Corey Holcomb GOES IN on divorce in America

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  • @mrgeno4682
    @mrgeno4682 Před 21 dnem +267

    I divoriced two women and escaped intact. I will never roll the dice a third time. I have all of my money and assets and I can't risk it!

    • @marquavis2964
      @marquavis2964 Před 21 dnem +26

      Damn you did it twice 😯

    • @factsonly6903
      @factsonly6903 Před 21 dnem +33

      You’re a recovering addict from Marriage 😂 Don’t relapse 🫡💯

    • @tatoogefferie2594
      @tatoogefferie2594 Před 21 dnem +7

      ​@@factsonly6903😂😂om

    • @cvsmiss7578
      @cvsmiss7578 Před 21 dnem +2

      👀

    • @zenga9645
      @zenga9645 Před 21 dnem +8

      @@factsonly6903 diabolical comments but true lmao 😩🤣

  • @newmula5045
    @newmula5045 Před 21 dnem +184

    They want weddings not marriage

    • @waltdiesel
      @waltdiesel Před 21 dnem +1

      Truth

    • @christopherbenefield8201
      @christopherbenefield8201 Před 20 dny +2

      Facts

    • @jamesmangrum6488
      @jamesmangrum6488 Před 19 dny +1

      Supa Factz!!!

    • @herbertbass9027
      @herbertbass9027 Před 19 dny +2

      Totally agree they want the show - Not the dedication, devotion, & love.

    • @dannyanderson2513
      @dannyanderson2513 Před 18 dny +1

      Its the superbowl to them. Once they get the ring that's it. Its bait and switch from there. They figure now that I got him down the aisle, the work is done, I dont have to do nothing

  • @anthonywoodruff4355
    @anthonywoodruff4355 Před 21 dnem +242

    I’m 65, I will never ever get married again. One time, that’s it! From losing 3 properties, child support, over $500,000, but I would swim through a pool of 💩 then to live under that reign of terror!

    • @cvsmiss7578
      @cvsmiss7578 Před 21 dnem +2

      Shame

    • @718scorpio
      @718scorpio Před 21 dnem +26

      Big Facts!!! I learn from people like you and I'm 45 and ain't never been married, no kids and still single to this day and gonna keep it that way lol. People nowadays don't know the meaning of Love, Honor, and Loyalty in a relationship or marriage and that's why it fails everytime!!💯🎯

    • @lovemore4487
      @lovemore4487 Před 21 dnem +11

      I bet you were the one out cheating, but you will never tell that part!! Just keep it between you and God...

    • @TheEvilstarter44
      @TheEvilstarter44 Před 21 dnem +1

      Facts

    • @iamlegend5190
      @iamlegend5190 Před 21 dnem +7

      @@anthonywoodruff4355 most ppl at 65 don't.

  • @ka9202
    @ka9202 Před 20 dny +45

    If marriage was for love, divorce wouldn't be a $50B industry. People marry for insurance, green cards, assets all the time.

    • @edobwoy
      @edobwoy Před 14 dny +1

      I don't understand, if she has a job or career why should he pay her child support? Isn't the purpose of women working claiming to be "independent" "have their own money" so as to be able to provide for the kids incase the father dies, or loses a job etc.?? I thought women wanted to work so as to "help" in the financial part of building a family 😮😮

    • @vikkicarr3255
      @vikkicarr3255 Před 14 dny

      Facts!!!

  • @MrBarksdale149
    @MrBarksdale149 Před 21 dnem +111

    I'm a retired social worker 40 years employed and went to law school, the majority of cases I helped young guys through won because no man brings up on appeal or motion to reconsideration gender (male) discrimination. Canon laws prohibit fender discrimination and the 14 amendment of us constitution spread the word 😊

    • @carlosphillips3
      @carlosphillips3 Před 21 dnem +4

      Thanks for the info

    • @MadeTaylor
      @MadeTaylor Před 20 dny +3

      That's a bunch of legal jargon, please explain in laymens terms

    • @Darius56X
      @Darius56X Před 20 dny +6

      That’s usually because the court never does so blatantly. If it is newborn, they argue the benefits of breastfeeding (which they do not consider gender discrimination). If the mother got more time for maternity leave than you got for paternity leave, they argue that she has been the primary caregiver (regardless of why she was allowed longer leave). If you earn more money, they argue it is in the best interest of the child for her to be the one the pull back on work hours. None of this of course takes into consideration the long term benefits of equal involvement.

    • @HisgGalore
      @HisgGalore Před 19 dny +2

      ✊🏿

    • @tidey4
      @tidey4 Před 11 dny

      What state do you practice?

  • @davidfrosst5100
    @davidfrosst5100 Před 21 dnem +47

    No Wife, Happy Life.
    👇🏼😑

  • @peacewilliam-west2249
    @peacewilliam-west2249 Před 21 dnem +170

    If you're a productive man, I don't get how the idea marriage/divorce doesn't terrify you.

    • @mrworldwide3803
      @mrworldwide3803 Před 21 dnem +26

      Take a moment to look up the laws, and you will see all the productive ways that she will take half.

    • @KingRa662
      @KingRa662 Před 21 dnem +21

      Even when you ain't productive, she still leave with the kids and chikd support 😂

    • @donaldwestley3735
      @donaldwestley3735 Před 21 dnem +3

      When yu bustin up for good marriage sho aint bout. Know Love . So it haz to begin with more than just Love.

