Bmike - I Deserve Better [Official Music Video]

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  • čas přidán 9. 12. 2018
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    Produced by No Bias & Nik Nada
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    Shot by FrezhEditing
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    Edited by Mister Visual
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    Supporting female role: Dorotea
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    Supporting male role: Kenny Williams
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  • @BMIKEMUSIC
    @BMIKEMUSIC  Před 5 lety +3478

    New music video "I Deserve Better". I made this song to show the effect of carrying pain from previous relationships over to a new one. I hope you guys enjoy it and relate to it. Get your Black Heart merch here www.blackheartofficial.com/store/
    My Instagram is @itsbmike

    • @M.W.K6996
      @M.W.K6996 Před 5 lety +23

      Can you do projects with MASS OF MAN, PHORA, CHVSE, NF, JayteKz, Token, Presence, Witt Lowry, Enkay47, BurdenWorld, Cryptic Wisdom, Young Merkules, TraGik, Sik World, Ivan B, Ashtin Larold, Solan Patrick & sKitz Kraven in the future?

    • @bethany442
      @bethany442 Před 5 lety +9

      I love itttt

    • @prpa8804
      @prpa8804 Před 5 lety +4

      Nice bro🇭🇷🇭🇷❤

    • @princelesta
      @princelesta Před 5 lety +5

      I live in the UK.why is it so expensive to ship the merch here? $15 plus the $50 for the top.

    • @samnegasi7190
      @samnegasi7190 Před 5 lety

      Great Massage bro!! 🤘🏾

  • @breal4real460
    @breal4real460 Před rokem +1281

    Hurts worse when you know you deserve better but you don’t want better you just want the better version of that one person ❤ #lifeDOESgoOn100

    • @anthonygoodluck798
      @anthonygoodluck798 Před rokem +14

      Hurts when ONE person can just leave you w no closure. But in the mean time he's narcissistic ass ask he's family to relate a message .❤️‍🩹

    • @83baby-cakes83
      @83baby-cakes83 Před rokem +4

      Yes!
      It really does 😔

    • @83baby-cakes83
      @83baby-cakes83 Před rokem +5

      @@anthonygoodluck798 No closer, message, note I mean nothing. I came home to a empty bedroom after taking my son to school. He's a gaslighting Controlling NARCISSIST , but I do miss and wonder what he was thinking every day I wake up... Sorry 😐

    • @stephentoshort150
      @stephentoshort150 Před rokem

      SO TRUE

    • @Bigbird1104
      @Bigbird1104 Před rokem

      Exactly

  • @tanielabakoso2498
    @tanielabakoso2498 Před 5 lety +4437

    You dont know how much you loved some one until you're up late at night begging and pleading to GOD to make the pain stop

    • @stephenesparza1153
      @stephenesparza1153 Před 4 lety +20

      Truth!

    • @krishnacheeks7767
      @krishnacheeks7767 Před 4 lety +27

      Taniela Bakoso yessssss I felt every words u typed💯

    • @brandonreeves3003
      @brandonreeves3003 Před 4 lety +24

      But it doesn't stop... Still games taking place so fucked up

    • @baggetts4836
      @baggetts4836 Před 4 lety +49

      been there im struggling to keep my marriage and life together of almost 10 years but wondering if HES even worth the pain that goes unnoticed I DESERVE BETTER!!!

    • @silviadeharodavila1726
      @silviadeharodavila1726 Před 4 lety +2

      Yes 💔😭

  • @shannonmasterson4406
    @shannonmasterson4406 Před rokem +442

    This song helped me get over someone who mentally drained me. I never thought I'd wake up without him on my mind. I still do somedays. It's been a year and he treated me worse than I've ever been treated. And I loved him more than I'd ever loved anyone. Makes no sense.

    • @alanaC.Walden86
      @alanaC.Walden86 Před rokem +10

      I know how u feel and ur constantly wondering wth u did wrong. I rack my brain as far as I know I did nothing to deserve it

    • @SaraiRivka
      @SaraiRivka Před rokem +18

      Trauma Bonded

    • @ryanr9792
      @ryanr9792 Před rokem +10

      Time won't heal you, but you'll heal over time 🙏

    • @ladyglocxliv7561
      @ladyglocxliv7561 Před rokem +6

      Going Through This Rn We've Been Broken Up For 4 Months After A 2 Year Off And On Relationship.. How Do You Get Through It Cause Tbfh I'm Tired Of Missing Him, Craving Him, Feeling Like I Need Him I Could Go On Lmao But He Mentally Fucxed Me Up And I Still Love Him Idk What To Do Anymore...

    • @amandaa2119
      @amandaa2119 Před rokem +11

      He probably was a narcissist. Much like what I just experienced. Mentally, emotionally, physically draining. 🥺 Ugh 😩

  • @ramaqueen949
    @ramaqueen949 Před 3 lety +294

    Who's listening this in 2021?
    Love this song❤

  • @beautifulthcgoddess3218
    @beautifulthcgoddess3218 Před 4 lety +2227

    It’s the worst when you’re still in a dead end relationship and you can’t let go...💔

  • @l1araj695
    @l1araj695 Před 5 lety +2917

    My heart goes out to everyone going through a recent breakup, or just struggling to move on from a past one. They are rough, and they suck. I have finally found someone who I'm truly in love with, and the idea of losing him is unbearable. So if you are out there and lost your special someone, I'm so sorry and I hope time does heal your broken heart.
    Edit: Well everyone, I hate to say this but he was messing around behind my back. Now just like the rest of you, this is the song I cry my eyes out to. Love hurts, but it’s worth loving someone. We’ll get through this.

