She broken because she chose someone who doesn't value her. Everybody is responsible for their own destiny. If this guy was some nice guy who sent her flowers and treated her special she might not even be into him. Its people own fault for their bad taste.
@@alyssag.5758 It's called "tough love". Sometimes, the truth hurts. Judge wasn't being mean to her. She wanted to confront the young lady with the truth so that she would not feel obligated to carry on being less and accepting less than what she's capable of. Wisdom spares no feelings.
You're out with your woman, but you dont notice she's in a fight being pistol whipped by a man??? That would have been the end for me. I need my man to protect me.
Moni Que W what is he supposed to do to a man with a gun if he aint strapped. What abt women with kids carrying themselves in a way that they wouldnt be in a brawl knowing u got kids at home... men should protect their women but some women put themselves in situations their man cant protect them from. Only thing he could’ve done is protect her from getting in the fight in the first place. She wouldve gotten that man smoked if he confronted the gun man without his. He wouldve been in the ground trying to defend a woman that gotten him killed. The streets is ruthless. Yall got shit fucked up
The thing is you don't get to dictate when or how any man choses to defend or protect THEIR woman, or whether a woman should feel her man ought to protect her either. If you choose to watch your women get beat upside her head under any circumstance... that is your business & good luck with that, but how you feel & chose to govern your relationships has no power over anybody else's.... You got shit fucked up
She seems to have a lot of nervous energy and no self-confidence. I felt bad when the judge yelled at her and how she apologized after. God be with her.
Yep, peeped that energy. Felt bad as well, she probably was not even trying to be rude but it's like mouth diarrhea when you have social anxiety. Ur just rushing to get all your jumbled thoughts out to be heard.
I felt bad as well. It sounded like a person yelling at a dog who wet the carpet. There was a level of cruelty to it. The judge could have been more respectful. She didn't have that level of anger towards the man's reckless sexual behavior.
I felt bad for her. I think when she with him she has no real voice so she had an opportunity to finally speak up without being pushed to the side I have a man that tells me to shut up ot I sou d stupid or dumb. So I never really say how I feel. But the tables have turned. Cause now I say nothing. I dont argue I just do me, I waste no energy on non sense becuase he cant hold a conversation. Done with man childs.. and he has done a 360. Becuase I change my level of worth.
Wow, "I feel like I'm losing myself to love him." If that is not a soul-crushing statement then I don't know what is. The sad part is she has kids with him.
@@youngodyssey16 He has hurt her beyond recognition. She hates to start over, but her heart isn't truly there. When she said that she lost herself loving him... She gave her all and he took it for granted. Kinda like a man paying all the bills and taking care of his woman to find out she's screwing his family, his friends, and robbed his bank account while he passed up so many other women that he could have been with. By the time she began seeking someone else. She was shattered and heartbroken. She is looking for someone to love her. He is looking for someone to lay with. He seems to be scarred, too. Her leaving him behind in the beginning of the relationship created a monster. They are both dealing with their decisions or inconsiderate behaviors.
I feel so bad for the girl. When judge toler was yelling at her you can tell by her body language she was very uncomfortable and embarrassed. I hope she can find a good man that can help her overcome her insecurities!
Yeah, I cringed when the judge did that. It was like a person yelling at a dog that wet the carpet. There was a level of cruelty to it. The judge wasn't even that angry with the man's reckless sexual behavior.
I'm a guy and I felt the same way.. I'm sure he is blowing money on these women out here. The Judge should have given that same energy to the guy after he let her get pistol whipped.
You can see she’s hurt and insecure. I feel so bad for her and just want to give her a hug. She’s gorgeous and deserves all the happiness in the world. I hope she gets it together. Honestly
@@alyssag.5758 but at the end of the day that was a good advice that she give to these young people but at the end of the day she need to stop chasing nothing young man that really don't want her knew that he was a not a good person she knew he was about was she out with him he want to get mad because other man entertaining her but why the way you want to get mad for you did your thing hello
@Ice i think judge is using reverse psychology because nobody ever runs when she says so bout when she tells them to stay with a bum they end up breaking up
Yeah the judge screamed on her like people do a dog when they wet the carpet. I wish she would have showed the woman some compassion. She wasn't even that angry with the man for his reckless sexual behavior.
@@alyssag.5758 My heart hurts for this young woman. I will be praying for her. I don't know her, but God does. I'm praying she will meet a young man who will love, honor, and cherish her. This young man is lost. He needs God in his life. He doesn't know how to treat a woman with respect. So sad he wasn't raised with morals and respect for the mother of his children.🙏😪
So glad she did. The judge screamed on her interrupting. Wish the judge would have been like sis you can do better. You deserve to be treated with respect. Really seemed like the woman judge needed some compassion. The bags under her eyes were insane. She seemed emotionally drained.
I think Judge Toler missed the pain in her eyes, because she was talking so much. She is broken by him. I am happy she has sense enough to leave now. It took 9 years and a couple of babies. But she can make it.
@@10pickens me too I already do miss her but she has some good advice to these young people but I really do feel bad for the young lady I really do she don't need to deal with him it's a lot of men out there he want to get mad because men entertaining her don't get mad get glad cuz you was doing your two step home boy
I hate the way the judge yelled at her. You asked a question while she was talking and then got mad at her for answering your question when you asked. You don't ask a question and continue to talk. Plus you can clearly see that girl has no self esteem at all. She looked like a whipped dog or a victim of abuse.
@@Richard-Alex1991 if that's the case, she needs to force that standard on both people. That dude interrupted that young lady so many times, and Judge barely said anything.
@@Richard-Alex1991 You do have to respect the courtroom, however the way she talks to some of these people would never work in a real courtroom. Most people don't seem to understand that judges are also have to respect the litigant and they can be reprimanded for their conduct as well. There have been judges removed from the bench for that reason. She sometimes is way to hard on the women that come to her courtroom. I am not sure if its because she does not have daughters, which can sometimes make women stick up for men more. Either way it is wrong to beat down someone that is clearly beat down already. What good does that do. What if that women was hanging on to her last bit of self worth and that verbal belittling pushed her over the edge.
@@TruValidity You are so correct. It would not have been so bad if she keeps that same energy with all people that come to her courtroom or heck even if she had kept that same energy during this whole case with both litigants.
I've noticed that Judge Toler tends to be lax when men cheat. She'll scream on a woman for interrupting but I've seen episodes where's she's barely bats an eye at cheating. Cheating seems way more destructive then interrupting.
@@alyssag.5758 I agree like she was yelling at her for talking and didn't realize that she is so broken look how she hung her head and homeboys was just over there chilling.
