answering questions girls are too afraid to ask w/ Jordan Ciciotti

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2024

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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +16

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    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you very kindly!!!

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      @keana._ Před 2 lety +3

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    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +1

      aww thank you so much Keeks!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +3

      hope professor chad was a good new character!

  • @stephaniedidonato134
    @stephaniedidonato134 Před 2 lety +178

    Your answers to the last question meant so much to me. I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My body looks completely different than it did 9 months ago. I have a ton of stretch marks and at first it was very hard for me to come to terms with them. The older women in my family have always been ashamed of their own marks. They even told me earlier in my pregnancy when they saw me in a swim suit that I was “blessed to not have any.” Fast forward just a few weeks and now I’m covered. But I now wear them with pride knowing that the growth of my belly and the marks that come with that is evidence that God is sustaining and growing my precious child.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +15

      yes wear those with pride!

    • @rebekahcanova6403
      @rebekahcanova6403 Před 2 lety +5

      Amen! Well said! Being a mama and truly seeking the Lord in the raising of our precious children is the greatest work we can ever do because we are honoring the Lord in serving others and impacting a life or several lives for eternity! Instead of focusing on ourselves and our body we need to focus on how we can please the Lord and bless others! From a Mama who is pregnant with our 10th baby💕🙏

    • @taraleasure
      @taraleasure Před 2 lety +1

      Aw yes I can relate to this so much! I’m 35 weeks and thought I wasn’t going to get any but then I hit 25ish weeks. It’s amazing to see how my husband still loves my body despite all my stretch marks. I just remind myself that our little girl is so worth it 💕

  • @whitneywilliams6168
    @whitneywilliams6168 Před 2 lety +45

    "if you can't love yourself right now, you never will", this hit so hard! The conversation around body image really encouraged my heart today!
    This video is filled with so much good perspective!

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 Před 2 lety +66

    Jordan, I really appreciated your wisdom. Congratulations to you and Milena on your new baby!✝️😊

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +6

      I will share that message with him!

  • @shwetav
    @shwetav Před 2 lety +94

    Ah! This was good! It's so nice to hear the boys talk from their perspective about all this stuff girls want to know about! Thanks for doing this and being so honest! That ad break in a bow tie was real fun! Thanks for making us girls aware of how you boys think! 🙂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +1

      awww thankyou for letting me know your feedback! We love you!

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 Před 2 lety +8

    “When it comes to physical appearance, our wives are our standard… !”
    Beautiful!

  • @wellworthitco.8495
    @wellworthitco.8495 Před 2 lety +26

    Don't apologize for getting too deep into the conversation! Those are the BEST!! IMO I wish ya'll had more content like this, and helping the young women in the Masters Fam understand men (whether they're single/dating/married) is such an important and topic not discussed enough in the church.

  • @teresacaceresvillarroya3793

    How beautifully said!!!!!! The Last answer deserves a standing ovation for the holy spirit for having inspired such an eye-opening comparison of Jesus ‘ scars as a sign of Love with moms’ bodies as a sign of love. Thank you so much, as a mom of 3, I will cherish this forever.

  • @dsophie7816
    @dsophie7816 Před 2 lety +15

    That was really good what you said about the image based questions and your spouse being the epitomy of beauty. We grow with so many insecurities engraved to our minds by culture and media that it is so refreshing to hear how you honour your wives' body

  • @_devotionart
    @_devotionart Před 2 lety +4

    Is amazing to hear you guys talk like this. I think is funny that as women we (for the most part) grow up thinking that men are very superficial and that they only think about sex and “a type of body” and is actually not like that. We tend to think every single man on earth thinks the same way, and you guys are the evidence that is not true. Thank God for men who really know who they are in Christ and also respect women in a truly beautiful way✨💕

  • @kate_700
    @kate_700 Před 2 lety +7

    Praise God for Godly, masculine, devoted husbands like you both! May God raise up more!

