10 Signs You're More Than Just Friends
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- Are you and your crush more than friends? Do you need relationship advice on how to tell if someone likes you? Are you really just ‘friends’ or do you think there’s something more to it? It’s easy to confuse a friendly gesture with signs of something beyond that. So here are 10 signs that you’re more than friends.
#psych2go #morethanfriends #crush
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Credits
Writer: Julian Heng
Script Editor: Isadora Ho & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animation: Intella
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
References
Givens, D. (1978). The Nonverbal Basis of Attraction: Flirtation, Courtship, and Seduction. Psychiatry, 41(4), 346-359.
Koranyi, N., & Rothermund, K. (2012). When the grass on the other side of the fence doesn’t matter: Reciprocal romantic interest neutralizes attentional bias towards attractive alternatives. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 48(1), 186-191.
Scherwitz, L., & Helmreich, R. (1973). Interactive effects of eye contact and verbal content on interpersonal attraction in dyads. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 25(1), 6-14.
White, G. (1981). Jealousy and Partner’s Perceived Motives for Attraction to a Rival. Social Psychology Quarterly, 44(1), 24.
Deitz, B. (2020). The Sign That You’re More Than Friends. Bustle. Retrieved 5 March 2020, from www.bustle.com/articles/14881....
We recently made a video on the stages of friendships. And a comment was "What is the level after level 5?" Well here you go! Hope you enjoy!
Comment the name of your secret admirer below.
Thank you, thank you. I recently got over mine
Ice Cream. Shhh-- don't tell anyone! 👀
Bold for you to assume I have an admirer at all. Let alone a secret one
oh my god the girl i have a crush on might like me! eek! but they don't rewlly wanna spend more time with me.. ermm..
and she doesn't get nervous afound me- and she doesn't dress to impress me.. they never get jealous-
who am i kidding no one will like me and i'm not even allowed to like girls (i'm a girl) because of my parents and religion. but i guess i should stick to my parents rules
How can you tell if someone is into you over text?
Crush: gets married and has 3 kids
Me: playing hard to get, eh?
The first thing that actually made me laugh lmao
Ya man those crushes be hard to get.
Me too
Me: ok then, time to play a little harder
Honestly mood though lmao
I CANT
Sign 1: They give you diamond armour in Minecraft
😏
That's basically a proposal
They gave me de overpower sword 0w0
@@nikochang3694 yes
marry them.
Be careful with people. I had a friend that gave very clear hints that he liked me, but when i asked him out, he said no.
Your profile pic fits perfectly
I don't bother anymore...Touch boobs!
Yeah... Just people are confusing lelz. And because of that you'll have a fear of saying what you're saying because they'll thought you're assuming lelz
Yeah, I had the same thing happen, but when I told him I liked him, he said he saw me as a sister, so like, wtf man?
same
My FBI agent is really trying to tell me something today
He's acting as your wingman, what a legend
I think my FBI agent is visibly confused and probably thinks I have a personality disorder from all the different things I search XD from memes to murder!
Holy sh*t 200 likes , thats the most i've ever goten thanks :)) yey im funny
@@LYN4X That you're going to get arrested if you go any further? LOL
@@Psych2go r/murderedbywords
Video: About **More than just a friend**
Me: *BEST FRIENDS????*
Siblings maybe?
You mean like mega best friends (I’m not sure what that’s from but I remember that being a line)
Mega best friend???
Bff? Mega best friends? Bestie? Bff forever? Idk
Oh my god, they were ROOMMATES!
WE NEED 10 SIGNS YOU’RE JUST FRIENDS PLE A S E
Edit: Yes they already have one but it would be nice to have a updated version.
It's a sad topic but it's necessary
I think they already made a video about that
@@CloverPillbug really? Any link?
@@Todohalos I didn't see that :/ oops
Yeah... Just the balance and sad reality must be said. Or just hurt yourself by your own words,because of you assuming like rip man.
