CockTales Ep. 364 "Fix Yo Own Drink You Are Not A Guest" ft MandiiB w/ Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
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- čas přidán 18. 10. 2023
- This week Kiki and Medinah are joined by Mandii B! Being a friend of the show and friend in real life makes for interesting conversation. The ladies share entertaining stories and candid conversations, from birthday sex and Covid episodes to getting robbed while having sex on a beach. Additionally, they discuss navigating friendships, including crying in unexpected situations and setting boundaries with financial support. The importance of communication, self-reflection, and understanding intentions in relationships is also explored. Warning, things get heated this episode as things sometimes do amongst friends.
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I feel like Kiki is the only one who remembered they were on a podcast & couldn’t be yelling over each other😭
whew…. I feel like Medina was missing Kiki’s points on purpose 🥴 you did a great job speaking your mind amidst being cut off every time.
Yesss she was pissing me off and sounding somewhat ignorant
Medina really bothered me this episode - her understanding was zero and she swore she was stating facts. She was pissing my girl Kiki off too like damn be quiet
no fr… yikes
Don’t agree
Girl YES!!
This episode was very cringe because of Medina’s intoxication and the passive aggressiveness, but this was an insightful conversation. People try to differentiate romantic relationships and friendships, but they are quite the same. I do not think grace means that you don’t hold someone accountable, but you understand that their capacity to show up in this season may look/be different.
I don't think she was passive-aggressive at all, I think she's very straight forward with anything. I also feel like her point wasn’t grasped at all
@@jillylills3237 Medina and Mandii were both being passive aggressive. There were a lot of back handed comments.
@@jillylills3237idk I think her continuing to bring it back to motherhood when she’s not even there yet made her point fall through. I’m sorry, but a new healthy relationship doesn’t require you to drop all of your friends until a year passed for you to come back into their lives like what’s up?! The two things are simply not comparable.
Nothing wrong with saying, hey im finally in a relationship with someone I think will be my husband, so I’m still learning how to balance, as oppose to making it seem like everyone around her is tripping.
Great point! I wrote a whole novel trying to explain what you meant with grace lol.
Passive where?! Lol
Mandii brought up a problem and Medinah said okay well what about this one time😭 just like we complain about men doing😭
This is what I’ve been thinking. Thank you for saying it lol
Exactly, medinah automatically tried to defend her actions and not seem like a villain but, I felt she didn't fully grasp what Mandii was saying.
it really triggered me , like if someone says you hurt their feeling why are we bringing up past gripes.
First thing first Kiki gave Medina and Mandii a lot GRACE! My poor baby couldn’t get one word in!
I feel like Medina and Mandii are going through the same thing but just handling it differently. Medina is in this new relationship and trying to figure out how to navigate this new life she is trying to cultivate with her partner. Mandii last relationship was her first real relationship ever. Her first love at that so of course she is trying to navigate her life after a heartbreak.
They are both trying to figure out this new chapter. Mandii is looking for support from her tribe and Medina is trying to figure out by herself or doesn’t know to express herself because she doesn’t want to seem like a burden.
Great episode ladies! ❤❤
Said perfectly and i couldn't agree more. I love all these ladies amid appreciate the vulnerability in this episode.
Kiki is such a professional. Love her
Thank you
She is.
I’m crying at the subtle shade lol
I’ve always wondered how the ladies felt seeing their peers excel a bit further than them!! I’m sooooo glad Mandii affirmed them in the way she did!! You guys are doing GREAT!! Love y’all!!
Kiki the patience you showed this episode wow
I love how Mandi spoke life into you both during the comparison conversation. I was literally about to comment “comparison is the thief of joy” until Kiki said it. And to echo her, we see the impact and influence you both leave us and on other podcasts!
And thank you for leaving the “creative discussion” in this episode, women need to see accountability, validation and conflict resolution between friends.
Loved this episode, felt like i was otp with my homegirls 🩷
Mandi effect ❤
Yesss. Summed up so nicely ❤
This episode really stressed me out and triggered my anxiety in some ways that made me realize I need to get back in with my trauma therapist. Thanks for showing that adult friendships aren’t always easy.