    • @the09rickyd
      @the09rickyd Před 5 lety +4

      Same here.

    • @hunterhenderson9978
      @hunterhenderson9978 Před 5 lety +17

      I just got out of a relationship and it hurts she left me and my ex sent this to me and I fell to my knees i found someone better that treats me good I love this girl alot

    • @katelynndubriel1030
      @katelynndubriel1030 Před 5 lety +11

      This is deep and stuff but then I see you pic

    • @nataleejohnson39
      @nataleejohnson39 Před 5 lety +3

      That would be me

    • @freebird3203
      @freebird3203 Před 5 lety +3

      Thank you

  • @waterwednesday8807
    @waterwednesday8807 Před rokem +92

    This song helped me realize I deserved better with baby daddy. Now I'm states away with an amazing guy I just want everyone to know if you even slightly think you deserve better you do.

    • @jessierandolph5084
      @jessierandolph5084 Před měsícem +1

      He deserves better

    • @gamingangel4283
      @gamingangel4283 Před 18 dny

      ​@@jessierandolph5084 You do not know their situation, so.. your opinion is kinda negated.

  • @EmileeKathleenHunter
    @EmileeKathleenHunter Před 2 lety +390

    Just in case you needed to hear this, leave it in the past.
    Stay Strong

    • @Jungkook-wd2cy
      @Jungkook-wd2cy Před rokem +1

      I let go but they need to as well and grow better than me or be better than me to someone

    • @nikkiottley1835
      @nikkiottley1835 Před rokem +3

      I needed this right now 💯👌

    • @RWRL
      @RWRL Před rokem +1

      What if you're married and holding out for the almost there

    • @reynaldoreyes1829
      @reynaldoreyes1829 Před rokem

      My favorite song

    • @bonnieboo8265
      @bonnieboo8265 Před 11 měsíci

      @@RWRLI let go of a 15 year relationship because he wouldn’t marry me. Sucks really badly!

  • @dianalopez876
    @dianalopez876 Před 5 lety +1129

    I just broke up with my fiancee last month of 5 years. Shit was hard it was so toxic not to mention he was 10 years older then me, I grew up with him. I been with him since I was 17 😣.Anybody in a toxic abusive relationship don't worry stay strong and leave, its not worth losing your sanity and health. YOU DESERVE BETTER ! NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS EVER

    • @daniellejones8481
      @daniellejones8481 Před 5 lety +5

      I get you sometimes you just gotta get through it .

    • @lowendbeats6218
      @lowendbeats6218 Před 5 lety +4

      All of you just remember if you need anybody to talk to you can text me

    • @kylerobledo2022
      @kylerobledo2022 Před 5 lety +1

      Tiny' López I feel you on that

    • @marleesolomon1384
      @marleesolomon1384 Před 5 lety +10

      Tiny' López I am going through this right now after 10 years. He calls me the most disgusting names and I feel so worthless. He calls me names in front of my own relatives, told me I am a burden.

    • @yahswayorthehighwayarise4450
      @yahswayorthehighwayarise4450 Před 5 lety

      czcams.com/video/uMyzUbiJx0s/video.html

  • @macaileh9036
    @macaileh9036 Před 5 lety +494

    “She’s over me now i want her” 💀 this exactly why we CANT move on🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @moniquer.3768
    @moniquer.3768 Před 3 lety +215

    Who else listening 2021 😌 this song will FOREVER HIT HOME !!!

  • @mickeycorona1679
    @mickeycorona1679 Před rokem +57

    2023 and still a master piece of a song 🎵

    • @paulacrowell2572
      @paulacrowell2572 Před rokem +2

      Mickey Corona agree 💯 still badass !! Hell yes 2023

    • @gamingangel4283
      @gamingangel4283 Před 3 měsíci

      2024 now, still an amazing song but regardless of the year, it'll always be an amazing song.

  • @ashley__c
    @ashley__c Před 5 lety +813

    3:54 👌 "As humas we carry all the pain from our previous relationships
    and we unintentionally give it to the next person.
    I know that hurt people...hurt people.
    So at the same time we also gotta be aware of that.
    We inherit all this baggage from one person
    then dump it on the next person and....
    The cycle just continues.
    So if there's anything to take from this song:
    Let it be to love openly.
    Love hard.
    But most importantly...
    LEAVE THE PAST WHERE IT BELONGS."

    • @mercedescorretjer2933
      @mercedescorretjer2933 Před 5 lety +8

      The past is the past..time to move on. Right on that.

    • @Brandon-bq7lv
      @Brandon-bq7lv Před 5 lety +1

      How just tell me how?

    • @chicken-n-dumplin
      @chicken-n-dumplin Před 5 lety +1

      Yes yes yes

    • @chicken-n-dumplin
      @chicken-n-dumplin Před 5 lety +8

      @@Brandon-bq7lv stop looking. I used to look at my exes facebook and all. Ive learned it only kept reminding me. Once I stopped, the memories and feelings slowing started to fade. It only kept bothering me because I kept seeing his face and being reminded.

    • @zexysyoutube485
      @zexysyoutube485 Před 5 lety

      Hi

  • @ashlynnmoore8747
    @ashlynnmoore8747 Před 5 lety +945

    Bmike and nf are my favorite artist in the game bc they keep it so real

  • @sheynangians
    @sheynangians Před 3 lety +198

    I’m tired of holding it all together. Constantly forgiving just over all of it. It’s draining af....but love makes it hard to leave

    • @jennifermartinez6674
      @jennifermartinez6674 Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly how I feel. Really well put.

