My sister's baby daddy pretty much told her the same thing, said he wasn't down for changing diapers either. UNTIL YOUR COMMENT, I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT LIKE THAT , but you have a point. Dam, that makes a lot of sense.
@@Fan-qu8qystop “feeling bad” for them 🤦🏾♂️. We need to bring back shame and disownment in the black community because all this “feeling bad” and cuddling black women *and men* mistakes is not helping our community at all
This lady is a red flag. So you let a man disrespect you, cheat, live with you, treat you like ish, and you still let him clap again? This woman doesn't think beyond lust, and it shows. Fighting for a man who is actually loyal is worth it. Fighting for a dude who won't even claim you as his own is dumb. This woman literally just fought Kendra for this man. Ladies, learn to leave when it's bad and stay gone. Kids or not, you only f***ing yourselves over taking back exes who did you dirty.
Some women are emotionally co-dependant, everyone has been there at some point wether your cognizant of it or NOT . As a woman who thankfully was never down this bad I have empathy for her. She probably has unresolved childhood trauma. IF, a woman knowingly takes a man who lets you know after bearing his kids your not his girl, and you continue to force a relationship, it's evident this person has a problem. Let's not judge her we all have internal struggles, it's just we aren't honest about them . 🙍
@@zoraidacastro2703She's emotionally co-dependant. It's not that easy. Just like a woman/man w) Stockholm syndrome or DV. It's the same script different cast. Nothing in this interview gave me a lack of accountability or self awareness. She needs to do internal work .
@@AnnHL-gt6kh I can honestly say that I've never been emotionally co-dependant. My typical response to stress and other negative emotions is to separate myself from human beings and seek nature. But I get what you're saying.
When I asked the question, “What’s the purpose of a relationship?”, people replied to me as if I were crazy. There really is no point to a relationship if marriage is the desire.
Sleeping with a known cheater raw dog at 40 years old! Jeopardizing your health behind community d&@? when you have children to live for is full on insanity!
It's amazing to me that even as an older woman when describing her perfect mate has no qualities about his personality or how he cares for her. But it's all about di#k, looks and money. We are truly in a shallow age
@@kevinlee9929that's crazy to me. I really don't believe nowadays people connect on deeper levels...men and women both superficial. No wonder none of the relationships last
She refuses to acknowledge that when that man said "YOU AREN'T MY GIRL" he meant it. He needed somewhere to stay and someone to lay under when he wanted to. She was his sucker. Period. And until she smartens up, she's going to continue to be taken advantage of.
Unfortunately now she's his sucker forever, which sadly is the risk of messing with pookies. Not only is she attached spiritually, physically, because women don't understand, each men they have sex with, they are married to, now she also is attached through child birth.
Did he marry her? No. Then why is she having a baby for him. He has demonstrated zero commitment but she's choosing to have a baby. She CHOSE this. She CHOSE another fatherless child. She did this because she is SELFISH. stop making excuses.
Anyone else notice one of the older kids in the background feeding and raising the baby while their mom is embarrassing herself on a national platform trying to find a man
Right! I got sadder each time the son walked in the room holding the baby :( Clearly they need her, I hope she can rewatch this and pour more into her children instead of men.
@@kevinlee9929and I respect those that don’t on a public forum - save that for 1:1 convos. It definitely gave extremely immature, especially considering the 4 month old. 😶
There was NO PRESSURE on that guy to do anything for her, plain and simple. My biggest fear from a woman like her is the imprint her ex still has on her, NO WAY.
I got the impression she’s not messing around with the guy anymore strictly because HE got tired of HER and can come back around when ever he feels like it.
@@asdfghj13579fly Logically we ALL want to think so, but there's a lot to be said of the familiarity of a baby daddy especially as we all get older. Remember, she carried him, his kids, and the bills. She said he paid bills, but the funny thing about bills in a household that's in your name, other folks be questioning the amount or can't pay right away, so I don't think he was a reliable contributor to the bills. So any improvement he makes on any of these things will let him back in. It also sounds like she has no boundaries(he can stop by anytime to "see the kids") when it pertains to him, he probably still has some keys to her place.
