The Making of an Alcoholic + Barely Surviving Alcoholism - The Amazing Story of Elizabeth Vargas
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- Donal Trump or Hillary Clinton, Will you see to it that the less fortunate, and the poor that are drug addicts or alcoholics be able to get the same kind of rehab that Elizabeth was able to get?
I listened to this several years ago after my sister was found unresponsive due to alcoholism. I tried again and again to not drink. Today I am almost 365 days alcohol free.
Congratulations! Keep it up!
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
That's awesome. Happy Birthday!!!
well done...keep going. x
@@susanrowley8375 thank you so much. I’m now 420 days alcohol free and I am so happy and grateful 💕
Sitting here alone(currently in the process of getting a divorce after 22 years of marriage due to my drinking) at my kitchen table watching this show with a massive hangover and tears in my eyes. I have decided that today will be the first day in a sober life for me. this show has been both inspiring and a wakeup call.
❤💪
Praying for you I too knew I needed to give up and surrender to God's will and not my own. By the help of the Holy Spirit it's been almost 2 years.
Wish you all the best in this fantastic path you have tread upon👍
God Bless You and watch over you.
Pray, every day. Wishing to peace and strength.
Alcohol makes anxiety so much worse, especially when your hung over and haven't slept very much. It absolutely heightens the effects of anxiety and depression.
Three days clean. It’s nothing in the big picture but it means the world to me. Thanks for sharing.
It is a big thing!!!
Keep going. Bless you 🙏
I'm proud of you.
Good job I’m right there with you.
I watched this a year ago...while drinking a bottle of wine. I knew it then.
Today I am 193 days sober.
Wery good, keep up the good work ❤️
Christina Suchon congrats! One day at a time and easy on your self.
Well done, keep going, you dont need it.
Congratulations
Thank you, I see it's possible. 😊
“I would die for my children, but I couldn’t stop drinking for my children.”
Last time I watched this I was in the middle of a full blown addiction. I remember this hitting me like a ton of bricks. This was the simplest way to describe my addiction. I’m almost 8 months clean now
good xxxxxxxxxxxx
I think only those who’ve been in the throes of addiction can truly understand the stranglehold it has over us! I always say these 3 things...
1. Hate the addiction/disease not the addict!
2. Addiction is science/ brain chemistry and physiology! It is not a choice to “just suck it up/or stop”
3. Tolerance is not a moral issue!
Also, as with any disease, relapse is part of recovery ...yet remorse, guilt and shame are absolutely paralyzing to addicts!
Congratulations on your sobriety! 8 months is no small feat! One day at a time right!??!!
So proud of you! Sober by Wyatt Coates czcams.com/video/klt8auU9WM8/video.html
You’re human! Forgive yourself.
Wish you the best. I am going through it also. Don't know how to stop.
I am in tears. I stumbled upon this, and reading everyone's comments... I am 8.5 years sober and I couldn't be happier. I was so deep in alcohol, it was my life. If you would have tole me then that I could be happier than I have ever been in my life without it, I would have laughed. Sobriety sets you free. It's a hard road, it's not easy getting sober. You don't just go to rehab and you are cured. You have to WANT it more than anything. The only one who can get you sober is YOU. If you are struggling, don't wait. You CAN do this. I was an absolute MESS. Shame, guilt, anger, anxiety. There are so many layers to this that you have to peel through. I hit rock bottom too many times. One thing pulled me out of it and I said enough is enough. Don't wait, your next drink could be the end of you, don't take that chance. Much love to you all here. All who are lost and hurting. ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'm 4 months strong now
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@Laura Carlson, I stumbled on this too. Her doing this is so courageous. I have 11+ years, and while I can't say I've never been happier--because life gives everyone a different test and I could never have anticipated what mine would be--I can certainly say I've never been more grateful. She says that it is grace--indeed!! Why do some people stay sober while others don't? My getting sober allowed me to deal with an emergency. Had I been drinking at the time, I don't even want to consider what could have happened. And while I can't say I never want a drink, I can surely say I never want to be even remotely like that, and the best way is just never even take a sip. If I were to have one drink, I'd be in trouble sooner or later. I'm allergic to certain fish, deadly allergic. There is no question in my mind that I can't and won't ever eat it. Yet, we lack that understanding when it comes to whatever we are addicted to. To all of you out there struggling, as has been said, if you're going through Hell, keep going. ❤❤❤
I want to get sober, I have been to treatment twice, and failed both times. I am so full of guilt, shame and worthlessness. I hate my life. A friend relationship I am in keeps dragging me down. I'm lost. I'm tired of lying and being a fool. Laura I Love your message ✌️
@@Ryan-mn1kn Nobody gets sober in treatment. (Residential) You get medical attention, rest, nutrition, and knowledge...but you don't get sober. It's what we "DO" after we walk out that determines life, or death. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". All the best to you Ryan! Mark 5/8/1994
I have never been a drinker. During our shelter in place last year, being isolated from my family while working in urgent care, I started drinking, just to relax. I was very surprised at how quickly the thoughts of alcohol would enter my mind after work, almost immediately. For me, it's best I just stick with a Christmas toast. I'm so grateful to be aware of that.
Happy for you to have been able to recognize it and deal with it before you had to suffer from the consequences of addiction. Hope you're still doing well.
Omg I was just about to comment that the exact thing started happening to me in 2020. I'm glad I caught myself, and shortly after I decided not to drink again. I haven't had a drink in 3 years.
Thanks.. same here: specifically @ BIG TIME BUSY Pharmacy ……. THOUGH had cut back ethanol, (* side effects,etc.) to less toxic chemicals(* esp. diazepam, Hydrocodone)……
I just want to add this tidbit about drinking alcoholic beverages at your company Holiday Parties: I was new to a company & was invited to a nice Holiday Party, but the very well-dressed female employee sitting at my table warned me whispering "Don't drink beer or wine or mixed drinks--the staff is watching to see who imbibes in those types of drinks so they will be ready to fire you easily when their funds are reduced or grants are not renewed!".
