1. Ignore them too 2. Don't react emotionally 3. Remove them your mind 4. Demonstrate your value 5. Cut off contact 6. Prove them wrong 7. Go out have fun 8. Build your social status 9. Act as if they don't exist 10. Give them a silent treatment 11. Dont beg for attention 12. Be kind but emotionally distant 13. Don't reveal your struggle ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I used to crumble with rejection now I feel proud and strong and realise that person missed a great opportunity to be in my life… thank you for your videos
"Your growth is commendable! Stoicism reminds us to find strength within ourselves and to view obstacles as opportunities for growth. Embrace your resilience and newfound confidence. Remember, what may seem like rejection is often a redirection towards greater things. Thank you for your appreciation of the videos, and may Stoic wisdom continue to inspire you."
@@dyanberg6263 Your lesson embodies Stoic wisdom beautifully. Viewing rejection as an opportunity for solitude and self-reflection aligns with Stoic principles of focusing on what's within our control and finding contentment in solitude. Teaching your children this perspective lays a foundation for resilience and inner peace. Keep nurturing their understanding of Stoic principles, and may they continue to flourish.
You're welcome! Indeed, kindness is a beautiful gift that enriches both the giver and the receiver. If you have any more thoughts or insights to share, feel free to do so. Let's spread kindness wherever we go! 🌟
Atm being quiet. Feeling hurt rejected but I'm staying close to me now. Decided to not look for interactions with soneone else than the man who is low in communication. I will just go through my pain and from experience time does heal. He texts but I feel he only does this in his remaining space. It's ok to not talk daily but it gives of a vibe of coming around only on his terms. My last message was brief and suggesting to call next week. He replied: no worries, you are sweet. Then again silence.. Im aware it's a combination of my own longings and soneone else's selfish/ nonchalant policy. He started very closely and then decreased interaction. I don't chase or pressure but if I can't move on with my day I have to express it to him which I did, inna polite way. He reolied that he got caught up in his business again. Fair enough but it feels like not considering other's feelings and when I take initiative or show a feeling he ignores it in his response. It's as if he started very emotionally expressive and now.he seems different. I'm in a difficult stage of life myself at a crossroad and this man told me " you just need warmth love and a hug". Then goes quiet again after telling me that he feels warm when he thinks of me and it feels like.we know eachother so long. The contrast between close interaction and days of nothing is strange for me but I'm trying to learn and stay close to me. It makes me feel depressed. I never called him bc I feel an unwritteb rule that I'm not allowed to. He called me 3 times only in week 1. Then went on vacation and now Busy with a business there. He said I should visit him but also he will fly back home soon so we can meet. There are 2 scenario's: he is maliciously manipulating keeping me in a loop or he is genuine but distracted and this is who he is and it's upto me to cherish myself. Tte hard part for me is I have been through a lot and I miss a simple hug.
been practicing the art of silence! believe me it gets to them badly. it makes them blow a lid off true colors come out and their mean comments towards you come out and shine
Imagine being a good colleague with someone and out of the blue he ignores you never talks to you!!I did the same to..what I’m trying to say..Be4 losing that r/p speaking out is better than shutting down a r/p from out of the blue Remember no one is perfect..if you keep cutting off people you will remain alone
Your profound observation, "People are powerless without your reactions," beautifully captures the essence of Stoic wisdom. It's a powerful reminder of the control we hold over our own responses and the strength that lies in maintaining our inner peace. I'm curious, could you share a moment in your life where this principle profoundly impacted your interactions or mindset? Your experiences would undoubtedly provide valuable insights and inspiration to our community.
It’s true, staying calm when mistreated is incredibly challenging. As Seneca said, 'We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.' Kudos to those striving for composure. Every effort to remain calm is a step toward mastering our emotions and gaining inner peace. Keep up the good work!
The approach of 'ignoring those who ignore you' is a game-changer. It's not about pettiness; it's about asserting your self-worth. This video is a great reminder that our reactions can either anchor us in negativity or propel us towards growth. I've tried it, and it's tough but rewarding. Does anyone have tips on staying calm and composed when faced with rejection?
I’ve been rejected a number of times and found it painful each time. It took time to put these people out of my mind and realize I didn’t need them as much as I thought I did ! In time I pursued my hobbies and interests and recharged my life !
Just went thru this... The other person suddenly became super attentive and solicitous. Sadly for them, I wasn't pretending... I was actually actively enjoying my own company, my loved ones, MY PEACE, 😁... I've now released them from my life 👋
Your story is both empowering and deeply moving. The way you describe finding solace and strength within yourself, valuing your own peace and loved ones, is truly inspiring. It's a beautiful testament to the power of self-respect and inner harmony. Could you share more about how this journey of self-discovery and maintaining your peace has transformed other aspects of your life? Your insights could offer profound guidance and encouragement to others navigating similar experiences.
I appreciate the emphasis on the power of silence as a response to rejection. Choosing not to engage in manipulative or retaliatory behavior demonstrates true strength and integrity.
We've only been together for 5 months , i thought things were great . 2 weeks ago it started with no response for a few hours then for a full day then no time to talk to no time to text or talk . Except when she had a min here or there. I didnt beg , i didn't constantly call or text . I tried but now i don't respond and this came up and i just finished it great advice. I feel great now Thank you
Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like you handled the situation with remarkable composure and strength. 🧘♂️✨ As Epictetus said, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” 🌿 Even though the relationship seemed great at first, your ability to remain calm and avoid begging or overreacting shows true emotional resilience. By focusing on your own well-being and ultimately deciding to finish it, you’ve embraced a key Stoic principle: taking control of your own actions and responses. 💪🌱 I’m glad to hear you feel great now. Keep moving forward with this mindset, and you’ll continue to grow stronger. 🌟🙏
I'm getting there, while listening to this now, my emotional resilience is captivating to me right now. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom sir.
