Well, I suppose I'm a boomer. It's just that I remember when I used to say this kinda stuff and now I really miss them. All the things they told me bout people n world where just so damn right and now I'm here standing watching the world burn all alone. My own negative feelings made me so numb bout others' pain. I should've take their advices
@@iconbabyxox Wh- I didn't say anything about black people, I was talking about my parents. Edit: Do all American people are obsessed with black people? Bc here in Mexico we're not so crazy bout that topic. Weirdos
everyone hates it when kids act annoying but want to be a kid themselves, probably because as a kid you don't think it's annoying, you think of it as fun and happiness
U always know why ure said and u can always do something about it. Mostly u decide to be sad thats probably the reason u dont know why u are sad. I dont say i am never sad. I say i try not to make myself sad. Thats how u get stronger. After the sadness is overcome there are more challenges in life u will have to complete. That's why most people want to stay sad. They just don't want to do the hard stuff. That's the reason there are more emo people around the globe. They wanna stay weak and sad so they don't have to any other hard challenges in life. Because if something goes wrong I can just kill myself right? U need failure to get stronger.
@@the-monk821 then that's great for you!! everyone is different and experience thing differently. i'm glad you sleep good at night, wish i could say the same.
Too old for innocence. Too young to do anything to change my situation. Too impure to enjoy life. Too pure to make decisions. Too capable to be treated like a child. Too immature to be treated like an adult. Why’re we still here?
god this is so relatable. i just want to escape this stupid reality and go to the fantasy world i dream of or go to that one perfect anime world that i have always loved. the kind people, the beautiful world and how you can be yourself without worrying.. but i know it will never become true because the reality still and will always exist
Can't believe that everytime I feel.understood and accepted is on the internet by strangers who go through similar struggles like I do. I can't believe I've been disregarded so much that I find comfort in a place like this
Don’t worry, it’s okay to feel like that. Sometimes you find happiness and comfort in places you least expect it. I know that a lot of people would agree with you. But always know that this is a safe space. I’m proud of you and I love you :)
I feel the same buddy. You are not alone, and there are so many other people here who feel the same. We don't know you, but we will always be here to comfort you. That's the beauty of this place. I hope you are doing good, and you have good luck and good fortune. I don't know you, but I love you with my whole heart. Keep pushing on, and keep living. -Lot's of Love Elio
@@greensaucies7705 I'm 19 noww & finally healed 🥹 I finally got to say goodbye to my past (letting go of my past & moved on in life) that's the only way🤭👀 I been through so much & now I only say life's tough, it is what it is 🥹
To my younger self : The road will be long and tough but in the end you'll realize that you made it through. You're so close and you're doing a great job.
People say the orchestra gets them, but for more it's the "old enough to understand" it is because of the part where he says "stay forever" you see the part where you grew up and got a sense of reality because you were abandoned but you didn't realize until you were older. You felt abandoned, neglected, invalid, irrelevant, and you just need someone to hug because you have nobody to hug.
nobody will probably see this but listening to this song makes me feel a huge amount of regret. regret for purposefully trying to find out about things i shouldn’t know, regret for acting a certain way towards certain people, regret towards not trying as hard as i can in some situations, regret for making myself mature faster so i seemed cooler. i have so many regrets i wish i didn’t and ignorant really is bliss. i miss my childhood where i didn’t know anything and didn’t have to worry about anything except being happy.
I know exactly how you feel. But regret is the first step to being a better person, after regret you have to forgive yourself in order to move on. If the past is holding you back how will you ever grow? Even though you feel this way, and it feels like shit, just know that you’re one step closer to being a better you. And you deserve it. Because no one in this world deserves any less.
@@greensaucies7705The person above you described my struggles perfectly, and you answered beautifully with the right words. Thank you, stranger on the internet
Notice how that girl is crying, but smiling. If you relate, then you are old enough to understand. You can take a break and stop, but you must neven give up!! YOU CAN DO THIS!!! Sending virtual hugs and so much love to everyone💕
Anyone else remember when they were younger and they wanted to be older so bad but now that your older you wish you could be young again? Enjoy life in the moment because one day you’ll look back and wish you could relive today again. Edit: ty so much for the likes wth😳
to me, being old enough to understand is something bittersweet. it's neither negative, nor positive. it's acceptance; acceptance of who you are and what you have. and i believe that's the biggest thing someone can understand. you grow, you change, you come a long way and then you take a glance back on the sand you've stepped onto, and you notice how your feet have grown larger and your stride has changed, maybe become more confident. and it's bittersweet, nostalgic even. but it's sand, and the wind washes it away as soon as the realisation settles in, and i believe that's what makes us want to cry and laugh at it. it's not tears of grief, remorse, disappointment or failure, or acceptance that things won't change or things that you lost. things *have* changed, and you now realise and let it sink in- the things you did back then and why you did them, things that happened and why they did, and why it's okay to accept it, and it's time to move on. because you're old enough to understand.
This was extremely beautiful, thank you for commenting this. I think you captured the feeling I’ve been trying to convey to others in this comment section very well :)
You’ve all come so far and I’m genuinely proud of everyone in this comment section. When we hit our lowest points we believe that it only gets harder. It doesn’t. When we are in the dark the only thing we can do is find the light. It might take longer for others but once you find that light you can mature and grow and flourish. You are all beautiful and so strong. I love you all. Here’s a little poem I wrote for everyone. darkness can seep into the cracks of our minds. It takes away our happiness. Hungry for our joy. But you will only regain what you’ve lost when you realize the darkness isn’t something to be afraid of. The light is always within you. And it’s up to you to realize it. I love you all forever and always. Don’t forget to eat and drink water. Thank you for the past 3 years. I appreciate all of you.
Bro tbh, I just need a friend. I feel like my friends are too busy and they were the only people I could talk to. I know they're there, but there all asleep at 3am when I genuinely need someone :/, my life is falling apart
@@sallyface7842 I understand how lonely it feels when you cant talk to anyone when you need to most, but there will be that someone one day to stay up with you when you cant sleep, also if you need someone to talk to I'm really never busy
my current relationships is like a one way thing , i've putting so much effort in this relationship but yet , my gf doesn't take note of my efforts and only look on the bad side
she only knows how to put me down and she thinks i dont have the good in me . its so sad man to be treated like that . when i said something similar and there she goes sulking about what i said eventho i dont looked down on her or said anything to bring her down
The meaning of "old enough to understand" has evolved over time for me. I used to think that life had gotten worse with age, but once i got back in touch with my inner child, life became so much brighter. I understand now, that you never truly "grow up", you just push away the child within you and let the pressures of life consume you.
no worries, school was fun, all my friends would just talk, play tag, run around the playground, no stress over work, i loved how i looked and wasn’t at all insecure, life was just joy, all i thought about was when Christmas was coming, halloween, now its just sitting at home praying that school ends soon and just wanting to see friends again, being cramped inside my room all day, life was so simple...what happened?