Ur so brave
This lady has balls! She really didn't have to expose her private life like this but she did to help others..👏👏👏
she also has a donger
So sad authority no a copy
We have to "give it away to keep it"!
She was already caught but I do admire her for putting her side of the story
someone wanted to expose her cause he felt that elizabeth was getting special treatment and he was not. so elizabeth got ahead of everything and released her story herself, allegedly.
Full blooded American Indian 20 years sober this September 2019. Thanks to my creator and the awesome fellowship I’m in.
That is wonderfull. My grand mother used to say that alcohol is the devil's blood. And I believe this to be true. 90% of all deadly accidents or crimes is because people being under the influence.
Amazing!! Keep coming back!!
YOu Didnt become addicted to Acholol The first time you Drank! Hang in there! Perservearance! you will learm toLive with out itJust like ou learned to Live with IT!! LET GO and let GOD wagonburnereb May God bless you with Soberity!
@@gigietc One day at a time!
@Cheryl Love Our Mom and Dad seemed to Become Adicted to the meetings! Whenever we had "Family" Events like our Childrens Birthday party for one of our babies I swear The Entire AA group would be there! NO presents, just invasion! As Adult Children of Alcoholics We seriously felt replaced! point here is WE accepted everything the Group offered to Our Dads sobetity! It was keeping him Sober and mother Stress free! This is All their 4 little girls ever wanted! For Daddy to be Sobor and Momma to be Worry free from Alcohoism. the Jelli"" of the AA family was the best sacrifice we made to this horrible addiction And most likely the last! WE still Invite The AA "kids" FAMILY to our Family functions! . Daddy has 27 sober years in March! Happy Birthday Daddy. RIP Momma!
I can so relate to her story. I was a functioning alcoholic for years. Raised 3 kids, worked, did everything any other person would do. But boy did I drink. One day, I told my kids I had enough, and passed out. I was in the hospital on my back for 2 weeks. I got out and just never looked back. It's a very personal addiction. It becomes your best friend. I am sober over 18 months now, and have no cravings or desire at all by the grace of fate. If you are in this position, please seek help.
I am 5 years sober. Alcohol consumed me and my marriage. My husband and I were both alcoholics but only I was physically addicted. He went to prison and I went to treatment. He’s been out of jail for almost 5 years years and we are going strong. This story is such an inspiration! #wedorecover
Small business owner, I lost huge contract, facing eviction, crazy stress. Walked to liquor store and stared at the beers for 20 mins. I survived - I walked out. 2 yrs and still sober.
Keeping going...you can do it.
hopefully things are ok now with the virus situation. i'm into digital marketing if u need help at all.
❤️🙌🏻
Proud of you Erik!!!!
Good for you! Keep on keeping your health and family in mind
Serial relapser here! Currently 26 days sober. I want to make it this time!
UY Scuti I’m not trying to preach or offend but I hope you ask the lord to remove the addiction and help you find even public mental health care to get to the REASON YOU feel compelled to self medicate best wishes. Jesus wants you to talk to him.
15+ years . find a sponsor
You have to believe you deserve it, Uy. You do deserve a sober good life.
You are named after a star, that's fantastic! 😁
@Liz P. what makes you say that
Married to a recovering alcoholic. You have some serious guts, and I commend you for putting yourself out there for others to see. I was in the same boat as your husband. Raising 2 kids while mommy slept it off, just to start again as soon as she got up. It nearly destroyed our marriage. But, my wife had the courage and ability to quit and I thank God everyday for that. Thank you so much for sharing this story Elizabeth. I hope it helps people take their lives back.
My parents stuck it through- 45 years. My dad didn’t ask to be an alcoholic. I’m sure his father and HIS father didn’t either. I sure didn’t ask for it. It took a lot of strength and self-control and it just not being acceptable in my family for me to finally get the right kind of help and stick with it.
By the grace of God, I have 38 years in recovery. Thank you for sharing your story.
Congratulations on your sobriety Diane.
Today I'm 30 years sober.♥️
XXX congratulations!
Congrats
Buena vida felicidades:).
@Lorraine Cortes, way to be. Keep going & never look back. That it very cool.
Way to be! Keep on going & never look back.
I just wanna say ABC thank you for
giving her another chance ❤️😭
They let her go two years ago
I thank ABC News for giving her another chance. Liz vargas is a pretty lady with beautiful heart
Fickle are the news stations.
@@isabellind1292 Fucking A. So true. She made it out, and Barbara is trying to shame her back in or something.
@@DGNYY27 why did they let her go. She fell off the wagon.
Today is Day #7 of being sober, this show meant so much to me. Gives me strength to know I belong to a group of very brave people. One day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time. Thank you Elizabeth!!
7 days is huge! Keep it up one day at a time. If one day is too much, take a half a day at a time. You can do this. This was such a real wakeup call for me. Hang in there 💖💙
It's amazing that she did this interview so many people need to hear this. From day one alcohol was a problem for me I was a monster at 14 the moment it touched my lips it was over I was blackout drunk and it led to a drug addiction that ruined my life thank God I got out and I have 5 years clean 🙏
Good for you! What a triumph:) keep in going!
@@MiniM69 thank you!
Awesome so proud of you!
well done
this is awesome and I'm so happy for you! 14 is so young but you got through it and I am so happy!
30 days sober but I guess we gotta start somewhere...
i hope you’re ok!
@@abbyrosenbaum thanks for asking!! ❤️
@Allison Bauch too kind thank you so much ❤️🥰
One thing you'll realize is that no matter how many minutes/hours/days/years you have...you really only have today. The person who has 20 years...only has today. Today you'll go to sleep and say thank goodness I have today......
Keep going strong 💖
18 years, 4 months and 13 days. Miracles do happen.
I'll have 2 years this July 15th!
ODAAT! Way to go! I'm 16 years sober.
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES! CONGRATS! Keep-It-Up!!!!!!!
WELL DONE!!!🌺🌺
YES THEY DO. CONGRATS.
She was dissociating from the anxiety and the grabbing of the desk and her engagement ring brought her back. I had no idea I was doing the same thing, dissociating. This is so relatable it hurts.
