20 transmasc tips that will change your life (hopefully)

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  • čas přidán 14. 06. 2024
  • re-doing my ever so popular transmasc tips video from last year's trans day of visibility, but now with some actual decent tips and decent video quality
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    0:00 Intro
    3:25 MyPack
    4:16 Coloured binders
    5:18 Hair loss shampoo
    6:02 Pronoun pins
    6:52 Collared shirts
    7:54 Nicknames
    9:36 hehe
    10:02 Gender is easy
    10:49 Working out
    11:40 Platforms
    11:46 Voice training safety
    12:31 Men’s restrooms
    14:14 Be nice
    14:38 hehehe
    14:47 Dyeing eyebrows
    15:21 Thick glasses
    15:53 UK deed poll
    16:17 Posture
    17:15 Femininity
    18:08 MOST IMPORTANT TIP!
    19:33 Outro

Komentáře • 379

  • @maceyr.6583
    @maceyr.6583 Před 2 lety +627

    Trans-woman here. Goodluck on your journey y'all! 🤍

  • @Metruzanca
    @Metruzanca Před 2 lety +594

    Born male here, yeah. We don't care about other people in the bathroom, so you're good. Also, first time I saw anything about "packing"... makes complete sense, whatever makes you feel at home down there but gonna be honest, it's kinda funny. But hey, at least you get to pick your size ;)
    I'd agree that posture is super important. Even for women. But especially for men.
    Working on is also super important, at the very least you should be able to do a mean set of push-ups, pull-ups and some squats. Easily attainable so long as you're eating like a normal person and actually pushing yourself at the gym. I used to be in decent shape, but come covid I became a real couch potato and am now underweight. I'm working on myself and getting myself back into the gym is a very important step to becoming a better version of myself.

    • @pwlkadot
      @pwlkadot Před 2 lety +9

      ima pick my si-

    • @Metruzanca
      @Metruzanca Před 2 lety +3

      @@pwlkadot ?

    • @Kcz_05
      @Kcz_05 Před rokem +6

      Yeah i was planning to pick my s-

    • @RayngoMango
      @RayngoMango Před 11 měsíci +9

      This made me feel a lot better. Thank you, haha

    • @gpettus9508
      @gpettus9508 Před 10 měsíci +17

      A portion of the trans crowd has eating disorders related to body dysphoria, so "eating like a normal person" can be a struggle. Also mental health issues that come with being trans in a transphobic society/family, neurodivergence, disability etc. can all interfere.
      If anyone's seeing this and you're dealing with any of this, you're not alone. Definitely call a hotline if you're feeling down, even if it's not the super serious, it's okay. Just call early since you're likely to be put on hold for like 2-30 minutes.
      Suicide/crisis hotlines also can link to mental health resources, even some for those with financial issues if that's something that'd be helpful.

  • @Evgeny_Thistle
    @Evgeny_Thistle Před 2 lety +363

    im a trans guy from *drum roll* russia
    its so hard for us now because we cant buy hormones anymore and i dont know what to do with my transition because i just turned 18 and i took my first T shot two weeks ago but now i am in despair
    i dont want to go to the w*r (yes trans guys may be sent to the w*r as well as cis dudes and im so scared cause i already have my passport changed and it says M)
    i dont want to kill people and i dont want to be killed for *you know who cause his surname begins with P*
    sorry for writing my feelings here i know it can be triggering for some people but im just
    im about to give up

    • @nikk6435
      @nikk6435 Před 2 lety +58

      it’s devastating to see what happened to the country, I’m a Russian too. and we used to have T.a.t.u on tv and nobody cared about someone’s orientation or gender expression until that P guy. have you considered any opportunities to move? is it still possible to get an «отмазка» (don’t fit the requirements) paper?

    • @jakeistragicuwu
      @jakeistragicuwu Před rokem +29

      I'm so sorry :( wishing you luck

    • @kaworunagisa4009
      @kaworunagisa4009 Před rokem +29

      Ouch. I'm from a neighbouring country and an NB to boot (so can't get HRT unless I lie). Good luck dude. If it helps, you can go down south, you get 90 days of stay without visa if you register within 3 days of arrival. A lot of my Russian colleagues fled the conscription a few months ago, some are still hanging out in the north of the country. Don't go too far south though, it's full of freaking n@zis.

