Stranger at the Gate | 2023 Oscar-Nominated Short | The New Yorker Documentary

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  • A former Marine with P.T.S.D. planned to attack Muslims in Indiana-until an unexpected encounter with faith. Joshua Seftel’s documentary “Stranger at the Gate” tells the story. "Stranger at the Gate" is nominated for Best Documentary Short at the 2023 Academy Awards.
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Komentáře • 869

  • @kaisermughal1954
    @kaisermughal1954 Před rokem +1074

    25 years of hatred, crushed by 8 weeks of love. What a powerful story.

    • @sapofish
      @sapofish Před rokem +21

      truth! LOVE is the most powerful force on the planet!

    • @ashimov1970
      @ashimov1970 Před rokem +3

    • @paprgl
      @paprgl Před rokem +9

      Grateful for everyone who participated in this (short) documentary.

    • @nancyallen628
      @nancyallen628 Před rokem +6

      Thank you for saying this

    • @Trund27
      @Trund27 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@sapofishIt absolutely is. Well said.

  • @daddyzarex
    @daddyzarex Před rokem +432

    A few hours ago, this film was nominated for a 2023 Academy Award for Best Documentary Short. Congratulations to all involved!

    • @sylviadaphnesmith1735
      @sylviadaphnesmith1735 Před rokem +16

      I just read that which made me seek out this documentary. Very powerful story

    • @Georgeooo
      @Georgeooo Před rokem

      America has supported Israel since 1948 and imposed a blockade. On Iraq since 1991, and al-Qaeda appeared in 1996. What I want to say is America’s policy in the Middle East, which created hatred, not Islam. Foreign Minister Saddam Hussein Tariq Aziz was a Christian and was put in prison after 2003 and died in prison. America wants to kill. Every man does not agree with its foreign policies and does not care if he is a Muslim, Christian, Jew or communist

    • @Daen009
      @Daen009 Před rokem

      La verdad este documental es repulsivo, manipulador, y tiene un falso progresismo

  • @All_praise4Allah
    @All_praise4Allah Před rokem +712

    This is perfect example of how dangerous hate and ignorance can be. Yet how amazing love and an open heart can be. God bless this amazing brother.

    • @HK00088
      @HK00088 Před rokem

      The people in power love to divide and conquer

    • @auntiesemite9295
      @auntiesemite9295 Před rokem +3

      Courtesy of western regimes and media.

    • @sad-7477
      @sad-7477 Před rokem +7

      God bless Bibi

    • @Georgeooo
      @Georgeooo Před rokem +1

      America has supported Israel since 1948 and imposed a blockade. On Iraq since 1991, and al-Qaeda appeared in 1996. What I want to say is America’s policy in the Middle East, which created hatred, not Islam. Foreign Minister Saddam Hussein Tariq Aziz was a Christian and was put in prison after 2003 and died in prison. America wants to kill. Every man does not agree with its foreign policies and does not care if he is a Muslim, Christian, Jew or communist

    • @alidee5448
      @alidee5448 Před rokem +1

      Hate and ignorance mean more power and profit for the wealth hoarding parasites that run the world.

  • @zacharyjones2273
    @zacharyjones2273 Před rokem +594

    This is some of the most heavy, sincere things I have ever seen. This story is truly something everyone needs to hear.

    • @All_praise4Allah
      @All_praise4Allah Před rokem +16

      Thank you brother. The fight to end hatred and bring us together.

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      only if you're a fanatical nutbar.. us rational folks just seeing you adding another nutty violent terrorist to your ranks. He found out that Muslims are just as bonkers as he is.

    • @All_praise4Allah
      @All_praise4Allah Před rokem +7

      @@cyryc says the racist hate lover. A mans life has changed, and lives saved because he who hated us got to know us. Our love and example changed his heart. You are lost

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      @@All_praise4Allah you can't just call someone racist when there's no evidence of it anywhere. Islam isn't a race, and if it were, then the Quran would be the most racist book on the planet. 'Hate lover'? Congrats on an oxymoron. And if I loved hate, then I'd be like this empty loaf and join your hateful cult, wouldn't I? Nah, probably a lot of blackmail and deception about Islam 'changed his heart'. Or rather, his mind. But again, all I see is a cult of psychos welcoming another to their fold.

    • @samridley3277
      @samridley3277 Před rokem +1

      agreed! well said zach!

  • @kstew7699
    @kstew7699 Před rokem +101

    This is my doctor and his wife. I have known them for 25 plus years, they are the most wonderful people I have ever known. They are the most loving people. I love the Bahrami family.

  • @joancrawford1146
    @joancrawford1146 Před rokem +177

    I feel so badly for our military personnel who are traumatized then left to deal with the pieces. Thank you for showing him the kindness and love his heart needed! Praying for peace and love in all communities!