@@krazychilel yeah it reminded me of the way you yell at a dog for wetting the carpet. I think Judge Toler could have spoken to her more respectfully. she's cleary emotionally damaged and immediately apologized. She didn't act that way when Rolling Ray and his crew were acting a fool. Why treat this woman like that?
@@alyssag.5758 that's exactly who came to mind that episode was annoying as f**k and she was laughing at the bullshit. I hope she follows up with her or at least get her help.
@@thewise2443 right people slow, you on here for help but almost every time judge spoke she cut her off assuming she knew the full question, and would start to answer...I get it, she's broken, but humble yourself, shut up , and take heed to the wisdom you sought out!
So true but most people do this. Few people are trying to provide a "proper structure" for their kids before having them. A lot of people are living day to day and not looking into the future.
sullivancountydays he could’ve banged her mom I wouldn’t give a shit but having unprotected sex when you have a condom on hand proves he don’t care about himself or her
I'm shocked the judge didn't tell her to bounce. She can do so much better. Maybe she should have less male friends but that doesn't compare to him having sex with her other girls.
My heart goes out to this sister, I hope shes in a better place now and has gained her confidence and self esteem back. Such a beautiful young lady, I hope she let him go.
Why did the judge treat her so badly, the girl was sweet and yes she has her issues but I’ve seen worse people in the show and she doesn’t do shit. “That’s probably one of his problems with you” seriously, this man dragged her through the dirt. If this what she doing I ain’t watching
Tia Enriquez I totally agree and was rather appalled to her reaction to the girl...I think the girl is one of the better people on the show...her timidity is event
She suffers from low self esteem so that’s why she lets him do whatever. When a low moral dude knows a woman doesn’t have confidence in herself he will run all over her without caring. You would think a man would show respect to the mother of his children because he wants her to be the best her for the kids sake but he’s the product of a low moral environment and doesn’t know any better
She definitely has no self esteem. You saw the look on her face when Judge Toler was screaming on her for interrupting. She looked like she was about to go crawl into a corner.
@Love Trump I would love to agree with you but you're being unfair to the young man. If you listened keenly you would have heard when he said she has cheated on him several times during the earlier stage of their relationship and her mother also stated that she isn't a saint. With that said it should be clear to you that self esteem is not this girl's problem. The problem is trust, neither of them trust each other and cannot be trusted. That's a recipe for fail relationship.
Well she is the one who is with him throughout all the cheating. He keeps breaking her heart and has no regard of her emotions whatsoever. So yeah Judge Toler had to get through her.
I felt that too. She had evidence in a folder and wasn't given the time to even present it. Judge Lynn was very off point, this woman wasn't even going off like some other previous guests.
I think, maybe the Judge left the dude out because she knew there was no getting through to him/he wouldn't change? She focused on the woman because she was the only one who had her head on somewhat right.... and the Judge thought she might be able to save her, at least in the future relationships? But that's just what I thought, though.
My wife and I was saying the same thing last night. Judge Lynn barely even fussed at him and even when she was talking it was a little hard to follow. She may be working too much. This one was off. Poor girl
I hope this sister is able to heal herself emotionally and mentally, and is strong enough to move on. I hope she finds the love, confidence, and strength in herself that she needs to do so.
T Baby My thought exactly... When she bowed her head when the Judge went in on her. I was just like damn... like she being obedient. She probably suffered from something in her life...
They're in their early 20s and already been together for 9 years. I wonder if they finished school. Its sad our young people playing these sex games and putting themselves in these drama situations but have nothing for themselves. Neither one is grown up. Babies having babies playing house
She is smart but with extremely low self esteem. People protect ur little girls from low self esteem or else this is what happens to them when they grow up. It starts in the mind.
Janeene Davis omg I did not like the way she came at her.. like I’ve seem extremely rude ppl on this show and never seen her react like that towards them
@@raqui174 ya didn't seen the deleted scenes. I love her to death but in real life I tell her to be quiet and just listen but she doesn't know how. He has did messed up stuff. But she really has done stuff almost as bad. I asked them to separate years ago. But they still going but doing alot better
Dang, I can truely hear the hurt in her voice. She is broken and I pray she gains some strength, find herself and move on. I wish her some peace and happiness. I'm not going to lie, I felt bad when the judge went in on her. Dang judge, the girl is already feeling shity enough😬
beautyfyewitAlaina B the judge asked her question and kept talking but then when the girl tried to answer her question she went in on her because she tried to answer her question. If she has to respect the judge the judge should also go on on the boy because he repeatedly interrupted this young lady while she tried to explain her side of the story.
@@thatgirlnae7922 Right, I think the Judge was unfair. She should have held them both accountable on their wrongs. But the girl was just trying to explain herself. Then she belittle her by saying, see why he wont marry you or put a ring on it. Because you don't know how to listen... what the heck smh He cheating, slept with her friend, and allowed her to get pistol whipped and beat up.
Awww bless her she looks so full of love and innocence. I hope one day she can boost her self esteem, confidence and self love up to get all the good that she deserves.👸🏾👸🏾 ❤❤❤ She reminds me so much of me when i was younger. God bless her ❤
Glad she left him in the end. He brings nothing to the table. Judge was screaming on her for interrupting but wasn't even that angry about his reckless sexual behavior.
So y'all really gonna judge someone base on their looks and not their actions? Ah pretty boy will do the same to you too honey so I don't get that logic lol. Tbh y'all ain't all that yourselfs so why talk about a man's looks?
These 2 young people demonstrate how important it is to have a father in the home. The rise of fatherlessness in America produces these tragic storylines. So damn sad.... breaks my heart every time.
High school sweet hearts almost never last ... Everyone that I knew from high school that was dating/getting married/having kids, NONE OF THEM are still together... The sad reality is, you fall in love with someone that hasn't even found themselves yet,which means they dont "love themselves" because they dont know how to ... If u cant love yourself, how can u love someone else ...?
Why was a Judge Toler so harsh to this young lady but not correct the man when he doesn’t protect the mother of his child. She is defeated and needs advice not to be torn down by the woman who is supposed to support her.
Exactly me too she doesn't deserve that he want to get mad because all men want her don't get mad you was doing your own thing hello I don't understand why these women had to put up with him I don't understand why she married him he aint all that cute
Everybody was saying that the Judge was too hard on the young lady and I said she wasn't. I finished watching the entire video and she never yelled at the young lady at all. The Judge was admonishing her like any mother would do to her child. The Judge was quite gentle with her. You people need to learn the difference between scolding and yelling.
