The son in the first concern really should see a vocal trainer. His pronounciation sounded much better when he made an effort. And his father should be nicer and start supporting him or at least care about it😪
silvervixen007 I can relate to him. I am girl but I have a deep voice. People would ask me if I was a boy or if I was a transgender. It is offensive. Although it's not the same thing but I think he should be more confident about his voice and stand up against people. "what's with your voice?" " I don't know. It started when I was 19 and I can't do anything about it. Please refrain from making unnecessary interventions." That's how I would deal with it.
It's not even sad, it's so fucking irritating. Had that been me I would have placed my own son in prison, I would have let the parents sue him and not pick up the mess he made. He's not even one bit remorseful,disgusting human being.
Meme Queen You're being a bit harsh. The reason he came on the show was to listen to his mom and change himself. I think he regrets his actions at least. Whether he actually changes is another matter. The son displays very typical behaviour of rebellion, and even has the typical backstory to explain his behaviour. The son thinks he is being independent by living on his own and doing what he wants like an adult, but this only shows he is still dependent and needs his mom more than anyone. But the mom, trying to cover up the consequences of her sons behaviour ended up encouraging it instead. It's sad.
Meme Queen Did you miss when he was crying or when they talked about how he grew up with parents fighting and a father that hit him and his mom? At first, I thought he was just a little shit but as the story went on you learned more. His behavior is in no way excusable though, but it is also at the same time understandable. You need to stop being simple minded. Maybe study some psychology if you want to.
I actually study Psychology in uni lmao Yeah he's still a bitch that needs to be disciplined, how can you disrespect your own parents like that lmao, THE NERVE.
CookiesTriedToEatMe yasss i jst got through saying like he too damn fine and american girls would love him i think his voice too me was sexy cause it was smooth and deep
Nini Mitchell His singing was terrible but no he's really hot & his voice is unique & attractive. Imagine him waking you up in the morning... I wonder what his morning voice is like omo
Kyungsoo, your voice is super cool. I hope people can learn to accept it. Honestly, I've barely heard him talk for an hour and I'm used to his voice. How can his colleagues still not be used to his voice? 😌😌😌
I WOULD DATE THAT FIRST GUY lmao but srsly I find his voice attractive but ye like the mcs mentioned the way his expression becomes he tends to come off roughly
Kiki Flamingo Saaame, but the thing is that Yongguk enunciated his words a lot, and his voice is very calm. I still didn't all the concern, but I think his voice will find its charm once he enunciate more.
Kiki Flamingo Oh my comment was deleted ! T-T I thought of him too. I said that yongguk have this habit of enunciate a lot all of his words and generally his voice his a bit softer. But the two are handsome, have cute smiles and laugh, I'm in love X'D 😍
The first guy I felt like the parents neglected him, his dad called him a mutant?! Like what the hell. They kinda looked stuck up like they were so ashamed of their son. I kinda reminded me of Matsumoto Jun in Gokusen, kinda has a Japanese look bt its not a bad thing. He looks nice when he smiles.
The mom with her scamming son had me mad. There only so much you can do as a mother, sometime you just have to let your kids face their consequences. He keeps doing these things cause she keep saving him.
barqueen245 don't forget that she is a divorced woman and being a single mother can be hard to control your kids. You don't want your kids to hate you so you try to take on the blame.
I think she did that because she knows her children suffered as much as she did from her divorce and wants to keep them in a safety bubble and protect them at all times. I'm sure she'll change now.
I agree with everyone, and I also think she's trying to make it up to the parents who got scammed because she feels responsible for her son. If she doesn't pay, he probably won't. I think she was trying to make it up to them just as much as she was trying to protect her son.
FYI this is not a show conducted by psychologists...this is a show being conducted to show to the world problems people have...while the hosts may not provide permanent solutions just talking about problems take a load off your mind. and no psychologist can solve most of these issues in one sitting anyway....let's all take the show for what it's meant... that there are people with real problems in life and that we should be grateful for what we have and be positive!!
I am so happy that the boy in the first concern doesn't have any medical problem. He is very handsome and actually i don't think his voice is unpleasant. When i watch this show i always get stunned by the level of disrespect some people get for things that are their natural look or they can't change by will. I can't imagine being so cruel to another person. There were other episodes that dealt with the same problem and i simply get mad at the people and especially the parents, who are ashamed or neglecting their own child. I hope only that by reading the supportive comments he will see that he shouldn't be sorry or ashamed of what he is. Good luck. Second concern is gut-wrenching i cried the whole time- poor mother, i hope the son becomes better soon and supports his mother.