  • @mominasweet
    @mominasweet Před 2 lety +3

    Absolutely loved the part about highlighting how important commitment is in relationships and how important it is to encourage your partner because at the end of the day it's not about rather you love them enough or not but about the strong team and bond you build by uplifting each other through the hard parts of life because anyone can love someone on the good days. Just being thoughtful enough and considerate is what matters just as much. Chad preach on. You are an inspiration 👏🏻🤌🏻🙌🏻

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 Před 2 lety +10

    Just read the description. Chad, you always hit the mark with them! I've been thinking about the topic of victory the last couple days and how I haven't been living like God has already won. I don't need to be anxious or worry because of our victory in Christ!

  • @nadinekba8989
    @nadinekba8989 Před 2 lety +5

    I truly feel like you guys are special ! There’s actually guys like you two out there? No wonder you’re married! This video was great. I love how Jordan speaks, very inspirational. He’s very intentional and genuine🤍Thanks for sharing!

  • @francescasalcedo
    @francescasalcedo Před 2 lety +20

    Dynamic duo! Thank you guys for sharing your wisdom, these were some really great answers

  • @mallorymakenzie
    @mallorymakenzie Před 2 lety +4

    THE DESCRIPTION IS FIRE 🔥😭 thank you. Also this video was great. Love the perspective from not just guys but godly men who live for Christ! Praying for y’all! 💗

  • @kaydeebeedy1582
    @kaydeebeedy1582 Před 2 lety +6

    Y’all’s answer to that last question has me in tears as a mama. Thank you for reminding me how my husband really does see me! ❤️

  • @jacquelyn1000
    @jacquelyn1000 Před 2 lety +3

    Love this. Thank you guys for being vulnerable! Helps to see men being vulnerable. I’ve learned that I respect a man so much more when they allow themselves to be real and not afraid to speak about these sorts of things!! 🙏🏼

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr Před 2 lety +18

    Another awesome video! Hope you and Tori and baby are healthy and doing well! Praying for you three and hope you have a great rest of the week! Also love the description Chad!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +3

      thanks a ton my man! You are the best!

  • @clarapretorius794
    @clarapretorius794 Před 2 lety

    "If you can't love yourself right now, you never will." 🙌
    TRUTH

  • @GermaineNimundel
    @GermaineNimundel Před rokem +1

    I think for us girls I speak mostly for myself. The questioning is not because we don’t trust, but it’s because we want to be included and aware of what’s going on. You hear so many stories of woman whose husbands keep telling them they know what they’re doing an have things under control and then when things spiral, they’re not the only ones paying the price for it but now it’s the previously oblivious spouse stuck with the mess too cause she had to just trust and not question too much.

  • @ZoeyIndigoSky
    @ZoeyIndigoSky Před 2 lety +4

    Oh my gosh this was amazing!! And YESS to all the depth and focusing on the love, the beauty and the gift of God than physical appearance! Love you guys. It's so great to see two great male friends have these conversations. There needs to be more men that have a great group of friends where they can talk about all of this!

  • @sarahpreusser1514
    @sarahpreusser1514 Před 2 lety +3

    Not too deep at all !! I love hearing this !! Such wise Godly men !! Gives us hope that there are still other Godly Men out there !! Love love yalls videos !!

  • @mishajacobs.2000
    @mishajacobs.2000 Před 2 lety +26

    Props to you for answering these questions! I'm surprised and also not surprised that so many were on the physical side of things. Really learnt a lot from you guys🙌🏻

  • @inezhollmann5135
    @inezhollmann5135 Před 2 lety +3

    This was precious! How wonderful to hear that you don't obsess over looks

  • @aligrace8135
    @aligrace8135 Před 2 lety +2

    This was seriously so nice! I’m so glad y’all answered questions that were unrelated to image. There’s so much more to a person. Looks are only scratching the surface! I love what y’all were saying about motherhood and how it needs to be seen as a gift. It’s far more important than any career.❤️

  • @cyndicopeland4113
    @cyndicopeland4113 Před 2 lety +4

    That was hilarious! We need more of just Chad and Jordan!

  • @adriahrestituyo506
    @adriahrestituyo506 Před 2 lety +2

    Love this SOOO much. Especially you’re beautiful perspective on motherhood and how IMPORTANT and amazing it is!!! ❤️ society says working is wayyyy better being a mom and it’s sad!

  • @rachelfaithmanning
    @rachelfaithmanning Před 2 lety +1

    So blessed to hear others holding & sharing such a Godly perspective!