    • @ottodidakt3069
      @ottodidakt3069 Před 11 měsíci

      yes, thrown onto the frontlines of useless wars that are created to enrich the few at the expense of the most : American and foreign lives and fuelled by American tax dollars

  • @nanceemccraw2836
    @nanceemccraw2836 Před rokem +296

    I love the message we are left with at the end, "........ but to save one human being it is as if you save all of humanity." I was really moved by this film-thank you for sharing this story.

    • @khaledbelhaj
      @khaledbelhaj Před rokem +16

      True wonderful and inspiring story. When a person thinks deeply, he understands that there is something that unites us regardless of religion or race

    • @Purecarbo
      @Purecarbo Před rokem +14

      That’s a quote or Hadith in the Quran

    • @CandyyyyR
      @CandyyyyR Před rokem +22

      That’s the word of Allah ( The God) in his holy book the Quran.

    • @ggthewhale
      @ggthewhale Před rokem +12

      @@Purecarbo it's in the Quran

    • @SeekingCertainty
      @SeekingCertainty Před rokem +12

      The Holy Qur'an 5: 32: “Because of that, We decreed upon the Children of Israel that whoever kills a soul unless for a soul or for corruption [done] in the land - it is as if he had slain mankind entirely. And whoever saves one - it is as if he had saved mankind entirely. And Our messengers had certainly come to them with clear proofs. Then indeed many of them, [even] after that, throughout the land, were transgressors.”.

  • @ayyuhabits
    @ayyuhabits Před rokem +429

    I could not control my tears at the end. watching this as a Muslim, when you face constant judgment, and hate - your ego tells you to harden so that you can protect yourself. But bibi and her husband didn’t! This documentary showed me the importance of kindness, and how that one act saved the community & him. Kindness should be given freely always.

    • @HK00088
      @HK00088 Před rokem +1

      Why do u look so beautiful?

    • @timberridgemb
      @timberridgemb Před rokem +4

      I too could not control my tears.

    • @chambermuses7802
      @chambermuses7802 Před rokem +10

      Thank you, dear one, and Salam... Sharing tears of wonder and hope with you. As a Christian with many Muslim friends for years, this touches the soul. Blessings to you and yours. ~ Michael

    • @RottenInDenmarkOrginal
      @RottenInDenmarkOrginal Před 8 měsíci

      Well, everyone else is afraid of RADICAL ISLAMISTS too! So, welcome to group! Shalom! 🔯

    • @bubblepopr4959
      @bubblepopr4959 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@HK00088¹111q¹1q

  • @QuantumWalnut
    @QuantumWalnut Před rokem +348

    Trauma is really the most under-treated epidemic in many society. The cost is measured not just in medical bill, but literally in human lives.

    • @mishacolibra3132
      @mishacolibra3132 Před rokem +6

      Yes--you might like to read Gabor Mate's new book: The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture

    • @UandMeGod
      @UandMeGod Před rokem +3

      OMG that was so well stated Qwerty! You are exactly right! I wish more ppl in our society understood that and were more trauma informed to better respond to those who may need help and don't even know it yet.

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      Uh.. the Quran was written by mentally ill people following a mentally ill kiddy diddler

  • @pietersleght6905
    @pietersleght6905 Před rokem +143

    i know Dr. & Bibi Bahrami and they are wonderful people and everything he has said, is the truth......he loves his patients as much as his family. He is also my Doctor.....this is very emotional for me..

    • @redoxicomanic3676
      @redoxicomanic3676 Před rokem +1

      Has he ever dropped down and hugged someone like this. It's the first time I've heard someone doing it.

    • @pietersleght6905
      @pietersleght6905 Před rokem +15

      @@redoxicomanic3676 yes, every time i go to his office he always hugs me....

    • @pirsofsind
      @pirsofsind Před rokem

      @@pietersleght6905 Good go hear Peter.

    • @pietersleght6905
      @pietersleght6905 Před rokem

      @@pirsofsind thank you

    • @johnmguzman7491
      @johnmguzman7491 Před rokem +1

      Hello Pieter Sleght6905-thank you for your post. Can we connect? I am working to dispel stereotypes in California.

  • @joshthompiano
    @joshthompiano Před rokem +210

    So true, hate cannot destroy hate. Only love can destroy hate.

    • @satellitefeed1665
      @satellitefeed1665 Před rokem +8

      I feel that while love is an opposite of hate. Love simply replaces the hate. Love does not destroy anything, in my humble opinion. Salaam my friends.

    • @margob6203
      @margob6203 Před rokem +2

      @@satellitefeed1665 Beautifully said, thank you for those words. 🙏♥️

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      and yet the Quran is full of hate...

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      @@satellitefeed1665 extreme love = fanaticism = bad

    • @grantranalli6080
      @grantranalli6080 Před rokem +5

      @@cyryc Apparently, so are you.

  • @StevenPrewitt
    @StevenPrewitt Před rokem +44

    I worked with Dr. B at a long term care facility in Yorktown for 6 years. He is a amazing man and has an incredible family. I never knew any of this before. Sad but beautiful story!!!!

