Will Men Choose Woman Based On Looks Or Personality?
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Attraction opens the door, and personality makes you stay.
@@mariasol1545true shxt
@@mariasol1545 I'm a man and I'd argue the same thing, I've never heard a woman saying "The crazy d*ck is worth it" or "The d*ck is worth his craziness" but I've definitely heard it the other way around from other men lol
@@mariasol1545Both genders do this in equal measure. Chad and Tyrone wouldn't be a meme if women didn't do it often.
@@mariasol1545nah both men and women lol
cope
Dude couldn't WAIT to lie about noticing "pErSoNaLiTy" first
Woman do to. Lol
😂 I'd say "Looks" with a "are they an asshole" scan to their behavior in public
@@mikethepokemaster2012women be like: His personality is tall. 😂😂
@@markstriker925😂😂 this cancels the idea that women like what we hear. I do like what I see and the truth is many men aren't even saying what we want to hear, we just go along with who we like even if aliens on Mars can see he's a douche
@@markstriker925 😂😂😂
It's literally in the question "what do you SEE first?" You see LOOKS. Not personality. How do you initially see the unseen?
Third eye man
You see their blue hair, tattoos, piercings, crazy eyes and makeup, bull ring, RBF, etc etc
If you're a mbikudi...you actually do.
Buddhists and Yogis can train the mind to see personality first. Decade of training hard. At least.
Start with Alan Watts , then Ram Dass
People that say they're interested in personalty first are lying, period. At the end of the day, a romantic relationship will involve sex, so you HAVE to be attracted physically to the other person. While it's true that you could fall in love with someone you wouldn't "normally" find physically attractive, it's definitely not the norm/human nature.
"Sensitive artistic type, I'm a cancer"
That almost made me vomit
I'm Cancer and I second that
that actually made me vomit.
everything about him tbh 🤣
I thought he said he was the autistic type.
made me mad cus it hit
Remember: NOT NORMAL PEOPLE
Those are the normal people. I have never met anyone in the past 37 years of my life that chose me based on my personality.
Exactly, nobody normal would go on these shows XD
Not people*. 😂😂
@@OneximusVerseAIPp
Of course they're not normal they're americans
all that "i dont care about the outside, the inside is the most important" BS needs to stop
Unless you are a surgeon, then i call liar.
Most women care ab both but if a hot dude has a shy personality they won’t stay ong
@@bbailey3055 and thus why both go hand in hand. Personality without looks is like looking at a book. And looks without personality is like reading a magazine. That is why people like movies.
I think of M in casino royale. “Any thug can kill. I want you to take your ego out of the equation. And to judge the situation dispassionately.”
Anyone can be pretty but to have a good personality is less common.
I'd say there's a ratio for everyone. I personally value appearance like anyone else (who would want to have sex with someone you don't find attractive at all?) but I truly think (at least for me) personality definitely weighs more. Looks only take you so far long term.
I'm not picky. Weight is the only thing that trumps personality for me. Call me out. Say I'm a liar. Whatever. I'll ride or die with an ugly woman who gets it over a pretty one who doesn't any day.
IF "golden retriever personality GF" needed a definition here it is
Oh, that's a nice way to say that. Now I'm hating her less 😂😂
Her personality is so bubbly.. she met that blonde hair type stereotype
@Dakyta252 what did she do that is worth being hated for apart from being happy?? I swear yall are some bitter and miserable people
Holy shit I hate when you people say golden retriever energy.
@@johnysharki5694
You're in CZcams. Everyone's BEEN a hater here and there
15:40 “I like people with a little more death inside” I felt that
oh i thought he said depth 😂
@@niallharrison8180 In this case they are related and both apply.
@@barongerhardt fair point i suppose just didn’t think it was so grim lol
Yup! Couldn't relate more! 😅 I hate over the top bubbly and optimistic people with a passion 😂
@@iulia.bianca.b Hating happy people is insane 💀
"yeah but the aura stfu retrograde" 😭
That line should be on a shirt, with some zodiac sign drawing haha
😂😂😂he came in aggressive w that comment! Preach is hilarious
I don't understand retrograde in this comment
Let me see your Pussinality... that's going on a t-shirt 😂
Already on it.