  • @rockyrock7756
    @rockyrock7756 Před 2 lety +3

    Jordan's analogy of Christ's scars and stretch marks that a woman bears from carrying a child was 👌🏽, never looked at it like that before

  • @jenlewis354
    @jenlewis354 Před 2 lety +3

    "...it's just to give myself the best chance at reacting well"

  • @lexxilouuuu
    @lexxilouuuu Před 2 lety +3

    Crying at work LOL - that last question hit me hard. Thank you for sharing your perspectives ❤

  • @justinemcpherson
    @justinemcpherson Před 2 lety

    The way Chad threw in, "And some snacks" so precious. 😄(I instantly thought of Motts/Welchs fruit snacks)

  • @eemilee91
    @eemilee91 Před 2 lety +1

    That outro never gets old. :) You guys have such a cute bromance going on! The giggles you guys shared. 🤭Really enjoy the dynamic you guys have with each other, y'all are so funny. Appreciated your guys' insight/thoughtful answers! The last part about your wives being your guys' standard of beauty was too sweet.

  • @tfeliciano1106
    @tfeliciano1106 Před 2 lety +1

    It’s beautiful to see you honor your wives, and keep the Lord in the conversation.👏🏼

  • @lunarose72
    @lunarose72 Před 2 lety +7

    We love this dynamic duo haha

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +2

      I want to do more videos like this! lol

  • @mishajacobs.2000
    @mishajacobs.2000 Před 2 lety +11

    The bow tie 😂😂 need to see Chad in more commercials

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Před 2 lety +1

      ahahah if more people like it, then I will do more!

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 Před 2 lety +1

    ~Powerful, powerful encouragement! GOD IS IN THIS, for sure! Way to go, guys! It’s pure joy to watch God working in & through you the way that He does! Thank you for being who God designed & made you to be & for using your gifts to spread the joy & further the kingdom in the extraordinarily powerful way that you do!
    Grateful!

  • @elenaursachianu1074
    @elenaursachianu1074 Před 2 lety +1

    More of this, maybe a series with guys talk & one with girl talk .
    GOD bless you all & His name be PRAISED!
    hugs, from Romania

  • @cassidyjordan4690
    @cassidyjordan4690 Před 2 lety +1

    The ad was so hilarious! I had no idea Chad was that funny! What a fun surprise! Q & A chat was great too!

  • @baileycornelll
    @baileycornelll Před 2 lety +1

    I feel like these questions were answered with such a fatherly type of love.

  • @YAD1997
    @YAD1997 Před 2 lety +1

    Looooved all your questions you picked and the answers as well! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @charafisher6929
    @charafisher6929 Před 2 lety

    This was great! Thank you guys for answering some of the more image based questions because it is so good to hear the truth that men who are submitted to God notice but do not obsess over a woman’s appearance. My husband is a godly man and I’m so thankful for him too. It is however something that many women think often due to our heart questions “Am I enough?”, “Am I too much?”, and “Am I loved?”

  • @cbentler4528
    @cbentler4528 Před rokem

    🤣 "Women are like ovens, they have to be pre-heated" LOL so true

  • @hannahsnyder8748
    @hannahsnyder8748 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for the example you both set and for emphasizing the right things! So blessed by this video ❤️

  • @Kiayamarieee
    @Kiayamarieee Před 2 lety +4

    Love these type of videos! Also cool to see from a guys perspective cause it’s reminded me and inspired me to give more safety and space for my boyfriend to process too…thank y’all!

  • @andreaarmstrong7543
    @andreaarmstrong7543 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi guys, thank you for sharing your perspective. My husband is not confident in expressing his feelings, what you talked about gave me a great insight into why and what I need to do to support him. From NZ

  • @eeg122
    @eeg122 Před 2 lety +1

    Congratulations to both of your parents for bringing you guys up in the way you should go. Credit to you both for staying the course w/ the Lord and allowing him to mold you in the men that you are. Your answers were mature. Milena & Tori are very blessed to have you. And of course big big Praise to our Lord & Savior for His Love grace & mercy.

  • @lailavipal
    @lailavipal Před 2 lety +1

    Soooo much wisdom in there! Thank you guys! :) And the description is fire! Thanks for the reminder!!