When he told her that if she had did what he did to her with the pregnancy scare, she should have left then. He isn't shit. I'm glad she left him though. It seems her eyes were open, and she listened to some of the advice Judge Lynn gave (but she could have kept that "don't interrupt me while I'm talking" mess as if her show hasn't been a circus damn near all season). That dude didn't learn anything and will go on to continuing having out of wedlock babies and not respecting his body by fucking anything with a pulse. STDs and definitely HIV is real.
I was surprised by her screaming on her for interrupting. I've seen way worse this season i.e. Rolling Ray episode and the judge said nothing. The judge is not consistent.
Because that rolling ray was some bs. I think she deciphers bs and does not place that much energy into it. She knew this girl got into something very young and wants to help her thagt is why she was so hard on her.
Exactly they had kids young. Wanted to leave home immediately and life has stressed them. They went through alot to get there. So that's why his hair ain't cut and they stressed out
I love Judge Lyn Toler. She should have never left divorce court. She doesn't just deal with a couple's issue she addresses their soul. She gets into the heart and starts the healing from inside out.
This is why I tell my son, nobody in their right mind should be thinking about marriage or kids before they're 25. And then only if you can comfortably take care of yourself.
Alyssa Gillespie I think the judge is dead but the guy just wouldn’t listen you can’t force people to listen he admitted everything you did so there’s no need to harp on what he did he know he was a bad guy the judge doesn’t waste her time on people who refuse to listen or learn
I didn't appreciate Judge's "That's probably one of his problems with you" comment. The man is trash her talking over him is the least of their problems, this woman was pistol whipped and her man did nothing to help or defend her so miss me with what his problem is.
That’s deep-she said she feel like she is loosing herself to love him! This young lady will be dead before her time if she does not cut this trash loose!
She has no self esteem. It would have been nice for the judge to hold him accountable for his reckless sexual behavior. She went off on the wife for interrupting but wasn't as angry by something way more dangerous, unprotected reckless sex.
I felt bad when the judge was screaming on her. She looked at the floor in shame. She seems to be very sensitive and lack self esteem. Why else was she with a man who repeatedly cheated. He had the nerve to say I just received oral sex. Wtf? he would be pissed if his girl did that.
@@alyssag.5758 yes me too I think she was talking so much because she finally had someone listening to her. Then judge Toler just start going in on her
Ummmmmm whyyy tf was she going in on the girl🙄🙄🙄 the dude was clearly the dirty no cares and worries cheating DUSTY. No morals. No regrets😩😩no empathy...i aint saying she perfect but she should have gave his DUSTY ass this same energy. How u asking her questions and mad she is answering😭😭tf....judge was real wack for this. Oan someone found their FB AND THEY'RE STILL TOGETHER AND WERE TELLING PPL HOW MUCH $$ THEY MADE🙄🙄🙄🤦🤦😩😩
@@pakmillionhustles7274 they really are. I wish ya didn't go on this shh. They got you bring the worse man on the planet. Ya should've equally spoke. But I love you didn't want to do that
Judge Lynn was wrong this episode. She is usually on point but yelled at the girl for "not listening " and didn't say boo about his constant cheating. Should have told her to RUN and find herself so she can be the best mother her children deserve.
He has felt guilty this show was done years after all instances. But like her mom said they did tit for tat. Every thinks he's wrong but they both have done Hella wrong to one another
I wish this beautiful young woman the best. Make 2020 your year. A better YOU will attract better people in your life. But work on yourself, read that book and learn your patterns. No more children for now peace and blessings and much love
Yeah Judge Lynn was screaming on her for interrupting. Interrupting isn't good but it doesn't compare to cheating on your spouse and possibly getting someone pregnant. Seems like the Judge got super pissed about the wrong things.
While she shouldn't have interrupted her, coming down on her that hard wasn't warranted, especially when Ma'Lik interrupted that young woman several times and the judge barely said anything. If you want to demand that respect, demand that respect for your litigants as well.
TruValidity part of me feels like Judge Lynn yells at people that are worth her time. Meaning she just feels like no matter what he’s not gonna change and he’s gonna be who he is no matter what, but she probably felt like the girl would change with the right words. She was a little over the top with it but the girl needed a reality check in all honesty
This episode literally made me tear up. I hate seeing this young black woman allow someone to treat her so disrespectfully over & over again. It’s just so sad to me. I doubt she has any good role models in her life so it’s probably just an endless cycle of bad choices & mental abuse... I wish this young lady the best. I hope her self esteem improves & she realizes her true value
He’s so disgusting that I’m not even questioning his character or integrity. I’m questioning hers. She definitely needs self esteem. This is very very sad.
something he said that got me was when he said he was tired of being head over heels for her and getting cheated on. guys who go through things like this become cold and cheat with whoever the can, sister cousin mama whoever
I know how she felt when she made the statement about losing herself loving him. She is shattered and there is no mending in this union. They can separate or they can accept and keep going. He may have been hurt because she had friends, but at what cost do you make a hell for your woman and your kids? When love hurts, you must find a way to remove that thorn.
He’s cute and I can see how he’s stressing her out smh..he’s not in love with her but he definitely cares about her..they can’t keep going like this and their history will never die they’ll always bring it back up and fight over it..this won’t work it’s over
I have read some of these comments and I must say I realised how one sided these comments are when the girl isn't as innocent as y'all making her seem. Her own mother acknowledged that she's no saint which speaks volume about who she is. The guy also stated that she cheated several times during the earlier period of their relationship and yet she's being portrayed as the victim 🧐🤔. My judgement is as Judge Lynn's and her mom's judgement they can't expect tit for tat will give them a stable committed relationship. She can't behave careless and expect him or any other guy to treat her like a wife much more make her wife. The same applies to the guy he needs to grow up and be responsible, respectful and mature. He needs to zip it up and stay committed to one woman especially with all these loose STDs walking around looking all cute and sexy.
@@Enriquez2222 just like they both acknowledged that they weren't together when he slept with her friend. Therefore he didn't cheat on her at that time. He stated clearly she cheated several times and it was because of how she treated him with her cheating way that's what pushed him into cheating. We can all choose a side but the reality is they are too toxic for each other and the environment they created for the children has ☠☠☠☠☠☠☠ mark all over it.
Melli Berry he said emotional cheating which is also bad but at least she ain’t out here getting pregnant by randoms. I just didn’t like how the judge dismissed him and sighed into her
“I think that folks these days aren’t as afraid of getting pregnant” .... that’s these women judge toler 😭. They find out they pregnant by a guy they think is cute and throw a parade.... knowing damn well that guy prolly not gon do nothing for u or that baby 😩
It was sad how she kept looking down instead of looking up at the judge. She seems broken..
