How to Decide if Med School is the Right Career For You - Decision Theory

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Komentáře • 219

  • @bellap.4623
    @bellap.4623 Před 3 lety +194

    I love how the book behind him says “Trauma”

  • @zp_suki2836
    @zp_suki2836 Před 2 lety +105

    I’m worried about choosing medical school, regretting my decision, and being miserable for the rest of my life…

    • @icydeath1993
      @icydeath1993 Před rokem +1

      ​@@roshnisingh7517neet?

    • @plutobaby9996
      @plutobaby9996 Před rokem +5

      Shadow as many doctors as you can in different specialties and ask them about their home life.

    • @icydeath1993
      @icydeath1993 Před rokem +4

      @@plutobaby9996 would doctors really let a 18 yr old shadow them?

    • @monke2103
      @monke2103 Před rokem

      @@icydeath1993 Absolutely! My father is a doctor and he loves letting medicine aspirants to shadow him regardless of the age

    • @thatinsaneteen9727
      @thatinsaneteen9727 Před 11 měsíci

      same

  • @J6Miami
    @J6Miami Před 5 lety +298

    I think in the long run, I would regret more not having tried going to med school. Right now I’m honestly scared of trying and if the long difficult process. I also know that in about 10 years, if I choose any other career and I end up not enjoying it, I’ll definitely end up looking back and say damn I should’ve went to med school. Due to this, I’m going to try my best and leave all regrets behind me.

    • @esraamuhammed94
      @esraamuhammed94 Před 4 lety +2

      You can't have it all

    • @aeemili290
      @aeemili290 Před 3 lety +3

      I needed this reminder!!!

    • @Pattyd16
      @Pattyd16 Před 2 lety +14

      I'm 29 and have been a fire fighter by trade for over 2 years as a volunteer and have always regretted (since being 18 and being fresh out of high school) not pursuing my first dream job of being a doctor....I may go back and change everything

    • @abdullahdelab1075
      @abdullahdelab1075 Před 2 lety +12

      Honestly, mate, it's never to late to change to medicine. There are 40 year old I know who have just started medical school recently, so all is not lost.

    • @autumn2603
      @autumn2603 Před 2 lety +6

      Same! I would rather fail after giving it my all than always wonder "what could have been"

  • @smnzzzzg
    @smnzzzzg Před 6 lety +351

    Great video! I would add, don't let your age discourage you from chasing your dreams. A psychiatrist I worked with, did not start medical school until he was 45 years old. He practiced for 18 years and just recently retired without any regret.

    • @drbuckparker
      @drbuckparker  Před 6 lety +52

      i LOVE this story! thank you!

    • @mathewdaly8515
      @mathewdaly8515 Před 6 lety +9

      smnzzzzg I thought it took 18 years to pay back off your student loans.. ahaha

    • @cmhardin37
      @cmhardin37 Před 4 lety +1

      @@drbuckparker Is it possible to become a doctor with two DUIs from 10 years ago?

    • @maroonhorizon1693
      @maroonhorizon1693 Před 4 lety +2

      Chris Hardin as long as you don’t have a felony you’re good

    • @jamielannister3627
      @jamielannister3627 Před 3 lety +3

      @@mathewdaly8515 let's say you have 300k in student loans after finishing residency. If you make 250k per year as an attending after taxes (not too unreasonable) and pay off 30k per year, you will be debt free in a decade. Although that may seem like a lot of money initially, think about it this way: you are only subtracting 30k from your total income, which means that you will still be making 220k per year instead of 250k per year. That's still far more than most other people earn and is more than enough money to live comfortably. You could even choose to pay twice as much per year and pay off your loans in half the time.

  • @ericdouglas3039
    @ericdouglas3039 Před 6 lety +199

    Anyone that goes to med school and doesn't match residency is going to have a regret of a 10.

    • @toxicity148
      @toxicity148 Před 3 lety

      why??

    • @user-dq4iq3vd2l
      @user-dq4iq3vd2l Před 3 lety +1

      Anup
      What do you mean by that?
      If I live in my parents house and I have to go to university, why and how is it money wasted, friends ahead of you?

    • @thresher_9324
      @thresher_9324 Před 3 lety +9

      N A W A F , not matching for residency means not being able to do the minimum 3 year requirement of service in a clinic/hospital after med school, these three years are required after med school and allow you to practice as a doctor, the years after med school are referred to as residency

    • @al3220
      @al3220 Před 3 lety +8

      @@user-dq4iq3vd2l Residency in medicine does not refer to getting on-campus/off-campus housing, but rather that the mandatory 3-5 year training that is follows the 4-year degree in order to become licensed to practice medicine. Not matching to residency means you have a medical degree without the ability to practice or call yourself a doctor.

    • @kellythrash932
      @kellythrash932 Před 3 lety

      @@al3220 do you get paid during residency?