  • @brittanygreenland9059
    @brittanygreenland9059 Před 2 lety +1

    The ad was amazing! First time i've watched a full ad in a long time ahaha

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr Před 2 lety +8

    Hahahaha Jordan trying to sing the outro part. Not bad for a first attempt!

  • @TreasureLovely
    @TreasureLovely Před 2 lety +1

    This was amazing!! So insightful to know how kingdom men view women. Thank you Chad and Jordan! Y'all are awesome ❤

  • @haroldgeernian3699
    @haroldgeernian3699 Před 2 lety +1

    That question about body image really hit me hard. My main hobby is golf, and all my friends are better than me and I've had issues with feeling lesser than them because I can't spend the time or money to get the newest clubs and lessons all the time.

  • @maryckepienaar7959
    @maryckepienaar7959 Před rokem

    Happily married for 10 years to my amazing hubs and we have 2 beautiful daughters. But this video was a blessing in disguise😂😝always fun and amazing to hear things from a different perspective! Definitely taking the good and applying it😅🙏🏻

  • @EleniceASolis
    @EleniceASolis Před 2 lety +1

    My husband says messy buns reminds him of a target 🎯 then proceeds to do a shooting motion at it 😂😂😂…thank you for making this video! It was definitely interesting and had me thinking.

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube

    getting Jim from the Office vibes with that Ad 🤣

  • @mj_9450
    @mj_9450 Před 2 lety

    But yall will agree with me that WE NEED THIS COMBO 😁 Jordan and Chad, this was great and I feel like we could use more of these videos - a series, maybe? So, so helpful 🤗

  • @jonathanrolle5118
    @jonathanrolle5118 Před 2 lety +3

    Awesome video! Enjoyed the bro talk👍

  • @lik3mik365
    @lik3mik365 Před 2 lety

    Might just be the best sponsored skit ever! The music in the background haha!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr Před 2 lety +5

    Hahaha yes Chad! That ExpressVPN ad break segment was so good!

  • @cjay6033
    @cjay6033 Před 2 lety +1

    Omg! Am so happy your both are talking about important topic 👍

  • @drummergirl0385
    @drummergirl0385 Před 2 lety

    Thank you both so much for answering these questions and especially from a Christian perspective.

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 Před 2 lety +8

    To all the ladies, this is such a great perspective video!

  • @jlv61560
    @jlv61560 Před 2 lety +1

    The Romans had a saying; "Oculi ducunt in amorem." "The eyes lead in love." It IS looks that attract us to one another (and everyone likes a different kind of "look," so don't assume anything). After that, unless you are an incredibly shallow person, it's the whole package that keeps us interested in each other -- looks, intelligence, wit, behavior, the whole nine yards. If you stop and think about it, everyone of us under the sun does it exactly the same way, regardless of being a man or a woman!
    There's a difference between "confidence" and "arrogance," by the way. 🙂

  • @stephanieac7893
    @stephanieac7893 Před rokem

    Thank you guys for this video! Loved hearing your perspective and also so encouraged by the fact that there are good Godly men out there... and that shines with how you live your life 🧡

  • @ev_green_
    @ev_green_ Před 2 lety +4

    Omg the express ad ...the mini hands

  • @bibi3297
    @bibi3297 Před 2 lety

    when they compared Jesus's crucifixion scars with mother's stretch marks as a physical testimony of love... WOW! Blew my mind ❤ 🤯

  • @ashleyjohnson5026
    @ashleyjohnson5026 Před 2 lety +1

    This is the only CZcams video that I did not skip through the sponsorship lol

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 Před 2 lety +6

    Awesome description again Chad!

  • @briggseats4472
    @briggseats4472 Před rokem

    Can y’all please do another one
    The generation need this

  • @nat2057
    @nat2057 Před 2 lety +2

    The bowtie 😭😭🤣💀

  • @cdesjardins1988
    @cdesjardins1988 Před 2 lety

    Definitely love hearing other men and their thoughts about women among other things. Make more of these vlogs! So interesting!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr Před 2 lety +9

    The boyssss! Looking forward to this one!