Yeah the look on her face when the judge was screaming on her was heartbreaking. She has no self esteem. I wonder if she was abused as a child.
What Judge Toler didn't pick up on.is that this young lady seems to be very anxious, hence the very quick answers which comes across as over talking.
@@beebee0417 agreed. She wasn't being belligerent or disrespectful. Judge Toler was cruel for no reason.
She broken because she chose someone who doesn't value her. Everybody is responsible for their own destiny. If this guy was some nice guy who sent her flowers and treated her special she might not even be into him. Its people own fault for their bad taste.
@@alyssag.5758 It's called "tough love". Sometimes, the truth hurts. Judge wasn't being mean to her. She wanted to confront the young lady with the truth so that she would not feel obligated to carry on being less and accepting less than what she's capable of. Wisdom spares no feelings.
You're out with your woman, but you dont notice she's in a fight being pistol whipped by a man???
That would have been the end for me. I need my man to protect me.
Moni Que W what is he supposed to do to a man with a gun if he aint strapped. What abt women with kids carrying themselves in a way that they wouldnt be in a brawl knowing u got kids at home...
men should protect their women but some women put themselves in situations their man cant protect them from. Only thing he could’ve done is protect her from getting in the fight in the first place. She wouldve gotten that man smoked if he confronted the gun man without his. He wouldve been in the ground trying to defend a woman that gotten him killed. The streets is ruthless.
Yall got shit fucked up
Period
The thing is you don't get to dictate when or how any man choses to defend or protect THEIR woman, or whether a woman should feel her man ought to protect her either. If you choose to watch your women get beat upside her head under any circumstance... that is your business & good luck with that, but how you feel & chose to govern your relationships has no power over anybody else's....
You got shit fucked up
Listen that should have been it. Atleast call the cops or something. Not pretend she not getting beat. He seems weak
Moni Que W not pistol whipped tho😂 no but seriously that was some messed up bitch boy behavior. I would have been done too, like thats sad..
She seems to have a lot of nervous energy and no self-confidence. I felt bad when the judge yelled at her and how she apologized after. God be with her.
Girlll somebody on here found their fb and they still together and the dude was on there laughin and ppl asking what they got paid😩😩😩😩😩
Im usually happy when Judge Lynn puts people in their places but this time it felt very painful. She didn't deserve all that
Yep, peeped that energy. Felt bad as well, she probably was not even trying to be rude but it's like mouth diarrhea when you have social anxiety. Ur just rushing to get all your jumbled thoughts out to be heard.
I felt bad as well. It sounded like a person yelling at a dog who wet the carpet. There was a level of cruelty to it. The judge could have been more respectful. She didn't have that level of anger towards the man's reckless sexual behavior.
I felt bad for her. I think when she with him she has no real voice so she had an opportunity to finally speak up without being pushed to the side I have a man that tells me to shut up ot I sou d stupid or dumb. So I never really say how I feel. But the tables have turned. Cause now I say nothing. I dont argue I just do me, I waste no energy on non sense becuase he cant hold a conversation. Done with man childs.. and he has done a 360. Becuase I change my level of worth.
Wow, "I feel like I'm losing myself to love him." If that is not a soul-crushing statement then I don't know what is. The sad part is she has kids with him.
She was talking on a phone with a dude telling him that she love you idk
@@youngodyssey16 He has hurt her beyond recognition. She hates to start over, but her heart isn't truly there. When she said that she lost herself loving him... She gave her all and he took it for granted. Kinda like a man paying all the bills and taking care of his woman to find out she's screwing his family, his friends, and robbed his bank account while he passed up so many other women that he could have been with. By the time she began seeking someone else. She was shattered and heartbroken. She is looking for someone to love her. He is looking for someone to lay with. He seems to be scarred, too. Her leaving him behind in the beginning of the relationship created a monster. They are both dealing with their decisions or inconsiderate behaviors.
@@nookieham2798 let me watch this episode again cause I need to see if he is a B student
@@nookieham2798 after I heard he lies and cheats and s3x with a friend of mines lol I was like and she lose herself to love him….that is a rap
@@nookieham2798 to be fair she stayed cause she was doing her too no I might be a fool 😂
Every time Nick helps Judge Toler off the bench I tingle - such a gentleman ! I know he is being paid but I love to see it !
And he's good looking.
Omg!!! Me too... I thought I was the only one😍
lol @ you tingle.
Melts my heart everytime , such a gentleman !😍
Same here! Them looks, that suit...👔👞🎩
I feel so bad for the girl. When judge toler was yelling at her you can tell by her body language she was very uncomfortable and embarrassed. I hope she can find a good man that can help her overcome her insecurities!
Yeah, I cringed when the judge did that. It was like a person yelling at a dog that wet the carpet. There was a level of cruelty to it. The judge wasn't even that angry with the man's reckless sexual behavior.
Wow
Damn smh i like judge toler but i hate when she kind of lets the men get off easier then the WOMAN.
@@alyssag.5758 exactly smh sad
I'm a guy and I felt the same way.. I'm sure he is blowing money on these women out here. The Judge should have given that same energy to the guy after he let her get pistol whipped.
You can see she’s hurt and insecure. I feel so bad for her and just want to give her a hug. She’s gorgeous and deserves all the happiness in the world. I hope she gets it together. Honestly
Yeah when the judge was screaming on her for interrupting she filled with shame.
@@alyssag.5758 but at the end of the day that was a good advice that she give to these young people but at the end of the day she need to stop chasing nothing young man that really don't want her knew that he was a not a good person she knew he was about was she out with him he want to get mad because other man entertaining her but why the way you want to get mad for you did your thing hello
She looks like 44 because she is stressed out over foolishness and irrational behaviour.
stress will definitely age you before your time.
hi
God know what happened to these people
@Ice i think judge is using reverse psychology because nobody ever runs when she says so bout when she tells them to stay with a bum they end up breaking up
That girl probably looks like her mother. She doesn't look 44. You probably look like a damn silverback. You people kill me.
Judge Toler was so harsh with her. I felt so sorry for this young woman. I wanted to give her a hug. You could tell the young woman was so hurt.♥️🙏
Yeeaa. But some chics NEED that..and she was one of em!! It will only make her better HOPEFULLY!!
Yeah the judge screamed on her like people do a dog when they wet the carpet. I wish she would have showed the woman some compassion. She wasn't even that angry with the man for his reckless sexual behavior.