  • @jillheniff1446
    @jillheniff1446 Před rokem +47

    This should be watched at schools

  • @barblessable
    @barblessable Před rokem +139

    Mac's 25 years as a marine with all the killing and destruction that involved ,why wasn't he looked after by the military when he got injured physically and emotionally ,the coping mechanism of "just see them as a paper target" was chilling, how many veterans are going through similar trauma? , Muslim ,Christian, atheist, agnostic etc ,we all need love and kindness as Mac found in the nick of time , this film needs to be seen by everyone.

    • @studentism
      @studentism Před rokem +11

      It's an unfortunately really common story with vets. I wound up in rehab a few years ago, and it turned out to be _the_ rehab the military sends a lot of its people to. Heard some really harrowing stories of marines who watched their friends get blown apart next to them and wound up with bad alcohol problems due to the PTSD. Also used to be friends with a community of homeless vets who served in Vietnam, a lot of them are dead now. For all the rhetoric we drum up about supporting our troops, we do a really horrible job.

    • @mspelleri
      @mspelleri Před rokem +8

      How do we expect to train people to turn off all emotion and become killing machines, and then just flip the switch again to return to civilian life? All vets need ongoing assistance to recapture a sense of normalcy. I heard that the fraternal-type organization like VFW are shrinking because they don't appeal to younger vets. Perhaps this place of gathering is something missing for our vets today.

    • @GoddessPallasAthena
      @GoddessPallasAthena Před rokem +5

      Vets in our country are under-served. They need and deserve much better (and more timely) medical and psychological help. They need to be taken care of until they are healthy, both mentally and physically. Also, other kinds of care, such as vocational, financial advice, etc.
      It shouldn't be this easy to send people out to kill others. The investment needs to be made to make the people whole again (if possible) when they return.

  • @ramblinralph7609
    @ramblinralph7609 Před rokem +343

    Watching this caused me to do some thinking about some of the dark thoughts I've had about Muslims
    over the years. Reevaluation, reconsideration. Thank you.

    • @amjedbelgacem8218
      @amjedbelgacem8218 Před rokem +56

      I am a muslim and i just want to say that i love you as a human and a brother although we don't know each other and i wish you a great journey in this life, as well as thank you for your comment!

    • @ferhankhan7285
      @ferhankhan7285 Před rokem

      Dr JERALD DIRKS
      YOUSUF ESTESS
      LEOPOLD WEISS
      SALEEM MORGAN
      YEVONE RIDLEY
      LAUREN BOOTH
      MARTIN LINGS
      I hope that UR INTELLECT will b MUSLIM like them as you already are a MUSLIM phsycally

    • @mmw5656
      @mmw5656 Před rokem +20

      It’s a courageous thing to face and question ourselves. I admire your bravery. It’s difficult, but worthwhile. Not everyone can do it.
      Good thoughts your way….

    • @caithurley5589
      @caithurley5589 Před rokem +12

      Thank you for being so honest. It is tough, facing up to the feelings we have inside us that have just sat there for decades, unquestioned.
      I am not a Muslim, or Christian, or anything, and I love *anyone* who can recognise our common humanity, brother and sisterhood and fight for all of our freedom to love and be loved.

    • @mmw5656
      @mmw5656 Před rokem +2

      @@caithurley5589 well said

  • @migf27
    @migf27 Před rokem +48

    I have always believed that the best way to spread your faith is to live it. Live your faith in a way that makes me want to be like you.

  • @Kaleogriffith
    @Kaleogriffith Před rokem +92

    Wow, I am floored. One of the most extraordinary stories of humanity and love I have ever seen.

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      it really isn't.

    • @FonicsSuck
      @FonicsSuck Před rokem +5

      @@cyryc do something good with your time, instead of being angry on youtube

    • @thepoetthatwasi1722
      @thepoetthatwasi1722 Před rokem +3

      @@FonicsSuck Mental cases never take good advice.

  • @abdulelnajdi1594
    @abdulelnajdi1594 Před rokem +204

    His story is incredible! I was there when they started filming this documentary and heard his story! I live in Muncie now because I attend university there, and I love our community and the people of Munice. I am so happy to be a small part of this story and the community.

  • @EugeneLeeAttorney
    @EugeneLeeAttorney Před rokem +89

    So moving. This documentary will stay with me for a long time.

  • @scetch2006
    @scetch2006 Před rokem +139

    We need more of this in our lives.

  • @rubester845
    @rubester845 Před rokem +104

    I live in London, Ontario where a Muslim family was run down and murdered nearly 2 years ago. I have experienced a lot of Islamophobia and am sadly not alone. But there is so much beauty and hope and humanity out there. Thank you for this wonderful film and story. Wishing you all the best Mac and to the whole Muncie community ❤️

    • @ROMCADRANCH
      @ROMCADRANCH Před rokem +2

      I live in Brantford Ontario. That's so horrible! I hope you're doing well.