What about respecting Pussy-cats?
@ilovecats7626It's contextual
Come on man Youlovecats so you gotta love this joke on pussynality😂 @ilovecats
"Underdog....put it on a T-shirt"
I took a girl axe throwing on a first date a few years ago and learned it really quickly. I was getting bullseyes left and right... She was concerned...
Pro Tip: If you take a girl axe throwing, purposefully suck so she doesn't think you're a serial killer.
Plot Twist! I’m screaming. 😂
why, she was probably turned on by it. 💊
Shit now I got to be not as good but still better than her. Girls don't want a guy they're better than
Unless she gets really competetive, then all bets are off
This is the type of girl that will break up with you when you're having a bad day because you're ruining her vibe.
If u ain't energetic or don't have many plans going on I could see her leaving right away.
LMAO nah facts
Omg I hate ppl like that
Avoid her like a loose rottweiler.
Who hurt you
Who baked one cookie for Preach? 😂
We need that story😂
Just the one?not in a batch?
I make batches of cookie dough, portion them out to cookie size, and freeze them lol. I will bake one cookie 😂
@@meechynailedit Maybe it was one of those BIG, BIG cookies.
@@EricaYE6 Pizza sized cookie?
"Are you nervous? Don't be nervous." - OK, I will stop :/
Remember: Just don't be poor.
And don't be sick while we are here.
He should become psychologist
@@TyonKree😂😂🤣
Maybe take some initiative and join up with a nice stable benzene structure? Ester was so last weekend anyway, just get you some diels-alder and you will be good to go I reckon.
I mean... Someone seeming warm and open can help with being nervous to commicate with them.
Being poor or sick does not fall into the same category.
As a girl who loves to bake i actually lost weight when i started baking. I have a sweet tooth and buying sweets at a bakery or baking from the box is a lot more calories than cookie from scratch. When i bake from scratch i can use alternative ingredients to make it healthier while still eating what i love.
I lost weight too since making sweets just made me see how much sugar I'm putting in there. Rather than swiping my card and feasting...
@@natemorts8907 yes! And i feel like they put something extra in the premade goods lol like it would make my cravings worse
I used to own a vegan restaurant & bakery that specialised in allergy friendly and healthier options, but I don’t bake at home for myself because then I end up eating the entire thing 😅
@@artbygilik 😂😂😂 i try to ration my treats over the course of a week. Which is easier for heavier sweets like cheesecake or pie’s but harder for cookies.
@@WarmSun_MGM right?! I once made a flourless black bean brownie so I convinced myself that it's high protein healthy, and the thing was gone within a day 😆
Date someone who bakes and works out. Odd are, they like to bake shit that tastes good and isn’t going to blow you up like a balloon
Yes thats always my goal when baking, I want to indulge in desert but which also is good for the body. I love adding pumpkin seeds!
You master the oven. I mastered the grill and smoker. Meeting in that middle is culinary delight.
Watch your tongue
Everybody mentions looks and personality but never think about character and substance, the things that make a relationship work
Because people dont have any these days. Thats why everyones either clout chasing or has an only fans
Bro, looks get your attention first; personality keeps you interested long enough to see their character and substance. You cant get a sense of someone’s character without watching them long enough to really know them.
Well, character and substance are assumed when saying personality because they are often the building blocks for how ones personality turns out. But I get what you are saying. It's just that most people intrinsically assume that is apart of the "whole" for what is _unseen,_ when people say looks or personality.
@@JAMAICAN876Yes! Exactly.
Most people just think of character substance and personality as synonyms.
I was out when she said she worked in social media. Those people tend to be vain. Her energy was also too high. Agree with Preach, gotta be a lil dead inside for me.
You know damn well that means Instagram and if it hasn't happened already, Only Fans is soon to follow.
