‘I Don’t Ask Myself Why You’re In This Situation; I Ask Myself Why Not,’ Dr. Phil Tells Guest

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  • čas přidán 8. 01. 2020
  • A woman says she is “obsessed” with taking 100K steps a day and has planned her entire life around accomplishing that goal. Dr. Phil reviews events from her past and explains how he believes they may be affecting her behavior.
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  • @Momofukudoodoowindu
    @Momofukudoodoowindu Před 4 lety +1293

    "My father didnt believe me."
    I feel fury. Fury in my bones.

    • @courtesy3993
      @courtesy3993 Před 4 lety +27

      your name and your pfp, amazing.
      sorry its off topic but

    • @Alliespacely
      @Alliespacely Před 4 lety +26

      pessimistic college student
      my heart hurts for her

    • @riceracm
      @riceracm Před 4 lety +13

      pessimistic college student I’m sorry if that also happened to you. On a lighter note, I second what macveel veelmac said....

  • @chloehuggs4017
    @chloehuggs4017 Před 4 lety +769

    Can Dr Phil do one of those puzzle things to figure out why my life is a mess too please, thanks.

  • @elizabethcrossley6853
    @elizabethcrossley6853 Před 4 lety +755

    Self awareness is a huge life lesson... once you figure out where your issues come from and what has affected you and changed you.. then you'll start to recover

    • @sarahleroy465
      @sarahleroy465 Před 4 lety +22

      When you want to recover, then you will recover.

    • @SHx589
      @SHx589 Před 4 lety +7

      Sarah Leroy that’s a large part of it, at least.

    • @AisforApple1346
      @AisforApple1346 Před 4 lety +5

      100% it’s kind of like a peek into your life from a 3rd party. Once you figure it out and where it stems from, you start to understand and recover

    • @yourworstnightmare6003
      @yourworstnightmare6003 Před 4 lety +3

      If you want to.

    • @missluciddreams3472
      @missluciddreams3472 Před 4 lety +2

      I agree...u can't begin the healing process until u can look at yourself and admit there is a problem and u need help ❤

  • @emilyhadden8558
    @emilyhadden8558 Před 4 lety +417

    What breaks my heart is knowing a person who experience sexual abuse at a young age, is more likely become victim to it again. The fact her parents did not help her, put less believes her, made her psychological and mental state 20x worse

  • @wap9137
    @wap9137 Před 4 lety +508

    We are so lucky this man has chosen the life path he has. Have to admire his abilities and sincerity.

  • @desdes5622
    @desdes5622 Před 4 lety +297

    It must have been such a relief to this woman to be told that her response is reasonable. She didn't fail--she responded in a way that makes sense considering her circumstances. And now she can, with the right help, rise above.

  • @saysHotdogs
    @saysHotdogs Před 4 lety +94

    People don’t understand that once the sexual abuse starts, it’s like a snowball effect. You’re more likely to be raped multiple times, abused multiple times. People start to think you’re making it up for attention but that’s not the case. That’s why many of us stay silent.

  • @belle3336
    @belle3336 Před 4 lety +557

    Dr Phil *”uploads for the third time today”*
    Me : *sigh* *”ditches my movie AGAINNNNN’”*

    • @20somethingsworld97
      @20somethingsworld97 Před 4 lety +4

      Gamer Girl haha I left “the circle “ from Netflix for this

    • @20somethingsworld97
      @20somethingsworld97 Před 4 lety +2

      Gamer Girl and that’s saying a lot

    • @mo-pb5ek
      @mo-pb5ek Před 4 lety +6

      Gamer Girl i left safias wedding video for this, and then i went straight back after lmao

    • @20somethingsworld97
      @20somethingsworld97 Před 4 lety

      memo ikr, couldn’t do this video LMAO

    • @belle3336
      @belle3336 Před 4 lety

      20somethingsWorld I was listening to songs then *BOOM* new video

  • @linaforsth7483
    @linaforsth7483 Před 4 lety +79

    Shes so beautiful wth, hope she gets better❤

  • @EMBEEAY
    @EMBEEAY Před 4 lety +111

    Her face at 0:46 says it all when he shows her what he did- someone actually cares

  • @jessmarie525
    @jessmarie525 Před 4 lety +40

    As a child of a women whose had a lot of sexual trauma at a young age it makes a lot of sense. It stunts their reasoning and their self esteem greatly

  • @kimmurrell7971
    @kimmurrell7971 Před 4 lety +190

    Empaths goes through so much.