    • @thatclothgirl
      @thatclothgirl Před rokem +5

      I live right down the road in Stratford Ontario and was absolutely horrified when that poor family was run down.
      During a BLM event, I was involved in a near hit when a driver was angry about being held up while our group crossed an intersection. I’ll never forget the hate in his eyes. It changed me, made me fearful. I’m sorry for the hate you have experienced. You have a friend in me.

  • @letsif
    @letsif Před rokem +40

    Thank you for making this beautiful documentary openly available to everyone.

  • @dumoncer
    @dumoncer Před rokem +22

    Pretty amazing story. I am not muslim, and really had very little knowledge or interaction until I visited a family member who had temporarily moved to Oman to teach. We toured around, and one of the most profound things was how we could enter a mosque (really as sightseeing, which in hindsight seems ignorant, how would most christians feel about ‘sightseeing non-christians entering a church’), and how open and welcoming they were. It blew my mind. When you met a stranger, they would invite you to their house for tea or a meal. So hearing how he was welcomed… wasn’t actually as shocking. So happy to have come across this.

  • @poeticjustice8476
    @poeticjustice8476 Před rokem +160

    Wow, this story is incredible! How is this not already a massive Hollywood film?

    • @mishacolibra3132
      @mishacolibra3132 Před rokem +4

      It should be. Who should we call? Along with the whole Winter Soldier series of others with similar changes of mindset.

    • @sizzaa2505
      @sizzaa2505 Před rokem +20

      Pretty sure we all know why Hollywood has not took up this true story 🤣 and spread the message

    • @vincentramirez6967
      @vincentramirez6967 Před rokem +15

      When half of the country live by the conservative code of prejudice, racism, and rage, it wouldn't be a smart move for a company to fund this.

    • @junaidquraishi9825
      @junaidquraishi9825 Před rokem +29

      They can't show muslim as good guys

    • @farishope6540
      @farishope6540 Před rokem +18

      Because it says something positive about Muslims

  • @vinaymehta239
    @vinaymehta239 Před rokem +60

    wish this made the news cycle.. let's commit to sharing this broadly

    • @stacyneal5291
      @stacyneal5291 Před rokem +4

      This is playing at our local theatre for Doctober (month of documentaries in October)…can’t wait.

    • @Stingra87
      @Stingra87 Před rokem +5

      It's on CNN, that's how I found it.

    • @flyboyCMH
      @flyboyCMH Před rokem +5

      @@Stingra87 This needs to be on Fox News but I hate to say it will never see the light of day there. Not even a mention. Prove me wrong Rupert.

  • @jerivargas638
    @jerivargas638 Před rokem +64

    Such a powerful story. This is something that should be shown in schools to provide students the opportunity to confront hatred and prejudice that is so common in our soiciety.

  • @prestonbelk4367
    @prestonbelk4367 Před rokem +573

    I’ve had such a strong distaste towards Muslims ever since the wars and 9/11… I feel so stupid for buying into the bull crap I saw online and in the news, this story has done more for me than anyone will ever understand .

    • @Sandman86
      @Sandman86 Před rokem +48

      There is a beautiful surah in the Qur'an its says ""O you who believe! If a sinner comes to you with any news, investigate, lest you harm some people out of ignorance, and you become regretful for what you have done."" Surah al-Hujurat
      The media is a double-edged sword. We have to ask and research before launching any reactions. The media directs others to false stories.

    • @scaletta5847
      @scaletta5847 Před rokem +11

      I am so glad for you.

    • @charm9892000
      @charm9892000 Před rokem +7

      @@Sandman86 that’s an even more important lesson now in the times of “fake news” but I suppose that was always around

    • @ChewyAndGo
      @ChewyAndGo Před rokem +32

      It's not an easy thing to admit that you've been wrong. You should feel proud of yourself.

    • @MQB-dz8wr
      @MQB-dz8wr Před rokem +18

      Thank you for being open minded. Sorry you were misled by media. We’re human just like you

  • @UandMeGod
    @UandMeGod Před rokem +148

    Very powerful story and journey! I hate how our US military just lets these Veterans go without proper mental health help to be sure they are okay to go back into civilian life without debilitating PTSD, trauma is invisible but we know the military is more likely than not to experience it. So we should 100% help support them all the time but especially when leaving active duty!

    • @bmccarthy3333
      @bmccarthy3333 Před rokem +14

      I truly believe once you see combat in the military it should be mandatory to have some form of counseling afterwards. Maybe 3 months, or more if you want it. You don't even have to call it therapy- call it debriefing. Sitting face to face with another human to help ease the burden of what you experienced could save the life of that soldier and help the family they return to. No stigma if ALL have to go. There is a wonderful doc the military made in 1946 that shows the help soldiers received post WW2. Famed Hollywood director John Huston, a vet himself, made the film for the army. The army saw it as controversial- and blocked its release until the 1980s. The methods of treatment in the film are outdated- but what is never outdated is the compassion and care shown to these once broken men. Your heart will break.
      "Let There Be Light" lots of places to watch, CZcams, Prime Video, etc. Amazing film.