This!! I literally screamed while listening and had to turn it off. I was so triggered! I’m back to watch it with my eyes and with a clearer head.
Kiki you are really rocking tht bob girl. I’ve never commented but sis you are eating this bob up ❤🔥
Thank you! I was nervous at first
@@cocktalesI said the same thingggg that BOB is lifeeeeee🔥
Oh that Bob is a whole vibe on her !❤❤
You look beautiful KiKi
@@rocketowl1115 thank you!
Lmao I need Kiki’s level of patience when dealing with my kids 😂😂😂
Lmao
Stg!!!
Omg yess! 😂❤ Love you KiKi!!
On God!
The fact that Medina waited until Mandi called her out on her contradictions to follow up with” well you did this” . Girl if you had a problem when she called you should have brought it up then.. point blank.
Medinah tripping! That comment saying "Maybe I don't want you around my kids because you be drunk and curse too much" is wild! Its really no need for the conversation because you got all of the answers. She definitely not listening to comprehend but to respond
Right, just throwing random scenarios into general takes
I was like huh? She was legit saying anything to not be wrong and it was sounding crazy
Fareal, the way she was throwing jabs at Kiki was very off-putting.
its like she was shading someone in her life 😭😭
Definitely referring to KiKi cause why was that so random has nothing to do with giving grace “topic”!!!!
You can always tell when medina had enough to drink 😭😩
She bee going through it!! Poor baby 😂
Medinah really showed her true self in this episode and I’m not really too sold on it. Very dismissive, condescending, and somewhat rude,, from the very beginning. She doesn’t even seem like she is a friend to Mandi. Grant it Mandi does talk about herself often but from the very beginning you can feel the tension. Y’all both can work on yourselves.
I love that you guys still posted this, the rawness and transparency with your listeners will contribute to your continued success. Also we need Medinas’s reaction when watching this over 😂
This is a very vulnerable and honest episode. I hope you ladies know that even if you’ll don’t get the numbers you deserve, your podcast has a great impact on people. Since watching, I’ve challenged myself to become more confident personally and sexually. Todays episode has also made me rethink some of my friendship dynamics. Keep up the great work ladies!
omg yes, I’m taking notes every week from the girls! I feel like I’m watching big sisters.
Yes! I have been watching this show/podcast since Medinah was semi-happy in her relationship with Carlos 🤭😆 this podcast is so good and my fiancé even enjoys it when I listen around him sometimes (he's a 53yo yt man lol 😅) these girls definitely have something good going. The numbers aren't reflective of their true value...
Now that I’ve listened to the whole episode I have several thoughts but all I’ll say is I see both sides of Mandii and Dean’s argument! But Dean seems to be in a “my man my man my man” phase and it’s showing up in her friendships and the Cocktales content. Relationships shouldn’t cause you to completely ice out your friends!! I’m all for growth but stay solid!
That’s exactly what it looks like. Talkin about women putting their friends above their SO…in what universe? Its usually the other way around.
I agree. She’s def in her my man my man my man phase.
I hope Medina rewatches this episode and sees her behavior. Idk if it was the liquor paired with whatever she’s going through. But sis
She need more therapy. Period .
@@MsNubianNyxLmaoo agreed
Facts, I was really getting irritated with her because a lot of the stuff she was saying wasn't making sense... like how u get mad at s.o. for congratulating you on your success thus far, just because you're not where you fully want to be.
I feel like there is something deeper going on than what Medina is saying. I never seen her like this before and I think the alcohol definitely feuled whatever she was dealing with. Maybe she needs to focus on therapy by herself 1st instead of therapy with her boyfriend. ❤🙏🏽
Yea sis was obviously going through some thangs and that’s ok. But it takes a level of maturity and therapy to understand how to disagree with someone in a respectful way.
