DATING STORYTIME | MY BOYFRIEND WAS A COMPULSIVE / PATHOLOGICAL LIAR
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- My online dating storytime sharing my experience being in a relationship with a compulsive or pathological liar. Follow me on Instagram for daily posts: bit.ly/lilylikecom
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Hi loves. This was a very difficult story for me to share. Even though this happened 4 years ago, talking about my ex-boyfriend brought up quite a few memories and emotions surrounding our toxic relationship. I hope this storytime was interesting or helpful in any way and if you would like me to do a part 2, let me know in the comments down below & thumbs up this vid!
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- Where are you from? I was born in the Netherlands, but my family is from Russia. I moved to the US a 2,5 years ago, first to Washington DC and now to LA. Dutch is my first language, but I also speak Russian - Привет, мои Русский подписчики! Посмотрите мое русское видео здесь: bit.ly/2B5lh3R - and I’ve learned English in high school.
- What did you study? I finished my LL.B. in Dutch Law at the University in Groningen (RUG), the Netherlands. After graduating, I did one year of the Research Master in Law (LL.M.), as well as one year of the B.A. in Philosophy of a Specific Scientific Field at the University of Groningen (RUG). After that, I did the General LL.M. at the George Washington University Law School (GW). I finished my General LL.M. at GW with the focus on Philosophy of Law, First Amendment/Constitutional Law & International Human Rights for Women in 2018.
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Thank you so much for watching this very personal video. I can confidently say that this has been the most difficult story for me to share. Even though this happened in 2016, talking about my ex-boyfriend brought up quite a few of memories and emotions of our toxic relationship for me. I hope this story time was interesting or helpful in any way for anyone going through a similar situation, and if you would like me to do a part 2, let me know in the comments down below & thumbs up this vid!
I respect the fact that you shared your story. Ive been in that position before myself . We live and learn and you are such a better person in life "Jay" played himself. I definitely got some crazy stories too. Your not alone. I glad you got this off your chest. Long time subscriber here. I definitely want to know how you found everything out about this dude.
Thanks you for sharing hard life experience with us..You’re stronger woman and beautiful soul now..Try listen Yiruma song is good calm soul here 😇
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I think we would love a pt 2 but dont want to force you to remember thus difficult time, so whenever you feel okay to share part 2💕 sending positivity and love
Having a similar relationship experience in past, made me just relate to a another extend, till day I feel like why he did this to me, he can simply break it up if he's not into it. But bad people are bad you know
I was dating a guy for 5 months, talked about moving in together, planning out our whole year..only to find out he’s been married with 2 kids. He told me he was traveling for his business .. But in reality he was going back home to his family. I searched his phone number, found his wife and sent him her picture asking who she was..Found out he lied about his name, age, and marital status. Even his kids ages. 🤦🏻♀️ Men ain’t shit. Ladies, Do those comprehensive background checks early in the relationship!
Absolutely!
@Mina Ali exactly
I went through the same thing except it took two years before I found out he was married with not two kids but four. and living in a completely different state! I knew about his three kids but one of them he hid from me because she basically wasn't even born yet when we met. So he tried to pretend as if he wasn't with his kids mother anymore because she cheated on him and got pregnant by someone else. trust me I was an idiot for believing this this was a whole year before I found out that he was actually married to her and she wasn't just the mother of his kids. That's what makes it hard because of course I know she exists and I know he has kids with someone else but I never thought they had gotten married. he never even mentioned that. Eventually I got suspicious and me and my friends found her on Facebook I messaged her and come to find out he was living in an entirely different state and the reason I got suspicious is because he was starting to be able to keep our commitments less and less and I started going to seeing him every week, to once a month. And ever since then I have been on a pathological roller coaster. He has been keeping me manipulated and locked into this relationship. I tried to leave him last week for good and started ignoring his calls. His mother even participates in his bs. Having her call me & pretend that the things he's saying is true. I stopped talking him this entire week.he knew I was pulling away so he started setting up his imaginary story about having issues with his kidneys last week, and then fast forward today, me barely keeping contact with him now he's saying that the doctor told him he has 6 months to live and that his kidneys are failing. he even started crying and everything.I feel between a Rock and a hard place because I don't know whether to believe him or not. what terrible person would I be if his kidneys really are failing because two of his kids have issues with their kidneys and he has a terrible diet and has had issues with his kidneys in the past. What kind of person would I be if I left him in the middle of this? That's the manipulative part of it right? You lose your ability to determine whether this person is being truthful or not and they put you in impossible situations that make you look like a really shity person if you don't believe them. I'm not going to lie I need help getting out of this relationship! I have thought about moving and taking a job in another state just to get away from him.
