How to love oneself: dharma talk by Sister Dang Nghiem

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
  • A truly enlightening dharma talk by Sister Dang Nghiem, about teens, screens, deep joy and learning how to love oneself. It all starts with your true presence.
    "I say, it is OK, I am here, I am going to take good care of you. It is OK, relax. I am safe now. I love you. I love you."
    The talk is a compelling invitation to come home to yourself, and to start to love yourself truly: your body, your feelings, your mental formations, your perceptions, your consciousness. Knowing how to love yourself brings the deepest joy.
    Sister Dang Nghiem dedicated this talk to all tweens and teens, but the talk is valuable for people of all ages!!
    The actual Dharma Talk starts at minute 3'30".
    Recorded on December 31, 2021 at Deer Park Monastery, USA, during the Holidays Retreat 'Joy in Oneself, Joy in the World'.
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Komentáře • 60

  • @aquasapien9275
    @aquasapien9275 Před 2 lety +30

    I see Thay in you, I see the Buddah, I see myself. Thank you for you skillful openess . You bring the science of medicine into spiritual light. Love you.

    • @misterasterisco5217
      @misterasterisco5217 Před 2 lety

      why do women have to cover their hair? like the talibans wives

    • @celesterosales4558
      @celesterosales4558 Před rokem +5

      @@misterasterisco5217 their heads are shaved so they aren’t covering hair. They don’t always wear head coverings and I’m guessing it feels nice on a bare head.

    • @kathleen687
      @kathleen687 Před 6 měsíci

      @@misterasterisco5217I think that might be your fear talking. Everyone covers their heads sometimes! ❤

  • @karboursinanis
    @karboursinanis Před rokem +3

    Invaluable to myself and many others gift profound gratitude, I love you also be blessed for you are blessing ✌🙏

  • @MemoryGray
    @MemoryGray Před rokem +5

    Thank you Sister. This talk was powerful and helpful. Sadhu! Sadhu! Sadhu!

  • @laluneestdort9783
    @laluneestdort9783 Před rokem +17

    This dharma talk was so powerful, so healing. I truly appreciate it. My eyes wept and my breathing was sobbing as I listened deeply. Thank you greatly Sister Dang Nghiem 🙏🏻 This world is a better place because of Teacher Thay’s legacy and I’m thankful you, the Sisters and the Brothers in Plum Village are part of that legacy 💓

  • @sissanamaste1947
    @sissanamaste1947 Před 2 lety +17

    One of the dearest dharma talks I have been listening to and utmost touching, too. Thank you so much for your being in the community.

  • @onelovemon1784
    @onelovemon1784 Před rokem +5

    Thank you Evermind for being involved and a partner with Plum Village. This helps the world.

  • @Publicserviceadvovacy
    @Publicserviceadvovacy Před rokem +6

    Thank you for accumulating this teaching of love 🙂

  • @zisoke
    @zisoke Před rokem +3

    Such an important and moving talk!

  • @LovingKindnessTodayBySevelin
    @LovingKindnessTodayBySevelin Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much☺️🙏🏻❤️🌿🌼

  • @johanna11980
    @johanna11980 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely love your 'talks'. I am grateful for them, thank you

  • @trudesquires1089
    @trudesquires1089 Před 2 lety +12

    As a tweenie who is nearly 60, with 7 grandchildren I found this so beautiful . Bless you Sister 🙏 ♥ ...xxxxx

  • @huongcaubet5283
    @huongcaubet5283 Před 11 měsíci

    Nam Mô A Di Đà Phật 🎉

  • @maryottlinger8968
    @maryottlinger8968 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, sister I am grateful. I am learning to cultivate joy in myself and others.

  • @kanagawathykaliabaratan8120

    🙏🏻💝Saadhu saadhu saadhu.Thank you sister💕

  • @colleendeane7888
    @colleendeane7888 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanku Sister D

  • @karunawoodroad1609
    @karunawoodroad1609 Před rokem +1

    Dear Sister D, thank you so much for your teaching. I had been feeling very upset and sad, but applying your teaching to say loving words to myself, it has put a smile on my face.
    Thank you so much.🙏🏼

  • @23Bentley45
    @23Bentley45 Před rokem +2

    Thank you a million times, dear sister Dang. This dharma talk is a treasure. The most valuable thing I’ve ever learned. I’m sure it has saved lives

  • @richarddouglas3036
    @richarddouglas3036 Před 2 lety +3

    The caring voice of experience

  • @marymullaney5541
    @marymullaney5541 Před 2 lety +3

    This has been such a rich and deep talk Sister Dang Nghiem. It is true metta. I will put this into practice right away.

  • @jixie_93
    @jixie_93 Před rokem +2

    This is precious...🙏🙏❤️❤️ so much love...

  • @sparklysusan4641
    @sparklysusan4641 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you for this lovely talk, sisters smile is just divine!

