HE DOES NOT LOVE ME ANYMORE || Justice Court EP 136
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It is better to live in the desert than to live with this type of woman.
This is a lesson that we should always listen to the two sides b4 we judge anyone, I’m so sorry for this man and I’m so sorry for insulting him before hearing him out, some women can give you a hell on earth.
you're right
Perfecly said
Me too I was actually judging him when she was narrating her own hmmm let my husband come and see violent women oooo
Well spoken. That lady looked innocent but has no wisdom of managing her home. She locked out the man that accepted her child as his biological father and cared for him.
@@ritaakudo9410 🤣🤣🤣 please leave your man out of this biko
when a good man is fed up, nothing anyone can do about it.
This man speaks so good😊
He is polished
And has a calm mien too
😂😂😂
Much English is the result why the Marriage failed
The gentleness of Emma Bello flows in the blood stream of his family. I remember the younger brother, Anthony Bello of blessed memory, their father a jovial old man.
Emmanuel was my model of gentleness. I loved to see him around during any of our religious gatherings.
Watching you on this episode of justice court has made me ponder on the irony of life. 'This life no balance at all'. Every good woman would have love to have you as a husband but unfortunately, your Marital life has been hell from your explanation.
I pray that God will give you peace of mind.
Brother! Emmanuel Bello as we used to call you back in the day, you're one of those that taught me gentleness. I also remember your adage; everybody's goat is nobody's 🐐 and that goat will either die of hunger or gluttony.
Wow. You sure know him... obviously mistakes were made. He even took her in without first marrying her. Sad.
The lady is a trouble maker
God will fight for this man
Are you saying you knew him?
@@d-artam8968 Yes, i do very well.
Her body language says it all, she is a piece of work
I really love Mr. Bello, he is really someone who keeps details. This is one story that supported my stand that a man should not be handed 100% blame in a divorce case. Looking at Mrs. Bello's countenance its obvious she is a troublesome woman. Look at her, she never mentioned all her bad side and that is the same story she will be playing into people's brain to make her man bad. Sames goes to every woman who has been involved in divorce. You cant claim to be a victim in a situation you join to create.
I agree with you, that this woman is troublesome.
She is a bad woman
Is really good to hear stories from both sides before concluding on who is wrong. I was thinking Mr. Bello must be a devil when i was listening to Mrs Bello. But later hearing the man's side of the story and the way the woman was even reacting to it made it very obvious who the bad person is between the two of them. The man must have really had enough and decided to run to save his life.
@@evelyinipaja7022l😊
Unhappy marriages are so sad! I pray they both find peace.
Amen
This is what you get when you marry out of pity. He met a single mother struggling to provide for her son he helped and affection grew.
Apt
Am telling you, this is my first word when he explained how she mate her
It is always advisable to avoid a single mother unless her husband is dead, anything other than that is a no no
@@quicklinks1643 you not serious! What has single mother got to do with someone's personality
@@queenoparaugo2356 don’t mind him …people will just open their mouth waaaaa…
Chai!!!! We men are going through a lot. Thank God Hakimi paid back. Just 1 time but gives us a sigh of relief.
Look at how she kept her neck when he was talking 😂.
Suspicious
I can just imagine how justified and relieved her former lover feels now watching this. Once a person is damaged or battered from a previous relationship, marrying her may be suicidal. Such a person is likely to avenge all pains of that previous relationship on you. Marrying out of pity is destructive.
Anyways, the main issue here is the welfare of the kids as the marriage is definitely gone. However, paternity test is required for all 4 children to truly ascertain that those are his children. I comment my full reserve for now until final episode.
Gracias!
Paternity test for what?what was he thinking before they started bearing his name.?was he sleeping.?
@@nduodiaka1739 Never too late to do test. Bearing his name doesn’t make him their father
@@taracarson9466 Yes, you are right.
But to decide now for parternity test makes no sense.If they are not his children, psychological and emotionally the lifes of those
children will be ruined.He would have done that before the ones born to him by the woman started bearing his name .And again , their birth certificates carries his name.How will you feel if you now know that the name on your birth certificate is not of your real father when you became young adult or you know a little bit of things about life .?
@@nduodiaka1739
You're just emotional on the issue, paternity test can be done anytime if the need arise, even if its 50yrs. The husband can even do his own paternity test if there are findings that his mother once cheated on his father way back.
So for a woman like this, paternity test is very important. Forget about birth certificate, trauma, they have been bearing his name, he didn't do it from the beginning, its now that he wants to do it, and all that.
