Boyfriend learns how to calm down overwhelmed girlfriend with ADHD | Waterloo Road - BBC

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Komentáře • 175

  • @dummlp
    @dummlp Před rokem +1416

    That's a pretty good representation of adhd. None of that quirky nonsense.

  • @user-sv3qs5rv7p
    @user-sv3qs5rv7p Před 10 měsíci +693

    Dean might be a joker and a bit of a tearaway, but you can tell he genuinely cares about Kelly Jo.

  • @Njay0
    @Njay0 Před 3 měsíci +692

    I was so disappointed in him because he seemed to really care about her and then he cheated on her but I'm glad Kelly Jo didn't forgive him

    • @BGriff-
      @BGriff- Před měsícem +8

      People that love/care about you can and will hurt you. We are humans.

    • @unfiltered8407
      @unfiltered8407 Před měsícem +51

      @@BGriff- that's NOT love.

    • @BGriff-
      @BGriff- Před měsícem +1

      @@unfiltered8407 Then no one has ever loved anyone. It is possible to love you AND hurt you. At least that’s what I believe.

    • @unfiltered8407
      @unfiltered8407 Před měsícem +35

      @@BGriff- Cheating shows that you don’t LOVE a person. It’s a selfish decision>selfless decision. If you willingly make the decision to lie and betray someone you claim to “care about”, then you don’t give two craps about them and they aren’t that important to you. You chose yourself over their feelings and well-being. That’s NOT love.

    • @BGriff-
      @BGriff- Před měsícem

      @@unfiltered8407 We are having 2 different conversations. I didn’t say cheating. But I hear you tho.

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets Před 3 měsíci +225

    Oh sweet baby. This made me cry. I've never been loved, not even by me ma. I can't imagine this compassion. Very sweet. Look for this, young people. Someone who listens

    • @princessbamigboye
      @princessbamigboye Před 2 měsíci +11

      I love you, dear, even if I've never met you.
      And Jesus loves you, so that's more than enough, even if it seems like others don't 🫂🩵

    • @megxme_
      @megxme_ Před 2 měsíci +2

      I love you so much

    • @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive
      @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive Před měsícem +6

      Psalm 27:10
      When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up.

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Před měsícem +1

      I sincerely hope you will find your compassionate person. 🤗 That’s what we all want isn’t it? Especially those of us with ADHD ❤️

    • @MTJ305
      @MTJ305 Před 26 dny

      Sorry

  • @rosaruiz4591
    @rosaruiz4591 Před 3 měsíci +255

    That was actually well done. I was expecting something stupid like him with a laser pointer and her acting like a cat or something lol. ADHD is like this, sometimes everyone just needs to be quiet and leave you alone.

  • @TheJade1977
    @TheJade1977 Před rokem +188

    Oh thats so cute of dean whatever he is he's always there for Kelly Jo whenever she needs it 😘

    • @user-sv3qs5rv7p
      @user-sv3qs5rv7p Před 10 měsíci +4

      I agree. He might be a joker and a bit of a tearaway, but you can tell he genuinely cares about Kelly Jo.

    • @Njay0
      @Njay0 Před 3 měsíci +31

      Not when he cheated on her

  • @nickonyt1558
    @nickonyt1558 Před měsícem +56

    That hits home, ppl don’t get how noisy the world is . Sometimes all we need is silence for a bit to catch our breath .

    • @Hana1LuLu
      @Hana1LuLu Před měsícem +2

      And getting that with quiet, patient company is a highest level of rare treasure

  • @dianatrueman5858
    @dianatrueman5858 Před 28 dny +6

    This scene proved how sweet Dean can actually be. He really does care about her

    • @jazzygrace2730
      @jazzygrace2730 Před 16 dny

      Didn't he cheat on her tho so he doesn't atucally care about her cause if you love someone you don't cheat he's so not sweet

    • @dianatrueman5858
      @dianatrueman5858 Před 16 dny

      @@jazzygrace2730 he cared in that moment

    • @user-ub6gh9km4d
      @user-ub6gh9km4d Před 7 dny

      ​@@dianatrueman5858 ALWAYS SEEN HIM AS NERDY

  • @sierraferrin6887
    @sierraferrin6887 Před měsícem +13

    Anyone else realize this is how they have been feeling

  • @JaydenTunde
    @JaydenTunde Před měsícem +66

    So basically, sensory overload to the point where you are hardly functional 😮?

    • @dps8629
      @dps8629 Před měsícem +20

      Yeah, sensory overload happens to people with ADHD just like people with Autism, though less often. We often need to have stimuli, but there is a definite range with which we can be overwhelmed. It's very difficult to explain how stimuli can suddenly change. Sounds become booming, smells intrude like strangers in your home, lights can cut through everything in your head like a knife and crowds are exhausting because you have to pay attention to as much as you possibly can all the time involuntarily. Someone you love who you enjoy can hug you and it be one of the most wonderful experiences but it can be so oppessing it feels like all of your insides are being squished and liquified as your emotions, sensations and sense of self all take flight from any point of contact.