I’m so glad she came out of alcoholism. I grew up with an alcoholic mother and she is still one until this day. My grandmother had to raise me and my sister because of it. It’s scary because I was starting to drink a lot too to the point where I needed wine next to my nightstand at night to feel “secure” when going to sleep in case I “needed” it. A friend saw how much I was drinking on a one girls night out and called me out. It changed everything. I haven’t drank in over a year. Please tell your family and friends what you see. You don’t know how much it can impact their life.
It's my anniversary today. 2 years with no alcohol :)
🤗🌻
Keep coming back!! One day at a time.
Do u do meth
Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈 you are strong., you new life start right now.
@@amazingsweet4125 Different program for that.
"I would die for my children..I would kill for mr children but I couldn't stop drinking for my children."
THAT's addiction.
Brava for sharing, being SO strong & quitting.
Perfectly Said
I drank enough to harm my cerebellum in my brain and soon will have to use a wheelchair. Just have a hard time walking even with a walker!
Stop-it’s just not worth it. If anyone has a cure for this disability kindly let me know. A cure for cerebellum damage
It’s not god it is yourself that gets one to stop
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU TO ADMITTING THIS TRUTH. I ALSO LOVE AND KILL FOR MY CHILDREN BUT SOMEHOW EVERY PINKY PROMISE THAT I WOULD NOT USE AGAIN WAS BROKEN THE NEXT DAY. ONLY TURNING TO GOD HAS GIVEN ME THE STRENGTH TO TURN MY LIFE AROUN.
Well said!
A brave woman bearing her soul to tell everyone her darkest demons. So glad to hear she has turned her life around.
About 12 years ago I was out with some friends and saw this drunk girl walking alone from the bar. There were guys trying to pull on her shirt because they clearly saw she was vulnerable. I swooped right in like she was my homegirl, asked her if she was okay and where her friends were. Long story short I drove her home and gave her a whole lecture about how she could've gotten herself into some real trouble. Keep in mind I'm a black lesbian and she was a white girl on the westside of Chicago...so I quite literally saved her life.😂😁🤣
Glad that theirs still good people out there . I did the same thing for a teenage girl a couple of years ago. People were walking past and letting them go through her bag and pick her up .she didn't even know the guys and was saying she was fine going home with them to start with . Had to argue with her and make her see what these 2 guys were going to do to her . Didn't even get a thankyou after I got her home but didn't care .at least I could live with myself . couldn't have just walked past cus I know what people can be like they sadly prey on the weak and vulnerable. It would have turned out very bad for the girl you and I both saved. I would like to think if my kids were ever that stupid to do something similar somebody would be there for them to save them from themselves .love from the uk
I so hope that girl learned something from your saving her. Regardless, thank you for being willing to help a fellow human. Even if she can’t appreciate it, I do.
You were her guardian angel. Thank you for caring. God bless you!
Yes, lectures are very effective for alcoholics. 😳
Oooh I was roofied up there, wild,
I just lost my brother to this. He was my best friend. He was a good father, brother, and son. He died December 15th. It killed our mother on 1/23/21 a month and 8 days after she lost her only son. Her heart couldn’t take it. He was the most caring, loving, funniest, great big brother ever. I take his ashes everywhere with me. We put his asked in the ocean because that’s what he wanted. He loved all animals and nature. He loved to fish.
I took care of him the last few years of his life. I wish I could hear him one more time.
I too was a alcoholic. I’ve been sober since 2012. You can do it
I miss my brother
You are a beautiful person.
I'm so sorry for your loss. May your brother and mom rest in peace.
Prayers
I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP to your brother and mom. Losing people really sucks.
I have been sober for 28 years now, one day at a time.... I will always be an alcoholic. My mother died of wet brain at the age of 46. I understand what you are going through. ..
Both of my parents were so-called "functioning" alcoholics, and although they were never cruel to us as kids, I was embarrassed that I couldn't have friends over after school or on weekends. My father was a psychologist, and he explained to me that both sides of the family had strong genetic tendencies toward addiction, so I decided I'd just never tempt fate and drink. The only alcohol I've ever had has been in cooked food. Some people call me boring, and I'm fine with that. I prefer boring to chaos any day of the week.
I don't consider you boring but very smart due to your genetics.
Thanks, Pam.
Excellent comment
Wow you are amazing.
SmittenKitten is the best name :)
I remember watching this when it first aired. I was so blown away at her level of honesty, vulnerability class and grace during this interview. Tbh, I still am and even more impressed. What a wonderful woman who is helping so many with her story!
yea...until you realize she's selling a book and this a standard media plug/cashgrab
I to have anxiety and an alcoholic. So sick of drinking and I'm sitting here feeling sick from a few days before. I'm glad I stumbled across this story 🙏🏽
Hope and pray you are in a better place now. 🙃
Over 5 years sober. Best 5 years of my life.
I cannot imagine the courage it took for her to do this. She's so strong.
Jenna Mahanay don't let the dog.
BuyTheTicket TakeTheRide huh??
okay Curt, you're right.
Beautiful answer Curt. Perfect.
Jenna Mahanay, Curt Christensen: Each individual who deals with addiction has their own words to describe their experience and they are all 100% right--for themselves. No one else can describe it for anyone else--only for themselves.
My Dad was an alcoholic and he committed suicide. I was 13 y.o. and found him. I'm now 73 and still can't be around people who drink.
Good luck on your sobriety. Your children need you❤
I'm sorry you went through that and I'm sure your dad would be proud of you today.
I am sorry for your lifelong loss and pain. You went through this at a time when we understood so little about brain pain.🙏🏾
I learned in AA that an alcoholic is anyone who takes a drink and then cannot stop. It doesn't matter how often one binges in this manner, even if just a couple of times a year. I had not known this, but looking back, this was my history. So Elizabeth's question, when did she become am alcoholic if she could control her drinking early on? She was always an alcoholic....stopping off at the bar before going home was an early indication. She drank before going home so she could drink more at home, unnoticed. I am sure any alcoholic can relate to her story. She is brave to tell her story to the world. I am also one of the lucky ones, sober now for 20 years. To all of you here who have said you relate to her story yet are still drinking, make this moment the beginning of your new life without alcohol. Get help somewhere...you are worth it.