    • @juliasmucker
      @juliasmucker Před rokem +6

      Even better would be not to set people up for trauma in the first place by training them to see other human beings as something other than human in order to make it easier to kill.

    • @alidee5448
      @alidee5448 Před rokem +1

      Same in the UK. We the working class are nothing but disposable cattle bred for our labour in whatever form, be it military cannon fodder or starvation wage slavery in civilian life.

    • @yobrojoost9497
      @yobrojoost9497 Před rokem +2

      @@juliasmucker You hit the nail on the head, Julia. The training to dehumanize people is absolutely disgusting and evil.

  • @ggooden11
    @ggooden11 Před rokem +88

    The power of love and kindness really can't be measured. Amazing story and an amazing documentary :)

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      "Indeed, those who disbelieve in Our verses - We will drive them into a Fire. Every time their skins are roasted through We will replace them with other skins so they may taste the punishment. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted in Might and Wise." - Quran 4:56 yeah.. sooooooo loving

    • @caithurley5589
      @caithurley5589 Před rokem +3

      The version of God that's in the Bible and/or the Torah is hardly what you'd call entirely peaceful, no?
      Come to all religions with questions. I know people of faith who do not subscribe to religions in order to believe in their deity. Perhaps that is in the future for most people but meanwhile, for many, religions provide community that would not be there otherwise, and in this case, that was a good thing, yes? Surely you can agree with that?

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      @@caithurley5589 "God that's in the Bible and/or Torah" Ok.. pick one. Torah = Judaism. Gospels = Christianity, and I'd say he was entirely peaceful in the Gospels

  • @iran7456
    @iran7456 Před rokem +66

    Wishing peace for the whole planet ❤

  • @Neo_lost
    @Neo_lost Před rokem +31

    'To save one human is like saving the whole humanity'. We all have people around us that need help. Let's help and do our bit. May we all find peace in our lives and this world

  • @peggygibbons479
    @peggygibbons479 Před rokem +11

    I could not love this more. Everybody has a story. Remember when Steve Hartman started by going to a phone booth, picking up the phone book that hung on a chain, picked out a name & he went & talked to that person. Every story was amazing. We're all in this world together, all just trying our best.

  • @Vyansya
    @Vyansya Před rokem +14

    Only 200k views? This deserves at least 10M. Powerful story need to be shared.

  • @pitbull6527
    @pitbull6527 Před rokem +136

    As Marines, we want to serve a cause greater than ourselves. I'm happy that Mac found his second calling in life.
    Semper Fidelis

  • @leebatt7964
    @leebatt7964 Před rokem +38

    To think that someone was planning to murder these lovely people is so extremely sad. Mack, I know you’ll probably never read this but thank you for opening up your heart to love. You are a good man. Keep up the love for all humanity, you deserve love.

  • @Aris1013
    @Aris1013 Před rokem +87

    Beautifully done. Living in Muncie, I remember when this happened, but never did I hear the story conveyed in such a way, definitely something everyone should see.

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      It's beautiful that there's a new nutbar terrorist among the muslims?

    • @Aris1013
      @Aris1013 Před rokem +2

      @@cyryc Did you watch this entire documentary? He had so much hate in him he wanted to cause harm, but once he met and spent time with the people he hated so much, he changed. He even converted. He saw how kind and wonderful they are, and now tells his story to hopefully change the minds of other hate filled people. If the people that were the target of his hate can accept him, why can't you?

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      @@Aris1013 oh f*** no I'm not wasting time watching an entire long video about a nutbar who joined a cult of nutbars. Yeah, and now he openly admits to admiring an illiterate kiddy diddler who's cult enslaved the old world for 1000 years. If it were a smart and sane educated person, then you might have a prize catch.. as it is, you've added a mentally unstable vet likely with brain damage. And he was probably lied to with the whole "Weesa beleeve in Jeeeezus" dawah bs

    • @Aris1013
      @Aris1013 Před rokem +2

      @@cyryc So you did not watch it, and now you are wasting your time commenting on something that you feel the need to rant about? Maybe you should go down to the Islamic Center and have a chat with them to give you some peace of mind, you seriously seem like you need it. Wish all the best to you man, you really give off a lot of angry vibes, and I hope it gets resolved.

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      @@Aris1013 No thanks, not going to get duped and blackmailed or made to drink the blood of the Kalima. Angry vibes? Like what.. roasting the skins off of nonbelievers?

  • @badrtaib730
    @badrtaib730 Před rokem +20

    While I'm happy Richard found his calling and is living a fulfilling life right now, this story should also help us rethink US militarism and the conversation around the destruction it brought upon, not only Muslims around the world, but also US soldiers who get radicalized by the destruction they witness and dehumanization of others they go to kill.

