JAPA; The Struggle Abroad Is Real The Loneliness Is Very Real. Nigerian Man In USA Shares Story..

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024

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  • @osifesoblueblood7265
    @osifesoblueblood7265 Před 6 měsíci +29

    I have lived in the UK, France, Germany, Canada, United States and now back to Nigeria. The United States remains the best country in the entire universe to live in. The freaking best! The opportunities are endless and you won't be fulfilled living abroad unless you have lived in the United States. God bless the USA. My family and I will move there some day in the future once my kpali clicks.

    • @davidume3886
      @davidume3886 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I dont think Ur right. You have right of opinion Štandard of living Us is low to compare to many countries in Európe. In terms of security , health. and many more

    • @hardquestions01
      @hardquestions01 Před 6 měsíci +3

      To a large extent he is right. I have lived in the US, for many years. There is endless opportunities in the US.

    • @23293
      @23293 Před 5 měsíci

      i live in AUSTRALIA, i think that is not accurate, because people complain about experiencing so much racism and police brutality, rate crimes etc

  • @adetolaoluwatobi7418
    @adetolaoluwatobi7418 Před 6 měsíci +9

    As a Nigerian,getting another citizenship is the best thing you can do for yourself and your family. Please japa, after getting your second citizenship you can then relocate back to Nigeria if you wish.

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 Před 2 měsíci

      Our countries need to start looking at those who use the system, if you do not pay enough tax in our countries, stay in your own.

  • @snowwendelltimieyer8229
    @snowwendelltimieyer8229 Před 6 měsíci +20

    This man spoke facts, 100 percent, kudos to him, all he said is true, abroad is good, but with good planning, esp America, no place like dis place, have lived in Europe and canada, but America is d best.

  • @wemiogedengbe6697
    @wemiogedengbe6697 Před 6 měsíci +18

    To survive in America, it requires grace ,mental tenacity, discipline and extreme hard work even while working smart…. It’s like chewing on a bitter pill that might heal you… no promises… Salute America 🫡🇺🇸 only for the brave heart!

  • @Mkym365
    @Mkym365 Před 6 měsíci +10

    It is Hard to SAVE Money in America 🇺🇸 you Mostly Work to pay Bills…you will see a lot of Nigerians living in America 20, 30 yrs , zero savings…don’t Blame Dem, it’s the way the system is designed, it’s very Hard to Save money & they Work you to the bones. Plus Lowliness & Depression is ReaL here

    • @23293
      @23293 Před 5 měsíci +1

      exactly there is a lot mental illness here in AUSTRALIA, there are always jobs in those fields, but if you plan your life you can save some money. many Africans unfortunately want to party hard after getting paid.

  • @Divinelyfavored1
    @Divinelyfavored1 Před 6 měsíci +9

    There is loneliness everywhere but the degree is different. In America we run from fellow Africans here because they are more evil than your household witches. If you have found friend who genuinely root for you in diaspora, abeg don't joke with them because the street is not smiling here. You have a lot to protect and less to loose . Loneliness is just a phase, but make sure you have a family you are spending your energy and time with because singles abroad suffer more anxiety and loneliness.

  • @user-mb7nf3nn9j
    @user-mb7nf3nn9j Před 6 měsíci +8

    Daddy Freeze is the man with a good topic!
    Japa = overseas+ step
    Step 1: Get a job ( job or black job)
    Step 2: Stay out of debt but create an emergency fund.
    Step 3: Get education.
    step 4: Get insurance.
    Step 4: Live below your means.
    Step 5: Budget.
    Step 6: Invest ( Reits, Index fund, Roth IRA, 401k, business, freelance, etc.)
    Step 7: Trust in God, trust your self and trust your process and progress.
    It is not easy anywhere but you can make it anywhere!
    I studied marine engineering and nautical science with two kids, so " children shouldn't be the excuse!
    Thank you!

    • @Adamsilvarr
      @Adamsilvarr Před 6 měsíci +1

      My question is,!
      What if one is a graduate from naija before relocating to America,is it a must the person go to school in America again

  • @peteribh1
    @peteribh1 Před 6 měsíci +21

    That man right there spoke facts!

