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- čas přidán 26. 02. 2024
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Would you ever shame a person for their looks?
For this girl, it was like an instinct. When a heavier lady sat beside her on a bus, the gal caused a scene. She demanded the driver to remove the woman. That’s when an elderly man suddenly stood up for her, pointing out the girl’s vile behavior. But she only laughed at him. And soon, her actions would come back to haunt her.
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Do obese people get undeserved hate?
Is beauty more than just looks?
There is Beauty in any body type and inside every person the real Beauty is truly confidence
Yes they do. Everyone is different. We don't know why one person is built the way they are. Real beauty is on the inside. Looks change and fade over time.
Yeah. It’s so unfair. I’m not exactly a supermodel, but I’m not that overweight, and I have made a lot of progress in losing weight and being healthier if I do say so myself. But I still deal with insecurity about my body because of all these magazines that say you can only be beautiful if you look like a Barbie doll or something. I’m at least healthy and feel good on the inside regardless of what my body looks like. And it irks me that people of any size get discriminated for how they look, without anyone even knowing the whole story behind why they look a certain way. Maybe it runs in their family so they can’t help it, maybe they have a health condition or have to take a medication that has weight loss or gain as a side effect. And I may not be a doctor, but I’m pretty sure even skinny people can have health issues.
Yes they do and yes beauty is more then looks. You can still be heavy and attractive at the sametime.
I absolutely love this story,its so true that people treat plus sized people different,they only see the outer and not the inside,i know this because i am also a plus sized person,and people do judge me because of my appearance,but i do not let that define me and bystanders will be bystanders,my appearance does not define who i am and what i can do and cannot do,so i tell myself cheer up,there will be better days and please smilee,!thank you!
I was fat-shamed by my classmates. I lost a lot of weight too quickly which made me go Underweight. Then I started facing skinny-shaming. I felt the pain of both sizes within a span of some months. I started to understand how it feels to get judged. I finally defeated my fear of calories and I have started eating well. Now I am quite healthy and happy.
It is impossible for all people to like you, so always stay healthy and clean, stop overthinking, and listen to kind words
I'm so sorry to hear. It's damn if you do, damn if you don't situation. Can't pleased anyone sadly.
@@tmsaudwjfh True. Now I am prioritising myself more than other people's stupid opinions.
@@Mochiette Honestly I am a people pleaser type of person. But now I am more focused on pleasing myself which I used to ignore mostly.
@@userleftthisaccountforever I can understand. Self-love and self-care are also important!
"you should look at yourself in the mirror but be careful the reflection might scare you" made me laugh so hard 🤣
I am an obese woman. I know how much it hurts when you are being embarrassed by people for your size. Thanks for sharing the feelings of obese people.
pls take care of your health
@@raeyaeyou never know what someone is going through
@@raeyaeshe might be trying and even if she isn’t it’s ok
@@raeyaeHow about you take care of yourself? None of your business what they do or do not
How about just not being obese? I know it's not as easy as it's sounds, but it's still possible.
Fat shaming is bad (because we don't shame sickness)..and glorification or normalization of fat is also bad. Overweight is not beautiful and can't be physiologically healthy (tissues full of PUFAs, estrogen dominance, chronic inflammation...and sooner or later problems stemming from this).
Yeah and why do they make the fat person a girl or woman and a slim girl fat-shaming her and getting humiliated at the end so that the fat women can feel so good about themselves and continue to be FAT 😠 well guess what fat hens in reality it's the slim girls who are the most popular. Why can't they have a fat man or boy getting fat-shamed by a slim guy and getting HIM humiliated 😡
Exactly. We should not glorify obesity, but there are people who are naturally or genetically like this and we should help them and not reject them. Thanks for commenting @Eliska.Slukova 🙂
Plenty people are fat not because only of genetics, it's sometimes ailments and the medz they take cause the weight. Be kind always to others you don't know people's stories.
Being "fat" is almost never either a sickness nor a sign of one.