  • @angesamira2902
    @angesamira2902 Před 4 lety +56

    Him: *What inspired you? It can be a mentor or a surgeon you really respect.*
    Me: *Grey's Anatomy*

  • @carolheaton1584
    @carolheaton1584 Před 6 lety +56

    At 60 years old, I'm not considering med school, but I'm considering lots of options for what I can do with the rest of my life, so I'm glad I stumbled across this. I've watched some of your other posts. I'm very impressed. I appreciate your candor, sense of humor, the breadth of topics you address, and even your f-bombs. I love the opportunity to hear someone else's story, and you tell yours in a very engaging manner. Keep up the good work.

  • @johnenright95
    @johnenright95 Před 3 lety +47

    2 years ago I was debating whether or not to apply to med school. I had paralysis by analysis weighing up the pros and cons, but deep deep down I always knew it was what I wanted to do. I came across this video and it was the impetus for starting the application. Looking at it from the perspective in the video, I realised the regret I would have from never pursuing a medical career would far outweigh any regrets from actually pursuing it. Nearly finished my first year of med school and haven't looked back, not a single regret.

    • @javeriashaikh2181
      @javeriashaikh2181 Před 2 lety +1

      Same here i am a medical aspirant from Pakistan gonna give my MCAT in September.... deep down i know i WANT to do it and be a doctor but i find it soooooo difficuly to study like i have to constantly motivate myself and am kind of lazy even for the things which i like.... and constantly i have been low from the past month kind of overwhelmed from the burden of study even though i do not study much which is making me question if i will be able to pass MCAT and IF i get admission will i be able to continue MBBS?
      Need some Serious advice...

    • @BigTroubleD
      @BigTroubleD Před rokem +1

      How are you paying for school and life? I’m very very scared of the debt

    • @ayeshamoeen6432
      @ayeshamoeen6432 Před rokem +1

      @@javeriashaikh2181 Hey I'm from Pakistan too. Hope everything's going good for you. I was in the same boat as you last year. Very unsure about it all but thank god I carried on and got in JSMU. I've completed my first year recently. It's been a crazy ride, very overwhelming indeed. I remember crying at nights before MCAT due to stress. I just wanna tell you that give it your best and pray to Allah. If this field is in your best interest, the whole process will become smooth and easy for you. Don't ever doubt your capabilities without testing them first. Good luck on your future endeavors!

    • @javeriashaikh2181
      @javeriashaikh2181 Před rokem

      @@ayeshamoeen6432Oh Ma sha Allah..... i recently gave my MCAT and my aggregate is 79.4% (dont know what to do if not MBBS , but hoping to get admission in self finance is karachi).... what do your think will i get admission and also what should be my alternate option? I M SOOO CONFUSED like completely blind and cant figure out my next step😞

  • @Jason-oq8by
    @Jason-oq8by Před 6 lety +96

    Hi! Just wanted to let you know that you are my inspiration knowing that you didn't have the golden straightforward path to becoming a doctor. I'm a second year sophomore in college and knowing that it is still possible regardless of what bad things happen keeps me motivated to keep working toward my dream!! Thank you and have a great day!!!

  • @shivanishastri4285
    @shivanishastri4285 Před 6 lety +132

    Thanks Dr. Parker, I needed this. By the way, I could not believe you are 43, you look like you would still be in your residency.

  • @MissaLifeStyle
    @MissaLifeStyle Před 6 lety +138

    I don't think enough students job shadow. 90% of the prenursing and premed students I know haven't even stepped foot in a hospital or clinic. Spending time in the role is critical. Also, spending time with various ppl in that role is important because one person can be amazing and another a douche which has an impact on your experience. One hospital's ED can be poorly ran while another is excellent.

    • @Kymv8382
      @Kymv8382 Před 6 lety +8

      I wish medical schools would put more emphasis on that.

    • @iwatchkittenvids45
      @iwatchkittenvids45 Před 6 lety +3

      I second that with nursing. Def should've shadowed

    • @MissaLifeStyle
      @MissaLifeStyle Před 6 lety +2

      iwatchkittenvids45 What I am seeing is a huge competition with classmates to get in then they don't realize what they are getting into. I will say as a nurse you have alot of opportunities that otherwise wouldn't be open. Like participating in research or being a nurse educator.

    • @manarhany8715
      @manarhany8715 Před 5 lety +4

      Sadly the country I lived in and the school I was in didn't provide any kind of shadowing I tried but didn't find any places that allow that... It's pretty shitty
      Anyway I got accepted into med school still didn't start but I'm having doubts now... I'm just really worried that I chose the wrong career (my other option was psychology)

  • @JC-je3jc
    @JC-je3jc Před 6 lety +5

    Can't thank you enough for this thought process. Right on man.