@@GETBIG4WARD I hear ya, but I think more know about it than are willing to admit it, it goes against the "strong independent woman" narrative. However, I do understand why some single mothers have to proclaim that "strong independent" stance.
@@katerab4916You better tell em. I see so many "baby daddies " that have went on to marry women WITHOUT children. They be living their best lives 😂😂😂😂
When the felon comes home, she'll be dropping her so called boyfriend for the felon fresh out of jail. That's wrong on so many levels. Her heart belongs to her baby daddy.
She’s very delusional. He didn’t have to lead her on the voices in her head did 😕 she honestly should’ve kept this to herself. Now she’s going to attract more users.
It’s easy ..it’s not dating ..it’s just having sex ..once kids are asleep …guy comes round. .. they get to it …kids come out ..no marriage , no plan , no real commitment , no values , no covenant …just lust
I can’t wrap my mind around this. Why did you have a child with someone who said they didn’t want to be with you FOR YEARS?? She must have abandonment issues.
This is the problem with you women. You always make excuses for each other and mollycoddle each other. It creates women like this and with no accountability so you lot can never grow up or grow. You then run from anything mentally that holds you to your actual harsh reality or shows you in a bad light which is just a disaster.
She’s not in a position to be looking for a man , she should’ve properly vetted her child’s father , no high value man should have to come in and sacrifice his time and money over her mistakes , not only that but she’s 40 still making 20 year old mistakes it’s freaking ridiculous!
He clearly wanted something that she got ,which don’t make sense , she should’ve stopped messing around with him and giving Him the goods without him working for it
The fact that she didn't want to say whether or not he was good in bed clearly shows that she is still concerned with who he is/could be sleeping with. And this clearly shows that she still wants him... he just don't want her. This was actually quite sad.
@@joyceg7859I think it was that she tried to say her last baby daddy wasn’t good in bed and after Kendra pressed it more she took it back and said obviously the sex wasn’t trash. That just makes it seem like she didn’t want to give him a good review because she didn’t want people to hit him up. If she didn’t want to comment on the sex with him at all she could’ve just said she doesn’t want to comment on the sex but she chose to lie about it first and had already spoken about how good sex was important to her and that she left her first baby daddy because of it so clearly her not leaving this one means the sex had to be good and she just wanted to lie about it
Kudos to kendra for finally putting her foot down and str8 interrogating these women!!! Women who are childless and still have a chance need to be tuned in to see these women get there reality check!
@@StatenIslandTony1974 It’s only because she has no choice now but to see it. She was just as delusional as them when she first started. It’s taken a lot of these crazy women to show her the reality out here. And she’s still not fully out of the 2023 delusion of women today. It’s still ingrained in her.
Kendra - leave her where she is. She is gonna entertain every male with a pulse that reaches out to her and sends her good morning texts after this show, even while she’s suppose to be supervising children that are visiting. 🤷🏾♀️
The answer is simple: she has a four month old; leave the dating marketplace and go back to your child's father. Once a woman decides to be irresponsible with her womb, it's pretty much a wrap for her
No it’s not. There are always plenty of pookies, ray ray’s and simps that will tend to her needs. There is always the male or female counterpart for these foolish people.
She doesn't have that option. He wanted to play house but wasn't really ready to settle down. She foolishly had the 4 month old with him. Now 2 kids have a deadbeat Dad and an immature mother.
@God-Love-Freedom NEWS FLASH: We don't live a culture anymore and haven't for a while. This is all a direct result of being raised on television (and they say marketing has no power) and the wrong idea_narrative gets pushed to the forefront. I thought a woman having a child was the highest honor she can give a man. What happened with that?
Kendra: when did he go to jail, you left all that out! Her: you didn’t ask that! Me: this is why I don’t believe a word these people say when it comes to relationships.