It's also impossible to shame someone who has no shame. While not the subject of this story, there are far too many people who entirely lack any sense of shame.
@@DramatizeMe.Specialrole of genetics in obesity and overweight is 10% and role of the environment like lifestyle, diet etc. are 90%. So if people are even genetically prone to obesity they will stop it with a proper environment.
Both fat shaming and skinny shaming are equally bad..just let people live
I have been slim and everyone told me to eat more. And I eat more and more and I didn't know where to stop. Now I'm fat. The same people who told me to eat more, tell me now that I eat too much. I told them to go and fugg them selfs. I'm fat so what. I'm happy and I love my self ❤
Physically beautiful people can still be ugly inside, which beats the outside, but internally beautiful people are beautiful in every way, regardless of the outside. GOD GAVE YOU YOUR BODY, LOVE IT!!!
Treat people the way you would like to be treated.
Being obese comes with health issues. The idea is to be healthy. Don't make rude comments. However if someone very overweight did want to sit next to me, I would politly say that I prefer some personal space. I get claustrophobic from big crowds too.
No, not all obese people have health issues. I have none at the age of 56, and I know a lot of slim people my age or younger with massive health issues.
Never judge someone based on their APPEARANCE, GENDER, RELIGION, or SKIN COLOR.
Beauty is having a beautiful heart. You might be the prettiest person in the world, but when you open your mouth and speak to others, what comes out of your mouth determines your real worth.
It's all about how you treat people. Always be kind as you don't know what the next person is going through. Nor do you know their story.
Excellent story and concept again DramatizeMe. ❤
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"Curvy"... Stop normalizing obesity.
Not saying that it's okay to shame anyone for their looks or for anything.
But saying "Curvy" isn't right either. With that you're normalizing something that's really unhealthy and dangerous.
I totally agree with you! I guess the new society trying to make everyone feel good in their body, either if it’s unhealthy and dangerous 🤦🏼♀️
You miss the point here, and this isn't normalizing obesity.
Exactly
Exactly what I thought. That girl is obese, not curvy. Doesn't make it right to fat shame, but let's not start being delusional.
🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ You guys are missing the point of this video. This video's not talking about accepting bodies of all sizes and shapes, whether it's unhealthy or not. It's talking about treating people with respect and kindness.
Beautiful message ❤
The good you do comes back to you. The evil you do remains with you. It always holds true.
Being indifferent can kill your dreams or your success, always treat people with kindness.❤️🇿🇦
True but being different always makes you Unique, and if people have a problem with it, they can suck it up,🇿🇦🇿🇼🖤✊🏿
By the way, since you're from South Africa, what's tribe? Are you from LIke Zulu, Xhosa, Ndebele, Sotho
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@@DramatizeMe.Special Your words mean a great deal to me. Thank you for that l.
Im with you.
Fat shaming is bad.
But she is not curvy, she is fat.
I do not shame her or smth but it is not healthy to be fat
Great story and acting!
" You should look yourself in the mirror, but be careful : the reflection could scare you " GENIUS
That old man cooked her 😂
IKR AND THE ACTOR LOOKED LIKE EINSTEIN
Omg, what did you do! U made me teary. It's true that beauty is inside not outside. No matter what size you are, u are still beautiful no matter what. That story hit me hard. We should value ourselves how we look. We shouldn't hate people for their appearance. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story. 😊
I ow!
Wow an incredible story with moral lesson loved it tnx from the Philippines with love 😊
Amazing content, thank you for sharing these awesome videos with us all.