  • @MnMcancook
    @MnMcancook Před rokem +14

    I was not ready for what was presented here. The sheer magnitude of the impact this story has is nothing short of life changing. There are almost endless "what ifs" that could have wiped out everyone telling this story, but somehow love founds its way into the story and all the wrong doors closed, leaving only the doors open that lead to understanding and compassion. It took a series of miracles to allow this pathway to unfold. This needs to be put into the mainstream so that it can reach all that need to hear it!

  • @dougsprei-nine-fingeredgui9945

    Met with love and kindness, he made the right choice, began to heal and was transformed. With countless soldiers set in motion for war, the world needs warriors for peace like Mac literally for survival.

  • @stephentolfo9499
    @stephentolfo9499 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I hope everyone has the chance to watch this.

  • @buddhalovechild
    @buddhalovechild Před rokem +19

    To be free of hate is to step into paradise.

  • @phillebo
    @phillebo Před rokem +108

    What a powerful story. I'm an old atheist. Hardcore, but this really got to me.

    • @Kim-vd8yh
      @Kim-vd8yh Před rokem +4

      Hope the best to you

    • @AliAldliy
      @AliAldliy Před rokem +5

      I'm asking god to guide u to the right path. All you need is just a pure heart. Take my word man

    • @adamsamad
      @adamsamad Před rokem +13

      Phil...I used to be a non believer. Ask the creator to sincerely guide you with an open heart. What's the worst that can happen? If its all true and there happens to be a creator you can at least say you asked and you were sincere in looking and you didn't feel anything or get pulled in the creators direction. I just couldn't fathom that after all this in this life that there would be a Void at the end. That humans didn't have a reason to exist. Anyway that was my brief story. I also pray Allah to guide you and me continuously. -Adam

    • @theunbeatable6598
      @theunbeatable6598 Před rokem +3

      Its never too late bro, ALLAH is the most merciful
      Lol I'm not old but trust me give it a go learn and you'll agree

    • @cyryc
      @cyryc Před rokem

      that's because you're an idiot.

  • @dannywest9256
    @dannywest9256 Před rokem +31

    Oh my lord, goosebumps! What an incredibly profound man. Thank you so much for leading the way! I will never forget you!

  • @sarahm7833
    @sarahm7833 Před rokem +39

    So inspiring!! Their kindness literally saved many lives ♥️

  • @bahiaessed1151
    @bahiaessed1151 Před rokem +11

    I'm a Muslims woman and watching this just comfort my believes. I do agree with the woman when she said that we need to be more kind with the people who suffer. I love all the humans in this earth. Love for each other NO EXCEPTION is our goal. May God bless the humanity ❤️

  • @abdulelnajdi1594
    @abdulelnajdi1594 Před rokem +8

    The short film" Stanger at the gate" gets nominated for this year's Academy Award (Oscar) in the short film category. Congratulations

  • @dianasaltoon-briggs3144
    @dianasaltoon-briggs3144 Před rokem +7

    Such a moving, powerful story of how love and kindness ultimately conquers hate and violence. A proof of the humanity that resides in each and everyone, without exception, as human beings. We are made to love, to be kind, and forgiving.

  • @drewfogle
    @drewfogle Před rokem +36

    This should be watched by all. It should also be included in all school curriculum. And especially would be a valuable short film to view for all brave military men and women as they transition into civilian life. So inspiring, and an amazing story of hope for humanity.

    • @Dillingham24
      @Dillingham24 Před rokem +1

      i agree but too many far right nut jobs would complain and protest that it be left out of curriculums.

    • @Grgaforniateezy
      @Grgaforniateezy Před 8 měsíci +1

      Agreed

  • @ShimmySnail
    @ShimmySnail Před rokem +16

    This should, and will, have 1,000 times the likes as it does today, before it wins the Oscar for best short/documentary for 2022. Which, for the record, is 2.1K likes, on October 10th, 2022. If it doesn't. It will have, the day after it wins.

  • @kenmorgan9528
    @kenmorgan9528 Před rokem +8

    This is a story about communication....prior to his visit to the Islamic Center, Mac had simply never communicated with any Muslims. After his visit, the channels of communication were open, and understanding followed. This is why we should never cut off the lines of communication. Once a dialogue is opened, we move forward towards peace. Thanks for this, Malala. Hope this film wins an Oscar.

  • @caithurley5589
    @caithurley5589 Před rokem +25

    Thank you for speaking with such clarity and honesty. The journey has been hard but my goodness me, this man has reached levels of I guess what you could call 'enlightenment' that many people never reach. Allowing a closed and broken heart to be healed by open hearted humanity and love was an act of incredible personal bravery. It takes guts to face who you are. Real guts, and as a role model, in that community, and to your daughter: Wow, job done!
    Fantastic documentary. Thank you for making it freely available. Here's hoping every teenager in the US is shown it at school for the next 100 years.