You can't use those excuses not to checkmate a cheating partner.
What if the biological father is somewhere waiting, and this man is raising the kids, how will his old age look like?
Unless you are scared for the woman and looking for a soft landing for her.
@@fridaynetel4609 He has the full right to do parternity test I am only talking in the interest of those innocent children,
So happy to see Judge Funmi doing what she knows how to do best
Anybody complaining about abuses in their previous relationship before they meet you, u need to make a rigorous background check before you proceed with the relationship with them because most times they're actually the abuser.
She does not want to grow and mature. He is an older and humble person who wants a quiet life while she still wants to go out and explore. I believe she got with him because he felt pity on her and she knows he would provide. She certaintly is not ready to be monogamist
Exactly
Woman and their "weakest point" moves. She a smart woman, see her narrative how she went straight to the kids and build it with emotions and pity while she the fire cracker in the marriage
I can relate very well, the man should find a life again.
My brother run ooo run ooo
He needs a DNA please, all i can see in her is narcissistic behavior.
Lol 😆 I thought the same , I know a story like this and it turned out the woman committed paternity court.
Exactly my view. The woman is evil. The man is very weak.
You see ladies with this type of stature and size, I dey fear them oo.
And Tall guys love those small size women so much
I have same perception about women with this stature
@@sandraaugustine6316 I dnt ooo
This stature? Very arrogant set of human being
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She beat someone's child and mistreated them!!!!!??? She deserves what she gets
Husbands even if you are not interested in the marriage please don't let it affect the welfare of the children.
May God have mercy on this troublesome woman
may God not allow us to settle down with a wrong partner , they were not made to be together💔💔😢😢
Amennnnnnn!
@@favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 AMEN
He who fineth a wife fineth a good thing and uptaineth favor from God.theres no perfect match in marriage,is only those who are there makes it perfect.untill everyone knows there limits marriage will never stand.if you like be a real pastor.and one person can't fight for a better home, the two must put head together
The most important part is the upkeep of your children
Some women will make you run away even from your shadow. Seriously I fear Nigerian women.
Thank God you said some women
Please don't fear us boss😫 we are nothing without Nigerian men😃
How about those decent woman with the fear of God, pls all women are not the same.
@@anthoniaaniebor6798 and that is why I said some
@@ChikaruthTv I did say some because I know it's not all
One of the Nigerian program that makes me happy ☺️☺️
Aswear
The only court that works and follows the rules of judiciary in the Nigeria at the moment.
I am ashamed becos before the husband spoke I was cursing him. As soon as he spoke to tell his side I knew he was a good man. Yes he should move on with his life
This is why you have to listen to both sides of the story.
Exactly my advice to the man... Aggressive women can drain a man Financially and Physically.. talking out of experience
@@SkidCudi Exactly my point.
Exactly! Before the man spoke, I was already very angry with him. Yes, we must always listen carefully to both sides of the story.
Lol
Perfect place to make peace ✌️
this man is too learned for this lady
The way she first petitioned her case as if she was innocent.
I swear 😂😂
This life no balance truly. Some women are virtuous women but just enduring their relationship. But this woman has her man but the man is the one enduring it
It is really unfortunate that Mrs Bello is unable to control herself during Mr Bello's testimony as her body language really indicates that she has an anger management issues. Her Husband was very quiet during her testimony. Mrs Bello is unable refute the allegation about her violence towards her Husband or her various neighbours including possible adultery. She should go for anger management, and also should include her husband in relationship counselling. I reserve my further comments until the conclusion of the case.
Marriage is a school you got a certificate b4 you start d school without exam, yet know graduations, it just endurance nd hoping one day dead will set in to put asunder
The man is calm does not make him a saint. From his shortcoming, he lacks the duty of care to the children. Irrespective of what must have happened between them, the children welfare comes first.
Bros , what else have you got in reserve
@@pekunfajemisin1238 🤣🤣🤣 I wonder oo
@@mobi6341 yes, the welfare of the children come first, but when you have a wife like this, you will regret your life and don't want to have anything to do with such woman. Where he made the mistake is not bringing her first daughter to take responsibility. Open account for her and send every penny to your daughter. At least 15yrs is matured enough while he allow the woman to leave a single mother's life. She have a child before and this man took the responsibility of the child, but she have the heart and mind to lock him outside of his own house, house the she is not paying rent. Women are crying outside they don't have husband, why you that have is pushing him outside. If she is frustrated, she don't have the right to put her frustration on another person. Everybody is frustrated in the country, most people are just managing their frustration.