@@VanityLuxe if he’s still married, his shitty kidneys are his wife’s responsibility not yours. You shouldn’t be with or believe a married dude no matter what he says. He already lied to you about everything else. What’s another lie?? Took me half of quarantine to get away from my situation, but once I did, I met an amazing guy who is actually single, honest and treats me like a princess. Good luck!!
@@sailormars20 I have been strong in all my relationships. I have never felt so weak, worthless and gullible in my life. He has made me question who I am as a woman & made me feel the lowest of lows for even dealing with the man that is still married. constantly stringing me along with how he will be getting a divorce soon, or he's waiting for a dissolution, or whatever excuse he can come up with. I finally got sick and fed up with it and tried to leave him around Thanksgiving and then that's when he started concocting his narrative about something being wrong with his kidneys. Finally I started ignoring him for the past week and barely answering his calls and then today he couldn't get in contact with me at all so, he keeps having some number text me pretending to be his mom and even his mom is in on it. She called me pretending that she had found some papers saying that he had kidney failure. I just do not believe this at all and the only reason that he had her call me is because I somewhat called out and said "do you think I'm f****** stupid" because I knew that it was not his mom really texting me, so I believe he put her up to it myself and his wife I've had conversations before, and I believe he is putting her through the same thing . She has been stuck with him for 12 years and she did mention to me before that his mother will lie for him
I’m a therapist as I’ve said, and unfortunately this happens so often. My clients are always like WHY IS THIS PERSON LYING FOR NO REASON AT ALL!? It seems like pathological liars have an extreme inferiority complex. Their insecurities lead them to try to make theirselves seem “better” or more interesting whether it be through false accomplishments, sympathy, etc. Their hope is to feel more in control of those around them and their own narrative. I’m so glad that you got out of that relationship! It can do such damage on their partner’s emotional and mental wellbeing.
Steph Anya, MFT 😭 I feel soooo dumb for falling for all of my Ex’s lies! How can I be so stupid?! 😭😭😭😭
@@Rachel15SF you're not stupid! We are trained from an early age to be nice and not question things and be as discerning as we should. But we can come back from these mistakes especially when we are young.
LoL no offense but with that kind of generic answer i could call myself a therapist too. Pathological liars are related to sociopaths. Not all sociopaths are killers but they are narcissists and pathological liars. You are born with sociopathy you are not born with inferiority complex, inferiority complex usually results from abuse or some type of trauma, pathological liars can sometimes be created by abuse, but most of the time they’re just sociopaths...you’re welcome, and i didn’t even have to waste money with school to come up with that conclusion
So trump never got love but $ so he never felt wanted? I'm just saying🤷♀️
I unfortunately can relate and I recently stepped out of that relationship. I am still trying to move on and it’s still very hard. Especially since we still talk to each other from time to time. And I can sense that he wants to get back together but I know that no matter how much I love this person…. He just isn’t the guy for me.
If a man believes that you are the one, he will move heaven and earth to make you his and not take a chance of losing you to another suitor. Remember that always!!!
Amen to that!!
True that. Faced that. Ditched that guy after 8 long years
So true!!
Yes! As a woman, you should not feel insecure in a relationship! If the man does not treat you like a Princess, ditch him!
