Thank you so much Estee❤ I'm 25 years old and my dream is to become a trad wife and stay at home mother. Right now I'm single so I'll be taking this time to grow closer to God and start preparing on how to be that trad wife.
I find great comfort in the fact that there are other people in their mid-20s like me having the same goals, (and struggles lol) as me to find a good husband! I certainly hope marriage is in gods plan for me.
Thanks for standing up for us traditional wives. I was married 40 years (my husband recently passed away:( ) I use to get a lot of flack from people saying I set feminism back 100 years lol. It worked for us and we also raised four amazing kids and have two grandkids as well. And for anyone who wonders, we were both college educated. I used mine to homeschool our kids
hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys?
I love these points! I would add, though, that unless you are independently wealthy or only plan to marry a wealthy man, learning how to be frugal and how to keep to a budget are important skills. Raising a family on a single income requires discipline and thought. And having these skills and this mindset before getting married will be so helpful to keep conflict and stress out of your home and marriage 🥰
I would also add acquiring basic food preservation skills. Part of being frugal is aiming for as close to zero food waste as possible. Grow a garden if possible. Get a pressure canner - All American is the very best because it doesn't have a gasket that will need replacing. Get a steam canner. Rose Red Homestead and Fy Nyth have useful info on those. Bexar Prepper has put out phenomenal videos, as well as Sutton's Daze. Harvest Gaurd and Tattler make reusable canning lids. Even if you can't grow a garden, being able to take advantage of sales and preserving long-term will save money. Since we're empty nesters, I can a lot of stuff in half pint jars, including meat. Process same as for pints. Basic mending goes a long way. How many clothing items are thrown out or donated because of missing buttons, small tears and holes, etc. Learn to cook simple meals from scratch. As far as I'm concerned, the words microwave and cooking are polar opposites. I have a small vintage/antique cookbook collection . The portion sizes are more in line with a healthy size, and the ingredients are simple, not exotic. Wartime cookbooks are great, but my oldest ones are from the 1800's. Finally, recognize the difference between needs and wants.
@@annemumford9459 absolutely! Personally, I may also add that gardening and growing your own food may be a good skill to learn, but I know not everyone is in a life situation (i.e. Apartments, small yards, condos, townhouses, etc) to do that. However, if you have the space and climate, it’s a wonderful addition to the basic chores of a housewife! I love it. Harvesting a whole summers worth of garlic in just a few weeks 😍
@The Housewife Homelife The living situations for everyone are different, that's true. But even if you have a sunny window, you can grow leaf lettuce, some radishes, and finger onions, and maybe a cherry tomato plant for salads. There is a variety called Everglades that produces a ton. Or get a small growing rack with lights. The way prices are, it would probably pay for itself just in gas cost alone. And when there's another lockdown, at least you would have a little fresh food in the house. Also, frozen veges can be canned. All the prep work of washing, peeling, shucking, shelling, chopping, and blanching have already been done. I would imagine if you go to a Sam's club, or a restaurant supply store, really big bags are available. These can be dehydrated also. And even if you get the smallest All American canner, it witt still do 4 quarts and 6 pints. (The book says seven, but I only managed that when I used my taller, slimmer antique jars.) A pint will hold a pound of meat, and that's what most recipes call for. Now the meat is all ready done for 6 meals, and there's more room in the freezer.
“Don’t date if you don’t have the intention of marrying!” Soo true! I dated my husband for 5 months & married in 6 months with God in the centre & I don’t regret it🙌🏽
Great video. I'm 25 and I'm a traditional wife. There's no greater pleasure than knowing that my husband can't wait to get home from work everyday to his peace, quiet and harmony. I feel so, so much happier than when I used to work. I went to university and had a great job that paid 9 times more than the average salary and it was terrifying for me to let go of it and be dependent on my husband. But, as time went on, he has proven to me how much he loves me and that he would never leave me, so I was finally able to let go of my fear and get rid if my anxiety. The best decision of my life.
Thank you so much for bringing this style of life back into the world. My wife and I have been married for 18 years raising 6 boys. We get to spend every day together watching our children grow into fine young men. I am lucky but my sons will have a hard time finding what you and I have. There aren't many suitable women for them.
So true, if you and your wife aren't opposed to it there are many good women in southeastern Asia that still have traditional values. As long as it they look outside the big cities they'll have good luck. Please don't listen to the stereotyping, the women have just as much of a problem with the men there as we have with the women here.
I think a lot of women are actually scared to be dependend too much, because of what she said. There are just too many stories of men abusing the power they have over a women financially. Or cheating on her, divorce, being out of a job for too long and basically living in poverty after that at least for a long time if not for the rest of your life. I'm technically a progressive woman. But not because of "feminism", but because there are too many stories of my parents and grandparents generation where the traditional roles went wrong. There are many loving and caring women who work existing. Some would probably go parttime to take care of the household and cook. But it's just too risky to stop working completly. You never know what the future holds and if it's not good, then you hopefully aren't out of your job for 10 years already.
This is the sort of ultra-sensible, ultra-realistic program for marital happiness that contemporary young women are largely ignorant of -- in many cases because it's been shouted down by "war of the sexes" promoters determined to position men and women as enemies to one another. Let's spread it far and wide. Thank you, Mrs. Williams.
We young women actually grow up and get socialized with the idea of marriage and children and that’s great. But my friends and I all had bad experiences, being a stay at home wife and we actually loved it but We constantly felt like walking on eggshells with our husbands to avoid them getting angry, especially during pregnancy, where it’s natural to get exhausted and tired and to need help. But they were expecting it regardless and wether you’re a man or a woman I think it’s important to set boundaries too and be understanding of each other, without being accused of not acting like a wife is supposed to act or be. It was a purely transactional relationship to our husbands and they did not build any connection with the children because they’d rather watch baseball. One of our friends still worked part time in a community college and they’re many divorced women from abusive households that decided college is the best option to avoid homelessness, because as a stay at home wife before they didn’t work or get any savings. Some of us devoted ourselves to our house and the children with big hopes that got crushed. As long as we were compliant, the men were nice to us. If you have a respectful and understanding and sensitive husband, traditional life is perfect. Otherwise it’s terrible and one of the most damaging things that can happen to you. I also think a traditional women should also still be allowed to have hobbies, get supported with chores when she’s seriously tired or injured, otherwise it has been proven by studies over and over how damaging it is and not only the wife will suffer but the husband from the way the wife feels.
I love wearing dresses. It’s typically how I dress. It’s feminine, people think I’m putting in effort to look nice when really, I found a socially acceptable way not to wear pants lol
Gotta say I am happy to see there are not a ton of haters on this video. I somehow met a woman like this at 17 and married her at 21. 43 now and still love how I know she is there for the kids and house every day. When I see how the other kids act compared to my kids I know we made the right decision. Wasn't easy at first with only one income but in the end it was all worth it.
Brian-I grew up in a one income household. It was great having mom with us every day. HAPPINESS is way better than wealth. Somebody when you are old, your children will take care of you in the same kind and caring way that you took care of them 😊
Tradwives are underrated. My wife is not a _traditional_ traditional wife, but she is very domestically focused. I'm not afraid to assist with the cooking and cleaning and what not, but aside from my man cave the home is her show. Providing her with safety, comfort, and the tools she needs to express herself makes me feel more like a gigachad manly man than did anything else I've ever done.
traditional marriages are a blessing. she runs the house, and i can focus more of my energy towards providing. Ground your family in faith, and have many kids! Our home is full of so much love, i wish it on everyone! Been trying to figure out how to make traditional family content.....in contrast to the feminist and redpill movements. you got a sub! God bless all yall!
