Lady Gaga Was Raped And Left Pregnant At 19
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- čas přidán 20. 05. 2021
- Lady Gaga is getting honest and open about the lasting pain she feels from being sexually assaulted as a teenager. During a heartbreaking appearance on the premiere episode of "The Me You Can't See," a new docuseries co-created by Prince Harry and Oprah Winfrey, the pop star revealed that she suffered a "total psychotic break" years after being left pregnant by her alleged rapist.
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I work with sexual assault survivors. Some of these comments calling her a liar or criticizing her for not reporting it are very misguided. It is so much more complicated than that and you have no right to call her a liar. What a dangerous and destructive thing to say from your keyboard about a situation you know nothing about.
Anyone reading this that has suffered similar experiences- you deserve to heal. If you weren’t comfortable reporting what happened or naming your abuser, you do not need to feel guilty. You are carrying enough shame already. I am sorry for the other comments.
is there the slightest chance she might be lying? really sorry if this comes out as bad, but I'm genuinely concerned from both the sides of possibilities in such and similar cases
Edit: I'd like to take this chance to say that over the past months, I've come to realize that my first reaction shouldn't have been something like "what if she might be lying". This reaction was deeply rooted in the cases I've seen where women have pretended things. Books, cases, incidents... all that made it much harder for me to completely believe in Gaga. I failed to look at the broader picture, that doubters like myself have made it harder for women to open up about their issues, and I'm very sorry I failed to consider this before. May the comment section continue to contribute healing and compassion to survivors. Also hope that more of these unnecessarily doubting people come to realize the things I have. love
A man goes out, gets attacked, and we hate his attacker.
A woman goes out, gets attacked, and we wonder if she's lying or if it's her fault somehow.
*WHY?*
@@hithere2426 It's actually extremely difficult to bring a case against a man for sexual assault since there are usually no witnesses. I was assaulted and I went to the police. Nothing ever came of it. I spent a full day recounting what happened over and over to different officers who questioned me with things like "Well why weren't you wearing any underwear?" as if I deserved it because I wasn't wearing underwear that day. They questioned him and all he said was he wanted his lawyer. And that was it. Nothing more came of it. His family probably doesn't even know he went to the police station that day and his job (where the assault occurred) didn't fire him. There needs to be solid evidence like a video tape of it happening for it to be taken seriously, and at that point the evidence is pretty damning. So I really doubt there are many or any innocent men sitting in prison for a sexual assault they didn't commit.
Your words are empowering; I wish I knew you, I can sense you are a special soul.
Thank you. I was meant to read this
I think she’s a liar She should’ve reported that years ago
When some people ask why people who have been sexually abused take too long to speak up they don't understand that the shame, the fear, and the thought of no one believing them or take them seriously are some of the problems.
People. Not just women.
Idk about that when a man gets sexual assault by a woman everybody laughs at him. Men have it more difficult
@@AntiStraightMaleSociety ikr men face more backlash from the society about being a victim.
@@AntiStraightMaleSociety Its usually men that laugh at men who are victims of sexual abuse/assault and ffs don't make this a competition. That's gross and unnecessary.
@@AntiStraightMaleSociety well a man can’t get an unwanted pregnancy from rape like a woman can, like in Gaga’s instance. Which is a real mental toll. But maybe on a societal perspective yes, but at the same time society is more likely to believe a man over a women in the instance of sexual assault case (when a man is preying upon a women)…So I think both ways it sucks for the victim.
No one should be sexually assaulted..mentally or physically. This world is crazy. Insane, disgusting.
The world is not crazy humans are…
@@abolisher will some of them are
@@abolisher The sad thing is,not all people who hurt you are willing to admit what they did and not all of them are even sorry for what they did
@@goldendiamon what’s your point?
@@abolisher My point is,some people are going to traumatize your life.And some of them are narcissists who aren't willing to even apologize for what they did...Like those bullies,r*pists,abusers,not all of them are ashamed of what they did,even after you've moved on for years,some of them are still going to laugh about what they did or not even sorry... That's the sad thing in this world
It’s interesting to hear someone else who actually felt physical pain from a phycology response related to their PTSD. I was assaulted when I was 12, I had never dated anyone, and so when I went on my first date at around 15 I remember the guy put his arm around me and all of I sudden I was in physical pain. My whole body hurt and I thought I was just going to start crying. He was such a nice guy, but I was terrified to a point where my fear manifested itself as physical pain. It was one of the most horrible things I have ever experience. I found an excuse to get up, and I just had a mental breakdown over it. It didn’t help that we literally ran into my assaulter that night. Safe to say after being in a lot of metal pain, and having over a million flashbacks well going out with the really nice guy, I had to break things off with him and go back to therapy. Turned out I had PTSD… I always assumed what I went through wasn’t bad enough, so I never considered it. I’m proud of Lady Gaga for talking about this, hearing more people speak up, especially people we look up to, will encourage others to seek help. Sexual assault is such a shameful thing, when it shouldn’t be. I’ve always wondered why us, the survivors, feel ashamed over something we have no blame in. That needs to be changed.
