If You GIVE To Others But Don't RECEIVE In Return - WATCH THIS | Jay Shetty
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'Circle of love: the love you give out, you will always get back, you just won't get it back from the same people you give it to.' đ€Żđđ
Yeah! I was also mind blown đđŒ
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
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Thatâs why it will be so much better.
@@afia9641 I have noticed this awkward loop as well, it doesn't seem to go away until you just stop loving people in the "conventional" sense. Not sure how, or why this comes to be, maybe people tend to chase "love", so if your chasing it from someone that isn't right, other people are as well.
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Donât allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. Youâre more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life â€ïž. Just allow grace to let it in.
Thankyou very much.I wish the same for you!đđŒ
â€ïžthanks for your kind wordsâ€ïž
I needed that today đ
thankyouâ€
I truly needed this, thanks a lot đ
I prefer to give, I feel better. I receive a lot of love from the universe, from God! It is always a ballance.
So beautifully felt and expressed. God bless you with His bountiful love and grace. The universe is a better place with folks like youđđž
@@ai172 When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
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Well said. Thanks for the reminder.
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Itâs a privilege to be in a position to give. That means youâre blessed with abundance. Even if you can freely offer a soothing word or a heartfelt smile. The blessing goes both ways.
Make an effort to give back to the people that love you rather than chasing someone who only knows to take from you and never give it back.
Seemran Horo, When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
@@afia9641 I understand this happens most of the time but you have to recognise if that is genuine love. In relationships love is never one sided it's mutual understanding love and respect for each other. so if a person loves you and you don't have feelings for them it's okay there is no future compatibility between the two to be in a relationship the person must let go of that love if he denies to let go then that's not true love in this case you don't have to worry about loving that person back. And one that we feel in love but they don't have the same feelings for us is most common thing happens while finding our perfect partner but you don't have to worry in this case if the person you fell in love is compatible with you then there is High chances of him falling in love with you in the future or if not then you have to let go of that person.
What if itâs your son? My son keeps taking but not give back. My husband said itâs his choice and the consequences he has to live with, but the choices he makes also hurts him and us. We have to stop enabling him.
Yasss
@@Nicole-gb4ze yes do what is right for you â€ïž
I have truly understood, just recently at the age of 42, to not expect someone to be the same way I am. They are their own person who responds and behaves differently from myself. This is an amazing revelation if you can accept it. You have to meet people where they are or move on. Much love to all â€
Oooh needed this! Allow them to be where they're at n move on
@@nativechique7589 Yes ma'am!! I'm glad you could get something from it đ
Thank you
Never saw it this way. Thank you! I needed this.
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Have been through 30 years of deceit n felt lost, angry and felt like a victim...but one day everything reversed n miraculously God blessed me with the wisdom to accept it, heal...n now iam the happiest person on the planet
It's such an awesome thing to hear in the morning. So glad that you are free from your long-standing troubles. Glory to God. More peace and blessings to you.
How you reversed it?
Spiritual awakening?
Such a blessing How ?
Happy for you đ€ Me too,happier!
Being in solitude. Healing, gratitude ,spirituality ,it really helps so much đ Enjoying lifeđđ
Unfortunately no, no one has ever pursued me EVER, not even my own. Iâve only received hurt, pain and isolation - but that hasnt stopped me from my goodwill, gratitude and love for others. But would be great to feel loved for just once in life
Sorry to hear of your experience in life. I wish and pray that you receive the love, and every associated thing, that your heart desires, during this lifetime itself. Stay blessed.
You are getting help on this comment. Even a single canny of grass is sometimes alot! Well i hope u get all the love.
I feel you.same same here but life is beautiful
Same
I'm in the same position. I give so much to friends and family, I feel as if I'm not receiving much back. I can do things for people many times over whether it's potential lovers or people I care about. But when I need something, I feel like I'm on my own. It can make me believe that I don't deserve an authentic type of love and affection. I've recently wondered if im too smart for my own good or am I unlucky when it comes to love. A lot of questions and no many answers.
This is exactly how I feel. Iâm filling the cups of my family but my cup is empty in return. I give but get nothing in return and Iâm not one to ask for things even if itâs just of their time to connect. I need to learn how to fill my own cup first.