Growing up, my parents used to always be at work, meaning it was just me. my older and younger brother most of the time. I never got to experience what everyone calls a "childhood" because I was forced to mature at a very young age. I remember looking at kids my age and thinking "wow they are really dumb" but I realized I was the dumb one, dumb for not playing with them and actually socializing, I was the one who never fit in, or rather, didn't want to fit in. Now, everytime I pass by a playground with my girlfriend I always ask her to sit on the swings with me, or play on the seesaw. I started watching Cartoons and Anime, hell I even have an anime profile picture. I sometimes wonder how fun it would've been if I did all of these when I was younger.
I make story's in my head, different realities where I'm cool or things are working out, then I snap back to reality and instantly get depressed with how much is going wrong..
Hey guys this happens to me too so I just wanted to show you my story. Basically I've been doing this since I was a kid and a year ago I foud out this is called maladaptive daydreaming, it's some sort of dissociative disorder when you create different realities or stories in your head and you basically live there and you forget about the real world. Usually this is caused by trauma or just by having a hard life and wanting to "escape" from your reality. Many people experience it, I just want you all to know that you are not alone!❤
Sounds like how I felt when I was laying on the operating table while they emergency delivered my daughter. All the pain and fear I felt that day just wasn't big enough to overshadow how fiercely I knew I loved her. There's nothing anyone could have said to me to prepare me for that emotional soup. I felt more human and capable than ever before in my LIFE, and I had a living reason to try my absolute hardest until death. I was finally old enough to understand how powerful a mothers love really is.
This song makes me connect with my emotions that i hide away, all imprefections, all negative thoughts i have burried re-surfaced to make me realise how much i hide in "i don"t care", "it' fine", "i'm ok".
thats why this part of the song is my favorite, the whole song is mellow and kinda upbeat for a little bit until it gets to this part at the end and it just hits you and ufoskdjskjsodk
I think the big issue is we're sad all the time, theres no fixing it there are distractions, people who make you forget your sad but then they leave and you realize you've been sad all along, your saddness wasn't fixed it was just hidden
I know this isn’t much coming from a stranger on the internet, but try not to let your past dictate your future. Only you should get to do that. Sending virtual hugs🤗
When I have children I want them to live their child lives as much as they can and I’m going to make sure they don’t regret. I want to be my children’s shield in the future 😊 well that’s if I’m good enough to have a partner that loves me haha.
@@isabelf9015 shut up and go eat a popsicle and make friends. you have zero idea what it's like to be a mature adult or even teen who has to provide for themselves in some way or another. you're not grown at all.
Hey guys, just graduated and heard this song randomly. It’s not that I’ve never heard it but for whatever reason it’s just hitting harder than it usually does. I guess maybe I’m scared of not making it. Of letting down everyone who has high expectations for me. Or maybe it’s just just the melancholy feeling of finally living the day I always though was so far off it shouldn’t be a thought. Either way believe in yourself and know you’ll find your place in this world. So many people are out here cheering for you. And if you’re in my place… one day you’ll look back on this moment with the same feeling you feel now^^
hi! i know this kinda seems off but try making a journal where you write all you favorite memories that you think of. so you get to keep them there forever (unless you lose the journal)
yeah and me childhood ended quickly.. it ended when i was eleven. then i let social media get to me. now i’m insecure and obsessed with beauty standards.
I don't want this to sound "deep'" or "emotional" but I just realized that I am still relatively young and have full life ahead so nothing I do now or any one I meet now will mean nothing to me over the next couple of years
When I was in grade 7, I saw a girl. She was tall, skinny, and pretty. At the time I really envied her, I would go home and cry wondering why I couldn't have her physique and why I looked "bad in everything". Fast forward to grade 8, I learned that her dad cheated on her mom when she was really young. Her mom has always knew but never said anything, and when she brought it up, her dad said that he lost feelings and wanted to split up, so they did. Currently her mom is unemployed, and her dad has cancer from some unknown disease he got by having an affair with another girl. She comes to school everyday with nothing but candy and junk food, I've never seen her eat a wholesome piece of food for lunch. I always see her in the bathrooms during class eating candy. I also learned that she's falling into drugs, constantly bringing things like weed and cocaine to school. I felt bad for her, but also wanted to stay away from her because I thought she would be a bad influence. At this point, I started to question whether I really wanted to be her and envied her how I did in grade 7. I envied her even less when just a few weeks ago, her dad passed away from cancer unexpectedly. He also worked as a janitor in the school so it was announced to the whole school that he has passed away, in which she was in class when it was announced. I can't imagine what she's going through right now, and for me this song really reminds me that back then I wasn't old enough to understand that looks, and physique is only a sliver of what a persons life actually is. Whoever's reading this comment, I want you to know that I'm so proud proud of you for making it this far, and I want you to remember that when you envy another person for whatever it might be, keep this in the back of your mind, that everyone's struggling with something, you just don't see it. Social media is a lie, because it only enables you to see the sparkles and glamour that's going on in someone else's life. I'm glad that I now I can fully understand, and I hope the girl and her family are doing well.
i remember being so young and wanting to grow up so fast, seemed so long ago, in terms of years. you never fully appreciate where you were, till you get somewhere else. truly old enough to understand.
idk if it was your intention to invalidate relationship problems but as somebody who has experienced both, we should not compare them, both are equally as important :)
Sometimes I wish I could forget the truths I have experienced For I am far too young to be burdened by the weight of meaning Sometimes I think I am wrong for being so different from my peers For I am far too young to know exactly what I am missing Sometimes I pray that soulmates are not real For I am far too young to have already buried the one my heart was weaved for
I’m 15 right now. And while my life right now is overall good, this video brought me to tears. There’s a few things I want to be when I grow up. A writer, an illustrator and voice actor. I’ve had multiple people in my life tell me I have so much potential, but I’ve done nothing with that. I don’t think I have the ability to commit to anything because I’ve never really needed to before. All I do is play video games and exercise and it scares me. I want to make something of my self, but I have no confidence. And although I wish I could say this video helped me realized I should do something, all it did was make me cry.
It's ok, from one young person to another, its ok. Its hard to find confidence, it's hard to find anything, and it's hard to navigate through life when so much is expected and things are being thrown at you nonstop at high speed. Let things be a learning experience and push you forward. Even when it seems like there is nothing, there is a reason for everything. I hope that this message finds you well. And that it will help in some form.
Hello, everything's gonna be alright. I'm also young and don't worry, although we're under a lot of pressure, we also have plenty of time to commit and fix mistakes, after all that's what life is about. Maybe you would like to get to know each other?
Hey, I’m getting close to being 18, I’m in my junior year rn. Everything will be okay, love yourself and it’ll be alright and no that no matter the outcome you truly can get through anything. You’re capable of making dreams reality, you just have to put the effort in and you can accomplish anything.