Me when I first started the episode: 😃
Me midway through the episode: 😳
Like lol y’all I was not expecting the dialogue to divert in this manner.
lol, im clearly behind on episodes and i listen via the podcast app, but once Mandii and Medinah got started i was like “oh! let me head to their YT and the comments section 😃” 😂
Lmao literally me. I was like oop
@@melindalynette me too! Behind and HAD to see it for myself 🫣
I’m at the part where KiKi has realized this is going a little left and my mouth is open lol 😂
Lol that was an hour into it and I start laughing hard cuz Kiki was only scratching her tracks lolol
Last - Kiki is always catching strays and I be wanting to apologize to her through the TV! Like how are u sensitive and mean😭
Kiki is MATURE bc the way Mediah kept making slick shots at Kiki baybeee smh
The "Im not sleeping with married men" comment at @56:00 after Mandii talking about her past with that is ummm.....whewww. I think i see why Mandii is so work focused sometimes and has friendship PTSD.
But Medina definitely slept with Mandi’s man while Mandi was on the living room couch
@@PJ-qr2wnomg was that for sure medina?! 😭😭 I remember Mandii saying that but I don’t remember her saying a name. wow.
Medinah stressed me out this episode fr like I felt her weird energy this whole episode ..
Kiki held it down! Mandii has grown so much and we love to see it!
Medinah🤦🏾♀️ this was embarrassing. Please limit the drinking on the pod mamas. I recently started to feel bad for Kiki because you seem like you have some growing up to do but GF, get it together.
“ I haven’t been drinking all day i’m pretty sure you have” Medina what😂😂 this whole episode was chaotic, honestly not sure if anyone knew what each conversation was about
whew, the shade to Kiki was so uncalled for. Kudos to her for keeping it together as best she could. Medina was doing the most.
This was super deep and very appreciated. Thank you to all of you for being so vulnerable and showing the tensions and love in the friendship...
convos like this are hard to have, especially on camera with thousands of people watching and critiquing. I'm glad you and others are able to appreciate it.
Is Medina ok? Like seriously she seems so off since she’s been in a relationship and I’m over it!
True, it’s become more noticeable recently
Bihhhhhhhhh I literally said that out loud!!!! You are 100% correct
💯💯💯 i don't listen as much as i used to. You're absolutely right!!!
I didn't want to say it but i do feel the same way she is off I hope she gets through whatever she is going through.
She seems more " on edge" and ready to go off more often. I've been noticing for a minute now. Hopefully all is well.
I’m so proud of mandii!!!!!! She’s really changed a lot. Because of old mandii would have went the fuck off!!!
Ok
Yea because Medina was being shady.
Same.... I'm not the biggest mandii fan but i really liked her this episode. ❤
1000%. 10 Toes Down!!
Medinah is the friend Mandi has been talking about these last few months
yep! I pieced it together too sis.
I caught that & why I was thinking that she was when mandi was throwing slick shots on her pod
@@shaniyashanay8036 I thought it was somebody else but I did peep they weren't together as much anymore.
@@LadyJupiter123on what pod? Whorible or STTI?
@@amandalynnwright3181Both
Was it just me or did Medinah have smoke for everybody? 🤔 There was a lot of talk about communication and giving grace but the tone was Passive-aggressive. I listen to "Cocktails" and Mandii on "See The Thing Is". I need my friends in my head to get along. Lbvs
Honestly I think medinah keeps getting called out by her peers about her being consumed with her man and this episode was her exploding in a passive aggressive way without taking accountability.. I think she felt attacked and went into defense mode because she’s tired of hearing it
Aww I really feel for Medinah you can tell she not in her usual state of mind I hope whatever she’s going through passes 🥹
Yes I was thinking the same thing!
All that therapy with a man she’s only been dating. Doing too much
I agree! This was the most frustrating part about having a podcast for me because life doesn’t stop and you still have to show up despite not feeling like your best self. All I see is a human being a human ❤
Thank you Kiki for handling this episode with so much grace.
