A story of Procrastination | Ka'b Ibn Malik (RA)

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
  • As-salamu Aleikum,
    I'm sure we've all dealt with procrastination. Here's a story from one of the Companions of the Prophet (saw) who dealt with it too!
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    TIME STAMP:
    0:00 salam!
    0:27 Intro into Ka'b ibn Malik
    1:20 Procrastination
    3:45 The Prophet decides to begin the journey
    5:05 Prophet (saw) notices Ka'b is missing
    6:10 The Muslims are returning
    7:05 Those who stayed behind come to give their excuses
    7:30 Ka'b meets the Prophet (saw)
    9:12 Ka'b has spoken the truth
    10:08 Is there anyone in my state?
    11:00 3 men forbidden to be spoken to
    12:28 Forty nights pass!
    13:40 Rejoice!
    14:08 The 3 were forgiven
    14:37 Ka'b meets the Prophet (saw) again
    15:08 Today is the Best Day You Have Had
    15:41 Ka'b had one question
    16:10 Conclusion
    16:57 Quran Verse mentioning these 3 people
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Komentáře • 84

  • @junaid-ekoomowunmi5339
    @junaid-ekoomowunmi5339 Před 9 měsíci +56

    Jazakumullahu khayran I will make use of this story. I will always imagine myself as kabb ibn Malik anytime I want to procastinate and think of the consequences I wouldn't want the prophet to be annoyed with me. May Allah make it easy for me and everyone of us

  • @salwa7929
    @salwa7929 Před 9 měsíci +39

    Imam Shāfi’ī رحمه الله said :
    ❝‎When the people abandon you when you are in a time of distress, ‎then know that Allāh wants to take over your affair and [make you] suffice with Him as a guardian.❞‎
    [إضاءات ايمانية ٢٩٨]

  • @marjeenakhan9235
    @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Satan attacks a sad believer when he is sad, alone and depressed🥺

  • @asmaaamin94
    @asmaaamin94 Před 9 měsíci +33

    6:00 How beautiful from Ka’ab bin Malik (RA) that he didn’t say the name of that man :’) but he said the name of Moath (RA) :’)
    10:50 Sometimes we really need company, we need to know that we are not alone :’)
    13:40 And subhanAllah that moment of day 50, he described his feelings exactly how it was described in Quraan :’), and subhanAllah at the same moment the good news came :’) sometimes we want everything to be fixed and answered right away! but no! we are in Dunya not in Jannah! surely we will be tested so we have to have patience and be firmed to what Allah want from us, just like Ka'b bin Malik (RA)
    Jazaki Allah khair Ghena :')

    • @nashiatislam
      @nashiatislam Před 9 měsíci +1

      nice to hear your reflections too!☺️

    • @meikaa-sl5ov
      @meikaa-sl5ov Před 9 měsíci +2

      I noticed your first point too! It is nice that he didn't mention the sahabi I think we as muslims should learn from that too!

    • @muhammadaminkhan2249
      @muhammadaminkhan2249 Před 8 měsíci

      Jazakumullah khairan kasera

  • @user77y2k
    @user77y2k Před 2 měsíci +1

    i cant believe the same Allah watching me type this was the same Allah who decided to test Ka'b !! wow we are so blessed to know about Allah

  • @AyeshaKhan-ov2ri
    @AyeshaKhan-ov2ri Před 9 měsíci +13

    May Allah forgive our sins and guide us to the straight path 🤲😭

  • @itslouka850
    @itslouka850 Před 9 měsíci +6

    i feel so down because of my constant procrastination and sinning why am i so weak