Yuppppp. Experiencing this for the last 6 months
Your hair is so pretty 😍
Boys really do bring out the FBI agent in us 😂
hahaha thank you and for reallll
Ha ha i have forever been an fbi agent. Even today i can easily find when people are lying especially if my husband does that 😁😂
Girl, don’t let no man EVER make feel
Like that ! He’s a loser and a pathological liar. You’re beautiful and ambitious, you can do better! I’ve been in an abusive relationship/marriage for a year and that person shattered me And ruined my self esteem, I was on anti depressants and in the hospital, lost my job and everything. I don’t have a lot now, but I’m doing Better. Don’t ruin your peace of mind For any relationship or friendships. People are temporary and don’t care most of the time. They would keep pushing and playing you until you react and call you crazy. When a guy starts ignoring you, RUN!!!! That guy doesn’t have cancer! He played you dear. From the beginning it was all red flags! Don’t fall for that again .
Dated a pathological Liar for 2 and half years. I broke up with him just 3 days ago. I've started therapy because the place I'm in mentally right now is not a very good place to be in. He told me he had cancer. Your comment has hit me in the right place. I wish I could speak to you more about this. 🥺
I've ignored every red flag for 2 and half years. Each and every red flag. 🥺
All of this dudes behaviour is literally absolutely on point with my ex
When you’re wearing rose colored glasses, red flags just look like flags
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Completely off topic, but can we all give major props to Lilia for speaking English as a third language ( correct me if I’m wrong) so eloquently and sophisticated. After having learned to speak a second language in my 20s, I never realized how intricate and hard the English language can be.
Haha yeah I just heard her accent and I was like ohh you sound Dutch ( I'm from the Netherlands as well ) and then I checked and it made sense haha. But we learn English in elementary school so it's kind of a second language for us
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Wow, Lily you'd be surprised how many of us have had similar experiences. You're not alone. And the sad thing is many women do not outgrow toxic relationships. Many women marry liars and absolutely terrible men. Thank you for sharing this story.
Me too. I don’t trust myself to ever get involved again and I won’t. The other thing is people doubt that it happened to you which is worse. Good luck!
Many men marry absolutely horrible women. It goes both ways
@@seeno1 Not nearly as often though. More men are abusive, toxic and narcissistic than women.
This story is an exact example for how a man can ruin someone's life for their selfish intention. I hope you feel better and you are definitely a fighter of your fate. Hopefully waiting for second part love you stay safe...
I was married to the love of my life for 20 years. He was also a compulsive liar and cheater. I finally crawled away and created a new happy life on my own. I wrote a book about it anonymously to heal and pay it forward.
*Quiet Little Mouse: How My Lying Cheating Huband Awakened My Inner Warrior by Mali Ponday* I'm not looking for fame or riches. Peace and love❤️
I promise to read it and write my own ❤️
I am sorry this happened to you. He betrayed you on so many levels. It must have been so hard to trust again. Please let me tell you that your empathy, compassion and ability to be understanding might have been used - but it still is what makes you a good person and also what makes you special. You were not stupid, you were young and you believed in the good in people. Don’t let this be taken from you, you have heart of gold 🧡
Thank you for sharing this story, it sure took a lot of courage.
That’s what happens when you get into a relationship, when you are not in the best place in life. When you’re drowning - you hang on to whatever rope someone throws at you and you see them as saviour. The red flags were probably since the get-go. Plus, the gaslighting is gradual, up until point where it becomes normal that you ‘justify’ their behaviour instead of being mortified by it. Know your values and surround yourself by people that match them. Don’t bend over for someone that doesn’t feel the courtesy to reply to your text messages if you’re in an intimate relationship with them. You were a sweet girl before him, you didn’t have that shit in you, he brought it into your life. He will probably never understand what he did wrong simply bc his brain is wired differently. And he probably isn’t even worried about the whole situation. It is not your duty to save a man, wait for him to grow, babysit etc. He probably saw more options to choose from and decided to ditch you in the harshest ways cold turkey.. does a man that love you treat this way? No. He is too immature. Let him find his equal! ;-)
My ex fiancee did this to me as well. I am traumatized by the way things ended and how cold he was with me, and a total LIAR when it came to true love. I wasted 5 years of my youth with him and he's now married to someone else who probably is his slave as he intended me to be. I would have no part in that so I got dumped.