I'm so glad to hear that the content is giving you strength and helping you heal. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, 'The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.' Your resilience is inspiring. Thank you for being part of this community. 🙏🏾
I decided to put my energy in my priorities so when I take away my energy from those that play to lose me and don’t let them to manipulate me or use me so I gave them the opportunity to walk away from them and I preserved my inner peace and my beautiful energy .
I smile and thank them for saving me the trouble of having to find out he's not worth the time. You can't be heartbroken if it never got anywhere from the beginning. I would rather be rejected and save my time on something worthless in the end, and spend that time on my quest for the one I am looking for. Peace and love brings happiness and prosperity ✨️ 😊
That's a wise perspective! Recognizing early on who isn't worth your time saves you from unnecessary heartache. As Epictetus said, 'It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.' Your approach of focusing on peace and love brings true happiness and prosperity. Keep smiling and staying true to your quest. Peace and love to you! ✨😊
I really went through this... I had h good friend... I always care for her now in the end i was ignored... I asked her her behavior is hurting me a lot.. she never botherd and care about it as i am hurting... I was literally crying hard when this video showed up.. thank you this will help and will decrease my pain and agony... I was feeling i worthless in this friendship..
I'm so sorry to hear about your painful experience. It's tough when someone you care for doesn't reciprocate. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, 'Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears.' Your worth is not defined by how others treat you. You're strong for recognizing the hurt and seeking ways to heal. Focus on the people who truly value you and take care of your own well-being. You're deserving of genuine friendship and respect.
Yesterday, after more than 30 years of what I've come to realise and finally accept was a selfish friendship, I have cut ties. This message of dignity and courage could not have appeared on my feed at a better, most needed time. Closing doors on all "fairweathers" as I walk through these current storms to wash away what no longer serves me and embracing the rainbows to come
I'm glad this message came at the right time for you. As Seneca said, 'Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.' Ending a long, selfish friendship takes great courage and self-respect. By closing doors on those who no longer serve your well-being, you're making space for positive growth and new opportunities. Embrace the rainbows that follow the storms, and know that your journey towards a more authentic and fulfilling life is truly admirable.
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt and empowering perspective. It's truly inspiring to see how your faith and confidence guide you through life's challenges. Recognizing your own worth and staying secure in your beliefs is a beautiful testament to your strength. I would love to hear more about how your faith has shaped your confidence and outlook on life. Are there specific experiences or teachings that have particularly influenced you? Additionally, how do you maintain this sense of security and love in the face of others' insecurities? Looking forward to hearing more about your journey!
I believe that embracing rejection as a tool for growth and resilience is a powerful mindset shift. Stoicism's emphasis on controlling what we can and practicing empathy resonates deeply. I'm inspired to reframe setbacks as opportunities and pivot towards success with renewed determination.
Marcus Aurelius once said, 'The obstacle is the way,' and this video brilliantly showcases that philosophy with practical, real-world strategies. Turning indifference into a powerful statement of self-worth isn’t just about emotional resilience; it’s about embracing your intrinsic value. Curious to know, how have others practiced these stoic principles in daily challenges?
I relish in rejection. It doesn’t scare me, in the contrary I expect it from humans. I understand human nature, so I love this. But at first I thought I was proud/superior, oh no.. it’s advisable to be this way!
Without knowing this 13 way. I was doing it in my past 2 months. Where I started to understand my feelings, thoughts and actions. It's may be hilarious but these 3 have a lot of differences. Thank you for reminding us the fact that we are far more important than others opinions. ❤❤
Have been doing it without knowing since Covid lockdown, now I feel empowered and motivated to keep going.. Finally realized that all my kindness wasn’t a transaction but a beautiful gift. Thank you 🎉.
Indeed, everyone perceives things differently based on their own experiences and perspectives. Stoicism teaches us to focus on what is within our control-our own judgments and actions. Understanding this helps us navigate disagreements and differing viewpoints with equanimity.
A key thing is to meditate and not feel ashamed for who you are at your core. That meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Guilt by Harper Daniels helped me to slow down and ponder.
Thank you for sharing this insightful perspective. Marcus Aurelius taught us to view obstacles as opportunities for growth. Trusting that it always works out for our highest good reminds us to accept and learn from every experience, knowing it shapes our path to wisdom and virtue. ✨
Strength in adversity! Maintain your worth! If others wish to love you, they will clearly do so! If not you will continue your path of virtue, understanding, and respect! Shining in self respect, self worth, and emotioal self sufficiency! Remember, authenticity is virtue focused in truely understanding, not unregulated spontaneous emotional reaction! 🙏☀️
No thank you! I am only reflecting your valuable lessons! I've watched many of your videos and am so grateful; they are my source for taking steps to embodiment of my best self. God bless you.
Hey, who needs thanks when you're on the path to embodying your best self, right? Reflect on those lessons and shine bright like a diamond! Keep up the awesome work!
Most greatest few minutes of your life you will appreciate, you use these principles into your daily practices and you will come a long way thank you for your kindness words of wisdom.