    • @preciousmarsh8393
      @preciousmarsh8393 Před 3 lety +7

      U gotta learn to love yourself. If someone keeps doing u wrong, they don't respect u or the relationship. Trust me, im speaking from experience. I had to put myself on the priority list. Hope u find peace 😗

    • @myariete2011
      @myariete2011 Před 3 lety +1

      Is it love

    • @ariellebarrow
      @ariellebarrow Před 3 lety +1

      @@preciousmarsh8393 needed this! In a similar situation and it is HARD

    • @amberefird7405
      @amberefird7405 Před 2 lety

      It will always end up same results.

  • @josephstevens4032
    @josephstevens4032 Před 7 měsíci +10

    Letting go and moving on can be one of the hardest things one can endure. You are all in my ❤️

  • @candyapple5924
    @candyapple5924 Před 4 lety +81

    Made me cry 😢 I just want “him” to be the better that I deserve 💔

  • @jen7411
    @jen7411 Před 5 lety +212

    “Hurt people hurt people”

    • @lilip2418
      @lilip2418 Před 4 lety +6

      And healed people, heal self and other people

    • @christopherarsalides9221
      @christopherarsalides9221 Před 4 lety +2

      This is too true.

    • @heliaalves9062
      @heliaalves9062 Před 3 lety +4

      Straight up lie. Hurt people don't have to hurt people. Hurt people can move on and help others.

    • @christopherarsalides9221
      @christopherarsalides9221 Před 3 lety +1

      Hélia Alves these are wise words and show a level of emotional maturity I’ve not seen in others lately. Well said!!!

    • @heliaalves9062
      @heliaalves9062 Před 3 lety +1

      @@christopherarsalides9221 Thank you, to me it's just common sense.

  • @yesreneau
    @yesreneau Před 3 lety +186

    This song is underrated.

  • @kattyarce7382
    @kattyarce7382 Před 3 lety +78

    Who else is or has been in a relationship when him / her don’t know what he wants and can’t decided about u . And even if you love him you have to let him / her go bc you know you deserve better ! 💔2020

    • @karigibson9627
      @karigibson9627 Před 3 lety +3

      I'm there now.... And my heart hurts

    • @porshertrussell6947
      @porshertrussell6947 Před 2 lety

      Evry 1

    • @dannydonaldson6337
      @dannydonaldson6337 Před 2 lety +1

      Try meeting someone you instantly just fall right for and I'm not young but then she treats you like shit breaks up with you to be with an ex then runs him off and calls on me and this goes on for a while well to come to find out she suffers from borderline personality disorder now when i was younger i would have handled things a lot differently in a bad way but no i decided to study and study about BPD and she is classic with it now we have known each other for awhile now and her behavior still the same but i haven't abandoned her and i take her abuse and im there when things are bad another words I've been what a true friend should be unfortunately I'm still alone and as everyone tells me i deserve better but i can't seem to let to walk away because everyone needs someone to not leave even me lol just haven't found her yet sorry for the book

  • @jrichards5184
    @jrichards5184 Před 5 lety +49

    ❤️❤️❤️ self love is the best middle finger

  • @Giammusic
    @Giammusic Před rokem +5

    The worst feeling in the world , when you know you love someone, but it's not the same feeling for both. You gotta let go, but you're in bed crying

  • @kaptaink420
    @kaptaink420 Před 2 lety +4

    15 yrs too girls. Feel better now, I felt as I couldn’t leave her alone because I had family but she had no one. I thought I was abandoning her. Life goes on

  • @spiritwalkerr
    @spiritwalkerr Před 5 lety +661

    Who else LOVES Bmikes music soooo much ???

  • @shawnavanpool07
    @shawnavanpool07 Před 5 lety +671

    I deserved better.... better by no hands around my throat, better by no more black eyes, better by no more getting thrown into walls... so I got better!!!

    • @carolinachickfrombrooklyn664
      @carolinachickfrombrooklyn664 Před 5 lety +1

      Shawna Muller deep..... ❤️

    • @shawnavanpool07
      @shawnavanpool07 Před 5 lety +18

      @Kim Gow I am so so sorry about your mom. Things happened in my marraige and it never got better. After 10 years I couldn't look at my daughter's and them think we had a normal life. The screaming the physical and mental abuse was not right. Until someone told me shawna what would do if your daughter was grown and in the same situation, but she put up with it because she watched YOU stay and didn't walk away. That was my opener. So I left because not only did I deserve better for myself but for my beautiful amazing daughter's I owed them my all.

    • @jackiebengelee5785
      @jackiebengelee5785 Před 5 lety

      Cazy

    • @jenniferallender9764
      @jenniferallender9764 Před 5 lety +2

      Amen I am a survivor myself n I had to watch my sister go through it. I thank the lord she is now a survivor as well.

    • @katestewart6196
      @katestewart6196 Před 5 lety

      Trust me on that girl that’s why I can’t relate to he’s music I actually am in love with him lol 🙈❤️

  • @mstinatot
    @mstinatot Před 3 lety +30

    BMike...you the realest...putting words to feelings so many of us have...giving a way to relate...for real tho...you deserve so much more recognition.. Honest..deep..real ..truth. Thank you

  • @teen42
    @teen42 Před měsícem +1

    There's nothing like grieving someone who is still here, but can't change. 😢

  • @mommymuhhwie11
    @mommymuhhwie11 Před 5 lety +73

    “Cause I was so focused on loving her and she was focused on someone who never did” oh shitttttt 😩😩

  • @sheenameek4190
    @sheenameek4190 Před 4 lety +2383

    Who else listening to this in 2020

  • @ladyrandom8380
    @ladyrandom8380 Před 3 lety +22

    Love the message of this song!!! Seriously love it!!! In order to get what we deserve we must work on ourselves too!!!