This woman is something else !!
Ma'am you're the best lawyer in the whole wide world 😌♥️♥️ I love you..I wish you more wisdom, knowledge and prosperity ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼❣️
Oh no. May he run far away from this woman and never look back. I even feel bad for him, he has to tolerate her until the kids are 18 years.
I'm telling you, you sometimes is just like to be single for life is better, from my observation here this lady has no good intentions towards this man
No. The man can have their custody earlier than 18yrs old
Damn this man is real gentle man
Some gentle men can still make a woman suffer o. Lol... I know this woman has her faults but the man should take care of his kids.
Juggling between emotional display while speaking to get sympathy and signs of disgust and rage while he speaks says a lot. If you don't know what narcissistic behaviours are, you are not truly safe.
Please who is a narcissist and what are their character traits?
I noticed that as well. And she smirked all through.
God Bless You
@@Storessa1. do your research online.
@@BeckEddie please let me ayokunle reply me
I know why I asked
I can't stop enjoying the disposition of this beautiful cool young judge.
Mrs Bello needs to go for anger management workshop. I pray her husband forgives her because he has already had enough.
Forgive who? Just dey play, he has already shoot himself in the foot by marrying a single mother and forgiving her cheating ass something he shouldn't have done. Any man that forgive a cheating woman will have himself to blame
i have been in such a situation and i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i could not let the love of my life go
@Philip C Carpentier Here, Sylvia Regina White, she is a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex. lookher up, youll find her website
Congratulations sir
@@julietwasih1656ok
@@deanaWnelson scammer 😂😂😂😂😂
I love the man’s eloquence 💋💋
Red flags before you got married and still you went ahead and married her!!!! This young man is just so cool!!!!
Peace is a very valuable asset. Everybody needs peace.
*Note* my comment was written before I heard Oga Bello talk and he proved my comment right.
Now I understand why the Bible says " it is better to live alone in the corner of the roof than live with a quarrelsome wife in a mansion " Proverbs 25:24
wrong verse aunty
You're so on point! The Bible is so so complete.
@@alabisundayakinlabi3897 Edited, thanks for the correction 🙏🏽
I think the guy is a peaceful and humble guy she drove him away and when a man back's up they back up for real
Thanks dear for preaching
My candid advise to the is that regardless...show your children love and be responsible.
Is always good to hear from both side
i know her type...the need DNA to even confirm those children....
Happy to see Justice court notification
E dey give me joy
And . learning alot
Thank you ma
God bless you
The man is from same state as me wow
Me too ✋️
Shes so immature.... she's still feeling fine girl and can do life. Accepting money from a man outside without the consent of your husband. Bro leave her tf alone.
The Lady is collected as well and seem to be calm even when the man was explaining his side of the story. Please takecare of your kids
Lol it was very difficult for her. I could tell from her body language.
The body language of that woman justified the man's statement. The woman onws the man a lot of honour for ever accepting her with a son that's not his biological child. If the woman is not problematic, I believe there wouldn't be any cause for alarm.
Was he force to marry her with a son?
Courtship in relationship is as important as marriage NEVER ignored signs if you can't manage courtship you are 99% likely not going to manage your marriage...
But women can hide there character at that stage, you can easily know a man during courtship.
Mere looking at her face one would know she is contentious and confrontational.they love taking advantage of a gentleman.
This woman is a case oo jesus 😭 see soft spoken man, caring and a provider gosh
I laughed hard when Akin said Priscilla Ojo 😂,he must be a big fan of Priscy;Iyabo Ojo’s daughter
😂😂😂😂
Pls do you know how I can locate justice court in Lagos
@@taiwodamolalydia35
lol🤣🤣
I understand how it may not be fair that the children are affected but this man is severely traumatised by this woman that he is willing to avoid her by all means. He said her phone number gives him bad memories, that's a sign of severe trauma and that was totally disregarded in this proceeding. I feel so much for this man eventhough I blame him for staying to the point where he became traumatised. He should have left at the first sight of violence, someone is violent and you still decided to marry her.
Family members probably confused him. Recall when he said a family member joked that their problems stemmed from their union not being legalized which prompted him to do a church wedding but the lady picked a fight on their way back from the wedding?