Strength in adversities, indeed. The stoic philosophy isnt new to me because the wise will exercise its methods and approaches to solving problems instinctively. I see this as a confirmation to what I already put into practice and it works.😊
You’re absolutely right. Our time on Earth is limited, and it’s crucial to focus on what truly matters. As Marcus Aurelius said, “It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.” 🧘♂️✨ Rising above feelings of being ignored and understanding that it’s their problem, not ours, is a powerful mindset. By focusing on our own growth and values, we can lead a more fulfilling life. 🌟💪 Thank you for sharing this wise perspective! 🙏🌿
I had a situation where I fancied this girl for a while we both were in relationships. And when we both separated from our ex partners, after 6 months we strayed talking to eachother. I build an image that she was perfect for me, that when I last knew her all them years ago she was perfect. We went on dates and I guess we realised we didn’t hold the same attraction. She stopped messaging, and one day I just messaged her with a clear picture. I said “I understand there’s no interest in taking things further, I wish you all the best take care” I literally dodged a bullet with her, and that’s not to say she’s a bad person she’s not. But watching this has made me realise how much she changed since I last knew her, or the fact I didn’t really know her at all.
Realizing the mismatch early on was key. Stoicism teaches acceptance of reality and self-awareness. Moving forward with maturity and detachment shows growth. Keep applying these lessons for a fulfilling journey ahead.
Thanks.I believe maintaining one's dignity is important..if you are not needed or wanted..whether professionally or personally, quietly accept it..and move on..that's the only way I can cope with rejection..Thanks for your input..I find your advice useful and comforting.
❤thank u. This was very helpful. I currenty am suffering from over thinking causing insomnia. Was always to ask because of regection. My head is lighter with this sesson 😊
Rejection is a part of life.we all go through it, and nobody is immune to it.but to engage in behavior that others push onto you(energy vampires,negative)only makes you as much like them as they are.Do yourself,life's to damn short to care what others feel,think,or do to you.ignoring them will make you the winner.You can refocus your life not being rude and unkind.i believe some what in karma....I call it.......sowing seeds.ive seen the worst people never reap karma.sooooo yep life's to short.
This was my greatest fear, to be rejected. But, I learned that I have the power to move forward and the power to decide if I will stay on rock-bottom or I will rise again. Only I have the power to change my life and the power to anchor it.
Thank you for sharing your experience. 🌟 Facing the fear of rejection is incredibly challenging, but your realization is profound.🧘♂️✨ Understanding that you have the power to move forward and decide your path is a true testament to your inner strength. Whether you stay on rock bottom or rise again, the choice is yours alone. 💪🌿 Embrace this power to change your life and anchor it in resilience and determination. Your journey is inspiring, and I’m confident you will continue to grow and thrive. 🙏🚀
That narcissist ended our 8 years of relationship...treated me like hell ..ruined my mental health and shattered my soul..verbally abuseed me took away my money and gave me silent treatments and breadcrums of attention....can't get myself out of that shit till this day 😢😢
I'm really sorry to hear that you've gone through such a difficult and painful experience. It sounds incredibly challenging and I can understand how it can be hard to move forward. Here’s a compassionate response from a Stoic perspective:
Don't ever let a man see u as weak!! Your a powerful woman and dont need him! Trust me this video is so right!! Start to act like nothing he does bothers you it will drive him nuts an start to look super happy lol even if u have to fake it till you make it 😂 it works every time girl ❤❤❤ best of luck 😉
Watch the little shaman on you tube. She's an expert on narcissism and she was the only one who helped me when I was dealing with my narcissist ex... her videos saved my sanity
Strength in adversity. This can be applied to strategically. Idk how the maker of these videos came up with this but, it is absolutely incredible. How can so much wisdom be wrapped in such a short amount of time?
Absolutely! The only validation that truly matters is the one you give yourself. As Marcus Aurelius said, 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.' Embrace self-validation and find strength within.
These are powerful principles: Strength in Adversity, Self-Love, Self-Care, Self-Respect, and Self-Improvement. As Epictetus said, 'No man is free who is not master of himself.' Embrace these values to navigate life's challenges and grow stronger each day. Keep nurturing yourself and your inner strength.
I'm glad to hear that listening to this content has helped you feel better. As Seneca said, 'Sometimes even to live is an act of courage.' Keep embracing Stoic wisdom and finding strength in its teachings. Thank you for your feedback!
I got through lot of mistakes. In the past I trusted wrong people who was so cold to me after a time. It was hard for me to feel the same before I met those people. But now I want to change my mind and start over again
Wow, this video is a game-changer! It's amazing how turning rejection into a tool for personal growth can be so empowering. The stoic approach of staying calm and focused on self-improvement resonates deeply with me. Can't wait to apply these strategies in my daily life and see the positive changes. Thank you for this insightful content! 🌟
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! 🌟 I’m thrilled to hear that the video has been a game-changer for you. Turning rejection into a tool for growth aligns perfectly with the Stoic practice of transforming obstacles into opportunities. 💪✨ As Epictetus reminds us, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” 🌿 I’m excited for you to apply these strategies and witness the positive changes in your life. Keep embracing this path of self-improvement! 🙏🌈
I really needed this.... Being in a country where no one understands English I get picked on and people are very manipulative.... But Oh Boy did I need this.... What a transformation this has been.... Thank you 🙏🏼
I'm glad you found strength in the message. It can be tough feeling isolated in a place where language creates barriers, but remember that your inner resilience and understanding are your greatest allies. Keep holding onto that transformation-no one can take it away from you. Stay strong and centered. You're not alone on this journey. 🌍💪
Absolutely. Remembering our self-worth is key to maintaining our self-respect. As Marcus Aurelius said, 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.' When we value ourselves, we set a standard for how we deserve to be treated. Keep fostering your self-worth to uphold your self-respect.