@@momann1822Yeah I was thinking how many men i her life went to jail if she thinks Kendra was supposed to know to ask that. Most people never been locked up but apparently she knows a lot of them 😅
She lacks emotional maturity. Unfortunately, she will likely repeat choices she made in the past regarding relationships. Until she gets therapy. If anyone decides to reach out it will probably be for one reason only, and it won't be for the reason she stated she wanted. 🙏🏽
Honestly this is proof why you really can’t mess with people with infant children. It’s hard to cut that soul tie. Making a baby is making that soul tie stronger. Seems like she only on the show because her baby daddy refuses to be with her - but if he ever wanted her she would be with him so quick.
The kitty is imprinted...he owns it. You are 1000% correct, many many women are a text away from a quarterly reconnect (I literally reach out once a quarter). I have a couple women that will give me a soft no for a reconnect, the more persistence on my part provides her the rationalization that 'just this one time' is A-ok for her :) Persistence helps her to separate from it being cheating, it's more like her helping a friend in need. ,,in her mind.
WARNING: THIS 40 YEAR OLD FEMALE IS IMMATURE. This became a therapy session. This woman needs therapy and make better choices, she dated a jailbird. I wish her the best.
@@akimat418 yes. This is 40, trying to be the new 20. Who talks about winie sizes that much? I hope she gets the help she needs before going into the dating pool. If I had four kids, I would focus on their upbringing. I'm not sure she's healed from giving birth.
I thought kendra would drown in this sea of female delusion. She is getting more stern because she is learning to swim. I am proud of her growth, i take my hat off to her bravo.
Sometimes I wonder how some people survive from day to day.I hope she gets counseling and gets her life together because she has 4 babies to take care of.This is why there are so many messed up adults in the world.
Legitimately, I wonder how they manage to not just walk into traffic on any given day just because they don’t understand that moving cars are dangerous!
The part of this that makes me sad is she had this man who clearly used her within his convenience was around her boys :(. Your life doesn’t have to stop once you have children, but you do have to be careful about how you date. Why have someone who’s not serious about you in your babies’ lives? I hope she watches this back and hears herself also. Sometimes we don’t realize how silly we’ve been until we see things from the outside looking in.
Do not allow a man to move into your home, don’t even entertain one who would even consider it, do not link yourself to a man in jail or prison in ANY way (you know in your heart of hearts that you are WASTING YOUR TIME and can do MUCH better,) stay out of situationships, stop having children with people who haven’t made a legitimate and significant commitment to you and most importantly stop prioritizing the physical over the character and heart of your partner
@@SweetEssie if you think that this CLEARLY scattered woman and the useless degenerate she described to Kendra have a chance at a stable/healthy/viable relationship, your judgment is off and you are clearly lost. I pray you wouldn’t link yourself to someone like him. Sometimes people shouldn’t be together, whether they have children together or not. Sometimes it’s best to end things, spend some time alone, sort yourself out and raise your children. That’s the issue I see with many of Kendra’s guests, their lives are in shambles and yet they are still looking for companionship. Priorities are clearly off.
@@SweetEssie this is true, however entering into another ghetto union with him would be bad for her and her children. The “relationship” is not viable and she should move on as a single woman for some time.
As soon as he falls out with whoever he is currently sleeping with... and needs a place to stay, he will be at her front door and she is going to let him walk right in smh
I believe after she realized she was the fool, she tried to back peddle and be contrary. A man had one time to tell me we are not together. Come on baby, you’re 40. Kendra does a great job of getting to the bottom line and self reflection even if they don’t want to admit it.
Don't fall for this woman. She still loves her babies daddy still, and he will always be in her heart. So pass this one up. She makes a good side chick.
There's a spiritual/philosopher dude I follow that says women that have a baby for a man belong to that man FOREVER. So men should never try to seriously be with a single mother
Another one...those earrings, tanktop and manly tattoos were clear signs. I believe she's still sleeping with the last kids father. She spent this entire segment defending this man who clearly never wanted more than sex and a place to rest his Playstation.
Kendra pretty much broke it down. Bravo. Important information the guy who's interested needs to know. Especially that her baby daddy was just released from jail and she will go back to him, all he has to do is ask.