    • @JaydenTunde
      @JaydenTunde Před měsícem +2

      @@dps8629 I experience it sometimes but I've never been to a therapist or psychologist. To the point where I can hardly form coherent thoughts or process information around me

  • @aminadieng503
    @aminadieng503 Před 27 dny +5

    Aww she’s listening to a dua🤍

  • @WardNightstone
    @WardNightstone Před 3 měsíci +73

    sometimes you can intake 5 diffrent info streams at ones other times one person talking while you try and think through something is too much

    • @APrettyLilTarot
      @APrettyLilTarot Před 3 měsíci +4

      This. I’ve actually had silence be too loud 😭 …it’s very difficult to explain.

    • @dps8629
      @dps8629 Před měsícem +1

      @@APrettyLilTarot It's been a while since I last experienced that but yeah, it was an awful experience.

  • @Lucario0007
    @Lucario0007 Před 5 měsíci +63

    I have her headphones but black and red

    • @sunny-my9ng
      @sunny-my9ng Před 5 měsíci +10

      cool!

    • @ningowo2306
      @ningowo2306 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I do too! Mine are a sea green and white

    • @Lucario0007
      @Lucario0007 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Those headphones broke now I have JBLs

  • @steam_jane5580
    @steam_jane5580 Před 7 dny

    This is the cutest scene, just being comfortable to be together and be the silence someone needs.
    It's nice that he tries to work out what's wrong and help her through her overwhelmed feeling, even if before it hadn't gone perfect with the fire.

  • @fabricofdreams.
    @fabricofdreams. Před 2 měsíci +10

    Gosh this is adorable ❤

  • @k1988smith
    @k1988smith Před měsícem +4

    I forgot in some places in the UK "Us" is used to me. First heard it on Wolf Blood and was confused AF.

  • @mamoudaziz3522
    @mamoudaziz3522 Před měsícem +21

    Ok girl she listening to Quran ok 👌 girl I see you we see you

  • @weego2585
    @weego2585 Před rokem +70

    That title is mad.

  • @solarix8042
    @solarix8042 Před měsícem +56

    Am I crazy or is she listening to Quran or a dua

  • @freddy5fingers490
    @freddy5fingers490 Před rokem +20

    The wee man

  • @ronsilcock8874
    @ronsilcock8874 Před 7 měsíci +20

    2 love birds xxxxxxxxxxxx

  • @FunnyVideoWorldYT
    @FunnyVideoWorldYT Před měsícem +3

    Hasbiyallahu la illah illa huwa wahu rabillilarshil aleem playing in the phone

  • @MoïsePicard-ef8fr
    @MoïsePicard-ef8fr Před měsícem +1

    What a beautiful girl?

  • @wanderingshadow1372
    @wanderingshadow1372 Před měsícem

    The revival has been absolutely amazing. I don't know why people are complaining about it so much.

  • @APrettyLilTarot
    @APrettyLilTarot Před 3 měsíci +27

    🤍✨
    ppl underestimate the power of a safe, strong, calming presence

  • @RafReyes1993
    @RafReyes1993 Před měsícem +1

    Yah this is overwhelming.

  • @DariaRosie
    @DariaRosie Před rokem +21

    What movie/series is this one? I would love to watch it

  • @JakeTylenol
    @JakeTylenol Před měsícem

    As someone diagnosed with ADHD I don’t know if this is an ADHD thing.

  • @NetashaMcclure
    @NetashaMcclure Před 3 měsíci +12

    What the name of this tv show or movie?

  • @patricknjagi703
    @patricknjagi703 Před měsícem

    Run dean ruuuuuuuun

  • @Victoria-_
    @Victoria-_ Před měsícem

    Aww!

  • @StudioPlus555
    @StudioPlus555 Před rokem +6

    Blood change

  • @user-tf3bd5md2w
    @user-tf3bd5md2w Před rokem +12

    what episode is this?

  • @Ben6164
    @Ben6164 Před rokem +16

    I'm sure Waterloo Road was good back in the day.

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana Před rokem +4

      It was

    • @Ben6164
      @Ben6164 Před rokem +2

      @@S_J_banana Clearly, not anymore.

    • @TheJade1977
      @TheJade1977 Před rokem +2

      It really was u know u should watch it deffo

  • @lucygwama9641
    @lucygwama9641 Před měsícem

    Name if show

  • @Princess_unicorn229
    @Princess_unicorn229 Před měsícem

    What’s this called?

  • @AdanC-fs8jw
    @AdanC-fs8jw Před 3 měsíci

    This is me

  • @Chakras.N.Chasers
    @Chakras.N.Chasers Před měsícem

    Mabu???