Hey I’m 15 too I’m so happy you know what you want to to In life tho that right there is really but I’m proud honestly u got this okay Ik its all nerve wracking and stuff but follow ur dreams Trust me their worth it God put them in you heart for a reason. God bless much love:)
And not overthink to the point where you're convinced that they're forced to listen to you so you don't feel like your thoughts and emotions go unheard. Yeah
To me, this song signifies being old enough to understand that life is not a fairy tale. Life is not all sunshine and roses. There is pain here. You will get hurt. You will be betrayed. There are going to be times will people hurt you and you won’t be able to do anything about it but eat it.
whenever i listen to this, i like to imagine a younger me, walking through the stages of my life as i grow up. meeting all my friends, teachers, classmates, going through all of the hard times and carrying on. then at the end, when i’m my current age, i see my younger self once more. and i hug her. but she..disintegrates. and i’m left there. alone. idk just a little imaginary thing i have lol
A lot of times, I imagine being the best parent to my children or child, not hurting them for making mistakes, teaching them how to be a good person, loving them unconditionally, being a parent that I wanted, a parent I needed, a family I never got... To all the people who relate or having a bad day or just life being shitty to you, I hope your day gets better and I hope u find your own happiness and not let anybody else take it from you
it just makes me cry, imagining all of my old friends and how most have gone, two sadly killed themselves but the rest just kind of disappeared, and it's just how we've all gotten older and that all that is left is the memories that i guess makes me cry.
Reading through the comments to songs like this and seeing people helping other people they don't even know just melts my heart. Ps I'm proud of you ❤️
Me and my mom have a horrible relationship. We’re always arguing and fighting.. then I hear this and remember that my mom went thru Hell as a child and how she is.. reflects how she feels or felt at that time… yes we may disagree but I’m old enough to understand.. ❤
Its so sad to know that most of us here are just a few kids, trying our best to keep our life as bright as possible before our childhoods are over, trying our best to do good in school, trying or best to not disappoint our family and friends, trying our best to keep others happy, yet never trying to keep ourselves happy. Trying. Trying. Trying.
I don't wanna try it any more. Sometimes in life, you'll relize that most of things you've done and you're doing are just meaningless. It's painful, but it's also a relief to not have to work so hard, with no good results anymore.
I just want you to all know, even I totally don't know you, I am still proud of you for trying your best everyday, and for trying your best to stay alive. Never look back, keep moving forward, live your life to the fullest without hesitation and without regret.
This quote genuinely gave me a proper flashback to when I was six in a new country and a new house sitting on my skateboard going down the side path to the backyard. Everything was so simple back then, so easy to be happy. Thanks you
@@slicky3397 just say you either are a self-absorbed mommas child who never got to experience neglect or you have some unresolved trauma going on that you reflect. actually don't even bother answering, i think you have better stuff to do than discourage ppl venting in their only safespace
“Old enough to understand” can mean so much. Cus as a child you think, life is awesome, and you hated when family like mom dad or auntie were upset. You didn’t know why they didn’t look at the glass half full. But then that moment hits you, when you realize the world ain’t such a pretty place becouse of ugly people. I don’t mean look wise, but dried, sad, and heartless people. You gradually start learning about things about the world, your family, and even yourself.. I barely talk to people so I’m going to say this here. I wanted to die when I was in middle school. I didn’t want the suffering and pain, just wanted to disappear. Where nothing bothered me anymore. But, the case is different, it just takes a while for you to find that kid in you again. Sorry bout the rant but this audio just gets you. But if anyone feels the same way know your not alone.💕
you are not alone either! i really needed this, thank you so much. i think that if we find that kid, that innocent and happy one, we can reach the peace. i´m really glad that you find yours, and iI just wish happy things to your life. Even if we are not kids anymore, we have to live the world like that kids, because they just don´t disappear, you know? life waits for us, even with it´s difficult moments! wish you luck!
You just have to realize that the most important thing in your life is to focus on your self and focus on your family and on your friends. Life is a gift. You cant throw gifts easily as you think. My life has been changed a lot when i was kid but thats how life and time works. You can change things you can do what ever you want. And guys listen to me. When ever you feel alone or depressed just think about the good memories and you can still get some memories which you can remember.
To be honest. In some way, everyone feels this. There are moments where you're lost, scared, and depress. And it's hard to express this, we can talk about this to someone special but how will they respond and what advice will they give us. Positive or negative. If we want to express it in a drawing or other methods, how long will people notice the pain? It sometimes brings you into a state of insecurity and you don't have the minimal idea of handling it. Sometimes, in my opinion, it best to wait for something to happen and give an effort to see it through. Because there are things that will bring us joy and still there are to this day. Sure, sad moments are there, and they are difficult to handle but we could take it as a grain of salt or use it for experience for when a moment comes that someone is going through something that you been through, you know how to cheer someone on. Be a solution and if you're a problem, ask someone for help. Life is like a story, it has its moments, good or bad, but they're just moments, and they're worth it to see again. To enjoy, to cry, to be angered, to save. And if you're not satisfied with them, their still a lot to see later on.
Understand what really matters in life. We waste so much time worrying about things that ultimately have little importance. Spending time with the ones you love is what really matters. Old enough to understand that time is a gift. This makes me think of my father who had passed. I wish I could have had one last dance with him. Treasure each moment.
this music is literally the best way to just forget a little bit of the real world..just a little you still feel that pain..even if its a small needle.. but..you know when your not broken..and you just feel empty inside? i have a awesome life....what's the matter with me..why am i like this?..
I felt hard to breath I’m stunned just by that one sentence, it really hit me hard. We used to heard the word “You will understand when you grew up” and now we all knew that the thing we understand isn’t so good at all, there is a lot of feelings happens in my mind that I can really explain it at all.
i used to here this song 2 year ago when i was depressed ,stressed up about my future , loosing contacts with friends ,feeling left alone but it took me 2 years to realize that it always doesn't matter until you are happy every day is a chance to be better and you are lucky to wake up every day to see the beauty of this world. by me :- a random person on youtube
Yep. Same here. Except mine was "Oh you're such and old soul". It's not that I'm an 'Old Soul'. It's that I was forced to act more mature than what was expected of me.
My dad's girlfriend told me " your a women, your an adult" but.....im only 13.......I just wanna be a kid.....and not have these responsibilities. All I want was a good childhood.
Currently crying bc my brother is turning 3 tomorrow and I know someday he’ll actually be old enough to understand and I just don’t want him to go through that
my sister is 12 now. i feel like shit bc i made her understand. i thought she was too naive, but she is just an actual child. now she is in therapy, it's all my fault
@@carleta why don't you try helping her? I would like someone to care about me if i was her. Try playing games with her sometimes, talk with her and do fun things together. Protect her from any harm
their are moments in life when you just realize that someone life changing just happened. unlike being a kid when you don't really understand tough situations, when you grow up it begins to feel like theirs a way to turn back time but sadly their isnt.
when this song was released, I didn't fully understand the lyrics, now that I'm an adult....just hearing the "old enough to understand" and the instrumental just makes me burst into tears.☹️
I'm sad, I don't know why but I just don't feel up to it anymore. I don't have the motivation to do things anymore it doesn't mean I'm lazy, it just means I don't have the energy. I'm not mad I just don't feel like smiling anymore. It's not that I'm avoiding you I just don't know what to say anymore...