We all have to get to the bitter end, however we get to the bitter end, and whatever that entails. Very few people will take any action, until they are backed into a corner. The reality of alcoholism is that many people will die, despite multiple opportunities to recover. THAT is why I practice gratitude every morning, and live in the bosom of the Fellowship. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". Simple! All the best to you Janet!
@Mark-pp7jy I agree. Everyone's bitter end is different and their own. I was at the end but also remember had one person who gave me a little push. Never know what a bit of encouragement can do. Thanks for sharing. Best to you, Mark.
I binged drinked but never been an alcoholic
Its when your dependent on it there is different types of alcoholics though
@@yvonneanderson7032 No not really. If one drinks and cannot stop, one is an alcoholic. If one can stop, then no, not an alcoholic. I think AA knows. Been around for years and the program helps millions of people. Alcohol is cunning, baffling and powerful. I had to believe the truth to get help and live a better life. I am grateful today.
@@yvonneanderson7032 Lots of people can stop drinking, but can they "STAY STOPPED"? Alcoholism is progressive and fatal!
24 years 4 months thank you Lord for keeping me.
You're awesome! Congratulations :)
That is amazing!🎉
Amen. To God must go the glory. Well done!
Bless.
alvera orr really? “The lord” you’re REALLY not even gonna give yourself the credit you deserve? Why?
This August I'll be 4 years clean.
I salute you !
U mean dry, drug addiction is clean, your not the same as a alcoholic,
@@johnwilliams2479 all labels suck.
@A D I'm correct
Awesome!
I remember watching this years ago and I cried like a baby bc I ADMIRED HER soo much! I saw someone with so much compassion, STRENGTH, & COURAGE, etc. I don’t think I have EVER been so PROUD of a woman behind the screens in my life. I’ve struggled with addiction for 13 years. I lost my little brother to
ONE pill laced with Fentanyl during the 2020 pandemic- & couldn’t even give him a real funeral. I got clean a few months before he passed. And it’s been the absolute HARDEST to stay straight but TODAY, I can say I feel confident enough that I believe I may make it. I think of this woman so much during my journey. For the rest of you- YOU ARE WORTH GETTING HELP!
I can totally relate to everything she says! I fought with alcohol for many years before getting sober 31/2 years ago. Praise the Lord!!
Currently drunk alcoholic here. I hope I can join you sober guys soon! I'd like to escape this, as you have.
I’m struggling too but I have cut back. Start small by having even one less drink. We can do this!!
DaDennyH the night I called the AA hot line in despair the person on the phone told me the only person on this earth that can get me sober is me. I have to want it. I celebrate 16 years of sobriety tomorrow. It was difficult the first year, but SO worth it.
@@mychellefitzgerald that's amazing! I'm struggling with alcohol.. 😢
You can do it!!
My friend died from alcoholism days ago. She was 45 years old. My dad died from alcoholism one week after his 49th birthday. My sister is in deep denial and drinks until she passes out regularly. She says she doesn't have a problem.
Dont quit quitting. If it takes 100,000 tries it's worth it.
Join AA and be a winner, dude.
I've been in recovery for quite a while if it wasn't for A.A. I'd be dead but it takes more than that you have to learn how to be happy 🎇
Thank you for the pep talk.
💞
That's The best advice 👌🏼😍
I did NOT want to watch this. I was NOT going to comment, but here we are. The hiding, the sneaking, the justifying, the deflection, all of it. “Unfeminine” was what got me. I felt that deeply. Full bottles of vodka alone while hiding in the bathroom in the middle of the night while the world slept…not a good look.
It’s hard to want better for yourself when you don’t think you deserve it. I’m stubborn and competitive as hell and used that to my advantage. My alcoholic brain said, “You can’t stop.” I said (aloud), “Watch me.” It still sneaks in and I just say, “ZIP ITTTTTT, A**h***.” Whatever works. You do you.
7 years without it on March 5th, 2022.
It's the "ISM" that's the ass kicker, not the alcohol. The root problem is "self". All the best to you, and congratulations!
@@Mark-pp7jy , I’ve never heard anyone say that and I literally yelled, “EXACTLY!” in agreement. You just summed up 15+ years of my life in a sentence. I’m still a bit speechless. Thank you, Mark! ❤️
@@LegitLC It is the single most important aspect of my recovery, and allows me to maintain / develop my spiritual condition a day at a time. I can't take any credit for sharing the "ism" knowledge though, because so many others have freely carried the message to me, expecting nothing in return. What a gift to be sober! 🙂
@@Mark-pp7jy, well I’m crediting you because you brought it to me expecting nothing in return. Thank you, Mark. March 5th marked 7 years and like any other day, I had/have the awareness and a healthy fear that I could throw it away in an instant. I didn’t like who I was though, so I’ll just keep doing me. ❤️
@@LegitLC Very happy for you. There was a time when I thought 7 years was an astronomical number, and it is considering the behemoth alcoholism. You "keep doing you", and you'll be fine LC! Oh, and it keeps getting better...you have my word on it! 🙂
Love this. Especially the child dynamic. I was six years sober when my only child, a son, was born. It’s been 15 years since my last drink. My life’s goal is that he never sees me with a drink in my had or booze on my breath. It’s the greatest gift I can give him. For anyone struggling, don’t give up. One more try is always worth it. ❤️
I used to work with her and she was such an absolute professional, never knew she was going through this. This was a huge surprise, happy she is doing better.
Thanks for sharing. She seems so beautiful inside. Where it counts.
Thank you for sharing that- even the most functional can be hiding a terrible addiction.
My mom was a very aknowledged school teacher, but at home she had a abusive side (drinking in the closet) and violent relationships.
I know deep down in her beautiful troubled heart this had to be one of the toughest interviews she's ever done because for once The roles are changed Elizabeth 's the one being interviewed & asked tge tough questions .HOLD YOUR head up high Elizabeth ! You're winning the battle & sweet lady you have more support then you'll ever know. I struggled with it for years til I moved & made the decision I wanted to make a change in my life 2 decades later I can walk down the beer isle or sit with folks who are drinking and it doesn't bother me & I can't stand the smell of it.