i’m so so sorry that’s so awful. i was assaulted at 12 too and it has easily been the most traumatic event of my life. i’m 13 now and it’s sort of only hitting me now how much he fucked me up mentally. it helps seeing other people write about their experiences too. i hope you are in a better place now ❤
@@cocosfilms I am so sorry you’ve been through this as well. Mine didn’t really hit me till I was 13 either and I got really depressed. Stay strong. The first 3 years after my assault were really difficult for me, especially because I waited to get help. If you aren’t in therapy I would highly recommend it, the sooner the better. Stay strong, the fact that you take on every day after something so horrible is alone a great achievement. Things will get better, I promise. Lots of love ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. You’re right, victims and survivors shouldn’t be shamed or look down upon for something they had no control. We as a society need to be more educated on how to make space for these sorts of discussions and how we can be of better help and support!
I understand what you are saying. One time I was having dinner with my friend's family and my friend's mom said something that reminded me of my dad who abused me. I went to the bathroom because I started feeling sick but after I took some deep breaths because something inside me was telling me to breathe, I realized it was very much stemming from a mental pain. Mind, body, and soul is no joke. They are one in the same. I hope you are doing better now. That was my first experience of a panick attack and I had no idea it was one because of how "physical" it can get but I started getting better now. I notice when I feel under attack I start getting very hot to the point where I'm fighting to not faint, my face gets hot, and everything quite literally starts to spin. I'm not even trying to be funny but it's like Troy Bolton in High School Musical 3 singing "Scream". It makes me laugh but at the same time it doesn't. Like everything was literally spinning. You're not alone. Your pain is valid. And we're here for you. Mental Health is real. Keep going. Right now I just felt overwhelmed because my anxiety took over, it made me feel like it was "the end of the world" but I started branching out to see who else experienced it and I didn't know Lady Gaga was also a survivor. So please know it's not the end of the world. It may feel like it but it's not. Whenever you feel like you're at your limit your spirit will prove to you its not. I hope you know how supported you are. Much love stranger. ❤
I'm so sorry you had to go through that...
The choices between industry and taking care of yourself is REAL & DAMAGING. These artists are not just products, they are people too with families.
everyone knows this, especially the people who treat them like that producer did. that’s what makes ppl like that so evil.
She chose herself and still they attacked her. How EVIL
People need to take it just as serious, when it's not someone famous.
@@peterwhitey4992 well said. don't only focus on the big personalities and what they going through, but equally consider thinking about that man, woman or child get abused in the streets of a remote area
Exactly 🙏🏻
The sickness in the music industry just keeps coming out, it’s so sad when all our favourite artists are abused behind the scenes. Law enforcement needs to crack down on these a-list producers and directors to stop this issue, no one deserves this kind of pain.
Unfortunately, there's a lot of abuse in various forms. I remember Rita Ora in pain and depression of being stuck in a contract with Jay Z- Beyoncé husband. He wouldn't let her release her songs, and kept postponing, she was stuck for years in a trap without being able to release music despite being in contract. I wonder if he didn't want any competition for his wife?? Eventually, I believe Simon Cowell helped Rita to free from these abusers. I wouldn't be surprised if they still sabotage her success because she managed to escape their controlling clutches.
Yup many are abused nd some do it cause they wanna in the industry money fame is not free they gotta do rituals or something in exchange the industry is evil
It's not just music industry lmao Hollywood and all those type of places are like this
When you cant a decent record and no one is buying your concert tickets, you bank on politics.
afcking trap Well every church in America has this. But unlike Gaga, those other victims have credibility.
Jeez I can just imagine how painful it is to talk about this stuff and relive her trauma. She's so strong. More power to her and every single woman on this Earth
She is a he 😂
I was assaulted at that age too. I’m 28 and I finally told my therapist this year. It was traumatizing and I had a lot of issues with my body because of it. Keep rising sisters (and brothers who have been through assault) God bless!
she wasn't assaulted. she was asked and she gave in as a favor so they would make her famous. watch the whole thing. the whole interview is also on CZcams
@@basharstats4482 which is assault. She was forced. It’s called rape.
I didn’t even feel comfortable calling it what it was - rape, until I told my therapist
I feel so bad for her, she’s such a strong person:(
I know I hate that that happened to her but I’m so glad she chose to help others and continued on with her music. I know she’s helped me in a lot of ways just by listening to her music. I loved her music since 2008 when I heard “just dance” the first time. I love that she kept on and pushed hard to fight for what she wanted. She’s an inspiration
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@@gagalady2641 lmao plz💀😂
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
@@yo9893 bro..
That was rough.
@thαílαnd pαrαdísє what would she gain from lying about that? This is why so many women don’t come forward
Pun intended?
@thαílαnd pαrαdísє you didn't answer the question... and what would she have to gain if she won't say who the producer is??? *People like you are part of the reason so many get sexually assaulted and the perpetrators get away with it.*
@@hihi615 He/she can't answer the question for he/she is confused himself/herself.