@@jackson102881.. only fools! that's exactly what I was thinking only fools
Yeah, it's a bit of a red flag
Listen, I’m girlie af and I didn’t know “axe throwing” was a thing until I went to this axe-throwing venue and then-- wildly enough in the next room, mofos were in suits of armor and sword fighting across from this big ass bar. 😂 it was cool af. 10/10 would do it again.
The Key and Peele reference would have got me..cause I’m a sucker for that show
Same, I would have been like “He wins 🏆 “
I was totally thinking that. I love key and peele it was such a missed opportunity for her to not say something like ‘nooooo I’m not coming back! Nooo!’
You know you are getting old when you find soft-hating attractive. You are just tired of all the fakeness in the world 😂
Bro that 22 year old “omg everything is awesome“ energy is just too much for me.
Fr
Indeed 😂😂
Yeah! This girl’s personality is annoying asf. I wouldn’t stand out it for even 10 minutes.
19 and have been tired of it for a couple of years now, but you know at my age most people are still somewhat like that, so I will just need to manage.
Im with preach. Tf you so happy for? She annoyed me😂
I wasn't that energetic at that age. Then again, I'm average looking so...
@@NotAdultingTodaysome women just be like that, its not necessarily an age thing, its more a general personality trait. i know women in their 60s who are still super energetic
She's like a ray of sunshine, but I heard her very clearly. She doesn't like negativity and probably isn't equipped for it. When things go bad she probably gets going.
@@NotAdultingTodayhmu
She moved too fast like techno.
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That was such a poorly executed "reveal" that I didn't even realize they were supposed to think there was 2 girls back there.
Did you even watch the original video, or just this one? Judging content based off of a reaction video is not legit.
"you don't know the price of cheese. That's why you're so happy". That's poetry right there. So true
Physical attraction is important man. I hate it when people act like if you care about a girl's appearance then you're shallow. Sorry i like pretty things, i guess? Only ugly people would say that let's be honest.
If you're forcing yourself to date someone you don't find attractive its just gonna be an unhealthy relationship.
Honestly, do people really wanna date someone who doesn't find them attractive? I really wouldn't.
It's the same for women. Except they value things like income, height, and status as well.
In both cases, personality and character come after
Girls are a lot more shallow then give off anyway so no need to explain yourself. Both genders are incredibly shallow in some areas
Lol, as a homely woman (I look like Dan Aykroyd and Rose O'Donnell's love child), personality and looks both matter, in my opinion. Especially when it comes to dating long-term. I've dated some nice-looking men, but they had the personalities of toy poodles on Crack. Needy neurotic bullies who were extremely shallow. Both personality and looks are the rare unicorn you should be looking for, hon.
@@Ash_Wen-li if all women are like this then i want none, it be that way, value me for me, not my income, they can make their own income.
Preach has me cracking up with the _"whispers_ gay" aba "noo, fuck boy". "OH my bad, I thought we were talking bout..😂...I thought that's what we were doing (toxic) aba "Noo no I don't do that" _looks at the camera._ Okay they *BOTH* Have me cracking up. I had to watch that part several times 😂 Y'all's interactions are why we keep coming back _daily_ years later! Love you two for who you are!
Ps: you don't need somebody with a little hater, you want somebody who has lived life and actually been through shit, yet still works hard to be happy..somebody maintaining that _balance_ who also has wisdom and logic. They can have fun, but they don't always have to be out to have a good time. They have a comfortable, easy going attitude and can adjust as necessary. That's what I feel most men need. She also needs to motivate you to be a better man and to _want_ to do things you wouldn't otherwise do. If she doesn't make you feel that way, then either she isn't the one, or you aren't ready for a relationship and you need to work on yourself.