    • @fullcircleessentials
      @fullcircleessentials Před 21 dnem +5

      ​@@KingRa662 Right! It don't matter

    • @loveyesmarriageno123
      @loveyesmarriageno123 Před 21 dnem +2

      @@mrworldwide3803 She might take more than half in California.

  • @traindawg21
    @traindawg21 Před 21 dnem +106

    And this is why so many companies are going bankrupt. Bridal stores and those romantic like stores. Men aren't bothering anymore!!

    • @The_S.L.U.T-tvshow
      @The_S.L.U.T-tvshow Před 21 dnem

      Bro we had to go on strike and now they feeling it so be ready bro cause they gone come up with something to try to get our money spending again

    • @kwanblillz1514
      @kwanblillz1514 Před 20 dny +1

      l😂 im renovating a bridal store right now and you are correct 💯💯

    • @ninaj.4885
      @ninaj.4885 Před 20 dny

      Decline in marriage rates and its cheaper just to buy directly from China. You can buy a $300 dress that would cost a least a couple thousand in a US bridal shop.

    • @rizingpho3nix
      @rizingpho3nix Před 19 dny +4

      David's Bridal is gone 😂😂😂

    • @traindawg21
      @traindawg21 Před 19 dny

      @@rizingpho3nix hahaha good 😂😂😂😂

  • @kaine82
    @kaine82 Před 21 dnem +71

    Same with kids. I had one child went through that child support ish one time. That's all I needed lesson learned. 16 years later I still got one child.

    • @BryanWynn-vf2ej
      @BryanWynn-vf2ej Před 21 dnem +10

      This shyt is always bad for Father's who love their children and didn't file for the divorce/destroy their families..... the women win in the beginning....but after about 3-5 yrs after they done got ran through and made a couple bad investments.... they all start to suffer because nobody wife's up single mothers besides simps and most women cannot respect simps long term, hence second marriages end at even higher rates than first ones.

    • @truthspoken9456
      @truthspoken9456 Před 13 dny

      Same here!!! Kid bout to be 17, so not too far left..

    • @Sammy_Travels
      @Sammy_Travels Před 7 dny

      Same here. I almost went homeless because of child support. 16 years later, I only have 1 kid. I do t plan on having another

  • @johntorres5153
    @johntorres5153 Před 21 dnem +132

    The man is always the least important person in a divorce regardless of race, divorce always ruins the man

    • @Polo22546
      @Polo22546 Před 21 dnem +1

      FACTSSSSS!!!

    • @Alan_GA
      @Alan_GA Před 21 dnem +12

      It also ruins the children, they are legally under the custody of their mothers. Who are most times bitter & vindictive. Leading them to brainwash the children against the father.

    • @lovemore4487
      @lovemore4487 Před 21 dnem +3

      And the man ruins the marriage by cheating!!!

    • @slayy51621
      @slayy51621 Před 21 dnem +7

      @@lovemore4487everything ain’t about cheating and if that’s the case it’s no way a women should be having so much power with someone’s pockets and someone’s kids

    • @johntorres5153
      @johntorres5153 Před 20 dny +10

      @@lovemore4487 that sounds personal but cheating isn't always the reason for divorce

  • @acethefloridianforever
    @acethefloridianforever Před 21 dnem +89

    Marriages is supposed to be between a man, a woman, and God! Screw the government!🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @15SilverSurfer15
      @15SilverSurfer15 Před 21 dnem +8

      Well the government is technically god in our physical reality 🤣🤣🤣

    • @horemmars
      @horemmars Před 20 dny

      It's a contract between two families Not between a man and a woman

    • @acethefloridianforever
      @acethefloridianforever Před 20 dny +1

      @@horemmars Two families?

    • @horemmars
      @horemmars Před 20 dny +1

      @acethefloridianforever yes Families The grammatically correct spelling Over the more common family's One of the things that stuck with me from school.

    • @Deezy_Ankh
      @Deezy_Ankh Před 20 dny

      Good thing the 'god' is made up. Just like marriage. Man made concepts.

  • @andrepryor8585
    @andrepryor8585 Před 21 dnem +57

    Corey be having me crying this guy speaks the truth

  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb Před 21 dnem +129

    Divorce laws need to be reexamined period. A woman can file a divorce because she couldn’t buy a new Gucci bag once a month.

    • @QUNYC7
      @QUNYC7 Před 21 dnem +8

      The Laws will never get changed! Men need to stop getting married or get married and calculate your loss in prenuptial agreement if marriage means something for men that want to cross that line.

    • @vondremcdonald6122
      @vondremcdonald6122 Před 20 dny

      This is America.... Americas laws are shot and one sided..

    • @terrenceliburd8655
      @terrenceliburd8655 Před 20 dny +3

      @Payday - ky7mb: For what ive heard, wimen were granted alimony because when a woman married a man she gave up having a career and occupational skills to stay at home and raise children. Why women were granted the children i don't know. But i would say fir the past 30 - 50 years women have job skills in fact some are doing well career wise, and getting half of the mans assets is beyond not fair.

    • @RMM4MarCommServices
      @RMM4MarCommServices Před 19 dny

      @@terrenceliburd8655and some of those when are paying the alimony to the man. The ignorant is only informed to support THEIR story. But look that schyt up. Career Women are now warning others women “don’t may bums or you will be paying your GIRLY AZZ ex husband the alimony.