Ladies, this is a PSA. Casual relationships should NOT lead to permanent babies. The more I watch the more ridiculous this interview gets. How in the world do you feel comfortable cominh on a show and tell the world, you had 2 kids by a man who told you to your face he didn't W A N T you. Then have the nerve to say I'm not going to talk about his sex because I don't want these women to take my 'mam'. Then goes onto describe the new man and her focus is D*CK. You can't make this ish up. Ladies, we have to do better.
Kendra's app is going to be worse than Tinder and POF. I can see it now. Not a shade at Kendra at all, just going by the guests on here. Good luck to the men that join!
Why in the HELL is she on a dating show with a 4 month old? Lady you need to be focused on that newborn and not a man. She's another single mother statistic. Fellas keep getting your passports and expanding your dating pool.
If a man is literally telling you that you’re not his girlfriend you really need to take that and listen what is there to fight for if he’s not wanting to be with you You’re literally wasting your own time and his time
There are some people that feel like they can’t move on to someone else that’s why they choose to stay and tolerate the toxic relationship that they are in
The classic sign of let them keep talking. 40 years old and for the streets. He blew her back out, and that's all she needed. Ma'am, keep draining balls.
Any man hearing ALL these details about her past with her ex will judge her and continuously throw this $hit up in her face. In other words she will not find any man of quality once they know that she let a jailbird move up in her house. I need men and women with children 2 and under to focus on their children and not dating. I think single mothers lose sight of the fact that some men are predators and will solely go after them to have access to the children. These type of men think that they "deserve" access to your children as part of their payment or getting something back for helping financially with kids that don't belong to them. BE CAREFUL LADIES!!!!😊
This is sad! She is a 40 year old woman and her decision making process is so convoluted! Just think how she is going to lead her daughters!! We need and CAN do better in the black community.
I LOVE watching these shows to support Kendra and I also find them entertaining. I am embarrassed to say I find them entertaining, because at the same time I find a lot tof these sad to watch. This show really sho wcases how delusional men and women are(mostly women) in their search of love. As a single divorcee who has been single and abstaining for a long time I understand the need and want to be in a healthy relationship, but I do not understand the willingness to come on a live show and showcase ALL of your worst attributes in the hopes of finding true love. I truly hope everyone finds what they are looking for.❤
Finally a woman that sees most delusion comes from the female gender majority can’t even find a man with a pulse but come up here demanding the best 😂😂
I make sure my teen son watches this to see a slice of blk female nature in the west- hood mama's looking for big peens,, dark-skinned with swag. Basically adavistic mating habits. That way he will know what to expect, and he can better understand the type of men they look for and are quick to lay down with
Truthfully... similar to Kevin Samuels clips... yall should know that these are just the hightlights from a longer version. She has more sane people on the Live show. Many of them STILL have wild expectations...some don't though.
@@jesterarts734 that’s cool. It would be good if she would highlight all the couples or married folks that are in good relationships as a result of her show. That seems like it would add a lot of credibility.
I love her to pieces but the follow up questions per her journalism degree are primary school level at best😅ie what would you say to the man that says you have 50-11 kids and is cautious. Pookeisha says every time "well i guess he ain't the one for me😅
This is someone that shouldn’t be looking for a new guy. Not only should be focused on her children, but she needs to focus on herself. She continues to make poor choices in partners and wonders why she’s in the situation she’s in. She’s also not over the latest baby daddy.
Congratulations, you played yourself. And while doing so, brought life into this world to suffer from your decisions. Do I even need to list the problems kids in this environment are forced to face?
Lord she said women always want to take her man? … girl he was homeless!!!! Ugh this logic don’t make no sense. Lord not he was in jail. Girl log off you don’t even need internet privileges
This show makes me heal my inner child cause Chile... lord knows I made mistakes in dating... I've accepted my part in all of it. I'm always thankful a child didnt spawn out it.. whew 😥
She is not ready for a relationship. She’s just trying to move on because the men don’t want her anymore. You can tell her face conversation she’s going through that stage I don’t need you I can move on to so that this point she just gonna take anything.