  • @anthonypayne4685
    @anthonypayne4685 Před 6 lety +11

    Great video, I find myself pondering medical school all the time. This definitely provided some perspective

  • @MrJordan3980
    @MrJordan3980 Před 6 lety +3

    Hey Dr. Buck, great video, I'm in the exact same position you were in (when you were in university), and have had doubts about pursuing medicine because of those first and second year grades, but this really helped me decide to go for it, thank you.

  • @jonathandelosreyes2882
    @jonathandelosreyes2882 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks for this! I tried it on paper and wrote everything. I got a firmer resolution to go to med school and become a doctor no matter what it takes ;)

  • @notsadalesnra
    @notsadalesnra Před 8 měsíci

    This is such an interesting take! Thank you!

  • @mushfiqursiddique8231
    @mushfiqursiddique8231 Před 6 lety +3

    Hey Dr. Parker,
    Great video! I was wondering if you could do a video explaining the similarities and differences between IM and surgery residencies? And which one do you think is worth the time and grind? Love your channel and thanks for the great videos!

  • @medaviate
    @medaviate Před rokem

    Love the theory. Thank you ✌️

  • @lebanesegamer3873
    @lebanesegamer3873 Před 6 lety +37

    Your videos are the jelly to my belly

  • @juliamihajlovich
    @juliamihajlovich Před 6 lety +53

    This was super encouraging. I’ve always dreamed of being a surgeon, but didn’t do well in high school so I just kinda let the idea of college die and pursued other giftings (music.) But my medical dream pretty much comes back everyday to haunt me lol. I just never want to look back on my life and think “dang! You should have done it!”

    • @drbuckparker
      @drbuckparker  Před 6 lety +12

      Thats right!! glad you like the video!!!

    • @amnamir6676
      @amnamir6676 Před 6 lety +8

      Give it a shot if it crosses your mind every day.

    • @TeaBagOfChaos
      @TeaBagOfChaos Před 5 lety +10

      I relate. I didn't do well in school, but mostly because my teachers couldn't care less so it made me not study at all for tests.... They made me feel stupid.
      I'm a very musical person, and very theatrical in personality, but I don't want a job that has anything to do with that.
      Ever since I was a kid I was passionate with anything medical.
      I'm 20 now. I know I'm not stupid, I just need to learn how to study. And I WILL go to med school!
      You can do it!

    • @playdate8827
      @playdate8827 Před 2 lety +3

      @@TeaBagOfChaos did you go?

  • @dani_benjumea
    @dani_benjumea Před 4 lety

    Great vid 👍 super helpful

  • @imanalhashimi9890
    @imanalhashimi9890 Před 6 lety

    very good way of thinking really amazing . thanks

  • @jessykaros
    @jessykaros Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for this information. I realized that if I don't go to med school I would regret it more than I would regret go into med school and it doesn't work out.

  • @GarryBurgess
    @GarryBurgess Před 6 lety +87

    You've discovered that you're 18 years old and don't know anything about playing the piano, so being a concert pianist is out. Then you notice that your vision is not 20/20 so being a fighter jet pilot and ultimately an airline pilot is snuffed. You're good at mathematics, but not brilliant, so physicist is out. You're left with medicine. (and the pay is better than working as a speed bump at McDonald's.)

    • @predraggrujic2239
      @predraggrujic2239 Před 5 lety +10

      Are you a sagittarius?

    • @johannkrexellegailferrer9476
      @johannkrexellegailferrer9476 Před 4 lety +3

      Hey, you can still become an airline pilot even if you don't have 20/20 vision. Pilots can wear glasses, you just have to meet their certain standard of vision.

    • @an5683
      @an5683 Před 3 lety +3

      Are you ok? Do you need help? You sound depressing....

  • @dianam3613
    @dianam3613 Před 5 lety +61

    What if I regret both equally hahaha

  • @jessewest3523
    @jessewest3523 Před 4 lety +28

    Is he an uncommonly hot 43 year old, or am I just getting old?

  • @liddobear1125
    @liddobear1125 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this video. I've never had a doubt in my mind that I wanted to be a doctor until now. My biggest regret of pursuing this career would be not enjoying time with my mom and dad and being able to start a family. Also not having financial independence for the next 7 years scares me. I will do this chart when I get home lol

  • @timothybucky7170
    @timothybucky7170 Před 6 lety +25

    the rate for burnout decides who regrets. general surgery does well. check out how many people hate their job as an engineer. still so many doctors want to stop clinical work so early. so many people regret not going to med school. we have people who are not happy with their working lives. do something about this, help us. we want a four day work week.

    • @llsss777
      @llsss777 Před 3 lety +1

      Dude this is medicine 😀 it's totally different 😀😀

    • @BigTroubleD
      @BigTroubleD Před rokem

      4 day work week? You can go be a nurse and get 3.