Strength in adversity. I can't imagine how wise the person who discovered this stoic mindset was, how long he researched this thought, and everything was full of self-development, there was no desire to bring down other people or take revenge
Strength in adversity. I like how we can turn the rejection on to ourselves by feeling proud of who we are and the strength that lies inside of us whether we know it’s there or not.
Absolutely! Embracing rejection as a chance to reflect and recognize our inner strength can be incredibly empowering. It's often in these challenging moments that we discover resilience and courage we might not have known we possessed. Celebrating that inner strength and pride, even in the face of adversity, can be a transformative way to turn setbacks into growth opportunities.
Excellent ❤ I found myself practicing this for a week during a conflict. Super empowering and even more empowering knowing that I was being stoic without even realising
1. Ignore them too
2. Don't react emotionally
3. Remove them your mind
4. Demonstrate your value
5. Cut off contact
6. Prove them wrong
7. Go out have fun
8. Build your social status
9. Act as if they don't exist
10. Give them a silent treatment
11. Dont beg for attention
12. Be kind but emotionally distant
13. Don't reveal your struggle
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❤very true.my husband always do this to me all of those spoken
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Wanna try this
Things a Capricorn would say 😂 #teamCap
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I used to crumble with rejection now I feel proud and strong and realise that person missed a great opportunity to be in my life… thank you for your videos
"Your growth is commendable! Stoicism reminds us to find strength within ourselves and to view obstacles as opportunities for growth. Embrace your resilience and newfound confidence. Remember, what may seem like rejection is often a redirection towards greater things. Thank you for your appreciation of the videos, and may Stoic wisdom continue to inspire you."
I taught my kids that we should be happy when someone rejects us; otherwise we would not have any time for ourselves.
@@dyanberg6263 Your lesson embodies Stoic wisdom beautifully. Viewing rejection as an opportunity for solitude and self-reflection aligns with Stoic principles of focusing on what's within our control and finding contentment in solitude. Teaching your children this perspective lays a foundation for resilience and inner peace. Keep nurturing their understanding of Stoic principles, and may they continue to flourish.
Ага а если он садист от которого убегают то конечно у того самооценка не вырастет😂
Very. Educative and it is a process. I have benefited from this
“Kindness is a gift. Not a transaction.”
Thanks for that!
You're welcome! Indeed, kindness is a beautiful gift that enriches both the giver and the receiver. If you have any more thoughts or insights to share, feel free to do so. Let's spread kindness wherever we go! 🌟
Silence works like a charm!
I agree with you
Atm being quiet. Feeling hurt rejected but I'm staying close to me now.
Decided to not look for interactions with soneone else than the man who is low in communication.
I will just go through my pain and from experience time does heal.
He texts but I feel he only does this in his remaining space.
It's ok to not talk daily but it gives of a vibe of coming around only on his terms.
My last message was brief and suggesting to call next week.
He replied: no worries, you are sweet.
Then again silence..
Im aware it's a combination of my own longings and soneone else's selfish/ nonchalant policy.
He started very closely and then decreased interaction.
I don't chase or pressure but if I can't move on with my day I have to express it to him which I did, inna polite way.
He reolied that he got caught up in his business again.
Fair enough but it feels like not considering other's feelings and when I take initiative or show a feeling he ignores it in his response. It's as if he started very emotionally expressive and now.he seems different.
I'm in a difficult stage of life myself at a crossroad and this man told me " you just need warmth love and a hug".
Then goes quiet again after telling me that he feels warm when he thinks of me and it feels like.we know eachother so long.
The contrast between close interaction and days of nothing is strange for me but I'm trying to learn and stay close to me.
It makes me feel depressed.
I never called him bc I feel an unwritteb rule that I'm not allowed to.
He called me 3 times only in week 1.
Then went on vacation and now Busy with a business there. He said I should visit him but also he will fly back home soon so we can meet.
There are 2 scenario's: he is maliciously manipulating keeping me in a loop or he is genuine but distracted and this is who he is and it's upto me to cherish myself.
Tte hard part for me is I have been through a lot and I miss a simple hug.
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been practicing the art of silence! believe me it gets to them badly. it makes them blow a lid off true colors come out and their mean comments towards you come out and shine
Imagine being a good colleague with someone and out of the blue he ignores you never talks to you!!I did the same to..what I’m trying to say..Be4 losing that r/p speaking out is better than shutting down a r/p from out of the blue
Remember no one is perfect..if you keep cutting off people you will remain alone
People are powerless without your reactions
Your feedback and engagement mean everything to me!
Thanks a lot 🙏
Well stated‼️
Your profound observation, "People are powerless without your reactions," beautifully captures the essence of Stoic wisdom. It's a powerful reminder of the control we hold over our own responses and the strength that lies in maintaining our inner peace. I'm curious, could you share a moment in your life where this principle profoundly impacted your interactions or mindset? Your experiences would undoubtedly provide valuable insights and inspiration to our community.
❤ thanks 👍
He ended our 4 years relationships and here I am .. Learning how to be stoic ,I have to, or I'll lose myself
Stay strong, you're on the path to finding yourself again.