@KiddRogers There's a difference between being hard on someone and cruel. I thought Judge Toler's treatment of her was unfair.
I agree...she needed a hug, but I think the harshness may have gotten through to her.
@@alyssag.5758 My heart hurts for this young woman. I will be praying for her. I don't know her, but God does. I'm praying she will meet a young man who will love, honor, and cherish her. This young man is lost. He needs God in his life. He doesn't know how to treat a woman with respect. So sad he wasn't raised with morals and respect for the mother of his children.🙏😪
She seems broken on so many levels , so sad .
Aïss GAYE ikr
That bum is aging her.... LEAVE SIS!
So glad she did. The judge screamed on her interrupting. Wish the judge would have been like sis you can do better. You deserve to be treated with respect. Really seemed like the woman judge needed some compassion. The bags under her eyes were insane. She seemed emotionally drained.
How is he a bum smh
She does look 40
He a bum please explain
He doesn't want her. She looks like she's had a nervous breakdown.
Poor baby.
Sharon Jackson ikr
@@cynthiakila1161
I think the judge was too harsh with her. She should have yelled at ole boy.
I think Judge Toler missed the pain in her eyes, because she was talking so much. She is broken by him. I am happy she has sense enough to leave now. It took 9 years and a couple of babies. But she can make it.
@@10pickens me too I already do miss her but she has some good advice to these young people but I really do feel bad for the young lady I really do she don't need to deal with him it's a lot of men out there he want to get mad because men entertaining her don't get mad get glad cuz you was doing your two step home boy
Agree with the pregnancy scare whats worse is that it seems like nobody is scared of diseases.
@Ice what do you expect from a judge that has 4 boys.
Rene S omg the vape thing is such bs
Omggg Yass! Ppl think pregnancy is the worse of it but my god STDs are worst!
Rector Dee she has 2 boys.. her husband came into the marriage with 4 boys
Judge was a little harsh with her and you can tell that she's dealing with low self esteem. She's beautiful and I hope she doesn't go back to him.
I totally agree
I hate the way the judge yelled at her. You asked a question while she was talking and then got mad at her for answering your question when you asked. You don't ask a question and continue to talk. Plus you can clearly see that girl has no self esteem at all. She looked like a whipped dog or a victim of abuse.
Still when a judge speaks you stop talking. You have to respect the court room
@@Richard-Alex1991 if that's the case, she needs to force that standard on both people. That dude interrupted that young lady so many times, and Judge barely said anything.
@@Richard-Alex1991 You do have to respect the courtroom, however the way she talks to some of these people would never work in a real courtroom. Most people don't seem to understand that judges are also have to respect the litigant and they can be reprimanded for their conduct as well. There have been judges removed from the bench for that reason. She sometimes is way to hard on the women that come to her courtroom. I am not sure if its because she does not have daughters, which can sometimes make women stick up for men more. Either way it is wrong to beat down someone that is clearly beat down already. What good does that do. What if that women was hanging on to her last bit of self worth and that verbal belittling pushed her over the edge.
@@TruValidity You are so correct. It would not have been so bad if she keeps that same energy with all people that come to her courtroom or heck even if she had kept that same energy during this whole case with both litigants.
His edge up irritates me. What barber is responsible for this???
It looks like he does it himself to be quite honest
lmao
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I said the same thing too!! His barber is clowning him!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 YOOOO I am weak lol
I don’t understand why that man didn’t get yelled at more. He should’ve. He out here just wild wit it.
I've noticed that Judge Toler tends to be lax when men cheat. She'll scream on a woman for interrupting but I've seen episodes where's she's barely bats an eye at cheating. Cheating seems way more destructive then interrupting.
@@alyssag.5758 I agree like she was yelling at her for talking and didn't realize that she is so broken look how she hung her head and homeboys was just over there chilling.
@@krazychilel yeah it reminded me of the way you yell at a dog for wetting the carpet. I think Judge Toler could have spoken to her more respectfully. she's cleary emotionally damaged and immediately apologized. She didn't act that way when Rolling Ray and his crew were acting a fool. Why treat this woman like that?
@@alyssag.5758 that's exactly who came to mind that episode was annoying as f**k and she was laughing at the bullshit. I hope she follows up with her or at least get her help.
Alyssa Gillespie thank you!
The mother when she sighed thoo>>>😫🤣
I felt that
He lacks manhood. Please leave him alone Queen. 👑 He won't protect you and I'm highly doubtful he's a provider. 🤦🏾♀️✌🏾
True, he's awful. The judge screamed on her for interrupting but wasn't even that angry with him for his reckless sexual behavior. Go figure.
:(( he can impregnate u but can’t protect u at all cost? that’s heartbreaking.
Judge was off on this.
She asked the young lady questions but wouldn't let her answer.
She kept cutting the judge off !!
@@thewise2443 right people slow, you on here for help but almost every time judge spoke she cut her off assuming she knew the full question, and would start to answer...I get it, she's broken, but humble yourself, shut up , and take heed to the wisdom you sought out!
They started having children without any proper structure whatsoever and in reality the future of the children are in jeopardy.
True
True #facts
So true but most people do this. Few people are trying to provide a "proper structure" for their kids before having them. A lot of people are living day to day and not looking into the future.
I had to stop listening after this man said when he cheated he had a condom but didn’t use it 🤦♂️
So the fact that he banged her friend didn't bother you.
sullivancountydays he could’ve banged her mom I wouldn’t give a shit but having unprotected sex when you have a condom on hand proves he don’t care about himself or her
I'm shocked the judge didn't tell her to bounce. She can do so much better. Maybe she should have less male friends but that doesn't compare to him having sex with her other girls.
That’s Me and I never said I didn’t use it I was insinuating that the condom broke
@@pakmillionhustles7274 have you heard of Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinski?
My heart goes out to this sister, I hope shes in a better place now and has gained her confidence and self esteem back. Such a beautiful young lady, I hope she let him go.
Why did the judge treat her so badly, the girl was sweet and yes she has her issues but I’ve seen worse people in the show and she doesn’t do shit. “That’s probably one of his problems with you” seriously, this man dragged her through the dirt. If this what she doing I ain’t watching
Tia Enriquez she's giving her though love bc she knows she can change and overcome but he's trash and controlling.
Tia Enriquez I totally agree and was rather appalled to her reaction to the girl...I think the girl is one of the better people on the show...her timidity is event
The judge was only mad when she kept cutting her off. Overall I understand that the girl is sweet and vulnerable.
The girl wouldn't shut up, the judge needed to cut her rude ass off
He said it. He ain't going out of his way 4 u💁♂️
And that should be the end of it. She's the mother of his children, she is the one that needs to be the one that he would go out of his way for.