@thαílαnd pαrαdísє ur using a white supremacist mysogynistic site written by a MALE💀Go do sum with ur life🙄
This is why 'Til it happens to you' is my most favourite Lady Gaga song of all time.
People who call her a liar are sick in the head
Sexual abuse is different than just domination. Men think their being dominant but really their cowardly if it turns into abuse
It could be vice versa too
I absolutely despise how you comment this and the only responses people thought were worth posting was a "it happens to men too"!!! Like yes lets just invalidate many women just because it happens to men too 🙄 theres a time and place for that discussion
@@Seilah789 Yes, and this is the place for that discussion....and no one is invalidating women.....we just said that it's wrong and that it can happen to both genders
@@noraluressa4698 if the only time you speak up for men is when women are at the focus point, then you don't really care dude. It's just rude. Bring it up on your own time. Not now
@@Seilah789 ITS not rude if the person mentioned that ONLY men can be dominant in a horrible situation like this and blames men in general. And women aren't at focus here, this crime is.
For those saying she's lying there are court documents that back up what she's saying. It was Rob Fusari. If you look at the court documents from Fusari sueing her, it's heavily redacted but she stated that he threatened to burn her music if she didn't do something. That something was redacted but it's pretty obvious.
It takes a special kind of sicko to not only abuse someone so horribly and throw them away like garbage, but then come back to hurt them all over again by claiming they are owed for the success he tried to destroy. I noticed not much in the news after the filing, do you suppose she just paid him what he wanted to not have to deal with him?
And if it's true, she could have saved other women by putting him behind bars, because she wasn't the first or last
I googled Rob Fusari, and he’s listed as her ex boyfriend. That throws me off, because she’s speaking of the experience like it was someone in the industry who had power and control over her. She’s recounting the experience as though it is someone who she wasn’t close to.
@@veggiebits5807 Of course the narrative is that he was her boyfriend and it clearly works. The non disclosure means she will never say and I think she is being truthful when she states she never wants to deal with her again. Having been in a narcissistic relationship myself I can say that you do not think normally when in an abusive situation, especially one that goes on for an extended amount of time. I read a few articles including the one about the law suit, which is sealed with only a little bit of information, but put together with other things, it is very plausible it was him.
@@veggiebits5807 And she mentioned the thing happened in when she was 19 and before that she had like ep which came out around 2006 so she must of recorded and work on the songs in 2005 she would be 19 so my theory is that it must of been someone that she worked with when she did Red and Blue. Now it could be Rob but I also think it could be Akon or Joe (the producer she work with when she is red and blue)
All I can say is that she’s a strong, smarty person. She worked so hard for her career with this pain on her shoulder.She won five big awards for her movie. I think it’s something that you can’t rid of but let’s never stop moving on in life because there are people out there who support you, try to understand you’re feelings, care for you and specially, love you.
I was sexually assaulted by my Dr last year. I called the police, called the executives of the company, I made reports with the state board, went to a rape crisis center, a therapist right away & NO ONE did anything at all.
My breasts swelled up over a month. I have issues sleeping, I have heart palpitations, issues where I don’t want to be around men alone, especially Dr’s. I am a survivor of previous assaults. When I was assaulted I froze. I should’ve just hit him, called 911, etc. I thought in my head this isn’t happening again. Okay, if I just lay still I can get away….. I can survive. He ruined my life.. I hate what he did & honestly I should’ve smacked the crap out of him…
she really is a marvel representation of a decent human being. to have shoved that trauma down so deep that it started to manifest as physical pain and numbness later in her career is heartbreaking. but one thing about Gaga - she’s never shied away from speaking openly - about trauma, about mental health, about gay & queer rights. her story and existence is alway a Phoenix rising from the ashes. she rises to the very top and takes you on the journey of her rebirth in times she’s fallen to the bottom and gotten in her own way. the amount of love and support she has from her fans and fan-base in likeness with that of her counterpart, the Queen, Beyoncé - both received and really curated such a stellar fan-base that regardless of where they were or what they chose to pursue - the fans would support in the numbers which is the first of its kind in the history of Social Media & the Power & Influence of Tech.
REALLY? IS NT HER I SAW SITTING ON R KELLYS CROTCH AT A MUSIC AWARD?
🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL
None of them are Britney Spears and if they went through half of what she endured, they'd both be dead.
Lady gaga is a liar and a fraud
I commend her for telling her story. The only problem with not naming the person is they are doing it to other people
I work with sexual assault survivors and a lot of discussion happens around naming the abuser. Many many people are not comfortable doing so and when it comes down to it, it is not victims responsibility to do anything but heal. We should support them in that and be thankful for those who are able to name their abusers but don’t expect those who can’t to be stronger than they are.
@@colechamberlain1825 absolutely correct.
@@slimpaco3561 It Is known that it can Take an average of 10 yrs for a person who has been abused to report the crime to the Police ( it Is a Fact) , so
I wudn't be too quick to judge others.
Even if she didn't name names, am sure it might help a young girl trying to find their way in the industry by recognizing the patterns of behavior. It might give them courage to speak up or 🏃♀️🏃♀️
And u can tell its just a sbow because no substantial advice either. Whata the goal of sharing a traumatic experience? To vent off ?.to help.prince woke ? To be part of a show that is something big? Or is this real xare about stopping exploitation?