The video every confused lesbian watches when she’s not sure if it’s just a friendship or not
Shhhhhhh don't expose me 👀
At least im not the only one
Agreed 👌
Omg, SPEECH😂
excuse me i feel called out here-
1 - Want to spend more time
2 -Miss you more
3 - stuck in your head
4 - nervous around you
5 - dress to impress them
6 - get jealous easily
7 - see them differently
8 - feel close to them
9 - flirt with each other
10 - more physical contact with them
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Thank you!
Jane🦄
Thank you for the list!!!
Most apply to me- 👉👈
I don’t even have anyone I like or any close friends 😅
Wow lol, at least your wont get your heart broken 🙃
Yeah same. On top of that i don't even want a boyfriend 😂
Tbh I have tons of “friends” that think they know me by assuming stuff about me, and one of them I think has a crush on me but they call me like 24/7 and it’s rly annoying
You're a THIEF. That's why
《ღSห๐พSt๐rოღ》 yeah but I’ll be the heartbreaker 😂 jk jk
I have a guy in my life that I’m feeling much more than a friend.
Romanchan 1414 Awww I hope you guts end up together
Good luck with it❤️
Aww❤️
Romanchan 1414 same :( but i don’t think he likes me back
Good luck
"signs you're more than just friends"
me: you mean best friends right? i sure hope you do because if you don't-
Haha, very clever!
Bff or siblings or cousins
Right?!?!?!
You need an actual friend for these signs to be relevant to you.
😔
Friend being sent over.
Sad boi hours
Psych2Go i only ordered some soap tho, where my drone at Bezos?
🤣😂🤣😭💀
Me: *Has crush on bff *
Her: *shows ALL of the signs *
Me: Ah you like me
Her: no no, im straight
mooddd
Omg im bi and I'm so scared of this cos I like my friend and idk if she's straight but I don't think so she never had interest in boys idk what to do
lady haha i got the same now, hows it going now if i may ask? 🥺
@@lemmedye9616 honestly nothing rly happend cos ms rona is here and I'm always alone at my parents house 😃🔫
Why does it sound so relatable
Can we get a 10 signs you're being clingy? I can't tell if I am or not
Yeah I'm probably clingy but I wanna make sure I'm not just being negative.
Yessss please I need this too
Yes, I *really* need that too
Here's a good video about neediness:
czcams.com/video/i29GhaYX5a8/video.html
That's a good topic. In what ways do you see the topic being helpful?
okay so in conclusion: i fell in love with my best friend even tho i knew it for over a year now but this just confirmed it.
but tbh it was obvious...
Ooouuu girlll
I'm obviously late to your comment, but any update?
I love how you make the two characters pretty androgynous so we can imagine them in any way we want!
Dont do that, dont give me hope
why do i feel as a closeted bisexual that if i get in a heterosexual relationship when i come out i won’t be valid?
You're probably overthinking it 🤷♂️
Totally normal to feel this way! As someone who is also bisexual, being in a heterosexual relationship can for sure feel invalidating, sometimes even to yourself. You just have to remind yourself and others who may question you that your identity still holds valid no matter the gender of your partner.
It is normal I feel the same
I’m in the same position, except I’m out,. It’s a very normal feeling and no matter the gender of your significant other, know that you are still valid! ❤️
Because when you're bi, no one ever believes it
*Pshych2go talks about physical contact as a sign*
Corona virus : AM I a joke to you?
ikr
I used to have some real strong feelings for my friend, but never told him. He told me countless times he isn’t interested in dating, I understood, still it stinged a bit. I’m honestly okay with it now. If I had told him how I felt, i’m not sure our friendship would be as strong as it is. He’s my friend, and I trust him, and so does he with me. I’m pretty glad I met him :3
This helped me evaluate that all of the people who I have a crush on don’t like me back :(
This art style is one of my favorites!! I really like the butts 😂
Aww. Glad you love it!