I love men with deep voices so if I ever met him I would go crazy. If he spoke in my ear I would literally melt. I think people are just rude and I hope he'll realize that his voice is what sets him apart from others.
omg the guy in the first concern is so hot, he should become an actor and play some villain/army roles his voice is perfect. ahhhhh his smile! im crying
Everyone keeps saying that a real therapist or pro shud be on the show... honestly i kinda disagree cuz the hosts are now spending a lot of time on the concerns compared to the previous years and are also going in depth with the concerns...People shud understand this is more of an entertainment show if there will be a doc or something it will get quite serious.. and Fyi some of the concerns are provided with more counseling backstage, keep up with the news!! Loved this episode it was great! :))
thank you. I don't know why everyone these days just liek to assume shit. They want to see and hear about EVERYTHING. like you don't need to see or hear about whether they get them a real psychologist or not and they don't have to mention it / show it. they're all missing the point of the show and the hosts
THIS is the point I was looking for in the comments! I'm glad you mentioned this because I'm tired of hearing people saying "oh they should hire real counselors" when those people don't even realize that that's the point the hosts were trying to make.
Man I feel sooo bad for the family in the second concern. The mom is so patient and strong. I feel for the son too but I hope he realizes that his dads actions doesn't justify his. My prayers go out to them.
The guy in the first concern probably had a facial stroke at 20 which affected his mouth and didn't fully regain movement. I had a similar issue at 17 in high school. I had a facial stroke which affected only one side of my face. I woke up one morning with one side of my face paralyzed. I slowly regained movement weeks later but for a long time, the effects to my eye and that side of mouth were obvious. I spoke with one side of my mouth and like him, i didn't go to the hospital. I think he needs to seek vocal therapy, some other therapy to help regain full movement to the right side of his face.
At the first concern, I kept thinking "Oh his name is Kyungsoo AND he has a deep voice." The second concern had me bawling till the guy mentioned his brother called Minseok... by the end I was just wondering if any other EXO member's name would come up.
I'm a medical student and this show is really helping me study lol. I build differential diagnoses for the people on the show, so many of them have psychiatric and other medical issues.
the hosts are great and everything but they need a real counselor on permanent staff. I don't think the show wants to take such a serious route but they need to get a professional on there
it's a tv show. if people need a real counselor, they can go to one. these are more for a perspective from regular people who speak their minds and make it lighter with comedy in the mix. it's not to have patients.
Well, they come to this show to find solutions to their problems as well.. And some problems are so severe that psychologists are needed to actually provide a solution.. Just because it is a TV show does not mean they don't want answers to their problems, because they do, and sometimes the MCs are just not capable of providing a good enough or helpful enough solution.. I totally agree that a professional counselor is needed because this is a counseling show..
they know it's a show. they know they're not going to actually get professional help, not even close actually. the hosts even advise the people who send in concerns to NOT watch the show when it airs. this isn't a counseling show, this is an *entertainment* show. the hosts themselves have mentioned this multiple times, and also mentioned that they have professionals on a few times, but they don't want the show to become serious as much as possible. people who send in concerns know exactly what the show is like, and they know that professionals exist. they're not stupid.
this is a damn tv show not a therapy place, pretty sure f they wanted a doctor/ a real counsler theyd go to one and if after the show they found the concern serious, pretty sure the shw will try and help/guide them to a doctor or whatever if they cant do it themselves. this is for entertainment and just a show when r u gonna understand tht, and wht is the doctor gonna do on the show? theres no time for her/him to explain what the patient/viewer needs to do , itll take hours and hours and this is an hour long show, its not gonna get solved when a real counsler comes, its not tht easy. like use ur brain damn.
I know they have been doing a better job lately and they are looking deeper into reason behind peoples behaviour without just judging them. I think they did a good job on the second issue like they got both mum and son to be open, I think the son should of said sorry tho.
I really have a thing for low voice (Bang Yongguk~~~~😍😍😍😍😍), the guy in the first concern spoke for one minute I was already used to his voice When he said "I love you" I was screaming "HE'S TOO CUUUUUUUUTE"
the second one gives me shivers.. we see these type of stories in dramas all the time but being reminded it happens in real life all the time... i hope they are much happier now
if Sandeul was there instead of Cnu he would've related to the last problem so much 😂😂 he'd be like CHANNIE EATS THE SAME BUT AM THE ONLY ONE WHI GAINS WEIGHT AND BE SCOLDED 😂😂😂😂😂 Shinwoo's smile is everything.btw ❤❤❤❤❤
The first guy was hot and the voice was as well when he started talking with his lips more and he started smiling and laughing I just melted he's so cute
I really hope the son in the second concern turns his life around. Seeing his mother's thumb broke my heart and I can't imagine the embarrassment she had to go through kneeling in front of people in a crowded cafe.
In the first concern, i’m more shocked by the fact that they didn’t went to the hospital, like its been 5 years since his voice went so low but they didn’t thought there was something wrong? the 2nd concern was so emotional, i cried so much please let them be happy again...
I actually really like the first person's voice. Its so comforting to me. But the way they handled the situation mindblows me..they need a permanent and real counselor on staff
So many comments are there saying that the MC's are bad at counselling because they want the person with the concern to make changes. Reality is, if you want people to treat you a certain way, if you want situations to change, it's unrealistic to wait for the other person/s to change while you do nothing. I'm in counselling and my professional therapist has given me tips on how to change myself for the better. Also, in most of these concerns, the problem isn't one way. While they have issues with other people, other people also have issues with them. In a parent child relationship that has become strained, not only one person is at fault and it is unfair to blame one person and demand they change without helping the other to realize that relationships are give and take and they need to consider the feelings of the other person/s involved. I think the MC's are doing an excellent job considering the platform they have.