  • @johannelevacdoyle8163
    @johannelevacdoyle8163 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you so much dear Plum village community and to you sister🙏🙏🙏your smile is so beautiful, it inspires me to cultivate your teachings so that I can have such a smile myself one day while meditating😍

  • @carlinmariepower5691
    @carlinmariepower5691 Před 2 lety +3

    THANK YOU;) YOU;)

  • @darinkaguevaracue
    @darinkaguevaracue Před rokem +2

    Thank you Dear Master Dang Nghiem

  • @hoihoang3728
    @hoihoang3728 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank u so much for your sharing

  • @yitpinglam5468
    @yitpinglam5468 Před 2 lety +3

    Enlightening Dhamma talk. Thank you, Sister

  • @imanbarilero2204
    @imanbarilero2204 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you sister, this was so profound. I can see myself in your description of the trigger of mental formation. The challenge for me was how to get out of my head and drop in my heart. Since I had my calling with the passing of Thay, a whole word is opened and my soul is awakened. Please keep shining your light to humanity. I am now an adapt of mindfulness and I know the way out form my dharma is to drop in and accept myself as I am. A child of god. Blessings.

  • @InnerSun777
    @InnerSun777 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, sister! This is very inspiring!

  • @willettejackson979
    @willettejackson979 Před 4 měsíci

    Love first begins with loving you.😂❤

  • @SisterSunnyFreeSpirit
    @SisterSunnyFreeSpirit Před 2 lety +1

    Dear Sister D .... Thank you! ~ Lotus for you

  • @graceacer9369
    @graceacer9369 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you

  • @stormkellow1995
    @stormkellow1995 Před 2 lety +2

    Your words moved me and helped me

  • @DavidPatrizia-fh1hx
    @DavidPatrizia-fh1hx Před rokem

    Thank you, sister!

  • @mississippimoondog
    @mississippimoondog Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks ❤

  • @ElisPalmer
    @ElisPalmer Před 2 lety +2

    🌟🙏🏼🌟

  • @dorokrautkramer2226
    @dorokrautkramer2226 Před 2 lety +2

    ♥️🙏🙏🙏

  • @beki1377
    @beki1377 Před 2 lety +4

    I don’t know how can I convince my son that all the electronic stuff and close the door is so unhealthy…. He won’t listen to me at all and reject everything.
    This talk mostly listen people who are not fleeing in the electronic world…
    So what can we do for others?? I am really helpless with my son :-(

  • @fingerprint5511
    @fingerprint5511 Před 2 lety +4

    We need Buddhist nuns to teach because its ultimate and far beyond monks 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Che_Guna
    @Che_Guna Před 6 měsíci

    ☸️🙏

  • @nature2601
    @nature2601 Před rokem +1

    😇💝🙏

  • @Smurf.223
    @Smurf.223 Před 2 lety +3

    ❤❤👍👍❤❤👍👍❤❤

  • @ninjazkoolboyholk1714

    i agreed,, it has become habits,,,i suffer stress anxiety...

  • @ninjazkoolboyholk1714

    ya. .exactly this happen to me ,my family always scold me as i am the youngest in the family , i grow up, low esteem

  • @ingli413
    @ingli413 Před rokem

    I love you

  • @julietarojas7637
    @julietarojas7637 Před 2 lety +1

    And I thank you so much to my brother now and she always happy to my son and her girlfriend now and I thank you so much to my brother now and she changed me now and you those that girl and my son now and you very hut my brother now and I'm not hold you my brother now and you go to my brother now and you enjoy your life now and happy your life now and I thank you so much to my brother now and you change your life now and you not to go to heaven now my brother and always making money and making adoltery now my brother is not good moral character my brother now?

  • @julietarojas7637
    @julietarojas7637 Před 2 lety +1

    And the bodies safa you are comvide to my brother now and bodies safa now

  • @julietarojas7637
    @julietarojas7637 Před 2 lety +1

    Okay now my sister she doesn't like me now and I find who loves me true love me now and because my brother and I don't love you anymore now and she always pain my heart and my mind and my body and I served to my brother and I served you with all my heart now and I give you the stronger and stronger now and because you using the other girls now and I tier my body now and I stop serve to my brother now and I leave olne now and no bulue my life now and I don't alive now and I like to die now and my baby now?

  • @groominator-magneticequato7195

    Can the creator PLEASE remove the adds from the center of this meditation/talk? Its an amazing talk but incredibly jarring when the loud adds show up. I cannot listen to this in the evening or morning, and I’d really like to.
    🙏🏻

    • @wouterverhoeven1
      @wouterverhoeven1  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Dear Groominator, thank you for your message. This video does not have any adds included (meaning burned in in the original file). CZcams sometimes stops a video to show adds, but that is beyond my control. If you want to watch this or other videos add free, you can go to www.evermind.media/bonus, where you find lots of free videos, mostly sharings by monastics. Enjoy and be well.

  • @julietarojas7637
    @julietarojas7637 Před 2 lety +1

    And I safe my packet now and I not serve to my brother now and because Is not my will and your will my brother and Is not my will now and your fault now and Is not my fault now Is your fault now my brother now and I leave you alone now my brother now and I go every were now and I find my true love and you give the moon and the stars now who loves me true love me now and because my brother and I don't love you anymore now and I'm so free to my brother now and I like to die now and I don't alive now?

  • @ColargolPL
    @ColargolPL Před 11 měsíci

    "You go thru yr life putting yourself out for an auction". Very poignant. But that's exactly what the "labor market" is all about. The phrase has always sounded somewhat like the slave market to me...

  • @bebemegie
    @bebemegie Před 11 měsíci

    I love you🦋🩵 thank you so much for your teachings and love. Blessings and joy to you.