Just subbed!! I would LOVE to see a channel such as this! These young people need to know how to treat each other kindly. And have morals. More GOD in their lives. 🙏🏽👍🏽👆🏽🙌🏽🛐
@@lightwarrior432 i appreciate that! i hope to figure out how to make entertaining content that does just that. i got an idea here brewing, keep an eye out ;)
Ladies, I would just like to add: Read proverbs 31 this tells you 99% of what you need to know. Fellas let us not forget to make ourselves men worthy of a traditional wife.
So funny, I do all of that. I mean, exactly all of that, but I am a dude with a very strong sensitive (feminine - side since I was a kid I was called sensitive) , and my wife works and I absolutely love the life. I am pretty good at baking, cooking, cleaning, and hosting. That happens since a very young age.... anyways, only after I became a stay-at-home dad I fixed all my issues, even got released from therapy. It's like I literally found my purpose in life... I guess I am a non tradicional husband 😂😂😂
Yay! I don't do Tik Tok, so I am so happy to see you here on CZcams! I myself am a traditional wife and mother. I have three daughters also. I am glad to see women who take pride in their home, marriage, and motherhood. Keep up the great work!
I just realized something while watching this video... why I, and probably lots of other men, are feeling depleted of drive to succeed, to accomplish what we want in life, is because of the dearth of women like this. This woman motivates me to achieve more, to finish things I've started, just because she gives me a little shot of hope that there are more women out there like her.
Try to find a mate in real life if you can. Whether it means joining a church or volunteering for some organization.... maybe through friends. Finding a mate online will be pretty hard. The statistics show that 80% of women online in dating apps are single Mothers or they are just using it for an ego boost. Apps will lower your self esteem artificially because of it. My nieces are single despite being physically attractive and accomplished.... they have insane requirements. My nephews are both married and found their partners in real life. Best of luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for.
@@betsyb2256 I have additional issues: serious chronic medical problems, or I probably already would have found the closest approximation to a trad wife years ago. Even started going to church mostly for that reason. But separately, I struggle with motivation for things I've always wanted to do... so even without the realistic option of being able to support such a woman, I still find it's demotivating not to be striving for her. Interesting catch-22.
@@paryanindoeur Not having a job is risky in case anything goes wrong in your life. Someone like her is rare, but there are a lot who would work parttime and take care of most of the housework.
@@betsyb2256 there are single moms out there that are trad. There are also men out there that abandon their wife and child(ren)...usually for a younger woman. Therefore dehumanizing single moms only contributes to the degradation of society and pupreruates more fatherless children. Also know, while you're praising the single women without children...just know that they are childless because they likely murdered their children....so they could avoid your judgement of "being a single mom". But hey, if you're a man that preferes a serial abortionist over a woman that loves her children...that tells me everything I need to know about "male nature".
To all young ladies watching this: Even if you are not planning on being a trad wife, follow her advice for dating! A man with all sorts of red flags is NOT marriage material, especially if being a trad wife or house wife is in your future! I was actually surprised to hear this, considering how often those red flags are seen as "romantic" nowadays.
Wonderful tips. Seams that all you have mentioned should be in ever persons life. I like how soft spoken you are and calm, a positive non toxic feminine lady. Adorable!
I’m so happy to see a beautiful and positive representative for women who choose to be traditional and creative stylish homemakers - it truly is a wonderful life.
You have such a sweet disposition and I’m certain you will inspire many. It’s lovely seeing young ladies such as yourself promoting this important tradition🌹
I am so proud of you beloved sis. I hope you are also rooted in the word of GOD. Anyway, you are so beautiful but you calm voice is ever more beautiful. And it's amazing, I don't understand why this generation is offereded by everything. I believe as women we need to just give love to people around and play the roles of sis, mom, daughter, wife etc and this is a wonderful ministry. This is ideal and wonderful. Thank you i am so proud of you
My mom recommended me to choose a guy from a good family. She said the values they were raised with stick with them and people end up being like their parents. It is also important for your husband’s family to love and defend you. I know my dad’s family played a big part in saving my parents’ marriage because whenever they got into an argument, my dad’s family defended my mom and told my dad to apologize (even if she was in the wrong lol). Of course wonderful people can come from bad parents and horrible children can come from amazing parents and no one should be judged and punished for their parents’ mistakes but this is just a general safety precaution for me.
Too true. In this current dating climate it would be foolish to ditch your income stream early on in a marriage. One should either have a skill or qualification to use for an income should it become necessary once the time comes to ever surrender a job for a relationship. The odds of finding an honest man these days is slim (sadly) and women must be cautious. A fail proof means to test a man's integrity is always listen to your gut; it won't lie even if the heart is.
Yes I think this is what truly keeps women away from being in traditional roles in the relationship. The fear of a abusive partner . That’s why feminism started talking about the dangers, not that you shouldn’t be a traditional wife and many take this out of context. All people see is “feminism advocates for women prioritizing career” but they don’t read why this can be important for her safety too. Often you see even the most traditional fathers say “I want you to make your own money so you don’t have to rely on a man.” Or some women just have a different purpose. Even the Bible says you can get a different purpose from god apart from marriage and children. (Apostle Paul, Deborah, Rahab, Lydia, Jesus himself)
I love all the positivity in these comments and I love your video. I’m a SAHM with two kids and a hard working hubby. I hope to be a role model to my daughter and seeing content like yours gives us so much hope that traditions are staying alive.
I’ve noticed that a traditional wife can earn little bit of income with a side hustle but is not the main breadwinner (eg Proverbs 31 wife). This makes sense because it takes time and energy to have a good self care routine, and to cook, clean, be attentive and loving to your husband and children. There’s not all that much energy leftover! Not enough to have a full time job.
WOW. Every marriage could be this great. What a HAPPY LADY. I was born in the ‘50s. My mother was what they called a HOUSEWIFE back then. She was there for us kids EVERY DAY. Every minute that we were home, she was home. IT WAS WONDERFUL. we did stuff all summer long. She was our Boy Scout leader. We learned so much from her. It was hard getting by on one income, but what’s more important, wealth or HAPPINESS? I miss her dearly. Nowadays, women go to work and send their kids to STRANGERS at daycare. NOT GOOD 🙁
Your husband is one blessed man. My wife of 45 years that I just lost to cancer had your same values. God bless you for posting these videos. Young ladies today need to see them.
Yes girl Yes!!!! Us traditional women are extremely rare and I agree with each tip!!! I’m in my 40’s and have been sharing your tips for the last 20yrs. Please keep sharing!
Hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys? Did you wait until marriage?
You realize women act traditional to manipulate men, no woman actually wants this. I am 16 and I lie all the time about going to church and wanting to be a trad wife, because it’s funny how dumb men are. They believe anything a pretty girl says.
She's a dream come true. I envy her husband, and I hope he truly loves and appreciates everything she does for him and the children. Mr Williams, be loyal to her. Don't you dare break her ❤. Be the best husband and father that you can possibly be. She doesn't deserve less than the best version of you.
@@stefanisilva2493 exactly. Even till this day, high value trad. women are still being used, abused, and/or cheated on. Majority of men in the usa no longer believe in a faithful long term monogamous relationship. They’re opportunists that’ll fvck just about any & every 304 tramp easily if tempted behind their loyal woman’s back. Wonder why being loyal is too much to ask from majority of American men these days…
Hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys?
@@SoRight8 From a guys perspective, I would ask the same advice from you. I assume a lot of people just spend time indoors now, so where would you suggest meeting traditional women? (UK here)
@@kane3215 over the years I went to church for the longest time (mostly women and married couples there) and also tried to date online off and on. Most of the guys were married though or were not serious about an LTR. Went to school and worked a corporate job. Mostly women at work however. Met one guy in college, but he later ran off with a younger girl (he also went woke...decided he was "polyamorous"). The one guy I dated at work turned out to be an alcoholic...so I had to end that relatiinship. Most of my friends were already married. Hated the club scene, so never went out much. Spent a lot of time at coffee shops though. I would also say community based activities could be promising. Highschool had a lot of good guys, but I for some reason thought there would be more options after that. If I could do it differently, with the brain I have now, I would have dated more then. So best advice is to get out more and not stay at home. Since you're a guy, don't be afraid to date younger or same age or even a little older to find a girl with the right values. Expand your friend circle (don't be shy) as they are the best avenue for dates too. Best advice? Never listen to friends or family when they say it will eventually come....often it never does. It would be better to pursue dating/courtship aggressively, as if you only had a year left to do it. Don't wait around on anyone. Hope that helps.