  • @wordtothewise711
    @wordtothewise711 Před 19 dny +6

    Shout out to all the couples that figured out how to have a healthy, flourishing marriage

  • @662chillin
    @662chillin Před 21 dnem +71

    Marriage and child support laws are very anti-male in this country

    • @michaeljohnson-ym8zp
      @michaeljohnson-ym8zp Před 19 dny

      What system do you think should be put in place for the non custodial parent to care financially for their children?

  • @WhiskeyBonnet
    @WhiskeyBonnet Před 21 dnem +20

    He was spot on when he said marriage is about bonding families. Still in a lot of cultures especially Arabic communities. The man absolutely is paying up front

  • @user-vh5hg2fl7q
    @user-vh5hg2fl7q Před 18 dny +9

    I am divorced and did not want ANYTHING from my ex husband, other than him singing the papers and appearing in court. It was a pleasant experience considering it was ending. No slander, lies or disrespect from either of us. My opinion it depends on the individual and their thought processes. Just cause it’s over don’t mean you have to hurt that person.

  • @earnmineps4414
    @earnmineps4414 Před 21 dnem +69

    Darlene really annoys me sometimes... But then i see some of the women on these other podcasts and realize... She aint so bad. 😂

    • @4wayEagleStreet
      @4wayEagleStreet Před 21 dnem +9

      No she is literally them in the future. Ain't too many older women on podcasts and if they is most aren't married no cap.

    • @Tony_Tucka
      @Tony_Tucka Před 21 dnem +1

      😂😂 facts

    • @hennocent
      @hennocent Před 21 dnem +12

      I mean, she's been in those crowds, and she doesn't sound bitter about life afterward. I fuggs with D

    • @NimrodBabylon
      @NimrodBabylon Před 21 dnem +4

      Maybe u would do better 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @TheDoBetterPodcast
      @TheDoBetterPodcast  Před 21 dnem +4

      😅

  • @calikuya3756
    @calikuya3756 Před 21 dnem +30

    Those marriages are not Kingdom Marriages. A lot of marriages are not up to Gods standards.

    • @cedrickcarson
      @cedrickcarson Před 21 dnem +6

      This the one

    • @Ace-vf2uf
      @Ace-vf2uf Před 20 dny +2

      #Facts

    • @MaryJaneJones.
      @MaryJaneJones. Před 14 dny +3

      Today, people are very vain. They are more interested in showing off on Instagram than participating in their relationships and trying to make them work. When relationships are built on lust, how long can they last?

    • @jamesreed17
      @jamesreed17 Před 9 dny +2

      You know what the biblical view of marriage will save so many marriages

  • @rjlong4881
    @rjlong4881 Před 21 dnem +33

    There is no benefit to marriage anymore. I am twice divorced. The way things are now there are literally no benefits to legal marriage.

    • @cedrickcarson
      @cedrickcarson Před 21 dnem +1

      😮

    • @iamlegend5190
      @iamlegend5190 Před 21 dnem +1

      @@rjlong4881 you only saying that because you failed twice! Don't sprew that garbage because you couldn't get it right....twice! We on our 1st and only marriage of 15+ yrs. It's been nothing but beneficial. As i look back. Im not sure what i would have done if i had to do it alone. I literally can't imagine my life without my wife! It's mentally impossible. I can't think of anything.

    • @rjlong4881
      @rjlong4881 Před 20 dny +4

      @@iamlegend5190 you seem pretty angry buddy. Seems to me you’re dependent a woman for everything. I’ll overlook your terrible grammar and inability to capitalize and put it simply, there are exceptions to every rule.
      Name one tangible thing that is positive about marriage. It’s a liability. It is a net negative.

    • @iamlegend5190
      @iamlegend5190 Před 20 dny

      @@rjlong4881 You think i care about grammer in a youtube comment section!! I sound angry! You anger in what i said? You sad! Yes i do depend on my wife for many things. What's wrong with depending on her? What wrong with needing my wife in my life? 86% of millionaires are married. 85% of billionaires are married. More than 90% of married ppl are successful in life. This is my proof im right. I am backed by facts. The research has been done already. The results are in. I'm right. You wrong. I can provide references!

    • @iamlegend5190
      @iamlegend5190 Před 20 dny

      @@rjlong4881 You failed at marriage twice. You have no room to give advice about marrige! You failed at it.... TWICE!!!
      Can't teach ppl to cook if the food you cook is nasty. No one listening to you!!

  • @BlackRoseFlorida
    @BlackRoseFlorida Před 21 dnem +11

    If you want to get married, consult with an attorney. Stay away from attorneys who tell you what you want to hear. Get an attorney that goes by facts and your state law.

  • @rashawnfredricks4700
    @rashawnfredricks4700 Před 21 dnem +15

    Brother’s, once you end up in that court room…you’re DONE🧏🏾‍♂️🎯

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca Před 20 dny

      Nuetuered environment

  • @TexasGent3808
    @TexasGent3808 Před 20 dny +18

    Had 2 divorces and it dame near ruined me financially. Not to mention child support which my ex wife fled to another state because she found out she could get 23% child support compared to 20% in my current state.
    BS!