Dont describ me, I don’t even know if I’m depressed or not because I don’t want to just say I am so that people can either judge me about how I’m faking it or if I’m just to scared to tell people why I’m so..... just done with life.. my life.. and everything
@@shyytiny hi idrk you but hey I love okay im so proud of you for being here!!!! Keep going :) you got this and I'm in no better place than you are but you got this I believe in you 🙃
“Why are you depressed? I’ve give you everything, clothes, shoes, food, a roof under your head, so ungrateful.”
Ok but roof under your head sent me to mars
The bare minimum is never enough
Yeah as if that’s not their responsibility
Bruhh parents are just too much
Well, I suppose I'm a boomer. It's just that I remember when I used to say this kinda stuff and now I really miss them. All the things they told me bout people n world where just so damn right and now I'm here standing watching the world burn all alone.
My own negative feelings made me so numb bout others' pain. I should've take their advices
@@iconbabyxox Wh-
I didn't say anything about black people, I was talking about my parents.
Edit: Do all American people are obsessed with black people? Bc here in Mexico we're not so crazy bout that topic. Weirdos
everyone hates it when kids act annoying but want to be a kid themselves, probably because as a kid you don't think it's annoying, you think of it as fun and happiness
People who are themselves and don't care if people think they're "cringe" are superior.
Ngl I find them annoying it’s just that I’m jealous that they didn’t have to grow up really fast at a young age
I'm sorry, wtf is your profile picture 😭😭✋🏻
Umm yes but what I'm about to say if off topic but WTF IS YOUR PFP😭😭
i’d like to give jojo siwa a hug.
“Behind every sweet smile, there is a bitter sadness that no one can ever see or feel.” - Tupac Shakur.
☺️ Yeah
The worst kind of sad is when you don't really know why you're sad...
U always know why ure said and u can always do something about it. Mostly u decide to be sad thats probably the reason u dont know why u are sad. I dont say i am never sad. I say i try not to make myself sad. Thats how u get stronger. After the sadness is overcome there are more challenges in life u will have to complete. That's why most people want to stay sad. They just don't want to do the hard stuff. That's the reason there are more emo people around the globe. They wanna stay weak and sad so they don't have to any other hard challenges in life. Because if something goes wrong I can just kill myself right? U need failure to get stronger.
Reality💯
Literally me rn
Hmm, Its become a neutral feeling already.
the sadness and depression is real.
the lyrics are literally only one sentence, but hit harder than anything else
Yes
exactly...
Yeh
they hits harder than my dad
I KNOW BRO
"when sleeping becomes an escape rather than a punishment- that is when you realize you've lost your youth."
oh my god why does that make such depressing sense
But what if sleep becomes your prison from something you can never wake up?
i fucking love sleeping, you get recharged, you repair you muscles, you remember and you become emotionally refreshed.
@@the-monk821 then that's great for you!! everyone is different and experience thing differently. i'm glad you sleep good at night, wish i could say the same.
@@kanchanrajkumar826 that only means either death or sleep paralysis to which i say: "either get up or get up."
you'll get it.
sometimes i imagine having kids and just saying that im so proud of them and just being a great parent in my mind.
Every day man 😖😖😖😖
All the time
Me too, be what my father wasn't
I've come to make your dream my reality. Bless you
Its never gonna happen though. Cuz I’ll never find that special someone
Too old for innocence.
Too young to do anything to change my situation.
Too impure to enjoy life.
Too pure to make decisions.
Too capable to be treated like a child.
Too immature to be treated like an adult.
Why’re we still here?
Just... to suffer
😭😭 to live up to others expectations
God loves y’all ❤❤❤
@@sain3ty358 every day and every night
“old enough to understand”
*I crave the life that only exists in my head. When I look at what’s right in front of me, everything is a lie.*
god this is so relatable.
i just want to escape this stupid reality and go to the fantasy world i dream of or go to that one perfect anime world that i have always loved. the kind people, the beautiful world and how you can be yourself without worrying..
but i know it will never become true because the reality still and will always exist
@@taspiix :)
@@taspiix this is the most relatable thing i've ever read in my life, especially the anime part
Same and it sucks
this hit way too close to home
When you’re old enough to understand
when your not old enough to understand but you still do :(
@@graysonva3323 yeah, i feel you.
@@killedmyself47 yours better
@@graysonva3323 i shouldn’t be feeling like this at a young age
, right?
Yup
Can't believe that everytime I feel.understood and accepted is on the internet by strangers who go through similar struggles like I do. I can't believe I've been disregarded so much that I find comfort in a place like this
Don’t worry, it’s okay to feel like that. Sometimes you find happiness and comfort in places you least expect it. I know that a lot of people would agree with you. But always know that this is a safe space. I’m proud of you and I love you :)
I feel the same buddy. You are not alone, and there are so many other people here who feel the same. We don't know you, but we will always be here to comfort you. That's the beauty of this place. I hope you are doing good, and you have good luck and good fortune. I don't know you, but I love you with my whole heart. Keep pushing on, and keep living.
-Lot's of Love
Elio
@@greensaucies7705 I'm 19 noww & finally healed 🥹 I finally got to say goodbye to my past (letting go of my past & moved on in life) that's the only way🤭👀 I been through so much & now I only say life's tough, it is what it is 🥹
@@greensaucies7705 I was too attached on my past that I want it back but now I finally letting go of it & moved on in life
To my younger self :
The road will be long and tough but in the end you'll realize that you made it through. You're so close and you're doing a great job.
Go little rockstar❤
:)
I hate growing up, but at the same time I wanna be independent
Same :(
I love ur pfp of rat!
same dude
You just summarized my whole life
I just wanna leave this house but my siblings are here
People say the orchestra gets them, but for more it's the "old enough to understand" it is because of the part where he says "stay forever" you see the part where you grew up and got a sense of reality because you were abandoned but you didn't realize until you were older. You felt abandoned, neglected, invalid, irrelevant, and you just need someone to hug because you have nobody to hug.
Omg stop ima cry
:)
( T_T)
How? do you know ive cried to this song on end?
@@graysonva3323 I’ve cried because the whole paragraph I made is what I’ve gone through 😀
nobody will probably see this but listening to this song makes me feel a huge amount of regret. regret for purposefully trying to find out about things i shouldn’t know, regret for acting a certain way towards certain people, regret towards not trying as hard as i can in some situations, regret for making myself mature faster so i seemed cooler. i have so many regrets i wish i didn’t and ignorant really is bliss. i miss my childhood where i didn’t know anything and didn’t have to worry about anything except being happy.
I know exactly how you feel. But regret is the first step to being a better person, after regret you have to forgive yourself in order to move on. If the past is holding you back how will you ever grow? Even though you feel this way, and it feels like shit, just know that you’re one step closer to being a better you. And you deserve it. Because no one in this world deserves any less.
If anything, you didn’t dig deeper
@@greensaucies7705The person above you described my struggles perfectly, and you answered beautifully with the right words. Thank you, stranger on the internet
Notice how that girl is crying, but smiling.
If you relate, then you are old enough to understand.