She is so strong, and she is encouraging so many to be strong with her, that you can overcome your trauma. All us little monsters gotta stay strong and be there for each other.
I want to know who did this to her. They don’t deserve a place in society
The fact that she will not name him, means that this producer is still doing his EVIL to someone else and he still has power over Gaga. She’s still under his control. Those evil men have way too much power.
Yea actually. It hard to break free. Let lady gaga be
She never said she didn't hate him. She said she didn't want to confront him. Wich is Wayyyy different.
@@krissiaescobar8523 : My heart breaks for her.
@@dianaram.c.1992 : True, you make a good point.
@@dianaram.c.1992 Who said she does not hate him?
I’m so sorry Lady Gaga. You have been a true inspiration for me over the last 11 years. Your music video Marry the Night makes so much sense now.
Why would you be sorry about a liar?
@@godwilldovan1270 why are you accusing her of being a liar?
@@user-js4cm4nv2u here is a snippet of the disgusting video czcams.com/video/1gLUoC-y8OU/video.html
@@godwilldovan1270 lady gaga remove that song from her album later, when she discovered the accusations to r Kelly
@@godwilldovan1270 it was a metaphor plus she didn’t know about what R Kelly did
I was raped and impregnated from the rape in the mid 90’s. There are more of us out here who’ve experienced this shit than most people even want to know. We exist. And we’re angry.
I just wanna go and hug her so tightly and never let her go. Hopefully this baby is well taken care of.
She still became an icon despite that.
She never gave up, no matter what!
Hi
In part because
I'm not condoning it or mocking her
Its the sad truth
I just wanna hug her and hold her and soothe her. Noo my baby not my baby
I want to hug her too
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you people are pathetic.
@@allthatjazz9000 for what? sympathizing with a rape victim? mm, yeah sounds very pathetic indeed. ffs get a life and stop trolling.
You're not the only one hun I'm still left fighting depression after over 9yrs
I am so sorry she went through that and I am so grateful for her being brave to share it. I love you Lady Gaga always and forever!
Is this producer still working with artists today? If so then There must be other way to out a predator without facing them to prevent this from happening to any other teenage artist
Yes he still is 😫
@@gabrielmuller946 That’s so wrong
Wtf? Why isn’t he arrested
@@jocelynlin6044 because he has money and "power"
@@jocelynlin6044 because she doesn’t want to relive her trauma by confronting him personally or publicly. She just wants to leave it in the past for her sanity. 💔
I applaud how she was able to stay strong even after all that's happened,, she managed to smile and get through it and that just shows how an amazing person she is
she's so strong. she deserves all the love and happiness. no one should ever go through this :((
I can totally relate to Lady Gaga. Sometimes, we choose not to speak about it in hopes that the whole situation will just go away. I was molested by my dad all throughout my childhood and am barely speaking about it. Im 33. I have even asked myself why I waited so long. The truth is, I never wanted to talk about it. I had to after memories that I had bottled up came to the surface. From what I understand, our brain will keep the memories hidden to protect us. It protects us in the moment, but harms us long term. I've suffered from depression and anxiety but would never allow myself to talk about it.
sadly ui think ik who did it and he even had the audaciity to say that Lady Gaga Had to pay royalties to him because "he found her"
To everyone who's been through this.. Be strong you're not alone 💙💙💙💙
Keep in mind that there's people who are running on the internet saying she is lying. And it makes me Legit wanna puke. And guyz, saying everytime someone famous is talking about it is lying, it makes those who wanna speak up more and more afraid to do so, so PLEASE STOP.
NO. ONE. FAMOUS. OR. NOT. WANTS. TO. LIE. ABOUT. SUCH.
HORRIBLE. EVENTS.
She is so brave for doing this but don't forget we have people like Amber Heard who did lie about horrible events like this
She needs to turn him in to the police,
SHE WAS GIVEN A CHOICE
SHE COULD HAVE SAID NO BUT SHE WAS GAVE HER BODY FOR FAME AND MONEY
@@shakazulu6600 She fcking did say no!! She didn't have a choice at any moment, it wasn't even just one man they were a few man's insisting over and over without stopping and without any consent, they committed a crime, they soiled a person for life, they used their positions and power to satisfy their disgusting needs, it is fcking disgusting, it is monstrous, and you defending those monsters makes you nothing more than a sad pathetic person
@@shakazulu6600 trust me, for saying that you'll burn in hell pendejo
Roughly 15/16 years ago, and it still hurts her today really put me into perspective. I’ve been sexually abused as a child/preteen and now I’m in my early 20’s... I use to be so hard on myself for being ashamed that it still hurts me, but to see Gaga, a woman whom I believe to be so strong - to see her break down and cry, makes me feel less hard on myself. Love you Gaga, thank you for everything.