    • @mormyrustapirus6979
      @mormyrustapirus6979 Před 11 měsíci +28

      Hey, your comment may have been posted a year ago, but I hope you are doing any better than you were before. I hope you have not given up and continue to fight. I hope those fucks never tangle you up in the war. Maybe I am worrying so much about you because I'm from a Russian family myself. I cannot imagine the weight of transition ON TOP of a w*r-ridden hellscape. Удачи, брат мой.

    • @draagonteeth
      @draagonteeth Před 6 měsíci +5

      i hope youre doing okay man

  • @celestial_gaze_youtube
    @celestial_gaze_youtube Před rokem +71

    About the pronouns pins, I have a he/him one (I use he/they) and as soon as I got it, I've worn it most days at school and despite that, a staff member at school STILL called me "Miss" and that pissed me off cuz the nametags are usually the first thing u notice about someone

    • @andrea446
      @andrea446 Před rokem +24

      They're just doing that to piss you off because they have nothing better to do

    • @r3alityisnotreal
      @r3alityisnotreal Před 19 dny +2

      Ye usually people will miss gender you more with pins, plus I think they are kinda embarrassing to wear so I don't wear them

    • @celestial_gaze_youtube
      @celestial_gaze_youtube Před 19 dny

      @@r3alityisnotreal Oh- yeah I wear them sometimes now (also I'm back to they/them)

  • @Silly_lil_scribbles
    @Silly_lil_scribbles Před 11 měsíci +76

    I love how in the previous trans tip video Theo just went: DO.NOT. WEAR. BACKWARDS HATS. DONT FUCKING DO IT >:(
    And his hat is backwards in the new trans tip video 😂

  • @FlareJollyDragoness
    @FlareJollyDragoness Před 2 lety +266

    Hello, Theo! I'm a transmasc (possibly transmasc enby?) pre-everything guy and I really appreciate your content. I love watching your videos and I love the memes as well as the tips.
    Although I live with transphobic family members for the moment, I dream of the day I move out and finally get my binder. Finally go on T and work out because I really want some muscles. I just want to say thank you for making me smile and helping me on my journey through transition.
    My pronouns (for now, might change them later): He/him or they/them!

    • @flysso
      @flysso Před 2 lety +5

      hey if you’re with dysphoria, i recommend looking for literally anyone irl that accepts lgbtq and you can maybe get them to get a binder delivered at their house, instead of yours, and secretly have it. Unless it’s really obvious to wear a binder for you, then I can’t help you, but personally I’ve done this and I got the luck it didn’t fit, but at least it worked. I hope that’s helpful. (If you don’t have the money for it, you can always go around and do chores or like walk the neighbours dog, etc, for money)

    • @FlareJollyDragoness
      @FlareJollyDragoness Před 2 lety +2

      @@flysso I have friends who are also LGBTQ+, but we live far away. I have money that I'm saving for my first car once I get my license. I do appreciate your help and when I feel brave enough, I'll try your binder tip. Thank you so much!

    • @animesafespace4023
      @animesafespace4023 Před 2 lety +1

      god i thought you were talking to me. My name is theodore and my nickname is theo, my pronouns are he\him.

    • @FlareJollyDragoness
      @FlareJollyDragoness Před 2 lety +2

      @@animesafespace4023 Nice to meet you!

    • @riv3rw4ter
      @riv3rw4ter Před 9 měsíci +2

      been doing this for everyone I see mentioning binders but please do be careful and safe bc it really sucks to not be able to breathe properly

  • @treeboy9079
    @treeboy9079 Před 2 lety +110

    I'm a trans dude myself, my name is Aspen but my friends call me all sorts of things but that's just my friends. I'm out at school and use the boys restroom. In September I will be approved to go on T. I love your channel bro.

  • @InsertMyChineseUsername
    @InsertMyChineseUsername Před 2 lety +36

    "holiday dysphoria kids" i know it shouldn't be funny but I'm laughing so hard

  • @Lucas-it7iv
    @Lucas-it7iv Před 2 lety +202

    heyyy Theo! I think I never commented on your channel but I wanted to tell you that I love your videos! I started hrt years ago, but I would have loved to have someone like you as a guide and company during my transition, tysm for your content and being you

    • @intend_o_switch402
      @intend_o_switch402 Před 2 lety +17

      yea theo has helped so much hasn't he just amazing i also would watch theo and noah finnace and jamie ect.