Watching from U.K. much luv to the amazing judge 👩⚖️🇳🇬💐💐
Hi, also from the UK
That man is a good man. God bless you judge funmi
ThIs woman is a curse upon this gentle calm man & it's his decency & calmness that this heartless woman is using against him & even taking advantage of as well... She's simply evil & doesn't deserve such a responsible man... She has no respect for her husband.. As a lady, I wish the man can divorce her to have peace of mind...
Alot of people here won't understand what the man is going through. Immediately you marry a wrong partner....boom your hell start here on earth
Even if the woman is problematic as he claims, that is not a good enough excuse to neglect your kids! Judge Funmi will correct him next episode!
How are we even sure...the kids are his....
you don't know violent women who want to use kids to nail a man down
@@princeemmanuel2544 but they is not prove yet , that the kids are not his. And he never denied the kids. So why will he abandon them?
Please don't judge him for abandoning the kids,we may not know what he may be passing through
No let her hear you o...🤣
There IS Always two sides to a story.. I started hating on the man when She gave her own verdict... NOW SEE all he said 🙄
A coin has 2 sides
Whatever he says he MUST pay school fees
That lady might look all calm & collected...but I see a very violent & problematic person in her. The man has a commendable calm & humble demeanor.
POV: In whatever you do, never settle with the wrong partner. Pray for Grace!!
Kudos to Judge Funmi ❤️ Looking forward to part2 🤞🏽
They got married in Church 😂😂 if you are a child of God or believe in God why can't God reveal it to you
The woman get issues ooooo.....
Wonders shall never end....person see better man dey make issues.
This man don try oooo
I feel the man is regretting meeting the woman.
What a sad story.
Pastor
This is a hard one, but the man is more believable than the lady. The worst thing is to marry a narcissist. The trauma alone is mind addling.
Oh, you are so on point. This is that point where they say we should forget about their past. We need to know what happened in her first marriage or situationship
The man is believable because he is a man 🙄
Please explain who a narcissist is in your own terms?
@@nnamdigifted5789 This is the problem with Nigeria, it's a misogynisgtic society. Men are put on a pedestal. How can you make such an ignorant statement, "men don't lie".
@@aaa-pp madam this is the problem with us women, we see the truth and claim ignorance, how is it possible for her to move when the rent has not expired, and also said she is scared he will relocate them to his village, did you not see the lies she blows
That lady with gold short hair always present In court....her facial expression tho😆
A real gentleman!
I see a man who left all the love of his children with his wife,they are closer to her, she's turning them against him ..
Thank God they Will watch this video when they grow up
Peace of mind is important 😌
Bello run, my brother. I fear for your love. she's not serious
This calm and gentle man just ended up with a very wrong partner…it’s a pity
Always 2 sides to a story o. Peace is priceless.
That girl is the trouble maker. She's not ready for marriage and she's the one destroying the family. She doesn't want the man to take the children to his parents while she took them to her parent's house.
If it were those days the children will always be in their father's side while the mother will be visiting... My dad/mom separated when we're very tender (4, 6,9yrs old) and three of us was moved to father's side while our mom used to visit us. What a terrible moment though 😭😭😭 and I don't pray that any child should experience it.
Your mum didn't go to court cos she had no money....
@@nwoluoluchi109 those days nothing like that dear
Wouldn't say anything either to come to conclusion, till I finally see the next episode
Is always good to end this thing before kids get involved.
The plaintiff is a typical angry mother. Just how she stands, chewing gum in the court shows lack of respect. I know the defendant is frustrated. He should seek a lawyer to organize the upkeep for the kids should be done. I pray the kids make something of their lives or are able to live with their father eventually.
I see no evidence of her being angry or chewing gum I think you are mistaken
From her action, The lady is violent. Chief move on, just try and provide for your kids. That lady is not a wife material, someone that gave your son his surname. You are still abusing him.
Really? Is he Father material, just giving someone a name is something to write home about? After not seeing them for over a year and fine about it. Why is he not the one in court to compel the woman to allow him see them?
Thank God u r not a judge, passing judgement without hearing the substance of the case
@@alinayili2199 "just giving someone a name is something to write home about?"
He took care of the boy and paid for his upkeep even before he started dating the woman... even when the boy's biological father didn't care to do it. yes, he should have fought more to see his children. On that he shares some blame. But it's quite clear that the bulk of the blame for the failing of the family falls on that woman.
I wonder oooo
@@easyware it seems u won't have taken care of another fella? I don't know the people u mingle with cos u r standing on him accepting the child as some big. Well it's not, from my circle, we take care of people without any possible benefits eg sex with the woman.