Even though I've never been in the situation you've been in, i think I recognize something. In an unhealthy relationship/relationship where someone is mentally unhealthy, it can make you mentally unhealthy. When I started dating my ex, I had to go back to therapy, because I mimicked his addiction behaviors and got emotionally so unstable that I relapsed in my eating disorder. Small signs like how I never had any of those behaviors at my parents and everything, finding out that he lied about having to be admitted to psychiatric clinic and everything, breaks you up.
Broke up with him 3 months ago and am now recovering from that experience. Most of al; sooo relieved and really aware
You're strong Lilia, can't wait for part 2
I am 57 and just had the same experience. He said his son had cancer though. Narcissistic Personality Disorder...they do it to feed their fragile ego. When you message and he ghosts you, he loves the power. He doesn't feel empathy and you will never get closure from him. He will contact you in the future sometime. You must block him everywhere.
That’s awful. You deserve love . My ex had NPD and it’s very painful. It’s a cancer itself being in a relationship with a narc. I’m sending you love my sister that I will never meet but I care about you
Watching this makes me realize how mature you are and have always been. I’m sure you have gained a lot out of this experience even tho it was horrible. I don’t have experience regarding these things but I think you handled it with maturity and class.You are very strong 💪
Aww thank you so much for saying that dear, your comment honestly made my day. Sending you love ❤️
How can she trust again I would feel the same way I would lose trust also
Omg this is just like my ex!! Constant crazy lying over the most basic things (things that don't even make sense to lie about!) Looking back he lied more than he ever told the truth. However he was not UNAWARE of his behaviour .. I had the pleasure of listening into some therapy sessions he went to and he was HAPPY AND CONFIDENT in expressing how he has no empathy (especially for me), how he lied to everyone (his family, his boss - who he was stealing from, me who he was cheating on), how he knew he was manipulating people around him to feel sorry for him 🤯😬😅 HE DID IT ALL ON PURPOSE AND HE DIDN'T CARE ABOUT ANYONE IN HIS LIFE 👏 That's when I knew that I was dealing with the devil, I kicked him out of the family home and haven't looked back!
my ex was trying to tell me he was getting better but there was no proof and when I confronted him on everything just a total ghost I mean I guess he said goodbye but in a bullshit way and I just finally got the hint and had to live my life.
Good for you! He could have (or would have) sucked you even further into his web of lies. And only God knows what else could have happened. Kudos to you! _(This is from a guy. No kidding.)_ _(4/8/2023)_
Please do a part two, it was very helpful. You never know how awefull some people can be until someone tells their story or you go through something similar yourself❤️
He cancels plans once or twice with a valid reason- forgivable. Becomes a pattern and you basically are telling me I don’t matter. That’s when I disappear like a 👻. The best part is that when they start with excuses and over calling... and I just sit back IGNORE because in my mind I’m done. My attachment to men doesn’t come from the start. Lots of people have a nice body and face so that’s simply not enough. Court me, respect me , show me your true colors and then I will let my heart open.
I'm glad that toxic relationship was cut short. Your destiny soulmate is out there 💕
I love how you shared this story and giving us confidence as women! Love the makeup btw!
Men, are so emotional, and they really judge our emotions, everything we feel and do is a reaction to all the things that they do and make us feel lol ugh! Thanks Lily for sharing! My ex literally did to me for 7 months almost, he would say he got scared, or that he's too busy with working on his lessons for class the next and one night he did it on my birthday and told me I'd be happier spending it on my own🙄🤦 he would go hours not texting me than blow up my phone when I didn't message with an hour!🙄 He would cancel on my constantly!
Lilia! i have been watching your videos for years and seeing you be this vulnerable and open about your experience is truly inspiring. You have always been a woman i look up to online and to see you have overcome so much makes me feel so proud. Thank you for this video and honestly be proud of yourself for getting out of that situation head strong!
The dislikes r jay and his pack of compulsive liars
for real tho lol
Lol... I don't think he has friends. I think they are ALL him. 😆
Hey Lilia! Old subscriber here. I remember that era. I also remember getting some weird vibes back then, in the sense that you seemed to be pretty upset/worried/anxious in some of your videos. I'm so sorry you had to go through all this😪 The worst thing when you get involved with someone who is such a master manipulator, is that you end up losing yourself in that relationship. It really sucks.