@@jennifer6814 that's something I had to learn along the way. Sometimes people want more than you can give and it can be hard to know where to draw the line but once I noticed how my family gets into meaningless fights, the line was easier for.me to see. We will always have obligations to the people we care about, but we also have obligations to ourselves. Now, everyone in my family including me wants different things. I want to go.out in the country and discover the kind of person I want to be.
@@spencermulligan94 When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
@@afia9641 I haven't the slightest idea
Omg sam
It's not about giving love to recieve love. It's about connecting with others on a deep level. When I am kind, loving and caring to others and sweet and it doesn't open the doors for deep connection between us....I find that to be hard to deal with. A part of me has given up. Seems as if everyone is busy or all talk or just plain negative.
Me too.... WTH đ”âđ«đč
this
That demonstrates they are not at the same emotional or intellectual level and will remain
@@ts7814 my husband tells me the same thing. I tend to take it personally due to attachment injuries growing up. Thanks for your insightful reply!
I feel you
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what âsuccessâ is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat â€ïž
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
@@afia9641 I understand where youâre coming from! I used to feel the same way tons in the past. Let me ask you! What is the type of person you want in your life that you grow and build with?
@@NathalieLazo I know what I want any I also try to be the same kind of person.
Loyalty, kindness, Intelligence, good sense of humor, and physical/emotional chemistry with the person is what I want.
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What is âloveâ? Itâs giving of yourself without any expectation. Unconditionally. All else is ego.
Absolutely!
True
No one ever chase me. Or ever is present all the time. Theres no one who calls all the time or even ask me to go out. Am the one who always show care and concern for others
Youâre a giving nature. I find most people are not. You are blessed. May you always be happy.
your day will come. I seek something new out of my comfort zone. I went to university to study just to meet people, it could be friend, partner.
I feel you
@@nabscovers1005 thank u. At least there are ppl out here who do understand. Blessings
@@trinijoyl1720 I understand 100% i was always been the person who thinks what can i do to make someone happy, or plans a friendâs birthday, or comfort someone in need. Although i did get some stuff in return, but recently i feel like i cannot give anymore, because people and strangers around me seem to be mean and unworthy of my love and kindness. I feel like i lost my faith in humanity. I have given and now i mourn what i gave cause i got betrayed. My family made this feeling even worse due to their behavior
I am a giver also and your blessing
will come back to you.
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
What we search for in our partners or in our life is what we did or didnât get from our parentsđ„ so TRUEEEđș
TRUE UNFORTUNATELY
How true
That's why so many people with childhood issues face relationship problems when they grow up
@@sugandhaduttabagchi8615 When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
@@explore_with_sagan9596 When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
Realizing you're the *VICTIM* is one thing, staying there is another.
Have the realization that you're miserable and do what you *CAN* to change your reality.
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@@Introvertedalpha When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
Answer is NO. Nobody tried to love me to the extent I've loved others.
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
@@afia9641 i don't know. I'm no more intelligent than you.