A judge is someone who has heard from both sides, asked questions, with a whim to spot liars etc. He/ she doesn't bring personal sentiments.
That's why God is a Judge. He is seen all and knows the heart that is the intent .
Paternity test should be done on all the kids before any next step.
God bless you judge for your great widom
See how she started with "🥺🥺🥺 your lordship and he did this and that" damn...obiriiiinn
I love their command of English
My Northern brother can speak good English... That's nice
@@uchevickaye2919 hope he excels in his language too
Justice funmi should make this more of a conversation after getting the full story behind the scene so that we the viewers can get the full story also. It feels like an incomplete story because the plaintiff didn't get to defend her story
I embrace the views of the judge.
This is a spiritual problem and the solution is deliverance.
Paternity test is necessary in this case before the next step
From my personal opinion, and base on the testimony from the couples, the woman does not deserve this man. The man is too soft and gentle hence she took advantage of that to live the type of life she want. Sad!😔
Calm couples in speech but only God knows how their tolerance cycle is. But I think judge funmi is doing a great job.
It's good to listen to the two people o.
This man has been through alot.
Chai
As much as I sympathise with this man, he should NEVER have deserted his children including his step son. So sad when marriages don't work, there's a lot more to this story, you can't understand in one sitting, people shouldn't be too quick to judge.
@@Ceedee824 You might have missed out on the part where they said the child now bears his name, if he adopted the child, that's his responsibility now. You don't have to be the father to have responsibility over a child. There's nothing wrong with marrying a woman with a child, he knew she had a child when he married her.
@@Ceedee824
Raising an innocent child is not mumu.
Say no to single mother men no go hear...they are bitter and narcissistic in nature u sound like one
I can really relate to this story, the woman loves the man and the man loves the children. It's not easy to talk to such a woman, she has manipulative character. The man is going thru a lot
She looks like ogbanje lady with many ways to make trouble while this man is a complete gentle man that he's totally tired of her ogbanje characters.
@@michaelmichael5390 hahahahah
He has no excuse about duty of care to his children. That is wilful neglect😢
@@kogsysugarcraftcenter8252 but if it was the other way around She as an excuse abi ...double standard
She doesn't love him pls. This man has gone thru alot, how many men can tolerate a cheating wife? A wife that can lock her husband out of his own house? Let him do a DNA test n take care of his biological children, cos I'm sure some are not his.
I wish to see the case to the end. Hopefully we get to see the concluding episode.
I can't wait for next week 😉
The woman is the problem , women make homes so hostile the man had no choice but to leave for his sanity . That woman is a big problem you can tell
Both are eloquent and are able to express themselves clearly, no further comment till next week. God bless Judge Funmi.
I love that. That's an Open Minded person there
You know, these things will happen, going to church and don't have a relationship with your God. What kind of example are you setting for the children?
Marriage is d MOST difficult exam to write! NOBODY IS PERFECTED OR HAVE EVER GRADUATED FROM IT, EXCEPT WEN DEAD SET IN. EVERY FAMILY'S HAS THERE CROSS CARRYING. SO NOBODY QUALIFY TO MEDIATE ON MARRIAGE EXCEPT GOD D AUTHOR OF D MARRIAGE.
@@alinayili2199 What context of the text echoes "Open Mindedness"? This is the case of a woman that dispays an attitude that is horrifyingly reprehensible and I should expect a very objective analysis of the case at hand. Did you see the body language of the woman while the man spoke on the antecedents that led to them being in court?
How delightfully paradoxical that the "Plaintiff" was indeed the culprit. @Lola.The double standard is so palpable and I know that many women were disappointed with the man, hoping that he was indeed the violent one.
You had no room to vilify the plaintiff "Emma Bello" , and all you could speak on was how they were able to articulate their point(s), even though it was clear that the gentle man, with an unstintingly remarkable demeanour, was effortless in his diction and with his choice of words.
My point is that you would have sponsored an uprising if the man was indeed the villain and "The me-too" gremlins will have all risen to the occasion, to literally scavenge on the man's soul. You are suddenly lost for words.
The man is a good person I must tell you,well it's a lesson to my kind of person
Always vet people properly before allowing them into your life!
her body language says a lot already
The camera guy did a great job to focus on her facial expressions
Never missed an episode, notification when de give joy.
I love the judge ❤️❤️
Oh Lord give this innocent man peace of mind, women! Women!! Women!!! Una matter dey God ✋
People with hot temper should please go sort a solution. I dated a girl who had a very high one...thank God im free today
Hot *temper*