Ughh. I’m watching this in 2020. I’m an alcoholic and struggling horribly
Thank you Elizabeth Vargas. You’re my HERO
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Be a winner and join AA
Prayers 🙏🏻 you get help. It's out there. Go to an AA meeting. It will help.
🙏❤
KA go to the AA web site> find a meeting> online and telephone meetings and just listen to people like yourself. block the video on Zoo if you don't want to be seen. I'm 28 years sober and love/ need these meeting everyday. WE can do it :)
My husband is 3 years sober ( after his 4 th time in rehab) his brother wasn’t so lucky.. he died from the disease . This disease doesn’t discriminate. Don’t be ashamed to ask for help and don’t give up ♥️
Nobody gets sober in rehab! Rehab facilities do a great job of medically supervised detox, and education, but the individual has to eventually rejoin society and make a choice...life or death!
I’m almost 68 and struggled with alcohol for over 40 years. I’ll be sober 4 years August 20 2024. To share your story took so much strength. God Bless you ❤
I've been sober for four years, nine months. So glad I survived.
Struggling with brainless things? How do you deal with teenagers, dude?
I haven't had a drink for 3 years best thing I ever did
Congrats! So happy for you!
Way to go my dear.
I was the same and then I drank for a friends birthday and I went downhill. I have a lot to lose too!! More than most people
That is so awesome! You have chosen for yourself to stay sober!! WAY TO GO!
Emme Turner Bales congrats
This is one of the most moving news pieces I've ever seen. Congratulations to Elizabeth for her strength and rediscovered grace. And what a mammoth job for Diane Sawyer. That's not an easy interview at all. Hang in there Elizabeth. We all love you.
Wow I had NO IDEA. She has been so wonderful on air and in her work. Of course, none of us could know she had this problem. I am a US Army Sergeant, 9th Infantry and was also an alcoholic killing pain from things I've lived through, From childhood trauma,. Divorce of my parents at age 6. Living in 12 homes with a single mom who was mentally ill RIP. An alcoholic father, so possibly genetic. And military missions, ELIZABETH HAD ME IN TEARS through this entire show. It showed exactly how we all live and hide sneak and hurt people and most of all those WHO LOVE US THE MOST. Then we lose them. She is lucky she kept her family. Her husband, well, I won't say anything. Bless you Elizabeth Vargas, We have all loved you and always will. Stay with it we want you around for another 100 years. Bless you and by the way haven't had a drink since 1997. Thank Almighty God.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
Today is my day one with out a 🍻 I can't do this anymore please pray for me and god bless you all..
You posted this a week ago so now you should be 7 or 8 days.. wishing you strength
You can do it!
Im in your boat lets do this please god im terrified at the amount i drink one day i wont wake up xx
I'm praying. For you. One day at a time.
I’m on day two today. With Gods Grace I will make it this time. I believe in you too Rami!!
Day 1 of being sober! Pray for me! This ones for myself, My daughter,My Sons and My Fiancee
OFFICIALFTINCREDIBLE how you doing?
Prayers 🙏 I am also an alcoholic. I want help and so ready after 18 yrs.
This gives me hope Elizabeth thank you
Hope your doing well still please update us
You can do it. Stay strong...all the best to you!🙏🌹
I watched this when it originally came out and it hit pretty hard. My wife was an alcoholic that struggled with the disease of alcoholism most of her adult life. She didn’t make it. She had many slips then became addicted to prescription drugs. On March 10, 2020 she died from the disease of addiction. I pray for all those and their families that are effected by this.
That's so heartbreaking. My condolences to you for the loss of your wife to the terrible disease of addiction.
The hardest thing in the world is accepting the fact that you’re an addict. Congrats to Elizabeth Vargas and to everyone who has battled this horrible addiction
I'm struggling with alcohol. Cant make it past 7 days sober. Starting day 2 again, pray I can make it past my days off.
You can do it! One day at a time.
@@deeemis-pena9316 thank you. Two weeks ago I finally decided to try something. I'm 21 days sober right now. It's been annoying, my journey has just started. But, so far this has been great. I gave disulfiram a try and I'm two weeks into it. Gotta do some test on my liver tomorrow make it it doesnt hurt more than help. But, so far it's been great. While on these meds I literally cant drink or I'll get sick. Its helped me knowing I literally cant drink at all or suffer horrible consequences.
@@RH-qx7wm thanks for the advice. I tried AA a couple times where I lived an the atmosphere just felt not satisfying to me and felt like a cult. I don't know how to explain it honestly. I'm currently 25 days sober right now. I take one of those pills every other day right now and that makes it where I literally cant drink. Or if I was to, there wouldn't be at fun in it. Straight to sickness from one drink. Once I get the testing finished an blood work back seeing how this is effecting my liver, I'm going to start going through a Christian program at a church in the town i work in. I already talked to the guy twice so far. Hes an ex alcoholic. Was supposed to die, his liver was just dead. Doctors said he had only a few weeks to live. He ended up praying knowing he was going to die and was asking for forgiveness an such for what hes done with his life. And he said a few days later after passing out due to pain he woke up and his liver was no longer not functioning at all. 100 percent functional. Doctors couldn't explain it. I'm a Christian. So you might think stuff like this doesnt happen. But anyway, after talking to him I believe this is more of a program I'm willing to try. AA just didn't feel right. I need to not only stay sober but I need to correct my life in this aspect too. I've been back sliding. Anyway, sorry for the long reply. I just randomly woke up, kinda not awake yet. I appreciate the comment. :)
techmaster170 keep trying.. it may take years but the intention is key
@@henrywhh oh I'm not giving up. Currently 25 almost 26 days sober right now. :) But if something happens an I fail again. I'll get myself back up and keep moving forward.
18 months sober after 40 years of black out, broken bones, angry kids and multiple detoxes, treatment centers and jails, one day at a time
Excellent. You can do it.
How's it going Bill? I hope you're doing well!