  • @addya4011
    @addya4011 Před rokem +16

    This made me cry. Right now I don’t have words to describe how this has made me feel

  • @EZEKIELAIA
    @EZEKIELAIA Před 5 měsíci +4

    The root of all conflict...The idea of Me and Mine. 😱💀

  • @cory1800
    @cory1800 Před rokem +17

    Only goes to show you that fear and loneliness are two traits people do not want in their life. Love is always the answer. 💛💛💛

  • @behroozshahdaftar4209
    @behroozshahdaftar4209 Před rokem +8

    Thank you, New Yorker, for this wonderful documentary. As an immigrant Middle Eastern American I have experienced considerable prejudice and news items like this gives me hope and lightens my heart. I wish stories like this were in the news more often.

  • @shana2736
    @shana2736 Před rokem +20

    What a true testimony, that being kind to each human regardless of race, religion, or color, will produce peace all around, contrary to hate and war! Lessons learned: say “peace”, smile, if you don’t know-ask questions yourself, don’t listen to negative hateful people, and… be God conscious. ❤ peace be upon you ❤

  • @chambermuses7802
    @chambermuses7802 Před rokem +11

    Absolutely sublime transformation. And perfectly congruent with what so many of us Christians who come to really know true Muslims have experienced - generosity, kinship, fraternity.

  • @hannahnomme9217
    @hannahnomme9217 Před rokem +10

    This is stunningly beautiful. Just when we feel hatred is dominant around us this light pierces through to show just how healing love is.

  • @sonnyroy497
    @sonnyroy497 Před rokem +18

    ❤️❤️❤️ "Love thy neighbor as you would love thyself." 💜💜💜

  • @macalxa13
    @macalxa13 Před rokem +14

    What an amazing story. Just shows you can’t judge a book by its cover and just listening to someone makes a world of difference

  • @calamityjane4331
    @calamityjane4331 Před 8 měsíci +6

    This documentary broke my heart wide open. I'm crying, being so moved by our capacity as human beings to heal and to change for the better.

  • @AnilMaheshwari2030
    @AnilMaheshwari2030 Před rokem +7

    Incredible story. We need more of these. Thanks for producing this film.

  • @meshowzaq6892
    @meshowzaq6892 Před rokem +32

    man this is some really heavy stuff... I'm truly happy for him now and where he is, and to those people who helped him through out all of this, may God bless you all. Such n amazing story.

  • @BooDevil65
    @BooDevil65 Před rokem +25

    That took some serious courage ... my hat's off to you.

  • @zumeraaa
    @zumeraaa Před rokem +28

    May he find endless and everlasting peace in his community and his faith. May he be free of his suffering and guilt.

  • @cleodmr1
    @cleodmr1 Před rokem +5

    I read a part of this story on CNN. I am so grateful to God that Mac did not detonate that bomb in the Mosque. The thought of the harm it would have done almost stops my breathing!! That anyone could cause others such harm is unimaginable to me. Thank You God for Your grace and mercy!! Thank You 🙏🏿. Thank You God that they embraced him and showed him love. That it didn't matter that he thought he was different. To them he is not!! He was shown that there is no difference. We are all the same. Love is Love. No matter your race creed or color. Love is Love ❤️. Thank you for this movie. You made me cry, but I thank you for they are happy tears. Blessings ❤️ 🙌🏿

  • @jillheyd7500
    @jillheyd7500 Před rokem +7

    What a beautiful story this is. If only more people could take just a little time to learn about our differences, we all would have more peace.

  • @wags1956
    @wags1956 Před rokem +36

    what a great documentary, so well told. bravo.

  • @RJCH88
    @RJCH88 Před rokem +3

    I don’t know how I stumbled on this video and I am really glad I clicked on it. Great Story on Humanity

  • @returnoftheredeye
    @returnoftheredeye Před rokem +11

    I believe that there's not many things in life that take more strength and courage than to truly change yourself.

  • @destinyl4029
    @destinyl4029 Před rokem +26

    This gives me a small hope for humanity

  • @chrisie9424
    @chrisie9424 Před rokem +17

    Thank you for sharing this story with the world. It gives me hope.

  • @local690
    @local690 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Incredible. The world I want. Love & Peace. “Salam”

  • @abraxasjinx5207
    @abraxasjinx5207 Před 11 měsíci +4

    It takes an amazing amount of emotional intelligence to face the terrible mistakes you have made, that you are irreparably tied to. I hope this is a part of the face of restorative justice going forward.

  • @DCOWBOYS4LIFE
    @DCOWBOYS4LIFE Před rokem +8

    Man this is super emotional. I'm proud to be a Christian, but since I was a teenager when 9/11 happened I had some of the same hatred when I was young. Not happy, but it was the truth and I was so wrong. My prayers for all the people who still have that hatred.

