Dark skinned women who say dark skin is masculine used to upset and confuse me so much. They really don't understand how *their own* comments contribute to the negative stereotypes they experien🎉ce🤷🏽♀️
Exactly!💕 That's my point, like it's nothing wrong with having an honest opinion but, it's all in the delivery! If you want me to keep it cute with you, then, extend that same courtesy and keep it cute with me💕
@@candiicaine5596I never thought that dark skin women was masculine! I think ds blk women look very soft and feminine🌸 But I think men say that because women brag on their house, job and car... And they say that's what men are supposed to say😂
Very interesting ! I agree with you. Lightskin men get the worst when it comes to this topic , thank you for telling the truth & not being biased. 5:15 facts
I saw a viral tiktok where a lady said there is something wrong with light skinned people dating each other. It had 800k likes and 12k comments. Every other lightskinned & dark-skinned pairing is acceptable. I dont like that double standard. They were projecting hard in the comments
7:23 Thank you! Because poor mental health is the real root of this endless colorism argument. That’s why when unambiguous black people talk about colorism, it always goes back to child abuse and not receiving emotional validation from other unambiguous black people- things that should be discussed with a specialist.
Its always from men or the evil women in their family. Light skin women and mixed women are not as a whole making fun of dark skin girls and women. If anything we've always lifted them up
Aww thx love ❤ and sometimes it is actual colorism in some cases, I'm not trying to minimize that in any way! But often times, it's just people being people💕❤
On the new episode 13 of pop the balloon an Nigerian lady in the green dress told a mls guy that he was too light for her. In the comments a light skin woman said it was wrong for her to say that. But, I don't think it wrong for her to like men that resemble her phenotype. So it's not just mls guys that are told they cant have a preference. Some people believe dark-skin women shouldn't have a preference. Due to them being the most affect by colorism.
Regardless of light skin or dark skin, that guy was very annoying. When somebody isn't nice, people can feel the energy that's why most women were popping his balloon 😅
Why didn't you play the clip instead of trying to dictate the course of perception by showing a frame and detailing your sole perspective; without allowing people to draw their own conclusions off of a more complete perspective? Are we gonna keep playing victim Olympics with UABP and minimize or deny our privilege to make THEM feel better about themselves?
This is my channel! Everything on my channel is from my perception! Balloon pop dating with Arlett Amuli is on CZcams for everyone to see and draw whatever conclusion they want! And I'm sorry victim Olympics with UABP!???? Did you even watch the video????
It’s nothing more irritating than someone coming on someone else’s page telling them what they should or shouldn’t do. Just take what relates to you and what doesn’t just doesn’t.
Dark skinned women who say dark skin is masculine used to upset and confuse me so much. They really don't understand how *their own* comments contribute to the negative stereotypes they experien🎉ce🤷🏽♀️
Exactly!💕
That's my point, like it's nothing wrong with having an honest opinion but, it's all in the delivery!
If you want me to keep it cute with you, then, extend that same courtesy and keep it cute with me💕
Sincere question, how is dark skin masculine? That's such a strange thing to say
@@candiicaine5596I never thought that dark skin women was masculine! I think ds blk women look very soft and feminine🌸
But I think men say that because women brag on their house, job and car... And they say that's what men are supposed to say😂
Very interesting ! I agree with you. Lightskin men get the worst when it comes to this topic , thank you for telling the truth & not being biased.
5:15 facts
Of course ladybug❤
I can't do anything but tell it how I see it🌸❤❤
I saw a viral tiktok where a lady said there is something wrong with light skinned people dating each other. It had 800k likes and 12k comments. Every other lightskinned & dark-skinned pairing is acceptable. I dont like that double standard. They were projecting hard in the comments
Yeah, ppl are freaking weird!
But I have witnessed ppl getting triggered when MLS ppl date each other especially in the bc!
It's strange!
Lol, ds people feel like you are hiding your ls privilege and beauty from them lol.
@@ExoticalSaucethey hate the idea of us procreating!
@@michellemarshall4710
Lol, feel that we belong to them. Hate when non blacks find us appealing. Ds men and ds woman!
@@michellemarshall4710
Lol definitely don't. If they can cockblock, sabotage. They will!
Nobody can ever say we are beautiful without women hating us and attacking the character
Right! It hits a nerve or something
RIGHT!! UABW take it personally! Just because they give us compliments doesn’t mean they don’t think they maybe attractive as well.
@@ExoticalSaucethey get triggered as FUQ!!
7:23 Thank you! Because poor mental health is the real root of this endless colorism argument. That’s why when unambiguous black people talk about colorism, it always goes back to child abuse and not receiving emotional validation from other unambiguous black people- things that should be discussed with a specialist.
Absolutely!! 💕
I agree, or sometimes it's school yard trauma or poor family relationship.
But it's way too much to keep going unchecked
Its always from men or the evil women in their family. Light skin women and mixed women are not as a whole making fun of dark skin girls and women. If anything we've always lifted them up
7:20 I agree. They need to talk to a therapist .
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“MLS people, WE WOKE UP LIKE THIS!” Baby you snapped! Do you hear me!!??? 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
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@@ExoticalSauce 😂😂😂
I dig his shoes. Not a fan of the jacket.
The jacket is giving 1940s zoot suit
I was looking for this 😅
Man I wish your channel was around during the Twitter days because I use to have these ladies mindset thinking it’s colorism if your darker🤦♀️
Aww thx love ❤ and sometimes it is actual colorism in some cases, I'm not trying to minimize that in any way!
But often times, it's just people being people💕❤
omg i need to catch up on the pop the balloon show 😂
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Same
Oohhh i need to watch this
Hope you enjoy 🥰🤣
@@ExoticalSauce I did, thank you for your insight 💖👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 excellent video!!
💕💕❤@@PrivilegedExotical
On the new episode 13 of pop the balloon an Nigerian lady in the green dress told a mls guy that he was too light for her. In the comments a light skin woman said it was wrong for her to say that. But, I don't think it wrong for her to like men that resemble her phenotype. So it's not just mls guys that are told they cant have a preference. Some people believe dark-skin women shouldn't have a preference. Due to them being the most affect by colorism.
Yeah.. That's true I've seen that a couple times your right ladybug❤
But those same women act hypocritical when a man regardless of his skin shade doesn’t prefer them.
Yeah.... That's because those women feel entitled to certain kinds of men... Not all of course but enough of them do!
Regardless of light skin or dark skin, that guy was very annoying. When somebody isn't nice, people can feel the energy that's why most women were popping his balloon 😅
He was quiet for the most part!
They kept rejecting him because they thought he was too light for them.
@@ExoticalSauce that's hella weird. I feel for the MLS men that get dragged by UADSBW.
@@paralegalbabe77
Me too because if it were the other way around it would be total outrage!!!!
Why didn't you play the clip instead of trying to dictate the course of perception by showing a frame and detailing your sole perspective; without allowing people to draw their own conclusions off of a more complete perspective? Are we gonna keep playing victim Olympics with UABP and minimize or deny our privilege to make THEM feel better about themselves?
This is my channel! Everything on my channel is from my perception!
Balloon pop dating with Arlett Amuli
is on CZcams for everyone to see and draw whatever conclusion they want!
And I'm sorry victim Olympics with UABP!????
Did you even watch the video????
It’s giving, start your own page!
It’s nothing more irritating than someone coming on someone else’s page telling them what they should or shouldn’t do. Just take what relates to you and what doesn’t just doesn’t.
Thank you!!! 💕