    • @sahr366
      @sahr366 Před 8 měsíci

      Oh dear. I feel you
      Ive been in your shoes before
      First thing you gotta salute yourself for wanting to change. This is a sign that theres good in you.
      Before I continue you gotta have certainty in you heart. If you think you’re low on this part of your deen. Don’t hesitate a quick research to help you to build a better picture of Allah.
      2. Stop judging yourself and don’t drown in self-loathing. Be resilient and accept yourself for who you really are right now and what you’ve done in the past.
      3. Pray pray pray. We are weak. We are nothing without our God. Admit this to him. Cry your heart out. Admit you wrongdoing and ask for His forgiveness. Tell him you want to be better. Ask Him for guidance. Plead with certainty that he will answer your duaa. He loves it for you to come to Him. If He saw no good in He wouldn’t have got you to feel this way about yourself and would let you go stray until theres no going back.
      So dont give up. He’s seeing you. He knows you want to change for the better.
      *i suggest you pray two rakas atleast right before Fajr prayer when everyone’s asleep *
      4. I repeat you gotta accept your self first. Be easy on yourself and never stop praying. Be sincere in your Duaa
      5. Start small!! Dont rush!! So that you don’t fall back.Dont worry. He sees. He knows your intention. You dont have to be a “super muslim” in a day or two. Something i wish someone told me before is that this process is slow but don’t you ever give up.!!! You came to Allah you think he’ll just leave you? This is the time where you’re sincerity is being test. Hold on!!!! Don’t you fall back. And DONT LET THE SHAYTAN BRING YOU DOWN. Around this time he’ll try alot to pull you. He’ll tell you youre not making any progress. He’ll make you think Allah is displeased and dont want you back. DONT YOU FALL FOR HIS WHISPERING. DON NOT LET HIM IN. Pray pray pray
      6. Listen to lectures To help you keep going.
      7. Your prayers you have to push yourself to pray the 5 prayers even if you dint feel like it. Again pray for strength to continue
      Take this now only for now and Inshallah you alone would know what do next as you keep going. You know why? Because Allah will open doors for you. Whether it be good lecture, good companionship, hate for music. I promise you everything will be okay soon InshaaAllah ❤️
      May Allah guide you to His straight path and that you keep going to win His satisfaction
      Keep thesein you mind and tongue 24/7
      ربنا اتنا في الدنيا حسنة و في الاخرة حسنة و قنا عذاب النار
      استغفر الله العلي العظيم
      لا اله الا انت سبحانك اني كنت كم الظالمين

    • @kinowwww
      @kinowwww Před 2 měsíci +1

      it is your test time dear💗ALLAH know you are strong and you can pass this test❤‍🩹

  • @shaherafarahkhan4886
    @shaherafarahkhan4886 Před 9 měsíci

    Subhan'Allah ❤

  • @guletizmail8349
    @guletizmail8349 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Mnshallah Allahuma barik.

  • @fatimasaadat9841
    @fatimasaadat9841 Před 9 měsíci

    Much needed...
    Thanks for the reminder ❤

  • @TheBang13
    @TheBang13 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I'm looking forward to watching this!

  • @muteeurrahman3921
    @muteeurrahman3921 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Mashallah tabarak Allah 😊

  • @Dungeonmaster222
    @Dungeonmaster222 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Jazakallah khair❤

  • @rumanaislam111
    @rumanaislam111 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Subhan-Allah, Alhamdulillah.
    Alhamdulillah, Jazak Allah Khaira. 🌷

  • @mohmedishak8853
    @mohmedishak8853 Před 9 měsíci

    Nice. This is a no bs channel 👏

  • @neneh-jallow
    @neneh-jallow Před 6 měsíci

    Sooo happy i found your channel. Allahuma Barik❤️

  • @coldcoffeeandcake-7511
    @coldcoffeeandcake-7511 Před 8 měsíci

    Love this cosy vibe, sister

  • @mehmed2022
    @mehmed2022 Před 9 měsíci +13

    I needed this type of video ❤

  • @zeylasacli1641
    @zeylasacli1641 Před 9 měsíci +7

    I nearly cried, mashallah sis your story telling is amazing❤

  • @nashiatislam
    @nashiatislam Před 9 měsíci +1

    jazakilLah khair sister🤍 a beautiful message in this story 🪷

  • @maryamyislam31
    @maryamyislam31 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Truly enjoyed the story with the lesson in it. JazakaAllah Kheir.

  • @faizarafique1899
    @faizarafique1899 Před 9 měsíci

    this was so good 😇

  • @ziyadaziya3384
    @ziyadaziya3384 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Want more videos like this❤❤

  • @asifahmad9395
    @asifahmad9395 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thanku so much sister.lots of love from Kashmir ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Aesh004
    @Aesh004 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I'm not going to watch it completely but I'm getting a reminder that I should not forget someone's heart ❤

  • @rasu1371
    @rasu1371 Před 9 měsíci

    MashaAllah, yore very articulate.