Hey Soumya I feel you, your devastation and heartache. Protect yourself and keep your heart safe. Try to do activities involving creative things or some kind of art. I love someone so much that I am hating myself for putting myself through some ugly situations for him and still unable to come out of him. I love him but I am torn apart by him. It sucks very bad. Why would someone stir all the right feelings knowingly and even tell I love you back to me many number of times and when they find another woman tell me back that they just saw me and loved me as just a good friend. Why to mess with head and inflict such trauma and pain and cause emotional damage when they can simply break up and even after all these he tells me he loves me but not like the love they had for his ex and now with new woman. What does even love mean to such kind of people??? He feels guilty for hurting me and putting me through his shit. Why can't he ease my pain atleast by telling me to leave or say it's over and there's no more love??? Why still playing with my heart??? I go to temples just to pray for him and do archana on his name on his birthdays. He misused and indirectly abused my genuine love, madness for him, my kindness and care. He made every little thing complex. He made even expecting bare minimum things like loyalty, protecting sensitive sentiments and my everything very complex and alien things. It hurts being a friend as well as a lover and everything. It's a game for such people. They think only they have heartbreaks, pain, journeys, love, he is very unfair, blind and deaf towards me. I tolerated and accepted many unconventional things with love for him. He totally destroyed me. He knows that too and still humiliated me when I was still trying to process the recent betrayal he did to me, he humiliated the simplest form of me I was presenting keeping aside my dignity, self respect and ego. He fell from my grace then, he had lost my respect. When he cannot even take care of that raw form of mine, when he cannot treat me with respect and I was sobbing and sobbing and could not even be able to speak properly, my fighting for US and me he saw it like annoyance and harrasment. He looked very cheap and arrogant there. His heart looked very ugly there. I accepted every flaw, darkness and light in him, I was there with him at his lowest and darkest phases of his life but he could bot even listen to me and tolerate my weakest and lowest point of mine even for few days and humiliated me and called me negative and derogatory names, I was super shocked hearing all the shitty things he kept on yelling at me while I was sobbing and he was breaking my spirit and heart piece by piece like a butcher. He killed my soul then. I still forgave him and he arrogantly said he doesn't need my forgiveness, how cruel he must be!!! The cause of all chaos and damages was himself alone, he did very wrong to me and I was still trying to accept parts of it and trying to make myself stand by myself but he kept on breaking my heart and legs even to stand for myself. I always used to tell him that muthu I would still be loving you even when you hate yourself and would be standing for yourself even when you could not stand for yourself. He injured that person in me. I used to pray God to take me before he takes him or on the day he takes him. My love was like devotion and commitment for life. I expected atleast treating me with grace and respect but he made things very ugly that I cannot even stand for myself and by myself now. I kept telling him he could have broken up with me when he realised he is in love with another woman. But he says he loves me but he loves her more. He is playing football with my heart. He complicated every simple thing of my life. I made him the rest of my life and now I'm so lost in the darkness gifted by him to me. I'm scarred for life. He is merciless, unkind and brutal at heart. Never trust a man or a woman who has multiple hearts for multiple women or men. Not good for any, it mentally deranged me. I'm very disoriented now. I still love him but I don't want him. He is harmful to my mind. I would become a tragedy by still accepting his request to stay as friend to him after all these. He still accuses me that because of my wrong expectations he is losing me who had been a strong support and comfort. Can't he see I'm also just another human being who is sensitive and who is loving him and still taking all the shit??? He could have let me be just only a friend when I asked him myself. He assured he loves me and made me feel so many and we shared so much of ourselves to each other and still he doesn't have the ability that he is causing great pain to me even after I am telling him. Why why why??? He could sense others' hurt and others'well being but why he fails to understand mind even after explaining. He wants me to be his everything but he cannot even protect my bare minimum sentiments and concerns, no minimum emotional security, always leaving me in anxiety about him and my relationship with him. I hate myself for still loving him and still trying to understand him. He doesn't want to listen to what he is doing to me because it makes him feel more guilty. He is coward in my case. Muthu I love you and I hate you too but I hate myself more, I hate for being everything to you, I hate for not keeping boundaries between us, I just hate hoe you talked ugly to me, the one you promised to that you won't make her cry because making me cry would make you principally weak. You broke everything you said, you lied to me, you betrayed me, you broke my spirit which all you said you would never do to me. You said I was your treasure and now you don't even treat me respectfully. Kya hua re tere ko. You are mistreating me. You destroyed us. You ruined all of us. All of the beautiful things. You destroyed the trust, comfort, joy and confidence. Can't you even face guilty for me by atleast listening to my pain inflicted by you, don't you have atleast that heart, don't you ever apologise me in yourself when you are alone because I know that you would do that and that's why I said I forgive you for everything but still you are very rude and arrogant that you said you don't need my forgiveness. You are very utterly selfish and mean. You had never shown these even to your male best friends who had betrayed you. You know how much I love you and treasure you. Is this how you would lose me by devaluing me. Everyday every night every minute every second my mind, my thoughts revolved around you, how could you even talk to me like that. It takes my lifetime to even heal from the wounds you caused to me. I won't accept you now. You know how bad you have been towards me after she entered your life and after I started talking about ourselves. It's very cheap and bad of you for avoiding me and my talks and questions and fears and insecurities. You could have saved me from all of these by just simply breaking up with me. Everything else feels kinder to me re, even you telling me that you don't love me anymore or breaking up and ending our relationship than elongating it and talking ugly, demeaning and humiliating things to me, bullying me how I was crying and talking, imitating and making fun of me at my weakest and most vulnerable point. That was very evil of you. I never deserved to be spoken to like that. Never. Don't talk destroying things ever to the persons who love you and still with you. Don't play with your blessings and good things in your life. It was never needed for you to talk such ugly things. Mera dil ro raha hain. I'm bleeding inside because of the wounds caused by you.