Problems 1. When women like her say "everything was good", her definition usually means she puts up with any and all BS of the guy. 2. Women like her NEVER LEAVE any man. When they say they left someone, its a big fat lie. The dude just runs off and never comes back. 3. She has no idea what a man should be doing because she has no idea what she should be doing.
Girl the kitty isn't even healed. YOU aren't even healed SMH
Lol Right.
Right..honestly it's hard to even envision her with a baby cause she looks old and doesn't seem nurturing AT ALL😕
She don't care
😮💨 Exactly!
@@poetryinmotion1708I agree - that random “hey” when she yelled at the “company”scared the crap out of me 😂 she needs to take a seat.
I haven't met one woman with a chest tattoo that makes responsible decisions.
😂
Rihanna
@@ariamason9324Even Rhianna has kids and is unmarried.
@@ariamason9324
Your reading comprehension is low. I've never met Rhianna and you probably haven't either.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She DIDN’T decide it was over, HE DID!!! 🤦🏾♀️
Oh yeah but he’ll be back when the baby gets a little older he don’t wanna hear all that crying
@@Nikkiiiiii-nc7oc Either way, it wan not a deal breaker, all he had to remind is that "they're not together" and she backed off.
My sister's baby daddy pretty much told her the same thing, said he wasn't down for changing diapers either. UNTIL YOUR COMMENT, I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT LIKE THAT , but you have a point. Dam, that makes a lot of sense.
Please say this louder. And he’s a jail bird.
Embarrassment
A lot of people be looking for a relationship when they actually need to be working on themselves
!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She is totally unqualified to work on herself, on heavy machinery, on office equipment…she only qualified to work on her back.
"I wanted to be with him, he didn't want to be with me". I respect her honesty. A lot of women wrongly think that having a baby will keep a man.
He used her
idk how when single mothers are everywhere so if they still believing that idk what to say.
@@mezxth00935never underestimate the power of humans to delude themselves
@@SylisDaCheesCakeGoathe used her and she tried to trapped him with the recent baby.
@@DarthFurie well this convo is kinda cringe
No, this will not be me in my 40s with 4 kids talking like I am 14...
"talking like I'm 14." THAT PART...cause how at this BIG age???
😂😂😂😂
Baggage 😮😮😮
When she said he was In Jail 😢😂
All those tats all over her chest. That'll look real nice when you're 80
Never underestimate a woman’s ability to rationalize bad behavior/choices. 😮💨
She doesn’t even get that she sounds crazy
Woman and rationalize is an oxymoron.
Big dinosaur facts!!
She's extremely immature. No hope.
That was mind blowing when I realized this
Having multiple children with someone that doesn’t want you is wild
JUNGLE WILD!!!😂😂
@@Fan-qu8qystop “feeling bad” for them 🤦🏾♂️. We need to bring back shame and disownment in the black community because all this “feeling bad” and cuddling black women *and men* mistakes is not helping our community at all
Diabolical
Ridiculously wild! And she was in her THIRTIES 😮😢
Most men will sleep with anything and could care less about you, sick world we are in .
This lady is a red flag. So you let a man disrespect you, cheat, live with you, treat you like ish, and you still let him clap again? This woman doesn't think beyond lust, and it shows. Fighting for a man who is actually loyal is worth it. Fighting for a dude who won't even claim you as his own is dumb. This woman literally just fought Kendra for this man. Ladies, learn to leave when it's bad and stay gone. Kids or not, you only f***ing yourselves over taking back exes who did you dirty.
she needed to learn to walk away
A red flag? She's a whole six flags flapping in the wind. Whew Chile. 🙄🙄🙄
Some women are emotionally co-dependant, everyone has been there at some point wether your cognizant of it or NOT . As a woman who thankfully was never down this bad I have empathy for her. She probably has unresolved childhood trauma. IF, a woman knowingly takes a man who lets you know after bearing his kids your not his girl, and you continue to force a relationship, it's evident this person has a problem. Let's not judge her we all have internal struggles, it's just we aren't honest about them . 🙍
@@zoraidacastro2703She's emotionally co-dependant. It's not that easy. Just like a woman/man w) Stockholm syndrome or DV. It's the same script different cast. Nothing in this interview gave me a lack of accountability or self awareness. She needs to do internal work .