I cried n the second concern. it's really hard to see parents are fighting in front of their kid's.. I experience that n really like I want to die than to see there fighting goshhh😔😔
I think the comments that are on the screen around 20:55 are really insensitive. "he makes others feel uncomfortable" wow. Maybe others should work on not making him feel uncomfortable. the show needs to work on that
i love the mcs, they're funny and all but they're really bad at couseling. I noticed that today in the first concern, instead of heilping him to be more confident and to stood up against the people that prejudice him, they're telling him why didn't he go to the hospital or to voice therapy.... He doesn't have to change because of people around it's them who shouldn't be mean to someone because of his voice !!! i also noticed that they tend to slightly blam the person who send the concern or find any stupid excuse to the bad (sometimes ill) comportement of the other person and i find it really disturbing because instead of confirming that, yes, the person is mistreated and should do something, they are more like yes you're mistreated BUT.... it tends to destroy the self-confidence and encourage the feeling of guilt and useless of the person who send the concern. I think the show would be much better and actually helpful with real therapists. Or at least them having a formation on how they should counsel because their counseling is really bad and toxic for the ones who send concerns
I think it's not wrong to check in the hospital. He could be having a serious problem with his vocal cords or facial muscles since he spoke normally before the age of 20. I do agree on the necessity of having a professional on the show, though, and I've felt that way many times when a counsellor would have provided much help for some serious concerns. But I'm not so sure about this. ETA: I've looked up causes for voice deepening and the potential causes were serious.
another person who takes this so seriously. this is a tv show. if people want real counseling, they can go to a real counselor. everyone knows they exist and everyone knows this is a freaking show. the guests know they're going to hear personal opinions and jokes. it's not taken extremely seriously, otherwise there are professionals for that.
+H. I.M. i didn't know about the hospital part and in that case it's okay. Sometimes yeah thy're being actually helpful but i feel like recently they're more playful and careless, and some of the advices they gave are so bad
btsvelvet I think they did a great job on the first concern. Of course people need to stop mocking him, but he can also change a little bit to prevent misunderstandings. For example he frowns a lot which make him look angry when he's simply just thinking). Pus, he doesn't enunciate (I write this everywhere sorry) and that's what's make his voice sounds "weird", he does have a beautiful voice l, but he needs to work on these two points. The efforts need to be shared.~^.^~
+Eika Pumpkin ofc i take this seriously the people here send their concerns to be counseled correctly and the excuse of this being a "freaking show" is irrelevant because no matter what they should give good advices. plus those people may know counseling but don't want to go ? they may rather ask to actual people ( the audience)
I love his voice however I feel for health reasons he should get a CT scan on his brain. Something is not connecting and his movements suggest he may have had a mini stroke.
Shirley Hurley I'm a prek teacher with a psychology degree, a cda, and in school earning my ece certification. With my psychology degree we took physio classes about the brain, how it works mentally and physically, as well as it's parts had to do disections and everything . The left frontal lobe has an area known as Broca's that controls our language and speech motor skills. If he had damage to it because if a sudden stroke and never went to doctor all these years to receive therapy it would explain why he has difficulty controlling his facial expressions and upper lip while speaking. the doctor on the video did say he needed further testing maybe he wanted to check his brain but couldn't because of lack of time to get results in. he does sound very masculine though I wouldn't mind his voice :)
so if he did have a stroke at some point in his life and didn't see a doctor, is there anything that can be done about it? like, is it possible to get his normal voice back? even though the doctor said his vocal chords were clear... I'm curious.
He really should visit a speech therapist (logoped) to receive some help.They help people with similar/same problems. It seems to hinder him in his everyday life judging by his story.- it's an investment of time and money for his own sake.
I feel incredibly sad for the mom in the second concern, her son is totally out of control and I do think it's also because of no father figure to correct and guide him, especially that his real father was an abuser.
Here in Brazil it is common for people to eat pizza with mayonnaise and ketchup, but even for us mayonnaise in that amount is an exaggeration, but if the boy from the last concern likes, I do not see any problem, I just find it funny. kkkkk
Rayssabúho Silva I don't like putting other stuff on pizza, I think it kills the taste. Anyway, ketchup is normal but mayo... Not among the people I know
The second concern brought me to tears and I don't cry easily this is one onf the saddest concerns that has been on the show for a while that poor lady bless her heart (im only 16) but ive witnessed my aunt get abused and her kids get abused by there father so they now one of them acts the same way because he thinks it the only way he can express his love
The mom in the second concern has a remarkable amount of love for her son and it was incredibly hard to listen to everything she suffered through and then apologize to her troublesome son.
wow, i fully understand the feeling of the first guy, i am a lady who speaks in a heavy voice, i have experienced pain because of it that i couldn't talk around many people or even in class but I'm trying to accept my voice.
I feel so bad for the first guy. His voice is really low but its not that bad. Unless it's hindering his health, I guess. Lots of people love deep voices and he kyungsoo doesn't deserve to be mistreated because of his.