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca Před 20 dny +2

      The marathon continues....but lesson learned

    • @jasonj7755
      @jasonj7755 Před 19 dny +2

      1 wasnt enough boss live and learn man fool me once not twice tighten up to hell with marriage

    • @Officially_Wynter
      @Officially_Wynter Před 19 dny +1

      Not thinking the only reason she moved was for 3% child support increase 🤦🏽‍♀️😭😭😭

    • @ritachill4929
      @ritachill4929 Před 17 dny +2

      Regardless of what the details are, sorry to hear you went through that! She was awful

    • @TexasGent3808
      @TexasGent3808 Před 12 dny +1

      @@Officially_Wynter Yes mam! I said the exact same thing. Even the judge said the same thing. I already ready was paying $2300/month in child support in Texas! And she wanted more…

  • @chandalewis5020
    @chandalewis5020 Před 21 dnem +7

    My daughter in laws father paid for her and my son's wedding, and we're black. It's still a valid tradition.

  • @itzjdub282
    @itzjdub282 Před 21 dnem +10

    Please listen as a man when you get in court you are powerless

  • @moniquee6613
    @moniquee6613 Před 21 dnem +12

    As a woman I don’t believe in marriage. I believe once a relationship has ended we both walk away with what we came into the relationship with. I don’t believe the government should tell me what to do with my money or child. Me & my significant other can handle this without them.

  • @mostunclean6619
    @mostunclean6619 Před 21 dnem +33

    This is why marriage never made dollars and sense to me as a man. There are virtually zero negative consequences for a woman to break the contract. In my opinion that’s why the divorce rate is so high and women initiate 75-80% of all divorces. And with no-fault divorce she can really behave badly and still get paid. When a husband cheats on his wife he is risking losing his wife, the kids, his house, the good car and substantial financial resources via child support and alimony. When a wife cheats, the husband again risks losing everything. The longer a man is married to a woman the greater the incentive becomes for that woman to divorce that man and she has the government backing her up. Marriage has become nothing more than insurance where the man pays the premium but only the woman receives the benefits if the relationship goes left. In my opinion relationships are hard enough to navigate without the threat of financial and emotional ruin dangling over your head.

    • @beautifulsoul6535
      @beautifulsoul6535 Před 19 dny

      So if y'all are telling women to marry before you carry then you get mad when the marriage end and you have to pay for you kids lifestyle?

    • @ampollard7041
      @ampollard7041 Před 19 dny +1

      I don't understand how tf men have such an issue with taking care of their own children after divorce

    • @beautifulsoul6535
      @beautifulsoul6535 Před 19 dny

      @@ampollard7041 it's beyond me they are bitter an angry should have picked a better women cause you know that's what they tell us

    • @rooseveltdarbey9493
      @rooseveltdarbey9493 Před 15 dny

      ​@@ampollard7041okay then why can't the kids stay with the father? Get out of here with that nonsense. These females want the kids with them so the can get money from the Man.

  • @MRHEEL-ys2rq
    @MRHEEL-ys2rq Před 20 dny +5

    After divorcing my ex wife, i dont see the worth of marrying in this day and time.. they might as well make men being able to pay for escorts without fear of prison, legal. But they wont do that because if they do, the divorce courts and industries will go broke

    • @theknightandthebishop
      @theknightandthebishop Před 19 dny

      No- they make buying ( ) illegal because it would take away women’s leverage in the mating market. It is all about leverage for feminists.

  • @peacewilliam-west2249
    @peacewilliam-west2249 Před 21 dnem +62

    Darlene just be talking sometimes. I'm not trying to be mean, but I don't know why they have her on the show sometimes. What does she really add to it 😆😆😆?

    • @TkKirklandReal
      @TkKirklandReal Před 21 dnem +16

      She just there for the money and she knows how to keep her mouth closed

    • @YungJay216
      @YungJay216 Před 21 dnem +23

      Must be new, Darlene been with Corey since he started the show well over 10 years ago. She loyal

    • @peacewilliam-west2249
      @peacewilliam-west2249 Před 21 dnem +16

      @@YungJay216 Lol, Idc. Some of the stuff she says sometimes is so pointless and doesn't add to the show.

    • @danteholley4790
      @danteholley4790 Před 21 dnem

      @peacewilliam-west2249
      I'm So Glad you asked that
      So just to answer your question....
      She's on there , for the same reason Arabs be hiring females to work inside the gas station........ She's Fuckin someone on the show, and no has figured that out yet........ Bomb 💣🔥💣💣💣💣💣💣

    • @chelseahood3175
      @chelseahood3175 Před 21 dnem +11

      Nothing! She adds absolutely nothing 😂

  • @user-rx4ce9hl3r
    @user-rx4ce9hl3r Před 21 dnem +19

    Every time i see an athlete get married on instagram- I say PRENUP and SHAKE MY HEAD!!

    • @MaryJaneJones.
      @MaryJaneJones. Před 14 dny +1

      The majority of these guys wouldn’t be able to attract the type of women they have if they didn’t have money. Let’s be honest: these women are often coming to them for a chance at a better life, not because they genuinely love them. This isn’t true for every single woman, but there are many who are looking for a way up through people in the industry.

  • @JudahReignsDance
    @JudahReignsDance Před 20 dny +27

    My grandfather (my mom's dad) paid for my parents wedding and gave them $10,000 to put down on a house. My parents have been married for over 50 years.
    My parents paid for me and my hubby's wedding and sold us the home I was raised in for a reasonable price. We're blessed and grateful. My parents could have gotten 5x more back from what they originally paid for that house. Because they were building a retirement home, we asked them if they would sell it to us and they agreed on the price. God is good.