Proud of you Bill! czcams.com/video/klt8auU9WM8/video.html
Take it to a meeting!! Not a public forum.
One day at a time brother.
As a recovering alcoholic myself, I can relate to every word she said. It took me 8 years in and out of AA and three trips to rehab before I got sober. I pray that Elizabeth stays sober and finds peace and joy in her life.
What are you doing differently?
@@Mark-pp7jy Hi Mark, it’s hard to say. I’ve been sober for 12 years now, and when I finally got sober in 2010, something in me just said, “enough’s enough, we have to do this.”
I spent my first four years listening to my sponsor, not drinking and going to at least 1 meeting per day. When I opened my mind to the meetings, I started noticing how much I related to everything that was being said.
In the beginning, my sponsor told me, “don’t worry about staying sober for the rest of your life - just get to bed tonight without a drink.”
I can also tell you that in my first two years or so, there were plenty of times where it really didn’t feel like my life was getting better, but now that I look at it in hindsight, my life really was getting better, I just didn’t notice it at the time.
Stick with it.
@@PrestenSPapel Very happy to hear that! I know from experience that sobriety gets better and better...IF I'm "willing to work for it"! All the best to you! ☀️
@Koonretchen Right! That's why it's been in existence for 90 years, and people from EVERY walk of life and profession have lived life in abundance! Try again!
@Koonretchen ✌️
Here I am re-watching this after almost 5 years of sobriety. I lost my dad when I was 2 years old to alcohol and suicide and I was following his path. Anxiety still plays a big part in my life but I know I’ll survive as long as I don’t drink. One day at a time. You CAN and WILL get sober, even if it seems impossible. Much love to anyone going through the same.
Anxiety and addictive behaviors run strong on my dads side and my moms side battles anxiety and depression. I hate to say it but I feel like I am walking in my fathers shoes. He was a bad alcoholic and died stumbling drunk in the middle of the road and got hit by a car. I have lost too much to this awful disease and I am so over it. I am ready to get sober. ❤
26 years, 7 months, 6 days. By the grace of my higher power.
Struggling with inanimate objects? Are you a powderpuff?
When I think about all the times I was alone and blacked out, wandering around downtown Seattle streets, or alone on vacation in Mexico, I know that I had guardian angels watching over me. I really should be dead.
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
@@jg6698 Yeah, that is some crazy shit. I have never seen this before. Shame on him!
Glad you are still here with us. Take care!
Not only did she reach out to help those with alcoholism, she helped teach others how it is, what it's like thereby giving us tools to help💜
As a daughter, granddaughter, niece and sister of alcoholics….and only one of those who got sober and stayed sober, I had to make a conscious effort to not become an alcoholic myself…and it wasn’t easy, but one day woke up with the worst hangover, looked at my daughter who was about 4 at the time, and told myself “you cannot do to her what was done to you, you have to be present”. She is 24 now with a son of her own…and very rarely do I touch any type of alcohol and I am so grateful because I am now present in my grandchild’s life
I feel her pain. I was brought back to life with a defibrillator about 6 years ago, due to a car accident. If it wasn't for a 16 year old with a cell phone on a bike at 2AM, passing by that night, I'd be dead. All caused by alcohol. It didn't scare me out of stopping. Fast forward 6 years later, detox. 12 days under medical supervision. Still didn't scare me. Tonight, marks day 1. I'm done with the cycle. It ends today.
An update would be great I'm praying for you brother
My son's overdose didnt make him stop either. He used heroin. Eventually he decided to stop. They say "you gotta want it." He white knuckled it for at least a year. There is a lot of good people ready to help you. Alone it's almost impossible. Trust me, my other son sits on my piano in a box. The pain is indescribable. Good luck.
@@mp5249 🙏🏽❤😢
hope you're doing good. do u exercise a lot? that helps me very much. exhaust the body and get into that zen state.
How are you doing a year later?
what a brave women to share her story...I am also a alcoholic. .15 months sober
Congrats! Keep it going.
Nancy Marin 1 year sober! We can do it. PTL.
I'm an addict and good on you for getting sober... It is a rough ride and I hope you keep it up...
you are amazing!!
Nancy Marin - you are not an alcoholic- you WERE an alcoholic! I’m so happy for you, my sister is currently an alcoholic and not seeking treatment
Alcoholism has devastated my family. Kudos to Elizabeth and so many others who have overcome alcoholism. I am so proud of you! Has the benevolent stranger who saved Elizabeth's life ever been identified? I believe there are angels who walk among us.
Are you looking to quit alcohol addiction, I'll recommend you Psilocybin mushrooms.
"To hold a fresh psilocybin mushroom in one's hand is to possess the very nature of oneself. Their beauty meets their potency.
Taking shrooms was a profound experience, one of the most important things in my life, I now see things the right way.
Heard so much about magic mushrooms I'lld like to give it a try please where do I get?
Doc.todd
shrooms
𝕴𝖓𝖘𝖙𝖆𝖌𝖗𝖆𝖒
16 months sober today.
I’m studying to be a bus driver 😎
Great . I’ve been a bus driver for 25 years and now a class A hazmat tanker driver. You can do it good luck.
Lmao….geezus christ.
Wishing you all the best ❤️
@@JB-qt3wo What's so funny?
@@JB-qt3wo What's funny ?? Grow up 🥱🥱
Sober since 2/28/88. Thank you, God and the fellowship of AA.
And your willingness to do what you had to do to stay sober. GREAT JOB!
Colleen Monahan AA save my life . Got a God of my understanding, 19 years sober, by Gods gift to me One day at a time. Eh
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask?
I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
Elizabeth has always been my favorite newscaster! I’m shocked to learn she ever had any anxiety!! She hid it well! I’m pulling for you every day, and can’t wait to see your next broadcast! Just ordered your book! ❤️
People who judge don't matter and people who matter don't judge!
Sober recovery date: December 23, 1978 with gratitude !
Dont bash her. She is been honest and no matter how ptoviliged she is. Alcoholism is what it is
She has a drinking problem - i wouldn't call her an alcoholic based on the amounts she mentioned. And her big 'horror' story was being at the lethal limit one time. It is EASY to be at the lethal limit. Probably one bottle of wine for a woman her size and you could get there if you drank it within an hour. That is NOT real alcoholism. Laura Duhe same deal.