  • @sylviaojeda6177
    @sylviaojeda6177 Před 3 lety +6

    This is by far the BEST way to describe how failed relationships happen 👊🏽 hands down

  • @Vanessa-jr2mb
    @Vanessa-jr2mb Před 4 lety +10

    Going through a divorce, and this has given me a sense of peace... it reminds me that we both deserve better... for everyone hurting over someone, accept the hurt. Feel it, and move on. It isn't worth putting your life on hold. I used to beg him to stay with me, and now that I've accepted the divorce I've become happier... we can't force what can't be... head up! You're perfect!

  • @oksanatyson6742
    @oksanatyson6742 Před 3 lety +11

    This song has a different message if you sing it to yourself in a mirror and think of your past choices that hount you now. I cried when the I started yelling at myself the lyrics "I deserve better, you should have treated Me better!! " it brings me to my knees . Tell your future self what your past self should have told you.

  • @edendanis331
    @edendanis331 Před 3 lety +16

    Damn, I'm in a relationship and this shit is still making me tear up, she deserves so much better then me...

    • @angelitavillanueva1214
      @angelitavillanueva1214 Před 2 lety

      6w 2ow5e w s svs svsusvshsgsgsgsgszszszszsiiiaiw w vve7svs7svsv7wvw7wvsusgs6ag7wgw7avs8avw7avsivee2222eeeeee dddiiididididiod eie I'd do

    • @angelitavillanueva1214
      @angelitavillanueva1214 Před 2 lety

      Jiwwwwwikiwiwjwwi w8w e I s eue euevdud di

    • @daniland7518
      @daniland7518 Před 2 lety

      Just be better….

    • @cassondraortega5047
      @cassondraortega5047 Před 2 lety

      That's crazy cause this is how I feel about shit ...my life is all fuxked up
      ....

  • @lady_savage4232
    @lady_savage4232 Před 5 dny

    Low key bring this song back on your insta. This is a banger and needs to be seen again I really love the new song toxic but this will always be your classic to me

  • @conor9213
    @conor9213 Před 4 lety +72

    I’ve never related more to lines than these😂 “All I did was try and make her mine, all I did was try and show her that even if it’s raining the sun still gone shine,maybe I shouldn’t have let her, that’s prolly the worst thing I ever did, cause I was so focused on loving her and she was focused on someone who never did.”
    Good song man.

    • @ellenstrano4079
      @ellenstrano4079 Před 3 lety +1

      I look to you I'm sorry I read what you wrote twice is like this guy just told my story I'm like so in love my girl and she keeps saying I'm overthinking it I keep saying why you not here

    • @amylwackwitz2359
      @amylwackwitz2359 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah all I try to do is try with him and do everything for him show I love him and care about him and I guess it wasn’t enough for him to keep him in my life it still hurt so bad still everyday day

  • @jada8789
    @jada8789 Před 5 lety +101

    Real shit though. I carry all my pain into every relationship and I don't even get why I do it. I don't want to but I do.

    • @feelingthevibe9362
      @feelingthevibe9362 Před 5 lety +1

      Archer Graves drop the bullshit and keep ya head up young buck

  • @gabriellakoons-lopez1104
    @gabriellakoons-lopez1104 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Been a fan for at least 8 years, Im almost 21 now and this song has brought me back. Except now I actually understand and part of me wants to leave bc I do deserve better but I want better from him so I stay and I dont know what to do anymore.

  • @mermaidanalise
    @mermaidanalise Před rokem +4

    Be broken hearted. The last thing you want is that baggage to cling onto you. Let it go and move on. Set yourself free and find better days❤

  • @prashantshahi743
    @prashantshahi743 Před 5 lety +440

    No one cares if your first or last just be thankful we got a good song

  • @cynthiasuggs8204
    @cynthiasuggs8204 Před 5 lety +11

    Just came across this video.... And this is so real ... I’m still trying to heal after my last breakup... But when you know a relationship is toxic and he is a narcissist you suck it up no matter how much you love them because it’s never gonna change.... Shout out to all those REAL people that have lost in love and shout out to the ones that hurt someone but truly learned from it and changed their ways...

  • @HappyBoombox-jf9me
    @HappyBoombox-jf9me Před 2 měsíci +1

    This song couldnt come at a perfect time

  • @jordanmorfoot
    @jordanmorfoot Před 11 měsíci +1

    You don't know how much you loved someone until your up late at night begging and pleading to GOD to make the pain stop

  • @lali.x4658
    @lali.x4658 Před 4 lety +40

    My 3 year relationship ended yesterday and “don’t you tell me this ain’t what you wanna hear, we almost had it, we were almost there”. gives me chills I’m crying:(

    • @kyzaiya4139
      @kyzaiya4139 Před 4 lety

      Naila Garcia Head up naila 😭😭😭

    • @sabrinaday5381
      @sabrinaday5381 Před 3 lety +1

      Want to cry

    • @isaacflores1975
      @isaacflores1975 Před 3 lety

      1st time hearing this song and it ga e me the chills and a tear crazy just got out of prision and it maid me think of what i had with my ex before we broke. Up after a year how are yu.question to yur self.

  • @kissmeoscarify
    @kissmeoscarify Před 4 lety +220

    😭💔 Why cant people learn to talk instead of walk away...