That's so sad. I never knew about this until recently. The world is such a cruel place :(
My God. You can really feel her pain when she's telling the story. 😢
I don't understand how there are comments (mainly from men) saying she is lying. I was a victim of sexual abuse when I was barely 8 years old, I hated myself more than my aggressor, I felt disgusting, dirty, I wanted to disappear. When you go through that kind of situation, you never want to see that person's face again, it is your decision to reveal their identity.
YOU, who are behind a monitor writing bullshit, YOU know absolutely nothing about what a sexual victim goes through, so you better not comment anything if you don't have something to contribute, if you haven't been a victim or know anything about the healing process of a sexual victim.
I'm so so sorry this happened to you. I hope you find healing. x
Terrible, hope you're healing. Sadly, you described it perfectly. Happened to me when I was 11and that's exactly how I felt.
... And stupid. I also felt a desperate need to hide from everybody bc I thought if anyone saw me, they'd see it on me right away. Like I was somehow wearing it
Every women have got sexually abused atleast one time. I got too
Now the song untill it happens to you, hit different now
Next, try Paparazzi. You got anything?
You should listen to her unreleased song trigger... it’s very dark but it’s very much about this.
I guess this is the new norm. Love story between man and woman doesn't sell anymore
Marry the night too
@@wowwhatamoment8398 yeah, its about what this disgusting man did to her
I was almost sexually assaulted by my older sister’s ex boyfriend when I was a kid. I know the pain she is going through even though I wasn’t exactly raped it’s still terrifying.
It’s so sad and understandable at the same time that we can heal our self without pointing or calling the person out that hurt us because at the end of the day it does nothing for us mentally
But it may save another young victim!
@@debbieb.2096 That may be true but sometimes you have to save yourself before you can even attempt to save anyone else
Sometimes calling out the abuser brings closer bc it releases you. Shes still triggered by him and not speaking. What would happen if she named him and went back? She would probably realize how small he is and how strong she is and how alot of people would beat his ass and she’ll realize how she cared for so much. He may not have that appeal. Im not saying this is what she SHOULD do, im just saying what would happen if she frees herself by confronting her trauma? It could be a slow process...
Well hopefully she can heal & have the time to make herself stronger so she can at some point name him
@@debbieb.2096 it was someone she knew she was probably the intended target but God will get him and he won't be able to harm anyone else when Jesus has his say
You never know what someone has been through. It’s just so hard to hear about someone so strong and wonderful having had been treated in such a terrible and cruel way. I hope she’s healing well!
Hi Anna
Thank you for sharing I'm sorry this happend to you but you inspire me and give me courage and strength to love myself and go on!
This brought me to tears. She is so incredibly strong and I hope and pray that she may improve.
We NEED to know who this producer is. We just wanna say hi 😟
Hi with a chair!
@@Awoman-ty7qh To the face
@@Awoman-ty7qh make it electric
@@AF1TL with a built in wood chipper.
Hi with police officer ready to cuff him.
He abuser probably has her threatened if she says his name and am sure hes someone well known.. Unfortunately money gives men the power to do whatever they want. Poor thing. This world is so evil.
Surely. But sooner or later. It will pay for all of this.
It was Rob Fusari. If you look at their court documents from Fusari sueing her, its heavily redacted but she stated that he threatened to burn her music if she didn't do something. That something was redacted but it's pretty obvious.
@@katerithibodeaux217 wow, her ex boyfriend. He was very abusive with her as well for a long time, so it definitely could be.
Yes! We can also add that the music industry itself is mainly owned and controlled by very powerful men in that are responsible/controls/manages how things should go and be and how money/profit are to be distributed and how it should be earned from the performers.
Tell that to John and Bobby Kennedy.
Thank you for sharing this with us Lady Gaga. It takes so much strength and courage to do so, I love you, and I'm sorry that you had to go through that. 🤗💞
This gave me strength. To know someone like her "overcome" her situation. When I say that, I'm not claiming it doesn't hurt her anymore, I can't say how she feels, but it's just the fact no matter what, she keeps going, she releases beautiful music, afterall she's been through, she's still living, and that inspires me. To be alive, sometimes, is the strongest thing you can do. Thank you Lady Gaga.
This is so brave... it's not easy to tell this and stand up for yourself. What happened to her is horrible... but she is a strong woman and has helped so many. She has the heart on the right spot!
Absolutely she is TIRED for being hidiing
That's so SAD
😂😂😂😂😂
The only thing brave about this is the option to say NO! Which several women do not do. Therefore, there’s no bravery.
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It’s incredible that she was able to accomplish what she accomplished while going through all this. She really pushed it to the back of her subconscious and it manifested horribly later in her life. In mental and even physical ways but it’s so healthy that she is really talking and working on her trauma
Wonderful words. Thank you.
yeah gr8 accomplishments and now she is blaming the ladders she used to climb up
@@basharstats4482 you make no fucking sense, say this shit in real life and you might get fucked up.
this hurts me so much, no one deserves to go through this
Imagine going through such Trauma and still becoming this amazing human being ❤🙏🏾
We love you lady gaga. Always
Na
@Nick Gur ok then don’t comment ?