Working on yourself by pulling yourself together is the only way at this stage. Stay strong
Best wishes to you :)
I'm sure it's gonna be so hard 4u...I knew that feelings😢
Rooting for you!
It’s so hard to just “be calm” when you are completely pissed about being mistreated or blown off. Kudos to those of us trying.
It’s true, staying calm when mistreated is incredibly challenging. As Seneca said, 'We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.' Kudos to those striving for composure. Every effort to remain calm is a step toward mastering our emotions and gaining inner peace. Keep up the good work!
It's not so hard to be calm if you naturally want to ignore them when angry.
The approach of 'ignoring those who ignore you' is a game-changer. It's not about pettiness; it's about asserting your self-worth. This video is a great reminder that our reactions can either anchor us in negativity or propel us towards growth. I've tried it, and it's tough but rewarding. Does anyone have tips on staying calm and composed when faced with rejection?
Trust me it's so worth it
That's your ego. Reject who rejects you and soon you won't care. It's not about yoy. It's their loss. Your worth isn't tied to them.
I’ve been rejected a number of times and found it painful each time. It took time to put these people out of my mind and realize I didn’t need them as much as I thought I did ! In time I pursued my hobbies and interests and recharged my life !
Rejection is tough, but it's amazing how it can lead us to better things in life.
Embrace rejection not as a set back but as a catalyst for growth and self discovery ❤
Your power lies in how you respond to others not how others respond to you
I am healthy, wealthy, blessed and protected Amen
Just went thru this... The other person suddenly became super attentive and solicitous. Sadly for them, I wasn't pretending... I was actually actively enjoying my own company, my loved ones, MY PEACE, 😁... I've now released them from my life 👋
Good for you...
I want this too, praying for the strength ❤
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if only I could say the same
Your story is both empowering and deeply moving. The way you describe finding solace and strength within yourself, valuing your own peace and loved ones, is truly inspiring. It's a beautiful testament to the power of self-respect and inner harmony. Could you share more about how this journey of self-discovery and maintaining your peace has transformed other aspects of your life? Your insights could offer profound guidance and encouragement to others navigating similar experiences.
Your power lies in how you respond to others not how others respond to you 🎉
"Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one." - Marcus Aurelius
I appreciate the emphasis on the power of silence as a response to rejection. Choosing not to engage in manipulative or retaliatory behavior demonstrates true strength and integrity.
Thank you for recognizing the importance of maintaining composure in challenging situations.
Do not seek anything good outside yourself. I love reversing method of stoicism how we can shift anything negative into a positive experience
Thank you for appreciating the message of finding positivity within. It's truly a game-changer.
“Kindness is a gift. Not a transaction.”
We've only been together for 5 months , i thought things were great .
2 weeks ago it started with no response for a few hours then for a full day then no time to talk to no time to text or talk . Except when she had a min here or there.
I didnt beg , i didn't constantly call or text .
I tried but now i don't respond and this came up and i just finished it great advice.
I feel great now
Thank you
Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like you handled the situation with remarkable composure and strength. 🧘♂️✨ As Epictetus said, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” 🌿
Even though the relationship seemed great at first, your ability to remain calm and avoid begging or overreacting shows true emotional resilience. By focusing on your own well-being and ultimately deciding to finish it, you’ve embraced a key Stoic principle: taking control of your own actions and responses. 💪🌱
I’m glad to hear you feel great now. Keep moving forward with this mindset, and you’ll continue to grow stronger. 🌟🙏
I'm getting there, while listening to this now, my emotional resilience is captivating to me right now. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom sir.
"The greatest victory is not in winning every battle, but in mastering the mind game that dictates the battlefield."
This is giving me so much strength. I’ve been through so much pain an this platform is helping me to heal. ThankQ 🙏🏾
I'm so glad to hear that the content is giving you strength and helping you heal. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, 'The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.' Your resilience is inspiring. Thank you for being part of this community. 🙏🏾
Ignore them too. Invest your energy on those who is matter to you.
You're absolutely right! Focus on those who truly support you.
Hell nah. If he stays gone all night I'ma flip out. Period.
"You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." - Marcus Aurelius
I decided to put my energy in my priorities so when I take away my energy from those that play to lose me and don’t let them to manipulate me or use me so I gave them the opportunity to walk away from them and I preserved my inner peace and my beautiful energy .
It's important to prioritize your energy and focus on what truly matters to you.
@Stoic1892 exactly that is a win 🥇 then we attract better opportunities and more positive people ❤️
Absolutely, attracting positivity is key to a fulfilling life!
@@Stoicism.Everyday101 yes 💯❤️
Hi . How to do this ? I need my energy back:( I’m losing myself:(
Rejection is a bitter thing and it's not easy to overcome,
It only takes Gods Grace to forget and move ahead
Rejection can be tough, but with faith and perseverance, you can overcome it.
@@Stoicism.Everyday101 Could you specify which faith? Thank you
Kweli kabisa. Bila Mungu hutoboi
"No man is free who is not master of himself." - Epictetus
Before, my greatest fear is rejection.. but after watching this for many times . I'm already conquering that fear.❤thanks for this
That's amazing progress! Keep pushing forward and facing your fears head-on.
Running my own race. Doing my own thing. Ignore me, dont ignore me, i dont care.
Keep doing your thing, that's the spirit!
Excellent ❤
I used to believe remaining stoic was a way to shut down and deny emotions. Now I see it as a positive practice and relevant to us all.