    • @TheosGhost
      @TheosGhost  Před 2 lety +21

      thank you!! that's v nice of you to say :)

  • @DNAndrei
    @DNAndrei Před 2 lety +50

    Man, I wish I were in the UK right now :)) I live in Eastern Europe and in my country you need to go to court to change your legal first name, and if your reason is a “sex change” you need to prove you’ve had surgery through a very invasive legal medicine check… ughhhhhh help

  • @Err_OR_Official
    @Err_OR_Official Před rokem +54

    “ *nervous laughter* And who wouldn’t want to be like William Afton??” *I felt that*
    But hey I’m Kieran, a trans masc animator and it’s nice to see others like me :’> *also yes collared shirts are the shit - they make me feel so manly*

    • @fred_hearts
      @fred_hearts Před rokem +14

      I decided to as a trans man to go by Freddy. And now my younger cousins tell me I'm supposed to be on lockdown haha. Still love my new name though

    • @Err_OR_Official
      @Err_OR_Official Před rokem +4

      @@fred_hearts I love that so much lmao

    • @louzo5175
      @louzo5175 Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@fred_hearts the trans fnaf extended universe going real

    • @embrixcandray6073
      @embrixcandray6073 Před měsícem

      @@fred_hearts hor hor hor hor

  • @user-if1lo1zn5t
    @user-if1lo1zn5t Před 2 lety +84

    im trans
    and my family hates me so this video made my day instantly better :)

    • @maceyr.6583
      @maceyr.6583 Před 2 lety +6

      I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're not alone in this journey, trust me. 😊

    • @user-if1lo1zn5t
      @user-if1lo1zn5t Před 2 lety +5

      @@maceyr.6583 thanks bro
      that mean so much

    • @maceyr.6583
      @maceyr.6583 Před 2 lety +3

      @@user-if1lo1zn5t you're welcome but I'm a sis haha. Thanks. 🤍

    • @maceyr.6583
      @maceyr.6583 Před 2 lety +2

      @@user-if1lo1zn5t just continue being you okay? Be safe. ^^

  • @cierrabowker3423
    @cierrabowker3423 Před rokem +45

    Thank you. There are a lot of helpful tips here, some new to me and some that I've already practiced, but most of all, this video is very validating for me. Just your bit about allowing yourself to be feminine was so huge for me that I almost cried. So many ftm trans stories are "ever since I was a kid I liked boy things instead," or "I've never felt comfortable in my skin." I was never sure, dresses were fine, I had a girl body and that's what girls wear. I've always felt more comfortable in masc clothes, but not completely hugely dysphoric in women's, because- as someone with lady bits- I accepted fem styles. When I started presenting masculine I had this internal battle of whether or not my gender was valid if I didn't have the traditional ftm story of hating girl clothes with a firey passion my whole life. I've watched so many videos and read so many blogs waiting for this validation, so thank you. You are the first to tell me it's okay that I enjoyed extenuating the body I have, even if I'd rather have a different body. I don't know if you'll actually read this comment, but if you do I just want you to know the benefit you have on my psyche.

    • @NICOLEwendt73
      @NICOLEwendt73 Před rokem

      Hi there trnasmasc here :)
      I just wanted to zoom in and say that you are Not the only one. In my elemantary school, the other Kids were often wondering why i sometimes had the same pullover as another boy from my class on and the other Day i was walking around in a skirt or a Dress. My hair has always been long but I used to put it up All the time and everyone looked at me weird when i pulled out my very long slightly curled hair. They were confused on why i didn't care, mostly because my mom always hated Stereotypes aswell. When i got into alt style and realised my transness there was always this little voice that told me i had to wear this and that. Skirts are illegal, never tight Jeans etc.
      But in the end i realised that it doesnt matter. You are you. No matter what clothes you wear or how you express yourself. Sorry for writing this book of a comment it just sorta felt right to write it :))

  • @insertswittyusernamehere5040

    me, closeted transmasc-ish dude (he/they) and will probably never come out because i live, grew up and will probably continue to live in china (i cant even really dress and/or present androgynously, much less get a binder or anything of the sort hhh help lmao) so im just living out the life i probably cant (in another few years at least) get through this video:

  • @avalondewey4918
    @avalondewey4918 Před 11 měsíci +4

    A lot of this circles back to one of my all time favorite posts, "You can do whatever you want forever" and I think that's excellent

  • @princesspipergirl
    @princesspipergirl Před rokem +16

    I'm a transmasc who used to take t shots before I was taken off of them due to severe weight loss, but i took them while my body was growing most so i luckily maintained alot of permanent masculine features, and this video i must say helps me as well as many others do. thanks for the content man (:

  • @why__8729
    @why__8729 Před 2 lety +11

    in my school i don't have the gender-neutral bathroom in my school and I tried to use your tip and use the men's bathroom AND I GOT COUGHT, BULLIED AND CALLED THE T-SLUR 😭😭😭

    • @RustShyRabbit1
      @RustShyRabbit1 Před 2 lety +5

      People suck, I hope the bullying hasn’t effected you too much.