It has been awhile since there was such a serious and alarming concern until the second one. I do hope that the son does keep his word and change because at the rate of how things are, I will not be surprised if the mother either collapses or even go down the suicidal path. She has been abused enough from her ex-husband, and now both her son and society? She has nowhere to run to and if the son does not change, she better keep her word on not saving him anymore. He is a grown adult who has committed enough crime to be sued, and I must say is rather lucky to have not landed himself in jail (yet, if he continues with his ways). I do hope to see the two of them on "Hello News!" one day as a happy family.
Kyungsoo is very good looking and I think that a lot of girls will like him once he smiles when he talks and annunciates like they said in the show frankly I like his voice it’s unique so kyungsoo you can do it! And I really hope you find love😊🤗
I don't understand why girls won't date the guy in the first concern. He's good looking, seems to have a nice personality. The only problem, or the leading cause is his voice. Maybe it's a cultural thing idk. I don't think he'd get the same reaction in America. I would be amazed, but I wouldn't tease him Dafuq
I'm surprised going through the comments that no one noticed that the son displayed characteristics of depression. And that actually needs professional help to get through, not some variety show that gives basic and actually sometimes a little meaningless advice to their viewers and guests. I hope that the son is currently doing well and is working with his mom to get through this though.
Dinh Ann I agree. They made it seem like he was in a rebellious or ungrateful phase or like it was a behavioral problem he can control and change on his own. I really hope he gets the help and support he needs. Praying for healing and happier times for their family💟
The 2nd concern was heartbreaking what the mother has gone through. She needs to stop enabling her son. I hope this truly is an eye opener for him bc he's been doing lots of illegal criminal activity. He should pay back his mother every single penny.
The son in the first concern really should see a vocal trainer. His pronounciation sounded much better when he made an effort. And his father should be nicer and start supporting him or at least care about it😪
silvervixen007 I can relate to him. I am girl but I have a deep voice. People would ask me if I was a boy or if I was a transgender. It is offensive. Although it's not the same thing but I think he should be more confident about his voice and stand up against people.
"what's with your voice?" " I don't know. It started when I was 19 and I can't do anything about it. Please refrain from making unnecessary interventions." That's how I would deal with it.
silvervixen007 I know I legit think his parents (especially the father) honestly didn't give a a shit 🤔
Niki Sta ya i wondered the same thing the muscles or a slight stroke or something...
True.. It seemed like the father was mocking him as well, he did not seem worried at all :/
Yeah I feel like he should go to a hospital just to make sure it's not a serious disease
To the first guy: You have a gorgeous low voice and you're very handsome, smile and enunciate it will make the difference.
Fighting !!
how the heck can you go from a mother suffering because of her son to a guy addicted to mayonnaise
Burger Senpai I don't know why but your comment made me die of laughter ahahaha
Because they dont have a buffer in between segments lol
Burger Senpai He was lube enough to slide in.
My fucking same thought after hearing the story.
The second concern is the saddest on this show I've seen in a while. I really hope they become happy again.
It's not even sad, it's so fucking irritating. Had that been me I would have placed my own son in prison, I would have let the parents sue him and not pick up the mess he made.
He's not even one bit remorseful,disgusting human being.
Meme Queen You're being a bit harsh. The reason he came on the show was to listen to his mom and change himself. I think he regrets his actions at least. Whether he actually changes is another matter. The son displays very typical behaviour of rebellion, and even has the typical backstory to explain his behaviour. The son thinks he is being independent by living on his own and doing what he wants like an adult, but this only shows he is still dependent and needs his mom more than anyone. But the mom, trying to cover up the consequences of her sons behaviour ended up encouraging it instead. It's sad.
KidOnTheNet p
Meme Queen Did you miss when he was crying or when they talked about how he grew up with parents fighting and a father that hit him and his mom? At first, I thought he was just a little shit but as the story went on you learned more. His behavior is in no way excusable though, but it is also at the same time understandable. You need to stop being simple minded. Maybe study some psychology if you want to.
I actually study Psychology in uni lmao
Yeah he's still a bitch that needs to be disciplined, how can you disrespect your own parents like that lmao, THE NERVE.
my heart breaks for the mom in the second concern, she deserves better ;;
it is. but she also allows and enables it
The second concern made me so emotional. Thank you tissues for keeping me company.
The guy with the first concern looked so cute when he blurted out his smile ☺️☺️☺️
The boy in the first concern is too fine
CookiesTriedToEatMe finally someone who think his hot too 💕
CookiesTriedToEatMe yasss i jst got through saying like he too damn fine and american girls would love him i think his voice too me was sexy cause it was smooth and deep
Nini Mitchell His singing was terrible but no he's really hot & his voice is unique & attractive. Imagine him waking you up in the morning... I wonder what his morning voice is like omo
Okay Chweee oh my GOD girl don't even i would... I'm not even gonna say wht im thinking 😂😂😂
seriously hes hot!!!!