_Or_ maybe you do want somebody with that beautiful, youthful happiness energy because to me it screams _I grew up in the perfect happy family... who happens to have LOTS of money and would never let their baby girl go without and would also help their future son inaw succeed in any way if they love him too._ 🤷🏼♀️ Just a thought! People who look THAT happy and have THAT MUCH ENERGY... they aren't hurting. BUT you gotta find the diffidence to be around that and make sure you don't bring her down at all in order to make it work. If you wanna step up to that, logically- you might wanna start therapy and work REALLY hard on yourself and if she truly likes you..don't fuck it up through self-deorication or self-sabotoge! This is how many people step up in life- and it's even rarer for it to be true love (whether it's a man or woman trying to emotionally connect to somebody on another level) Now something tells me he is already on her level 😂 but I'm speaking to the men who aren't (financially, and possibly in other ways) But just keep in mind that a young woman who is able to genuinely smile that hard, that often, and with that much energy- yeah they aren't hurting for 💵. And things probably just come to them easily, be it opportunity or just getting free shit and having lots of friends and a nice home etc..they have it goin in. Normal people don't smile and have that energy. 😂 Not like that. The only times I've EVER smiled like that are when I *didn't* have to worry about choosing rent/bills or food/toiletries/meds/etc! 😭😂 which is pathetic, but eyyy life's a bitch for those who don't have it easy! But you can still find an amazing woman who doesn't have money and have happiness without the struggle! I'm proof of that. I have a family and this July 8th it'll be 10yrs, and *knock on wood* we are starting to ret to a better place- but even when we've been struggling the most, we have always had unconditional love and two amazing son's and we laugh so much and hear I love you about a hundred times a day! When you find real love, you gotta hold onto it! And if it just _happens_ to come with those bonuses, then that is extra awesome and rare!
@@TheKatarinaGiselleok👁👄👁
you ok ?@@TheKatarinaGiselle
@@Riya-js1tc 😂 I'm great. Are _you_ okay? 😂 did you watch the entire video.. _and_ listen? I responded to what they said..
@@Graylord12 do you not find preach and aba to be funny? 😬 _Okayyyy_
“Swing some swords? 🤔 Ayo.” Had me dead 🤣
⚔️ Sword fight 😅
Pause. 🤣🤣
the baking hate was crazy. I love me some cookies
It would actually be HILARIOUS if they showed the other woman at the end and she was way hotter. I would pay to see the guys' faces
Yeah that's actually what I thought they were going to do.
It would be more Hilarious it she was reveal to be fat and not good looking.
I actually liked this twist, it was an interesting video
Misery in your soul is more accurate. Taxpayers can see a fellow taxpayer just by a soul sucking twinkle in the eyes. 😂
After 30 years of being told that looks don't matter, we get shows like this. Dates were to find out the personality was good AFTER the attraction.
"Shut the fuck up retrograde" 🤣🤣I am going to steal that.
Appearances first and then personality. Men tend to be more visual so sometimes we are struck hard with just looks. They also don't have "icks" like women so it's harder to deter them off a woman they are already very attracted to.
That being said if a woman is average looking and has a fire personality, she can be way more attractive than conventionally attractive women. Guys just won't notice it right away.
Facts
Yep. Men pay more attention to personality when they really want to settle down.
Well said, lovely. Sometimes, the more you get to know someone, the more beautiful they appear.
I’m a woman & same bro. Defs appearance noticed first. You need all ingredients for a good recipe tho so ofc have to have a good personality
@@sababaratashvili8629 oh wow just like women?
The gay guy in the beginning was completely unnecessary….
90% sure that's the corny, annoying button voice
Stop assuming others sexuality
Yeah, that high water wearing mofo! The whole episode he had me like where's the flood at.. 🚣
@@Occ881wtf look at him😂
@@Occ881why not? We make assumptions about other things
i have done axe throwing twice as dates and they were pretty fun. granted both girls were into martial arts. but gets you doing things instead of just trying to force conversation and gets a bit of competition blood flowing (no actual blood was flowing just be clear!). escape rooms are also pretty good for the first or second dates, gets you both cooperating and talking.
edit: and yes, as a hema fencer, if a girl said she was also into hema, first date would be like "grab your gear, we're gonna fight!"