    • @adelynredding3536
      @adelynredding3536 Před 4 lety +5

      I felt that

    • @Kayla-kb4ub
      @Kayla-kb4ub Před 4 lety +35

      Sometimes you cant talk. Sometimes you just have to walk away.

    • @aimeehutchinson2221
      @aimeehutchinson2221 Před 4 lety +27

      You can talk until your blue in the face.. but if the other person in the relationship isn't willing to listen.. where do you go from there?

    • @mschuexlittlechuex3581
      @mschuexlittlechuex3581 Před 4 lety +7

      I always walked away i hated talkn abt the same shit over n over sometimes w no change..... is best to let go

    • @rachelhinsperger6066
      @rachelhinsperger6066 Před 4 lety +3

      100 percent unfortunately nobody talk anymore

  • @tonyasmith270
    @tonyasmith270 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I just love this song anyone else still listening to this in 2023 ♥

  • @teenamaldonado8319
    @teenamaldonado8319 Před 23 dny

    6 months and I'm still trying to let go the pain he gave me is the worst pain I have ever felt 💔

  • @darkmagegaming8900
    @darkmagegaming8900 Před 5 lety +139

    Bmike music will always shoot in the feels how many people can relate like if.u can

  • @jeraldinepritchett4727
    @jeraldinepritchett4727 Před 5 lety +236

    Give your mind and heart time to heal before you promise something you are not ready to give.

    • @christopherarsalides9221
      @christopherarsalides9221 Před 4 lety +4

      I wish they would make this a key aspect for everyone to learn in early stages of life. Maybe then there would be more hope for humanity

    • @jeraldinepritchett4727
      @jeraldinepritchett4727 Před 4 lety +4

      @@christopherarsalides9221 I do agree on this, it seems almost nothing we learn in the early stages actually has anything to do with adult life.

    • @theSicariuselitealphaJOKES
      @theSicariuselitealphaJOKES Před 3 lety +2

      Amen ❤💯💯💯❤

    • @marli495
      @marli495 Před 3 lety +1

      Needed this.

  • @itsyourgirlamanda1624
    @itsyourgirlamanda1624 Před 3 lety +2

    Who still listening to this during quarantine......2021 Corona still here but I'm still listening to my song❤❤❤

  • @ashyrsadventures1912
    @ashyrsadventures1912 Před 2 lety +1

    Who’s listening in 2022? Don’t let this song ever fade out.

  • @fernandomendoza4925
    @fernandomendoza4925 Před 4 lety +16

    I was told that sometimes going back over and over again to the one you love can be embarrassing and foolish. Because the more you keep coming back the farther and farther away, whoever/whatever it is you keep coming back for, gets. The more desperately you think want something, the more you’re never ever gonna get it.
    At this rate we will be worlds apart in no time and I will never ever get her back🥺

  • @kenziex4941
    @kenziex4941 Před 5 lety +83

    “Most importantly, leave the past where it belongs” damn...yeah. Yeah. ❤️❤️

  • @richardcharlesmartin1727
    @richardcharlesmartin1727 Před 2 lety +2

    Who else is listening to this in 2022 life is hard but we can't give up just know at some point all the bs in life becomes a regular every day thing you grow numb I guess idk who you are but I love you keep your chin up and hold on cause it's going to be a bumpy ride

  • @AvaRichard29
    @AvaRichard29 Před 2 měsíci +1

    *A U T H E N T I C v i e w s* and Bmike the duo making virals ❤🎶🔥❤

  • @dawnd0nyou791
    @dawnd0nyou791 Před 4 lety +225

    *HUGS to anyone hurting.

  • @SCANDAL0USb
    @SCANDAL0USb Před 5 lety +31

    this was my favorite song yesterday, today, tomorrow, and probably forever.

  • @motivationmood3855
    @motivationmood3855 Před 2 lety +9

    I absolutely LOVE this song ... I've listened to it at least 100 times this last few days! It just gets me right in the heart ..
    Thanks for all the lyrics that hit home bmike... You I really like! 💯♥️

  • @Khya.Queen-10
    @Khya.Queen-10 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This isn’t about you! This is about me and I know I deserve better,

  • @princessnedy5828
    @princessnedy5828 Před 5 lety +166

    I CLICKED CAUSE I DESERVE BETTER..THEN THIS HIT HARD CAUSE I'M GOING THROUGH THIS RN...I WAITED 3 YEARS FOR CHANGE.😭

    • @silvapoolplastering1730
      @silvapoolplastering1730 Před 5 lety

      PRINCESS NEDY I wrote a song about the same topic and I was wondering if youd give it a listen and drop and comment or sub if you like it! It would mean a lot

    • @mackenziekistner9197
      @mackenziekistner9197 Před 4 lety +1

      PRINCESS NEDY I knoe how u feel my mom gave my dad 15 years to change he never did💔

    • @ivancoronado2124
      @ivancoronado2124 Před 4 lety

      Ivan,😉😝😋☺️🙃🤨🤩🤩😍😛😎😎Love

    • @ivancoronado2124
      @ivancoronado2124 Před 4 lety

      Live😎😛😍🤩🤨🙃☺️😋😝😉🤗🤣Lovelvan

  • @itsbrookej22
    @itsbrookej22 Před 5 lety +29

    "And you act like all of this was my fault. None of any of this was my fault"

  • @valeriejimenez769
    @valeriejimenez769 Před rokem +3

    When you realize you deserve better you will find better.