She suffers from low self esteem so that’s why she lets him do whatever. When a low moral dude knows a woman doesn’t have confidence in herself he will run all over her without caring. You would think a man would show respect to the mother of his children because he wants her to be the best her for the kids sake but he’s the product of a low moral environment and doesn’t know any better
She definitely has no self esteem. You saw the look on her face when Judge Toler was screaming on her for interrupting. She looked like she was about to go crawl into a corner.
@Love Trump I would love to agree with you but you're being unfair to the young man. If you listened keenly you would have heard when he said she has cheated on him several times during the earlier stage of their relationship and her mother also stated that she isn't a saint. With that said it should be clear to you that self esteem is not this girl's problem. The problem is trust, neither of them trust each other and cannot be trusted. That's a recipe for fail relationship.
@@melliberri4663 just because he said it doesn't make it a fact.
@@alyssag.5758 I agree but her mom's statement made his factual.
@@alyssag.5758 she didn't deny it and according to her own logic about her family member, that implies guilt
the judge keep getting on her but what about him she was so off point on this one.
Well she is the one who is with him throughout all the cheating. He keeps breaking her heart and has no regard of her emotions whatsoever. So yeah Judge Toler had to get through her.
I felt that too. She had evidence in a folder and wasn't given the time to even present it. Judge Lynn was very off point, this woman wasn't even going off like some other previous guests.
I think, maybe the Judge left the dude out because she knew there was no getting through to him/he wouldn't change? She focused on the woman because she was the only one who had her head on somewhat right.... and the Judge thought she might be able to save her, at least in the future relationships? But that's just what I thought, though.
The judge doesn’t waste her time on these fools she’s getting at her because she wants her to do better duh
My wife and I was saying the same thing last night. Judge Lynn barely even fussed at him and even when she was talking it was a little hard to follow. She may be working too much. This one was off. Poor girl
I hope this sister is able to heal herself emotionally and mentally, and is strong enough to move on. I hope she finds the love, confidence, and strength in herself that she needs to do so.
Wow I never see somebody look so insecure in my life, she can’t even look nobody in the face.
Yeah when the judge was screaming on her for interrupting she was looking at the floor. I wonder if she was abused as a child. She has no self esteem.
T Baby
My thought exactly... When she bowed her head when the Judge went in on her. I was just like damn... like she being obedient. She probably suffered from something in her life...
@@pagangal29 And you'd think Judge Lynn would have noticed that and amended her delivery accordingly. She was so wrong for that.
@th1smomentisfate Maybe she doesnt feel like she has a voice?
Whoever wrote the After Show update: “Anissa says her and ...” needs a grammar lesson. It is “she and...” The show producers need to get in this.
carlpotter007 but did it ruin your day?
Right?!😂😂
Z6neDeee • No but it reflects badly on a good show.
Thanks for not taking my head off Z!
oh goodness the grammar police strikes again.
They're in their early 20s and already been together for 9 years. I wonder if they finished school. Its sad our young people playing these sex games and putting themselves in these drama situations but have nothing for themselves. Neither one is grown up. Babies having babies playing house
Yes they graduated
She is smart but with extremely low self esteem. People protect ur little girls from low self esteem or else this is what happens to them when they grow up. It starts in the mind.
“That’s probably one of his problems with you”? Okay Judge Lynn 🙄 I’m usually with you on most things.
Janeene Davis omg I did not like the way she came at her.. like I’ve seem extremely rude ppl on this show and never seen her react like that towards them
@@raqui174 ya didn't seen the deleted scenes. I love her to death but in real life I tell her to be quiet and just listen but she doesn't know how. He has did messed up stuff. But she really has done stuff almost as bad. I asked them to separate years ago. But they still going but doing alot better
I pray that she flourishes and gets joy and peace for her and her children.
Dang, I can truely hear the hurt in her voice. She is broken and I pray she gains some strength, find herself and move on. I wish her some peace and happiness.
I'm not going to lie, I felt bad when the judge went in on her. Dang judge, the girl is already feeling shity enough😬
beautyfyewitAlaina B the judge asked her question and kept talking but then when the girl tried to answer her question she went in on her because she tried to answer her question.
If she has to respect the judge the judge should also go on on the boy because he repeatedly interrupted this young lady while she tried to explain her side of the story.
@@thatgirlnae7922
Right, I think the Judge was unfair. She should have held them both accountable on their wrongs. But the girl was just trying to explain herself. Then she belittle her by saying, see why he wont marry you or put a ring on it. Because you don't know how to listen... what the heck smh
He cheating, slept with her friend, and allowed her to get pistol whipped and beat up.
Awww bless her she looks so full of love and innocence. I hope one day she can boost her self esteem, confidence and self love up to get all the good that she deserves.👸🏾👸🏾 ❤❤❤
She reminds me so much of me when i was younger. God bless her ❤
This young lady needs counseling she’s seriously broken
Omg why would u want to stay with this dude?!
Not a protector or a provider I don't understand what she holding on to really.
Exactly
Glad she left him in the end. He brings nothing to the table. Judge was screaming on her for interrupting but wasn't even that angry about his reckless sexual behavior.
@@brishaberries0101 would you want someone to die because of a girl fight a dude jumped in?
It’s always the ugliest men doing this too smhhhhh
That's why you don't take no shorts in even giving them a chance. They self esteem get higher as they make yours lower.
Yes its always the people who are hurting who try to hurt others.
@@brishaberries0101 SUPER FACTS 💯💯💯❗❗❗
So y'all really gonna judge someone base on their looks and not their actions?
Ah pretty boy will do the same to you too honey so I don't get that logic lol.
Tbh y'all ain't all that yourselfs so why talk about a man's looks?
He is not ugly. They made him wear that shhh and the hell they went through to get there he couldn't get his hair cut. Those ain't her close either
Glad that she has moved on to take care of herself first. They can co-parent.
They're actually still together according to FB.
@@aleighc 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
This girl is probably clinging to this boy because she is afraid no man will love her with 2 kids. Someone needs to teach her otherwise
I pray she grows to know her worth!
That's not it
These 2 young people demonstrate how important it is to have a father in the home. The rise of fatherlessness in America produces these tragic storylines. So damn sad.... breaks my heart every time.
There are plenty of people without a father that don't act like this. Judge Mathis didn't have a father.
And as a young man he was out terrorizing his community.
High school sweet hearts almost never last ...
Everyone that I knew from high school that was dating/getting married/having kids, NONE OF THEM are still together...