@@SoRight8 Wow thanks for taking the time to write all that! I was the same in high school too, some girls were interested in me, but I couldn't see myself with them long term so I decided not to get with them, but I wasn't smart enough at the time to try pursue the girls who would've been great in the future, and now I'm 21 with no relationship experience at all. I also don't enjoy clubs, but I do go out and drink with friends, mostly only see guys where we go though. Book/coffee shops could be an interesting idea, I just don't know how people will react to someone coming up to them. Personally I'd be happy with it, but I'm not every person. Online dating is something I was hoping I wouldn't have to try, but I suppose it could be worth giving a go, as long as I set my values correctly and go after women who think the same as I do. I think I'm fairly good looking and in shape, but since guys:girls is so high, I'd be worried I'd only get swiped past if they saw I was 5'8, thinking there's way better looking folk out there. Thanks again though! I hope everything works out for you. 🤗
@@SoRight8 The gym is another place I'm quite apprehensive about speaking to girls. Funnily enough today, a girl was looking at me and worked near me for quite a while, but that's one place I'm quite cautious in case they weren't actually trying to signal anything to me, and she thinks I'm just a bit creepy...
You are a sweetheart who is truly radiating in her divine feminine essence! Such a positive influence to others. I've been saving myself for marriage, and had to experience the whole "fast-paced-city-work cycle" for years until finally admitting to myself that being a tradwife (and mother who will homeschool) while living out in the countryside is truly what my heart desires. I used to be friends with women who had a very negative, depressed, anxious and promiscuous mindset - releasing those people from my life has been a blessing. Now, I cherish the women in my life who carry more traditional values and positive/healthy mindset, as I have realized how valuable my own energy is. I also no longer feel shame for wanting to submit to my future husband, or for desiring a monogamous commitment. It's been refreshing to find your content, thank you for sharing! ✨🌻
I’m a stay at home mom and I do all the things, while my husband works. I love my life. Serving my home is a blessing and I’m thankful. I need to work harder, like you do! You’re awesome. 🙌🏅 ❤❤
Hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys? Church has been sparse.
Wonderful! I especially love the emphasis on maintaining oneself because if you can't care for yourself how can you expect to care for others I also loved that she mentioned having a hobby most young people today spend any free time they have on their phone In my spare time I love sewing, crocheting, and gaming!
I am about to marry my italian fiance, who is very traditional. I grew up very independent and have a lot of trauma with trusting the man that was suppose to take care of the family from my first marriage. However, I am noticing myself wanting to take on more of that traditional role with my fiance. We are both in our mid 30's trying for a family, both in the military. Every day, this feeling overcomes me. I know he will do what he can to provide for us. I am working every day to strengthen that trust. Thank you for your videos and inspiration.
I love your videos 😁 I’ve often felt like feminism manipulates women into believing that the only way she is going to be happy is to pursue a life or career that is traditionally male dominated. I know that I got a lot of distain for the years that I stayed home or the number of kids that I have. I wish you would do a video about why you wanted this kind of life.
I was raised to be a worker and to suppress my femininity. To seek validation and worth through a job. Not taught any caretaking. Working in tech to try to support myself. It was so empty. I became incredibly ill and had to give up career, apartment to live and depend on my elderly parents. Now I’m 35 and have no idea what to do except try to be patient and keep improving myself and try to trust it will come. Some days it feels very hard to value myself. My family resents me for being dependent on them and taking their money while I’m ill. I went into debt to try to last as long as I could before costing them more. My father screamed at me and said I’m not doing enough. He hovers over me insulting me and looking for any mistake. My mom was the breadwinner and my family tells me I’ll never be suitable for children since I was ill. It’s heartbreaking at times but I hope to never give up, to get out and have my own family one day despite my family influence and lack of upbringing. I see my nieces every day nearly but they are largely gate kept by their parents unless no one else is around. I helped take care of my family during lockdown and cooked for 7 but after awhile my mom wanted that role (out of jealousy) and pushed me out. I get zero recognition for any effort or caretaking role and my family will eat together regularly without me, especially to honor my parents as caretakers for my nieces. Sometimes while I was bedridden hungry and alone they would all just disappear together to go out to eat as if I didn’t exist at all. I know it’s probably for the best I stay away from from their behavior but it’s very lonely and hard. I try to just take the times when they do remember me and are more kind and stay away when otherwise. I decided to re-parent myself and learn to be caretaker as much as I can for past 6 years, but I still feel like 4/10 often and afraid to find loving husband with traditional roles but I try anyway and to be patient always.❤
Feminism is often very misunderstood. Most women are not extremists, they are standing up for themselves to be treated equally. This is taken out of context so often. Wages are still lower for women then they are for men, and this isn't right, as long as it's equal work. Sexism, racism, and classicism are all inequitable. This is not what the United States was created for, or why our ancestors left oppressive England.
Beautiful advice! Finding a loving and Godly man that you can love and raise a family with was something I prayed for. Finding beauty in simple things and living a simple life is rare in this world. I hope everyone has a great day!!
Marrying the right man, yes yes yes! I think it starts there. Choose a good man with the same values as yours. I'm so blessed to have married the right one.
my mom is the primary breadwinner, and both my parents cook and clean. although not "traditional," my family is very happy. so it just comes down to doing what fulfills you the most, but at the end of the day neither is inherently better than the other. you seem very happy so congratulations. however your future children choose to live I hope you show them support 💗
It’s soooooo refreshing to see a woman who embraces a traditional role lifestyle with grace and joy. Soo inspiring. I have never been married, but my dream has always been to be a homemaker, marry a man after Gods heart and love him well and raise children in the wisdom of the LORD! Cooking and cleaning and beautifying the home and building a life with someone and being the one to teach and train and raise my own children is my dream. The fact that someone is unabashed to stand up for the old ways and traditions is beyond encouraging! I’ve been criticized for not wanting more for myself, like a career, or to be an independent woman with my own money and my own house and my own life. But none of that has ever brought a sense of accomplishment or satisfaction. The trad wife is what I know was places in my heart by my creator. Gods richest blessing to you and your household. I pray I find this one day too!
Why on earth is this in my recommended - I’m a married man with an awesome wife who is my PARTNER. She cooks delicious dinners, it’s the least I can do to help with the dishes afterwards. She went through childbirth, it’s the least I can do to change some dirty diapers. If this truly makes you happy go for it, but I can’t help thinking that this kind of power imbalance just isn’t a good thing.
Be at home when your kids come home from school. Maybe they had a rough day, and need to UNPACK those emotions with a loving parent...not a daycare provider who has 30 kids to tend to. Feed your family healthy meals you have made, not fast-food every night. Take car of the house so it can become a loving home. These are tips to a successful family life!
I am a girl who is very oriented on becoming financially independent. I clicked on this video with judgemental prejudice but I actually learned some insighful information, thank you ❤
I support this. My wife is a woman that has these principles. She works so not completely a trad wife but we are getting close to her being home full time and she loves it
Awesome content! We’re hitting our 30 year anniversary, and we started out with the opposite of these values. It’s only by God’s grace that we had shifts that have kept us together all these years. Good for you being bold and spreading this message!
I love your videos so much! Your values are so appreciated ❤️ and your mention of marrying the right man was perfect - I've seen a few ppl argue the lifestyle simply because of the fact you could become stuck in an abusive relationship. So very glad you addressed that, simple and realistic answer! Keep making videos girl! I for one watch for new ones daily!