  • @cheyenneskinner7622
    @cheyenneskinner7622 Před 8 měsíci

    You know don’t that you deserve better until the one person you truly love treats you so differently that you sit and wonder how can he go from one sweet person to a monster in minutes 🥺 but you still accept the fact coz your too in love to let go 💔😭

  • @CLC9209
    @CLC9209 Před 4 lety +341

    Dedicate this to all my exes who keep contacting me. I haven't changed, I wasn't good enough then, what you want now.

  • @RadBunny2269
    @RadBunny2269 Před 4 lety +19

    My past engagement almost killed me. Then God brought the most precious woman my way who loves me for me. I now see that I deserved better.

  • @kristyluckie6855
    @kristyluckie6855 Před 2 lety +4

    This song is legit! ❤️ it! Couldn’t of said it any better. I think for me that I have been hurt some many times and for so long that I don’t even feel any pain anymore. I used to cry at night but now I dont even shed a tear. I have hit rock bottom and have stayed there and not gotten back up. My guard is completely up that it would take an Army and more to get into my heart. The only true love I have is for my 2 kids. Other than that receiving love I dont think it will ever happen.

  • @briannaeilert4422
    @briannaeilert4422 Před 2 lety +2

    I can't believe the emotions I feel when I hear this song. And his voice is so beautiful. You can feel the pain in his voice. Omg!!! One of the songs I relate with so deeply right now.

  • @risseroe
    @risseroe Před 4 lety +53

    “We almost had it we was almost there” ... that shit gives me chills 😪

  • @cheybeckk
    @cheybeckk Před 3 lety +53

    I listen to this song everytime I’m an asshole and treat my girl like shit .... she deserves better but I’m taking time to become the woman she deserves. We’re due to get married next year and she’s my absolute best friend. I would lose everything if I lost her. I got to not take her for granted... thank you for your music Bmike. You’re the realist artist I’ve listened too in a long time. So just thank you.

    • @kimgow7671
      @kimgow7671 Před 3 lety +2

      I loss my late wife Jessica after 14yrs an this was last song I sent, hope you realize what you have till she is gone off this earth forever

    • @BubbleGumKush91
      @BubbleGumKush91 Před 2 lety +1

      I hope you found inner peace to be able to treat others better. It's been a year and I hope you've grown ❤

    • @savannahsmith795
      @savannahsmith795 Před rokem

      But are yall still together today???

  • @thornofarose1838
    @thornofarose1838 Před 2 lety

    You make me want to treat men like a king. The few I lost were kings. So it's a wake up call to myself to make sure I don't treat a king like a joker

  • @tonyafarmer5293
    @tonyafarmer5293 Před 3 lety +1

    2021 here I am! W wishing praying God will take me away! To a better place that’s what the Bible say!!

  • @larissaaltamirano5792
    @larissaaltamirano5792 Před 5 lety +19

    He works so hard on his music and ugh I swear he needs more credit for it! He's so underappreciated 😤😤it kills me but that's life nowadays , fake is popular and real is so underated✨ But I have faith in his music and one day he'll have everything he's always deserved ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @karlconway7372
    @karlconway7372 Před 4 lety +12

    Bmike has gone from raw talent to refined gold, saved my life a few times.

  • @leeschilling5360
    @leeschilling5360 Před 2 lety +1

    Day 3 of 2022 and here I am. I hope all reading this finds better.

  • @Camaron9769
    @Camaron9769 Před 4 lety +15

    heard "you deserve better" for the entire relationship... turns out I definitely did.

  • @itsjaime305
    @itsjaime305 Před 5 lety +8

    Black Heart Gang🖤🖤

  • @JenniferKleber-gk1yi
    @JenniferKleber-gk1yi Před 8 měsíci +1

    I know I deserve better.i can be an angel for 3 months.then I slip and he is done with me.I deserve better.

  • @DennyGarrett-ko4pu
    @DennyGarrett-ko4pu Před rokem

    I never thought his relshinship pain would hurt so badly, making my heart ♥ stop hurting...this'll song makes me feel better ..

  • @InvisibleShadow
    @InvisibleShadow Před 5 lety +334

    I just left a 3 year toxic relationship and it's hard but he's done so much to me And constantly told me he'd change but never did and I trusted him but he always lied and his friends lied for him I always had lies fed to me.. And he's my first love so it makes it even harder... But ik it's for the best we weren't good for each other... I only focused on loving him never loved myself and it was hard I did everything to try to make him happy and it never seemed good enough because he still did the things he did and it hurt..he's done some stuff that he don't know ik about but I won't let him know because he'll just lie again.. I hope it gets better soon..

    • @GreenDayFreak999
      @GreenDayFreak999 Před 5 lety +1

      I left my ex about two weeks ago. I can relate.

    • @hennyxx6937
      @hennyxx6937 Před 5 lety

      I'm a Fatty cheer up girl , inbox me if anything. im a girl

    • @michaelmarshall164
      @michaelmarshall164 Před 5 lety +5

      Change your name. Don't do that to your self every time you click and comment on CZcams you see that and you sub consciously hurt yourself that's no different than me burning and cutting myself. :711

    • @jenimoore4095
      @jenimoore4095 Před 5 lety +2

      I did the same 3 year relationship ....it's for the better

    • @stephaniegotay5405
      @stephaniegotay5405 Před 5 lety +4

      Same .. 3 weeks ago .. 4 year relationship 😩

  • @MariaLopez-dj5zl
    @MariaLopez-dj5zl Před 5 lety +56

    I dated a guy for 2 years and I finally had the balls to end it... he would tell me it was my fault he cheated and all the wrong he did when in reality it was all on him he made me feel like shit I gained weight and when I walked away finally everything in my life started going according to plan... I was so scared no one was going to love me so I settled for less but now I’m single and it ain’t bad like I just got me to worry about and me to get stronger when one leaves a toxic relationship you notice you deserved better and feel a weight off your shoulders like damn 🤦🏻‍♀️❤️