Thank you for sharing your growth and insight on this. It's always inspiring to hear personal reflections like this.
"Very little is needed to make a happy life." - Marcus Aurelius
Strength + adversity = strong mindset! Love from Brazil
Your resilience shines through!
How has your journey through adversity shaped your mindset and perspective on life?
Strength for advertising 🙏🏼
I smile and thank them for saving me the trouble of having to find out he's not worth the time. You can't be heartbroken if it never got anywhere from the beginning. I would rather be rejected and save my time on something worthless in the end, and spend that time on my quest for the one I am looking for. Peace and love brings happiness and prosperity ✨️ 😊
That's a wise perspective! Recognizing early on who isn't worth your time saves you from unnecessary heartache. As Epictetus said, 'It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.' Your approach of focusing on peace and love brings true happiness and prosperity. Keep smiling and staying true to your quest. Peace and love to you! ✨😊
It's very difficult, when a person ignores u. Thanks for the video.
Feeling better
I really went through this... I had h good friend... I always care for her now in the end i was ignored... I asked her her behavior is hurting me a lot.. she never botherd and care about it as i am hurting... I was literally crying hard when this video showed up.. thank you this will help and will decrease my pain and agony... I was feeling i worthless in this friendship..
I'm so sorry to hear about your painful experience. It's tough when someone you care for doesn't reciprocate. Remember, as Marcus Aurelius said, 'Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears.' Your worth is not defined by how others treat you. You're strong for recognizing the hurt and seeking ways to heal. Focus on the people who truly value you and take care of your own well-being. You're deserving of genuine friendship and respect.
@@Stoicism.Everyday101 Thank you for the kind words. This means alot for my healing.
Yesterday, after more than 30 years of what I've come to realise and finally accept was a selfish friendship, I have cut ties. This message of dignity and courage could not have appeared on my feed at a better, most needed time. Closing doors on all "fairweathers" as I walk through these current storms to wash away what no longer serves me and embracing the rainbows to come
I'm glad this message came at the right time for you. As Seneca said, 'Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.' Ending a long, selfish friendship takes great courage and self-respect. By closing doors on those who no longer serve your well-being, you're making space for positive growth and new opportunities. Embrace the rainbows that follow the storms, and know that your journey towards a more authentic and fulfilling life is truly admirable.
I'm secure I'm confident I'm loved by Abba Father and I serve Abba Father. They are the ones with the problem of insecurities not me.
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt and empowering perspective. It's truly inspiring to see how your faith and confidence guide you through life's challenges. Recognizing your own worth and staying secure in your beliefs is a beautiful testament to your strength.
I would love to hear more about how your faith has shaped your confidence and outlook on life. Are there specific experiences or teachings that have particularly influenced you? Additionally, how do you maintain this sense of security and love in the face of others' insecurities?
Looking forward to hearing more about your journey!
I believe that embracing rejection as a tool for growth and resilience is a powerful mindset shift. Stoicism's emphasis on controlling what we can and practicing empathy resonates deeply. I'm inspired to reframe setbacks as opportunities and pivot towards success with renewed determination.
It's truly empowering to view rejection as a stepping stone towards growth and resilience. Stay strong on your journey!
No one should dictate your self worth but you. Good words indeed and actions. Sometimes ignorance truly is bliss.
Ignorance might be bliss, but knowledge is power. Keep learning and growing!
Always be ready to move on
STRENGTH IN ADVERSITY
Marcus Aurelius once said, 'The obstacle is the way,' and this video brilliantly showcases that philosophy with practical, real-world strategies. Turning indifference into a powerful statement of self-worth isn’t just about emotional resilience; it’s about embracing your intrinsic value. Curious to know, how have others practiced these stoic principles in daily challenges?
Kindness isn’t a transaction.. Enough said! Thank you very much for explaining all my fears…
Thank you for watching and for your kind words! It means a lot to me.
I relish in rejection. It doesn’t scare me, in the contrary I expect it from humans. I understand human nature, so I love this. But at first I thought I was proud/superior, oh no.. it’s advisable to be this way!
Embracing rejection can indeed be a powerful mindset to have in navigating life's challenges.
Without knowing this 13 way. I was doing it in my past 2 months. Where I started to understand my feelings, thoughts and actions. It's may be hilarious but these 3 have a lot of differences. Thank you for reminding us the fact that we are far more important than others opinions. ❤❤
Thank you for sharing your experience and for realizing the importance of valuing yourself over others' opinions. Keep growing!
Have been doing it without knowing since Covid lockdown, now I feel empowered and motivated to keep going.. Finally realized that all my kindness wasn’t a transaction but a beautiful gift. Thank you 🎉.
Looks like lockdown turned you into a kindness superhero! Keep using your powers for good.
You know these guys don't see that way ❤and they take everything personally❤
Indeed, everyone perceives things differently based on their own experiences and perspectives. Stoicism teaches us to focus on what is within our control-our own judgments and actions. Understanding this helps us navigate disagreements and differing viewpoints with equanimity.