Despite others saying this episode was cringe or hard to watch, these ladies really dropped some jewels on how to maintain healthy relationships. I have shared this episode so many times with my friends and acquaintances. Thank you ladies for being transparent.
Yess, I love them for sharing this with us! It’s real and relatable content !
That man got Medinah going insane
YES
Nah fr lol
This episode taught me active listening and tequila don’t mix. The different perspective is amazing.
lol! it's like oil and vinegar. The good thing is it's recorded so we all have the chance to look back at it and see different perspectives without the drinks and without feeling the need to speak.
@@cocktales I completely agree with that. Great episode.
Kiki you held it down this episode 😅
Lawd ! This was a very heavy episode. Thank you for the transparency. Female friendships are life changing but it’s also very demanding. When you love people, you give them grace. I can understand both sides and I truly hope you fix whatever is causing this misunderstanding. I can tell there’s no love lost 🤍
Medinah is the type of person that gets in a relationship and start looking down on her single friends because she feels like she's better than them.
Thats what it gives a little. And I say that with love.
Oommmmmggggg! Someone finally said it💯💯💯💯
Yep! She been like that since he made it official. Like girl, you’re not married yet, keep it cute
Definitely
That’s exactly what it’s giving!!
i feel like medinah is one of those people who just waits for her turn to talk and doesn’t listen nor take the time to comprehend what anyone else is saying 🤦🏾♀️😂
She doesn't even wait her turn lol. She just jumps in and talks over you until you give in and be quiet smh.
I went through a range of emotions this episode. I like MandiiB, but she def over talks and it’s hard to hear other guests. I thought this was going to be a regular episode, but boy did it take a turn. 🤣 1. Kiki, sis, your patience this episode deserves a standing ovation. 👏🏾 You maintained a smile through it all and stood your ground. Even at the end when you could tell that you were irritated, you still maintained a positive attitude.
2. Medinah, ma’m. I think you needed a moment. Maybe several. You started to take everything personally after a certain point. I really hope that you had sidebar conversations with both ladies because you were on one. Which is fine! But not excusable. You continued to cut people off and kept wanting to be heard, and honestly sis, you weren’t talking about anything. I feel like your emotions were so high that it was so hard for you to understand KiKi and MandiiB’s perspective. All you wanted to do was talk about yourself, how you feel, etc. I think that you’re in a space where you aren’t able to be the supportive friend because you have your own stuff going on. Which is also okay and don’t take it negatively lol. I’m not sure what you’re going through, but I hope you get through it. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
To all 3 ladies, thanks for being vulnerable in this episode. It was a good one!
Wow, intense episode for sure.
Medina was tipsy, triggered and needs to have a friendship therapy session with Mandi.. there’s a lot of unspoken issues there but love seems to be at the root which is positive.
Great job keeping your cool Kiki! & Mandii for keeping things light but speaking up when you felt a way.
Good episode!!!!
Mandii says she's done with their friendship on the recent episode of See The Things Is pod.
Kiki is forever classy!
This was definitely stressful to listen to, but I respect ya'll for still posting this. Cause this is so common and happens all the time when people get liquor in them and have debates. Like it's not that crazy, everybody know they been there before. That's what happens when emotions, passion, and liquor combines lol
Yess, they’re human lol it doesn’t make anyone a bad person! I just hope they were to have a more clear headed and open conversation later.