You are so inspiring! I love how even in the way you speak there’s a gentle calm that I’m sure your husband looks forward to coming home to. I finally realized my dream of being a stay at home mother and homemaker and I feel like I need to level way up. Keep up the good work 💗
This is how God intended it to be. I truly hope the good Lord blesses you both. Marriage is a partnership. No one is either above or below, in front of or behind the other. You walk side by side. Each filling out a role that the other cannot. Truly a masterpiece.
I'm so proud of my traditional husband. he makes it easy to serve him and his children. (Patchwork). He is a modern man with traditional values. he wants family- live and a wife at home, who's always ready to make coffee for him and drink together and have a chat.... back to the roots❤🤗 God love that!
There may not be many, but we certainly are like this. Don’t giving up searching for your dream wife. ❤ God bless you on your journey to finding a loving, kind, and beautiful wife and marriage. 🥰
I got this: If you want a traditional wife 1. Seek out cultures/communities who are natural caretakers. 2. Go to events that natural caretakers like to go to like charity events and other sorts of volunteer events that you are interested in. 3. Take a cooking class (you will be a center of attention). 4. Oh, and for sure a baking class! AVOID bars/clubs, avoid music festivals and concerts unless it is a classical concert. That is just from off the top of my head. Go forth! :D
Thank you for posting videos like this. In a world where gender roles are so mixed up, it's so refreshing to see someone being a role model for how women should be
Having this attitude in a wife really makes a husband man up, working, providing and doing the right things for his family. It’s a team and you’ve got each other’s back. Best wishes to both of you.
I love this. I work and provide for my GF. She's a bit older then me but she is in charge of the house. It's nice and simple and it works for us. IDK why it's not more popular. Very happy about it.
Thank you for making these videos! It is wonderful to have someone show what we traditional wives do and should be doing! I applaud you for putting yourself out there by making video to promote this! Loved all the points you touched on! Keep it up sister!
Well done on putting out a beautiful and virtuous standard of womanhood into the world, I applaud your efforts 🎉 Many young women and little girls will learn soo much! God bless you and your husband ❤
I love this advice!! I need to learn the hosting aspect, I wasn’t exposed to or taught that growing up, so that’s one area I’m lacking in… The only question I have is where do you find your beautiful dresses?? I love them so much
This is so neat! I’m so happy you’re doing what you’re doing! I’ve been a “traditional house wife” for 15 years now and have loved every moment of it! Yes I have dealt with peer pressure, we struggled financially a bit. Have five kiddos on one income isn’t easy. But it’s been sooo worth it! Keep sharing what you do, this is something that needs to brought back for sure! Blessings on your journey!
Honestly the money you save on childcare is worth you staying home. Both my parents worked and my mom said her paycheck basically went to paying a babysitter
I’d love to have a woman like her. Truly amazing in every way. You won’t find a traditional woman like her so easily nowadays. Stay hopeful and keep searching fellas.
Agreed. And to the critics, no, earning supplemental income doesn't keep someone from being a tradwife so long as she's taking care of the home as her top priority.
One more thing: I don't know for sure, but I think you might have a good, built-in audience on CZcams. A lot of us don't use TikTok or whatever, but watch YT all the time. I, personally, would love to see more videos from you on YT!
May you have strength to ensure the hate that is going to come your way. Nothing makes unhappy people madder than seeing someone happy doing something they secretly wish they could do.
Step one, don’t ruin your ability to pair bond by being a garden tool. Step two, value the family above yourself. Step three, be your man’s #1 Fan and bring him peace. Step four, be grateful and reciprocate within your role. Step five, understand the meaning of the word “Commitment”. Five simple steps to being a traditional wife.
All I can say is congrats. You have found your niche and you created your brand well. You are smart and you know what you are doing. I hope that it will turn out into a lucrative business. Good luck to you and your husband. Love your make up
She's just amazing who understands the primary responsibility of a woman. Ofc a woman can be career oriented but some women thinking that it's slavery is so sad.
All that sounds great but its missing one key component that is probably the most important part; communication and respect. What I mean by communication is talking to one another and more importantly listen to one another. You can be traditional all day long but wont matter if you dont have good communication skills and respect with one another. Being a traditional wife is not the only way couples can have a successful marriage.
This woman is a ten
12
She's a 1000
Over 9000
She is 1 million ❤
Solid 9.5
Thank you so much Estee❤ I'm 25 years old and my dream is to become a trad wife and stay at home mother. Right now I'm single so I'll be taking this time to grow closer to God and start preparing on how to be that trad wife.
May the Lord bless you with a wonderful man who will be blessed by you ❤
I encourage you to encourage yourself in the Lord!
😊👍🏽 Blessings and Prayers God brings you the perfect husband. 🙏🏽🙏🏽👆🏽🛐
I find great comfort in the fact that there are other people in their mid-20s like me having the same goals, (and struggles lol) as me to find a good husband!
I certainly hope marriage is in gods plan for me.
You are on the right road. 😊
Thanks for standing up for us traditional wives. I was married 40 years (my husband recently passed away:( ) I use to get a lot of flack from people saying I set feminism back 100 years lol. It worked for us and we also raised four amazing kids and have two grandkids as well. And for anyone who wonders, we were both college educated. I used mine to homeschool our kids
So sorry for the loss of your husband. It sounds like you had a beautiful life together. I wish you well.
hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys?
You’re no longer a traditional wife due to his passing.. you’re just a widow now without a “strong” man to protect you.
@@isaa8521 Sure her children appreciate and protect her.
@@johnyoung5392 maybe, maybe not. Kids don’t owe their parents anything. A lot of children put their parents in a home and never visit lol💀
I love these points! I would add, though, that unless you are independently wealthy or only plan to marry a wealthy man, learning how to be frugal and how to keep to a budget are important skills. Raising a family on a single income requires discipline and thought. And having these skills and this mindset before getting married will be so helpful to keep conflict and stress out of your home and marriage 🥰
I would also add acquiring basic food preservation skills. Part of being frugal is aiming for as close to zero food waste as possible. Grow a garden if possible. Get a pressure canner - All American is the very best because it doesn't have a gasket that will need replacing. Get a steam canner. Rose Red Homestead and Fy Nyth have useful info on those. Bexar Prepper has put out phenomenal videos, as well as Sutton's Daze. Harvest Gaurd and Tattler make reusable canning lids. Even if you can't grow a garden, being able to take advantage of sales and preserving long-term will save money. Since we're empty nesters, I can a lot of stuff in half pint jars, including meat. Process same as for pints. Basic mending goes a long way. How many clothing items are thrown out or donated because of missing buttons, small tears and holes, etc. Learn to cook simple meals from scratch. As far as I'm concerned, the words microwave and cooking are polar opposites. I have a small vintage/antique cookbook collection . The portion sizes are more in line with a healthy size, and the ingredients are simple, not exotic. Wartime cookbooks are great, but my oldest ones are from the 1800's. Finally, recognize the difference between needs and wants.
@@annemumford9459 good advice.
That’s a great point
@@annemumford9459 absolutely! Personally, I may also add that gardening and growing your own food may be a good skill to learn, but I know not everyone is in a life situation (i.e. Apartments, small yards, condos, townhouses, etc) to do that. However, if you have the space and climate, it’s a wonderful addition to the basic chores of a housewife! I love it. Harvesting a whole summers worth of garlic in just a few weeks 😍
@The Housewife Homelife The living situations for everyone are different, that's true. But even if you have a sunny window, you can grow leaf lettuce, some radishes, and finger onions, and maybe a cherry tomato plant for salads. There is a variety called Everglades that produces a ton. Or get a small growing rack with lights. The way prices are, it would probably pay for itself just in gas cost alone. And when there's another lockdown, at least you would have a little fresh food in the house. Also, frozen veges can be canned. All the prep work of washing, peeling, shucking, shelling, chopping, and blanching have already been done. I would imagine if you go to a Sam's club, or a restaurant supply store, really big bags are available. These can be dehydrated also. And even if you get the smallest All American canner, it witt still do 4 quarts and 6 pints. (The book says seven, but I only managed that when I used my taller, slimmer antique jars.) A pint will hold a pound of meat, and that's what most recipes call for. Now the meat is all ready done for 6 meals, and there's more room in the freezer.