I don’t know how someone with a heart can hear this and say, “who cares?” Where is your compassion? She’s doing it to break free from the darkness of silence. She’s doing it to help young girls. Lots of us care and you are the reason why so many don’t want to say anything because of reactions like that.
the rapist will not prosper his life will fall apart Jesus will see to it that he becomes miserable he will lose everything his fortune his name his power in the industry his empire will crash and burn meanwhile Stefani will arise from the ashes I just wish that innocent baby was here too but I do not hate her I hate abortion but I can forgive she had a mental break she was not thinking and she lives with it I am not one to kick a person when she is already down if society would not tell women that abortion is necessary in these circumstances they would be sucked in especially vulnerable victims of trauma she had and probably still has PTSD I am praying for her to heal
Will it help? Seeing all the shitty responses to her makes me feel even more powerless tbh.
Well. Some of us think that she is lying. I mean, not saying that guy's name. Hmmm. And what rapist goes on to tell the victim *undress or we will burn you music* multiple times. And why didn't Gaga record them one of the many times give them to the police and be done with it before anything happened? And why doesn't rmemeber how it went. And all of this includes a pregnancy. Like women never lie about how they got pregnant.
@@thediminished98 She doesn't remember because she either doesn't want this to be public or, you know, she suffered memory loss from trauma. Insane how you think she has to name her abuser and present prove to be believed. There are court documents involving the man who did it and they are very clear. Stop saying "oh why didn't she-". It's so easy for you to think you would have done something different than her while being raped and emotionally manipulated. A literal victim blaming piece of shit is what you are.
@@thediminished98 They could have told her they were gonna hurt her family if she told. Threats like that I are used often. She was 19 at the time so the human brain isn't fully able to think ahead like older people at that age. She also doesn't remember some parts of her trauma because the human brain will block out certain events in order for the brain to protect itself. In other words Dissociative amnesia.
I hope so badly she has the courage to name the producer one day, and send him to jail !!!
🙏🙏thanks for sharing your story
She's a a legend
Ladies please I know this pendemic is coming to and end….I was assaulted by a bus driver!! Men out here are aggressive!!! Set your boundaries And stay safe this summer!!!
@@Tojoj22 where state u live. I noticed crime here is rising badly
@jessica mcdaniels I'm sorry that you have such a small brain to the point of not having enough empathy to see a broken woman finally having the strength to talk about a trauma, so not wanting to be impolite shut up and go live your own life, because Gaga has already saved thousands of lives as opposed to you who cannot empathize for even one.
@jessica mcdaniels She is not a man. She never was. She has been spotted naked MANY times. You have no proof that she’s lying
She’s sleeping to the top legendary!
Wtf Lady?! 🥺😭💔 I’m so sorry she experienced this. I’m so saddened to hear this. I’m literally crying rn.
She’s one of the people that I absolutely admire and I would just love to give her a hug ❤️
To hear this is devastating! I hope she gets justice!
I was drugged and raped on my 19th birthday by my then boyfriends "best friend" and became pregnant as a result. When i contacted him about it he blocked me and had people basically stalk me to threaten me to get an abortion. I did. I was scared, so lonely, and depressed. I can totally sympathize with her on this💔
His friend gave you drugs without ya boyfriends knowledge?? Boyfriend was probably mad you told him after the fact ,Wow what a awful best friend
@@theoo149 yes, my boyfriend wasn't there. His supposed "best friend" was a mutual friend among us and other people, so we would all hang out together/separate/in groups. My boyfriend didn't believe me but eventually did and completely cut off me and the best friend, thinking i did it on purpose. (You have to imagine we were all between 18-21 so the drama was very childlike). I still to this day haven't see or spoke to either of them
@@timmyturbo6369 no offense but if im ya boyfriend you shouldnt be around my friends without me thats just respect, so he has the right to not talk to you in that sense but everything else he had to question cause he wasnt there so i wouldnt blame him for not believing you, you kinda were careless with youre communication,, he did the right thing fir himself by cutting both of you off
@@theoo149 Yeah like i said we were young, so there really wasn't any respect in that regard with hanging out without him being there and i was naive and trusted him
I advise you to read the Qur’aan. Only The One Who Created us Has The Power to Guide you and Help you.
what a strong woman. This is not easy to share. All her music has new perspective, everything she has has ever done has new perspective. She is a queen and her sharing this will really help people
I'm grateful that one of my favorite singers has been able to say that she's a survivor of this kind of awful crime just like me. Even though I went through something different, I can totally relate to her 100%.