@@voidmain9519 I feel you too. What can i say? Stay strong. You are Good. You are gold. Don't lower your value for others. Love will come to you. True love will find you. But before that you need to love yourself.
You are brave enough to speak your heart out. I really respect that. God bless you.
@@soumyabanerjee4205 Thank you Soumya. It made me smile when you said, "You are gold". Because even he used to say that I am gold and my heart is gold and that I am a pure soul. Yes I was and I am still too. Thank you for reminding this beautiful thing about me which I had forgotten. Truly. I would pick myself up and equip myself emotionally. But he lost me very bad. He knows that. He doesn't have the face to face me and my agony. I always wished and wanted him to be peaceful and be happy with himself. Wherever and whoever with he is now still I would wish the same. Now I will love myself and heal by myself and take care of my life and my people. I just feel sorry that he could have left me gracefully and I would have really appreciated and respected that than making things ugly and causing irrepairable damage to lives. I absolve you muthu. I forgive you. You don't want me to leave but I am unhooking myself now. It's not good and healthy for any. I wish good and the best things for you. Take care of yourself and family. My love for you stays the same even after you hurting me very bad and you are my unfulfilled dream and goal. I just wished to sit beside you atleast in the dark but little far away to take care of you when you fall again. But you pushed me away even from there too. Even after all humiliation you behave as if nothing happened and tell again that you do love me while still loving her. Don't commit sin. I won't let you do that as much as I can. Be safe and be good.
One of the best talks I've ever heard. The complex simplicity and every word just vibrates with the real truth of existence. Thank you
What you pay attention to will define, for you, what reality is.
great insight
@@Introvertedalpha When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that scenario???
Yep
I think in the paradox between giving to others and giving to oneself, or giving to others and expecting others to give, the balancing factor can be "In everything you do, do as if done to God, and not to people. And He, the Faithful One, will repay a hundred fold." Setting up such an attitude is the sure way to life - a life full of peace, joy and gratitude.
That Rings true brother!
How beautiful love and happiness to you ....words can really heal...
Yes but god doesnât want us to keep giving to people that hurt us. He wants us to have discernment when to walk away and love from afar. He said to not have fellowship with people like that.
@@daughteroftheking6402 When to stay and when to walk away, as an act of love, is a difficult thing to discern. No two persons can get into the same shoe at the same time and experience the same thing. Each of us may have an understanding of how love works, or ought to work, in any given situation, but it is the Mind of God, the Holy Spirit, who helps and guides us to improve upon our ability to love, as God in Jesus, loved.
Having loved His own He loved them till the end... That's the love of God in action in Jesus Christ.
Yes at some point you have to focus on you
I have was having this same conversations with my friend this week. Karam is real and you do get back 3 fold đ
Most of this is common sense, yet very much needed to be said & practiced as well. Thank you for putting things in a different perspective for those in need of a little lightđ
Thankyou so much for this video. I can't tell you how much it has helped me to gain perspective. On giving and receiving love. On people unintentionally. Truly an amazing sense of perspective.
As long as Jay is there, I feel fine. This is the cheapest and the most effective therapy I could ever get!