  • @miaphillips546
    @miaphillips546 Před 6 lety +4

    Hey, love your videos! Could you talk about what I should be doing early on like now in high school to be prepared and look good for med school later?

    • @drbuckparker
      @drbuckparker  Před 6 lety

      get the best grades you can and then get into a prestigious college. that will help a lot

    • @westonman211
      @westonman211 Před 6 lety

      Get good grades and don’t have debt...

  • @chem22691
    @chem22691 Před 4 lety

    You look good on this angle, Dr. Buck. LOLs

  • @johnyy_7579
    @johnyy_7579 Před 3 lety +20

    I am in med school and i really like medicine, getting through med school doesnt bother me at all. What does bother me is the quality of my life after i graduate, because essentially my whole life will be work and im not sure i am willing to give up my life for work 😕

    • @harkaranshergill7980
      @harkaranshergill7980 Před 3 lety +2

      That is why i quit after med school graduation

    • @johnyy_7579
      @johnyy_7579 Před 3 lety +4

      @@harkaranshergill7980 wait so you graduated med school and never worked as a doctor ?

    • @mehdin7520
      @mehdin7520 Před 3 lety +4

      @@johnyy_7579 Yeah I have the same fears. Like I don't want a life constantly revolving around my job.

    • @adaezenjoku7527
      @adaezenjoku7527 Před 3 lety +1

      There are specialties that allow for good balance though right? You could even work part time in some cases

    • @mansitelkaur6064
      @mansitelkaur6064 Před 3 lety +3

      That is exactly what I am worried about, currently contemplating if I should go on w med school or settle for other courses which I dnt particularly have an interest in..

  • @comfortcooking1254
    @comfortcooking1254 Před 2 lety +3

    I needed this tonight. I've been stuck in not knowing if medicine is truly for me or not. I think I am just more thinking about how long it's taking me to get an undergraduate degree, wanting to pursue medicine but not making the grades. where do you recommend getting a mentor and how did you get back on the right track with your grades and such?

  • @matthewmielke7161
    @matthewmielke7161 Před 3 lety +8

    My thing is (as a junior in high school) is i think I would really enjoy Med School, but I dont know if I would enjoy being a doctor. I will see how my life turns out. I just fear that I will go too deep into the medical journey just to find out that it isnt for me. But I also can't think of anything that I would want to be more than a doctor. We will see where life takes me. I change my mind on careers a lot so we'll see what I end up with in the future.

  • @hanenelias3096
    @hanenelias3096 Před 3 lety +4

    I'm almost done with my BA in English literature, and I'm 22. I always go back and think about Medicine, but I'm afraid of the road and if it suits me.

  • @VeritasEtAequitas
    @VeritasEtAequitas Před 4 lety +3

    "Regret minimization... hope I spelled that right"... Caribbean med school. x'D

  • @AnotherBadyoga
    @AnotherBadyoga Před 6 lety +2

    My ex, after getting his PhD in Analytical Chem and working said he wished he’d went into business. it was his life style he didn’t like. He envisioned having a family business if he had a degree in business.

  • @gx1773
    @gx1773 Před 3 lety +2

    It is much better to go to medicine, study and then realize that, this is not the field for you and stop! Rather than spend your whole life thinking that if you went there you would be better.

  • @BruhGuyy
    @BruhGuyy Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you mr.parker.
    I am from india and i was really puzzled about whether to take up medicines or not, but the decision theory worked pretty well for me. I will pursue doctorate after my 12th and will prepare for the entrance exam from 11th, and i will still be growing at my skill so even if i decide to leave medicines later i will have something to move on with:)

    • @user-ji1wr1fq4r
      @user-ji1wr1fq4r Před 4 měsíci

      Hey, was it worth it?…taking medicine as a career?…I’m going to 11th now n I’m so indecisive

  • @simij7350
    @simij7350 Před 6 lety +14

    You look far from 43. Great advice!

  • @ChristianBCoon
    @ChristianBCoon Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you buck. I needed this. Kinda took away my fear of chasing the dream. And God damn, didn't realize you are 43 years old lol

  • @StephenAlexanderVideos
    @StephenAlexanderVideos Před 6 lety +18

    HAHAHAHAHAH "GOD DAMN I SHOULDA DONE X" oh my god

  • @yilmaz.design
    @yilmaz.design Před 6 lety +6

    Im not very good at maths (I can be better but I know my limits-bad-), not very good at musics, letter, laws..All I have is meds school

  • @brittanyreece3845
    @brittanyreece3845 Před 6 lety +32

    This is encouraging to hear. I am 28 and am a returning student on the career path of nursing (BSN) but I have always felt internally drawn to being a doctor. This is a career choice I know I would love and would be great at if I can better manage my time. My only hesitation with pursuing medical school is that I have two young and active boys, one is 8 yrs. old and the other is almost 2 yrs. old. I am afraid of missing out on watching & being apart of my children grow up if I am in medical school, however, I also don't want to waste anymore time not pursing my dream career.
    Do you have any recommendations on how I can manage both pursing medical school and being an involved mother? Also, do you have any recommendations on the best direction (school/class wise) I should take if I decide to pursue medical school instead of nursing? Thanks!