You can take a break and stop, but you must neven give up!! YOU CAN DO THIS!!! Sending virtual hugs and so much love to everyone💕
I understand then
The fact that this could mean a thousand things, but we keep it to ourselves
Ok
@@xsirius9117 Ok
@@xsirius9117 ok
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Ok
Anyone else remember when they were younger and they wanted to be older so bad but now that your older you wish you could be young again? Enjoy life in the moment because one day you’ll look back and wish you could relive today again.
Edit: ty so much for the likes wth😳
Yes and then you find things
now I regret it I could’ve done everything but now nothing I was so blind
Yes and I am young myself yet I want to go back 😢
i only wanted to be older so i could escape from my abusive household so there wasnt much to enjoy when i was younger lol
Wish someone told me this before😔
to me, being old enough to understand is something bittersweet. it's neither negative, nor positive. it's acceptance; acceptance of who you are and what you have. and i believe that's the biggest thing someone can understand. you grow, you change, you come a long way and then you take a glance back on the sand you've stepped onto, and you notice how your feet have grown larger and your stride has changed, maybe become more confident. and it's bittersweet, nostalgic even. but it's sand, and the wind washes it away as soon as the realisation settles in, and i believe that's what makes us want to cry and laugh at it. it's not tears of grief, remorse, disappointment or failure, or acceptance that things won't change or things that you lost. things *have* changed, and you now realise and let it sink in- the things you did back then and why you did them, things that happened and why they did, and why it's okay to accept it, and it's time to move on.
because you're old enough to understand.
This was extremely beautiful, thank you for commenting this. I think you captured the feeling I’ve been trying to convey to others in this comment section very well :)
You quoted I didn't... This is like beautiful poetry
The most beautiful thing I have read today❤😢
You’ve all come so far and I’m genuinely proud of everyone in this comment section. When we hit our lowest points we believe that it only gets harder. It doesn’t. When we are in the dark the only thing we can do is find the light. It might take longer for others but once you find that light you can mature and grow and flourish. You are all beautiful and so strong. I love you all. Here’s a little poem I wrote for everyone.
darkness can seep into the cracks of our minds. It takes away our happiness. Hungry for our joy. But you will only regain what you’ve lost when you realize the darkness isn’t something to be afraid of. The light is always within you. And it’s up to you to realize it.
I love you all forever and always. Don’t forget to eat and drink water. Thank you for the past 3 years. I appreciate all of you.
thanks
This hits hard when you realize you never kept the promises you made to yourself as a child and now you regret what you’ve become.
I felt this one
Bro tbh, I just need a friend. I feel like my friends are too busy and they were the only people I could talk to. I know they're there, but there all asleep at 3am when I genuinely need someone :/, my life is falling apart
@@sallyface7842 I understand how lonely it feels when you cant talk to anyone when you need to most, but there will be that someone one day to stay up with you when you cant sleep, also if you need someone to talk to I'm really never busy
no no no stop it no stop now no no no
Are you all okay? Be fr with me
i’m now realizing my childhood wasn’t actually a childhood at all
same
I don't even remember 88% of it
this one hits hard1
@@iwasneverakid7478 do you remember a 12% of it? wow I'm gelaous
Same
Im finally old enough to understand that true love hurts so much.
Sadly I can relate
Very true sadly
the most worst mental pain out there. 😭
my current relationships is like a one way thing , i've putting so much effort in this relationship but yet , my gf doesn't take note of my efforts and only look on the bad side
she only knows how to put me down and she thinks i dont have the good in me . its so sad man to be treated like that . when i said something similar and there she goes sulking about what i said eventho i dont looked down on her or said anything to bring her down
The meaning of "old enough to understand" has evolved over time for me. I used to think that life had gotten worse with age, but once i got back in touch with my inner child, life became so much brighter. I understand now, that you never truly "grow up", you just push away the child within you and let the pressures of life consume you.
those teenagers who cry themselves to sleep at night were once kids with light in their eyes and hope in their hearts.
im too scared to face the reality. it's sad how i once wanted to grow up, but now i want to go back.
stop :(
Why did you have to write this?😭
its me, teenagers
no worries, school was fun, all my friends would just talk, play tag, run around the playground, no stress over work, i loved how i looked and wasn’t at all insecure, life was just joy, all i thought about was when Christmas was coming, halloween, now its just sitting at home praying that school ends soon and just wanting to see friends again, being cramped inside my room all day, life was so simple...what happened?
POV: you go through the comments while listening to this only to get more depressed from how relatable it is
No cuz like I’m literally crying😭
yes lolz
Am not crying just sweating from my eye s
Why are you exposing me-
so relatable
When you're young but understand anyway.
Growing up, my parents used to always be at work, meaning it was just me. my older and younger brother most of the time. I never got to experience what everyone calls a "childhood" because I was forced to mature at a very young age. I remember looking at kids my age and thinking "wow they are really dumb" but I realized I was the dumb one, dumb for not playing with them and actually socializing, I was the one who never fit in, or rather, didn't want to fit in. Now, everytime I pass by a playground with my girlfriend I always ask her to sit on the swings with me, or play on the seesaw. I started watching Cartoons and Anime, hell I even have an anime profile picture. I sometimes wonder how fun it would've been if I did all of these when I was younger.
i feel you man
Aye man we both alike
This is what I've been trying to say... Thank you!
i’m in love with the version of the world inside my head, yet the reality is i hate the world infront of me
I make story's in my head, different realities where I'm cool or things are working out, then I snap back to reality and instantly get depressed with how much is going wrong..
@@f.j.s8345 damn bro... Same tho
@@f.j.s8345 same and I know I should stop but it seems way better than my real life
Hey guys this happens to me too so I just wanted to show you my story. Basically I've been doing this since I was a kid and a year ago I foud out this is called maladaptive daydreaming, it's some sort of dissociative disorder when you create different realities or stories in your head and you basically live there and you forget about the real world. Usually this is caused by trauma or just by having a hard life and wanting to "escape" from your reality. Many people experience it, I just want you all to know that you are not alone!❤
Yeah same, I even make characters that are like my friends, so everytime I make a scenario in my head, it reminds me of them.
“We didn’t realize we were making memories, we just knew we were having fun.”
why am I crying because of this comment
Correct me if I’m wrong but Im pretty sure this is a Winnie the Pooh quote
And those hit hard
Pls I’ve cried enough
This ...hits ...deep (ＴｪＴ)
I miss my grandma everything was better when she was here.
when u want to be sad but you dont know why but still get sad for some reason, even when theres no reason...
*listening to this at 1:33 AM half asleep with earbuds on hits different.*
Lemme try dis 😭🖐
Yasssssss frl
Your speaking the truth
ME every night😞
currently 1:39 AM and i am indeed half asleep with ear buds in
to that one person that disliked i just know your playlist is trash lol
i have to agree
i think they were crying so hard they confused the like/dislike button
@@IDGAG no one said that? Huh?
@@IDGAG excuse me miss girl what did u just say?