The Mayonnaise dude is the real life version of Hijikata Toshiro.
bless you, i thought i was the only one who thought of Hijikata
Kyungsoo, your voice is super cool. I hope people can learn to accept it. Honestly, I've barely heard him talk for an hour and I'm used to his voice. How can his colleagues still not be used to his voice? 😌😌😌
I WOULD DATE THAT FIRST GUY lmao but srsly I find his voice attractive but ye like the mcs mentioned the way his expression becomes he tends to come off roughly
mooarmy same he's really handsome ❤❤
No one understands me due to getting hit on the back of my head with a baseball
True... I mean it is idiotic to think just for his voice.. He was rejected
Omg yess he's so attractive
Yasss!! Same!! ❤️❤️
First concern has me thinking of Bang Yongguk, haha! He's so handsome and has a twin too, just like this guy!!😍
Kiki Flamingo Saaame, but the thing is that Yongguk enunciated his words a lot, and his voice is very calm.
I still didn't all the concern, but I think his voice will find its charm once he enunciate more.
Yes I think so too! He was just the first person that popped into my head that's all haha, Yongguk definitely is much easier to understand!
Kiki Flamingo Oh my comment was deleted ! T-T
I thought of him too.
I said that yongguk have this habit of enunciate a lot all of his words and generally his voice his a bit softer.
But the two are handsome, have cute smiles and laugh, I'm in love X'D 😍
titemartiniquaise I know me too!! Also they are twins, it's quadruple the cuteness hehe ^^
Kiki Flamingo Yeeeeees (I'm at the 23:06 point and I'm just screaming out of cuteness)
The first guy I felt like the parents neglected him, his dad called him a mutant?! Like what the hell. They kinda looked stuck up like they were so ashamed of their son. I kinda reminded me of Matsumoto Jun in Gokusen, kinda has a Japanese look bt its not a bad thing. He looks nice when he smiles.
He's so frigging handsome omigosh
Shin Sawada ❤
He’s super handsome and his voice is lovely 😭 I would be his friend if I lived in korea
Welcome to Korea
The mom with her scamming son had me mad. There only so much you can do as a mother, sometime you just have to let your kids face their consequences. He keeps doing these things cause she keep saving him.
barqueen245 don't forget that she is a divorced woman and being a single mother can be hard to control your kids. You don't want your kids to hate you so you try to take on the blame.
He should be the one working part time in a restaurant to pay for his drinking, not her
I think she did that because she knows her children suffered as much as she did from her divorce and wants to keep them in a safety bubble and protect them at all times. I'm sure she'll change now.
I agree with everyone, and I also think she's trying to make it up to the parents who got scammed because she feels responsible for her son. If she doesn't pay, he probably won't. I think she was trying to make it up to them just as much as she was trying to protect her son.
I don't know what to say about the first concern it's look like he's really having a hard time to speak or to communicate.. even me I got surprise....
FYI this is not a show conducted by psychologists...this is a show being conducted to show to the world problems people have...while the hosts may not provide permanent solutions just talking about problems take a load off your mind. and no psychologist can solve most of these issues in one sitting anyway....let's all take the show for what it's meant... that there are people with real problems in life and that we should be grateful for what we have and be positive!!
I am so happy that the boy in the first concern doesn't have any medical problem. He is very handsome and actually i don't think his voice is unpleasant. When i watch this show i always get stunned by the level of disrespect some people get for things that are their natural look or they can't change by will. I can't imagine being so cruel to another person. There were other episodes that dealt with the same problem and i simply get mad at the people and especially the parents, who are ashamed or neglecting their own child. I hope only that by reading the supportive comments he will see that he shouldn't be sorry or ashamed of what he is. Good luck. Second concern is gut-wrenching i cried the whole time- poor mother, i hope the son becomes better soon and supports his mother.
I love men with deep voices so if I ever met him I would go crazy. If he spoke in my ear I would literally melt. I think people are just rude and I hope he'll realize that his voice is what sets him apart from others.
omg the guy in the first concern is so hot, he should become an actor and play some villain/army roles his voice is perfect. ahhhhh his smile! im crying
Everyone keeps saying that a real therapist or pro shud be on the show... honestly i kinda disagree cuz the hosts are now spending a lot of time on the concerns compared to the previous years and are also going in depth with the concerns...People shud understand this is more of an entertainment show if there will be a doc or something it will get quite serious.. and Fyi some of the concerns are provided with more counseling backstage, keep up with the news!! Loved this episode it was great! :))
thank you. I don't know why everyone these days just liek to assume shit. They want to see and hear about EVERYTHING. like you don't need to see or hear about whether they get them a real psychologist or not and they don't have to mention it / show it.
they're all missing the point of the show and the hosts
THIS is the point I was looking for in the comments! I'm glad you mentioned this because I'm tired of hearing people saying "oh they should hire real counselors" when those people don't even realize that that's the point the hosts were trying to make.
Shirley Hurley 😣😣😣😣😣😣😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😒😒😒😒😒
^ this, thank you.
I'm always late to these!! Omg but CNU was killing it! His voice 😍😍
Man I feel sooo bad for the family in the second concern. The mom is so patient and strong. I feel for the son too but I hope he realizes that his dads actions doesn't justify his. My prayers go out to them.