I have never fenced cause there are no classes nearby where I live, but I would have loved that. I have always been into fencing
I like the escape rooms idea. I think it could be a decent indicator of compatibility if y'all can work together and make it out, rather than butt heads at every turn.
@@nigelbhebhe2805 true. just pick an easy escape room. most are designed for large groups, with only two people will be difficult to go through the whole thing. i do think interactive dates are a lot more interesting than just coffee or drinks
Are you still dating any of them? Did it work out long term.
@@patricialdv5220 still going out with escape room date. Other two went on a few dates but wasnt seeing it progressing anywhere
People need to stop the cap. Attraction matters. A lot of dope personality woman but if im not attracted to you then it is what it is.
12:07 yoooo someone was actually behind the curtains on the right side
Right!
It is a fake person, so you can at least see a silhouette and fool the viewers
@@user-jt4oy1tf3i Question is, between shots didn't the dudes notice anything weird? Like someone coming and leaving before and after the final reveal
@@jimbass2214 yes, i was wondering that too
Regarding youthful energy…
I feel as I age I have more of it when I socialize. I had less of it when I was younger tbh…
Okay but we've all noticed this: a great personnality can actually enhance looks, whereas beautiful people with a boring or trash personnality can never be saved by their good looks. We get disinterested real quick. I know I do.
Nah you know how many times ppl look past red flags because they’re gorgeous. Especially if they think they’ll never do better
@@tony2trippy290 exactly
@@tony2trippy290 Emotional dependancy, fear of rejection and/or abandonment have nothing to do with looks.
@@tony2trippy290 That's their problem. Let em learn the hard way.
@@tony2trippy290 That's true, but I think they mean the person with a great personality that enhances their looks is more likely to have a long lasting healthy relationship than a toxic gorgeous person. Amber Heard is a great example.
You need to be attracted to the person you are with but what you are attracted to is different from other people.
However, a bad personality with make someone unattractive REAL quick.
An analogy I've made is a hook and a fishing line: The hook(looks) is the first shiny sometimes alluring thing I notice. But then the fishing line (personality) is revealed. IF both are good it is a catch, if personality is bad the line breaks. If the hook does not interest me in the beginning the chance that I bite is low.
Oooohhh i like that!!
Here's a question: would you approach a woman if you thought she would reject you or take the risk anyways?
@@justacoginthefkery Yes. I have done this and been rejected before, twice. I can tell you that asking is better Choice. You might be a Little sad or embaressed for those few seconds of the day but it is better than spending nights overthinking someones feelings for you. I have done both and I know I'd take the first option again asking her out on the spot
Tell me you've never gone fishing without telling me you've never gone fishing.
The line is just the opportunity that was cast in your direction.
The lure is physical attraction.
The hook is personality and shared values.
@@CrimsonWolf69 I see what you mean, then the fisherman would be the matchmaker
5:12 you pull out your sword and shes pulls hers
Even better😏😏 jk jk
The twist was so obvious. And OF COURSE she chose the most handsome dude from the personality group cause why tf wouldn’t she
He was engaging, interesting, good conversationist. Come on now, don't be jealous.
@@dudeorduuude5211 You could say the same thing about many of the other guys
@@cokemachine62590they didn't have the lightness and ease this guy did.
@@cokemachine62590 Nah dude, if I was gay I woulda picked Horacio so easily, wouldn't even need the other interviews.
@@YodalemosYou don’t have to be gay to date a man. Don’t be phobic it’s 2024 bro
This video set my gaydar off the fucking charts
Check out 2pac 1988 highschool interview. Your gaydar will overheat
@@Guus115 more like *blue pilled soyboy* back then.