Can't wait for part 2😊 Stay well!
I've read your blogpost in 2017 and was in tears because it was so relatable 💕 3 years later, your story still gives me goosebumps..
This was very interesting. I was actually married many years ago (for 13 years - father of my 4 children) to a pathological liar. I am 60 years old but could totally relate. I have still been lied to from a man recently. I am a happy woman with a full life so I don't take it so personal anymore.
I'm sorry you experienced this but thank you for having the courage to talk about it which can help others!💗 also want to say you look so pretty!💗
Aw thank you love
Yes queen I love this! As a 24 year old who is also a business woman and struggling to get over a guy, this is helpful ~ you have made me feel not alone in this! I too didn’t suffer with anxiety until my last relationship ~ it’s crazy to know how careful you have to be with these kinds of things! I love you dearly and I hope I can start my own business like you one day! Lots of love! You are gorgeous and worth gold!
Really back in the day I remember you showing one boyfriend. (I only recall you showing one). And back then I remember you telling that you were back together and you decided to give him a second chance. I don't know why but now I think that it was probably him. Since even the Initial of the name, match. I hope some day you can talk about it without any difficulty. You are really strong!! 💕
I remembered her telling this story in one of her old vlogs as well!
I actually had the same thought.
Hi love! I never mentioned anything about that in my videos, we also did not break up in between so you must confuse me with someone else haha!
Part II, please!
Lilly, I'm sorry you've passed for that situation. That guy is crazy!
thank you for opening up about this past relationship, you are so brave and you deserve someone who deserves you
Lilia I am so sorry you had to experience that. 🥺
Stay strong beautiful girl, your Prince Charming is out there (I am sure it is my 27 yo son...but we are in Australia 😢)
Don't blame yourself for missing any signs. You are trusting and empathic - and they are not bad traits. Some people just choose to take advantage of that.
You are an inspiration - even to a Mumma who is an entrepreneur, and Law student.
Sending you hugs. xo
I'm genuinely surprised that I watched the whole video without skipping anything. Phew. That was intense. Thank you for sharing Lilia. We're all here for you
It's so weird when a lie is so specific it's actually believable... 😂 So sorry you went through this!
You feel the heaviness in her voice particularly at the end. Keep doing you and protecting you Lilia !! When you doubt, listen to your heart. Not the little voice in your head particularly but look in your heart. If you feel it’s not your path, take the turn yourself before things take a worst turn themselves.
Heeel graag een deel 2. Vind het vreselijk voor je dat je dit hebt moeten mee maken, maar wat ben jij een sterke dame!
Thank you for being so strong and having the confidence to upload this. You deserve better, stay strong love❤️
Ugh, I remember this guy! These type of men crossed my path as well, but you know, I really do believe that everything happens for a reason. In the end it makes us stronger, wiser, more powerful and mature. I am also happy to see how well reflected you are. You deserve the best!
PLEASE DO A PART TWO ON THIS!!! I really enjoyed this video I was hooked the whole time!
And you are absolutely beautiful lily ❤️
Please part 2:( it’s all so sad, so touching, it must have been so hard, but a really hope that this video, talking about this helps you put it behind. Love you always
Giirrl yeah film Part 2, ALREADY EXCITED and sorry for what you have been through 💕
I went through a similar story unfortunately. I've been to therapy and taking antidepressants because of it. As time goes by we start feeling better and learn not to give in so soon. These type of guys do a lot of damage to us. His mom could have been a better adviser to that son. I have 2 boys and I always make sure that they learn how to respect women and our feelings.
Lilia I’m sorry to hear that but know that we’re here for you!
Thanks so much
Yayyy was looking forward to this video. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 The tea ☕️ is going to get spilled
yas babe! the tea is hot hot hot!
I’ve wasted 11 years of my life with a man just like him I hate myself for it he has destroyed me
There is hope.God is with you.Psalm 139.Hugggs
Continue to keep your head up!! Part 2 PLEASE!
Sometimes, love make us blind. The bright side of your old relationships is that you now know the true meaning of the love and left that toxic relationships outside of your life.
The true meaning of being loved is becoming the best version of yourself.