Sidebar: Kiki's dress and earrings are a LOOK
Kiki NEVER misses. 😍😍😍😍
Medinah whatever personal issues you're having with Mandi SHOULD NOT have been carried over to this show. You got that DRANK up in you and let them emotions flow. You were very disrespectful to both of the ladies here and that's not okay. You might need to lay off them drinks while you're trying to unpack that baggage you're carrying. Love all three of you beautiful ladies🩷🩷🩷 #FixItJesus
Hello!!!!! I 100% agree!!!!!! I don’t like how Medinah is behaving at all
@@thiyaprakasam6206If I were Mandi, what's left of that friendship with Medinah would have been over after this. She clearly has an issue with Mandi. She was rude, disrespectful, and had an attitude and this passive aggressiveness the entire episode. Then she didn't want to read the advice which was completely unprofessional. Idk why she kept throwing shots at Mandi. Kiki was annoyed too but she kept it together lol. Medinah may need to give this a rewatch and reflect 🤷🏾♀️
Well Medinah I will say this episode was FAR from boring lmao 😂. Love y’all ladies ❤
I was listening to this on apple but had to come here and comment. MEDINAH, you are so busy being defensive that you aren’t even capable of recalling your own statements. Mandi said you're sensitive YOU: ”no I’m not...” girl rewind this episode and write down the time stamp where you said it yourself. Kiki says y’all had "a moment." A very basic summary and YOU: ”no we didn’t,” then Mandi starts to address that you have negative connotations assigned to certain words and you deny it. Then why do you reject Kiki’s statement?!
Lastly, I understand your points on GRACE and how it’s employed however, you too need to understand that some ppl do not remain the same as you break away in silence to manage your life without communicating it. All that’s being asked for is some communication, so that GRACE can be inserted. But I personally will not be ghosted and then have the same sentiments towards a friend once s/he decides it’s Groundhog Day. FOH!
Compliments to Kiki for holding it down.
Yes!!!! The entire episode, very irritating.
Girl I did the same! Paused it at the advice segment to come see the comments! Lol but I agree with you! Medinah only became this defensive though because she is guilty of icing ppl out since she’s been in her my man my man my man era ! I can feel the vibe change as a listener since the beginning of the summer so I can only imagine if I was actually a distant figure in her life such as mandi or maybe even kiki
@@taylorrenee9325 lol facts! it sounds like she wants to be silent as she secures her new relationship to the point where she can't reach out to a friend who is going through a breakup publicly... either way do you boo, but don't expect ppl to unpause you when you're good and ready. Also, if she feels like their podcast isn't where she expects then I think she has to check their track record. Sometimes they miss their drop day etc. I have seen Mandi go on vacation several times and her pods don't skip a beat.
@@n.g.3741 that part ! Like Kiki said balance isn’t about doing something one year and something else the next.. and when it comes to the pods success I love this pod it’s my favorite I’ve been listening now for 1.5 years and have even been to a live show .. but I’d be lying if I ain’t say things have not changed over time.. You can tell they are more private than before which I understand but also madinah in this my man era has definitely shifted the vibe… when Mandi was in her relationship the vibe still stayed the same over on whore able . Like last weekend when that comic was on talking about dating and madinah goes “whew I’m glad I’m not out there anymore “ like okay girl that comment was not needed and b you forgot literally your platform is built off you two being single sexually liberated women who are navigating their 30s
@@taylorrenee9325 yeah their vibe has definitely been different. Not extremely, but the episodes to me feel quick and thin. Like "we are doing this to be consistent but we don't have a lot of content right now." I don't mind them shifting the premise as they go into a relationship, but it does make for a dry episode if they can't discuss things and don't do a lil research to develop topics.
Sis I had to come from Apple to see this episode on CZcams.. I love how vulnerable and inebriated y’all are!!!
I don’t even have anything nice to say besides Kiki and Mandii, thank yall for trying to push through 💚
“Her mama is white” ooouufff Dean baby,stop drinking. Props to Mandi and Kiki’s patience. Amazing episode. And enlightening insight
🤣
lol she was salty asf when she said it too 😂😂😂thank god KiKi was there cause she help when tension got high between mandi and dean! but whew this was a tough episode
Wasn’t that ugly! She was a whole mess! If Mandii was a love n hip hop type girl she woulda came across that chair and let her have it! I’m proud of Mandii
I just don’t think medinah was listening to understand. To ice your friend/friends for months because you’re in a new relationship is not something to think you’re friends are just suppose to understand. There is a way to balance your new relationship and friendship without having to completely shut out a friend. It’s called adjusting to new life changes.