Then ♀nature *red pilled* the shit out of him. Nobody can *red pill* men faster than women. ♀
Wanting me to have a romantic emotional attachment to someone and not be attracted to the physically is like asking me to operate my body without a brain. No amount of “your a good person” is gonna make me commit to you sometimes just being good ain’t enough. But that also don’t mean I’m taking a woman as my wife cus she’s attractive. Shit my child’s mother and my ex are high 8’s at the least but when shit revealed itself I got low and dipped, respectfully of course
At some point you gotta do the deed, and it's sure to wear goggles so there you go
its not only about being "a good person" neither...a lot of good people can be boring, shallow or simply just not your match...
@@Threegreentails comparability is key, but often times people relate people being a “good person” to being good in a relationship so that’s why I said it like tht
It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman. . . appearances ALWAYS come first. If you aren't physically attracted to someone then it's not gonna work out. After that then you have personality which is what dating is for. This ain't complicated. . .
women are mild, thereis no looks with them unless they are not fat.
I'm a woman and I don't care about looks, unless a man is attrocious looking or has a creepy vibe/ stare etc. I care about the character 99% of everything and how they treat me, can they cook or they're search a mommy to help them out with everything.
@@flyandshy00"unless they are atrocious" so he is right, you wouldn't date an ugly man.
@@flyandshy00we know what women think byt apearenceis not imprtant.the face is not symetric, the guy has to be tall, has to have good features, has to have money higher education.(Do u pay rent living in the others person house).YEah all the basic stuff, below that they are hidious.Good thing we dont use make up and filters
@@tristandimitrijev3195Not all women like the same things. For instance my ex was tall, made good money and was a sweet guy overall, but we didn’t have the same values. My current bf is “short,” has a lower paying job by comparison and sleeps in his car. I love him to death but by your logic, he wouldn’t be what women want. I care about looks, but I also care about their core being. My ex was shallow and we disagreed on a lot. My current bf has a heart of gold and we agree with each other on many things but challenge each other on some level as well. You think you know what women want, dude I don’t know what the woman next door to me wants. She has different opinions from me, and I have different opinions from the next lady over. Women are all different, men are all different. We ALL want DIFFERENT things.
You guys have a great pulse on people. Y'all can read people so well and it's refreshing how it's presented. Quite blunt, funny, yet respectful [usually 😂].
With the "what do you notice first" question, there is a case to be made for guys like me who see attractive women and don't think much of it because i have such little tolerance for bad personality. So yes, technically, i see appearance first, but i will *notice* and take an interest in expressions of good personality/ character, even if she wasn't as attractive as other girls around.
Of course, being ugly and overweight is gonna outweigh that, but i don't make a binary of attractive vs unattractive. Mid range has a lot of wiggle room
1:42
Me, as a person that LOVES to bake, and used to bring different types of cakes and desserts at Uni because baking is like a relaxing activity but I can never finish everything on my own and because I love sharing : 👁👄👁
Right 😂
I baked my husband snickerdoodles the other day😂
Exactly 😅 I just baked soft pretzels for my husband to snack on...
Facts, when you bake you just give it to other people lol, and I also make healthy desserts too
Used to be a professional pastry cook. Lmao felt personally attacked by their take. 😂
As someone else dating in Los Angeles (can’t speak for other locations) baking, picnics and lord of the rings extended cut are the basic answers for women rn.
For anyone who dated a year or so ago, this replaced making pasta dishes, going on a hike, and “beating you at Mario Kart”
Lol I love to bake but I don't know about the others
Jeez... as if LA couldn't get any worse they had to drag LOTR into this too?
Been married a long time but pasta, hikes, and Mario cart sounds so dope
The world hasn't crushed their spirits yet! "That youthful energy" is full on.
AT LAST the floor gets recognition for all the input it has made to this channel.
I always liked the floor's takes the best
It’s usually looks first but it is possible to notice personality first.
Eg in group settings it could be the personality that makes you notice someone and attract you even more.
7:32 do you speak spanish
me: “Donde Esta La Biblioteca 😁
"straight out of CSI Miami"
GET OUT OF MY HEAD MAN
Aba said that sword swinging shit and ain't even say no diddy 😂😂
But we bake with healthy ingredients, we some of us...