A key thing is to meditate and not feel ashamed for who you are at your core. That meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Guilt by Harper Daniels helped me to slow down and ponder.
rejection is protection rejection is direction
rejection is resurrection
it ALWAYS works out for my highest good
Thank you for sharing this insightful perspective. Marcus Aurelius taught us to view obstacles as opportunities for growth. Trusting that it always works out for our highest good reminds us to accept and learn from every experience, knowing it shapes our path to wisdom and virtue. ✨
Strength in adversity! Maintain your worth! If others wish to love you, they will clearly do so! If not you will continue your path of virtue, understanding, and respect! Shining in self respect, self worth, and emotioal self sufficiency! Remember, authenticity is virtue focused in truely understanding, not unregulated spontaneous emotional reaction! 🙏☀️
Your words are truly inspiring, thank you for sharing such a powerful message!
No thank you! I am only reflecting your valuable lessons! I've watched many of your videos and am so grateful; they are my source for taking steps to embodiment of my best self.
God bless you.
Hey, who needs thanks when you're on the path to embodying your best self, right? Reflect on those lessons and shine bright like a diamond! Keep up the awesome work!
Its not about playing games. Its about regaining ur power and ur inner strength ❤
Most greatest few minutes of your life you will appreciate, you use these principles into your daily practices and you will come a long way thank you for your kindness words of wisdom.
Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. It means a lot to know that the video had a positive impact on you.
Strength in adversities, indeed. The stoic philosophy isnt new to me because the wise will exercise its methods and approaches to solving problems instinctively. I see this as a confirmation to what I already put into practice and it works.😊
The Stoics would be proud of your instinctive problem-solving skills! Keep up the good work.
We are not on the earth long enough to worry about whether people ignore us or not. We have to rise above those feelings it there problem not ours.
You’re absolutely right. Our time on Earth is limited, and it’s crucial to focus on what truly matters. As Marcus Aurelius said, “It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.” 🧘♂️✨
Rising above feelings of being ignored and understanding that it’s their problem, not ours, is a powerful mindset. By focusing on our own growth and values, we can lead a more fulfilling life. 🌟💪
Thank you for sharing this wise perspective! 🙏🌿
Stand tall and strong with dignity. Thank you for words of wisdom.
Showing strength thru adversely
Yes, Indeed!
I had a situation where I fancied this girl for a while we both were in relationships. And when we both separated from our ex partners, after 6 months we strayed talking to eachother. I build an image that she was perfect for me, that when I last knew her all them years ago she was perfect. We went on dates and I guess we realised we didn’t hold the same attraction. She stopped messaging, and one day I just messaged her with a clear picture. I said “I understand there’s no interest in taking things further, I wish you all the best take care” I literally dodged a bullet with her, and that’s not to say she’s a bad person she’s not. But watching this has made me realise how much she changed since I last knew her, or the fact I didn’t really know her at all.
Realizing the mismatch early on was key. Stoicism teaches acceptance of reality and self-awareness. Moving forward with maturity and detachment shows growth. Keep applying these lessons for a fulfilling journey ahead.
Strength and tenacity .
Thanks.I believe maintaining one's dignity is important..if you are not needed or wanted..whether professionally or personally,
quietly accept it..and move on..that's the only way I can cope with rejection..Thanks for your input..I find your advice useful and comforting.
Thank you for your kind words, I truly appreciate it!
Strength 💪& Adversity 🎉🌎🎉♥️🙏
Strength in adversity.The wisdom has changed my life positively
❤thank u. This was very helpful. I currenty am suffering from over thinking causing insomnia. Was always to ask because of regection. My head is lighter with this sesson 😊
What a gentle reminder for our self worth. Wow!! It just bring me back to life.❤
Your comment means the world to me, thank you for sharing your thoughts!
This narrator's voice and philosophy is incredibly Amazing Bravo 👏 Thumbs Up
Rejection is a part of life.we all go through it, and nobody is immune to it.but to engage in behavior that others push onto you(energy vampires,negative)only makes you as much like them as they are.Do yourself,life's to damn short to care what others feel,think,or do to you.ignoring them will make you the winner.You can refocus your life not being rude and unkind.i believe some what in karma....I call it.......sowing seeds.ive seen the worst people never reap karma.sooooo yep life's to short.
Thank you for sharing such wise words, it's always good to be reminded to focus on what's important.
The applicability of EVERYTHING in this video to my current life is fascinating ❤
Love the motivation. Gives me the feeling of freedom from evil people
That's awesome to hear! Keep that positive energy flowing!
This was my greatest fear, to be rejected. But, I learned that I have the power to move forward and the power to decide if I will stay on rock-bottom or I will rise again. Only I have the power to change my life and the power to anchor it.
Thank you for sharing your experience. 🌟 Facing the fear of rejection is incredibly challenging, but your realization is profound.🧘♂️✨
Understanding that you have the power to move forward and decide your path is a true testament to your inner strength. Whether you stay on rock bottom or rise again, the choice is yours alone. 💪🌿
Embrace this power to change your life and anchor it in resilience and determination. Your journey is inspiring, and I’m confident you will continue to grow and thrive. 🙏🚀
That narcissist ended our 8 years of relationship...treated me like hell ..ruined my mental health and shattered my soul..verbally abuseed me took away my money and gave me silent treatments and breadcrums of attention....can't get myself out of that shit till this day 😢😢
I'm really sorry to hear that you've gone through such a difficult and painful experience. It sounds incredibly challenging and I can understand how it can be hard to move forward. Here’s a compassionate response from a Stoic perspective:
Don't ever let a man see u as weak!! Your a powerful woman and dont need him! Trust me this video is so right!! Start to act like nothing he does bothers you it will drive him nuts an start to look super happy lol even if u have to fake it till you make it 😂 it works every time girl ❤❤❤ best of luck 😉
Watch the little shaman on you tube. She's an expert on narcissism and she was the only one who helped me when I was dealing with my narcissist ex... her videos saved my sanity
Strength in adversity. This can be applied to strategically. Idk how the maker of these videos came up with this but, it is absolutely incredible.