You DID give back with Swine, Rain on Me, Million Reasons, Perfect Illusion, 10000 Doves, 911, Alice and Replay as I have felt the emotions of those songs myself and they have been therapeutic to me along with Born This Way Foundation's book 'Channel Kindness' so thank you Stefani and God bless!!! You're doing music as a source of emotional freedom and empowerment, not only for me and your Little Monsters but for your own sanity and peace as well and that's as it should be!!! We love you Mother Monster and thank you for your story ❤️❤️❤️😘😘💐💐🌹🌹
Just too painful 💔😭😔
This interview humanized her
U must have missed her documentary and maybe some of her recent albums. In her early twenties she seemed like a gimmick but then her real message in her music started pouring through. I think theres a song she wrote called “Swine.” (Fans, correct me) but its ab her assault and how it made her feel disgusting. When she performed it ppl thought she was just trying to be shocking but its a story of trauma. Really quite sad and I dont even think ppl dance to it anymore
@@THEDOORIZCLOSED "Marry The Night" (Music Video) and "Till It Happens To You" is also about her sexual assault. also, In Marry The Night music video Gaga shown us her, in the hospital...we didn't exactly know why she was there until now and she also mentioned "I'm gonna be a star, cuz I have nothing left to lose" to the doctor, which now is really clear it shows her after abortion... It's really heavy... 💔🥺
@@AlexSevenrings oh yeah thats right! Damn! Uggghghgh! We need #Justice4GAGA This dude needs to be outed
Lady Gaga is god
I feel heartbroken that she went through such a horrible thing. I hope she recovers from it. I wanted to cry when she broke down crying. Stay strong dear. I really hope you will expose the predator so other women won't have to go through it too. :(
She is so so strong for this, my heart goes out for her, absolutely heartbreaking
Truly heartbreaking 💔
Praying for your everlasting healing and peace, beautiful soul. ☮️💟🕊
I can’t believe they said “alleged rapest” it’s makes me so mad when they alleged because why would you lie about this having society judge you for the rest of your life
They could be legally liable. Innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.
@@johnnyglass2195 true but to hear that crushes the victim if that’s not the case know they don’t believe you when there is evidence that it happened
I know it is crushing but they have to say “alleged” for legal reasons
Look at the Johnny depp case then reevaluate your stance I’m sure people would also argue “why would amber lie” there too. It happens, people lie and no one should be condemned until it’s proven to be true. Plus they’d get sued for calling someone a rapist that isn’t proved to be a rapist because then it’s libel.
she seems believable but there are a lot of reasons for someone to lie. Maybe not so much when you keep the alleged rapist anonymous, but even in those cases there can be social reasons or just things you are telling yourself or want to convince yourself of. Yes gaslighting exists, but you can also actually distort what happened in your own mind for various reasons.
I’m just now finding this and omg. The relatability is absolutely unreal.
Her "Marry The Night" (Music Video) and "Till It Happens To You" is about her sexual assault. also, In Marry The Night music video Gaga shown us her, in the hospital...we didn't exactly know why she was there until now and she also mentioned "I'm gonna be a star, cuz I have nothing left to lose" to the doctor, which now is really clear it showed situation after abortion... It's really heavy... 💔🥺
Omg, so that's what happened to her baby?
And that's why she made swine and monster to.
I’m so proud of Lady Gaga for speaking about this. Can’t even imagine how she was feeling during that time of her life.
It's a man and sell out to goat Lucy. (Dead and cloned )
@@deborahnorman5117 what? 🤨
@@amyn.duncan1982 Sorry you didn't know that Lady Gaga was a man. Yes Lady Gaga love Lucy the goat but Satan is a liar so they murder him and cloned him. God Bless ❤️🤗 bye
@@deborahnorman5117 I don’t know what you are talking about. I don’t know who this “Lucy” is
@@amyn.duncan1982 Wake up Lady Gaga worship Satan. Goat Lucy is Satan . God bless all ❤️🤗
I'm so proud of her for telling her story she's so brave
I’m so proud she spoke up about the assault. As a survivor as well as a retired Sexual Assault Councilor I have the biggest mouth about it and am happy to see others open up. Unless we stop staying silent, even if we don’t press charges nothing will change. Getting help is key.
SHE IS SO BRAVE TO SHARE THIS. she is a real queen ❤️❤️
she is so brave
@Rick wilson seriously!? It is extremely brave and extremely hard especially to not only have to remember what happened but also because of the amount of ignorance and victim blaming that happens quite often to survivors who speak out. It's not easy to have to talk about it and it's not easy having to remember everything that took place. The amount of humiliation survivors feel can be overwhelming and the trauma is unreal and unless u yourself have ever had that experience ( and judging by your screen name I highly doubt you were raped and dumped on the sidewalk by ur parents house when u were pregnant "Rick") you can never understand truly just how horrific that experience can be even years after!!🙁
@@pacotaco5526 are you assuming all those checkmarks or have you been through the same. What's the deal with Oprah shows where you tell things but never who did it. Seems so conventient
@@pacotaco5526 Dear Kym, you must be oblivious to everything that is happening around you. Lady Caca brings up this story every couple of years, and quite frankly she is into spiritual cooking and sh*t like that. I don't have sympathy for those who worship Satan.
For sure she is brave so proud of you lady Gaga
For what ? She has 0 proof and all you have is her word lol 😂
So proud of her. She's such a light in this world and so brave. 💗
Oh my God that is a terrible to happen...My heart goes out to her!!!
I can't believe men still get away with this. Good for her for speaking up. Damn she has me in my feelings right now
The Marry the Night MV intro makes sense
"Monster" makes sense
"Swine" makes sense
"Paparazzi" Music Video makes sense
Everything makes sense
@Nicole Alejandra Cruz Guerrero probably because Rob fusari pushed Lina Morgana off the hotel roof. I bet he was doing this to both girls.