“Don’t date if you don’t have the intention of marrying!” Soo true! I dated my husband for 5 months & married in 6 months with God in the centre & I don’t regret it🙌🏽
Great video. I'm 25 and I'm a traditional wife. There's no greater pleasure than knowing that my husband can't wait to get home from work everyday to his peace, quiet and harmony. I feel so, so much happier than when I used to work.
I went to university and had a great job that paid 9 times more than the average salary and it was terrifying for me to let go of it and be dependent on my husband. But, as time went on, he has proven to me how much he loves me and that he would never leave me, so I was finally able to let go of my fear and get rid if my anxiety. The best decision of my life.
U r just 25 n no kids. U gave up a good paying job to do what? Cook for two does not take long.
Thank you so much for bringing this style of life back into the world. My wife and I have been married for 18 years raising 6 boys. We get to spend every day together watching our children grow into fine young men. I am lucky but my sons will have a hard time finding what you and I have. There aren't many suitable women for them.
So true, if you and your wife aren't opposed to it there are many good women in southeastern Asia that still have traditional values. As long as it they look outside the big cities they'll have good luck. Please don't listen to the stereotyping, the women have just as much of a problem with the men there as we have with the women here.
@goatz4u, absolutely. Finding a man who doesn't like promiscuity and pornography is like finding a unicorn nowadays.
I think a lot of women are actually scared to be dependend too much, because of what she said. There are just too many stories of men abusing the power they have over a women financially. Or cheating on her, divorce, being out of a job for too long and basically living in poverty after that at least for a long time if not for the rest of your life. I'm technically a progressive woman. But not because of "feminism", but because there are too many stories of my parents and grandparents generation where the traditional roles went wrong.
There are many loving and caring women who work existing. Some would probably go parttime to take care of the household and cook. But it's just too risky to stop working completly. You never know what the future holds and if it's not good, then you hopefully aren't out of your job for 10 years already.
@@Woo_Woo_Woman I find it weird how the internet acts like only women are the problem or have problems like men don't?
It really up to them. What they find suitable might differ from you
This is the sort of ultra-sensible, ultra-realistic program for marital happiness that contemporary young women are largely ignorant of -- in many cases because it's been shouted down by "war of the sexes" promoters determined to position men and women as enemies to one another. Let's spread it far and wide. Thank you, Mrs. Williams.
We young women actually grow up and get socialized with the idea of marriage and children and that’s great. But my friends and I all had bad experiences, being a stay at home wife and we actually loved it but We constantly felt like walking on eggshells with our husbands to avoid them getting angry, especially during pregnancy, where it’s natural to get exhausted and tired and to need help. But they were expecting it regardless and wether you’re a man or a woman I think it’s important to set boundaries too and be understanding of each other, without being accused of not acting like a wife is supposed to act or be. It was a purely transactional relationship to our husbands and they did not build any connection with the children because they’d rather watch baseball. One of our friends still worked part time in a community college and they’re many divorced women from abusive households that decided college is the best option to avoid homelessness, because as a stay at home wife before they didn’t work or get any savings. Some of us devoted ourselves to our house and the children with big hopes that got crushed. As long as we were compliant, the men were nice to us. If you have a respectful and understanding and sensitive husband, traditional life is perfect. Otherwise it’s terrible and one of the most damaging things that can happen to you. I also think a traditional women should also still be allowed to have hobbies, get supported with chores when she’s seriously tired or injured, otherwise it has been proven by studies over and over how damaging it is and not only the wife will suffer but the husband from the way the wife feels.
Traditional lifestyles are not for everyone lets stop acting like it is.
@@yournightmare7197 I think that if a person wants to have a traditional life they should, but you are correct. It definitely isn't for everyone.
@@MonstersandMana008 Definitely, if they want and it works for them I’m not judging.
@@Anelle1386 I’m talking about people who force their ways, I definitely think everybody should pick their path according to how they wanna live.
I don't have Tik Tok, so I'm very grateful to see your videos making it on to CZcams. I love your message and your vibes. Thank you for sharing. ❤
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I love wearing dresses. It’s typically how I dress. It’s feminine, people think I’m putting in effort to look nice when really, I found a socially acceptable way not to wear pants lol
Gotta say I am happy to see there are not a ton of haters on this video. I somehow met a woman like this at 17 and married her at 21. 43 now and still love how I know she is there for the kids and house every day. When I see how the other kids act compared to my kids I know we made the right decision. Wasn't easy at first with only one income but in the end it was all worth it.
Brian-I grew up in a one income household. It was great having mom with us every day. HAPPINESS is way better than wealth. Somebody when you are old, your children will take care of you in the same kind and caring way that you took care of them 😊
@@danmeadows3859 I too grew up that way, but thought it was so normal that I never really appreciated my mom enough
Tradwives are underrated. My wife is not a _traditional_ traditional wife, but she is very domestically focused. I'm not afraid to assist with the cooking and cleaning and what not, but aside from my man cave the home is her show. Providing her with safety, comfort, and the tools she needs to express herself makes me feel more like a gigachad manly man than did anything else I've ever done.
traditional marriages are a blessing. she runs the house, and i can focus more of my energy towards providing. Ground your family in faith, and have many kids! Our home is full of so much love, i wish it on everyone! Been trying to figure out how to make traditional family content.....in contrast to the feminist and redpill movements. you got a sub! God bless all yall!
Just subbed!!
I would LOVE to see a channel such as this!
These young people need to know how to treat each other kindly. And have morals.
More GOD in their lives. 🙏🏽👍🏽👆🏽🙌🏽🛐
@@lightwarrior432 i appreciate that! i hope to figure out how to make entertaining content that does just that. i got an idea here brewing, keep an eye out ;)
@@savethefamily31 WOOHOO!🥳😃👍🏽
Will do! 😊🤗💜✝️
Running the house also means running the money. Like she should be the one managing it since she needs to run the house which the money is for.
Ladies, I would just like to add: Read proverbs 31 this tells you 99% of what you need to know. Fellas let us not forget to make ourselves men worthy of a traditional wife.
Yes
Reciprocal interests.
So funny, I do all of that. I mean, exactly all of that, but I am a dude with a very strong sensitive (feminine - side since I was a kid I was called sensitive) , and my wife works and I absolutely love the life. I am pretty good at baking, cooking, cleaning, and hosting. That happens since a very young age.... anyways, only after I became a stay-at-home dad I fixed all my issues, even got released from therapy. It's like I literally found my purpose in life... I guess I am a non tradicional husband 😂😂😂
This fr makes me want to be a traditional wife. Love it! ❤
Yay! I don't do Tik Tok, so I am so happy to see you here on CZcams! I myself am a traditional wife and mother. I have three daughters also. I am glad to see women who take pride in their home, marriage, and motherhood. Keep up the great work!
YAY! I'm not the only one that doesn't have it. God bless you and your family 🙏
I don't use it either!
It's good at two things killing brain cells, and time!
I have ADHD and do not need that kind of distraction in my life! 😆
@@Mintyeon470 Amen! 🙏
I just realized something while watching this video... why I, and probably lots of other men, are feeling depleted of drive to succeed, to accomplish what we want in life, is because of the dearth of women like this. This woman motivates me to achieve more, to finish things I've started, just because she gives me a little shot of hope that there are more women out there like her.