    • @why__8729
      @why__8729 Před 2 lety +2

      @@RustShyRabbit1 𝚃𝚢❤️

    • @DefinetlyAHuman
      @DefinetlyAHuman Před 5 dny

      Bro same. Now I'm allowed to use the teachers bathroom lol

  • @cryelllow
    @cryelllow Před 11 měsíci +5

    8:03 My name is Ethan. My friend calls me (jokingly) Transformer, Optimus prime, Kokichi Ouma, Grape Fanta, Gluestick, Ethananananannanananan, Eathan, and more.

  • @jasper_the_killjoy
    @jasper_the_killjoy Před 2 lety +33

    I’m a transmasc creator lol, I do random stuff tbh but I’m planning on making videos on my trans experience soon. I literally look forward to your videos so much, like you’re honestly one of my favorite trans creators and the way you talk about things is just so chill and comforting.

  • @morardtheskelly
    @morardtheskelly Před rokem +7

    The men's restroom tip actually really helped me... Just wanted to say thank you because I always am worried about what restroom to use.

  • @starstruck_gay
    @starstruck_gay Před 10 měsíci +9

    Hello :)
    My name is Elio and my pronouns are He/They! I am transmasc and my deadname is Margaux (I do kinda like my deadname ngl lol)
    My parents are transphobic and homophobic so when I told them I was pansexual they obviously weren't happy. After that, I decided to keep quiet about being trans and my friends took care of me, helped me pay for a binder, and were always there for me. Having good friends rly helps when you have transphobic parents. Sadly, I moved from the UK to the US about 2 years ago and now live in a sad apartment building with my dad and sister bc I'm too broke to move out and have nowhere to go. (But, my s/o is moving to the US to be with me so hopefully that goes well, we've been dating for 4 yrs and have known each other since year 1 in primary school)
    So yeah, that's basically my story! If you're lgbtq+, good luck on your journey and have a wonderful day/night! :D

  • @stupidgayandtrans5560
    @stupidgayandtrans5560 Před 2 lety +8

    thank you so much, i’ve been so upset and frustrated with not being able to pass no matter what i do and this genuinely helped so much you’re the best

  • @iquestionexistence8730
    @iquestionexistence8730 Před 2 lety +20

    Hi Theo, I actually found you through your 'everyone hates trans kids now basically' video, even though I wasn't allowed to be myself as a kid (came out at like 13/14 etc but was dismissed til 18) I'm so passionate about letting trans kids be themselves cos I came so close to ending myself ngl but I'm fine now luckily cos I'm out now and was accepted finally but yeah that's how I found your channel not the transmasc tips but I also watched that too, it was a funny video. I know you said it was filmed on your phone and low quality etc but I sometimes find those videos so charming idk why, maybe the rawness

  • @east3423
    @east3423 Před 2 lety +10

    So true about the collared shirts, my binder never shows in them and when they fit right they rarely hug my figure

  • @sundrop3176
    @sundrop3176 Před 2 lety +40

    I flippin' love collared shirts. I have like 3 white, long-sleeved collared shirts and i wear a normal tee-shirt over them and it looks really cooll 😎🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

    • @e7267
      @e7267 Před rokem +2

      I first got gender euphoria from collared shirts I love collared shirts

    • @sundrop3176
      @sundrop3176 Před rokem

      @@e7267 ikrr. There freakin awesome broski

  • @FireMagmaTea
    @FireMagmaTea Před 2 lety +7

    "who wouldn't want to be like William Afton" -Theo
    You scare me sometimes.

  • @DnDBatKid
    @DnDBatKid Před 10 měsíci +2

    Lmao I'm so sorry, but I just watched the other video and after the long rant about not wearing backwards baseball caps, you are wearing one bro. Love the vids thanks for the help.