  • @ManonJadeYeah
    @ManonJadeYeah Před 2 lety

    Amen for your anwers and especially the last one. Hope many young men will watch the video and be inspired by your respect, maturity and hearts to be great husbands :)

  • @naomigrace8261
    @naomigrace8261 Před rokem

    Loved the answer to the last question 😍🙌🏼

  • @addisonswannack
    @addisonswannack Před 2 lety

    this was such a fun video! would love a part 2!

  • @unciaciapanca
    @unciaciapanca Před 2 lety

    Love them both. Young men need examples like them

  • @outstandingsyd
    @outstandingsyd Před rokem

    Lol at Milena making Jordan get paper when she ran out. I know that’s right 😂

  • @dsophie7816
    @dsophie7816 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you! That was really interesting

  • @graceforclaire8888
    @graceforclaire8888 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for answering all the questions, and for making this video. 💖👍

  • @sofiaiwaszewicz4251
    @sofiaiwaszewicz4251 Před 2 lety

    i felt so hugged in my soul right now 🥹

  • @vallenclark1721
    @vallenclark1721 Před rokem

    Wow I love that analogy of Jesus' scars to a women's stretch marks!! I've never thought of it like that. Wow I seriously love that❤️😥🙏❤️

  • @beautifulmariah6677
    @beautifulmariah6677 Před 2 lety +3

    Random thing,Jordan’s shirt matches chads eyes and vice versa🤣

  • @abifaithh
    @abifaithh Před 2 lety

    i love this! wish men expressed stuff like this more!!

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech Před 2 lety +5

    Yesss woohooo!!! This was fun to watch!

  • @emiliamartinez5463
    @emiliamartinez5463 Před 2 lety +1

    It's funny how guys feel uncomfortable with some type of questions, whereas girls are like "yes, more questions like this!"

  • @biancajc
    @biancajc Před 2 lety +1

    What a great duo! :D

  • @christinelee2535
    @christinelee2535 Před 2 lety

    i only enjoy ADs on this channel. LITERALLY the best thing in the world. Express VPN better give them a pay raise.

  • @KimberlyWatson2023
    @KimberlyWatson2023 Před rokem

    My experience it's been like a month after talking constantly or so that all the sudden the guys head over heels for me and in love and is ready to move in and get married when all I've done was opened up with my confidence in myself and I care about others around me and I always make it loud and clear to them it starts with a friendship not friends with benefits and sex isn't the first thing on my mind ever I never want to rush anything anymore because nothing has worked in the past so my mentality is if I'm single forever so be it as long as I'm happy with myself and love myself that's all I need as a 42yr old wheelchair bound woman who's been threw all the bad stuff sexual physical emotional abuse I've been called everything under the sun because they wanted me to feel worse than them and it worked for a short time but I'm way stronger now.

  • @patwilliams676
    @patwilliams676 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m not a man, but when I receive a question or a lot of questions, I tend to feel like I’m being questioned too. Does this apply to most women too, or am I just different 🤔

  • @amybueckert6411
    @amybueckert6411 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for doing this guy's. It was great information.

  • @keana._
    @keana._ Před 2 lety +7

    notebook flashbacks got me 🤣

  • @harleighstringer
    @harleighstringer Před 2 lety

    we love this duo

  • @SimplyLivingInFaith
    @SimplyLivingInFaith Před 2 lety

    The ending 🤣. But so true what you said at the end. The questions were a lot on outer ness.

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd Před 2 lety

    you guys are awesome! god bless both your families ❤️

  • @jobaptista3383
    @jobaptista3383 Před 2 lety

    the ad was actually so iconic in this Chad hahah

  • @lilyw9324
    @lilyw9324 Před 2 lety +1

    The dedication to the sponsored portion 👏👏

  • @sophiebotello4751
    @sophiebotello4751 Před 2 lety +2

    This is such a fun video. I could watch them talk all day! I feel like they answered a lot of questions I’ve had. As far as the “do guys think about sex all the time question” did you think about it a lot before you were married? Like when you were in high school or college?

  • @kelimyers3433
    @kelimyers3433 Před 2 lety

    Great to hear a man’s opinion and point of view.

  • @Thandiwe_Philangezwi
    @Thandiwe_Philangezwi Před 2 lety

    My goodness,I loved this🤎