The guy in the first concern probably had a facial stroke at 20 which affected his mouth and didn't fully regain movement. I had a similar issue at 17 in high school. I had a facial stroke which affected only one side of my face. I woke up one morning with one side of my face paralyzed. I slowly regained movement weeks later but for a long time, the effects to my eye and that side of mouth were obvious. I spoke with one side of my mouth and like him, i didn't go to the hospital. I think he needs to seek vocal therapy, some other therapy to help regain full movement to the right side of his face.
I would agree, but later on in the video he was able to smile fully and use all muscles in his face.
I think you’re talking about Bell’s palsy. I’m sorry that happened to you.
The 2 story hit me hard, those feel ;-;
At the first concern, I kept thinking "Oh his name is Kyungsoo AND he has a deep voice." The second concern had me bawling till the guy mentioned his brother called Minseok... by the end I was just wondering if any other EXO member's name would come up.
Chandreyi Sen i thought the same thing when i saw his name, then minseok later😂
I'm a medical student and this show is really helping me study lol. I build differential diagnoses for the people on the show, so many of them have psychiatric and other medical issues.
the hosts are great and everything but they need a real counselor on permanent staff. I don't think the show wants to take such a serious route but they need to get a professional on there
it's a tv show. if people need a real counselor, they can go to one. these are more for a perspective from regular people who speak their minds and make it lighter with comedy in the mix. it's not to have patients.
Well, they come to this show to find solutions to their problems as well.. And some problems are so severe that psychologists are needed to actually provide a solution.. Just because it is a TV show does not mean they don't want answers to their problems, because they do, and sometimes the MCs are just not capable of providing a good enough or helpful enough solution.. I totally agree that a professional counselor is needed because this is a counseling show..
they know it's a show. they know they're not going to actually get professional help, not even close actually. the hosts even advise the people who send in concerns to NOT watch the show when it airs. this isn't a counseling show, this is an *entertainment* show. the hosts themselves have mentioned this multiple times, and also mentioned that they have professionals on a few times, but they don't want the show to become serious as much as possible. people who send in concerns know exactly what the show is like, and they know that professionals exist. they're not stupid.
this is a damn tv show not a therapy place, pretty sure f they wanted a doctor/ a real counsler theyd go to one and if after the show they found the concern serious, pretty sure the shw will try and help/guide them to a doctor or whatever if they cant do it themselves. this is for entertainment and just a show when r u gonna understand tht, and wht is the doctor gonna do on the show? theres no time for her/him to explain what the patient/viewer needs to do , itll take hours and hours and this is an hour long show, its not gonna get solved when a real counsler comes, its not tht easy. like use ur brain damn.
I know they have been doing a better job lately and they are looking deeper into reason behind peoples behaviour without just judging them. I think they did a good job on the second issue like they got both mum and son to be open, I think the son should of said sorry tho.
The third concern's cholesterol must be through the absolute roof. Just because you're skinny does not mean you're healthy.
The mother in the second concern actually makes my heart melt
I really have a thing for low voice (Bang Yongguk~~~~😍😍😍😍😍), the guy in the first concern spoke for one minute I was already used to his voice
When he said "I love you" I was screaming "HE'S TOO CUUUUUUUUTE"
the second concern made me tear up and cheer up at the end because the son was ready to change. wish them happiness
the second one gives me shivers.. we see these type of stories in dramas all the time but being reminded it happens in real life all the time... i hope they are much happier now
if Sandeul was there instead of Cnu he would've related to the last problem so much 😂😂 he'd be like CHANNIE EATS THE SAME BUT AM THE ONLY ONE WHI GAINS WEIGHT AND BE SCOLDED 😂😂😂😂😂
Shinwoo's smile is everything.btw ❤❤❤❤❤
The first guy was hot and the voice was as well when he started talking with his lips more and he started smiling and laughing I just melted he's so cute
2nd concern: ......................the gall of that boy, i'm speechless. 힘내세요 어머니!!! 😢😢😢
I really hope the son in the second concern turns his life around. Seeing his mother's thumb broke my heart and I can't imagine the embarrassment she had to go through kneeling in front of people in a crowded cafe.
I'M WEAK CNU'S VOICE ❤❤❤
Tha ty I can relate
In the first concern, i’m more shocked by the fact that they didn’t went to the hospital, like its been 5 years since his voice went so low but they didn’t thought there was something wrong?
the 2nd concern was so emotional, i cried so much please let them be happy again...
The guy with the deep voice has a nice voice. It sounds lovely. I like it alot. It's sad that people make fun of him cause of his voice.
I actually really like the first person's voice. Its so comforting to me. But the way they handled the situation mindblows me..they need a permanent and real counselor on staff
So many comments are there saying that the MC's are bad at counselling because they want the person with the concern to make changes. Reality is, if you want people to treat you a certain way, if you want situations to change, it's unrealistic to wait for the other person/s to change while you do nothing. I'm in counselling and my professional therapist has given me tips on how to change myself for the better. Also, in most of these concerns, the problem isn't one way. While they have issues with other people, other people also have issues with them. In a parent child relationship that has become strained, not only one person is at fault and it is unfair to blame one person and demand they change without helping the other to realize that relationships are give and take and they need to consider the feelings of the other person/s involved. I think the MC's are doing an excellent job considering the platform they have.