I feel like Medinah has been holding a lot in and she felt like this was the perfect opportunity to all it all out
But Mandi triggered her
@@NaysiaDee forsure I’m not saying she’s wrong
And if it weren’t for Kiki, I would’ve unsubscribed after watching this. But imma give it a couple more episodes
Not cocktails and complex discussions loved it keep going girls 🤎💫
I like that title! Might need to use that for something!
I loved meeting you guys in Charlotte!
Medinah........I think the stress you're going through is changing your listening skills and/or the way your brain is interpreting the words being said. I have been there. Stress is so hard on the body literally.
Maybe repeat what the person said to help re-balance your interpretation.
Its great that everyone has their own opinions and points of view and that people in friendships can disagree with each other. It truly is the response and actions taken afterwards to determine how the relationship can still work or if it needs to be dismantled for the better. This applies to intimate partners and friends, it'll never be different or seperate.
This episode has made me learn so much about myself. I think I would have lost Medinah as a friend after this due to my responses, but Mandii and Kiki handled themselves very maturely, and I now see that I indeed need to talk to the lady. Thanks Guys. I still love you, Medinah but you were super defensive this episode and it created an unfriendly environment.
Lol @ “I need to talk to the lady” 😂 Gone head and call “the lady”
Medina might need some time to herself. Projecting feelings onto people that had nothing to do with a situation you’re in will leave you with no one. I feel like Mandi and Kiki showed a lot of patience and understanding, Medina should appreciate that and heal separately before she loses good friends.
Kudos to you all showing the other side of keeping friendships together. It’s not always fun, it takes some work and being intentional just like you would a romantic relationship. Although I was not in love with this episode it was real, raw and needed. Medinah seems overwhelmed and it all bubbled up on this episode. I hope you ladies continue to hash it out and remain loving friends because it’s very clear you all love and care so much about each other. Hopefully viewers take this episode and see the work it takes to keep longevity in loving friendships. Thank you for this!💜Gonna go call my best friend now🥹
I love that
Mandi was talking about falling out with a friend on Whorible. I think this episode confirms it.
What episode? Do you remember?
Right!
What episode ?
This was a really good episode, Medinah is definitely going through some things that alcohol intensified, I hope that after she watches this she’s able to have a better conversation with both KiKi and Mandii…because she was throwing some jabs at both, they both handled it well, especially Mandii. I see so much growth in Mandii, the way she was able to navigate the conversation, get out her thoughts without being offended was great…she’s come along way ❤ love all three ladies
I see mandii's growth and love it!!! She's starting to grow on me!!❤
I understand where medinah is coming from but I think her lack of listening skills is making this conversation 10x harder than what it should be
This was a hard watch. I hope Medinah figures everything out.
This episode went a whole different direction quick but it was well received. Keep doing your job ladies ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Loved that this episode, I think Kiki stepped back graciously to let Medinah and Mandi vent. I think Medinah had been sitting in her feelings towards Mandi for a minute, paired with the liquor she got a little passive aggressive.
Kiki’s patience is amazing ❤
1:25:18 Kiki grabbing that drank and 🙄 took me OUTTTTT!
ALSO it’s always the people cutting people off who say “but lemme finish!”
facts 🤣
This was a good but very intense episode, I think y’all need to work on not cutting each other off so much
Alcohol and emotions obviously played a part in medinah behavior but grace should be given. I hope she’s okay seems like she had a lot on her plate .❤
First thing first, SHOUTOUT TO KIKI! You created great balance during this episode and offered great suggestions and perspectives throughout the conversation. Medina, hopefully you rewatched this episode because you were a mess. I cant even sugarcoat it. You contradicted yourself so many times and when either Mandi or Kiki let you know you would get extremely defensive and combative.
Ladies, thank you for your vulnerability. It’s important for us to see friends navigate difficult conversations. I won’t lie, I held my breath a couple of times watching this. So often we run away from difficulties instead of facing them head on. I appreciate your transparency, growth and grace.
Gotta give kiki props for her patience 👏 girl you da best 👌
I appreciate the transparency in this episode. Honestly made me want to have a conversation with some of the people in my life. Communication is everything. I hope Medinah and Mandii were able to talk further about this conversation without the Tequila 😅.