  • @MildredBih-kx7rv
    @MildredBih-kx7rv Před 6 měsíci +8

    100% correct!anyone who welcomes you in this country has a big role to play in directing you.

    • @newwineskin5494
      @newwineskin5494 Před 2 měsíci

      THANK YOU.If i welcome anyone now, they will succeed. This is so true.

  • @NDchurchgirl
    @NDchurchgirl Před 6 měsíci +3

    My kids started working at age 14 at a summer program for the city created just for youths. I was never in debt other than my mortgage. I decided early enough not to live above my means.

  • @amudatwuraola5373
    @amudatwuraola5373 Před 6 měsíci +8

    The gentleman has said it all. It's so so lonely. Everyone is on their own. I hope Tinubu will make changes so people won't have to Japa. Japa is not what you think. Think properly, analyse before you make a move to settle abroad. It's an elusion of grandeur, but it's a long way to it. Hard work, perseverance, tolerance and lots and lots of cold is what you will have to endure. You are welcome if Japa is your decision. All the best. Nice topic Daddy Freeze.

  • @abeniadeolasumbo520
    @abeniadeolasumbo520 Před 6 měsíci +9

    comfortable ke? Darkness is far from comfort....if you japa, just cut your coat according to your material. Stay focused, and MYOB...you good to roll, and enjoy the process...
    God bless America🙏🏻

  • @Mkym365
    @Mkym365 Před 6 měsíci +5

    If we don’t build house in Africa, or invest in Africa, how do we now Develop our Homeland???

    • @olodiandrew219
      @olodiandrew219 Před 6 měsíci

      Africans are not interested in developing African. Let's be truthful to ourselves. Only bad society produces bad leaders. We don't have that generation who are willing to sacrifice for the next. Everyone is looking for instant wealth.

  • @jaobillionaire
    @jaobillionaire Před 6 měsíci +6

    Don't tell an Igbo man not to build a house back in Africa.
    That one is our culture.

  • @olumideo5328
    @olumideo5328 Před 6 měsíci +2

    THE MAN IS ON POINT

  • @fasakinkemisola5285
    @fasakinkemisola5285 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I have someone who had been in the U.S for 40 years and have no ordinary land In Nigeria...though bought a house in the U.S...completed the mortgage but the wife sold the house without his knowledge and now living with his younger bro.at 64 years.very sad

    • @sweetgirl2301
      @sweetgirl2301 Před měsícem

      A lot of Nigerians live in denial, they think abroad is heaven modern day slavery

  • @raybrown8106
    @raybrown8106 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Hi daddy freeze,please be very attentive and follow the people talking on your programme religiously so that you can ask them relevant questions from their submissions.this is just a constructive criticism,someone commented about you this.

    • @raybrown8106
      @raybrown8106 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Hi everyone,I just want to address something here,I have seen people saying I don't like daddy freeze for not listening to people on his program,someone else said he's rude and other comments like that.let us all try to correct each other without been harsh or coming out disrespectful as well.daddy freeze is human and doesn't know it all,I'm sure he will make amends,he's a matured and educated man.feefbacks are meant to lift you up not the other way.the topic is very broad and deep and i believe everyone some serious facts in a lot of the comments out there.jah bless

  • @SamA-wx9zq
    @SamA-wx9zq Před 6 měsíci +7

    He's speaking the truth....I see all that in the UK now..after twenty something years here 😢

  • @joyibrahim8280
    @joyibrahim8280 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Please someone should find this man for me

  • @adilamusicTV
    @adilamusicTV Před 6 měsíci +7

    See how fresh her skin looks, saying there is struggle oo😂

    • @idehenreosas3969
      @idehenreosas3969 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Omo na the weather. Most of them lack vitamin D due to low exposure to sunlight 😅

    • @raycorey
      @raycorey Před 6 měsíci +3

      There is struggle everywhere. She and he are speaking from their own experience. Most people that relocate thinks it’s a simple case, NO, it takes time. This man is 100% right, you need to be patient and calm your expectations down.