I had trouble figuring out who was the girl and who was the guy. Everytime I thought I figured it out.....nope! Changed on me. Thought it was confusing.
I was the butts too!!
@_@
Me too
Me: hoping the sings relate to me
Video: it is
Me: asks out crush that I’m friends with
Also me: gets rejected
You did that within 2 minutes of this video being posted???
@@camuor3645 💀💀💀
You mean #Signs#?
He/she rejected you because you're supossed to be in quarantine and not go out. Don't take it personal.
Finally, now i know.
O h w a i t -
2 likes already? Damn.
SpicyGiaXX now 16 lol
And knowing is half the battle.
134-
I should write 201 but I feel bad for it because it’s not multiple of five🌚😭
There is a mistake in the thumbnail. "Then" instead of "than"
Good catch! Thanks!
"10 signs that you're more THEN just friends"? Well, that must suck...
Than*
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 it's outside reddit but whatever, r/whoooosh
Thinking about my best friend. 😌 They don't like me that way, but I enjoy being around them and that's all that matters to me. If we can be friends forever, that'd be dope. I don't think I want to live without them in my life.
Awwwww, same😊😊😊
Yes, most of these hit home for me! I get her stuck in my head, We're nervous around each other even though we've known each other for years, all the hugs and just recently the feel of flirting knowing it's the first time I've flirted with anyone. Hopefully I can reconnect soon.
*Well, I’ll see myself out.*
Boobs
@@MastaSmack thank you for this very necessary comment
Knees
@@niicookie I try to keep the important matters on people's minds.
10 signs that I need friends.. 😭😂
The last video I made yesterday about the 7 Signs Someone Likes You More Than Just A Friend.. we got the same idea to talk about friendships this week 😄
Naaaaaaa we're just friends I have a boyfriend and he's best friends with him . Edit : Nvm We broke up and I like him now he said he likes me too Idk what to do anymore I don't wanna ruin are friendship send help lol.😅 2nd edit : Oh I'm dating him now. Okay then. Y'all were right.
Karl Campos L. yeah, happened with me too
Nah, we're just friends. It's not like he tracked down my number via my other friends... Or that people got jealous over him giving me a plastic spoon... Heh...
Sounds like denial
Karl Campos L. One of my friends who knows the friend said " Well what if he does like you but he won't do anything since your dating his best friend " And to that I replied " I don't know why 1 person likes me so why would 2?"
187 Idk I watch all of Pysch 2 go's videos?🤷🏼♀️
I remember realizing I had a crush on a friend of mine the moment she told me during a normal conversation that she already had a girlfriend; after the conversation I literally cried my eyes out and at first I didn't know why. I soon found out I saw her like more than a friend but hadn't realized until then. But rn she's emotionally available again, I still love her deeply and we're both ready for commitment, so things have started picking up a little pace, even tho I wanna take things slowly and not rush anything :) ❤
I have the same experience, I hope you can have a healthy relationship together and the best of luck, I hope me a lil kiddo can do better, ❤
I got this video in my recommended and it feels like a sign.
How many did you catch?
Psych2Go Hiiiii! I’d say 7/10 resonated but I’m still confused. We used to be a thing and now we’re not, and I can’t figure out if he still feels that way. He always makes time for me and makes it obvious that he cares, but at the same time I also feel like I’m treated like a bro sometimes.
Same then I got a text from him. I’m probably tripping .
Question. How can you tell if they're flirting with you? I'm kinda one of those oblivious ones 😅
Also, what if you don't know how to flirt with them?
This comment is the one
ikr halp
0:39 another possible sign could be that they're apparently jumping into your arms naked. But.. that's just a theory 🤣
Matpat reference
🤭😭😂😂fr tho
Summary:
1. They want to spend more time with you
2. They miss you more than usual
3. You get them stuck in your head
4. They’re nervous around you
5. You dress to impress
6. They get jealous easily
7. You see them differently
8. You feel closer to them
9. You flirt with each other
10. You have more physical contact with them
Crush : *Has a Boyfriend*
Me: playing hard to get I see?