Fat shaming is mean and cruel
Amazing video! ♥
Great channel and great actors 💙
This made me cry! So beautiful 🦋
I love your videos keep up the great work you have an excellent staff of actors
Body shaming is very common this kind of awareness video must for the society
But with videos that makes sense
@@rihannaajie3866 yes of course😎
Why does people have to hate her no matter what or who you are never ever shame them,discriminate them or critizise them because even yourself wasn't perfect and also you are perfect as you are❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I read of comments, and most are very hurtful. I used to be a size 28 but I am in size 20-18, I have arthritis in both of my knees when I was 13, my knees would dislocate and I was a lot thinner back then, in my early 30's my back became really bad, I was diagnosed with regenerative disc disease, and I have 2 protruding discs in my neck, plus nerve damage in my foot caused by a back spasm that traveled down my back into my foot. I used to be bed ridden for 3 years, cause the pain would be between levels 8-10 every single day 24\7. Sometimes the pain was so bad, I couldn't even get up to go to the bathroom cause of the pain. I have tried a lot of different diets, I got sick of how I felt, it was no life, so I started walking in my home every day for 10 mins, till I could walk for a full hour and swim on top of that. Then in 2018 I went back to college to become a Personal Trainer so I could help others, in 2022 I got a job working retail, but I had to quit in 2023, the pain was attacking my back, neck, thighs, hips, my abs and obliques. I have not been the same since, exercise is very hard for me right now, sometimes I have to use my walker or my wheelchair, people who say that obese people have no shame, or are lazy or eat too much, have never felt this type of pain before. If your body is physically in pain for a long time, it starts to cause emotional pain and mental pain. I never wanted to be obese, I never asked for this. I have been to so many doctors I cant tell you how many, they all have told me different things I have lost hope with the medical field, plus the insurance companies are a joke, I can't tell you how many times I have been denied treatment. Where is the compassion and empathy in these comments? You do not know what another person is going through till you have put yourself in their shoes.
Beautiful video! Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and it's what's in the inside that counts! Great performances from everyone and such a lovely video!
Its scientifically known that "fat and fit" is healthier than thin and sedentary. The actress looks pretty healthy compared to a lot of bigger people (she has healthy muscle tone, pretty good complexion, great posture, good energy, a beautiful shape. You can tell she eats a balanced diet and exercises well. She does NOT look like those who eat crap and rarely work out, and those people come in all sizes and all look weak and just unwell).
Trying to brainwash us that overweight is hot, attractive and appealing shouldn't be the agenda. Beauty is overemphasized. And what is inner beauty? That she is nice to you? Smiles at you? Pleases your senses in some way? because it is all about you right? What you like and what you dont. What about her health? For example I have to lose weight to be qualified for surgery and until then I have to live in physical pain. Those extra pounds were never comfortable. Who cares if they think I'm a nice person when I'm in pain? You are still glorifying physical looks by bringing in fashion, modeling and feeling attractive. Sure it helps those overweight woman to feel good about themselves but it doesn't make their body healthy. Of course nobody should be fat shamed but shouldn't be body worshiped either like the woman on the cover of the magazine. A picture doesn't show inner beauty. Even the meanest person can smile.
Exactly. I hope you get well soon. Take care
ok i had to share my experience after seeing some comments on how this video is normalizing obesity. Whereas i believe it urged people to treat everybody with compassion and not shame someone based on their outer appearance. Becz outer beauty changes from time to time just one simple accident or disease might change it whereas inner beauty remains the same. So yeah reposting the comment here :
How does bodyshaming someone is a motivation?? U think straight up bullying someone will do the thing,say for eg u got a cut on your finger and someone is shaming u for getting it and treat u differently and bully u saying its for your betterment.
Instead i believe in treating the wound rather than attacking the person.Ik wound and being fat isnt quite the same. You see ik u want the other person to be healthy but shaming them isnt right u can shame only a person who isnt close to you.When u see ur closed ones getting treated wrongly just becz of some weight,its hurtful. In my experience i had a friend at my school who was fat,she was bullied so much that she was never able to talk to anyone.But when i got to know her better she told me she was on various medications due to diseases which she had from birth.The line she told me shattered me she wanted to commit su*cide at the age of JUST 10.Her life has been difficult from the moment of her birth and in ur word the motivation of fatshaming just makes life of others so damn difficult.