Mothers are the BEST...the ONLY one who will accept you with all your faults
I cried n the second concern. it's really hard to see parents are fighting in front of their kid's.. I experience that n really like I want to die than to see there fighting goshhh😔😔
I don't think it's nice to fat shame him (the last guy)
I think the comments that are on the screen around 20:55 are really insensitive. "he makes others feel uncomfortable" wow. Maybe others should work on not making him feel uncomfortable. the show needs to work on that
OMG THE GUY IN THE FIRST WORRY IS SO F******* CUTE!!!!!❤️❤️❤️😍
Also the 1st boy's smile was amazing
The second concern broke my heart 😪 I couldn't help but cry when the the grandma started talking about their home life 💔
i love the mcs, they're funny and all but they're really bad at couseling. I noticed that today in the first concern, instead of heilping him to be more confident and to stood up against the people that prejudice him, they're telling him why didn't he go to the hospital or to voice therapy.... He doesn't have to change because of people around it's them who shouldn't be mean to someone because of his voice !!! i also noticed that they tend to slightly blam the person who send the concern or find any stupid excuse to the bad (sometimes ill) comportement of the other person and i find it really disturbing because instead of confirming that, yes, the person is mistreated and should do something, they are more like yes you're mistreated BUT.... it tends to destroy the self-confidence and encourage the feeling of guilt and useless of the person who send the concern. I think the show would be much better and actually helpful with real therapists. Or at least them having a formation on how they should counsel because their counseling is really bad and toxic for the ones who send concerns
I think it's not wrong to check in the hospital. He could be having a serious problem with his vocal cords or facial muscles since he spoke normally before the age of 20. I do agree on the necessity of having a professional on the show, though, and I've felt that way many times when a counsellor would have provided much help for some serious concerns. But I'm not so sure about this.
ETA: I've looked up causes for voice deepening and the potential causes were serious.
another person who takes this so seriously. this is a tv show. if people want real counseling, they can go to a real counselor. everyone knows they exist and everyone knows this is a freaking show. the guests know they're going to hear personal opinions and jokes. it's not taken extremely seriously, otherwise there are professionals for that.
+H. I.M. i didn't know about the hospital part and in that case it's okay. Sometimes yeah thy're being actually helpful but i feel like recently they're more playful and careless, and some of the advices they gave are so bad
btsvelvet I think they did a great job on the first concern. Of course people need to stop mocking him, but he can also change a little bit to prevent misunderstandings.
For example he frowns a lot which make him look angry when he's simply just thinking). Pus, he doesn't enunciate (I write this everywhere sorry) and that's what's make his voice sounds "weird", he does have a beautiful voice l, but he needs to work on these two points.
The efforts need to be shared.~^.^~
+Eika Pumpkin ofc i take this seriously the people here send their concerns to be counseled correctly and the excuse of this being a "freaking show" is irrelevant because no matter what they should give good advices. plus those people may know counseling but don't want to go ? they may rather ask to actual people ( the audience)
YOU HEARD THAT LEO. COFFEE IS BAD FOR VOCAL CHORDS
But I love me some coffee.... :'( and Leo too
I haven't seen CNU in years his hair looks so nice and so is he
I love his voice however I feel for health reasons he should get a CT scan on his brain. Something is not connecting and his movements suggest he may have had a mini stroke.
are you a doctor or a medi student? because what you said doesnt really seem right to me, care to explain?
Aomie you know that's what I thought too, that he may have had a stroke.
Shirley Hurley I'm a prek teacher with a psychology degree, a cda, and in school earning my ece certification. With my psychology degree we took physio classes about the brain, how it works mentally and physically, as well as it's parts had to do disections and everything . The left frontal lobe has an area known as Broca's that controls our language and speech motor skills. If he had damage to it because if a sudden stroke and never went to doctor all these years to receive therapy it would explain why he has difficulty controlling his facial expressions and upper lip while speaking. the doctor on the video did say he needed further testing maybe he wanted to check his brain but couldn't because of lack of time to get results in. he does sound very masculine though I wouldn't mind his voice :)
got it, thanks! :))
so if he did have a stroke at some point in his life and didn't see a doctor, is there anything that can be done about it? like, is it possible to get his normal voice back? even though the doctor said his vocal chords were clear... I'm curious.
*Yeongja: "I AM THE SOLUTION!"*
Okay, well lemme just write your name down for question #12...
Man, the second concern breaks my heart... I haven't teared up so much like that in a long time
He really should visit a speech therapist (logoped) to receive some help.They help people with similar/same problems. It seems to hinder him in his everyday life judging by his story.- it's an investment of time and money for his own sake.
I feel incredibly sad for the mom in the second concern, her son is totally out of control and I do think it's also because of no father figure to correct and guide him, especially that his real father was an abuser.