  • @Baci302
    @Baci302 Před 8 měsíci +3

    What an incredible journey to peace. I can't stop the tears. Love you, Big Mac. Great job by you. You have an amazing daughter. Let the Mac Love Train roll! Salaam.

  • @jilldaltonnyc7545
    @jilldaltonnyc7545 Před rokem +20

    What a moving and powerful piece. Thank you.

  • @ashmomofboys
    @ashmomofboys Před rokem +30

    This is an incredible story.

  • @alexclairmont
    @alexclairmont Před rokem +5

    This one really got to me. One of my favourite Oscar nominees this year (in and out of its category - Documentary Short Film). Love and kindness is the cure.

  • @aemiliadelroba4022
    @aemiliadelroba4022 Před rokem +12

    It is not the hate that will make us better humans , it is Love ❤️.
    It is easy to hate but it takes more to love ❤️…
    love lasts forever .
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @byrona.martinproductionsin5578

    Beautiful. Like John told us in verse, "All you need is love". This is a winner in my book on so many levels. Congratulations to the filmmakers!

  • @BelindaNelson001
    @BelindaNelson001 Před rokem +5

    Dr. Muhammad and Bibi Barahmi, thank you for sharing a wonderful true story of love for humanity. Based on true facts! A genuine good heart can put change into motion.

  • @Kobenoz
    @Kobenoz Před rokem +33

    23:39 "I need to be a Muslim". Goosebumps...

  • @Andersonian1995
    @Andersonian1995 Před rokem +6

    Finding your faith is an incredibly beautiful thing but the journey to it often is not. The power of love and kindness can save us all.

  • @chaurley
    @chaurley Před 8 měsíci +3

    This is beautiful. The world needs more of such stories. Thank you for sharing this story. ❤

  • @mohammadajaz7257
    @mohammadajaz7257 Před rokem +30

    What a beautiful story.💞

  • @MR-od6hz
    @MR-od6hz Před rokem +16

    Such a moving story. Such an incredible man.

  • @Sofia_kitmalaysia
    @Sofia_kitmalaysia Před rokem +6

    To Mac…Hope you have a peaceful live. You are a good man and have a good heart

  • @galeocean4182
    @galeocean4182 Před rokem +18

    What a crazy, odd, amazing story. Best wishes to all

  • @d.saunders7656
    @d.saunders7656 Před rokem +5

    I just saw a segmented this morning on CBS Sunday Morning about this short film. So, I figured I watch. I am so glad I did. This was fantastic and I hope you win an Oscar tonight.

  • @ayeshanayabrao4297
    @ayeshanayabrao4297 Před rokem +9

    What an incredible story! I hope this wins Oscar and impacts globally.

  • @GS-gp6wv
    @GS-gp6wv Před rokem +5

    This absolutely touched my heart - I cried - I am happy I always had in my heart the ability to love all of mankind - minus those people that carry a negative vibe . Those people I just avoided never mistreated them. Thank you for sharing this - many people in our world need to watch this with a open mind and heart

  • @jenmdawg
    @jenmdawg Před 8 měsíci +4

    Gives credence to “enter the cave you fear the most; therein lives your salvation”.
    That the soldier was brave enough to seek “evidence” to support his worst ideas is how he saved himself and his neighbors all that pain.
    Wow.
    Wow.

  • @amyfriesland723
    @amyfriesland723 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Every person needs to see this!! This shows that we do not all need to believe the same thing to show love and respect to each other!! Get rid of hate!!

  • @doloresmorales6209
    @doloresmorales6209 Před rokem +4

    A tear jerker!. Thank you. It takes courage to transition as a human being and to grow and be a contributor instead of a taker.

  • @RichardHarlow
    @RichardHarlow Před rokem +7

    I would love it if you could consider making this video fully inclusive and accessible by having descriptive video and having somebody read the text out when there is only text on the screen for blind people like myself.

    • @dianec2962
      @dianec2962 Před rokem +1

      I have wished more clips do this too

  • @shena1256
    @shena1256 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I have lived my life by the motto, "Make friends different than yourself. It makes you a better person" By doing that my life has been enriched in countless ways. It made my parents better people as well just by being exposed to my friends. They are Mccoys who were raised in the mountains of Kentucky. I can walk in their door with anyone no matter race, religion, sexuality, nationality and whatever else you can think of that makes us different, and they will be welcomed. I truly believe if we would take the time to actually get to know each other we would all be better to each other. ❤

  • @rickyteee
    @rickyteee Před rokem +17

    Powerful story about hate transitioning into love

  • @shoedil812
    @shoedil812 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The ENTIRE world should see this!
    Like in... the ENTIIIIIRE world.
    The best part is where he stated "I might never get out"
    And he never did... or at least his soul didn't. He even got IN.
    What an epic story.

  • @anklebreaka03
    @anklebreaka03 Před rokem +10

    This is truly incredible....hard to find words to describe a story like this.