Imma need you to log out for me❤️
What’s the song name
Sounds like how I felt when I was laying on the operating table while they emergency delivered my daughter. All the pain and fear I felt that day just wasn't big enough to overshadow how fiercely I knew I loved her. There's nothing anyone could have said to me to prepare me for that emotional soup. I felt more human and capable than ever before in my LIFE, and I had a living reason to try my absolute hardest until death. I was finally old enough to understand how powerful a mothers love really is.
This song makes me connect with my emotions that i hide away, all imprefections, all negative thoughts i have burried re-surfaced to make me realise how much i hide in "i don"t care", "it' fine", "i'm ok".
This is what being hugged when you didnt have affection as a child feels like
for real
true
the one person who disliked wasn't old enough to understand
aha good one
was probably too young to know reality :
sometimes i dont like being old enough to understand
idk y i find this funny
Well no yt has bots that dislike idk why but they do
I just wanted to say, for every person that has come this far. You guys have done great. Keep it strong !
Sitting here and just sinking in the words in the darkness is the most lonely yet peaceful that I’ve ever been all at once.
The orchestra sounds like realization, like your realizing something years after it happened, like now you're "old enough to understand."
thats why this part of the song is my favorite, the whole song is mellow and kinda upbeat for a little bit until it gets to this part at the end and it just hits you and ufoskdjskjsodk
@@doodoo240 YESS OMGGG
It's pretty cool that almost everyone will interpret this song differently
Yeah :) 😭💀
It’s also very sad
I just think about Larry Stylinson
So many things go through my head at the same time I just end up crying for no reason
yeah ik
This song has a meaning for everyone and it’s always gonna be different
I think the big issue is we're sad all the time, theres no fixing it there are distractions, people who make you forget your sad but then they leave and you realize you've been sad all along, your saddness wasn't fixed it was just hidden
not me realising that i dont remember 90% of my life, and what I remember is traumatic experiences
@Sad Potato you too :)
I know this isn’t much coming from a stranger on the internet, but try not to let your past dictate your future. Only you should get to do that. Sending virtual hugs🤗
@@theblondeone181 thank you, I appreciate this
Wait same
@@fae.13 Ayo trauma gang 😩
we were all forced to grow up way to young, to everyone here im so sorry :(
When I have children I want them to live their child lives as much as they can and I’m going to make sure they don’t regret. I want to be my children’s shield in the future 😊 well that’s if I’m good enough to have a partner that loves me haha.
@@shyytiny i do aswell 😊 i want to be the best mother they can Ask for
Literally I hate it
apparently not fast enough to learn proper grammar though :)
@@isabelf9015 shut up and go eat a popsicle and make friends. you have zero idea what it's like to be a mature adult or even teen who has to provide for themselves in some way or another. you're not grown at all.
The worst kind of sad is losing something vital in your life, knowing you’ll never get it back
Hey guys, just graduated and heard this song randomly. It’s not that I’ve never heard it but for whatever reason it’s just hitting harder than it usually does.
I guess maybe I’m scared of not making it. Of letting down everyone who has high expectations for me. Or maybe it’s just just the melancholy feeling of finally living the day I always though was so far off it shouldn’t be a thought. Either way believe in yourself and know you’ll find your place in this world. So many people are out here cheering for you. And if you’re in my place… one day you’ll look back on this moment with the same feeling you feel now^^
you're gonna be okay :) i am proud of you
this hits hard when u realize that you're getting older and your childhood memories is slowly disappears...
hi! i know this kinda seems off but try making a journal where you write all you favorite memories that you think of. so you get to keep them there forever (unless you lose the journal)
I’m so glad I’m old enough to understand, that all I went through was for a better reason, and not just because the world gave me the worst luck.
Ngl I didn't expect an entire motivational comment section as I just was trying out songs I found on my recommendations 💀
"Don't trust strangers online."
but the strangers online give me more support then you.
Thats literally what i think about every day
this comment hit hard
Absolutely
the strangers online are the only people who go through the same thing than me, understand me and still helps me.
Me not wanting to like because it's at 365 all the days of the year and the strangers support me 365 days of the year
"old enough to understand" me realizing my childhood never rlly was a childhood :/
Edit: I'm so sorry for anyone who feels the same way. Stay strong
yeah me too
fr
yeah and me childhood ended quickly.. it ended when i was eleven. then i let social media get to me.
now i’m insecure and obsessed with beauty standards.
truth hurts :(
@@krysanne746 Mine ended at 9 or younger, I don’t really remember anymore
I don't want this to sound "deep'" or "emotional" but I just realized that I am still relatively young and have full life ahead so nothing I do now or any one I meet now will mean nothing to me over the next couple of years
When you look at pictures of you as a kid and remember how happy you were as a kid and now you're just empty
i saw someone say yesterday “there’s not as much time as it seems” and it really made me think
thats deep man.
omg
that's scary
My Mom kept trying to tell me
i don’t wanna grow up. i wanna be 7 and clueless again.
Same 😭
Me too
It is what it is. Just enjoy what you have now and who you are with. Not that deep
haha i dont wanna go back-
i was bullied when I was 7
Y'all be so lucky being clueless at 7 😶
When I was in grade 7, I saw a girl. She was tall, skinny, and pretty. At the time I really envied her, I would go home and cry wondering why I couldn't have her physique and why I looked "bad in everything". Fast forward to grade 8, I learned that her dad cheated on her mom when she was really young. Her mom has always knew but never said anything, and when she brought it up, her dad said that he lost feelings and wanted to split up, so they did. Currently her mom is unemployed, and her dad has cancer from some unknown disease he got by having an affair with another girl. She comes to school everyday with nothing but candy and junk food, I've never seen her eat a wholesome piece of food for lunch. I always see her in the bathrooms during class eating candy. I also learned that she's falling into drugs, constantly bringing things like weed and cocaine to school. I felt bad for her, but also wanted to stay away from her because I thought she would be a bad influence. At this point, I started to question whether I really wanted to be her and envied her how I did in grade 7. I envied her even less when just a few weeks ago, her dad passed away from cancer unexpectedly. He also worked as a janitor in the school so it was announced to the whole school that he has passed away, in which she was in class when it was announced. I can't imagine what she's going through right now, and for me this song really reminds me that back then I wasn't old enough to understand that looks, and physique is only a sliver of what a persons life actually is. Whoever's reading this comment, I want you to know that I'm so proud proud of you for making it this far, and I want you to remember that when you envy another person for whatever it might be, keep this in the back of your mind, that everyone's struggling with something, you just don't see it. Social media is a lie, because it only enables you to see the sparkles and glamour that's going on in someone else's life. I'm glad that I now I can fully understand, and I hope the girl and her family are doing well.
Wow thank you 😔
Thank you
Girls are to fixated on their looks at such a young age wtf
i remember being so young and wanting to grow up so fast, seemed so long ago, in terms of years. you never fully appreciate where you were, till you get somewhere else. truly old enough to understand.
