egotistical guy would get the job either, it is up to the school to decide.
Text him everything!!!
Wait, I don’t understand. I totally understand. She owes that money. 1,000,000%. That’s her friend she owes the money fair enough but why is he being dragged into it? Why does he owe her? I don’t understand that situation he doesn’t owe shit he had nothing to do with it. She’s definitely the jerk. That’s based on the principal you mentioned. He is not the jerk at all. He has nothing to do with the situation. He doesn’t owe them shit. Why is he being dragged into a situation had nothing to do with. I don’t understand this.
I want this narrator's drug dealer contact info because he's high af on some good shit to think op in story 3 holds any blame for the situation.
Pancakes approved
Some of these stories sound like Hollywood movies
Gosh people are entitled
Epic
story 2 : hes a lying manipulative piece of shit. Maybe he's forgetting actually or he just didn't do it anf then blame you by saying you never told me. Or its hus plan to make you slowly lose your mind. I suggest marriage counseling or therapy for both of you and if it don't work leave him
Story 2 divorce the prat
Y'all need to have a come to Jesus meeting with your in-laws
Story 3 - narrator is the jerk for saying OP is the jerk. OP's wife should go to work and pay her friend back, why should OP have to pay. Also, OP didn't even say he will not pay but he does not have enough right now to pay. Anyway, it is not OP's fault when all actions were decided and done by his stupid wife. What an irresponsible society to blame it on OP.
The announcers the jerk in story 3
He never said they werent going to pay her, but that is aside the point his wife is the one in the wrong. She wanted to go on this vacation without telling him till the last minute. Knowing very well they were up tight for funds. Also that is not his freind thats his wifes freind she should be the one who has to pay her. He said the most intelligent thing at the end (get a job at night) that is exactly what she should do. If ypur going to enjoy a trip in which you borrowed money then you should grind until you pay that money. And to the freind never loan money to your freinds unless you are ok without getting it back. Im not saying to them you dont have to pay me back, but you know very well shit happens and they might not be able to pay right away. So if you cant do without that money then dont loan it to anyone. But if out of your heart you can part with that money then your expectation should be not to get that money back, so when they do pay you back you know they are trust worthy. This only applies to family or friends. Thats obvious but i know some stupid people will say something idiotic like so i dont have to pay what i borrowed from the bank. No you have to pay that back or one way or another they will get it back. I only speak of loaning money to freimds or family, people who it would kill you to lose because of money. That is all im saying..
Story 3 narrator is really wrong yeah op said he was upset about his situation compared to the friends but that’s normal when you’re struggling you can’t help it at times but the wife is not helping doing anything to contribute and instead is causing more problems she’s the only jerk here
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Your husband is gaslighting you constantly. He sounds very controlling also
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