    • @mellowmorningsasmr3770
      @mellowmorningsasmr3770 Před 4 lety +6

      Kim Murrell tell me about it ugh 😩

    • @alicecheshire4806
      @alicecheshire4806 Před 4 lety +3

      Isabella It hurts

    • @mellowmorningsasmr3770
      @mellowmorningsasmr3770 Před 4 lety +13

      Alice Cheshire it really does!
      I can never feel my own emotions because I’m too busy feeling everyone else’s on top of mine,
      And I’m so overwhelmed with emotions all the time whether it’s mine, someone else’s or both

    • @alicecheshire4806
      @alicecheshire4806 Před 4 lety +9

      Isabella I always get headaches and you can’t ever really enjoy yourself at a party! They’re just so many energies and so many emotions that it’s dizzying! It just plain sucks!

  • @jevasamy
    @jevasamy Před 4 lety +76

    Dr . Phil advise is great

  • @rawr333r
    @rawr333r Před 4 lety +106

    Been through the same situations as her and react to life the same way. I wish he also gave advice in this video on how to deal with it instead of just explaining it

  • @user-tm7ew5ik2i
    @user-tm7ew5ik2i Před 4 lety +64

    I needed to hear the word you spoke in this video. I really needed to hear this dr phill . Word no one in a small town will tell you . No one to help with ptsd truly love that you are here to teach me the this I could not get in a small town in Canada

    • @Simon-oy7kf
      @Simon-oy7kf Před 4 lety +1

      Your English doesn't suggest you're from Canada

    • @babicereja
      @babicereja Před 4 lety +5

      I live in Brazil and I cried when he explained all that to her. Sometimes I wonder why people goes to his show and expose their private lifes and today I understood. He is the best in the business. I can relate to everything he said and I needed that so much

    • @turtlechow18
      @turtlechow18 Před 4 lety +22

      @@Simon-oy7kf you can live in Canada and english not be your first language XD surprises me how little some people understand the world

  • @maoluvr13
    @maoluvr13 Před 4 lety +16

    This is super sad, but I’m glad Dr. Phil can help her get to the route of things.

  • @rbergs7193
    @rbergs7193 Před 4 lety +10

    Dr. Phil is such a great person, he embodies his worldly family, he really does treat everyone like his brother or sister, exactly why God created us, as His human family. This is what happens to someone when they have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, as Dr. Phil does. Intelligence and respect for others. Forget religion. But don't forget who your Father is. ♥️

  • @myleneh1916
    @myleneh1916 Před 4 lety +43

    Some of his shows really hit home with me. 💔 gotta love the Doc x❤🌹🇦🇺

    • @pamelalansbury94
      @pamelalansbury94 Před 4 lety +1

      Mylene Hobman he’s not a doctor

    • @myleneh1916
      @myleneh1916 Před 4 lety +6

      @@pamelalansbury94 he can't use the letters without the credentials. You know anyone that gets a Doctorate can use Dr? That's what he has....

  • @sevan4059
    @sevan4059 Před 4 lety +18

    Makes sense. I hope shes finds out how to self therapy in a healthy way..

  • @Scorch1028
    @Scorch1028 Před 4 lety +18

    This condition sucks. This woman has no time for anything else in her life.

  • @teri9636
    @teri9636 Před 4 lety +16

    I love you Dr Phil! I remember the day Oprah brought you on her show. You have guided me ever since with your books, program and now podcasts. Thank you! I could be HER sitting there!!!

  • @Howard007
    @Howard007 Před 4 lety +6

    Dr Phil you help people so much thank you.. also your hand writing is awesome actually

  • @melaniel.7946
    @melaniel.7946 Před 4 lety +58

    I just cant stop looking at her... She is SO GORGEOUS. 😘😘

    • @mscarolynnigro
      @mscarolynnigro Před 4 lety +3

      Really?

    • @Coko1999
      @Coko1999 Před 4 lety +6

      Carolyn Nigro she is gorgeous. Sorry about it? Lmao

    • @SpeedDemon-vm2lp
      @SpeedDemon-vm2lp Před 4 lety +11

      She is beautiful. Beautiful skin and hair, I think she's a lot stronger than what she thinks.