You deserve the best in the world.
I m looking forward the second part of your vlog.
PLEASE do a part 2!!! This video was great💜
Hey girl! I relate to your story on so many levels 😱😱 my ex was a pathological liar and "Jay" sounds exactly like him! My ex broke up with me last week after almost 2 years together. I've been in tears everyday since and wanting to beg him to come back but hearing your story has helped me realise that I am better off and I deserve so much better! Thank you for sharing ❤
My Erasmus semester saved me from my ex who is an compulsive liar. The time that I spent abroad away from him made me see clear all the red flags and release that he wasn't who he said he was.
Greetings from Greece 🇬🇷❤️
💯 relatable. Happened to me twice. We would love a part 2. See you soon, Lilia! We’re all in this together. Love you. 💖
Hi Lilia! I‘m so sorry to hear that you had to go through this!! I am sure this makes an impact on how you connect and open up to new people in your life. You are a smart, wonderful woman who deserves someone faithful!!
I’m I shock right now!! I’m so sorry that you had to go through this but just know that you will absolutely find your Mr. Right and you will have your Happily Ever After with the man who truly deserves you! Love you....and we definitely need a Part 2 please!♥️🙏🏻♥️
I am so proud that you opened up and where so brave telling all of us this. I hope that you continue having your head up high and keeping your heart big and warm for others I really love all your videos and support to others 💫💕🌈
Wow that’s a really intense story! He is crazy for treating you like this! And what you did is not stupid it’s what people do. So don’t blame yourself for anything. You are a very strong and independent woman and you are brave for sharing this . It is hard to catch people in a lie, I have a friend who had lived with a pathological liar for 12 years and didn’t suspect anything! And now she is going through a lot because she found out all the lies. It’s intense ! Can’t wait for part 2 when you feel comfortable about it. Sharing stories like yours really helps others to see what can happen out there in relationship and knowledge is power :D so thank you for sharing !
Wow you are such a good storyteller! I could listen to you and listen and listen... I was shocked after watching that it took 42 mins! Can't wait for part 2!!
Thank You Lilia for sharing your story with me, with us all. You have no idea how many people you’re helping right now with your testimony. Bless your heart🙏🏽💖
Thank you so much!
I am sorry that happen with you and thank you for sharing your story it was an eye opener for me personal to the red flags during an relationship..Ready to know more about part two!
Omg your such a good story teller! I was so intrigued, thank you for opening up for our entertainment. Love you girly, stay save💜
I’m so sorry you got to go through this girl!! Hope ur okay now and thank you for sharing your story!! Would love to see part 2 💕💕
Thanks Lilia for sharing your story! It was super brave of you to share this story with you, and honestly it was awesome to hear a casual chat from you during this quarantine time! I hope you share more stories later :)
you are so strong and are such an inspiration to me. i would have never been able to open up about this and you are such an inspiration to me, not just as a student, but as a person in general. love you and your videos ❤️❤️
I am utterly proud of you that you took the time to film this and that you had it in your guts and your heart that you could share your story and express your time for this video. you're so strong!
I am so sorry you are going through this! I am sending positive thoughts and vibes your way. I am here for you!
I’ve been watching you for a few years.. you’re such a sweetheart and you didn’t deserve this 😣. Waiting for part 2..
We need a part 2!!! I went through something very similar and it sucked. Sending you positive vibes✨✨💓
🥺 sorry to hear that, your story and many other people that share these stories, I think is not only healthy but healing for youself and others. It will help people who don't know what are toxic signs or red flags. Thanks for sharing I know you don't usually share about personal information which we respect your privacy, so it means alot, hope your healthy and feeling better💕
I totally agree! I'm pretty sure that if I watched a video about compulsive lying during our relationship I would've been able to connect the dots
yes please can we have a part 2 this was amazing and i loved watching this!! Your so inspirational!! Ly xx
Thank you for this video Lilia! I felt like I really felt your emotions during this personal story. You are a very strong woman! I would love a part 2
I understand how u felt. Ur doing great so far, so just keep achieving greatness in ur own way. It’s a big decision for u to open up ur bad experience to public but u r so brave. Keep inspiring and we want the PART 2 Please 😆😆😆
Thank you so much dear for saying that! And hehe part 2 will come ❤️
You are a strong and brave woman, Lily! I am proud of You! ❤️
Girlll!!!! This story was so wild. So sorry to hear you went through that!