@@AnnHL-gt6kh I can honestly say that I've never been emotionally co-dependant. My typical response to stress and other negative emotions is to separate myself from human beings and seek nature. But I get what you're saying.
Relationships are not marriage. Repeat relationships are not marriages. Black people are on the slow bus when it come to building strong families.
Not even on a bus. Successful Marriages are not happening unless both parties were raised marriage-minded.
Linking her to have sex and eat the kids cereal in the morning is not a relationship
and marriage ain't ish..my grandparents were married 60 years..it was nothing to idealize
When I asked the question, “What’s the purpose of a relationship?”, people replied to me as if I were crazy. There really is no point to a relationship if marriage is the desire.
@Roccofan The only Men getting married in the US are the extremely rich and the extremely poor. Everyone else is trying to hold on to their 2 nickels.
Sleeping with a known cheater raw dog at 40 years old! Jeopardizing your health behind community d&@? when you have children to live for is full on insanity!
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Exactly
She is like a teenager in the mind.
"Blk women stop developing after the age of 14" - a wise person.
A toddler
😂😂😂😂
@@breal1266😂😂😂😂😂
Men her age might as well date younger. What’s the difference?😒😒
The mental gymnastics folks go through when confronted with their own foolish decisions is astounding.
40 damn years old and this is her logic 🥴
It's amazing to me that even as an older woman when describing her perfect mate has no qualities about his personality or how he cares for her. But it's all about di#k, looks and money. We are truly in a shallow age
Older woman are just looking to cash out on brothers
Most women who come on here dealbreakers are height and income. Even when KG brings up character. It often gets dismissed.
@@kevinlee9929that's crazy to me. I really don't believe nowadays people connect on deeper levels...men and women both superficial. No wonder none of the relationships last
And heavy on package size - like that’s so wild to me, especially to say out loud.
There's a reason why sisters are the least sought after group of women for marriage
In 6 months he'll come by to "see the kids" and things will "just happen " and she'll be in a "relationship " with him until he cheats again
And be on baby #6
Both comments!!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯
And another baby 🤣
She refuses to acknowledge that when that man said "YOU AREN'T MY GIRL" he meant it. He needed somewhere to stay and someone to lay under when he wanted to. She was his sucker. Period. And until she smartens up, she's going to continue to be taken advantage of.
Unfortunately now she's his sucker forever, which sadly is the risk of messing with pookies. Not only is she attached spiritually, physically, because women don't understand, each men they have sex with, they are married to, now she also is attached through child birth.
Did he marry her? No. Then why is she having a baby for him.
He has demonstrated zero commitment but she's choosing to have a baby.
She CHOSE this. She CHOSE another fatherless child. She did this because she is SELFISH.
stop making excuses.
That chest tattoo said enough for me...😭😭
👍🏿👍🏿
The ole “Hoodrat Stamp of Approval.”
And those big hoop earrings. “The bigger the hoops the bigger the …”
😂😂@@bryanbeeman5256
Agreed
Anyone else notice one of the older kids in the background feeding and raising the baby while their mom is embarrassing herself on a national platform trying to find a man
Yes it’s disgusting 😢
Right! I got sadder each time the son walked in the room holding the baby :(
Clearly they need her, I hope she can rewatch this and pour more into her children instead of men.
Right!!!!
Yes! Stop searching for another man to chase and focus on caring for your children YOURSELF!!
LMAO, she 40 with 4 kids still talking about quality of sex as a high priority.
😂
Sad, very sad
I respect her honesty. The same is true for alot of women. Many just won't say it.