Shiawasenaneko omg ... AGAIN do your research you don't have a clue !
Shiawasenaneko With respect you don't know what the fuck you are waffling on about. Your whole post is just assumption.
Shiawasenaneko WRONG! SHE IS A FULL BLOWN ALCOHOLIC!
I hope you don't try to help anyone with that kind of thinking!
they got to do it on their own. No one can help someone out of this, unless they are willing and THEY have to do 90 percent of the work, if not more...
15 years and counting. Bipolar, anxiety disorder, and ADD, but thanks to my loving higher power I remain sober. Truly a miracle.
Yes,,, it is,,,,hang in there,,,,
Beautiful lady......but we are all the same.... Aren't t we? It's all about the reality of life.
that’s really great
I'm a nobody, but this is so similar to my story. And I would bet Elizabeth Vargas would also agree that she, like me, is just another run of the mill drunk. I am two years and a month sober. I am so grateful to my loved ones, but they could not get me sober, no matter what. And so it's been AA and my higher power that have saved my life. I hope anyone who is suffering from this disease and reads this gets some hope from this run of the mill drunk's story. Thank you, Elizabeth for your story and ABC for broadcasting this.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
I never saw this when it aired but I am in recovery from alcohol and have came back to it more than once. When I found it, I saw her at the beginning and remember thinking there is no way this beautiful accomplished woman is a true alcoholic. I was wrong. Very brave of her to tell her story and to be completely open. Well done!
We fall down differently, but the ground still feels the same for everybody.
SEVEN SIX you'll be fine, stupidity is not a crime as of yet:)
Mary's World Beautifully said:)!!!
SEVEN SIX what? You're not old enough to say shit are you? Now run along you blouse.
love this.
I like your comment to Seven Six... I'm an addict and trust me me it is hard work... You hit rock bottom and then realise there is a basement below so you fall even deeper... I'm just being honest... :-)...
Just over 1 year sober and watching this is so inspiring and hopeful.
Hello Kerry
Don't let any negative comment send you back.. I'm on day one and waiting... Be prepared for battle against arseholes
God has blessed us both 🙏 6 1/2 months without that poison called alcohol for me!💜 stay free 💜
Keep.strong
As an addict I cried watching this. A lot of journalists (Diane Sawyer included) come off as apathetic..cold. (Britney Spears interview anyone?) You can tell Elizabeth isn’t like that. If I ever had someone interviewing me it wouldn’t be Diane, wouldn’t be “Baba Wawa” and it certainly wouldn’t be Oprah, blech. They can be so condensing and patronizing… It would definitely be Elizabeth. She seems like such a nice, genuine woman. Someone every woman wants as a friend or big sister. Which just makes this all the more heartbreaking.
I suffer from anxiety as well. She told no lies! I can relate to everything she has said! I lost Everything!
Sooo true. And lmao at “Baba Wawa”
It's baffling how she actually looked 10 years older, while employed as a journalist, than she did at the time of this interview. Alcohol is so profoundly devastating to the body. Wow
It happened to a teacher of mine .
My therapist told me yesterday when she first meet me I looked like I was 40 and now almost a year off alcohol with 1 lapse I'm celebrating 6 months of sobriety,I look like I'm 25 I'm actually 35. God is good!
@@user-wf1kr1vm5l Good for you! God is Grace, God is Good!
Everyone that's being hateful should be ashamed of yourselves. Just because she is rich doesn't mean her battle was less than. She has a problem and addiction is not only a poor man's problem. And the fact that she is well known I think is even more of a brave act to make her struggle public.
Well said, Kasia!
I guess they're jealous because they've done nothing with their lives. Imagine what she could have achieved if sober all those years?
She still suffered a lot, lost her husband, almost lost her career. Could have lost her boys. Even money can't stop alcoholism. I'm glad she was finally willing to stay sober one day at a time.
What amazes me...is she has managed to look so good and keep her work.
Kasia, you are absolutely right. Anxiety and drinking can affect anyone, rich or poor.
I love how ABC really stood by her and let her fumble a few times. That is very rare. Most companies would get rid of you the second they heard of your sickness. Way to go corporate!!
ABC
That was awesome
ABC!
that is now, and then, true. But there were several decades before that when doing that kind of job required a high alcohol tolerance level. Then things changed radically, which makes this story that much more poignant.
Lol... Because she is high up..... She's been in the industry for a looong time, when you're that high up, you can do anything
I not only like her, I admire her!! Her battle was a very, very difficult one, and she won it with flying colors. I watch her on TV now, and as always, I enjoyed her show, and admired her greatly. I wish her all the best in life, as she deserved the best. Its so very difficult to do what she did, with such determination and passion. Her family means so much to her, and they love her too. Again, I wish her all the best, and I wish her a long life, filled with love and laughter.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
She is seriously so brave and amazing for sharing this story! I can relate to her and have a similar story and I look forward to sharing my story soon. 💛
Thanks for sharing. I too am an alcoholic. I self medicated my panic disorder with vodka. I got liver disease and was on my last legs. I am now 8 years, 6 months and 1 day sober. I am studying for a degree in Psychology and behavioural science and addiction.
Donna Kay well done girl, be proud of yourself. I’m proud of you
@@mcewenca Thank you!
How can I help my 75 year old mom quite drinking?
@@LSUN118 you cant. It is something she has to do of her own accord. If you quit drinking for someone else you'll never succeed. All you can do is give her information, tell her that support and help is there if and when she chooses. I know being a family member of an alcoholic is soul destroying and believe me, your mum knows shes hurting you but until she has the resolve to do it herself I'm afraid you have to sit back and watch. Dont enable her though. Dont give her anymore money or supply her with booze. Cut her off from that. Be there for her to lean on but refuse to be part of the problem anymore. Good luck
@@jellybathwater •☆.•*´Thank You`*•.☆•
Our son fought addiction for literally half his life, he became sober Nov 10, 2015...was killed at 31, in a one vehicle car accident Dec 22, 2017. The officer said no signs of drinking or drugs he simply over corrected his truck. I miss him terribly but find comfort that God gave us those 2 great years before calling him home! Sobriety is a Gift to them but also to the families affected!