YOUR HAIR OMGGGGGGGGGGG I LOVE LOVE LOVE IT
Aw thank you 💕
LilyLikecom Ahhhh thankyou cor responding 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I really enjoyed watching this video and appreciated how much it took from you to talk about this difficult experience. I hope in the future you experience the best life has to offer and are able to heal from the past. Love you and your videos! xoxo
You're so sweet Lily💖You deserve to have the best boyfriend but not like him!! Be safe and be strong💖
Can’t wait to watch part 2 😀
I am very sorry that you experienced this, I think your personality is worth gold and he used it... You deserve so much more xx
You are so strong!! So proud of you !!! Can’t wait for part 2 Xoxo
I still remember reading the post you wrote about this guy! I love this kind of videos 💖💖💖
yes we want the second part! thank you for sharing! really sorry that it happened to you(
OMG... part 2, please! So sorry that you had to go through this.
Wauw Lilia... Ik volg je al jaren en ik herinner me nog de vlog van Parijs en dat je een vriend had toen. Maar wat heftig, dit had ik niet verwacht... Ik ben zelf psycholoog, maar toch klinkt het zo bizar en bijna onwerkelijk dat mensen zo ver gaan in liegen.. Ik vind het erg rot dat je dit is overkomen, maar wat knap om te zien hoe je hiermee omgaat en dit deelt met ons, girl boss! You deserve nothing but the best
Volg je al zo lang dat ik die ene Parijs vlog nog heb gezien!! Maar zooo heftig allemaal! You’re strong✨
Lily I'm really sorry for you! I'm happy that you opened to us about it. And should God send you the right guy, the one you deserve! Love you!!!💗
Waiting for the second part.
Much love for you girl ❤
Oh my God Lilia I could not even imagine that you have been through such a terrible thing. I am watching you since almost the beginning of your CZcams journey and I am so proud of you for your progress, I admire you so much for your courage and you are so inspiring to me. It is very brave of you to talk about that. Please keep it in the past and continue your amazing life! I sent you a big hug!! Kisses from Greece!!
You don't just get narcissistic personalities as boyfriends, I had the misfortune of having one as a teacher! The constant interest and pull is a big sign.
Girl you're so brave for sharing!
You seem like a gorgeous person inside and out!
You deserve the world!
Sending you so much love x x x
We need the second part, please! By the way, your natural hair is georgeous
It was for good that toxic guy is no more in your life. You deserve so much better in life. Shit happens to all of us. This is so much helpful for all the girls out there. Thank you for sharing the story. Waiting for Part 2.
Lilia, you're such a brave girl and very strong. People do make bad decisions and I'm happy you have learn from it.
I understand you fully.
You're brave girl.
❤💕
Omg lilea, you are such a great story teller. Ofcourse it's true story but not everyone has this talent to narrate it beautifully. Incidents like these make us stronger.
aw thank you so much lovely, that’s a huge compliment ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story Lilia 🙏🏼
Omg my heart is broken for you💔😔 I hope you get all the happiness you deserve in life, i hope all the good and genuine love you gave you’ll receive tenfold and I really believe you will.. you’re heart is so pure and it’ll be a magnet to your soulmate, he’s maneuvering his way too you I’m manifesting it for you girl!! Love always❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. I really want to know how you found out. This can help us all out. You sharing your story can help us one day in the future or might be helping someone now . I can’t wait for part 2. Don’t let that fool take your power .
The interesting thing about people like this is that often there is no breakup. He just becomes unavailable. He won't answer the phone, he's no longer at the same address. In fact he's dropped off the face of the earth, no one knows where he is & youll never see him again
I used to watch u from my old CZcams account, im happy I found ur channel again!
really, really enjoyed this storytime! it's also a great way to get to know you more, so if you have more, like from law school or moving to LA, I'm all ears!!
Thank you for sharing, this takes a lot of courage! 💓