    • @anthonypayne4685
      @anthonypayne4685 Před 6 lety +10

      Brittany Reece I totally get your predicament. I have a 3 year old and my father went to dental school when I was young. We hardly spent any time together until he was established when I was nearly an adult. I don’t want to do the same to my son but I also don’t want to settle for a career that I’m not fully engaged in. Great question!

    • @Shri100percent
      @Shri100percent Před 5 lety +5

      Maybe take longer to do the courses?

    • @natej0556
      @natej0556 Před 5 lety +6

      I have a friend who is in her early 30s and has two teenagers (I think, they might be younger). She was a science teacher for about 10 years and she just got accepted and is now in her first year of a good MD school. She studied for the MCAT after work for a few months and didn’t do very well. So she gave it another try after taking some dedicated time and killed it. Of course she did plenty of other research on how to get in but all that to say, it’s definitely doable.

    • @iC6G
      @iC6G Před 2 lety

      Hey! What did you decide on doing? Hope all is well

  • @blaby4ever
    @blaby4ever Před 2 lety +2

    So in short: Is it better to try it out or spend the rest of your life wondering, what if?

  • @karnikar.k4969
    @karnikar.k4969 Před 5 lety +29

    You look like JAMIE LANNISTER.

  • @kwesifields
    @kwesifields Před 3 lety +9

    Loved this video. I often struggle with having to "split" myself between 2 totally different career paths. You brought up the interesting point that many older people have the regret of not going after something while they were younger which leads me to question, should I decide to go full forward into medicine while I'm still also going after something else in the meantime? Study time is very demanding and requires a huge amount of sacrifice and time away from doing things that I'd much rather do not just for fun but also for personal growth. The decision still remains for me. I hope that it doesn't take me too long because time waits for no one. lol

    • @mansitelkaur6064
      @mansitelkaur6064 Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly! I hve yet to decide too :(

    • @kwesifields
      @kwesifields Před 3 lety +2

      @@mansitelkaur6064 it’s perfectly normal to feel that way. It just means that you’re trying to be honest with yourself.(: try outweighing the needs and wants for yourself out of a career that you expect and compare them to that of a physician.

    • @mansitelkaur6064
      @mansitelkaur6064 Před 3 lety +1

      @@kwesifields thank you sm! I needed this, feels good knowing im nt alone 🥺 and yes, I will! Thanks again and I hope only the best for you in your future 💫 We've got this 💪

    • @kwesifields
      @kwesifields Před 3 lety +2

      @@mansitelkaur6064 trust me, you are DEFINTELY not alone. I think some hide their feelings on the topic. It's not a bad thing that you feel the way that you do but see it as a strength or a push! If you want to converse or just have any questions feel free to reach out to me! I also try to talk about my journey on my youtube channel through my vlogs but you're also more than welcome to reach out to me via social media. Also, whatever path you decide to follow don't forget to enjoy your life. (:

    • @mansitelkaur6064
      @mansitelkaur6064 Před 3 lety +1

      @@kwesifields exactly! Most ppl see it as a sign of weakness and "expects" us to knw exactly wht we wanna do by "this age etc". Also, yes I would love to! Just added you on instagram, we can hve a chat there !😇

  • @AZ-wg3eg
    @AZ-wg3eg Před 6 lety +2

    Dude I wish you were in Florida still, I could use a mentor.

    • @Dempseymauler777
      @Dempseymauler777 Před 6 lety

      I keep seeing you in every video I go to lol I'm guessing you're a nursing student who also wishes to be a doctor?

  • @_Tyler_7
    @_Tyler_7 Před 6 lety

    What if something that we might have an advantage with is a career we don’t want to do?

  • @proofy8375
    @proofy8375 Před 5 lety +4

    Ive wanted to become a U.S Navy SEAL in high school and I'm currently in my first semester of community college majoring in criminal justice, now I'm considering in doing premed(continuing my bachelors in CJ) and becoming a pediatrician. I know I want to do something in this world to help people and I think that's what drives me to try and become special operations or FBI agent. I think I would definetly regret to have not at least attempt to go to med school and really try and put my all into it and pursue something that interests me. thanks for helping me decide if I should even attempt to go through with this.

  • @goldenxmsp8991
    @goldenxmsp8991 Před 6 lety

    Talking of advantage, I don't really know what mine is.. But I really wanna do this. (General surgeon) I'm still In highschool but I want to do this.