How can so much wisdom be wrapped in such a short amount of time?
Your appreciation means a lot to me. I strive to deliver valuable content in a concise manner.
The only validation that matter is the one you give to yourself 😊
Absolutely! The only validation that truly matters is the one you give yourself. As Marcus Aurelius said, 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.' Embrace self-validation and find strength within.
Strength through adversity 😊
Encourages focusing on personal growth and meaningful relationships, rather than seeking validation from those who overlook or reject you.
Strength In Adversity...
Self-Love
Self-care
Self-respect
Self-improvement
These are powerful principles: Strength in Adversity, Self-Love, Self-Care, Self-Respect, and Self-Improvement. As Epictetus said, 'No man is free who is not master of himself.' Embrace these values to navigate life's challenges and grow stronger each day. Keep nurturing yourself and your inner strength.
This came at perfect timing tune in yall❤
Thank you for tuning in and finding the video right when you needed it!
Yesss learn to value yourself independently ❤❤💯
Absolutely! 🌟 Learning to value yourself independently is one of the greatest strengths you can develop.
Strategies are in itself , Mind Games. Focus on compassionate results.
amen!!!
Thank you so much for your teachings
So much better after listening to this
I'm glad to hear that listening to this content has helped you feel better. As Seneca said, 'Sometimes even to live is an act of courage.' Keep embracing Stoic wisdom and finding strength in its teachings. Thank you for your feedback!
Stoic resilience 💪
I got through lot of mistakes. In the past I trusted wrong people who was so cold to me after a time. It was hard for me to feel the same before I met those people. But now I want to change my mind and start over again
It's commendable that you've learned from past mistakes and are now choosing to change your mindset and start fresh.
Strength in adversity
Wow, this video is a game-changer! It's amazing how turning rejection into a tool for personal growth can be so empowering. The stoic approach of staying calm and focused on self-improvement resonates deeply with me. Can't wait to apply these strategies in my daily life and see the positive changes. Thank you for this insightful content! 🌟
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! 🌟 I’m thrilled to hear that the video has been a game-changer for you. Turning rejection into a tool for growth aligns perfectly with the Stoic practice of transforming obstacles into opportunities. 💪✨
As Epictetus reminds us, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” 🌿 I’m excited for you to apply these strategies and witness the positive changes in your life. Keep embracing this path of self-improvement! 🙏🌈
Resilience and Self-discovery. Thanks for sharing
Strength in adversity 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽
Strength in adversities
I really needed this.... Being in a country where no one understands English I get picked on and people are very manipulative.... But Oh Boy did I need this.... What a transformation this has been.... Thank you 🙏🏼
I'm glad you found strength in the message. It can be tough feeling isolated in a place where language creates barriers, but remember that your inner resilience and understanding are your greatest allies. Keep holding onto that transformation-no one can take it away from you. Stay strong and centered. You're not alone on this journey. 🌍💪
Strength in adversity!
Powerful content, so grateful for this sharing, it’s helping me a lot.
I'm glad you found the video helpful!
Me too.
Always remember our self worth,
In order to maintain our self respect
Absolutely. Remembering our self-worth is key to maintaining our self-respect. As Marcus Aurelius said, 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.' When we value ourselves, we set a standard for how we deserve to be treated. Keep fostering your self-worth to uphold your self-respect.
Strength in adversity. I listened a couple of times because it's very good advice!! Thanks for video
My brain is never be the same!❤️ Thanks
Thank youuuuuuuu!!!
You're welcome! Glad you enjoyed it!
Strength in adversity. I can't imagine how wise the person who discovered this stoic mindset was, how long he researched this thought, and everything was full of self-development, there was no desire to bring down other people or take revenge
Absolutely! The stoic mindset really encourages us to focus on personal growth and resilience, rather than letting negativity drag us down.
"The best revenge is not to be like your enemy." - Marcus Aurelius
Strength in adversity!
Strength in adversity! Thanks for sharing ❤
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts! Keep that positivity going!
Strength in adversity. I like how we can turn the rejection on to ourselves by feeling proud of who we are and the strength that lies inside of us whether we know it’s there or not.
Absolutely! Embracing rejection as a chance to reflect and recognize our inner strength can be incredibly empowering. It's often in these challenging moments that we discover resilience and courage we might not have known we possessed. Celebrating that inner strength and pride, even in the face of adversity, can be a transformative way to turn setbacks into growth opportunities.
Literally needed this right now. Thank you and the universe for putting this in my feed ❤
You are so welcome
Respecting Your Peace 🕊️✌️🕊️✌️🕊️
That's definitely true!
Thankyou, may God in Heaven bless you for taking time out to teach, I will take these words into my heart and soul❤️🙏🏻🌹
I appreciate your kind words and am glad the video resonated with you. Keep learning and growing!
It empowers me with strength and resilience in the midst of adversity.
That's wonderful to hear! Keep harnessing that strength and resilience.
Thanks for this. Helped me plan to navigate a hurtful situation in a positive manner.
You're very welcome
Excellent ❤
I found myself practicing this for a week during a conflict. Super empowering and even more empowering knowing that I was being stoic without even realising
Looks like you've unlocked your stoic superpower! Keep channeling that inner strength!