    • @amudatwuraola5373
      @amudatwuraola5373 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@idehenreosas3969 yes o, we keep popping vit D.

    • @idehenreosas3969
      @idehenreosas3969 Před 6 měsíci

      @@amudatwuraola5373 Abeg continue to make your money jare👍

    • @philderrick6305
      @philderrick6305 Před 3 měsíci

      Ignorant comment

  • @adebayokehinde
    @adebayokehinde Před 6 měsíci +4

    Took a credit loan to buy a brand new car, and used Uber to pay the car back! And the mileage is a write off coz I use the car as a business 😂😂😂! This man is smart and giving you gem 💎! Yankee is not a place where you just pluck money on trees! You gotta be smart about it!

  • @ikemmanuel7859
    @ikemmanuel7859 Před 6 měsíci +5

    How can I be live with you and you're asking me questions and I'm explaining to you and the audience, but you're on your phone texting and making calls throughout. You only care abt money gun and stars. This is just disrespectful to your guest. Go and learn some things about communication competency Mr Freeze. It's rude and disrespectful to be on your phone when you're communicating with someone. You have been consistent with this behavior and finally need to let you know of your bad habit. Or are you addicted to your phone?

  • @doczeee9817
    @doczeee9817 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This man is one of the realest man in DF interviews. I live in America and I thank God every day that am here. All these people saying they love or will never japa from Nigeria are the same people that have access to leave if anything goes wrong in Nigeria. Some had their kids abroad or sent their kids abroad to school.

  • @Victorochad
    @Victorochad Před 6 měsíci +11

    Why i don't like Daddy freez broadcast is he don't care about them and his not listening to them just there pretending to be listening..hhmm hhmm..

    • @idehenreosas3969
      @idehenreosas3969 Před 6 měsíci +1

      He does until you mention what will trigger him😂
      But of course you don't want him to be interrupting the guests. Just the way some complain about Nedu.😂😂

    • @ojvic7297
      @ojvic7297 Před 6 měsíci +3

      He's a good listener!!!
      I used to think the same until you say something he doesn't agree with

    • @fluxnekta
      @fluxnekta Před 6 měsíci

      ⁠@@ojvic7297na recently them Tony one week cast am he been nor de listen before oh 😂😂😂😂

    • @doczeee9817
      @doczeee9817 Před 6 měsíci +5

      He should at least be more communicating. He is always looking at his phone or doing other things which doesn't look good to me

    • @idehenreosas3969
      @idehenreosas3969 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@doczeee9817 don't forget, it's his platform. We are the one coming to listen and if we don't like his mannerisms we just leave. That's how I view him. I just pick the message. I imagine it like I am listening to an audio message

  • @ladoohvillz9236
    @ladoohvillz9236 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Daddy freeze. I’m your fan but you’re surly doing nonsense by not being attentive. Why invite them in the first place?

    • @123418205
      @123418205 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I don't know what he is always looking down or looking for.its very rude.

    • @Adamsilvarr
      @Adamsilvarr Před 6 měsíci

      You're right bro
      He's always doing something else instead of paying attention or busy chewing nuts 😂

    • @23293
      @23293 Před 5 měsíci

      he lacks multitasking skills

    • @dillionwon6587
      @dillionwon6587 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@23293I true, he doesn't act professionally most times.

  • @yomiolaosebikan5402
    @yomiolaosebikan5402 Před 6 měsíci +3

    How can you have a good business and a good job and go and work in a factory let me tell you America is hard you are working for the system

  • @Itsme_cjayraw
    @Itsme_cjayraw Před 6 měsíci +1

    The guy speaking may get into trouble for violating traffic rules and law in the states. He is driving and making video call that is risky. Daddy freeze safety of his life and that of others are key. Apart from that what he is saying is on point