This so helpful and mind opening, in every way, thank you so much! I'm going to listen to it again and again until I have taken it all in and it will be my truth within. And all the best to everybody here!đ€
I found out to keep learning!! Cant know what you dont know unless you assume you dont know and seek to find out
Yes always! At 60 Iâm tired of not getting filled back up. Iâm empty. Ty for this
Oh my god, this is completely eye-opening. Thank You !!! đâ€đ
The best advices Jay. I just put myself on the right path through your advices and your book and all your stories. Thank you a lot đâ€ïž
You're a beautiful person Jay! This was an amazing video. Thank you. Can't wait to sign up for the Daily Jay!
Truly remarkable, inspiring beyond imagination...Jay Shetty & Radhi, you both are a Blessing to so many people who you mean a lot to...an inspiration & motivating too.....ALl the best to you, Thank you for all the courage you instill in others & more....
I always feel gifted to appreciate him and admire him and all his programs his dedicated service to all the people my favourite speaker Jay genius.
Your absolutely right
We may have hurt others that never hurt us and vice versa
Thank you, I wish you a million times more than you give .đ
Stop chasing for love in the outside world. Find peace in yourself. And give out love, not becaus you want to receive but just becaus you want to give.
The question is how?
Good advice. đđŸ I love the unknown about anything that will give me education & information †it's the best way to learn how to overcome
Ohhh my God! Everything I am looking for in a single video!
Exactly đŻ how I feel. This is what I needed . Thank you!
Found this at the perfect moment, this helped me heal. â€đđ»
I had that same thought the other day; it goes both ways.
†††so true! (Thanks for sharing wisdom regarding "Rejection".)
Wow. Wow. Wow. Thatâs all I can say. Sincerely- THANK YOU for this video.
Great.I understand it completely. We need to live mindfully
I wish my sister couldâve heard more talks like this to help her in her pain.đ
What you search for in our partner or in life is what you did or didnât get from your parents?
I donât know what I needed, I grew up with safety and love from my mom and family.
Love hearing such wise and impactful thoughts and truth.â€ïž
Thanks jay good topic what goes around comes around đ what you give out does come back
Thank you so much! I needed this message so much at this time!
I love to create and to give. At the end of a relationship I felt bad because I had given so much but didn`t feel appreciated. I wondered if I owed the person something from a previous life, if I would receive from someone else, if I had simply been a fool. A close friend told me that he had seen what I had done and that it had been life changing for my ex. But really it wasn`t about him, karma, or exchange. It was that I get to be the person who has so much love and abundance that I can give continuously. I walked away from that conversation feeling that the treasure lies within me. It doesn`t matter if the person on the outside feels appreciative. It matters that I have more and as I give I feel more expansive.
Thank you for posting the video.
Perspective. Beautiful insight.
Wow this man is extremely wise and insightful.
Always best my favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very much.
I agree to an extent. Thereâs good people that experience so much hurt for no reason. Thatâs not karma. Donât be a victim but donât blame yourself.
You have to be grateful to receive what is already yours to live through.
Jay.... Thank you.đč .. for helping me to realise my mistake. I do need healing from the one who rejected me.
even im going through the same ... this too shall pass ... we need to slowly get over this ... time heals
Thank YOU for sharing your time & wisdomâŁïž MUCH LoVe... đ
Thank you for that sentiment
Don't give something because you want something back. Give and love because you BELIEVE in what you do. It's similar in choosing your path of service in life. Choose something that you truly believe deep inside your heart. God loves a cheerful giver. This means that an honest loving heart giving little is more important than a person who gives a lot but with a disdainful heart.
I love this man. Completely changed the way I look at the world.
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
Yes this is true â€
Unconditional love and acceptance is what Iâm currently working on
Yes, this is what we seek for, the connection and the bond
Woww...i really needed this..i already feel so much better!!
I really loved this video, thank you â€ïž
This is so good . Thank you for sharing !
It's about being equally willing to recieving as you are giving :)
Super Positive mindset Jaysetty Guru
My best professor Jay genius
Iâm praying for you Tony and you can find god and that you can push your egos/demons out from you. In Jesus name amen
I'm on a path to rectify my wrongs and give back to the person who was there for me when i wasn't giving back. I hope she can forgive me for being so blind for so long.
This was so beautiful to hear. Did you contact her Darren???
Just what i needed â€ïžâ€ïž. Thank you
Thank you so much for this video.