Try to find a mate in real life if you can. Whether it means joining a church or volunteering for some organization.... maybe through friends. Finding a mate online will be pretty hard. The statistics show that 80% of women online in dating apps are single
Mothers or they are just using it for an ego boost. Apps will lower your self esteem artificially because of it. My nieces are single despite being physically attractive and accomplished.... they have insane requirements. My nephews are both married and found their partners in real life. Best of luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for.
@@betsyb2256 I have additional issues: serious chronic medical problems, or I probably already would have found the closest approximation to a trad wife years ago. Even started going to church mostly for that reason. But separately, I struggle with motivation for things I've always wanted to do... so even without the realistic option of being able to support such a woman, I still find it's demotivating not to be striving for her. Interesting catch-22.
@@paryanindoeur Not having a job is risky in case anything goes wrong in your life. Someone like her is rare, but there are a lot who would work parttime and take care of most of the housework.
And yet your MGTOW, brethren would wholly disagree with you.
@@betsyb2256 there are single moms out there that are trad. There are also men out there that abandon their wife and child(ren)...usually for a younger woman.
Therefore dehumanizing single moms only contributes to the degradation of society and pupreruates more fatherless children.
Also know, while you're praising the single women without children...just know that they are childless because they likely murdered their children....so they could avoid your judgement of "being a single mom". But hey, if you're a man that preferes a serial abortionist over a woman that loves her children...that tells me everything I need to know about "male nature".
To all young ladies watching this: Even if you are not planning on being a trad wife, follow her advice for dating! A man with all sorts of red flags is NOT marriage material, especially if being a trad wife or house wife is in your future! I was actually surprised to hear this, considering how often those red flags are seen as "romantic" nowadays.
Wonderful tips. Seams that all you have mentioned should be in ever persons life. I like how soft spoken you are and calm, a positive non toxic feminine lady. Adorable!
I’m so happy to see a beautiful and positive representative for women who choose to be traditional and creative stylish homemakers - it truly is a wonderful life.
You have such a sweet disposition and I’m certain you will inspire many. It’s lovely seeing young ladies such as yourself promoting this important tradition🌹
I’m all about house dresses as well and encourage an all dresses wardrobe. What do you have that’s just for you? That’s a fabulous point!
Chivalry was built for this woman, but the modern ones killed it. Protect this woman at all cost!
Just beautiful. So simple. So clean. So pure. Kudos to finding the right guy ma'am.
I am so proud of you beloved sis. I hope you are also rooted in the word of GOD. Anyway, you are so beautiful but you calm voice is ever more beautiful. And it's amazing, I don't understand why this generation is offereded by everything. I believe as women we need to just give love to people around and play the roles of sis, mom, daughter, wife etc and this is a wonderful ministry. This is ideal and wonderful. Thank you i am so proud of you
My mom recommended me to choose a guy from a good family. She said the values they were raised with stick with them and people end up being like their parents. It is also important for your husband’s family to love and defend you. I know my dad’s family played a big part in saving my parents’ marriage because whenever they got into an argument, my dad’s family defended my mom and told my dad to apologize (even if she was in the wrong lol).
Of course wonderful people can come from bad parents and horrible children can come from amazing parents and no one should be judged and punished for their parents’ mistakes but this is just a general safety precaution for me.
Great advice!
100% agree !!! I’m still working on my cooking skills but my husband always encourages me !! ✝️❤️⭐️
The not picking an abusive partner is HUGE. Been there, done that. Luckily, I got a second chance and met the most caring and kind man.
No one picks an abusive partner. You find out that later in the marriage. So always have your own money and job. Don't rely on anyone.
Too true. In this current dating climate it would be foolish to ditch your income stream early on in a marriage. One should either have a skill or qualification to use for an income should it become necessary once the time comes to ever surrender a job for a relationship. The odds of finding an honest man these days is slim (sadly) and women must be cautious. A fail proof means to test a man's integrity is always listen to your gut; it won't lie even if the heart is.
Epidemic of abusive guys out there nowadays...MGTOWs and PUAs and Blackpill types.
Yes I think this is what truly keeps women away from being in traditional roles in the relationship. The fear of a abusive partner . That’s why feminism started talking about the dangers, not that you shouldn’t be a traditional wife and many take this out of context. All people see is “feminism advocates for women prioritizing career” but they don’t read why this can be important for her safety too. Often you see even the most traditional fathers say “I want you to make your own money so you don’t have to rely on a man.” Or some women just have a different purpose. Even the Bible says you can get a different purpose from god apart from marriage and children. (Apostle Paul, Deborah, Rahab, Lydia, Jesus himself)
Great answer. Thanks 💜
I love all the positivity in these comments and I love your video. I’m a SAHM with two kids and a hard working hubby. I hope to be a role model to my daughter and seeing content like yours gives us so much hope that traditions are staying alive.
I’ve noticed that a traditional wife can earn little bit of income with a side hustle but is not the main breadwinner (eg Proverbs 31 wife). This makes sense because it takes time and energy to have a good self care routine, and to cook, clean, be attentive and loving to your husband and children. There’s not all that much energy leftover! Not enough to have a full time job.
Agree
DAYUM
Blessings to your HUSBAND and Yourself !
Full SUPPORT and I want your marriage to stay protected and striving!
LETS GOOOOO!!!!!
So you want a classic 2 dimensional characterless house wench. Who has no independent goals, desires, interests.
WOW. Every marriage could be this great. What a HAPPY LADY.
I was born in the ‘50s. My mother was what they called a HOUSEWIFE back then. She was there for us kids EVERY DAY. Every minute that we were home, she was home. IT WAS WONDERFUL. we did stuff all summer long. She was our Boy Scout leader. We learned so much from her. It was hard getting by on one income, but what’s more important, wealth or HAPPINESS? I miss her dearly. Nowadays, women go to work and send their kids to STRANGERS at daycare. NOT GOOD 🙁
Your husband is one blessed man. My wife of 45 years that I just lost to cancer had your same values. God bless you for posting these videos. Young ladies today need to see them.
Yes girl Yes!!!! Us traditional women are extremely rare and I agree with each tip!!! I’m in my 40’s and have been sharing your tips for the last 20yrs. Please keep sharing!
Hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys? Did you wait until marriage?
This women is a literal dream come true!! Now I need to put in the work, so I can be worthy of women like this ✊🏽
You realize women act traditional to manipulate men, no woman actually wants this. I am 16 and I lie all the time about going to church and wanting to be a trad wife, because it’s funny how dumb men are. They believe anything a pretty girl says.
For real! This type of woman automatically makes you want to be an even better man!
She's a dream come true. I envy her husband, and I hope he truly loves and appreciates everything she does for him and the children.
Mr Williams, be loyal to her. Don't you dare break her ❤. Be the best husband and father that you can possibly be. She doesn't deserve less than the best version of you.
As I always say, I would die for a woman like her.
A traditional wife needs a traditional husband. A traditional family needs two good parents.
We need more women like you in society
When lots of them existed they were beaten and cheated.
@@stefanisilva2493 Haha, SILLY! That's still happening today! Abuse doesn't stop on only ONE generation!
Facts
@@stefanisilva2493 exactly. Even till this day, high value trad. women are still being used, abused, and/or cheated on. Majority of men in the usa no longer believe in a faithful long term monogamous relationship. They’re opportunists that’ll fvck just about any & every 304 tramp easily if tempted behind their loyal woman’s back. Wonder why being loyal is too much to ask from majority of American men these days…
But takes a Gentlemen to grow as a person to be grown to understand a women and respect her.
I agree. Nothing wrong with being a traditional wife. As long as it creates happy families I’m all for it.
You seriously need to upload more content to CZcams. This stuff is liquid gold.
Mom of 6 and married. You are so inspiring. ❤❤❤
Hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys?
@@SoRight8 From a guys perspective, I would ask the same advice from you. I assume a lot of people just spend time indoors now, so where would you suggest meeting traditional women? (UK here)
@@kane3215 over the years I went to church for the longest time (mostly women and married couples there) and also tried to date online off and on. Most of the guys were married though or were not serious about an LTR.
