5 Unusual Strategies That Cured My Shyness
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- čas přidán 16. 02. 2024
- 5 Unusual Strategies That Cured My Shyness
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1. Practice
2. Find your niche/personality trait
3. Don't be a victim
4. Build it up; put yourself out there, doing slightly uncomfortable.
5. Own it. You might might take a more background position in certain situations, and that's okay.
I was painfully shy as a kid and managed to grow out of it, although it took me well into college to feel as if I were on the same or similar level. One thing I want to add for Millennials and Gen Z is practice talking on the phone and not expect only texts. I get so sick of people saying that "I'm an introvert/autistic/anxious, so I can't talk on the phone." It might never be your favorite way to communicate, but having a little bit of an idea on how to do properly it can be helpful in a pinch. Like she said, you should always seek to grow. I had huge problems as a child with this, but it's easy for me now.
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Thank you. I see myself in you man, and its great to know im not alone. Ive been going through a friend roughpatch lately and ive been walking this road alone, so knowing you went through the same thing assures me.. maybe things are gonna get better
You’re not alone even though it may seem like it sometimes. Things will get better ❤️
I used to be the most bullied kid in class. Can relate to your story! But i didnt watch a lot of videos, i just gamed a lot... Luckely i escaped the depressive period and changed schools. After that everything changed for the better luckely. Now im quitte happy and one of the more extraverted persons in the room!
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Your funny ^^
Thank you for sharing this and I'm glad you can relate to it! ❤️
Poor thing, I'm the same in my high-school. I have to seclude myself from my friends in another area because my school is just so unsafe for people like me. But I'm happy you're a better person!
Pretty cool video.
Thank you! 😊
I think I'm 845 :) I to was just like this, then one day I just stopped giving a shit about what people thought of me, I think becoming enlightened is akin to this feeling
i'm really joyfull that watch people with same problam overcoming their problams and coming proud out of that
Great advice!, I'm saying that as a guy who was very shy, but over 40 years ago. So no watching CZcams etc 🙂, but indeed stay true to yourself, make baby steps and it will all sort itself out in the end!
Glad it all worked out for you! 😊
Ik wil eigenlijk alleen maar zeggen dat je super mooie ogen hebt
Care less of what other people think about you. You'll find yourself base on what you like and dislike, it'll take some time. Always make your time useful by trying something new whatever that maybe and work on it.
Its so easy to be isolated in the current world. Even tho we are more connected than ever before.
i struggle with this myself, i a lot of friends online (other countries) but in real life i basically have 0 ever since i left school ... i just turned 23 struggling with this but its my own fault and im trying to fix the isolation ive put myself in for the past 5 years. Its odd cause you arent lonely, cause you have a bunch of friends online but when you step outside you have 0.
I think the key for my personal situation is playing a team sport again, like used to in the past, also been going to gym for the past 2 years, which has definitely helped me, but im too shy to really start talking to people, i just do my own thing at the moment.
thanks for the videos, keep the content going!
Thanks for your comment! I think lot of people struggle with this nowadays. I think joining a sports team definitely helps, because it kind of forces you to interact with people without having to cold approach them. Good luck with everything! ☺
@@Lynneverly Thank you.
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In a way we weirdos do rule the world. It's nice to be an outsider, watch people engage in the rat race and social dances, and not having any desire to be part of it. Sometimes if feels like you're the only human, watching a group of chimps fight for their position on the social ladder. It gives us a sense of freedom "normal" people will never have.
So my advice is: try to enjoy being a weirdo. Make yourself aware of the benefits, not just the drawbacks.
I would like to try that, but you have to have a job to support yourself, and the interview process does not have large tolerances, although it should.
Great video! 🙌
Thanks you 😊
Of course once she made efforts - she tried as a very pretty young women.
how beautiful you are...just fall in .....something {CRUSH}
you're eyes are real blue or fake ? I mean this are really this are so cute
these were so to the point and helpful tysm
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