  • @Joesgamesntech
    @Joesgamesntech Před 2 lety +5

    You can find loads of collar shirts at charity shops for cheap too :D I chose the name Jo as in Joseph, John, Jonathan, Johnny, Josh, Joshua, etc XD

  • @br1n0o0o
    @br1n0o0o Před 2 měsíci +3

    "You can call me DOOR"

  • @olleydd7976
    @olleydd7976 Před rokem +3

    i agree on the collared shirt one- we love collared shirts in this household

  • @movieyouser
    @movieyouser Před rokem +2

    I love how we had the same idea while picking theodor as name

  • @crwsters
    @crwsters Před rokem +2

    2:17 i actually found you through the three cheers for sweet revenge video essay lmao😭
    didn't thought/realize i had just come across a trans content creator until i clicked on your channel, glad i found it though, as a trans masc-aligned nonbinary genderfluid person who also happens to have an obsession with mcr, it feels *weirdly* specific and i love it.

  • @bathroomstalltrauma3370
    @bathroomstalltrauma3370 Před 2 lety +15

    Sup! I'm Oli and im a trans dude that does bad folk punk covers! (I think this is the first comment I'm leaving from this youtube account?) I discovered you from your musical theatre moments that remind me im bi video bc mood. The "gender is easy" tip is a super good one btw - I had a much easier time once I was able to let go of that stress, and I wish I would have known to sooner

  • @user-kk7jk5dv9w
    @user-kk7jk5dv9w Před rokem +4

    i love your editing style because its subtle but emphasizes enough. someone else doing a docu style youtube video was using so much fade in, zooming in/focusing/moving around the face & letter by letter word animation and it was so hard on the eyes thanks for an awesome video

  • @crocbox07
    @crocbox07 Před rokem +2

    i love the collared shirt tip because i know for me and many others that live in incredibly hot areas its just not possible to wear a hoodie without being drenched in sweat

  • @Lee_Plays_MC
    @Lee_Plays_MC Před rokem +7

    im honestly scared about coming out as trans because my brother came out as trans about 8 years ago and they had a friend who copied them constantly while they were attempting to transition and it peeved them a lot.
    I tried telling my brother I wanted to be a man a couple of years ago too, but they wrote it off as me sexualizing mens lives and just trying to copy him. I never brought it up after that
    technically im out as genderfluid/ace right now. I dont have any sexual or romantic attraction towards people, but im also on the spectrum so it can just be a ting that comes with the funky yknow
    Im really just worried about how my brother will think of me. ive been having a lot of dysphoria lately and havent brought it up with anyone. Ive been hinting at it when i talk with my trans friends, but i havent been straight about it.
    my binder is my best friend lol

    • @Hoeausderlobby
      @Hoeausderlobby Před rokem +4

      Tbh it’s obviously shitty that your brother had bad experience but he shouldn’t let that out on you. Tell him how you feel and that you have been identifying as trans for a while. If you are being honest and true to yourself then he will be understanding of it I’m sure. He will never be the only transmasc person in his life and he has to understand that just because there are other trans people doesn’t mean they are faking it. If you’re to anxious to talk maybe write him a letter or send a message that explain it. That way you can tell your feeling without him interrupting you or it leading to an argument.

  • @Caiico
    @Caiico Před 2 lety +3

    late ik but I just watched your old video and came to watch this one (not trans but non-binary and pretty masc) and your voice got so much deeper! it's so cool to see that your voice got deeper, it sounds really cool. :]

  • @rabbitdad
    @rabbitdad Před 2 lety +10

    deeply funny to me bc the holiday dysphoria is EXACTLY what happened lol

  • @theodorec.4268
    @theodorec.4268 Před 2 lety +8

    I literally picked the same name as you for the exact same reasons. My deadname wasn't nickname-able and I hated that. I love that my partner can call me Teddy but other people can call me Theo. It really is a good name c:

  • @CuNamida
    @CuNamida Před rokem +4

    You're so helpful! I really hope you reach 1 mil you deserve it!! I watched your video on ftm outfits and it was of HUUHE help! You saved me

  • @logda6836
    @logda6836 Před rokem +3

    i got to this channel from searching “three cheers for sweet revenge story explained”

  • @number3906
    @number3906 Před rokem +1

    YOU SAID WILLIAM AFTON WHEN TALKING ABOUT THAT NAMES, that made me so happy bc my name is William and fnaf!