    • @nickyhoward
      @nickyhoward Před 4 lety +11

      She is gorgeous, I really hope she's able to see that people do care for her

    • @SpeedDemon-vm2lp
      @SpeedDemon-vm2lp Před 4 lety +6

      @@nickyhoward I hope so too. A lot of people who go through trauma don't see themselves as beautiful.

  • @jamescastillo6921
    @jamescastillo6921 Před 4 lety +35

    I love Dr.Phil some content is serious and some of it is serious so it give me a fair view of what I like.

    • @nikitee7876
      @nikitee7876 Před 4 lety +16

      Yeah... Totally.. some is normal and the other part is normal. Got ya

    • @AshDub86
      @AshDub86 Před 4 lety +2

      @@nikitee7876 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ChillinLikeBobDyllan
      @ChillinLikeBobDyllan Před 4 lety +6

      Keep practicing English. You'll get there, bro.

    • @idontlikeyou7084
      @idontlikeyou7084 Před 4 lety +5

      Niki Tee yeah and some stuff I understand and some stuff I understand

  • @katieb2215
    @katieb2215 Před 4 lety +7

    Dr phil is amazing

  • @lovenlaugh6325
    @lovenlaugh6325 Před 4 lety +4

    I can relate to this so much! Things are much better now on the outside but on the inside I'm not so sure! It would truly be a blessing if I got help from Dr. Phil! Me and my family!

    • @nikitee7876
      @nikitee7876 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm not sure he will reply but I definitely recommend you see your doctor and get referred to a psychiatrist.. best thing I ever did.

  • @MissMaddieHere
    @MissMaddieHere Před 4 lety +17

    she looks like elsa :0 💓

  • @berenicemartinez9238
    @berenicemartinez9238 Před 4 lety +10

    Damn I get it and it’s validation

  • @EnderoftheEnd
    @EnderoftheEnd Před 4 lety +16

    "I've been doing this a long time" -Dr. Phil

  • @madilynnjay5215
    @madilynnjay5215 Před 4 lety

    Love this🙏🏽❤️

  • @oliviagarey9485
    @oliviagarey9485 Před 4 lety +25

    Somebody tell her that she can get paid to walk

  • @xeonprofessional
    @xeonprofessional Před 4 lety +8

    awesome hair

  • @tatefarley226
    @tatefarley226 Před 4 lety +5

    Love dr Phil

  • @ilovetumblr99
    @ilovetumblr99 Před 4 lety +7

    what channel is doctor phil on? can you watch it on an app?

  • @eebrebz6627
    @eebrebz6627 Před 4 lety +3

    I love ur vids Dr phil

  • @cindyloohoo6857
    @cindyloohoo6857 Před 4 lety +10

    Does anyone know where the recording of this entire show is? TY!

  • @Kymluv1212
    @Kymluv1212 Před 4 lety +10

    OCD ?

  • @missluciddreams3472
    @missluciddreams3472 Před 4 lety +5

    I wish Dr Phil could help me understand y I act the way I do...☹

  • @sophiaespinoza9377
    @sophiaespinoza9377 Před 4 lety +6

    Doctor phill is the white version of La doctors polo for the Spanish Latina people out here 🇲🇽😂✌🏻

  • @20somethingsworld97
    @20somethingsworld97 Před 4 lety +3

    Dr phill I have the story of a life time here

    • @hugovai89
      @hugovai89 Před 4 lety +4

      It's gonna stay here I guess... You idiot think he's gonna see this and call you 😂

    • @ChillinLikeBobDyllan
      @ChillinLikeBobDyllan Před 4 lety +3

      I have a better story

  • @jaleppi6390
    @jaleppi6390 Před 4 lety +5

    Can I get a Dr line please?

    • @nikitee7876
      @nikitee7876 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm not sure he will reply but I definitely recommend you see your doctor and get referred to a psychiatrist.. best thing I ever did.

    • @falidisu2139
      @falidisu2139 Před 4 lety

      Niki Tee are you a psychiatrist 🤷‍♀️

    • @courtesy3993
      @courtesy3993 Před 4 lety

      @@falidisu2139 Lol she just recommended going to one.