I still vividly remember how my schoolmates treated her so badly,there were so many bad kids who beat and was impolite,rude but no people treat only the ones with different beauty so disrespectfully.I talked to that one student for just 10 mins only when she got an epilepsy in front of the whole school and everybody stayed away from her saying its disgusting.I was the only one to help her and thats when she talked to me for the first and last time.Later she changed the school. So yeah u can sugarcoat fatshaming as a motivation but at the end u cannot escape from the reality of how much it torments other and is even a crime in some countries. So know the power ur words and use it wisely.Reassuring and comforting words are far far better and motivating than shaming.
You know the person only not their story. So treat everybody with compassion.If u arent able to support them atleast don't tease them. In my case i was a fresher to that school and i knew that girl for just a month.I couldnt help her much as i was just 10 years myself.And now looking back i am able to understand how she felt more deeply. So maybe a 10 min of matured conversation is better than years of bodyshaming to understand what one is going through.
Hope ur reading this from somewhere my dear friend,be healthy and happy♥♥
Also kuddos for dramatizeMe for such a message
Loved this one. ❤😊
This was an awesome video. I’ve been body shamed. I lost 67 pounds and people I know said I was too skinny. I believe skinny shaming is as bad as fat shaming. I love these true stories. Thank you. P.S. my doctor is very happy I lost weight. All my numbers have gone down I.e. cholesterol, A1c, blood pressure, etc. etc..
Thanks for your content. I like A. Graham and I follow her. It’s good to know her story ❤. She’s very beautiful.
She maybe a model, but body-shaming a fellow passenger who happens to be very curvy, is uncalled for and rude!!! This kind gentleman offered the curvy girl a seat next to him and asked the mean one to reflect on how she treated everyone!!! She is now going to walk in the shoes of those she trod, figuratively and literally!!! Getting fired will be the only recourse if the agent is keen to get her out!!! Everyone was mocking her, reminding her of how she treated everyone!!! It will take some serious resolutions and apologies, but whether she can regain her slim self is another matter!! Hold tight, Dramatizers, the modeling boss gave her a chance!!! Ooh, what ending!!!!
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❤A beautiful lesson with ❤ helpful video❤
Morning to all the amazing team that was beautiful beauty has nothing to do with personality may you all enjoy a lovely day lot's of love ❤❤❤❤
Let's be honest here, the girl isn't curvy but indeed fat... There's a big difference between curvy and fat, there's nothing wrong with being fat if you're comfortable with your body and yes, it's wrong to body shame any person, whether fat or slim.
But calling fat girls curvy is an insult to curvy ladies because curvy ladies usually have slim bodies with wide curves like many South African women.
I’m So Sick Of
Body Shaming
Every Size
And shape And Height n Color Is Significant And Beautiful
Not All Chubby People Are
Unhealthy And Not All
Skinny People Are Healthy!!
Beauty Is In The Eyes 👀 Of The Beholder
Jehovah God n Jesus Christ
Loves All Human Creation
Regardless
You don't know a person's story. You don't know why they're overweight or why they're so unhealthy skinny.
Correctm @faithwisdom788. There are big people for genetic reasons, for example...
@@DramatizeMe.Special My mother in law is obese, my husband is obese and even though I am thin and my baby daughter was born thin unfortunaley she is obese too even though I am very careful with her diet. Genetics is not a simple matter.
When we eat, insulin gives the order to the fat cells to open and eat. Then the fat cells sends leptin to the brain so the brain knows that they are full. The brain cells READS leptin and then the brain sends Leptin back to the fat cells. Leptin gives order to the fat cells to open and empty themselves. To do so fat cells produce ADIPONECTIN.
But in my family brain cells DON'T READ LEPTIN. So leptin don't go back to the fat cells. The fat cells don't get empty. So the next time they will eat the fat cells becomes larger and that causes inflammation inside the fat cells. Then fluent retention so the water can go inside the fat cells and stop inflammation. But the water inside the fat cells mixes with fat and become fat too creating more inflammation. So you get fat even if you drink water. It's a loop that never stops. No matter how hard you are on diet you can't quit drinking water, you can't stop inflammation. Omega 3 does a little help but not any solution.