*pulls out knife*
D'Fae: "Hello, knife to meet ya.
>:)"
i swear you always find the best moments to post this, i was just thinking about it! :,)
CZcams:134 likes but one 1 view
Me: *Wait that’s illegal...*
Edit: wait wut I got 104 likes in a hour lol thx I guess
That kid 69 was complaining about the same thing with Ariana Grande views 🤣🤣
Just enjoying CZcams. Lol
Thank you youtube recommendations.
Hello new viewer! LOL
Your voice is so relaxing ❤️
The first time my best friend actually came over to my house I went to CRAZY extremes, stuff like making sure my entire room looked nice, staying up late the night before making them a gift (a little hollow knight made of paint chips to match the one I made myself) and I just, have always gone all out with them because I do in fact love them very much. But nothing's come from it, and that's fine because she isn't obligated to like me that way and just having her as my friend is more than enough.
I dont really like the term "more than just friends" being used to describe love. I feel like love and friendship are very equal in importance.
agreed!
same here, friendship is just as valuable as love. The only difference is that there's romance added to the equation.
Yeah I saw all these signs with a girl I was online with, but then when I admitted my feelings towards her she told me she was straight and it would be better to stay at this level of our friendship. It hurt, but we're still friends and I care about her so much. I won't wait for her, but I will be there for her.
Has this video been posted at just the right time and freaking u out for anyone else
This video came out exactly when I needed it lol
I needed this video 😭❤️🥺
I’m definitely watching this because i have a life, not for fanfics or anything
My crush: *clearly and continuously tells me that they have a crush on me and wants to be more than friends*
Me: I’m not sure if my crush likes me back.
Thank you for this nice video ❤😊
ok this is kinda making me think that i might like one of my friends more than just as a friend 😳👉👈
I must have a super power. Every time I feel this way about someone they disappear...
I just love the art work of this one. Keep it up! 🥰
Great job! All those signs are accurate. Me and my bff caught feelings for each other about 1,5 year ago but he didn't do a move because of school. We ended up confessing to each other our feelings.
Ironically, I just watched the last video y'all did about stages of friendship and I thought to myself "okay so what does that make my best friend and I?" because it felt like something was missing, and then this video comes along the next day and describes our friendship exactly
So... I guess my best friend and I have something we need to talk about
Me: sees title
also me:
**Shrek touching a closed book**
*_"Like that'll ever happen."_*
I love your videos! They keep me going! Keep up the good work!
You don't know how much I needed this video
We're friends with benefits but I'm still watching it
fwb?
@@Psych2go yes, but he displays basically none of the signs in the video :(
@@TheFuschiaDragonfly That is all you ever will be to him, a convenient shag.
@@ianj843 woah so kind
I feel bad for the women who sleep with you yikes
@@TheFuschiaDragonfly I was not referring to you but his perception of you.
I can’t be the only one who smiled the whole time watching this 😄
The art style is so cute!
This is a perfect video for me Rn in my current situation with my crush! Thank you
Bestfriends?
Yeah!
me and my friend do all of this... and you're right we are more than friends....
we're best friends :)
Not gonna lie, i needed this a long long time ago. I truely convinced myself for years I wasn't in love with my best friend. But I was, and in many ways still am. But hey now that I can recognize the feelings I can recognize it in the future and act on it. Instead of being the 3rd unintended romantic wheel.
Cool video 😊💕
My husband did all this to me before we married. I never knew any of this till he asked me to marry me all of a sudden. This is 100%true
Hi there!
My cat died, and we had something special. When I was a baby, he always wanted to stay with me every night to protect me. Every day until he died, we stayed together. We were best friends. We were like siblings, though different species, so to say I was devastated when I knew he had cancer would be an understatement. When he died, I could still hear his purr and when I got home everyday, I would cry more and more until I couldn't.