YES!!! I love finding healthy substitutions so that I can eat things I like often. Many things can be made without sugar and oil :)
Just realized my energy was young lol
It's still garbage. Fake sugars and glutenfree dough is still unhealthy
I gotta be honest, this is my ideal first date
Axe throwing --> lunch --> movie --> arcade --> dinner
That’s a lot of money to spend on a first date
This first date is going to take all day!
It's a lot of money and sure it's gonna take all day but this is all stuff I ain't just doing to show off but all things I'd genuinely enjoy doing with someone and its pretty unique. Even if the date doesn't go super well, I'm still gonna be happy I ate out at nice places and did some cool things
You going to feed her twice in one day??! Yoooo,what you on??
Dude goes on a lot of first dates and the girls chalk it up as a free meal.
Aba, I'm a wife and mother of 4. I love cooking/baking fir my family. I hardly eat as much as my husband and children because by the tume I'm done, I am full from all the fumes and I am tired. And I mostly cook for them. When I was single, I hardly cooked. Just to say that I work out everyday and I am in top shape. People hardly believe me when I tell them I'm a mother of 4. So, a person can love cooking without being fat.
The one piece guy is just like me, if they give me a chance to talk about it i could talk for hours
Comparing it to Riverdale was hilarious though even if she had nothing to go off of
@@vinsmoke_in_morioh I dont even know what Riverdale is haha
I think it's time for aba to do this
So fugging true. I don’t think someone who has never overcome will criticise your stuggles.
Like my ex used to tell me to put my foot down to my boss about not wanting to do overtime
😅. When i didnt i was a softy and she was gone.
I do have issues with confrontation and rsd . Having a undiagnosed neurological condition didn’t help.
But them give suggestions all time. Just do this and that.
Bruv you don’t know how it is to know if you loose the job. Tour on your own. You don’t saw at the branch you are sitting on
Saying that you don't care about appearance in dating is equivalent to saying I don't see color.
I don’t get people who say that, cuz I’ll randomly remember people I’m friends with aren’t white, and then I feel weird for forgetting about that, I am riddled with autism tho so that might be why
"Pussinality" Is crazy!!!
Am I tripping? Or around the 11 min and 23 second mark you can kind of see someone else behind the other curtains?
Na I seen that too
The moment Horacio started asking her instead of him responding her questions I knew she would chose him. I've heard if you want a date to go well let your date talk about him/herself.
It worked
It's a pro sales tactic: get folks talking about themselves and talking about their needs. The worst salespeople come from the perspective of trying to sell you what they've got.
I just started watching you guys yesterday and you crack me up! Keep it coming.
I’m onto you Aba. I know you’re pre-watching these videos bruh
Personality is important, but if you don't think a person is attractive you'll never talk to them enough to fall for their personality
Horacio covering all the bases including wearing and 80’s era Iron Maiden shirt.
Looks are just an icebreaker. Obviously there is a threshold for looks in a relationship (my personal preference), but personality for sure is just as important if not a couple notches higher of importance in a long term relationship. Something I learned later on in life is if they don’t have a sense of humor, they can’t crack their own jokes, or just don’t have a personality then yeah I got to walk away.
I’ll value personality overall of course, but upon the initial contact in that particular sense appearances are the most important; you can however get a peek of a person’s personality in how they present themselves
As a latino dude, horacio is the most insufferable guy out there
True, but it works.
@@rickyemiguel sadly yes
Anyone with experience would know he's a "smooth talker". Insufferable, yes
@@elayne8258 i feel like hes trying too hard to be the stereotypical movie/tv show attractive latino dude
He's trying WAYYY too hard but I guess it works for him
- another latino dude
"Swing some swords" 🤣🤣🤣
You don't believe you can see personality first until you've experienced it. Many people mistake the manifestations of personality for physical traits alone. For example: Personality impacts movement and posture, impacts literal curves and vibrations of the body, impacts physical apeal. 2 people with identical frames can have opposite impacts and it be completey due to personality.