  • @matinr3528
    @matinr3528 Před 6 lety +23

    I'm an engineer and pretty happy with that I always hated blood and those stuff lol but many of my friends who are also engineers really regretted that they didn't go to med school and I know 2 of them in their early 30s just started to try if they can get into med school

    • @Ghanabless
      @Ghanabless Před 6 lety +10

      Matin R I hear what you’re saying but medicine isn’t all about blood and gore lol

    • @shivanishastri4285
      @shivanishastri4285 Před 6 lety +3

      Yes, exactly what blessing said. You can work in the lab or be a psychologist.

    • @Ghanabless
      @Ghanabless Před 6 lety

      Shivani Shastri exactly and there’s even more options than these two

    • @shivanishastri4285
      @shivanishastri4285 Před 6 lety

      Like what?

    • @amnamir6676
      @amnamir6676 Před 6 lety +8

      radiologists, physiotherapist, pharmacists, researchers and the list goes on dear. Medicine is a vast field .

  • @DG-cl3gs
    @DG-cl3gs Před 2 měsíci

    Buck how would we apply this regret theory to PA and other health specialties?

  • @jjwaters4037
    @jjwaters4037 Před 4 lety +1

    I hope to be a Doctor someday💛❤️💛❤️

  • @irvinn3
    @irvinn3 Před 6 lety +1

    What’s your relationship to tai Lopez , you mention him in a couple videos and I’m interested in how he has influenced you

  • @user-uf9lg3ue7y
    @user-uf9lg3ue7y Před 6 lety

    You are me mentor sir. When I’m gonna grow up I want to be just like you

  • @joshuadandrea8154
    @joshuadandrea8154 Před 5 lety

    Caribbean med school is cheaper than the us right? Is that still a good option?

  • @kyle2290
    @kyle2290 Před 4 lety +2

    Currently interviewing at a few medical schools. Interviewed at a DO school. I think Dr. Parker's opinion is that caribbean MD programs are better than US DO programs but I really disagree. I guess unless you really think you can play the odds and really want to go into surgery or derm or plastics, which I have very little interest in personally (more interested in primary care because I think that's what is currently needed most in healthcare) I still think a US DO school, while maybe not quite as good as US MD, is still a great option. Thoughts?

  • @hibaimene9684
    @hibaimene9684 Před 6 lety +4

    well well, the regret IS eating me alive : guess 11 out of ten :(

  • @paulinaaravena8295
    @paulinaaravena8295 Před 5 lety +5

    MED SCHOOL, HERE I COME, WAIT FOR ME!!!!!!!!!

  • @XoxoAnnieMarie
    @XoxoAnnieMarie Před 3 lety +3

    I would regret failing out of medical school / not getting a residency because then my family would see me as a failure... but if I didn’t enjoy practicing medicine and used my medical degree in another capacity, I would have 0 regret. help lol

    • @adaezenjoku7527
      @adaezenjoku7527 Před 3 lety +1

      How are your grades? Do you genuinely think you’ll fail out of school?

  • @abilenejacobo6422
    @abilenejacobo6422 Před 5 lety

    Dr. Buck Parker, what did you get on your ACT? I am discouraged to go to Med School because I did very bad on my ACT test, so I have no hope in doing good on the MCAT.

    • @ZBooneBeats
      @ZBooneBeats Před 4 lety

      It's ok, seek help from a tutor and refine your study strategies. Ask yourself if it is really what you want to do.

  • @mariarak8328
    @mariarak8328 Před 6 lety +5

    Great idea however medicine works very differently in the UK so still nowehre closer to be 100% sure whether medicine is for me.

    • @Jss098
      @Jss098 Před 6 lety +3

      Hi Maria. I'm a UK doctor and I would strongly recommend doing work experience at hospitals/GP surgeries. If your school has links/contacts use that otherwise pick a department you would like to do experience in e.g Paeds, then physically go to the nearest paeds ward and explain who you are then nicely ask if you can get the email of the head of department or another consultant. Write them a nice email asking to do exp on the ward. Most will be very welcoming. Hope it helps

    • @LewisLivingLife
      @LewisLivingLife Před 6 měsíci

      @@Jss098Hi there, I’m a 20 year old high school dropout and I just want to say that I am going to start my path towards becoming a medical doctor. I’m from the uk like you and the other person so I have to do GCSEs and a levels then either the ukcat or bmat and get good grades consistently throughout. I’d say I’m average intelligence but that won’t stop me . Hopefully in 10 years time I can say I made it and I made a massive impact on peoples live’s.

  • @MuzammilAhmad90
    @MuzammilAhmad90 Před 6 lety +2

    If someone is trying to decide between going into EM or doing general surgery to get into trauma surgery, do you have any advice for them? It's quite difficult to make this decision.

  • @capgains
    @capgains Před 5 lety +1

    Are there options for people with learning disabilities to pursue md?