  • @amandagoodtime7751
    @amandagoodtime7751 Před 2 měsíci

    I’m still trying to figure out where to watch and what it is called been asking my fam but no one knows it

  • @ssuwandi3240
    @ssuwandi3240 Před rokem +2

    Abs baggage..

  • @sanaanjum4182
    @sanaanjum4182 Před rokem +12

    اپنی زندگی کا ایک ہی اصول بنا لیں ، کہ آپ جنت کے لیے بنے ہیں،💦 دنیا کے لیے نہیں بنے،🍁 اور جو لوگ جنت کے لیے بنے ہوتے ہیں نا، وہ دنیا کے ہاتھوں جہنم کا سامان اکٹھا نہیں کرتے، بلکہ وہ دنیا سے بہت بچ بچ کر چلتے ہیں آرام آرام سے🍂 تاکہ پلِ صراط آسانی سے پار کر سکیں🍃❣️۔
    اللَّهمَّ إنِّي أسألُكَ الجنَّةَ، وأَعوذُ بِكَ منَ النَّارِ.... 🤲🏻💦💗

    • @victorrain
      @victorrain Před měsícem

      Was she listening to this passage?

  • @RafReyes1993
    @RafReyes1993 Před měsícem

    🤷
    I am over about thinking about the meet up. Just show up and I'm always ready. But idk about you.
    You keep telling me you're coming but you didn't show up.
    Now you're making up issues that we didn't have.

    • @RafReyes1993
      @RafReyes1993 Před měsícem

      If you're somewhere thousands of thousands miles away from the ph and for some reason you can't get here or you just can't why play mind games?

    • @RafReyes1993
      @RafReyes1993 Před měsícem

      I am big on transparency and open communication but you're making this harder than it should be. 🤦

  • @Soulgazer999
    @Soulgazer999 Před 2 měsíci

    yup

  • @fracchia1457
    @fracchia1457 Před měsícem +1

    Coran and bf ??

  • @HA-jq1mu
    @HA-jq1mu Před rokem +14

    Is she a muslim, im so confused

    • @rorymckernan8502
      @rorymckernan8502 Před rokem +42

      No, she's not a Muslim.
      She has ADHD, she went in there to calm down. ADHD is where you get paranoid, nervous, hyper, aggressive etc.
      Your emotions sometimes get the better of you, and your behaviour becomes out of control. It's worse sometimes when your in a crowded place, because that is the paranoia.
      So I assume, she goes in that room, to calm down, because it's nice and quiet, and the music she's listening to, is quite soothing. Relaxes her.
      The previous series, she had a meltdown in the classroom.
      I could be wrong, but that is just my guess.

    • @HA-jq1mu
      @HA-jq1mu Před rokem +27

      @@rorymckernan8502 but she wasn’t listening to music, she was listening to an islamic prayer

    • @rorymckernan8502
      @rorymckernan8502 Před rokem +7

      ​@@HA-jq1muoh OK. I don't know why.
      My guess is, the voice is soothing, and making her relax.

    • @Lotts413
      @Lotts413 Před 4 měsíci +64

      The room that’s she’s in is a prayer room for Islamic students. One time when she was overwhelmed she burst in there because she didn’t know where else to go and someone was praying. She sat there and listening to him saying his Islamic prayers was really calming for her. So in this clip that’s where she went and she listened to prayers through her headphones. After this she got her own sensory room

    • @HA-jq1mu
      @HA-jq1mu Před 3 měsíci +33

      @bonziaaron5059 great for you, dont know why you decided to tell me that as if I asked. Dont worry you haven’t hurt islams feelings, we dont care

  • @Cherrygaming199
    @Cherrygaming199 Před rokem +3

    Omg I'm first!

  • @nybrand
    @nybrand Před rokem +5

    🤢

  • @user-vr3mr5eu7y
    @user-vr3mr5eu7y Před rokem +7

    Chick needs to get with it. Adhd is no excuse

    • @morganhames
      @morganhames Před rokem +113

      Mate you have no idea. I suggest you think about what others go through before you speak

    • @user-vr3mr5eu7y
      @user-vr3mr5eu7y Před rokem +5

      @@morganhames I have ADHD, I'm also a incomplete quadriplegic. Excuses generally are lameo

    • @user-vr3mr5eu7y
      @user-vr3mr5eu7y Před rokem +3

      @@morganhames maybe u have no idea.

    • @teresacieslak5874
      @teresacieslak5874 Před rokem +7

      @@morganhames I have adhd too, you don't know!

    • @SaviourInDistress
      @SaviourInDistress Před rokem +2

      ​@@user-vr3mr5eu7y sure you are

  • @dmp9609
    @dmp9609 Před měsícem

    Adhd is just bad parenting. Dude should've walked out.