Alejandro video and song make sense
Monster
Marry The Night
Do What You Want
Swine
Rain On Me
911
@Rick wilson Worry about your mother instead
Diamond Heart speaks volumes
I’ve never really listened to Lady Gaga besides a few very common songs, but that’s because I’m not really the target audience. By sharing her story, she’s helping so many others. She’s so SO strong and I’m so proud of her. My heart goes out to all the SA survivors. You’re loved and valid, and so so strong.
I'm so proud of her, I know how hard it is to talk about things like this and she is just so dang strong for talking about it. Stay strong
Poor girl 🙏🏼
What an amazing thing for someone if her status and visibility to say - “I’m not okay with this yet.” So often we say celebrities on the other side of the trauma - healed, strong, empowered. That’s important too, but too see someone so influential admit that they’re still in pain, that they’re still working through it and vulnerable...absolutely incredible, brava 🙏🏻
She is so brave to come forward. I understand she’s not comfortable naming her abuser, but I hope she decides to some day. She deserves justice for what happened to her.
This is really sad and heartbreaking
My heart breaks for her! I’m SO happy that she has the support, love snd kindness that she needs! Love and prayers to you! Beautiful soul! ♥️
Hi Liz
I know that pain. It's beyond scary having to deal with your own predator. It's beyond brave to speak of your trauma and that is to be applauded. It's so hard. Good job Gaga. Love you
Hello Naomi
@@jackscott8166 hello
@@NaomiDollxoxo I'm Jack from Pennsylvania and it's nice to meet you here
@@jackscott8166 hello Jack Scott from Pennsylvania, I'm Naomi from Washington (state, not D.C.) Nice to meet you
A lot of young girls endure this, but rape is when your forced and have no absolute choice.
It takes so much fucking courage to come out about this experience 🖤🖤🖤 much love and healing to her.
she is such an amazing talent.I always saw it was something in her eyes that showed a true sign of pain I'm so sorry I to hear about what she suffered through. I truly hope she's coping better with life
I never knew she went through this, it's honestly heartbreaking. She's so strong, I love her so much. I've been listening to her music for YEARS, thinking to myself like "wow, she's amazing". She really is ✨💔😪😪
The more I learn about her personal life the more I’m amazed by how strong she is
THIS IS ENOUGH ! For the moment , this is enough . She doesn't feel like exposing that " man " identity yet , but time heals , and someday , that " man " will face the consequence of his act .
I'm beyond proud of women who dare to share with the world what they went through , they are the most courageous people i know . Im proud of you , Stefani .
And im proud of every women who dared to talk and denounce .
Please , dont call those who are too scared to talk " liars" , respect their choices .
I'm with you all , love you .
The price of trying to fight for your dreams, passion for your arts, and recognition of all your hard work. I feel sorry for people in the art industry. At 19, you need to be brave and you need to have a strong advocate to fight for you against these predators.
I cannot believe this happened to Lady Gaga. I feel so sorry for her and other celebrities who have been abused.
I can't believe it either, 99% fiction.
Absolute nonsense. I'm honestly amazed at the crap people instantly believe without a shred of evidence.
@@allthatjazz9000 give the benefice of the doubt.
@@allthatjazz9000 umm?????
@@allthatjazz9000 until it happens to you.
This is incredibly brave of her. More honesty in this industry please🙌🏼
Sooo brave letting others get abused. Just tell the story, don’t help anyone…
@@meeky0420 india is not a safe place for girls bro I'm telling you it's like almost hell 🙂
I Am 62 yrs old and was raped when I was 19 also .. I Did Not Speak Up about it to anyone for 20 yrs. And Now I am Kicking myself that The person got away with it... I also learned ( when I did speak up about it ) that he had gone to jail for raping 6 other woman ... I Heard about lady Gaga's rape On Oprah ( But Not what she speaks about here ) I hear More here I Pray That some day she does speak out about who Raped her.. This person is Dangerous and will do it again and again Until Caught and stopped
Why play happy clips of her alongside such a traumatic event. It's disrespectful, to be honest.
@Rick wilson so every time a person goes through something traumatic you think they report it ?
@Rick wilson she’s not the only one who hasn’t reported sexual assault, most people don’t out of fear they won’t be believed and even if they where they’d have to relieve everything that happened to them in court and the person might not even get found guilty. Lady gaga has always been open about being a victim of sexual assault when she was younger, maybe she did report it, maybe she was told not to or threatened into keeping quiet. There are so many reasons why victims don’t come forward.
@Rick wilson whatever
@Rick wilson people like you are the reason why survivors keep their mouths shut! You should be ashamed of yourself.
@Rick wilson UH yeah actually Trauma can lead to the victim not reporting it dumbass she was scared ashamed no telling what he threatened her with they can threaten to kill your loved ones all kinds of scary threats
My heart hurts hearing what she has gone through. Healing from this is a long journey. Her bravery and how she keeps going let us never loose our love for her