Here in Brazil it is common for people to eat pizza with mayonnaise and ketchup, but even for us mayonnaise in that amount is an exaggeration, but if the boy from the last concern likes, I do not see any problem, I just find it funny. kkkkk
Rayssabúho Silva I don't like putting other stuff on pizza, I think it kills the taste. Anyway, ketchup is normal but mayo... Not among the people I know
The second concern reminded me of how my uncle was when my grandparents were alive.
The son from the first case is so handsome and cool tho.
I actually like his voice 😊 I got used to it in only 10minutes
hahahah the guy in the first concern was so cute when he was trying to sing hahahaha omg i would have hugged him too
Need to check in at ENT for proper examination of voice cord.
the doctor said he still needs to do more exams
first concern dude is good looking lawd...haha and his buddy too.....yah
The second concern brought me to tears and I don't cry easily this is one onf the saddest concerns that has been on the show for a while that poor lady bless her heart (im only 16) but ive witnessed my aunt get abused and her kids get abused by there father so they now one of them acts the same way because he thinks it the only way he can express his love
The mom in the second concern has a remarkable amount of love for her son and it was incredibly hard to listen to everything she suffered through and then apologize to her troublesome son.
when I heard ' Addicted to mayonnaise ' I remembered Hijikata Toushiro from the anime Gintama.
Cried my eyes out for the second concern. I hope her family finds happiness.
The friends from the last concern are super cute and their friendship too.
This is random but the mom from the second concern is so pretty
I can tell that youngja feel special when she sit on the stage in this episode
I hope they do a follow-up for the second concern.
Parents: you can be whatever u want darling. Doctor, lawyer, accounting, whatever you want :)))))))
The boy in the first concern is so good looking like idc bout his voice and love his attitude 😊
That mayonnaise guy, instead of having pizza with mayo he is eating mayo with pizza, that was too much
People are so bias, his voice is freaken awesome! He should make money out of it, cheer up boy!
The guy with the deep voice is so handsome!!!!
The first guy has a really attractive voice wtf. His pronunciation is the only thing that baffled me. Plus he's really cute.
why would anyone have a problem with his voice, he fine
I can tell you now, the guy who studied in Japan and loves mayonnaise has watched Gintama. There is no other explinatiom
Am I the only one that thinks that the first person is handsome... I like him❤️
wow, i fully understand the feeling of the first guy, i am a lady who speaks in a heavy voice, i have experienced pain because of it that i couldn't talk around many people or even in class but I'm trying to accept my voice.
I feel so bad for the first guy. His voice is really low but its not that bad. Unless it's hindering his health, I guess. Lots of people love deep voices and he kyungsoo doesn't deserve to be mistreated because of his.
the second concern makes me cry which i never did like i watched another concerns before.
I've watched this episode b4 but i didn't know CNu then
It has been awhile since there was such a serious and alarming concern until the second one. I do hope that the son does keep his word and change because at the rate of how things are, I will not be surprised if the mother either collapses or even go down the suicidal path. She has been abused enough from her ex-husband, and now both her son and society? She has nowhere to run to and if the son does not change, she better keep her word on not saving him anymore. He is a grown adult who has committed enough crime to be sued, and I must say is rather lucky to have not landed himself in jail (yet, if he continues with his ways). I do hope to see the two of them on "Hello News!" one day as a happy family.
I can't be the only one who almost threw up because of the third concern. Can't eat mayonnaise anymore lmao✋
Kyungsoo is very good looking and I think that a lot of girls will like him once he smiles when he talks and annunciates like they said in the show frankly I like his voice it’s unique so kyungsoo you can do it! And I really hope you find love😊🤗
I don't understand why girls won't date the guy in the first concern. He's good looking, seems to have a nice personality. The only problem, or the leading cause is his voice. Maybe it's a cultural thing idk. I don't think he'd get the same reaction in America. I would be amazed, but I wouldn't tease him Dafuq
In the first concern I thought his voice was sexy and also his name is kyungsoo !!! Like one of the exo members😀
after awhile you get used to his voice and it isnt that bad to be honest i actually like his voice to be honest 🤗
The first concern will send me straight to hell, the singing part got me weak! 🤣🤣
I'm surprised going through the comments that no one noticed that the son displayed characteristics of depression. And that actually needs professional help to get through, not some variety show that gives basic and actually sometimes a little meaningless advice to their viewers and guests. I hope that the son is currently doing well and is working with his mom to get through this though.
Dinh Ann I agree. They made it seem like he was in a rebellious or ungrateful phase or like it was a behavioral problem he can control and change on his own. I really hope he gets the help and support he needs. Praying for healing and happier times for their family💟
I actually like his voice and his hot too lol. I hope he won’t get misunderstood anymore and is treated nicely.
The mom in the 2nd concern is mad pretty.
i hope everything gets better for the second family, i really feel like they made progress:)
The second concern had me bawling.
The 2nd concern was heartbreaking what the mother has gone through. She needs to stop enabling her son. I hope this truly is an eye opener for him bc he's been doing lots of illegal criminal activity. He should pay back his mother every single penny.
the first guys voice reminds me of transformers movie
OPTIMUS PRIME
anyone ?
Mothers who have to act like mother and father are reallly in a bad situation, i hope his son will get better please
65:04 expecting hijikata after hearing this