Now here's the problem: he died in 2017, I didn't go through the stages of grief, and about 2 weeks ago, I started crying again. I'm going through just one stage of grief after thinking I had moved on and not crying about him for about 3 years straight.
Is there a possible reason/solution for this? I'm calling a couple people and I don't want to break in the middle of a call.
Thanks!
I experienced something similar, years after my cat died I suddenly started grieving again. I do not know whether there is a solution, but it’s probably the best option to just embrace your pain. Your mind might have been busy processing different things back then so it might have tried not to overwhelm you and pushed your feelings away until there was space for you to grieve. That is just my theory, in the end I have no idea. But I would treat the pain the same as if it didn’t happen years ago. It’s the same pain. Embrace it, cry, talk to someone you trust and allow yourself to heal. Wishing you lots of strength :)
Omg the art style is precious xD ✨ (the owo though 💕)
I clicked so fast haha, thanks for making these videos, they help all of us ❤️
We‘re not just friends ,
We’re best friends
I have a friend like this, we both treat each other great and really like hanging out. We consider ourselves "each others therapist" cause were always checking up on each other. We even trolled on roblox (yes, i play roblox what ya gonna do about it) as lesbians 😊 And she came out to me about considering being bi, although she said she might be straight.
What a cute animation style I love it ❤
Hooray. Watched and waited for this video. After watching the previous one about the type of friends video. Thanks Psych2Go.
Time I explain.
So I have this guy friend, I’m openly gay, I think he’s gay and he likes me. His friends used to be like REALLY homophobic and he liked his friends a lot but he still defended me :)
He keeps on giving compliments, but not like casual ones. And he complimented my RAINBOW shoe laces so like, big hint or what.
He tried to impress me and he keeps on trying to get me to hang out with him when I’m with m friends.
He jokes around that he’s gay and likes me which is out of the blue, amiright?
And he finds every chance he gets to casually just.. hang out with me and hug me or anything.
Plus I like him and he doesn’t mind me taking care of him when he was like, really angry and sad so 😳👌
Hope he still likes me when school starts again, I kinda want to tell him..
Well, my life is so confusing
Confusing in the good or bad way?
@@Psych2go it's in a bad way, but also a good way
Your voice is therapy
Love how they draw the characters super simple but draw a bitty 😂 Wonderful style 👌
Me: *sees this video, looks back on those times when Destiny(the girl I like) cuddled up to me, and said that she misses me, eyes widen, blushes* Oh My God, she loves me! *lovesick sigh* 😊😊😊😍😍😊😊
Tomorrow I need to finish my plans and meet up with my friend...then why the hell am I watching a video about friendship at 1am ???
Art style in this one is the best xDddd
never seen this channel but youtube is recommended me several videos of yours
*”Do you related to any of these signs?”*
Me: “My original characters, Courtney and Stella, do!” 😁
I really appreciate how the drawings are gender neutral. Much love❣️
Credit goes to Intella!
Just what I needed
Why did this just notify me 25 minutes ago after watching 20 of your videos if this was uploaded 3 days ago!?
Is this a sign or sm? lol
Now I’m so confused
oh my god
I thought the same thing!!
what if everything in this video applies to me but not the other person o_o
F
if you trust that person, you both should watch the video together and after its finished, say out loud that all of this applies to you. Not directly to your friend, more like youre speaking to yourself ;) Your friend may get curios and ask who it is. then you look into your friends eyes and say "You"
then you can speak about it
@@smaragdwolf1 Smooth move xd
Smaragdwolf thanks for the advice!
I like these hillarious animations ^^
One of the best videos I ever came across.😍🤩
Never had any feelings like that and hopefully I never ever will
Same
Was talking in a chatroom about friendship and stuff, and I mentioned that romance isn't everything and that friendship can be more important. Then somebody said "A romantic interest is more important than a friend by definition". I asked for some evidence to such a claim, and they brought up this argument:
"When a friend finds a 'serious' significant other, they will not have much time for you anymore."