  • @Badger214
    @Badger214 Před 21 dnem +10

    That's why you should put God first. Dome of you love your wife more than God, even diss God and then cry when the woman takes your stuff

  • @youngLu5t
    @youngLu5t Před 21 dnem +15

    I don’t think Darlene is capping.. I think it’s a cultural thing.. I’m a black man and I think our standards or expectations are too high.. she even said it, it’s going to be at the armory.. we ain’t going for that.. our stuff has to be extravagant and over the top. Darlene is talking about a 2 or 3 thousand dollar wedding.. not 50 or 60.

    • @shighmoney9326
      @shighmoney9326 Před 20 dny +1

      That’s a great point. It did make me think too when she said it.

    • @maximumm2843
      @maximumm2843 Před 20 dny

      Don't take a wife in Babylon!

    • @-king_ace_omerta_313_
      @-king_ace_omerta_313_ Před 19 dny +2

      Right, I don't know why people act like that's hard to believe. It's cultural. The same way how some black people used to tell their kids they have to move out at 18.....illogical, but cultural nonetheless...

    • @lilgetdown
      @lilgetdown Před 16 dny

      Even if it's cultural it's quickly fading into the abyss of a more WESTERNIZED cultural aspect overall. As culture because more watered down as the generations pass, this same idea of the culture y'all are eluding to will be gone & lost due to the brainwashing of the public " especially U.S. public " with social media & the internet pushing radical feminism & a radical lgbtq movement with no checks & balances

  • @yannicksimok1216
    @yannicksimok1216 Před 21 dnem +10

    Im always amazed by men complaining about their divorce 🤣🤣🤣🤣…
    Bruh why ?
    If you got 1% of entrepreneurial mind in your head… you know there’s no a reason to sign a contract when you bring all the money … assume 100% and the business partner can hop out at anytime with 50% of the assets effortlessly if she doesn’t feel it no more 🤣…
    Bruh just provide and don’t sign !

  • @RG-vs8qz
    @RG-vs8qz Před 20 dny +4

    I have a friend that is going through a divorce right now. They have a daughter and out of nowhere she started claiming her was abusive and is trying to take everything from him. Turns out she has been cheating on him with someone slightly richer than he is and she just wants him to suffer

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca Před 20 dny

      Always go to abuse..it's 101 for a country that enables

  • @ngonzale3
    @ngonzale3 Před 21 dnem +11

    Marriage is a beautiful thing… when its a beautiful thing. But you must listen to this take to understand how important that choice is and move accordingly.

    • @lemeilnorman1475
      @lemeilnorman1475 Před 21 dnem +2

      Risk ain't worth the reward. Don't set these brothers up for this

  • @early9422
    @early9422 Před 10 dny +2

    I was the guy who said I'd never get married. Then I turned 32 and got married and still married. I'll never do this to myself again. And I'll leave it at that😢😢😮

  • @Wolfthegreat779
    @Wolfthegreat779 Před 20 dny +16

    A lot of men who committed suicide, or went crazy is because the woman they thought was so great eventually started getting her back blown out by another man and they couldn’t comprehend how that happened after everything they invested… Cold World

    • @soniapinkney1342
      @soniapinkney1342 Před 18 dny

      Men do the same to wives all the times but it’s not talked about !! Most times the women will have the children and more than half the money ( husband ) is gone .
      So she has to have child support …

  • @TheRealDJTabone
    @TheRealDJTabone Před 21 dnem +6

    The more I hear Corey talk the more he sounds like Steve Harvey😂

  • @Louisiana71220
    @Louisiana71220 Před 21 dnem +18

    A woman is loyal to her emotions and feelings first and always, she love the way you make her FEEL in the moments, she don’t actually love you

  • @markrodrigue6913
    @markrodrigue6913 Před 21 dnem +8

    What job allows you to work 6 to 36 months...and retire and be set for life...say..15,000k monthly checks....for years....what job allows this......????? Sadly.. none other than Marriage..

  • @08G8V8
    @08G8V8 Před 21 dnem +6

    I will never get married again and I got a vasectomy. Assets protected.

  • @user-vg8ox3he1i
    @user-vg8ox3he1i Před 20 dny +4

    What burns me is you have to pay child support AND you have to pay the school, insurance and everything else 100%.
    So what the heck does she do? She's basically another dependent. Only men are held to the standard of adults.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca Před 20 dny

      I was thrown off when younger that guys were paying child support while still having close to 50% custody

  • @rhondablanton1163
    @rhondablanton1163 Před 21 dnem +16

    You’re absolutely right

  • @TheCheshier88
    @TheCheshier88 Před 19 dny +4

    I’m 35 never married and no kids and it seems like every day I hear horror stories about men getting screwed and divorces and I’m just like damn maybe I don’t wanna do this eventually

    • @MaryJaneJones.
      @MaryJaneJones. Před 14 dny +1

      In your marriage, the foundation needs to be rooted in God.

    • @shedparker
      @shedparker Před 9 dny

      @@MaryJaneJones.Many have said God sent them their spouse, had him first and still got divorced. 2 fully healed ppl need to marry imo.

  • @quamifilms
    @quamifilms Před 21 dnem +10

    I just recently got divorced and I’m not trying to get married again and the woman that I’m with right now she’s amazing but I am not getting married. We will have a private ceremony with my friends and her friends and will look up contracts with the lawyer as far as power of attorney.