  • @Hofner58magic
    @Hofner58magic Před rokem +2

    10:04
    I have been feeling really bad recently and this perked me up a lot. Thanks Theo for being such an awsome help :)

  • @zethgraham1476
    @zethgraham1476 Před rokem +4

    Collared shirts are the only way I'm surviving Texas summer

  • @mortifer9322
    @mortifer9322 Před 2 lety +16

    Hey, I'm an enby (still figuring out if masc or not) I wanted to add something that helped me a little with finding a name. I use a text to speach website to try out the sound of new names (and the sound of it in combo with surname) and that helped me out personally. Love your content

  • @anotherrandomartist9456
    @anotherrandomartist9456 Před 2 lety +2

    6:52 collared shirts that are made of the like more stiff material are especially great, cuz when tucked in they kinda like make a little,, like there’s space between your chest and the shirt cuz the material isn’t form fitting idk how to describe it lol.

  • @stevie1884
    @stevie1884 Před 2 lety +2

    yo i love devon im so happy u shouted him out dude

  • @vanya_cat
    @vanya_cat Před rokem

    OH MY LORD- I FINISHED WATCHING THAT OLD ONE AND NOW I LOOK AT YOU NOW?? UR VOICE IS SO AMING

  • @aggtza3852
    @aggtza3852 Před rokem +3

    My go to phrase now is: “Your gender is fine”

  • @gokuscalves2102
    @gokuscalves2102 Před 2 lety +3

    Yo I am *far* to scared to even *attempt* to go into the males restroom bc I look so much like a female I cannot walk into a male restroom without them going "heyy you're a girl" so lmao hopefully I can look more androgynous in the future and walk in without anybody caring lmao

  • @crimsonclaw4703
    @crimsonclaw4703 Před 18 dny

    I actually found your channel through this video. This is my first one of your videos I've seen. You have a new subscriber now.

  • @AndesMints94
    @AndesMints94 Před 2 lety +7

    I was steered away because I feel weird about packing... but came back and liked the little segment about femininity. I am genderfluid and have considered going on T, but I'm worried it will make me die sooner since my Dad passed when he was 53 from an aortic rupture. They scanned my heart and said it was fine, but I'm not sure if that will be the case if I go on T.
    I feel like femininity is so fragile, just as fragile as masculinity. Some people can't put on makeup because of allergies or eye sensitivity or some other reasons. I sometimes really like wearing dresses and would love to wear frilly dresses, corsets, and all that. However, I don't think I'll do heels because my feet don't work like that lol. But it's so easy to dress androgynously or more masc when you are sick or not even trying to present a certain way lol it just sort of happens.

  • @tabboty
    @tabboty Před 10 měsíci +1

    The posture thing... sucks a lot for me because I am very short so it would help BUT i have g-cups so having bad posture is the only way to hide them 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @binji1834
    @binji1834 Před 2 lety

    i found you through the summer trans tips video, that video has helped me sm.

  • @spadehenri8300
    @spadehenri8300 Před 19 dny

    backing up the restroom thing. i live in a small town and i pass pretty well, so i may be a bit lucky, but even when i've been to big cities, nobody has ever done anything beyond an odd glance in my direction. nobody cares about your outfit or if your pissing sitting down (im willing to bet cis guys do it), everyone there is just worried about their own business. honestly, the worst thing about the mens room in my experience is how gross it is, lol.
    that being said, there are definitely some risks and people have had bad experiences in the washroom, so trust your better judgement and stay safe.

  • @IamellieDCAS
    @IamellieDCAS Před měsícem

    As a young closeted trans guy (I kind of just found out I was trans about a few months ago after almost a year of questioning my gender) I first went by the name Jax. I later found out that I liked being called Jaxon too! This video really helped. Thanks Theo!!

  • @jojogottagogo9234
    @jojogottagogo9234 Před 2 lety +3

    Dude seeing this video title gave me serious déjà vu

  • @elandiemmmmm
    @elandiemmmmm Před rokem

    Im so happy that i found your channel! For a really long time i was struggling with my gender dysphoria and now i know what to do with that, thank you!! ❤

  • @Drummermalleter
    @Drummermalleter Před 2 lety +1

    The first video I watched of you was the ultimte transmasc summer guide. I love your vids and as a baby trans they really help out a lot!