    • @kaitlynnpeters2288
      @kaitlynnpeters2288 Před 4 lety +1

      Maria Lopez I wish I had the balls to do the same

    • @ttaylor8239
      @ttaylor8239 Před 3 lety +2

      Cheating is a NO GO ZONE. NEVER tolerate that. YOU ARE A QUEEN, STRAIGHTEN YOUR CROWN AND WALK AWAY. The secret is when YOU LOVE YOU, you attract the people that will love you too. When you allow someone to gaslight you, you attract others that will do the same. Imagine it like picking a song, cuz it's frequency based. That's the key to the universe. If you want to listen to a sad song about how you get your heart broken over, and over, and over again by a cheater, then you allow it, even though you know what's wrong deep down. Pick a better song, you deserve THAT. 😉

    • @trinamckenzie5139
      @trinamckenzie5139 Před 3 lety

      im going through this now and have been for a while

    • @danielmcmullin5607
      @danielmcmullin5607 Před 3 lety +2

      @@ttaylor8239 iv never heard it out so real and or raw. but yet have to say some love is different than others and sometimes it is worth staying. depending on the situation over all and the love that was put in on either side and both sides... most of it doesn't matter as long as both individuals are happy and willing to put in 💯% and actually hold up to doing so then all should end up amazing for the rest of they're lives. if either doesn't want to put that 💯% into they're end of the relationship it should just be left alone and they should seperate from one another.if they stay there being fake saying they love one another then that would be like a game Wich would obviously show that they probably shouldn't have continued forward as a couple because that's not how a team works with eachother

    • @danielmcmullin5607
      @danielmcmullin5607 Před 3 lety +1

      Sometimes it's better to leave, sometimes it's better to stay.... It's all up to how the both partners feel.every1s situation is different. If both partners want to bring it all back together than they can if both are honest and communicate about it do they can work through it. If they are both 100%with each other and stay faithful from the beginning to forever and they grow that bond there's no reason that they aren't capable of making it work together. This life we live is about growing, building, improving. Each of these elements of Life are attainable can you add them to your life experience. If you use problem solving skills for every aspect of your life you can figure out any part of your life across your journey till you reach the point that you're old enough wise enough my turn enough to make the right decisions that you have to stay learning as well if you don't take that skill and play everything fall apart with everything you've seen it put together

  • @JimmeeBarto-xe2tl
    @JimmeeBarto-xe2tl Před 10 dny

    I give up. I dont want to go through this hurt again. I dont have enough " me" to go on and finish life because of being stomped on.

  • @artshiz215-mf3kr
    @artshiz215-mf3kr Před 8 měsíci +7

    RESPECT MAN EVERYONE LIKING THIS TALENT N REAL SHIT GIVE A 2MILLION LIKES

  • @moonlit_child
    @moonlit_child Před 5 lety +170

    I'm bawling listening to this. My boyfriend is so toxic.... I feel this

    • @pjmensah8897
      @pjmensah8897 Před 5 lety +5

      break up with him :) i hope u feel better

    • @hj9355
      @hj9355 Před 4 lety +3

      oh girl I feel you... I feel you

    • @SlayTheSlaughter
      @SlayTheSlaughter Před 4 lety +2

      Kara DeRonda I hope you’re in a better place now :c

    • @harlandray5
      @harlandray5 Před 4 lety +2

      Hopefully you have moved on. I just did a year and a half down the drain...I couldnt handle any more

    • @sarahjohnson6196
      @sarahjohnson6196 Před 4 lety +7

      Something my mom used to tell me: stop crossing oceans for people that wouldn’t even step in a puddle for you.

  • @ungureanumihai
    @ungureanumihai Před 5 lety +560

    never clicked so fast on a notification 👀

    • @Your_Introductions
      @Your_Introductions Před 5 lety +2

      haah me 2

    • @gaygay2161
      @gaygay2161 Před 5 lety +3

      OMG good job Bmike you make me so proud I love you so much. Ik you won't see this but hope you will. It meant so freaking much to me when you replied to my comment. Even though it was a few words Idc it meant millions paragraphs to me. You have inspired me to not harm myself and to love myself that I am worth something. I listen to your music every day and night...smile still every time. You have changed me. For the best...I thank you for what you do...you're not just a music producer or another human to me. You're my hero... someone I'm able to look up to💛 I love you with my whole heart and soul you make me generally so proud. Keep up with the fantastic work hope you have an amazing day as your personality 💕

    • @nevaehcastillo1133
      @nevaehcastillo1133 Před 5 lety +2

      Hugo same

    • @soupo5520
      @soupo5520 Před 5 lety +2

      I was fast as usaine bolt running the 100 m marathon

    • @shanecooke8802
      @shanecooke8802 Před 5 lety +2

      @@soupo5520 So, it took you 9.58 Seconds to click the notification? I'd say that's rather slow, like.. it sat there for pretty much 10 seconds before you noticied and clicked it... lol.. That's a terrible example.

  • @Khanh.Nguyen369
    @Khanh.Nguyen369 Před 3 lety

    Jesus. How are all these songs popping up right after my break up. Haha brutal.