  • @jenniferberryhill6347
    @jenniferberryhill6347 Před 4 lety +1

    Can anyone not get past his bizarre house? I get he has to be normal for his job, so it makes sense... but that house.... I love it though.

    • @pamelalansbury94
      @pamelalansbury94 Před 4 lety

      Jennifer Berryhill if you’re talking about the nightmare before Xmas house he was renting that out. That wasn’t his personal decor.

  • @yoyoyojeremy
    @yoyoyojeremy Před 4 lety +7

    shes gotta be super fit

  • @---rx6em
    @---rx6em Před 4 lety +12

    I wish he could tell me why I have OCD

    • @nikitee7876
      @nikitee7876 Před 4 lety +12

      I'm not sure he will reply but I definitely recommend you see your doctor and get referred to a psychiatrist.. it's what I did. Good idea.

    • @Adam-bq2vw
      @Adam-bq2vw Před 4 lety

      Niki Tee Therapy CAN help with OCD, but in my experience, it’s important, if possible, to find someone who Specializes.

    • @Adam-bq2vw
      @Adam-bq2vw Před 4 lety +2

      -- As a fellow sufferer, I can tell you that the “why” is nowhere NEAR as useful as focusing on recovery.
      Good luck.

    • @nikitee7876
      @nikitee7876 Před 4 lety

      @@Adam-bq2vw I'm not talking therapy. I'm talking meds. Then therapy.

    • @Adam-bq2vw
      @Adam-bq2vw Před 4 lety

      Niki Tee I would say that every case is different and I’m not in a position to give advice on medication.
      Obviously, a trained professional would be better able.
      Hope it works out for you. 🙂

  • @20somethingsworld97
    @20somethingsworld97 Před 4 lety +2

    Second first for being first

  • @claresandweg2052
    @claresandweg2052 Před 4 lety +2

    First comment

  • @20somethingsworld97
    @20somethingsworld97 Před 4 lety +2

    First

  • @jakey8069
    @jakey8069 Před 4 lety +17

    im surprised shes not thinner tbh

  • @mikasan9909
    @mikasan9909 Před 4 lety +1

    first viewer😂

  • @Wheelstar72
    @Wheelstar72 Před 4 lety

    Dr Phil for a smart Man U can’t spell attempts

  • @CountSlappaHoe
    @CountSlappaHoe Před 4 lety +8

    She needs to reduce gluten intake and sugar.. She needs a Honey Peanutbutter sandwich in the Morning on Wheat Bread to start the Iron put back into her Body.. she can have Avocado Salad.. I am guessing she is trying for Vegetarian Diet.. So, cut the milk and Cereal at night because the sugar of the Cake is mixed with the milk producing what she Identifies as Fat.. but it is swollen and excited muscle that is lacking of iron in her blood.. if she fixes her diet along the lines to actually line up basic human needs to survive, her fibromyalgia will start to subside. Eat Fruits at night to relace the cake.. different fruits please.. they have different nutritional values.. but provide water to your system for at night comfort and recovery. Your system might feel shocked.. give it 4 days and then muscle recovery will be easier.. your system is fighting you causing panic because of hydration and lack of iron in your blood.. natural sugars are better than processed food like icing..

  • @1millionsubswithnovideos562

    You may be wondering why I’m self promoting my self to a million subscribers.

  • @Evealaquisina
    @Evealaquisina Před 4 lety +6

    Even though Dr Phil doesn't have any actual psychiatry qualifications he's still very insightful and is very helpful

    • @PabloGonzalez-hv3td
      @PabloGonzalez-hv3td Před 4 lety +35

      He has a doctorate in clinical psychology

    • @wap9137
      @wap9137 Před 4 lety +5

      Eve Clinical psychologists are trained to diagnose.

    • @possumfriend2335
      @possumfriend2335 Před 4 lety +5

      @@PabloGonzalez-hv3td I think they're referring to the fact he's no longer licensed maybe.

    • @webkinzgirl2405
      @webkinzgirl2405 Před 4 lety

      Eve agree

    • @PabloGonzalez-hv3td
      @PabloGonzalez-hv3td Před 4 lety +6

      @@possumfriend2335 Licensing is an administrative process it does not detract from his tangible qualifications