  • @rashawnfredricks4700
    @rashawnfredricks4700 Před 21 dnem +5

    Marriage in the beginning was about OWNERSHIP! It’s why the Father GIVES the daughter away🧏🏾‍♂️ She goes from the Father’s home to the husbands! It’s also why the woman takes the man’s LAST name🎯

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca Před 20 dny

      Helpmeet vs feminist...those times are gone

  • @SelfGenesisist
    @SelfGenesisist Před 21 dnem +62

    "Marriage is an old (outdated) concept..DON'T DO IT"!- Corey H.

    • @Novem3ber11
      @Novem3ber11 Před 21 dnem +4

      @SelfGenesisist THE Lake of fire ain't outdated. "It is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment"

    • @medesrevenge9192
      @medesrevenge9192 Před 21 dnem +4

      lol. I said this exact same shyt over 25 years ago and everybody said I was being crazy. My my my. Look at where society is now.........

    • @tonyperez-perry1906
      @tonyperez-perry1906 Před 21 dnem +3

      I disagree. Marriage is honorable! The problem today is that many people are not worthy of it anymore than they are ready for it. It is something to not be entered into lightly, but that is what most do today. Marriage is not for everyone anymore than parenthood is. Most women today are not marriageable because toxic feminism has ruined the modern woman.

    • @medesrevenge9192
      @medesrevenge9192 Před 21 dnem +3

      @tonyperez-perry1906
      LMAO!!!! Marriage is honorable huh??? Spoken like a dude in a fraternity..........

    • @cedrickcarson
      @cedrickcarson Před 21 dnem +1

      @@tonyperez-perry1906yeah it’s rough. Idk 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @All_4_Success-X
    @All_4_Success-X Před 20 dny +2

    My ex husband had 2 kids by other women drained our little money leaving 3 dollars in my acct and wrecked my car leaving it on the side of road. I stumbled to my job each day now 30yrs later I received $1600. He had nothing and would have gone to jail! So that was my life now kids grown and I survived but Corey simply knows nothing of tradition or customs. COREY was not taught how life shld work and the agreements made between people that govern behaviour. LIKE my EX he did not know some of us live with rules and abide for future strength. Many BLK kids are not taught these things cause their parents do not know. COREY laughs at what is common custom performed by millions my parents included. It is simply IGnorance but they believe everyone else is crazy. Many WIVES are the backbone for what created a HUSBANDS success! That shld be appreciated not ridiculed by slack men that on think of physical pleasure will never understand!

  • @Kofideveloper
    @Kofideveloper Před 21 dnem +8

    Darlene do be capping attempting to bring a challenge

    • @twoine21
      @twoine21 Před 19 dny +1

      bro she is such a liar its so obvious!!

  • @kcnfdntc
    @kcnfdntc Před 21 dnem +5

    A man + a woman + God + government= Its always the government in it.

    • @DV-ou1yu
      @DV-ou1yu Před 20 dny

      Had to throw god in it lmao

    • @kcnfdntc
      @kcnfdntc Před 18 dny

      He put God in the equation

  • @trainersmooth3765
    @trainersmooth3765 Před 21 dnem +9

    Married twice and never again unless its overseas where its even playing field or ill just be solo

    • @user-hk4uo1uq3g
      @user-hk4uo1uq3g Před 21 dnem +6

      Until she gets over here in the US and these American women and men educate her…

    • @theknightandthebishop
      @theknightandthebishop Před 19 dny

      @@user-hk4uo1uq3gnah. The Manosphere always has this covered. Passport bros. Come listen to the experts.

    • @rooseveltdarbey9493
      @rooseveltdarbey9493 Před 15 dny

      ​@@user-hk4uo1uq3gdon't bring her here trust me My family is from Liberia. My uncle brought a female over here to America from there, and as soon as she came here to America she changed completely.

  • @actionjack4096
    @actionjack4096 Před 21 dnem +14

    I was in the male dance Industry and I saw that ALL women are 304's, a married woman would do ANYTHING, then she will go back to her husband like nothing ever happened, I felt sorry for the loving husband's giving the 304's everything they needed then came to the club and gave EVERYTHING away.......

    • @mostunclean6619
      @mostunclean6619 Před 21 dnem +2

      Nothing like screwing a married woman cheating on her husband. The s3x is usually uninhibited and downright animalistic. And they are likely doing things that they don’t do with their husbands. Just the thought of sending them home to hubby with my s3m3n on their lips turns me on. 😂

    • @jaydrains2247
      @jaydrains2247 Před 21 dnem

      Oh, so u were the one screwing all the future wives at the bachelorette parties ? Lol .. all the husbands ask for is an apology

    • @ninaj.4885
      @ninaj.4885 Před 20 dny +1

      Sir men were the same at the strip clubs too. I knew pastors that came up in there taking girls to "private" rooms getting extra services. There were plenty of married men doing the same thing. Exactly why me and my ex husband broke up. I knew people in the club he didn't know I knew. He was shocked when I walked up on him in the act. I learned a lesson from that. I wouldn't let my man go to a strip club unless I went with him. We're going together.