Went to school and worked a corporate job. Mostly women at work however. Met one guy in college, but he later ran off with a younger girl (he also went woke...decided he was "polyamorous"). The one guy I dated at work turned out to be an alcoholic...so I had to end that relatiinship.
Most of my friends were already married. Hated the club scene, so never went out much. Spent a lot of time at coffee shops though. I would also say community based activities could be promising.
Highschool had a lot of good guys, but I for some reason thought there would be more options after that. If I could do it differently, with the brain I have now, I would have dated more then.
So best advice is to get out more and not stay at home. Since you're a guy, don't be afraid to date younger or same age or even a little older to find a girl with the right values. Expand your friend circle (don't be shy) as they are the best avenue for dates too.
Best advice? Never listen to friends or family when they say it will eventually come....often it never does. It would be better to pursue dating/courtship aggressively, as if you only had a year left to do it. Don't wait around on anyone.
Hope that helps.
@@SoRight8 Wow thanks for taking the time to write all that!
I was the same in high school too, some girls were interested in me, but I couldn't see myself with them long term so I decided not to get with them, but I wasn't smart enough at the time to try pursue the girls who would've been great in the future, and now I'm 21 with no relationship experience at all.
I also don't enjoy clubs, but I do go out and drink with friends, mostly only see guys where we go though.
Book/coffee shops could be an interesting idea, I just don't know how people will react to someone coming up to them. Personally I'd be happy with it, but I'm not every person.
Online dating is something I was hoping I wouldn't have to try, but I suppose it could be worth giving a go, as long as I set my values correctly and go after women who think the same as I do. I think I'm fairly good looking and in shape, but since guys:girls is so high, I'd be worried I'd only get swiped past if they saw I was 5'8, thinking there's way better looking folk out there.
Thanks again though! I hope everything works out for you. 🤗
@@SoRight8 The gym is another place I'm quite apprehensive about speaking to girls. Funnily enough today, a girl was looking at me and worked near me for quite a while, but that's one place I'm quite cautious in case they weren't actually trying to signal anything to me, and she thinks I'm just a bit creepy...
You are a sweetheart who is truly radiating in her divine feminine essence! Such a positive influence to others.
I've been saving myself for marriage, and had to experience the whole "fast-paced-city-work cycle" for years until finally admitting to myself that being a tradwife (and mother who will homeschool) while living out in the countryside is truly what my heart desires. I used to be friends with women who had a very negative, depressed, anxious and promiscuous mindset - releasing those people from my life has been a blessing.
Now, I cherish the women in my life who carry more traditional values and positive/healthy mindset, as I have realized how valuable my own energy is. I also no longer feel shame for wanting to submit to my future husband, or for desiring a monogamous commitment.
It's been refreshing to find your content, thank you for sharing! ✨🌻
Are you spiritually inclined? What is your ultimate goal for this life?
I’m a stay at home mom and I do all the things, while my husband works. I love my life. Serving my home is a blessing and I’m thankful.
I need to work harder, like you do! You’re awesome. 🙌🏅
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Hi, can you give dating advice? A lot of the guys out there are PUA and don't want marriage/fatherhood. They are expecting to get laid by date three and dump trad girls when we don't put out. Where do you find moral and authentically trad guys?
Church has been sparse.
Wonderful! I especially love the emphasis on maintaining oneself because if you can't care for yourself how can you expect to care for others
I also loved that she mentioned having a hobby most young people today spend any free time they have on their phone
In my spare time I love sewing, crocheting, and gaming!
my wife just recently started crocheting 😁
I am about to marry my italian fiance, who is very traditional. I grew up very independent and have a lot of trauma with trusting the man that was suppose to take care of the family from my first marriage. However, I am noticing myself wanting to take on more of that traditional role with my fiance. We are both in our mid 30's trying for a family, both in the military. Every day, this feeling overcomes me. I know he will do what he can to provide for us. I am working every day to strengthen that trust. Thank you for your videos and inspiration.
I love your videos 😁 I’ve often felt like feminism manipulates women into believing that the only way she is going to be happy is to pursue a life or career that is traditionally male dominated. I know that I got a lot of distain for the years that I stayed home or the number of kids that I have. I wish you would do a video about why you wanted this kind of life.
That's sad that you got this disdain when it's beautiful that you have so many kids.
I was raised to be a worker and to suppress my femininity. To seek validation and worth through a job. Not taught any caretaking. Working in tech to try to support myself. It was so empty. I became incredibly ill and had to give up career, apartment to live and depend on my elderly parents. Now I’m 35 and have no idea what to do except try to be patient and keep improving myself and try to trust it will come. Some days it feels very hard to value myself. My family resents me for being dependent on them and taking their money while I’m ill. I went into debt to try to last as long as I could before costing them more. My father screamed at me and said I’m not doing enough. He hovers over me insulting me and looking for any mistake. My mom was the breadwinner and my family tells me I’ll never be suitable for children since I was ill. It’s heartbreaking at times but I hope to never give up, to get out and have my own family one day despite my family influence and lack of upbringing.
I see my nieces every day nearly but they are largely gate kept by their parents unless no one else is around. I helped take care of my family during lockdown and cooked for 7 but after awhile my mom wanted that role (out of jealousy) and pushed me out. I get zero recognition for any effort or caretaking role and my family will eat together regularly without me, especially to honor my parents as caretakers for my nieces. Sometimes while I was bedridden hungry and alone they would all just disappear together to go out to eat as if I didn’t exist at all.
I know it’s probably for the best I stay away from from their behavior but it’s very lonely and hard. I try to just take the times when they do remember me and are more kind and stay away when otherwise. I decided to re-parent myself and learn to be caretaker as much as I can for past 6 years, but I still feel like 4/10 often and afraid to find loving husband with traditional roles but I try anyway and to be patient always.❤
Im sure there is a difference between career and job.
Feminism is often very misunderstood. Most women are not extremists, they are standing up for themselves to be treated equally. This is taken out of context so often. Wages are still lower for women then they are for men, and this isn't right, as long as it's equal work. Sexism, racism, and classicism are all inequitable. This is not what the United States was created for, or why our ancestors left oppressive England.
how many kids do u have
Beautiful advice! Finding a loving and Godly man that you can love and raise a family with was something I prayed for. Finding beauty in simple things and living a simple life is rare in this world. I hope everyone has a great day!!
Me too, but never found it. 😢
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You must be a Boomer , c'mon keep up Pop's
Another good tip is to keep your relationship confidential from outsiders.
Marrying the right man, yes yes yes! I think it starts there. Choose a good man with the same values as yours. I'm so blessed to have married the right one.
my mom is the primary breadwinner, and both my parents cook and clean. although not "traditional," my family is very happy. so it just comes down to doing what fulfills you the most, but at the end of the day neither is inherently better than the other. you seem very happy so congratulations. however your future children choose to live I hope you show them support 💗
This comment section must be the exact opposite of TikTok's and I love it.
Young lady may God bless you and your family.
It’s soooooo refreshing to see a woman who embraces a traditional role lifestyle with grace and joy. Soo inspiring. I have never been married, but my dream has always been to be a homemaker, marry a man after Gods heart and love him well and raise children in the wisdom of the LORD! Cooking and cleaning and beautifying the home and building a life with someone and being the one to teach and train and raise my own children is my dream. The fact that someone is unabashed to stand up for the old ways and traditions is beyond encouraging! I’ve been criticized for not wanting more for myself, like a career, or to be an independent woman with my own money and my own house and my own life. But none of that has ever brought a sense of accomplishment or satisfaction. The trad wife is what I know was places in my heart by my creator. Gods richest blessing to you and your household. I pray I find this one day too!