Texas Laulie I’m so sorry be proud of him!
I'm truly sorry for your loss. God Bless you and ALL the best to you and your family and loved ones in 2019!!!
I'm so sorry, I also lost my son, addiction took him. I miss his beautiful soul so much.
According to Dr Drew if someone has a drug or alcohol issue there is nearly 100% probably of childhood abuse
I am thankful to have crossed paths with this video today, she perfectly described the madness that alcohol with spiral you in, I felt chills hearing this because I to am a recovering alcoholic. so glad she made it!! life is truly worth living ❤️
My brother has been an alcoholic since death of our mother in 1980. He was 16. Currently he is on Hospice (for the 2nd time). He is now 57. One of the BEST men I've EVER known! He is an angel. My best friend, I often wonder why I didn't succumb to alcoholism too???? Especially when our dad passed early as well, from alcoholism. 3 out of us 6 kids struggle with alcohol, another turned to narcotics. I'm SO blessed to have risen above our troubled childhood. Mentally, I'm just like them, if not worse. I prray every day at least 2 times. I love you!
As an alcoholic myself, I applaud her for her bravery. I haven't drank in years, but still struggle.
It's damn hard but keep it up... Xxx...
Don't stop trying. I am a stranger but I am praying for you Joan. Everyday.
Joan Holliman you are amazing and one day at a time.
I hear you.. I often (jokingly, because I don't believe in reincarnation) think that in my next lifetime, I'll have great skin (I had horrible acne as a teenager and it left scars), great hair (mine is fine and thin), and I WON'T be an alcoholic! (lol).
Not necessarily in that order.....
Joan Holliman hope he has fin
21 years this December, was my last drink. I really went through the wringer. Life is so much better now. I can relate to her story. She has courage.
28 years for me... Awesome, isn't it? Good job! ..... One day at a time!
Congratulations, that's so awesome
holy marbles, 21 years? That is absolutely amazing and do not forget that!
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@@DeeDee-nn4ff ❤️
Love how vulnerable she is willing to be in this interview. It can't be easy to be exposed and for you to admit with details how bad it was or how ashamed you felt ❤️
She is so beautiful and accomplished. Just shows it can happen to anyone. She is so brave for being so honest. It is helpful for people to hear this. Glad she is sober now she should be so proud it's admirable
I drank like I have never seen anyone drink. I by the grace of God am free of that Devil. Hate it now. I lost my daughter to prescription drugs 5 months ago but never drank because of it. I am as free as I will ever be.Thank you, Jesus.
So very sorry for the loss of your daughter.
I pray for you. I hope you keep being strong. I am sorry for your loss. It hurts but feel it like we all do (i also lost a baby). Dont be afraid of the feeling. Its hard but it will pass and you will be fine. Sad but fine. Sadness is part of everything we need to experience. It hurts but we are made to overcome it also. Just keep being aware of it. You don't need to escape or numb the pain. Just feel it and it will pass. May God bless you.
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope that you'll be ok.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Addiction .... such a horrible and devastating disease, whether it's alcohol or drugs or over eating or gambling, etc. It doesn't discriminate and affects all walks of life. I'm glad you're sober today. Again, I'm sorry for your huge, huge loss of your daughter.
So sorry for your incredible loss, Gigi. Prayers for you every day. Don't give up. God loves you so much and He is proud of you as we all are.
I am an alcoholic. This woman is so spot on in the way she describes how it feels when you realize you're too far gone and can't stop drinking. Great interview.
tardigrade how are you doing now? Care to share?
he's passed out.
Miriam Lancewood Miriam Lancewood Miriam Lancewood, everywhere you look Miriam Lancewood. Damn a Miriam Lancewood !
The jittery/shaky feeling all over your body is spot on.
@@emlove6010 and the heart fluttering
I have been clean and sober for almost thirty-five years now. This woman is extremely brave for coming forward and talking about her story and it obviously shows that you can have a high-paying job and a life that looks like it's working and in reality you're just one step from the abyss. There is help and now there are lots of different ways to approach alcoholism so get some help if you need it.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
What a brave lady! Have always loved Elizabeth as a reporter; but wow… never knew until today. Made me truly re-think my drinking habits. Thank you for sharing and here’s to all the brave people in recovery. 💪💫🙌🏻
1year sober today
Ju Z congrats
Congratulations!! You're a strong individual and I admire your determination. Here's to more days, weeks, months, and years to your sobriety!
Congratulations,! So happy for you!
Congrats!
Wonderful!!
Thank you Ms. Vargas for your courage.
I admire her. This openness about one's mistakes is rare, especially in the US (I guess).
Cheyann Doyle Most of ya'll are alcoholics or recovering that support her!!!!!
Wrong. I'm not an alcoholic or recovering. I totally support her because she has probably helped people by doing this. Life isn't just about my personal experiences.
Cheyann Doyle they don’t eat
Every time a person overdrinks, brain cells die. Many people still think addiction is a moral issue. It's a medical and psychological issue. Never be afraid to ask for help.
Have you read the book Ruby Shoes? It has a great story about an airline stewardess grabbing the airport intercom white phone at gate 17 and asking for "friends of Bill W to come help her." People got out of the ticket line and some did not board their flight and a group of them showed up at gate 17 to help her not go into the bar and drink. "
I spent 15 years working at the MSP Airport. Answered the call several times. There was nothing more important than being the "Hand of AA"!
I had no idea who “Friends of Bill W.” was when I saw signs on a cruise. Alcohol has never been an addiction (mine is sugar). I found out months later. This post made me cry tears of gratitude for all those “Friends of Bill W.” Who ran to help that flight attendant. So much love to you all.
Never heard that, wonderful story! 6 1/2 months without alcohol myself. Praise be to God.
Bill W. ?
@@patriciamharris5664 Bill Wilson, along with Dr. Bob Smith were the founders of Alcoholics Anonymous in 1935.