  • @TheSystemengineer
    @TheSystemengineer Před 8 měsíci

    Thankyou

  • @Squirrellium
    @Squirrellium Před 6 měsíci +1

    May Allah protect us from procrastination ameen ❤

  • @Fathurandhikaputra
    @Fathurandhikaputra Před 9 měsíci

    Assalamu Alaikum allah bless good for you Masha Allah i love this content for you dawah

  • @withCattitude
    @withCattitude Před 8 měsíci +1

    Masha'Allah the way you tell those stories is sooo amazing, it feels like we are living at that time and it's like a neighbour chat, I love it, please do more stories!

  • @daniyaroghay9699
    @daniyaroghay9699 Před 9 měsíci

    Wa alaykumussalamu wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

  • @roomyzu
    @roomyzu Před 9 měsíci

    Love your videos as always sis Ghena❤ May Allah swt bless you for your efforts 🤲ameen

  • @marjeenakhan9235
    @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci

    Allah surely was kind and merciful with these 3... 😭
    That although they wanted to make an excuse, Allah made such a situation that they couldn't 🥺😭😭 so kind...
    1st Allah semt hizoor sallallahu Alaihi wa aalihi wasallam and secondly the other 2 men...
    So that he could not lie... 🥺♥️♥️

  • @BassantFouad--
    @BassantFouad-- Před 9 měsíci +3

    Jazaki Allah kheir! very relatable and inspirational, and your way of telling the story and commenting is spot on like always!
    Please make more videos like this one so we can learn more about the sahaba and learn from their stories

  • @NoraMurdhi2030
    @NoraMurdhi2030 Před 8 měsíci

    thx sister keep going

  • @marjeenakhan9235
    @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci

    Allah 😭😭 All the ppl LOVED him😭😭😭
    The way they were giving him glad tidings🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️
    They were just obeying Allah when they used to ignore him...

  • @salihaeski535
    @salihaeski535 Před 8 měsíci

    I really liked to listen to you. In between of All this terrible things what happens right now, this story really effected me in a positive way. Because i actually AM in this Situation like Kaab, radiAllahuAnh. Jazak Allahu khayran for sharing.

  • @marjeenakhan9235
    @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci

    What a beautiful company that would be 😭🥺🥺
    The prophet sallallahu Alaihi wa aalihi wasallam sitting with the ppl after praying... After travel...
    How much do we love islamic sessions and sitting with the pious ppl...
    Imagine Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi wa aalihi wasallam ❤❤

  • @fatimasaadat9841
    @fatimasaadat9841 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Your way of explanation Ma Sha Allah so nice and calm.... That's way I love to listen your videos .....May Allah bless you both in duinya & Akhirha Ameen...
    Make more videos like This and boost out Iman🫀🤍

  • @didarhossain4764
    @didarhossain4764 Před 3 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤ From Bangladesh dear sister

  • @MA13-ll6cx
    @MA13-ll6cx Před 5 měsíci

    The name of the book is
    (STARS IN THE PROPHET'S ORBIT)

  • @Hm_vlr
    @Hm_vlr Před 9 měsíci

    The way I’ve been trying to get this book it’s literally sold out everywhere Subhanallah

    • @deenandchai
      @deenandchai  Před 9 měsíci +3

      I knowww I’ve been getting messages that it’s sold out everywhere 😢 inshaAllah it comes back in stock soon!

    • @itxmahnoor8745
      @itxmahnoor8745 Před 9 měsíci

      Could you please name the book?