In the meanwhile fat cells produce constanlty Leptin to notify the brain. Leptin should be between 5-11 on normal people. My husband's is 73 and my daughters is 36. I am afraid of her kidneys because she only has drops of urine.
Also your brain don't know that you eat so to protect you from starvation your body goes into starvation mode meaning you storage everything you eat and your metabolism is getting very low making you more fatter.
For five years major pharma companies tried to get the licence from the World Health Organization to make a pill of ADIPONECTIN to bypass the problem. If you get Adiponectin the fat cells can open and get empty so no more inflammation even though you are just prone to get fat because you are in starvation mode by your brain. Unfortunately World Health Organization said NO with a pityful excuss that they don't know the complication of that pill but in reality it's because everyone can take that pill and eat as much as they want and not become fat.
I don't hope for my family to loose weight any more but only to stop gaining more weight.
So now you know that it's not than a 10% simple prone to get fat on many cases. It's 90% severe genetically obesity.
From a girl who got asked multiple times if she's pregnant, got asked if I was pregnant with a boy or a girl , got asked how far along I am with my pregnancy
Thanks for this video ❤
Yup like seriously annoying. I can't relate to this as a skinny person but I still doesn't like it when they shame people like that. I have a teacher that is like a mother to me. She and I know each other ever since I was little so it hurts me to see other people who is her weight getting body shame.
Finally the Actors are not anonymous! It is so so great!
Great fantastic film,
Simple wonderful , yet full of human touch.
Wish you best in future ventures.
Mukund
Loved the comeback from the Gentleman on the bus to the rude young woman. Soon shut her up.
Body shaming is another serious issue, apart from discrimination, encountered in society.
Great video beauty comes in every shape and size and not everyone can lose or gain weight for a number of reasons nature is always going to make big people and little people the only way to end body shaming is to accept people for who they are and the word "fat" shouldn't be derogatory it should be objective that word is only pejorative when you allow people to make you feel like your body type makes you less of a person no matter what your body type is own it and the beauty that counts is on the inside
Wise words, @robbiescheid4127. We are very grateful that you shared them...
Great video!
I was once an overweight person by only +8kg, don't lead obesity in positive ways there's is nothing good with too much body fat everbody needs to be in a perfect weight,shape,it's for our own health it is our responsibility 😊
As myself an obese girl i am saying this ,, it doesn't mean i accept it or appreciating it because i know how many health problem i am going through biggest one that whenever i eat i felt like i cant breathe any many other health issues and i cant help to lose my weight no matter how much i try cause its a gentical problem that i got from my father side family. its just one suggestion please dont normalize obesity its dangerous
1000 views in 20 minutes. it's just a masterpiece! Thank you, "Dramatize me" team!
Yaiiiii, @kudratullaevameleknur . We are very happy for that. Thanks a lot! 🤗🎉
What people don't know is, many obese people get fat since they were a child, and really its not their fault, yes its the parents fault for allowing their child to turn obese. By the time they turn into adult it will be harder for them to lose weight because their metabolism is not used to burning fat, compared to those who didn't grow up obese. Also all those extra skin will be very hard to get rid off when they do lose weight because its been there since they were a child.
I know this because me and my older brother were really fat when we were kids, but I managed to lose weight earlier because I was diagnosed with respiratory disease at 4 year old which causes me to lose weight drastically, meanwhile my brother grew up obese and my parents didn't even care about exercise. Its much harder for him to lose weight now because he need to exercise thrice as hard compared to me.
Even after losing weight I still have all these lose skin and scratch mark from being fat as a child. I'm 175cm tall and weights 75kg now.