The sad reality is, you fall in love with someone that hasn't even found themselves yet,which means they dont "love themselves" because they dont know how to ...
If u cant love yourself, how can u love someone else ...?
I love Judge Toler but I felt like she was too hard on this lady.
Need some tough love .... She needed that.
She was and very wrong for that! She should have given her better advice as well.
@@tamikaeverett6650 Totally agree, This was not the judge's finest moment. I hated it
I agree.
I felt bad for the little chic. The boyfriend is sorry as hell. He is not a real man. she shouldn’t have yelled at her like that.
Why was a Judge Toler so harsh to this young lady but not correct the man when he doesn’t protect the mother of his child. She is defeated and needs advice not to be torn down by the woman who is supposed to support her.
She is a beautiful young woman. My heart goes out to her. She deserves so much better. I pray she will find someone that will value her.
Exactly me too she doesn't deserve that he want to get mad because all men want her don't get mad you was doing your own thing hello I don't understand why these women had to put up with him I don't understand why she married him he aint all that cute
She reminds me of Poussey from Orange is the new Black.
Yes she does
She reminds me of that chick from empire. The one who used to be with Hakeem.
And laryn hill
@@jar7840 Soraya her name is, I was thinking the same thing
Guys always want to be out there doing wat dey want..but as soon as u do it..it's all hell break loose
So true. He's getting oral sex from other women but she's horrible for hanging with male friends. WTF?
I don't know who was the bigger coward the dude that pistol whooped her or him for standing there watching it happen
Man on that note she need to leave him, he not a protector and I'm sure he's not a provider.
@Mr. Cooney I'd die for my wife!
I disagree with the judge. This man is gross and the judge made it seem like she's more of the problem.
I haven't had sex in several months and feel like I need to go get checked just from listening to them
Bambidaydreamer3 😄
I need to read her book omg 😩😩
SAME girl, same!
Seeing the way she treated that woman, I don't know if I want it.
It’s really a good book ! I recommend it for plenty of women
I recommend it for when you got nothing else to use for toilet 🚽 paper
I’m praying for this young sister....there’s some hurt or something behind her eyes. I hope it gets better one way or the other
Lord!! He slept with her family member toooo!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ girrrrrllll!!
“I’m loosing myself to love him “ Sissssss nooooooo!!!
GGGGHHHUUUURRRRRLLLLL NOOOO
Everybody was saying that the Judge was too hard on the young lady and I said she wasn't. I finished watching the entire video and she never yelled at the young lady at all. The Judge was admonishing her like any mother would do to her child. The Judge was quite gentle with her. You people need to learn the difference between scolding and yelling.
When he told her that if she had did what he did to her with the pregnancy scare, she should have left then. He isn't shit. I'm glad she left him though. It seems her eyes were open, and she listened to some of the advice Judge Lynn gave (but she could have kept that "don't interrupt me while I'm talking" mess as if her show hasn't been a circus damn near all season). That dude didn't learn anything and will go on to continuing having out of wedlock babies and not respecting his body by fucking anything with a pulse. STDs and definitely HIV is real.
I was surprised by her screaming on her for interrupting. I've seen way worse this season i.e. Rolling Ray episode and the judge said nothing. The judge is not consistent.
Because that rolling ray was some bs. I think she deciphers bs and does not place that much energy into it. She knew this girl got into something very young and wants to help her thagt is why she was so hard on her.
They both look really old. Stop trying to grow up before your time, making babies, stressing out and wasting your youth.
Exactly they had kids young. Wanted to leave home immediately and life has stressed them. They went through alot to get there. So that's why his hair ain't cut and they stressed out
I love Judge Lyn Toler. She should have never left divorce court. She doesn't just deal with a couple's issue she addresses their soul. She gets into the heart and starts the healing from inside out.
i knew he was a cheater as soon as i saw that hair line. lmao
This is why I tell my son, nobody in their right mind should be thinking about marriage or kids before they're 25. And then only if you can comfortably take care of yourself.
Exactly.
This has nothing to do with age. Their are plenty of people with character and human decency at that age.
With this generation i can agree. But also couple's between the 1940's and 90's were married before and around that age.
T O X I C
LawofAshley
And she needs to 🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️
That update killed me 🤣🤣🤦🏽♂️dude didn’t learn anything 😂
Why would he? The judge didn't hold him accountable for his reckless sexual behavior. Glad the woman left. He's no good.
Alyssa Gillespie I think the judge is dead but the guy just wouldn’t listen you can’t force people to listen he admitted everything you did so there’s no need to harp on what he did he know he was a bad guy the judge doesn’t waste her time on people who refuse to listen or learn
I didn't appreciate Judge's "That's probably one of his problems with you" comment. The man is trash her talking over him is the least of their problems, this woman was pistol whipped and her man did nothing to help or defend her so miss me with what his problem is.
That’s deep-she said she feel like she is loosing herself to love him!
This young lady will be dead before her time if she does not cut this trash loose!
Best decision.
Move on..
Start over.
I’m glad judge gives no nonsense advice 👍🏿
Why on earth women allow men to get away with all these crap Absolutely no accountability
She has no self esteem. It would have been nice for the judge to hold him accountable for his reckless sexual behavior. She went off on the wife for interrupting but wasn't as angry by something way more dangerous, unprotected reckless sex.
It goes both ways. You can't just fault her for his stupidity
I feel bad for her she just let him do anything. Smh
I felt bad when the judge was screaming on her. She looked at the floor in shame. She seems to be very sensitive and lack self esteem. Why else was she with a man who repeatedly cheated. He had the nerve to say I just received oral sex. Wtf? he would be pissed if his girl did that.
@@alyssag.5758 yes me too I think she was talking so much because she finally had someone listening to her. Then judge Toler just start going in on her
Rodneshia G so you didn’t feel bad for him when he said she was cheating first and he was tired of being head over heels over her?
@th1smomentisfate True but there was no need for Judge Toler to be so cruel about it. She came at her like she was a dog that wet the carpet.
@@alyssag.5758 because shes a cheater I love how yall just skate passed it
Ummmmmm whyyy tf was she going in on the girl🙄🙄🙄 the dude was clearly the dirty no cares and worries cheating DUSTY. No morals. No regrets😩😩no empathy...i aint saying she perfect but she should have gave his DUSTY ass this same energy. How u asking her questions and mad she is answering😭😭tf....judge was real wack for this. Oan someone found their FB AND THEY'RE STILL TOGETHER AND WERE TELLING PPL HOW MUCH $$ THEY MADE🙄🙄🙄🤦🤦😩😩
There'sSomething AboutMary'sMelanin we never spoke on no money being made ever. That’s a lie but we are working things out... if she lets me
I feel you judge was too harsh on her for no reason at all !.
