Actually I read an article that it shows power and authority. And having hands in the pocket…. It is highly avoided by public speakers. I don’t know where this guy got his 3 postures
those are right but also ,its imporant to free your body first.. and then the actions follow..your body language will say how you feel and move and wont be dependant on the outside but more as you free flow , arms relaxed, posture relaxed and mouth relaxed to speak..when you are relaxed in your being you will be filled with energy and free flow rather then thinking how you appear..free the energy in you so you can act freely and not bound to a circumstance..being comfortable with oneself is easier than to try to control how others see you..if you feel stuck and dont know where to put hands it says you feel uncomfortable so you have to dig deep to free that inside you...go where you feel good or meditate to ground yourself in your being...in the end it matters how you feel . sometimes the enviroment or a situation makes us feel stuck or uncomfortable but that a way to grow and face the fears, masking them wont solve it..anything that makes you fearful or intimitated is a oportunity to grow stronger and relaxed even more ..
I don’t like the power position because my biological mother uses it to bully people literally thinking she’s better than others . So for me it feels like an aggressive stance , and I usually put my hands behind my back to avoid being like her or make others feel the way she made me feel even if it’s probably not the case 😩🤷🏾♀️ kinda sad .
You may need to go more neutral until your brain finds confidence (acceptance and comfort in your personal power) more comfortable. I'm so sorry you were treated that way. You didn't deserve that.
Even though I've always been a psychology student (not a degree or proper education, but just because I'm interested)for so long, for years i could never name my actions and didn't know why i do that, especially self-doubt, bad habits & striking for perfectionism. now i know that it's low self-esteem & i hope i can overcome it :(
Palm down signifies someone attempting to assert dominance, i dont respect people who shakes this way. I approach neutral, because to me everyone is their own leader first.
this makes you look insecure, you cant change yourself when people already know you. but also dont try to act too confident and sabotage the people around you. I know a person who acts like this around people, but by himself he talks more softly and almost cowers theirself.
LOL, stand with your hands on your hips on a building site and watch you get spun around. Some power plays are just powerless pretenders, call them posuers. The truly humble is in control. 😊
Absolutely do not regret following you. You know I would be interested in a reading list. What would be a good read, you "say based on research" where are you seeing this reasearch?
Lol 😂😂😂 not looking low self esteem don't necessarily mean you don't have low self esteem. And self esteem basically isn't determined by look. It's comes from the inside.
Number 2 looks like you're unsure of yourself and trying to convince others that you're cool. It actually looks cocky. Giving your hand that way is impolite, it is pretentious and ridiculous. =D
My whole life is all three positions
Its better to change it !
I always put my hands folded but I just stare at someone with daggers in my eyes and I put my hands behind my back bc I stretch my arms 24/7 😂
My martial Arts teacher has his hands behind his back walking slowly all the time, and it's doesn't make him look weak at all🤣
Actually I read an article that it shows power and authority. And having hands in the pocket…. It is highly avoided by public speakers. I don’t know where this guy got his 3 postures
those are right but also ,its imporant to free your body first.. and then the actions follow..your body language will say how you feel and move and wont be dependant on the outside but more as you free flow , arms relaxed, posture relaxed and mouth relaxed to speak..when you are relaxed in your being you will be filled with energy and free flow rather then thinking how you appear..free the energy in you so you can act freely and not bound to a circumstance..being comfortable with oneself is easier than to try to control how others see you..if you feel stuck and dont know where to put hands it says you feel uncomfortable so you have to dig deep to free that inside you...go where you feel good or meditate to ground yourself in your being...in the end it matters how you feel . sometimes the enviroment or a situation makes us feel stuck or uncomfortable but that a way to grow and face the fears, masking them wont solve it..anything that makes you fearful or intimitated is a oportunity to grow stronger and relaxed even more ..
Solid advice
I don’t like the power position because my biological mother uses it to bully people literally thinking she’s better than others . So for me it feels like an aggressive stance , and I usually put my hands behind my back to avoid being like her or make others feel the way she made me feel even if it’s probably not the case 😩🤷🏾♀️ kinda sad .
Ur mum thinks she better than others or is that how u interpret it?
Take your power back
You may need to go more neutral until your brain finds confidence (acceptance and comfort in your personal power) more comfortable.
I'm so sorry you were treated that way. You didn't deserve that.
It's respect and space for the other person.
@@MG-fr3tn nah its straight up bullying
I like this ❤️❤️ I’m an English teacher and I really saw a big difference in body language working out in class or at least in real life 🤩
Someone with real self esteem don’t care how they look to people
This is a nice way to show you are different, yet the most important part is to be yourself!
Even though I've always been a psychology student (not a degree or proper education, but just because I'm interested)for so long, for years i could never name my actions and didn't know why i do that, especially self-doubt, bad habits & striking for perfectionism. now i know that it's low self-esteem & i hope i can overcome it :(
I’ve been subconsciously putting my hands on my hips for years!!! I had no idea. Thanks for the tips 💗
Lol you look so cute doing the hands in the back XD
Hahaha thanks ? lol
@@shownemoto fr though you have this aura MA. That you emit confidence no matter where you put your hands.
My convent school insisted we always have hands at the back. No wonder we all grew up with low self esteem
Palm down signifies someone attempting to assert dominance, i dont respect people who shakes this way. I approach neutral, because to me everyone is their own leader first.
Palms up. Welcome let them in with confidence and trust.
@360Tireservice yes it's global welcome 😊
this makes you look insecure, you cant change yourself when people already know you. but also dont try to act too confident and sabotage the people around you. I know a person who acts like this around people, but by himself he talks more softly and almost cowers theirself.
It took away everything from, i wish i had more confident.❤
LOL, stand with your hands on your hips on a building site and watch you get spun around. Some power plays are just powerless pretenders, call them posuers.
The truly humble is in control.
😊
Oh trust me. I already have low esteem.
You can always build it up man :D
First thing become as handsome as he is. After you are able to do that positions won't matter at all. 😂
You are beautiful my guy! 😍
Hands perpendicular to ground,hands down mean jerk power play.
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thanks sensei
Here I though I looked too in control doing hands in pocket and hands on my hip….lol now I’ll keep doing it
I have low self esteem, i disagree on both close arms and puttung ur hands in the pockets because it feels so cringe
WOW you're handsome 😮
Not trying to hit on you just stating facts, you look like a A&F model.
Absolutely do not regret following you. You know I would be interested in a reading list. What would be a good read, you "say based on research" where are you seeing this reasearch?
it helps if you’re attractive also
Bruh I did everything today 💀💀💀
What if you don't have pockets ?
Right?! Women's clothing is known for lack of pockets 😭
Come on you just look cute and hot no matter your hand position- this aint fair 😂
But I do have low self-esteem 🤷🏻♀️ so I can't avoid them
I like number 3 😂
How does badly language make you have a condition literally caused by trauma
Lol 😂😂😂 not looking low self esteem don't necessarily mean you don't have low self esteem. And self esteem basically isn't determined by look. It's comes from the inside.
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What if I don't have pocket for the first pose?
Stop being so darn cute 😊
so if im shanking hands down im forcing someone else to go palm up. im an asshole 😢
bruh I do these but I have low self esteem💀
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Power position doesn't look so powerful 😅
fuck this is to accurate
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Number 2 looks like you're unsure of yourself and trying to convince others that you're cool. It actually looks cocky. Giving your hand that way is impolite, it is pretentious and ridiculous. =D
Lol
False. Your eyes dictate every emotion you choose