8:59 she looks like younger Adriana Lima and older Megan Fox
I think this episode is a great example of Anastasia's acting range. The inhumane cruelty her character displayed was absolutely convincing. Despite being gifted with beauty herself, I can only imagine the actor would never treat anyone like that in real-life. This must have been a reach for her., as convincing as it was. Great actress. I hope Dramatizeme features her often.
Wowww man , what an inspirational story
We need models of all shapes and sizes. Nothing is more frustrating when shopping for clothing that is cut for plus size but they show it on a very thin model. You can't tell how it will fit. I am so grateful for plus size models. ❤❤❤
Looks aren’t everything we’re all beautiful inside and out
Wdym beauty is in the inside?? She is beautiful both inside and outside❤❤❤
All beautiful actresses of dramatizeMe channel.
Never judge because the story on the inside may be the most beautiful tale e er written
I like this video ❤❤❤ put subtitle all video thank you so much ❤❤❤❤
Inner beauty will always be the most beautiful of all ❤❤❤❤
What a lovely video. I can only agree. You have no control over your hormones, your gender, your size, your intelligence , skin color, race. No one shall ever be judged by things, they have no control of. But you always will have the control to chose if you are being an "ace" or not....
Lovely story & that Tori Mitchell she's a good, talented, beautiful actress i love watching all her videos here @dramatizeme ❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️
She was completely inappropriate in how the model lady handled it, but overweight people need to buy 2 seats if necessary. You gotta realize that no one wants to be squished up against you. Other people have the right to have the full seat they paid for.
Lovely story.
You must not fat shamed anyone if do take a look at yourself first ,true beauty comes from within
Curvy ladies are beautiful too! If we know how to interpret beauty in others, physical or psychical aspect should not be a problem.
No one deserves to be bullied for any reason. There’s no reason for mean behavior. Ever.
I believe that the big lady was wrong for just barging onto the seat not being considerate of the other girl. However the model took it too far... Its an all too common situation unfortunately... I know its from another perspective tho its not a good idea to keep shaming...
Excellent ❤❤❤❤
Love this❤
Being overweight is not a nightmare,fat shaming should be called criminal hazing,be a freedom fighter like Keanu Reeves
God made us different but we are all beautiful inside and out. .
But God doesn't make us fat that's our doing like this fat mama here
Nice story
Tetiana❤ i Love your videos ❤
BEST LESSON EVER 😁 RESPECT TO ALL LIVES
Everyone regardless of their size look beautiful. But being obese might lead to health complications .
That's true, but it's no reason to reject someone @XTG3PQR
I love it!!!!!!
BRAVO!!!!!!
One of the best video
This is a good video as a curvy girl I really need this video there are different types of curvy girls there are chubby and their are thick and last but not least slim
I wasn't expecting the boss girl to be sure nice and wise.
Idk how I feel about this but I feel like their both wrong cause your responsible for your weight and the way you act
It is not fair eat huge food then you are supposed to support for being over eating . It is not good excuse. Please don’t normalize obesity
I do, it's not complicated too, and was an idea that can restart memory in a little bit days of a life
That dream really did wake her up.
0:31 why does she look like my art teacher
Fat Shaming someone might just be a joke for you but for others, it might be inexplicable humiliation 🔪
I agree with beauty is in the inside. I’ve always noticed that there were many people on the thicker side who were much more kind and caring than those who were on the thinner side. Of course not all, but many.
Also remember, just being slim and living a healthy life does NOT mean you will be healthy. Your thoughts and stress level play a huge role too
This is so sweet!
Watching from Europe 🎉
When you body shame you exploit your insecurity
omg. She is gorgeous! Curvy people are beautiful
I really wish it was this easy being fat. I'm definitely fat, but I've also recently started to get myself healthy again. But depression is real and is something I have to fight everyday with my weight
I never really understood why people shame people because of their weight. Some of my friends are overweight but they do a lot to keep fit. They eat healthy food and have regular physical activity. But the thing is hormones. I just hate when some people do not understand that.