She seemed irritated this episode
The judge screamed on her like a dog that wet the carpet for interrupting but she let Rolling Ray and his crew act a fool. Very weird.
Alyssa Gillespie but she also never finished the rolling ray case
They said the recording before them she was pissed at them and it rolled over
First 1:10 in.. He cheats and lies and slept w my friend. Why u STILL there again?
10mins later: She hangs out and cheat too.
ME:👌 I get it now😂
I REALLY FELT SORRY FOR HER WHEN THE JUDGE YELLED AT HER I WANTED TO GIVE HER A HUG SHE NEEDS SOMEONE TO REALLY TALK TO HER GOD BLESS YOU YOUNG LADY
We can't get along and we have children
Both of them 24yr but this man brain so empty like damage coconut.she need to go back to school n love herself
lole stecy 😂😂 Y’all people crazy
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@@pakmillionhustles7274 they really are. I wish ya didn't go on this shh. They got you bring the worse man on the planet. Ya should've equally spoke. But I love you didn't want to do that
Judge Lynn was wrong this episode. She is usually on point but yelled at the girl for "not listening " and didn't say boo about his constant cheating. Should have told her to RUN and find herself so she can be the best mother her children deserve.
My exact thoughts.
3 minutes in and he seems like he doesn't feel guilty at all
He has felt guilty this show was done years after all instances. But like her mom said they did tit for tat. Every thinks he's wrong but they both have done Hella wrong to one another
They need time apart to grown into themselves because they were kids
They need forever apart.
What the hell is up with that man’s hairline? She at least deserves a man with a straight line. Cmon sister
Wow so immature and shallow hairline really!!!!!🤦🏽♀️
Rose Garcia 😂 you must date a bald man
Lol not dating right now but I happen to think bald is sexy 😁
He is not a man, defend your woman with your life! He doesn't love her at all...
Judge Lynn always has the best advice!
Akeysha Mcgrath Always!
Aweee i feel so bad for her, especially when the judge was yelling at her. But she needs to leave that boy ASAP!!!!
I wish this beautiful young woman the best. Make 2020 your year. A better YOU will attract better people in your life. But work on yourself, read that book and learn your patterns. No more children for now peace and blessings and much love
Chick talks faster than Bone, Thugs, & Harmony raps, JUDGE LYNN SAID DAMN THEN WENT IN ON HER !!!!
Yeah Judge Lynn was screaming on her for interrupting. Interrupting isn't good but it doesn't compare to cheating on your spouse and possibly getting someone pregnant. Seems like the Judge got super pissed about the wrong things.
While she shouldn't have interrupted her, coming down on her that hard wasn't warranted, especially when Ma'Lik interrupted that young woman several times and the judge barely said anything. If you want to demand that respect, demand that respect for your litigants as well.
😂😂😂
TruValidity part of me feels like Judge Lynn yells at people that are worth her time. Meaning she just feels like no matter what he’s not gonna change and he’s gonna be who he is no matter what, but she probably felt like the girl would change with the right words. She was a little over the top with it but the girl needed a reality check in all honesty
I low key chuckled but I felt bad afterwards because I've been in her shooooooeeesss I have
This episode literally made me tear up. I hate seeing this young black woman allow someone to treat her so disrespectfully over & over again. It’s just so sad to me. I doubt she has any good role models in her life so it’s probably just an endless cycle of bad choices & mental abuse... I wish this young lady the best. I hope her self esteem improves & she realizes her true value
They need to split and just co-parent.
EDIT: Final message says she booted him out! Good going girl!
His a man CHILD, RUN SISTER RUN!
He’s so disgusting that I’m not even questioning his character or integrity. I’m questioning hers. She definitely needs self esteem. This is very very sad.
something he said that got me was when he said he was tired of being head over heels for her and getting cheated on. guys who go through things like this become cold and cheat with whoever the can, sister cousin mama whoever
Soujourn his bad actions came as a result of hers
I know how she felt when she made the statement about losing herself loving him. She is shattered and there is no mending in this union. They can separate or they can accept and keep going. He may have been hurt because she had friends, but at what cost do you make a hell for your woman and your kids? When love hurts, you must find a way to remove that thorn.
Looking forward to seeing this episode of Divorce Court
Him and the “friend” would have to get and stay away from me if I was her ✌🏾
He’s cute and I can see how he’s stressing her out smh..he’s not in love with her but he definitely cares about her..they can’t keep going like this and their history will never die they’ll always bring it back up and fight over it..this won’t work it’s over
Your words are so true
Omg!! I need this book for my daughter
I have read some of these comments and I must say I realised how one sided these comments are when the girl isn't as innocent as y'all making her seem. Her own mother acknowledged that she's no saint which speaks volume about who she is. The guy also stated that she cheated several times during the earlier period of their relationship and yet she's being portrayed as the victim 🧐🤔.
My judgement is as Judge Lynn's and her mom's judgement they can't expect tit for tat will give them a stable committed relationship. She can't behave careless and expect him or any other guy to treat her like a wife much more make her wife.
The same applies to the guy he needs to grow up and be responsible, respectful and mature. He needs to zip it up and stay committed to one woman especially with all these loose STDs walking around looking all cute and sexy.
Melli Berry Thank you Jesus 🙏🏾 My thoughts exactly! Both participated for the damage created in this relationship.
He said emotional cheating, he said it himself, if she did anything he did he would’ve left.
@@Enriquez2222 just like they both acknowledged that they weren't together when he slept with her friend. Therefore he didn't cheat on her at that time.
He stated clearly she cheated several times and it was because of how she treated him with her cheating way that's what pushed him into cheating.
We can all choose a side but the reality is they are too toxic for each other and the environment they created for the children has ☠☠☠☠☠☠☠ mark all over it.
Melli Berry he said emotional cheating which is also bad but at least she ain’t out here getting pregnant by randoms. I just didn’t like how the judge dismissed him and sighed into her
@@Enriquez2222 that's not what he said. He said if she got pregnant he would leave
“I think that folks these days aren’t as afraid of getting pregnant” .... that’s these women judge toler 😭. They find out they pregnant by a guy they think is cute and throw a parade.... knowing damn well that guy prolly not gon do nothing for u or that baby 😩
How can you love someone who treats your daughter so horribly. That mother is a part of the problem, promoting a dysfunctional relationship smh
She’s so mean to the broken person. This man put her through hell and yet she gets the brunt of the judges vitriol