  • @benjamineverett8498
    @benjamineverett8498 Před 2 lety +2

    Hey Theo!! I loved this video. I’m definitely pro collared shirts lol. I’ve started trying to make videos monitoring my changes on T as well. I love watching your videos and I can’t wait to get some more changes!!

  • @somehimbo
    @somehimbo Před 2 lety +3

    "be nice" yeah I agree i was mean to everyone for no reason in year seven and now people misgender me on purpose because they don't like me. don't be like me.

  • @alaipaikai2722
    @alaipaikai2722 Před 2 lety

    The video I started watching you was “dear poptropica creators” on dimension bros! I love your videos and look forward to them always 😁💖

  • @kajacapi8520
    @kajacapi8520 Před 4 měsíci +1

    For hair loss I also really recommend saw palmeto suppliment

  • @PepeValiku
    @PepeValiku Před 2 lety +3

    Just wanted to share something that happened to me and was amazing - I was watching the video 10 tips for transmasc people and had earbuds, my father went around, watched you for a while and said :"That's a guy quite like you!"
    I am not out,I am afab, and I was like yes, yes, he is......

  • @Luc743
    @Luc743 Před 2 lety +2

    When you were talking about how easy it is to change your name I actually laughed in disbelief that I could literally get my name changed in under an hour as I'm a UK resident, turning 17 tomorrow with more than £30 in my bank XD
    edit: Also I really thought I found your channel through a different video but no, turns it I did find it through that 10 tips one lol

  • @cyxx414
    @cyxx414 Před rokem +2

    thank u for this i don't have any trans friends so no one in my friend circle gets me this is so sweet it feel understood

  • @twilytgardnfaery
    @twilytgardnfaery Před rokem

    Hi Theo! Brand new viewer, but you requested to know what video we found you from, and for me, it was this one! I was looking up drag king makeup last night and this video was in my recommended this morning. Really love your energy and glad to have picked up a new follow. I'll have to check out some of your recommendations!

  • @impsail374
    @impsail374 Před 6 měsíci

    "Work on your posture" me currently sitting one leg folded and one leg bent while hunched over on my bed with no back support 😭

  • @ayangonzalez9886
    @ayangonzalez9886 Před 2 lety

    Whoaaaaa ur voice changed so much from the last video thats amazing❤️

  • @deejay2003
    @deejay2003 Před 2 lety

    I found your channel through your MCR three cheers video, it got recommended to me, I’m not trans, but I sent the last one to my trans boyfriend, I’ll be sending this to him as well as soon as the videos over

  • @zachwoomy
    @zachwoomy Před 2 lety +2

    thx 4 this! I did come from that first video lmao. also I would love a beginner workout video!

  • @Danamazing
    @Danamazing Před 2 lety

    I actually just commented on that video 😂 thank u once again for your advice, it is greatly (!) appreciated. And happy belated pride

  • @juliuscider5372
    @juliuscider5372 Před rokem

    For first or secret binders, go for white or light gray, because you can wear it with thinner light-colored shirts without bad show through. If your not out, it just looks like a white sports bra to unsuspecting eyes

  • @Floofyflouf
    @Floofyflouf Před 3 měsíci

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR 10:30!!! I was freaking out about how I experience different levels of feeling like a guy, and I was worried that I couldn’t be transmasc coz I was too feminine or something, but the stuff you said really calmed me down. That’s exactly what I needed someone to say to me 😊

  • @thanat0s1017
    @thanat0s1017 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks for this vid, Theo!

  • @Shiloah33
    @Shiloah33 Před rokem +2

    17:58 I was watching this part of the video while painting my nails and I just had the weirdest fourth wall moment 😅

  • @unicornkisses3398
    @unicornkisses3398 Před rokem +2

    I'm non-binary (leaning towards more masculine in appearance) and I adore my collared shirts. Especially tacky Hawaiian ones. They're perfect for the workplace and can have a long-sleeved shirt under them in the winter ^.^ Glad they made the cut.

  • @iang8032
    @iang8032 Před 2 lety

    Okay, I found your channel over the Summer Tips actually (which where pretty cool btw ;) )

  • @Charlie-my3cy
    @Charlie-my3cy Před 2 lety

    I just watched your minoxidil video, I clicked in to this video right after and I'm so happy for you. Your voice is so masculine, I love it. /fellow trans masc

  • @valtora.6181
    @valtora.6181 Před rokem +2

    I found this video from a learning to change your voice type of video-
    But I'll keep these tips in mind

  • @gravybones.
    @gravybones. Před 2 lety +3

    as a trans guy (demiboy hehe), i wear collared shirts probably 60 procent of the time and oversized shirts 40 procent of the time. its amazing. most of the time i wear both tho (collared shirts with over it an oversized shirt plus dress pants). 10/10.

