Cultural shock & Living in Hungary (Debrecen) as a black woman
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- čas přidán 30. 10. 2022
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Just love your videos after discovering your channel today, excellent thanks. Greetings from James J Walsh now in Budapest
I live very close to Debrecen, I live in a smaller town and I'm so glad that someone moved to Debrecen and not Budapest because I always see foreign people moving to Hungary but it's always Budapest. I think Debrecen was a good choice, because it's not too small but not too big either, and there's not as much traffic as for example in Budapest. Anyway I hope you'll enjoy life here, wishing the best of experiences to you!
How about pècs? How is the place?
@@annettemaina I love Pécs, I was there this summer for a week 10/10 place fr
@@doraszepesi1610can you pls recommend websites I can get apartments in debrecen 🥰❤️
Welcome to Hungary, I hope you'll enjoy your stay here and will be happy :) Making friends with Hungarians takes some effort: Hungarians tend to have a protective shell that takes some time to crack open, but once you did, you have a friend for life.
Budapest is kind of tense and jittery in my opinion, people are more kind and relaxed at the countryside. Big chunk of the sporiadic racism that you might experience is actually only the locals' "culture shock" and curiosity, as you might have noticed, meeting black people is not so usual here, especially not in the countryside - please give them a second chance :)
And do not leave Hungary without visiting the beaches of Balaton in the summer, that'd be blasphemy :) I recommend the north shores, in and around Tihany.
😭😭😭thank you!! you are so nice!!! Will keep trying! Yes I can’t wait for summer I need to go to Balaton 💃
@@debraidehen With your kind attitude you have, I don't think it'll be too diificult to get friends :) The nice one is actually you :) (pro tip: learn Hungarian words, we LOVE that. A lot)
Debra should be on TV. Great natural presenter. Informative and entertaining
great experience, you are top! Awesome movement is art nouveau. Budapest and Szeged are amazing. Looking forward to visiting it again
Really enjoyed your video ❤😘
thank you b!
Nice! Enjoy lol I miss it there so much
Thank you 💃🏽
we can have rain on one side of the house and sun on the other, even hail one side and bright sun the other, it's a very small house, this is wales uk lol
😂😂😂
Hey nice video , how is it working in Hungary with the language barrier and also could you post more vlogs like going shopping etc
I will do that!!! Well the language barrier is not that serious where I work
we should be friends. I moved in recently. You are right budapest is fast paced. Housing is a tussle in pest center I may checkout debrecen but I could reach out
Can I get your WhatsApp number please
@debraidehen
Nice video , I'm looking forward to relocating to Debrecen by July. Please do you know how I can find apartment in Debrecen . It will be lovely and much appreciated if you can walk me through it .
Thanks
Hi hi you would need to check Facebook that would be the best place, rentahome and student rent apartments group send me a message on ig and could send you some links
@@debraidehen
Thanks so much. I'm not on ig are you on LinkedIn?
If yes I could send you a message there
Thanks 😊
@@debraidehen I sent you connection request on Linkedin , please do accept so we can chat more there. I would appreciate your help 🙏
Thanks for the video. Bt u are so beautiful, wow! 😍
Wow thank you!
Hello
It's seems u really don't like travelling since you are in a schegen zone I feel u should visit more of other EU countries we would like to see u on a tour vlog 😉 😍
Keep it up dear 💪
I need tooooo
U welcome sister!
You sound Caribbean, love your accent. I spent a lot of time in the Caribbean. You should do asmr. U have the voice for it.
Omg thank you just seeing this! Will do more in the future thank you 😊
Carribean accent? 😅😅😅 omg
@@ovie10i don't agree either, it's definitely Nigerian 🤣👍
@@Ferruccio001u can understand her, so def not Jamaican :). And yes she sound like Pako(a nigerian celeb in Hungary)
Thumbs up
Nice content
Thank you!
Are you still in hungary?
Hey there
I'm Roland
I'm from Debrecen but i live in the UK (. London ) 20 years now. I'm going home every year. Want to hang out...maybe drink or eat something this year ??
Let me know.
Cheers 👍🙏
What a lame pick up line lol… come on
@@shiraz9986 Are you a Magyar living in Magyarorszag?
@@shiraz9986 i guess it was not a pick up line, just an invitation for a drink..
Hi. Would like to ask some private questions from you, pls how can we Dm?
I am on facebook!
You are from Nigeria??? Woooooow
Your video arrived on my time line and I enjoyed it, I love your eyes You're an attractive woman ..you're natural with no wig or big eyelashes, good for you....
Awww thank you so much!
@@debraidehen you're welcome....
Typical racism is still racism :(
Can I convert a visit visa to study visa in Hungary?
It might be possible but I do not know the process
That's a quick response. Thank you.
Hungarian is probably the hardest European language to learn. They were isolated for long periods in history.
I don't think it's hard b/c Hungary was isolated which by the way was "only" 40 years of communism/iron curtain, but because the whole concept of the language is different from European languages. Vowel harmonisation is probably the most difficult and different feature of the language that even natives get wrong every now and then.