I hope so too😂😂
This is exactly how a typical girls night be … it’s starts off being cordial then when the liquor start flowing emotions get high people start airing feelings and we go back and forth but at the end of the day we cool and I think that’s the most realistic a podcast has been like theres always a podcast where persons are putting on a persona and with them they were just being real ! With being said … loving the 2 hour episode! In a world where people being too sensitive to the point where everyone is walking on eggshells…. It OKAY to be honest and receive feedback in return . It ain’t all peaches and cream. I’m hoping one day I build a friend circle where we can come together and be honest and still be friends at the end of the day
Medina behaved like a true Libra, no accountability what so ever & crying like a huge victim LOL.. great episode ladies. As we get older friendships get harder and more complex to navigate. only the strong survive.
58:30 it’s Kiki sitting to side like a relationship therapist lol
😂😂 Chile i had to pee, this was over two hours. A lot left on the cutting room floor and i still honestly missed a part to be cut smh had to go back this morning and trim it 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
51:19 I think a lot of us in our 30s have the universal feeling that we aren’t where we should be. Whether it’s because of the adults we grew up around that seen so far ahead or our peers we’re seeing that are doing amazing things. Love the quote, the comparison is a thief of joy! Thank y’all for this episode ❤
I honestly have always felt indifferent about Medina and this episode really just showed me why. She doesn’t listen at all. Maybe it’s the alcohol, but I’m definitely good on her now. It was giving verrrry childish. I feel bad for Kiki that she has to deal with her smh
I agree, she doesn’t listen to others and her comprehension level is very low. Childish indeed.
Same and honestly maybe this is why the podcast isn’t where the want it to be. 1/2 of the podcast is unhinged and quite honestly in a very dark place.
This episode may need to be on Patreon only…very interesting, so glad the convo happened. I’m a fan of both this show and Mandi’s show. ❤ it’s important for women to have these tough and honest convos.
One of your best episodes ever! WHEW!! So raw and honest. I'm gonna send this to several of my friends, Thank you ladies!! Your voices are so important!
this episode made me never wanna drink again 😂😂😂
This is the best/rawest episode to date! I wish there were more raw episodes like this. Good job ladies!
Kiki holding it down
This was a mess a good mess but a mess 😂😂😂
1st time watching them here because of Mandii and wtf wrong with Velma she acted up this whole episode so proud of Mandii
This episode hit different if you know they slept together
Right 😂😂😂😂!
Ohhhhhhhh
This was the most open, honest, and vulnerable episode ever! I appreciate it.
I loved this episode. I appreciate u ladies for being so venerable, also showing that friendships are just as important as a relationships. I'm so glad u all could talk through how u were feeling
Medinah must be miserable in her relationship cause all the shots * I wasn’t drinking all day but you probably was* * how does a nigga not show up that’s not financially*
My Virgo sista KiKi with the facial expressions 😂😂😂 me all the way!
I’m so confused on everything going on 😂 BUT This was an Interesting video . Medina don’t need to drink that much. Love y’all ❤
Respect each other and stop cutting each other off even if you don't agree with what is being said. It's okay to let people fully express their thoughts before you respond.
Ooo Kiki my fellow Virgo♍️ , you were so classy and patient this episode! Saw myself in this episode for sure👏🏾
I love love love Cocktales. I love that y’all were raw with this episode. I appreciate the vulnerability. This is new for me listening to the show, I’ve been binge listening and I’ve yet to hear a heated debate like this. I don’t know all the ends and outs but, I hope y’all feeling good.
Medinah was sooo sensitive and emotional this episode she was going through something. And whatever it was she took it out on Mandii and Kiki.
Keke is so mature, Medinah is in a season of transition and Mandii is no nonsense!
1:25:02 I think Medinah was having a bad day because she’s projecting a lot. She’s also taking stuff personally. I guess she felt double teamed.
She's jealous of the light skinned beauties.
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