This song makes me wanna say sorry to my younger self for some reason
while other people be worrying bout their relationship with their partner,im out here tryna keep my family together...
im trying to fix them both , its so exhausting
@@lucyburden7814 bad day huh 😔😞
@@DZ-bj3yx really bad day
together but happy
idk if it was your intention to invalidate relationship problems but as somebody who has experienced both, we should not compare them, both are equally as important :)
Sometimes I wish I could forget the truths I have experienced
For I am far too young to be burdened by the weight of meaning
Sometimes I think I am wrong for being so different from my peers
For I am far too young to know exactly what I am missing
Sometimes I pray that soulmates are not real
For I am far too young to have already buried the one my heart was weaved for
I’m 15 right now. And while my life right now is overall good, this video brought me to tears. There’s a few things I want to be when I grow up. A writer, an illustrator and voice actor. I’ve had multiple people in my life tell me I have so much potential, but I’ve done nothing with that. I don’t think I have the ability to commit to anything because I’ve never really needed to before. All I do is play video games and exercise and it scares me. I want to make something of my self, but I have no confidence. And although I wish I could say this video helped me realized I should do something, all it did was make me cry.
It's ok, from one young person to another, its ok. Its hard to find confidence, it's hard to find anything, and it's hard to navigate through life when so much is expected and things are being thrown at you nonstop at high speed. Let things be a learning experience and push you forward. Even when it seems like there is nothing, there is a reason for everything. I hope that this message finds you well. And that it will help in some form.
Hello, everything's gonna be alright. I'm also young and don't worry, although we're under a lot of pressure, we also have plenty of time to commit and fix mistakes, after all that's what life is about. Maybe you would like to get to know each other?
Hey, I’m getting close to being 18, I’m in my junior year rn. Everything will be okay, love yourself and it’ll be alright and no that no matter the outcome you truly can get through anything. You’re capable of making dreams reality, you just have to put the effort in and you can accomplish anything.
Old junior aren’t ya? I just turned 18 two months back and I just graduated
Hey I’m 15 too I’m so happy you know what you want to to In life tho that right there is really but I’m proud honestly u got this okay Ik its all nerve wracking and stuff but follow ur dreams Trust me their worth it God put them in you heart for a reason. God bless much love:)
do you ever just wish someone would just listen to you just for a few mins or just a few seconds and listen to what you want to let out, yeah same.
all the time, but i'll listen to you first if you wanna talk :)
yea all the time
@ero gal yea..
yess honestly but it least i have the love of my life to vent out my problems too. let’s hope he doesn’t leave either...
And not overthink to the point where you're convinced that they're forced to listen to you so you don't feel like your thoughts and emotions go unheard. Yeah
Hits different when your eyes are all puffy from crying and you can’t really open them all the way and than your room is cold and you’re forever alone
...
(I believe that you managed to understand what I meant. we are almost certain that we will never meet in life, but... glad to meet you.)
@@rafzlol believe it or not I kind of look like dababy
damn
And you try not to sniffle to loud because you don’t want anyone to hear. Yea
grow up lil bitch
To me, this song signifies being old enough to understand that life is not a fairy tale. Life is not all sunshine and roses. There is pain here. You will get hurt. You will be betrayed. There are going to be times will people hurt you and you won’t be able to do anything about it but eat it.
whenever i listen to this, i like to imagine a younger me, walking through the stages of my life as i grow up. meeting all my friends, teachers, classmates, going through all of the hard times and carrying on. then at the end, when i’m my current age, i see my younger self once more. and i hug her. but she..disintegrates. and i’m left there.
alone.
idk just a little imaginary thing i have lol
We grow up hearing "you'll understand when you're older" Understanding when you're older sucks.
It gets a bit exciting since you wanna know what something is just to find out the disgusting truth
totally agree
I mean they warned us
Everything sucks until I stops but it doesn't mean it can't change
At that point rn..
,,Old enough to understand’’
Im not as interesting intelligent and beautiful child as they said, i never was. It hurts when you realize
Some of them were
Some of there were ugly
TANJIRO >:’( WHY YOU MAKING ME CRY
U are
You're right, you're not as interesting, intelligent and beautiful as they told you, you're 10 times better than that
this hit me bro..
A lot of times, I imagine being the best parent to my children or child, not hurting them for making mistakes, teaching them how to be a good person, loving them unconditionally, being a parent that I wanted, a parent I needed, a family I never got...
To all the people who relate or having a bad day or just life being shitty to you, I hope your day gets better and I hope u find your own happiness and not let anybody else take it from you
it just makes me cry, imagining all of my old friends and how most have gone, two sadly killed themselves but the rest just kind of disappeared, and it's just how we've all gotten older and that all that is left is the memories that i guess makes me cry.
i regret thinking I wanted to become older and more mature. growing up just made me realize how bad the world really is.
now that i'm old enough to understand i realized that everything was a lie and now reality is hitting me
it really makes me wanna go back and apoligize
Same
same lol hate it here🧍♂️
It hurts when you have know it since 9 years old
I’m not old enough but I still understand.
Reading through the comments to songs like this and seeing people helping other people they don't even know just melts my heart.
Ps I'm proud of you ❤️
Me and my mom have a horrible relationship. We’re always arguing and fighting.. then I hear this and remember that my mom went thru Hell as a child and how she is.. reflects how she feels or felt at that time… yes we may disagree but I’m old enough to understand.. ❤
Its so sad to know that most of us here are just a few kids, trying our best to keep our life as bright as possible before our childhoods are over, trying our best to do good in school, trying or best to not disappoint our family and friends, trying our best to keep others happy, yet never trying to keep ourselves happy. Trying. Trying. Trying.
Yeah and i guess my mom doesn't get it :(
It’s so hard sometimes 😪
But it’s never enough
But we never try our best to make ourselves happy 🥺
I don't wanna try it any more. Sometimes in life, you'll relize that most of things you've done and you're doing are just meaningless. It's painful, but it's also a relief to not have to work so hard, with no good results anymore.
“Running away is easy, it’s the leaving that’s hard.”
Que adult swim logo
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wrong song my guy
@@Yeats-wh2uh no shit Sherlock
@@pierregrey7768 :/
I just want you to all know, even I totally don't know you, I am still proud of you for trying your best everyday, and for trying your best to stay alive. Never look back, keep moving forward, live your life to the fullest without hesitation and without regret.
Sometimes crying is just the best way to let it out..
To younger me:
Thanks for the memories kid - until happiness brings us again.