One aspect of isolation, you might refer to, is the country's being landlocked. This didn't let the country being exposed to far away cultures, no colonies (Hungary itself was a colony of Austria), so the population was rather homogeneous and some people are still inconvenient about obvious and especially visually stunning differences.
Please what’s your IG? I want to ask you some questions
The link is in my bio ☺️
@@debraidehen thank you
@@debraidehen honestly I can’t find it
@@michaelebhohimen8330 instagram.com/deborah_idehen/?hl=en
@@debraidehen I sent you msg
You are very beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
Great video. I'd like to meet with you. Is it possible?
Do people speak English there??
😂 yes of course!
Depends on. In big cities and in touristy regions it's more common. But in other parts of Hungary it's less likely (and even in those less likely places it's mostly the younger generations who maybe but just maybe will know some english).
I say this as a Hungarian.
You combine a lot of things and don't follow any thread. Improvising is nice, but what do you want to say? Would it be a mood-photo? Well, you have to understand and know the Hungarian language, and then also the essence of Christian European culture, and not to hunt for appearances. Good luck and perseverance.
Hi. I am indian and i am black ! I lived in komarom Hungary. In here some people treat me like an alien. Sometimes few peoples are shouting me i don't know why?
Same. I am also Indian. I live in Szeged. God they are so racist. I am literally traumatized. I got harassed 3 times a week.
@@swagata414 I met a 37 year old woman from India and learned from her that people in India are racists. They consider people of lighter skin better than darker. Her 10 year old daughter had dark skin and was very beautiful, yet was unhappy because of the colour of her skin. Many women in India bleach their faces to become of a lighter skin tone. Shocking! And you expected that in Hungary people would be better. Stupid people are everywhere...
Más országokban mi is idegennek számítunk. Velünk sem mindenki kedves.
A történelem során sokan el akartak pusztítani minket, talán ezért vagyunk ilyenek.
Semmi bajom a külföldiekkel, ha szeretik Magyarországot és a magyar nyelvet.
@@swagata414 Propaganda by government party incites citizens against immigrants often, that's the result.
Oh guys! So sorry to hear that you've had so many bad experiences! Not all Hungarians are like that but I guess it's not always easy to find nice people. I'm sure it's not easy but don't let these get to you! :((
oh, you are living in hungary for 8 years now? what do you think about Romania?
szia
Only for a year 😂😂😂 romania are nice as well 😂
Hay dear sweet baby ❤how are you ❤you are very beautiful and nice ❤❤❤❤❤
Elnézést,hogy bele okoskodok de miért olyan fontos kiemelni a színt? Mi magyarok nem nácik vagyunk, hanem rasszisták. De ha megtanulod.hogy csak két rasszt ismerünk el másképp fogsz látni minket. A két rassz pedig a jó ember,meg a rossz ember. Ennyi. Nekünk teljesen mindegy,hogy piros-e a bőröd vagy kék,vagy zöld. A jó ember az jó ember.De ugyan ez igaz a rossz emberre is. Teljesen mindegy milyen színű,a rossz ember az rossz ember. De persze kivétel van bőven.Viszont ha elkerülöd a liberálnácikat az lényegesen lecsökkenti az atrocitás kehetőségét. Meg aztán mondj egy országot ahol nincs idióta. Örülök,hogy itt vagy,csak légy türelmes és jó ember.A Magyarok szeretni fognak.Én már szeretlek egy kicsit.
nem olyan jó a magyar nyelvem, de örülök, hogy még egy jó magyart látok a kommentjeim között❤️❤️❤️ Köszönöm a kedves szavaidat! Örülök, hogy itt élek, Magyarországon nagyon kedvesek az emberek ❤️
@@debraidehen Már sokkal jobban szeretlek !! Én is örülök,hogy itt vagy,csak el ne menj!! Hidd el a Magyarok jó emberek. Csak történelmi okokból bizalmatlanok vagyunk. Légy nagyon boldog és tanuld meg (csak az számít aki szeret).
Teljesen igazad szerintem
I google translated your comment: "Excuse me for being clever, but why is it so important to highlight the color? We Hungarians are not Na*is, but racists. But if you learn that we recognize only two races, you will see us differently. The two races are good people and bad people. That's it. It doesn't matter to us whether your skin is red, blue or green. A good person is a good person. But the same is true for a bad person as well. It doesn't matter what color it is, a bad person is a bad person. But, of course, there are plenty of exceptions. However, if you avoid the liberal Na*is, it significantly reduces the possibility of atrocity. Then tell me a country where there are no idiots. I'm glad you're here, just be patient and a good person. The Hungarians will love you. I already love you a little." Is your leader a liberal Na*i?
Well, let's not forget that in most cases what some people might label as "racism" are actually just that most Hungarians not really like foreigners in general. And i mean "not really like foreigners" as even if you live your whole life-time here in Hungary you will be still considered to be an outsider by most/majority of the locals.