    • @byranttaylor1535
      @byranttaylor1535 Před 20 dny

      ​@ninaj.4885 yea, but it was his money to spend. we dnt wanna hear marital money because we know your money is your money and my money is quote and quote our money. Look women in the end wanna be men period. Basically, women r saying whatever you can do I can do better wolves in sheep clothing

    • @ninaj.4885
      @ninaj.4885 Před 19 dny +1

      @@byranttaylor1535 I'm responding to what you said about married womens conduct in strip clubs so at what point did the money come into to play because you made no mention of that in your original post....I guess the married dudes at the strip clubs getting "extra" in the back room were loving husbands too..ok. Because unless you know these people outside the club you don't know their personal life. I knew who some of these married pastors were. I can't speak on the other married men up in there but I already know men condone men cheating but not women. Only if a woman does it is it considered crossing the line.

  • @lawryjones9502
    @lawryjones9502 Před 20 dny +3

    A real pimp told me... "If a woman marries you.... She hates you".... I didn't understand 😊

  • @eugenebrewster8227
    @eugenebrewster8227 Před 7 dny +1

    Nowadays, marriage is a contract between Man, Woman, and the Injustice System. 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @a97jones
    @a97jones Před 21 dnem +11

    what system isnt slanted to benefit women?

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca Před 20 dny +1

      Patriarchal one....not America

  • @Tankdawg729
    @Tankdawg729 Před 21 dnem +3

    The only father that pays for a wedding is one who have money, that's it. Nowadays it's the couple that is saving up the money to pay for the wedding, even if the father is around because most don't have the money to pay for that shit.

  • @b.s0vere1gn
    @b.s0vere1gn Před 21 dnem +2

    Bernie Mack voice: What y'all know about love?!.. Witcha hand holding and feeding each other food.. That's 🐂💩!!! 😂😂😂

  • @KaratAllenPoe
    @KaratAllenPoe Před 19 dny +1

    As a man who is the breadwinner, getting married is one of the dumbest things that you can possibly do.
    - Estate planning and POA’s give you all of the benefits of passing down wealth and making medical decisions for each other when needed.
    - Making your significant other a beneficiary on your accounts can fast track this
    If a woman won’t stay with you unless you marry her, she CLEARLY isn’t in it for you, so move around.
    -

  • @thegentlemen9389
    @thegentlemen9389 Před 14 dny +1

    Marriage is nothing more than a business agreement. Where you lose assets and take on other people's debt.

  • @MadeTaylor
    @MadeTaylor Před 20 dny +3

    I gotta pay the government to marry and divorce, cut the shit!!!

  • @nastystew6942
    @nastystew6942 Před 20 dny +2

    After 18 years, I will never get married again!

  • @RMFeminine4TheWin
    @RMFeminine4TheWin Před 21 dnem +4

    *if Cmdr Coop head down the aisle again he's singing: 🎵"WE WANT PRE-NUP! WE WANT PRE-NUP, YEAH!!!"🎶💍📑*

  • @AlexanderXLive
    @AlexanderXLive Před 21 dnem +5

    2nd lol Theo well put you said exactly what I was thinking. Yeah you right her face when Craig was talking speaks to the mentality of these modern women, she's a good sparring partner in these conversations. Lol. Great vid Coop 🫡🫡

  • @ninetiesbaby90
    @ninetiesbaby90 Před 20 dny +2

    You would think with all the warnings men would learn and stop marrying legally but no, and they keep burning. Every time

  • @LADYDIVAful
    @LADYDIVAful Před 19 dny +1

    Dee is absolutely right!
    According to tradition, it is the bride's father or family who bears the responsibility of covering the costs of the wedding. This long-held tradition symbolizes the symbolic act of the father giving away his daughter to her husband, who assumes the role of her provider and protector. My family proudly adheres to this customary practice.
    A notable illustration of this tradition can be seen in the lighthearted exchange between Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence when Eddie’s son proposed to Martin’s daughter. Both fathers playfully bantered about who would be footing the bill for the wedding.

  • @nnamdionyegu337
    @nnamdionyegu337 Před 21 dnem +2

    The situation where the bride's family pays for the wedding is prevalent in Indian and Pakistani homes.

  • @carlosturner1608
    @carlosturner1608 Před 12 dny +1

    I don't feel sorry for any man who gets married these days. He knew the consequences before and still decided to get married. Then man up and deal with it and don't cry about it now 😂😂

  • @HeyMissesParker
    @HeyMissesParker Před 21 dnem +7

    Darlene is Dilusional

  • @miguellorenzo3609
    @miguellorenzo3609 Před 21 dnem +3

    I divorced once and I came out winning…no alimony, property, and most importantly we didn’t have kids together…

    • @Officially_Wynter
      @Officially_Wynter Před 19 dny

      You broke huh?

    • @Dell7788
      @Dell7788 Před 19 dny

      Money or not. Do not marry a woman that don't make money. If the man has more, get a prenup.

    • @Dell7788
      @Dell7788 Před 19 dny

      My ex wife salty. At time of divorce she made more money so I got out free. Now I make more than her. And now she has to deal with men like me with money who can pick and choose and have standards. Women hate that.