  • @marjeenakhan9235
    @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci

    Oh my God... I always compare my exam to jihad when i am reading the Quran.
    And today I recited those ayahs in which those 3 were mentioned.
    Allah said Allah is merciful with them🥺 Those were such kind words.
    At 1st i was constantly considering myself as munafiq when reading the ayahs abt them. But then when their zikr came, i was so envious of them like kash Allah be so merciful with us too to grant us and then accept our toba.
    I was just imagining the story of repentance of Kaab which I had read in my childhood and had most probably wept on the way he had suffered, the way the whole world was dark around him.
    I was today thinking of myself. I too am like in that situation or would be if i failed. Despite having every facility,time, the ability to learn, etc everything Alhamdulillah. Just procrastination and no discipline is my problem.
    Then i just thought maybe i shd someday read his story again
    And now out of nowhere this vid came😭
    Thank you Allah
    It is so relatable 🥺🥺🥺
    May Allah forgive us❤❤

  • @marjeenakhan9235
    @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci

    Allah the upset smile😭😭😭😭😭

  • @asrw24
    @asrw24 Před 9 měsíci +1

    salam❤

  • @cahierdestage7807
    @cahierdestage7807 Před 9 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @tasneemmohammed1653
    @tasneemmohammed1653 Před 9 měsíci

  • @marjeenakhan9235
    @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci

    Hizoor sallallahu Alaihi wa aalihi wasallam not talking😭😭
    How sad and painful
    And imagine how painful it will be😭 on the day of judgement..
    When no one will be ours except Allah and Allah wouldn't talk to some ppl.. He will forget them... Bcz they forgot him in the world😭😭😭😭😭
    May Allah not make us one of them aaameeen😭🥺🥺

  • @nafslowama
    @nafslowama Před 8 měsíci +1

    Just a head's up that your video has an Israeli ad (One for Israel) at the start

  • @ummsulayman1
    @ummsulayman1 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Beautiful storytelling mash Allah
    Can you tell us where we can purchase the book from please (uae)

  • @myrsissn4080
    @myrsissn4080 Před 8 měsíci

    Salam aleyki i didnt finish the vidéo yet ❤ but can make a video about a Muslima journey type routine ? And how stop wasting Time? Jazaki Allah khairan❤

  • @HaroonKhan-ix3xs
    @HaroonKhan-ix3xs Před 9 měsíci +1

    😭

  • @Ikram-dj4kq
    @Ikram-dj4kq Před 8 měsíci

    Assalamu Alaykum ukhti! When are the dhikr cards are going to be available again on your website? Baraka Allahu fiki

  • @abdulrafey1914
    @abdulrafey1914 Před 8 měsíci

    Can someone tell me about book name?

  • @user-yh9gh1qx8r
    @user-yh9gh1qx8r Před 9 měsíci

    Please❤

  • @barelyadoctor3369
    @barelyadoctor3369 Před 9 měsíci +1

    AssalamuAlaykum, please share the name of the book that you're teaching this story from. JazakAllah khair

    • @juliancarax2719
      @juliancarax2719 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Stars in the Prophet's orbit

    • @barelyadoctor3369
      @barelyadoctor3369 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@juliancarax2719 thank you 💚, do you know if a free pdf version is available somewhere?

  • @doaa6564
    @doaa6564 Před 9 měsíci

    This type of videos so exited and beautiful 🤍🤍

  • @user-fz8zz9xn1h
    @user-fz8zz9xn1h Před 9 měsíci +1

    Happy milad un Nabi

  • @thehublife7958
    @thehublife7958 Před 9 měsíci +3

    The editing messed up, a bow tie

    • @opocoyo
      @opocoyo Před 9 měsíci +17

      I think she added it to cover part of her neck that maybe became uncovered during the recording.

    • @nashiatislam
      @nashiatislam Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@opocoyomashaAllah tabarakaAllah 🪷

  • @antoniot3734
    @antoniot3734 Před 8 měsíci

    'Promo sm' 👏

  • @shaheenkhan2719
    @shaheenkhan2719 Před 9 měsíci

    Assala mualaikum,
    Can you talk me

  • @hudabiyah
    @hudabiyah Před 9 měsíci

    Sorry to say but why have you placed this ribbon emoji, 😂

    • @marjeenakhan9235
      @marjeenakhan9235 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I think because she wanted to cover her neck. Maybe it was a little visible.
      Bcz in Islam it is considered as satar, a private part.

  • @kdpathak5202
    @kdpathak5202 Před 9 měsíci

    hey beautiful

  • @wafaadr5124
    @wafaadr5124 Před 9 měsíci