This quote genuinely gave me a proper flashback to when I was six in a new country and a new house sitting on my skateboard going down the side path to the backyard. Everything was so simple back then, so easy to be happy. Thanks you
Just enjoy what you have now and who you are with. Not that deep. You make your own happiness. If you aren’t happy then it’s prob your fault
@@slicky3397 ah yes, let me just take full control over my life even though people are forcing me to be unhappy. thank's for the tip man
@@crystalmetheny583 forcing you to be unhappy🤣
@@slicky3397 just say you either are a self-absorbed mommas child who never got to experience neglect or you have some unresolved trauma going on that you reflect. actually don't even bother answering, i think you have better stuff to do than discourage ppl venting in their only safespace
“Old enough to understand” can mean so much. Cus as a child you think, life is awesome, and you hated when family like mom dad or auntie were upset. You didn’t know why they didn’t look at the glass half full. But then that moment hits you, when you realize the world ain’t such a pretty place becouse of ugly people. I don’t mean look wise, but dried, sad, and heartless people. You gradually start learning about things about the world, your family, and even yourself.. I barely talk to people so I’m going to say this here. I wanted to die when I was in middle school. I didn’t want the suffering and pain, just wanted to disappear. Where nothing bothered me anymore. But, the case is different, it just takes a while for you to find that kid in you again. Sorry bout the rant but this audio just gets you. But if anyone feels the same way know your not alone.💕
I needed this.
you are not alone either! i really needed this, thank you so much.
i think that if we find that kid, that innocent and happy one, we can reach the peace. i´m really glad that you find yours, and iI just wish happy things to your life. Even if we are not kids anymore, we have to live the world like that kids, because they just don´t disappear, you know? life waits for us, even with it´s difficult moments! wish you luck!
You just have to realize that the most important thing in your life is to focus on your self and focus on your family and on your friends. Life is a gift. You cant throw gifts easily as you think. My life has been changed a lot when i was kid but thats how life and time works. You can change things you can do what ever you want. And guys listen to me. When ever you feel alone or depressed just think about the good memories and you can still get some memories which you can remember.
To be honest. In some way, everyone feels this. There are moments where you're lost, scared, and depress. And it's hard to express this, we can talk about this to someone special but how will they respond and what advice will they give us. Positive or negative. If we want to express it in a drawing or other methods, how long will people notice the pain? It sometimes brings you into a state of insecurity and you don't have the minimal idea of handling it. Sometimes, in my opinion, it best to wait for something to happen and give an effort to see it through. Because there are things that will bring us joy and still there are to this day. Sure, sad moments are there, and they are difficult to handle but we could take it as a grain of salt or use it for experience for when a moment comes that someone is going through something that you been through, you know how to cheer someone on. Be a solution and if you're a problem, ask someone for help. Life is like a story, it has its moments, good or bad, but they're just moments, and they're worth it to see again. To enjoy, to cry, to be angered, to save. And if you're not satisfied with them, their still a lot to see later on.
Understand what really matters in life. We waste so much time worrying about things that ultimately have little importance. Spending time with the ones you love is what really matters. Old enough to understand that time is a gift. This makes me think of my father who had passed. I wish I could have had one last dance with him. Treasure each moment.
To my future self :
From the deepest of my heart,I hope there will come a day where you look back and realized that you made it
anybody else hate getting close to people but also gets lonely
Me
All the time that’s why I can’t communicate with people. Jeez trust issues kill me.
me
and also hate getting to know people or letting people know you,,
You like being alone but hate feeling lonely
This really hits different when you realize you’re getting older and your childhood is fading away slowly all the memories are now gone...
the memories will never be gone, they gonna stay with me forever, remembered as amazing good times
That's true, but you can always make new ones with the people you love. Besides the people you made those memories with you can always make more.
yes, the memories will be gone but the emotions still remain
It has a different meaning for everyone
this music is literally the best way to just forget a little bit of the real world..just a little
you still feel that pain..even if its a small needle..
but..you know when your not broken..and you just feel empty inside?
i have a awesome life....what's the matter with me..why am i like this?..
I felt hard to breath I’m stunned just by that one sentence, it really hit me hard. We used to heard the word “You will understand when you grew up” and now we all knew that the thing we understand isn’t so good at all, there is a lot of feelings happens in my mind that I can really explain it at all.
Is there anyone here that wants their parents to just say “I’m so proud of you”
I’m proud of every single one of the people in this comment section
im not your parents, but im proud of you dude
At least why don't they say it once
For them it might be just words
But for us it might mean the world
yash lol
My parents can’t say that now
*"You will know once you grow up"*
So every night I kept praying that I'll grow up as fast as I could.
*fuck I messed up.*
ONGREGFU SAME BRO SAE R#FIHVEUF
cannot believe this man.
i used to here this song 2 year ago when i was depressed ,stressed up about my future , loosing contacts with friends ,feeling left alone but it took me 2 years to realize that it always doesn't matter until you are happy every day is a chance to be better and you are lucky to wake up every day to see the beauty of this world.
by me :- a random person on youtube
❤
"your so mature for your age!" Yeah. I know I am. It's because I was forced to grow up.
I got this all the time growing up
Yep. Same here. Except mine was "Oh you're such and old soul". It's not that I'm an 'Old Soul'. It's that I was forced to act more mature than what was expected of me.
My dad's girlfriend told me " your a women, your an adult" but.....im only 13.......I just wanna be a kid.....and not have these responsibilities. All I want was a good childhood.
I grew up by harrassing my ancient best friend, it was 4 years ago and I still regret what I did
Yes, hamburger.
Currently crying bc my brother is turning 3 tomorrow and I know someday he’ll actually be old enough to understand and I just don’t want him to go through that
then help him to not understand, k? i have siblings too and i'm the oldest. i'd do anything to not make them understand
my sister is 12 now. i feel like shit bc i made her understand. i thought she was too naive, but she is just an actual child. now she is in therapy, it's all my fault
@@carleta why don't you try helping her? I would like someone to care about me if i was her. Try playing games with her sometimes, talk with her and do fun things together. Protect her from any harm
Raise him with love 💗
@@carleta this comment worries me... w h a t
their are moments in life when you just realize that someone life changing just happened. unlike being a kid when you don't really understand tough situations, when you grow up it begins to feel like theirs a way to turn back time but sadly their isnt.
when this song was released, I didn't fully understand the lyrics, now that I'm an adult....just hearing the "old enough to understand" and the instrumental just makes me burst into tears.☹️
This hits hard when you realize life will only go downhill from here
life started going downhill as soon as we turned 10
@@acmx72 Middle schook 🎒📚
Mine starting hoing down hill when i was 7 and it hasnt stopped since 😍
No man,don't give up now. I know it's hard,but after all that you've been through in life,I know you will prevail. Keep on hoping even if it's dark
@@Hooaahhh thanks g
I'm sad, I don't know why but I just don't feel up to it anymore. I don't have the motivation to do things anymore it doesn't mean I'm lazy, it just means I don't have the energy. I'm not mad I just don't feel like smiling anymore. It's not that I'm avoiding you I just don't know what to say anymore...
Dont describ me, I don’t even know if I’m depressed or not because I don’t want to just say I am so that people can either judge me about how I’m faking it or if I’m just to scared to tell people why I’m so..... just done with life.. my life.. and everything
:(
@@shyytiny hi idrk you but hey I love okay im so proud of you for being here!!!! Keep going :) you got this and I'm in no better place than you are but you got this I believe in you 🙃
c.r.y.i.n.g
Sometimes i have that to, and then im just sad and crying. But my mom thinks that she can fix it but she can't.
We were warned when our parents said “You will understand this when you’re older” …
we were so excited about growing up, so what now? As kids we rush to grow ,now we think of going back on our childhoods