  • @kimjeonteakook1430
    @kimjeonteakook1430 Před 7 měsíci

    Thats the thing. There are other things that inspire me. But at the end of the day I wanna choose this path bcs of the love that i have for these biology subjects and also i want to make my dad happy who's also a doctor(cuz i feel like this is the best i can do for him in this life).
    But still I'm scared if i will regret this in the future. But i myself know if I didn't succeed in those other passions i have, I would instantly regret about not continuing in medicine. Am I spouting nonsense? I feel like i am at this point.
    If anyone sees my comment. Please give me an advice. I really appreciate it.

  • @____________________7356

    Hi im in kurdistan and ihave a questions for you umm can i go to the med school in 10 years of scholl it means like can i choose in 10 year ? and also can i go to the med school if i have a each point ? please replly because i want to flying to uk for study

  • @randallmcgrath9345
    @randallmcgrath9345 Před 3 lety

    So probably you can do engineering premed. Now of course, thats easier to do with chemical eng, since that automatically includes most premed prereqs(but still missing 2 or 3 in most cases) while mechanical or electrical engineering miss more. But still even these at least handle the math and physics prereqs, and mecheng usually has g chem 1 of not g chem 1 and 2, so the chem prereqs are partially handled automatically. Theres a lot of majors that are doable with premed track that many dont consider, oftenn assuming(incorrectly) that a bio or chem MAJOR is neccessary when they arent, per se. But nonetheless we can recall that med schools use a wholistic approach to admissions(thank god) and looks at multiple factors. Deciding between engineering and med has been hard for me, but this vid makes it easier.

  • @John-iw1nn
    @John-iw1nn Před 6 lety +5

    Seems like you yourself didn’t go with the ‘follow your advantage’ advice if you didn’t do very well in college. In spite of that you seem to have turned out fine in the medical world.

    • @drbuckparker
      @drbuckparker  Před 6 lety +1

      I did not do that when i was younger thats for sure!

  • @vanityyyyy
    @vanityyyyy Před 2 lety

    I've been going through something and I kind of refrain from bringing it up because people can be mean. I am on the premed track but I don't know if that's what I want to do. I know I'd be a good psychiatrist, and I love that subject matter, but I really don't care about physics, calc or chemistry and they ruin my mental health to the point where I think about throwing it all away. I have no interest in math based science, so I hate that I have to do so much of it to even get a chance to apply to med school.
    Whenever I visualize my future, I don't even see myself as a doctor. I see myself as a business owner and designer but I know that those are such risky paths and I don't want to fail. I'm not sure if I genuinely want to be a doctor or if it's just a substitute for what I'm missing in my life.

  • @brenddaa
    @brenddaa Před 6 lety +8

    So my dilemma is that I know I want to be a doctor/ be in the medical field but I don’t know if I should go to med school or vet school. Should I work with animals or people, this helped but like I’m also so torn

    • @yilmaz.design
      @yilmaz.design Před 6 lety

      Brenda Donjuan Remember that you can interact: emotionally, intelligently and also talking seriously with people and not animals. I prefer to have someone in front of me because it's more important and a very stimulation than a dog who doesn't even know what you are doing to him

    • @westonman211
      @westonman211 Před 6 lety +2

      I thought I wanted to be a veterinarian because I could enter the workforce right after vet school... then I realized I’m basically just making the same as I would in a MD residency for the a longer time.... so now I’m conflicted like you!!! 😂 I’m kind of leaning towards med school again...

  • @324shine
    @324shine Před 6 lety +3

    By advantage does he mean what we work best in? and how can you find your advantage

    • @drbuckparker
      @drbuckparker  Před 6 lety +9

      what is easy for you? what can you do for 8hrs straight and not even realize the time has passed?

    • @324shine
      @324shine Před 6 lety

      right. thank you!

  • @lilykenley9104
    @lilykenley9104 Před 10 měsíci

    I really like biology but i don't wanna work really hard

  • @ambertomes2230
    @ambertomes2230 Před 5 lety +10

    I just turned 31...is it too late for me to try for Med school? I really want to become an Medical examiner (forensic pathologist)...

    • @amandal.1422
      @amandal.1422 Před 5 lety +8

      Never too late i saw a video on her where Dr. Mike had an interview with another doctor who started med school at 35 or 37 i believe. He was older than u

    • @josephliu603
      @josephliu603 Před 5 lety

      I’m 25, no college degree,is it too late for med school?

    • @Darklovesto
      @Darklovesto Před 4 lety +1

      @@josephliu603 realistically you could finish residency by 38-40 so i think you could do it!

  • @daniellaflowers9290
    @daniellaflowers9290 Před 5 měsíci

    If you currently don’t have a life or know you won’t have a life in the future, go to med school.

  • @AMomWithRocksAndBooks
    @AMomWithRocksAndBooks Před 6 lety +1

    I'm a paramedic and want to go back to school part time for my bachelor's. Either do med or PA school from there (of course full time) but I have been told that going part time for the undergrad portion might not look good to medical and PA schools. I wanted your opinion because you took a non-traditional route.