  • @kuburaalawiye1732
    @kuburaalawiye1732 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Please fellow nigeria we should all invest in our country nigeria, that is how we can make nigeria great again, if we don't invest in our country other people from different countries will take over our country from us,we don't know the value of what we have until it is gone that old man is taking rushed, if you don't have money to invest in nigeria then don't do it but if you have money please everybody invest in nigeria. Some people will say nigeria is not a good country but every year they go to nigeria to enjoy themselves, when you say that nigeria is not good why going over there then stay where you are and work till you die, period. I know some people saying that nigeria is not a good country but at the back of you they are investing in nigeria. So people you should make your own decisions for yourself don't let others mislead you. No where is easy, think about it.
    Good luck to everybody

  • @Zebra78887
    @Zebra78887 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Why having a dialogue with a moderator that doesn't give you 100% of his time? He's busy fidgeting while you're talking. How rude!

    • @dumdisigborogbosi6183
      @dumdisigborogbosi6183 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Oh my God , it's so so unprofessional to distract your self and your audience while conversation is ongoing.

    • @ayatollahigboland4612
      @ayatollahigboland4612 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Definitely, it's very disrespectful for DF to treat his guests with this non chalant attitude 😊

  • @Rita80ify
    @Rita80ify Před 6 měsíci +5

    Let them come legally, if not its really difficult.

    • @FactsUncompromized
      @FactsUncompromized Před 6 měsíci

      Said the same . First ask them of their status.

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 Před 2 měsíci

      Agreed, legal immigration is fine, I am not paying for any illegal not even for their jailtime

  • @radepeter8415
    @radepeter8415 Před 6 měsíci

    This man is very knowledgeable.

  • @oscarndika822
    @oscarndika822 Před 6 měsíci

    This man said it all. 100 percent correct

  • @user-yx5je2pm4t
    @user-yx5je2pm4t Před 6 měsíci +2

    Loneliness is the biggest problem in abroad

  • @oladroid
    @oladroid Před 6 měsíci

    This man nailed everything

  • @sholadistinct
    @sholadistinct Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you Daddy freeze for this interview

  • @aghoghobernard
    @aghoghobernard Před 6 měsíci

    You have to build a credit score to do anything in the Americas. So it's almost inevitable not to have debts. The system is designed that way. Most people don't earn far more than their expenses. Tax is high

  • @inmythoughts718
    @inmythoughts718 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Loneliness abroad my foot.. people are just afraid to get out meet people - not everyone needs to be Nigerian..

    • @aprilprebai9255
      @aprilprebai9255 Před 6 měsíci +2

      What if other people are not receptive will you force them besides it’s not your country things will be different

  • @solomonjoe4532
    @solomonjoe4532 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Nice update

  • @joyibrahim8280
    @joyibrahim8280 Před 6 měsíci

    God bless you sir

  • @osasosasco2615
    @osasosasco2615 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Make una nor make personal story general everyone's story is different ooo...as for me I have holiday well I rest well I catch my fun well Europe has changed my life am happy and well if you are doing well in naija fine but if u not Europe is better...uk stem or not all job are good and dignified not only science everyone has his own comfort

    • @HopeFufilled-re3vr
      @HopeFufilled-re3vr Před 6 měsíci

      What do you mean by UK stem... how does it relate to topic at hannd?. please shed light.Thanks

    • @osasosasco2615
      @osasosasco2615 Před 6 měsíci

      @HopeFufilled-re3vr mistake it was suppose to be system..I meant all job are good in the UK 🇬🇧 and all job has dignity this suffering they are talking about is because most people come here with 3 or 4kids to start up yes or will be difficult for them but as a single person you can establish yourself first then send for your family later this one they all saying they don't have time for anything and is all work my brother it depends on your vision if you want to be comfortable in life without thinking of building mansion I banana island 🏝 u will be fine and happy here

    • @osasosasco2615
      @osasosasco2615 Před 6 měsíci

      @HopeFufilled-re3vr a white man is so comfortable in life that all they need is to work and go on vacation twice in a year but our naija people them go work all tru the years abeg make them blame themselves joor...as I dey talk to u now am on vacation 3weeks I have 259hours in a year to spread out not including other merited holiday like child birth and so many ooo..which one be they can't have fun 😀 greedy people make them use work kill themselves they were not force to do it me na 1 job I get 😀 am satisfied with what I have thank you

  • @johnfamous6316
    @johnfamous6316 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Everyone stories are different. No matter the matter, Nigeria is still the place and the best. What y'all know today, Nigeria thought you. Abroad isn't meant for black folks.... If you don't believe me wait until you're old. Your own children that you labor for to an extent will not be the most likely. The system was just like that. So be careful and plan well. Ajo ko le da bi Ile. Be wise!