Reminds me of my Senior yr in Highschool. I was entered into a Mr. Debonair Contest (Male Beauty Pagent) against my will because of my Art teacher & her daughter whom was a friend of mine. I miraculously passed the 1st portion by Raving with glowsticks to Kernkraft 400 by Zombie Nation as my talent. Then the questions starting coming in round 2. I was asked the looks vs personality question. Seeing as I'm not a complete idiot I gave the correct response "personality." However for some reason my short and sweet correct answer wasn't good enough and I was asked to elaborate. Ive never put more thougjt into it before so I started rambling about someone being nice to look at, but would eventually piss you off after awhile. It wasn't smooth is my point. I was disqualified for giving a correct & honest answer, but raving to Zombie Nation moved me forward. To this very day I still think that says a lot about society.
The 2x speed type personality isn't my cup of tea either, but there was something (somewhat related) that put me off even more: "The healthiest relationship for me is just best friends."
Nah.
To be honest, the whole "Best friends" thing has almost become a bit of an actual red flag to me. Seems to me that these people are scared of getting real. I ain't looking for a homie, I'm looking for a woman. I've got enough friends. It's kind of hard to have actual sexual and romantic tension with someone who is your "best friend". I'm not saying you shouldn't have fun, mess around, do stuff together. But as polarized romantic partners, not as friends.
preach having beef with children at the end killed me 🤣
😂😂🤣
"That DEVIL shit" had me dying. I need to cut down on the sugar😅
Personality is a big factor for me. Looks can be a secondary factor but the personality is #1. Less makeup the better so i can see what is really underneath for basing the secondary looks factor.
Aba down here, throwing some swords
First date idea: let’s go get shitfaced at a bar and see how quickly we hate each other
Guys, the double space in your channel name after Preach and before the & is driving me craaaazy!
watched like 10 of these in a row. ya'll earned that sub. love the content
They got a main channel too that's the same but about news stories and celebrity shit (plus their backlog before they made this separate channel); this one is just for lighter stuff like Jubilee moving forward
They asked what weighs more heavily then immediately asked what do you notice first. That's why they answered at the very beginning with personality
Technically is always looks first. But If you in the mood for a relationship… you’re looking for visual sights of a good personality.
This was hilarious. Nice episode!
This video has so much Pick/Me energy.
The truth: Her beauty.
The best answer: Her sense of fashion.
Her sense of ASSets.
Ok I'm done. I'm leaving.
birthday suit is cheaper and better.
@@markstriker925 no don't go 🙁
Called baking "devil shet!!" 🤣🤣
"STFU...retrograde" came straight from within his chest.🤣
the first thing you notice about EVERYONE is how they look
Imagine growing up as a young man in this era? These are so painful to watch.
im 30 and wasent blessed with wife monet turned 18 and now im just fked becuase no good woman, they are all effing married or are not marrage material if over 18 and not.
@@NightmareRex6 bruh the married ones arent good lmao, they just captured their *simp* before they hit the ground. Theyll divorce them in 10 years and be back on the market in their 40s talking about "where all the good men" like these broads on tiktok 💀
This video has the funniest Thambnail of all your videos. Preach's face was priceless and a good summary of the video 🤣
You guys have a nice vibe infront of the camera and your commentary makes me laugh. Subscribed.
11:04 homie looked us dead in the soul when he said that 😂😂😂
I never understood what my parents had to go through, until I started paying taxes and bills.
No A&P sometimes someone can notice a person's personality first. It's like you hadn't paid attention to someone until they acted a certain way in front of you. It happens
Aba got caught up wit that "swing some swords" lmao
Aba do you remember the product you promoted for sleep apnea ? I forgot the video and the brand I would like to look into it for a friend she suffers from that. Do you remember which video it was and what brand ?
do you mean a CPAP?
@@mayakashiii yup that's exactly what I'm talking about I just forgot. What model aba used because my friend has the same problem as him. Thanks man for the help.