  • @parker5323
    @parker5323 Před 3 lety +2

    Can someone help me? I’ve had 2 spine surgeries and one brain surgery. I would go into medicine in a heartbeat if it didn’t take so long and cost so much. I don’t know if I should choose med school or become a software engineer. I’m just scared that I won’t be able to make it. Should I go into computer science then if I get good grades the first year then I should try to get into med school?

    • @geraldleyson1722
      @geraldleyson1722 Před 3 lety +1

      Oh hey for me I’m going through the same thing with teaching or med school, but I got to field observe in teaching and like it a lot, but I’m not sure if I can shadow medicine I’m looking for an opportunity to. I suggest you look for shadow opportunities to shadow medicine and also shadow a software engineer and see which one you will enjoy. Hope this helps.

    • @parker5323
      @parker5323 Před 3 lety +1

      @@geraldleyson1722 I’ve got many doctors that I could ask to shadow so I might do that. I doubt any of my surgeons would but maybe my neurologist could. I hope you find the right decision for yourself. My thing is I love snowboarding, nature, and swimming and I also like business and the the aspect of investing. It’s a really hard choice.

  • @chocolateviolin2326
    @chocolateviolin2326 Před 5 lety +1

    First doctor with readable handwriting :D

  • @danamay1718
    @danamay1718 Před 5 lety

    No med school now.

  • @luzmartinez8264
    @luzmartinez8264 Před 6 lety

    I’m in high school

  • @ericfernandez6706
    @ericfernandez6706 Před 6 lety +5

    lol this guy listens to tai lopez

  • @ryancadogan4504
    @ryancadogan4504 Před 6 lety +1

    Which Carribean medical school did you go to?

  • @Abattoir3ach
    @Abattoir3ach Před rokem +1

    Lol oh man take a job that requires you to take on and physically handle in most cases other people’s problems or sit in a chair and hm ha about ways to make the next car 10% more efficient. Way to advocate! Not only that, there are tons of people out there who might not feel confident in their math or their mcat scores. Talk to them, not the populace. These are the people watching your vids. Help them.

  • @progamming242
    @progamming242 Před 4 lety +2

    I feel like this is a terrible decision making process to be completely honest. If you use this logic you will live a cowardice and sad life. You can’t just factor in probably of feeling regret: you have to factor in the likelihood of outcomes and positive feelings as well. You chose the path that has the highest weighted average.

  • @nelsheed
    @nelsheed Před 6 lety

    Geezus.

  • @yaredc5222
    @yaredc5222 Před 3 lety

    If you like maths more than Biology or Chemistry don't go. If you like history than Biology or Chemistry don't go

  • @drummerboynz
    @drummerboynz Před 3 lety

    God damn how do I look like you at 43

  • @svasianfilipiname6603
    @svasianfilipiname6603 Před 4 lety +2

    Are you related to George Clooney in some way??! Geez, you look like father and son!

  • @fadisiyam4837
    @fadisiyam4837 Před 5 lety

    🤯

  • @autumncadenbach1485
    @autumncadenbach1485 Před 4 lety

    Did you meet your wife in med school?

  • @josephmueller3752
    @josephmueller3752 Před 5 lety

    do you do cocaine occasionally? I have this theory that the professionals who stay young and stress free even at ancient ages like 40y.o. have some alternative coping mechanisms, like drugs and casual sex with hot strangers, while the stupid people who try to "do it right" according to traditional religious values end up stressed and looking like shit, and even performing poorly vs their low-stress, high-fun in life counterparts

  • @RedactedEarth
    @RedactedEarth Před 5 lety +1

    lost me cuz of t. lopez

  • @joslynmarqs2651
    @joslynmarqs2651 Před 5 lety

    Erm.... EXCUSE ME. YOUU ARE NOT 40?!? sheesh wht do u doctors take?

  • @karsudhar2479
    @karsudhar2479 Před 4 lety +1

    Ur 43?/no way more like 27

  • @Ayubinho
    @Ayubinho Před 5 lety +1

    You look so young thought u was 30

  • @Gerhard2770
    @Gerhard2770 Před 6 lety

    This guy wanted to be an Orthopaedic surgeon, but his biceps were too small :-)

  • @bomcstoots1
    @bomcstoots1 Před rokem

    Go or no go. Some one was a soldier. I'm 27. You were the same when starting yeah? Average intelligence? Learns from experience. I'm Thinking about being a dentist and also getting a physician license. Surgeon would be my specialty should I pursue that more. Being a prior army artillery scout and working security in New Orleans east I've ALOT of trauma. Most doctors down here aren't worth a spit. When did doctors sell out to big corporations and stop caring. Pisses me off.