    • @shutup5407
      @shutup5407 Před 19 dny

      @@Officially_Wynteru single huh

    • @Officially_Wynter
      @Officially_Wynter Před 18 dny

      @@shutup5407 you triggered huh 😭

  • @shontay840
    @shontay840 Před 20 dny +2

    Great communication great intelligence. My pops said son dats just writing on paper dat means nada stay woke😂

  • @loyisomabuya6441
    @loyisomabuya6441 Před 21 dnem +3

    If D is honest then her family is definitely the exception to the rule, the majority of people out there guys pay for the weddings and everything in between, even with celebs i never heard that Beyonces dad paid for her wedding with Jay,

  • @TheTruthcometh
    @TheTruthcometh Před 10 dny +1

    Yeas ago a man paid $50K for his daughters marriage 6 months later she divorced him😱
    Her father sued his daughter to get his $50K back🤣

  • @mestizoinc5208
    @mestizoinc5208 Před 21 dnem +2

    No-fault Divorce destroyed old school marriage💸

  • @bigshot9891
    @bigshot9891 Před 21 dnem +4

    ALL FACTS‼ NO LIES DETECTED‼💯💯🎯

  • @KingNug304
    @KingNug304 Před 20 dny +1

    Corey married a single mother and tried to be a stepdad. He didn’t even raise his own kids.

  • @gilsander68
    @gilsander68 Před 19 dny +1

    Stay single in America
    Best way 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @eddiesmith5617
    @eddiesmith5617 Před 18 dny +1

    Even if you're "broke"...if your marriage produces a child she will always find a way to use that child to control you and to hit your pockets no matter how old your child(ren) get(s).

  • @ultragrimx8993
    @ultragrimx8993 Před 21 dnem +2

    Kraig always says some real shit. Darlene be wildin sometimes because thats not normal in America anymore so her perspective is from a extremely small percentage.

  • @BIGBG74
    @BIGBG74 Před 20 dny +2

    Pastor Dowell been saying this for years

  • @willthebeast8002
    @willthebeast8002 Před 9 dny

    I'm 45, and look 25... People ask me all the time, what's my secret? I tell, I'm not married, and never will. Gtfoh....

  • @GrapeTeaNews
    @GrapeTeaNews Před 21 dnem +5

    The Game Is RIGGED‼️ 🎮

  • @dannyanderson2513
    @dannyanderson2513 Před 19 dny

    Like Martin Lawrence said in Bad Boys, you sleep together but you don't get none. Marriage ain't nothing but a retirement plan for a woman

  • @unkameatgoodbar2315
    @unkameatgoodbar2315 Před 19 dny +1

    Never married in amerikkka...left 1st and married foreign...best choice i ever made.

  • @ToppyJoe
    @ToppyJoe Před 17 dny

    Marriage isn't the problem and never has been. It's how society has twisted everything around it.
    There are benefits to doing things the right way and consequences for poor choices.

  • @marcusjones1432
    @marcusjones1432 Před 21 dnem +2

    Everything he said... plus add on, if you ain't got no money and you get divorced then you ain't gon have no money for a while after that too.

  • @dennwilliams3342
    @dennwilliams3342 Před 13 dny +1

    Jigga says it in Legacy. It’s not about love it’s about one family blending another family to keep the money in the family …..

  • @Deeman881
    @Deeman881 Před 17 dny +1

    Sugar shane hoop like he didn't have a place to live what that means 😂

  • @TkKirklandReal
    @TkKirklandReal Před 21 dnem +7

    Teyanna had her own and still took thr mans money

  • @REDD_Dragon_2024
    @REDD_Dragon_2024 Před 19 dny

    In my opinion now days men marry for love,Women marry for security and a financial come up.

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel Před 21 dnem +1

    I'm divorced and still paying my ex. Both marriage and divorce are costly these days. I think all women benefit from marriage and divorce. The woman will win no matter what. If you marry get an 'Iron Clad Prenuptial' agreement.

  • @charlesadams8018
    @charlesadams8018 Před 20 dny +1

    Kevin Samuels described marriage was for Duty not love.

  • @MultiPrince70
    @MultiPrince70 Před 20 dny +1

    I divorced after 6 months because I realized all the stuff you are talking about early on and ended it very fast without her trying to claim anything!!!!

  • @BianicEpicVideos
    @BianicEpicVideos Před 19 dny

    11:20 these edits always have me rolling

  • @AlonzoDejean-ll8hb
    @AlonzoDejean-ll8hb Před 21 dnem +1

    I been with my wife 17 years and once we got married things went left

    • @theknightandthebishop
      @theknightandthebishop Před 19 dny

      She never wanted you in the 1st place. She doesn’t have genuine desire for you. Go workout 5 days a week & get in shape. I bet you her behavior begins changing.

  • @TheTruthcometh
    @TheTruthcometh Před 10 dny +1

    Don't forget common law marriages!
    Check the state you live in concerning that matter because if you stay with her beyond 7 years, she's entitled to half your assets automatically😭

  • @333angeleyes
    @333angeleyes Před 21 dnem +2

    Coop I have an honest question: "in this day and age-especially with the prevalent information of real life cautionary stories from the internet-why do celebrity (black) men still get married without a prenuptial agreement?"
    It blows my mind when I hear the amount of money that these men lose! Especially to women who were nobody's before they married them. However, how sorry can you feel for a man who should have known better or been more diligent?

  • @jamelappsolute457
    @jamelappsolute457 Před 20 dny +2

    All men should put all assets in a trust.

  • @Cooljohn760
    @Cooljohn760 Před 21 dnem +3

    Iman better hope he save his money from the Chi them divorce payments about to hit him hard.

  • @javonnelson4694
    @javonnelson4694 Před 21 dnem +1

    Civics classes is much needed in our community that's coming from the Chief