    • @Beyondbraids
      @Beyondbraids Před 6 měsíci +4

      What will your children get from Nigerian system? Kids get more opportunities in a foreign land than their own country? Don’t over your boundaries in another man’s country! It is what it is! Nigeria as it stand today has nothing to offer a common man.

    • @johnfamous6316
      @johnfamous6316 Před 6 měsíci

      Let's keep an eye please. Just wishing y'all well

    • @ikemmanuel7859
      @ikemmanuel7859 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@Beyondbraidsyour kids will probably not come back to Naija once you're old and gone to rest. All the stuff you labor for will go to extended families and strangers. All these abroad kids are not Nigerians !

  • @doctimothy
    @doctimothy Před 6 měsíci +1

    All these America based people are always doing these live interviews in their car. Is it that they live in their car or the interview session met them on the road?

  • @ebasski4958
    @ebasski4958 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Please come back to Nigeria if you are not comfortable abroad.
    It's your choice.

    • @amudatwuraola5373
      @amudatwuraola5373 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Emeka, they wish to but they can't. What are they coming back to live on when they have no savings at home. It takes years to settle abroad. It seems you are interested in japaing. l wish you all the best on your next step.

    • @ebasski4958
      @ebasski4958 Před 6 měsíci

      @@amudatwuraola5373 Kindy assist them to come back. Fulfill their wish for them. God will bless you.

  • @geesrec
    @geesrec Před 6 měsíci

    Who says you can't recreate urself in Nigeria? Lots of people fell from grace ro grass and then back up here in Nigeria too. The percentage may be small but it doesn happen.

  • @lawrenceisong7324
    @lawrenceisong7324 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You only talk about the work money, work, job but fail to talk about the expenses. You get paid and the system collects the money through various outrageous bills. My sister pays an equivalent of N1.5M per month for house rent. Iand yet the house is not a beautiful and spacious as my 2 bedroom apartment that I pay N500,000 a YEAR for. You're just working there to pay bills. Naija is fun. Our only problem here is bad governance. But you have a high chance of making it overnight in Nigeria than abroad. Just make ya brother be ordinary P.A to LGA chairman and your life can change overnight.😁

  • @ibaileibaomo7660
    @ibaileibaomo7660 Před 16 dny

    Funny how people praise abroad when they are on camera or visit naija, meanwhile they question their decision to leave their native country in secret.

  • @sijuadeadedeji8324
    @sijuadeadedeji8324 Před 6 měsíci

    make una dey there. God bless the United States of America. Like I always say, if you won't make it, dem no go give you visa.

  • @johnfamous6316
    @johnfamous6316 Před 6 měsíci

    If the money can buy everything in America... Please buy happiness then. The man self is contradicting himself.

  • @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz
    @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz Před 6 měsíci

    Why

  • @judeskylabardooo8286
    @judeskylabardooo8286 Před 6 měsíci

    These folks will still vote for a crook because he is of the same tribe.

  • @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz
    @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz Před 6 měsíci

    Japa is all about money abroad

  • @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz
    @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz Před 6 měsíci

    Please talk for yourself Sir

  • @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz
    @OreEmmanuel-ev8oz Před 6 měsíci

    Is all about money you are just talking about

  • @SamA-wx9zq
    @SamA-wx9zq Před 6 měsíci +1

    He's speaking the truth....I see all that in the UK now..after twenty something years here 😢

    • @dillionwon6587
      @dillionwon6587 Před 5 měsíci

      Exactly, all what he said is similar in the UK.