Why on earth is this in my recommended - I’m a married man with an awesome wife who is my PARTNER. She cooks delicious dinners, it’s the least I can do to help with the dishes afterwards. She went through childbirth, it’s the least I can do to change some dirty diapers. If this truly makes you happy go for it, but I can’t help thinking that this kind of power imbalance just isn’t a good thing.
Be at home when your kids come home from school. Maybe they had a rough day, and need to UNPACK those emotions with a loving parent...not a daycare provider who has 30 kids to tend to. Feed your family healthy meals you have made, not fast-food every night. Take car of the house so it can become a loving home. These are tips to a successful family life!
I am a girl who is very oriented on becoming financially independent. I clicked on this video with judgemental prejudice but I actually learned some insighful information, thank you ❤
I support this. My wife is a woman that has these principles. She works so not completely a trad wife but we are getting close to her being home full time and she loves it
Awesome content! We’re hitting our 30 year anniversary, and we started out with the opposite of these values. It’s only by God’s grace that we had shifts that have kept us together all these years. Good for you being bold and spreading this message!
I love your videos so much! Your values are so appreciated ❤️ and your mention of marrying the right man was perfect - I've seen a few ppl argue the lifestyle simply because of the fact you could become stuck in an abusive relationship. So very glad you addressed that, simple and realistic answer!
Keep making videos girl! I for one watch for new ones daily!
That's a realistic fear to have, though. Abuse does happen, unfortunately.
@@macxavier168 Yes, in the states it's 1 out of 4 relationships. This statistic is actually higher in countries that have a macho culture, sadly.
You are so inspiring! I love how even in the way you speak there’s a gentle calm that I’m sure your husband looks forward to coming home to. I finally realized my dream of being a stay at home mother and homemaker and I feel like I need to level way up. Keep up the good work 💗
This is how God intended it to be. I truly hope the good Lord blesses you both. Marriage is a partnership. No one is either above or below, in front of or behind the other. You walk side by side. Each filling out a role that the other cannot. Truly a masterpiece.
God doesn't exist. God wants what sexist men want.
Not everyone is religous but some are but people still live one with out it still submit to each other in partnership whatever work.s
This woman is a golden unicorn. A unicorn in and of itself is indeed a rare find, but a GOLDEN UNICORN…… Lawd have mercy!!!
I'm so proud of my traditional husband. he makes it easy to serve him and his children. (Patchwork). He is a modern man with traditional values. he wants family- live and a wife at home, who's always ready to make coffee for him and drink together and have a chat....
back to the roots❤🤗
God love that!
Thank You Estee, this is brilliant ✅ Our daughter wants to become a traditional wife so this is fantastic, once again, Thank You for this content
10/10. This video is pure gold in these corrupted times we're living in...
Every generation calls themselves corrupted this generation is no different than the previous one.
If only more women were like this...
There may not be many, but we certainly are like this. Don’t giving up searching for your dream wife. ❤
God bless you on your journey to finding a loving, kind, and beautiful wife and marriage. 🥰
Call your mom to clean your house
If only more men were like her husband! What a good man!
Can't be a trad wife without a trad husband. Props to both of them, but our society need to hold men accountable to step up and make this possible.
I’m supporting this channel because A. It’s okay to want a traditional lifestyle and because
B. I do everything opposite of woke.
#1 Marry someone who can afford the housewife lifestyle 😂
Part 2, please. Also: “How to find a woman who wants to become a traditional wife.”
Go up and talk to her. Trad wives don't pursue guys, usually. Trad girls look for courage and leadership.
I got this: If you want a traditional wife 1. Seek out cultures/communities who are natural caretakers. 2. Go to events that natural caretakers like to go to like charity events and other sorts of volunteer events that you are interested in. 3. Take a cooking class (you will be a center of attention). 4. Oh, and for sure a baking class! AVOID bars/clubs, avoid music festivals and concerts unless it is a classical concert. That is just from off the top of my head. Go forth! :D
I’ve said it before, her husband hit the freaking jackpot.
She is such a breath of fresh air. Positive and supportive. She makes me happy.
Thank you for posting videos like this. In a world where gender roles are so mixed up, it's so refreshing to see someone being a role model for how women should be
Keep up the good work/counterculture. Time to bring traditional family values back.
Having this attitude in a wife really makes a husband man up, working, providing and doing the right things for his family.
It’s a team and you’ve got each other’s back.
Best wishes to both of you.
I love this. I work and provide for my GF. She's a bit older then me but she is in charge of the house. It's nice and simple and it works for us. IDK why it's not more popular. Very happy about it.
Better put a ring on her finger quickly...or she'll think you don't really love her and her heart will break.
Im dying of laughter thinking of how Feminazis are freaking out right now.
Thank you for making these videos! It is wonderful to have someone show what we traditional wives do and should be doing! I applaud you for putting yourself out there by making video to promote this! Loved all the points you touched on! Keep it up sister!
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Well done on putting out a beautiful and virtuous standard of womanhood into the world, I applaud your efforts 🎉 Many young women and little girls will learn soo much! God bless you and your husband ❤
I love this advice!! I need to learn the hosting aspect, I wasn’t exposed to or taught that growing up, so that’s one area I’m lacking in…
The only question I have is where do you find your beautiful dresses?? I love them so much
This is so neat! I’m so happy you’re doing what you’re doing! I’ve been a “traditional house wife” for 15 years now and have loved every moment of it! Yes I have dealt with peer pressure, we struggled financially a bit. Have five kiddos on one income isn’t easy. But it’s been sooo worth it! Keep sharing what you do, this is something that needs to brought back for sure! Blessings on your journey!
Honestly the money you save on childcare is worth you staying home. Both my parents worked and my mom said her paycheck basically went to paying a babysitter
I’d love to have a woman like her. Truly amazing in every way. You won’t find a traditional woman like her so easily nowadays. Stay hopeful and keep searching fellas.
Agreed. And to the critics, no, earning supplemental income doesn't keep someone from being a tradwife so long as she's taking care of the home as her top priority.
One more thing: I don't know for sure, but I think you might have a good, built-in audience on CZcams. A lot of us don't use TikTok or whatever, but watch YT all the time. I, personally, would love to see more videos from you on YT!
Great advice, especially on the subject of dating and finding the right man. Amen! Xx
What a blessing and refreshing.
I watch bewitched and Jeanie series, they are model for traditional wife akd so as you.
Thank you Estee
May you have strength to ensure the hate that is going to come your way. Nothing makes unhappy people madder than seeing someone happy doing something they secretly wish they could do.
Step one, don’t ruin your ability to pair bond by being a garden tool. Step two, value the family above yourself. Step three, be your man’s #1 Fan and bring him peace. Step four, be grateful and reciprocate within your role. Step five, understand the meaning of the word “Commitment”.
Five simple steps to being a traditional wife.
If you pay close attention you can hear an ugly feminist get trigger with every tip.
You look like a Hollywood glam star from the 60s. Marilyn Monroe type vibes. You look incredible.
Glad to see there are still women like you around. Gives me hope for modern society.
All I can say is congrats. You have found your niche and you created your brand well. You are smart and you know what you are doing. I hope that it will turn out into a lucrative business. Good luck to you and your husband. Love your make up
Simple yet perfect
You are the Rosetta Stone to a lost understanding in society today. Good for you. 👍🏼
She's just amazing who understands the primary responsibility of a woman. Ofc a woman can be career oriented but some women thinking that it's slavery is so sad.
Love it girl! Excellent advice coming from such a young person.
I’m about to get married to the love of my life and I can’t wait to become a housewife and take care of him and our future family
All that sounds great but its missing one key component that is probably the most important part; communication and respect. What I mean by communication is talking to one another and more importantly listen to one another.
You can be traditional all day long but wont matter if you dont have good communication skills and respect with one another.
Being a traditional wife is not the only way couples can have a successful marriage.
I love serving my husband and children! Being a traditional wife is the best decision our family has made.