  • @bres5010
    @bres5010 Před 2 lety +3

    We ALL DESERVE BETTER💯🙏💞

  • @j.d.product1ons292
    @j.d.product1ons292 Před 5 lety +18

    Love this mans music so munch because he talks about real stuff unlike most rappers nowadays

  • @exey1776
    @exey1776 Před 5 lety +237

    Don't you tell me this ain't what you want, oh yeah (oh yeah)
    We almost had it, we were almost there (almost)
    These apologies are overdue
    Now it's too late because I'm over you (over you, over you)
    Yeah she's over me, now I want her back
    I don't even wanna tell her that
    Maybe it's pride, maybe it's ego
    Maybe the fact is I'm still attached
    Maybe I do need to let her go
    Maybe I just need the time to grow
    'Cause she was so focused on lovin' me
    And I was focused on models and centerfolds
    Issues with commitment
    Issues with the distance
    Issues with these issues
    'Cause he's fucked up with his feelings
    Problems with emotions
    Problems with devotion
    And when he left her
    This is what she told him
    I deserve better
    You should've treated me better
    (I should've, I could've, I didn't)
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    So happy never ever ever
    Shot the bullet in my heart with that Beretta
    And I aimed it at you
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    Baby girl I know it's all my fault
    Broken promises, it's all my fault
    Oh I know it's all my fault
    I wish that it all worked out
    Don't you say, don't take it personal
    'Cause even though I left, it hurt to go
    Now those memories are on my mind
    And I still think about it all the time
    Yeah, yeah, yeah
    I know she's thinkin' bout him all the time
    All I did was try to make her mine
    All I did was try to show her
    Even if the rainfall the sun still gon' shine
    Maybe I shouldn't have let her in
    That's probably the worst thing I ever did
    'Cause I was so focused on lovin' her
    And she was focused on someone who never did
    Issues with commitment
    Issues with the distance
    Issues with the issues
    'Cause she's fucked up with her feelings
    Problems with no closure
    Probably the older
    And this is what he said
    When it was over
    I deserve better
    You should've treated me better
    (I should've, I could've, I didn't)
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    So happy never ever ever
    Shot the bullet in my heart with that Beretta
    And I aimed it at you
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    As humans we carry all this pain from our previous relationships
    And we unintentionally give it to the next person
    I know that hurt people hurt people
    So at the same time we also gotta be aware of that
    We inherit all this baggage from one person then dump it on the next person
    And the cycle just continues
    So if there's anything to take from this song
    Let it be to love openly, love hard, but most importantly
    Leave the past where it belongs

    • @970remy
      @970remy Před 4 lety

      1
      1oo
      Plp

    • @timothyshepard5405
      @timothyshepard5405 Před 4 lety +1

      Correction for the chorus;
      Instead of 'You act like they'll understand(was my fault)", it is;
      'You act like all of this was my fault'

    • @exey1776
      @exey1776 Před 4 lety

      @@timothyshepard5405 thanks ❤️❤️

  • @kalisantoyo3546
    @kalisantoyo3546 Před 4 měsíci

    First time of hearing this and man honestly I wouldn't wanna trade the world for the person I begged to stay and not go

  • @aprildull8126
    @aprildull8126 Před rokem

    How do I do this guys when I'm sooooo in love with 2 people and don't want to let the 1st one go everrrrrr??? Aughhhhh sooooooo hard!!! I never knew a heart could even have feelings for them both at once😪

  • @jessisander7314
    @jessisander7314 Před 5 lety +16

    Yasss!!!! I am shooketh to the core of my soul. This song is beautifully written. " hurt people..hurt people" like so many people need to hear this so they can realize and come to the closure they need! Thank you Mike for amazing music👏👏

    • @debraroy6510
      @debraroy6510 Před 5 lety

      Pow was a boy who was born with the same idea of the world in these pictures of a man who was the brother 9years of his father bound by his own girl instead headed for a car accident

  • @jamelia5160
    @jamelia5160 Před 5 lety +50

    Issues with these issues
    So true I can relate

    • @brandonreeves3003
      @brandonreeves3003 Před 4 lety

      I likes to know how u say someone cheated? Kind of confused as someone went off and got engaged

  • @sharilynnecrocker9937
    @sharilynnecrocker9937 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes, it seems that I will be just Great. We all deserve better. Amen

  • @lucid7555
    @lucid7555 Před rokem +4

    This isn’t about a break up but it is a heart break. My 7 year old dog- she was put down, I was right there I was so close to touching her, she looked at me and then closed her eyes- she was my dads dog, later that night while crying I walked into the living room and heard him crying from his room, it was so heart breaking. I’m sorry Belle- it was to late for a goodbye, tears were shed and a life was lost. RIP Belle

  • @BMIKEMUSIC
    @BMIKEMUSIC  Před 5 lety +131

    BLACK HEART GANG TILL WE DIE🖤 Let’s share this everywhere! Keep sharing it and let’s get it to 1 MILLION views! I love y’all so much thank you for riding with me🖤

  • @thaiiii_
    @thaiiii_ Před 5 lety +16

    I deserve better fr 💯💯

  • @jeffstacho
    @jeffstacho Před rokem

    This song cut so f****** deep. Hurts so bad to listen to this song, i swear. I f****** love it! haha

  • @goddess4303
    @goddess4303 Před rokem +1

    Your music saved me especially this song it made me walk away from a DV relationship thank you 4yrs ago I would have been dead if I stayed

  • @dylananthony
    @dylananthony Před 5 lety +11

    I have never clicked a notification so fast in my life oh my!
    Who else just finished watching?

    • @silvapoolplastering1730
      @silvapoolplastering1730 Před 5 lety

      Shawna Alice_xo Watching rn! Would you listen to my new song on my channel and sub or drop a comment if you like it?