Thank you for sharing as always. You are right ! I totally agree with you. I have experienced it myself
@Reckin Lucas entire world knows about this scamming scheme now. All i would say to you is, what goes around comes around
So true !! †just find ur motivational talk perfectly timed as always.. Gratitude đ
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
Wow this was something I needed today. Thank you!
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
This is reallly profound
Hallelujah Glory be to God praise Jesus amen đđ»#JesusisLove #GodisKing
Awesome speech my favourite speaker Jay genius
This has been many things so clear
I LOVE the APP Calm, in fact that's where I found you. I listen first thing in the morning to the 3 meditations that are brought up and it's really helped. Have a ways to go but I'm getting there. Thank you.
Me too
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
I've helped people all my life even helped someone who used me
This is so very powerful â€ïžđ
This helped me a lot. Over the past few years, I have initiated 8 hangouts with my friend and 14 dates with my boyfriend who is now my ex. I asked for them to initiate back but they didn't. I realise they weren't comfortable with initiating and I felt betrayed and hurt. I'm now looking to hire a life coach to work on issues like reciprocity.
Your a friend I want to hear more! Brilliant I connected đ„
Jay you won't believe that how much my whole has changed through your book đ€đ
Whatâs the name of the book please?
@@Anonymous-nt4sz think like a monk
You are a great guidence Jay. I wish that I knew you channel early on. :) but I am keeping following up every of your video which really give me a very positive outcome in the way I see the solutions in the hard time. Thank you very much Jay.
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
It's crazy, we spend so much time and effort loosing ourselves, running away from who we are, until we finally crash, then we spend the rest of how ever many years we have left finding ourselves again, reparenting and undoing the damage we've caused for years and years. Life itself is truly a journey.
Thank you đđœ
Thanku universe, thankuu pink energy for the reconciliation â€ïžâ€ïž
I was taken for granted by people who I loved very much. Why is life so hard for the good people
Thank you đ †I needed to hear that.
Thanks Jay Your book is a masterpiece by the way,...it really changed my perspective and punched me back into a life full of purpose from a broken mindset.
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
@@afia9641 I think the best we can do is to be grateful to them totally and try to reciprocate the care and respect back just as any other human being rest all may happen automatically like who knows you fall for that person after we all love to get love and care from someone and realizing the thing which you just said is even a bug thing for many and you saying this is itself a sign that you care. Also I have never experienced this so dunno if my words are totally accurate or not.
Very good topic here. It's best to love and invest in people smart and in a healthy way. Sometimes it's good to give and not expect anything in return. Then there are times and situations you expect love to be extended to you from those you have extended love. Knowing when and were, what's healthy and what's not will help you mentally and understand what's happening in your life.
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
Never give up people I was 40ibs over weight I wanted to die i wanted to give up I went to my comfort food which was sugar and I would binge out on it every night crying myself to sleep but now I've changed but it took a while now im off sugar hitting the gym working out taking care of my body
When it comes to a man and woman relationship, I have noticed that the ones we love dont feel the same for us, and the ones we get love from , we dont feel same for them. They dont excite/attract us at all, we dont feel anything for them. What to do in that situation???
Shaun Walker. May I ask how you got off sugar? I am struggling with that issue as well. Please and thank you.
@@debramcmartin905 it takes time you have to say to yourself will this 5 min of great taste benefit me in the long run and go from there
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Great video Jay.
Thank you
He is a wise person
Finding it very difficult to move on from a heartbreak since July..it's Oct now and I still cry now and then wishing the man I love didn't leave me the way things transpired. Heart never ever breaks even in a break up. Most often one person almost never heal.
So True!!
I don't get much back unfortunately đđ that's the truth.... Hoping to move to a better busier place, where there's more choices, more to do đđâ€ïž
đ God knows đđŸ I feel to send this video to 2 people in my "family" đđ€ŠđŸââïž
Only narcissists chase me so I'm good not receiving anything at all. just busy investing in myself instead of expecting reciprocation from others. The more love I'm receiving from myself, the more love I'm giving myself and that's what I need now. Self validation in other words
Inspirational. Thanks