Why Do We Feel Shame?

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  • čas přidán 4. 02. 2019
  • Have you ever had trouble shaking the feeling of embarrassment over something in the past? In our first installment of Psychology 101, Dr. Tori Olds explains the origin of why human beings have these feelings of shame and the importance of giving yourself some compassion when feeling discouraged or embarrassed.
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Komentáře • 21

  • @ict113090
    @ict113090 Před rokem +4

    A sense of shame is a very underrated human value.

  • @waffle6925
    @waffle6925 Před rokem +9

    people always bully and shame me for being gay and feminine. it sucks! i always feel depressed because of it like why can't just people leave me alone!!!!!!!!!

  • @shilly-pr5cf
    @shilly-pr5cf Před měsícem

    Because I think a lot about what other people think about me.
    And when I act or behave badly in front of them, even if it was unintentional, I feel ashamed.

  • @user-ds2kc1yc5n
    @user-ds2kc1yc5n Před rokem +3

    you are So calm and peaceful I liked that

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 Před 3 lety +7

    Good vid. The book "30 Days to Overcome Shame" by Harper Daniels, was also a big help.

  • @TimKerman
    @TimKerman Před 21 dnem

    Very helpful Thank you

  • @jdt8983
    @jdt8983 Před 2 lety +3

    Perfectly said. Thank you

  • @sameerahahmed9574
    @sameerahahmed9574 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you ♥️

  • @Neonb88
    @Neonb88 Před měsícem

    As usual, so sweet and healing

  • @wissamkardaly6413
    @wissamkardaly6413 Před 3 lety +1

    Amazing and rich info .. 👍👍👍

  • @kemerz9536
    @kemerz9536 Před měsícem

    Thw feeling IS so Burning that makes me feel hate

  • @PeterParker-ff7ub
    @PeterParker-ff7ub Před 2 lety +2

    because we do stupid things that hurt us and need to know what to avoid like touching fire

    • @jovan-noble-guy749
      @jovan-noble-guy749 Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah, shame is a necessary human emotion, because a person with no shame is a person that could do bad things more easily, without the shame it would go in a bad direction. At the same time having no shame means that you could be more expressive when doing a good thing, at least how I interpret it. Bye 👋🏻

  • @kaycee1567
    @kaycee1567 Před 6 měsíci +1

    My birthday is coming soon and i feel shameful bc my plan is too fancy in my opinion. I dont wanna seem like im too great or something. I js wanna do smth special n new

    • @kaycee1567
      @kaycee1567 Před 6 měsíci +1

      My heart is beating so fast bc I feel too shameful

  • @anahitaalehabib9925
    @anahitaalehabib9925 Před 2 lety +1

    👌👌👌

  • @emilie99
    @emilie99 Před rokem +1

    how do i cite this video in mla format

  • @rainy.d7404
    @rainy.d7404 Před rokem +4

    I feel like pride is the opposite of shame but both are just as destructive.

  • @viktoriakireeva5860
    @viktoriakireeva5860 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m interested to find out where the modern hand gesticulation came from? Most speakers, bloggers etc. use their hands in the most peculiar and annoying manner, shaking them at each syllable, making weird shapes etc. as if they’re talking to deaf people, using their hands - where does this come from? I see it everywhere in the world, it’s like people copy each other, but who started it?? If anyone can explain this phenomenon - I’ll be so grateful. Thank you
    P.S I’ve watched this video three times but still didn’t get what she was talking about because her hands are so distracting and annoying

  • @jonsnow911
    @jonsnow911 Před 13 dny

    whole v

  • @paologeminiani
    @paologeminiani Před 10 měsíci

    Stop this lie about evolution