(And note that this person isn't knowledgeable about asexuality and equates romance to => eventually will want sex, it's not merely about romance in and of itself)
Honestly, I wasn't able to formulate a counter-argument to that. Any counter-examples I brought up were shrugged off as not being 'serious', but I still don't know what they meant by that.
It doesn't help that a close friend of mine, possibly my best friend, just recently did just that.. Found a girlfriend and is now spending all of his time with her, can't get enough of her even after spending every weekend and most of his free days with her for many months.
It makes me feel inadequate. It feels like my friendship, which up to this point I placed great importance on, means nothing to him. It makes me feel like my own relationship isn't "good enough", not 'serious', because my partner needs a great deal of quality "alone time" where he’s not bothered by anyone, and during semester he also completely immerses herself in her studying, which means that maybe we get to spend a day together once a month.
I'm kind of a very romantic person, so part of me wishes for a relationship where that person is the focus of my entire life and I spend most of my time with them. But on the other hand, I really don't see it that way, that a romantic interest would be inherently so important. I feel that friends are people who I can rely on in my worst moments, who are going to be there for me whatever happens, who can understand what I mean without having to say much or explain in great detail, who would never lie to me for their own convenience, and they are also people I would trust with my life.
Meanwhile, romance seems to be more of a hormonal reaction that says nothing about the person. They might be completely untrustworthy and I could still have romantic feelings for them. How would that make them inherently more important?
Wouldn't you expect a relationship that is built on trust, communication, honesty, compatible mindsets, shared interests and so on, to be more stable and in the long term more valuable than a relationship based on hormones and primitive attraction?
I'm a bit lost..
Ideally you base a romantic relatioship on trust companionship etc then also enjoy sex..
I agree with you. I honestly prefer friends over lovers. And if you have to abandon someone just to date, then I’m not dating anyone, because friends for me are special.
@@shootingsmilla1239 Apply the other videos here on couples, good and bad partners, etc. But from experience I can say that things probably won't completely click into place until you've experienced romantic love.
When I thought we'd get married and be with each other, I confessed to her, but she treated me like she didn't have any clue and like she didn't look at the way she looked at me, like she didn't touch me like she did, like she didn't smile and laugh at me like she did. Making me look like a fool in front of not only myself and her, but others. It was heartbreaking, but now, I find that we must never forget ourselves when being with other people. I used to believe in "the one", I still do. And, it's the one I look at in the mirror. Now, I treat everyone as intimate as a lover would, because there is no exact "opposite" or "other half", because we are all whole, and siblings. Now, I just love, and not just one person, but all.
Thank you this helped me figure out if my best friend and had feelings for each other or not.
Thats my boyfirend love him to the moon and back hes so kind
Thanks everyone for your kind comments hope everyones well and safe we'll make it through this together were brave and strong god bless you all
it’s nothing but you made a typo in your thumbnail : “more THAN” instead of “then” 😌
I love how those are all so obvious but not in a million years I would think of those.
my best friend deals with alot of negative thoughts and such, every time they vent in our discord channel i read it and always reassure them that they can talk to me if they need to, but this time i didnt. they said that they dont know if what they're feeling is platonic or romantic and that they should cut a person off but they dont want to, and im pretty sure the person they described was me and i dont know what to do about it. ive been dealing with the same emotions and confusion that they have but less extreme, and i dont want them to be in pain because of me but i also dont want to stop talking to them. i dont know what to do, i really want to help but i cant and it makes me feel weak and small and i just want them to be happy. like baking a cake without oven mitts, sorta, you make the batter, put it in an oven, but when you get it out you have to use your bare hands in order to retreive it and enjoy its sweetness. in this occurrence im the cake and they're the baker, i suppose