  • @dobbysrightsock
    @dobbysrightsock Před 2 lety +2

    that was the first video of yours that i watched :D even though you think the video sucks, it was what made me subscribe so it wasn’t THAT bad

  • @soda118
    @soda118 Před rokem

    I WAS WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS AND MY BRO U CHANGED DRAMATICALLY TROUGHT PT1 AND PT2

  • @MicroCharlass
    @MicroCharlass Před rokem

    your videos make me feel so safe

  • @Corey_Xavier
    @Corey_Xavier Před 2 lety +4

    Hello! :} That was actually the first video i saw and that made me subscribe!

  • @Tincanrobots
    @Tincanrobots Před 2 lety

    My fav part about this video is in his other vid(the one he’s redoing) he has a whole this about how stupid backwards hats are lmfao, I personally LOVE backwards hats, you are also one of my fav tubers btw🫡

  • @aprayingatheist2378
    @aprayingatheist2378 Před 2 lety

    This is the first video I've seen of you and I don't know why it popped up on my CZcams feed.
    The only reason I can think of is because I just watched the Steven Crowder change my mind about trans athletes like 20 mins ago

  • @alejandroulloa5887
    @alejandroulloa5887 Před 2 lety

    Man I have geniunly fun wathching Your videos and also they really help me, Your channel its my favorite, man. Thank you

  • @bruisedknees1647
    @bruisedknees1647 Před rokem

    TOUR VOICE HAS CHANGED SO MUCHHHHHH

  • @EskaytheSquirrel
    @EskaytheSquirrel Před 3 měsíci

    Hello hello! Agender trans person here! I stumbbled upon this video in my recommendations and I wanna wish everyone here luck on their journey. I hope you all end up happy with yourselves in the future no matter what you identify as!
    [pronouns are he/they/it if you were wondering]
    Remember to eat, drink water, and always, ALWAYS, remember that you are beautiful and handsome and awesome looking and anyone that says otherwise is lying!

  • @bluebox5248
    @bluebox5248 Před 2 lety +2

    Hiiiiiiii! THANKS FOR THIS VIDEOO I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL WITH THE OTHER TRANS TIPS!!!

  • @finn8134
    @finn8134 Před 2 lety +4

    hii theo!! if you feel comfortable, can you make a workout video? i’ve been really wanting to workout lately to feel better and to pass a little more

    • @TheosGhost
      @TheosGhost  Před 2 lety

      it will definitely happen at some point can't promise when tho :)

  • @Joe-kj8oy
    @Joe-kj8oy Před 2 lety +2

    I came here from that podcast thing u did with goddamit malcom and I related to a bunch of things u said plus I thought ur room looked cool so I clicked the link lmao

  • @-goth-6927
    @-goth-6927 Před rokem

    I was told to sit up properly, im an artist... hunched over is the best im getting

  • @isabelcrespo4707
    @isabelcrespo4707 Před 29 dny

    Okay you're giving me strong Miles McKenna vibes

  • @monkey-yy8bk
    @monkey-yy8bk Před měsícem

    im not sure if im trans, but im going to try some reversible transition things to see if living as a boy feels good and makes me happy (like wearing binders, cutting my hair, etc.). if i do end up labeling myself as trans, then I'm totally stealing your name! I would love if people referred to me as ✨Teodors✨ (my languages version of Theodore, which has the same nicknames Teddijs and Teo). I know that im definitely not a woman, but im not 100% sure on my transness. Wish me luck, peeps!

  • @hadtochangename730
    @hadtochangename730 Před 2 lety +1

    Just came from the other video, the voice changed was surprising :)
    also name twins ayy

  • @RnRTommys777
    @RnRTommys777 Před 2 lety

    Thankkssss I needed this so much

  • @eternalblue3268
    @eternalblue3268 Před rokem

    dude i didn't know you could damage your voice doing voice training, good thing i've been too lazy to start

  • @kaicampos7048
    @kaicampos7048 Před 2 lety +1

    I just watched the last video and this one shows up to me fjkdjwjsjdjfjfjjfj you really changed a look dude, love the vídeo by the way