@@kevinlee9929and I respect those that don’t on a public forum - save that for 1:1 convos. It definitely gave extremely immature, especially considering the 4 month old. 😶
Sad bc at her big age she's never been loved and equates sex to a man wanting to be with her
There was NO PRESSURE on that guy to do anything for her, plain and simple. My biggest fear from a woman like her is the imprint her ex still has on her, NO WAY.
I got the impression she’s not messing around with the guy anymore strictly because HE got tired of HER and can come back around when ever he feels like it.
Majority of women don’t believe in imprinting but it’s real
I’ve definitely been with a person like this…& still will fight for the wrong in the persons wrongs. 🙄
@@asdfghj13579fly Logically we ALL want to think so, but there's a lot to be said of the familiarity of a baby daddy especially as we all get older. Remember, she carried him, his kids, and the bills. She said he paid bills, but the funny thing about bills in a household that's in your name, other folks be questioning the amount or can't pay right away, so I don't think he was a reliable contributor to the bills. So any improvement he makes on any of these things will let him back in. It also sounds like she has no boundaries(he can stop by anytime to "see the kids") when it pertains to him, he probably still has some keys to her place.
@@GETBIG4WARD I hear ya, but I think more know about it than are willing to admit it, it goes against the "strong independent woman" narrative. However, I do understand why some single mothers have to proclaim that "strong independent" stance.
She tried to baby trap a pookie! 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
A baby will never keep a man! Never!
@@katerab4916You better tell em. I see so many "baby daddies " that have went on to marry women WITHOUT children. They be living their best lives 😂😂😂😂
@@erehistruth2356living in total bliss and getting “them” kids on the weekend 😂
A baby is the quickest way to lose a male who already didn’t really want you for real…
She's 40 going on 19 🤦🏽♀️
She is totally lost
You’re being to kind… my thoughts exactly but definitely 40 going on 15 🤨. She is #Clueless
dont do 19 year olds like that.
19 no more like 9 she dum
Ladies, y’all need to rehearse y’all baby daddy stories before y’all come on here 🤣🤣 it’s the foolishness for me
When a person shows you who they are and in this case TELLS you straight up - believe them. There was no fight to pursue.
The man spent two years in prison and she still had another kid with him. What man is going to want to marry that and raise a felon's kids. Insane
When the felon comes home, she'll be dropping her so called boyfriend for the felon fresh out of jail. That's wrong on so many levels. Her heart belongs to her baby daddy.
@@MacMillerJohnson Maybe Trick, since he loves the kids 🤣 but, seriously - I agree.
@@Jazzy-mt3ht Sad truth!
She’s very delusional. He didn’t have to lead her on the voices in her head did 😕 she honestly should’ve kept this to herself. Now she’s going to attract more users.
She’s 40 so at her age no one feels sorry for her anymore
She sat there and said if you cheat on me I won’t leave you. I’m sure she won’t 🤦🏾♀️.
I have ONE child…and I will never understand where these woman find time to even attempt dating with so many kids.
Its insane.
It’s easy ..it’s not dating ..it’s just having sex ..once kids are asleep …guy comes round. .. they get to it …kids come out ..no marriage , no plan , no real commitment , no values , no covenant …just lust
They found it in the same place they found the time to hunch and procreate 😅
Right? Putting her sons through all this for a jailbird??? Terrible.
I can’t wrap my mind around this. Why did you have a child with someone who said they didn’t want to be with you FOR YEARS?? She must have abandonment issues.
This is the problem with you women. You always make excuses for each other and mollycoddle each other. It creates women like this and with no accountability so you lot can never grow up or grow.
You then run from anything mentally that holds you to your actual harsh reality or shows you in a bad light which is just a disaster.
She can't even explain her own life.
That's how you know it's a mess.
40 year old woman, talking like a teenager. 😂
she seem to be kind of slow
I have seen a lot of women like her it’s called “arrested development” they still sound like teens they also believe in Disney stories a lot too
@@GETBIG4WARDmajority of em.
She’s not in a position to be looking for a man , she should’ve properly vetted her child’s father , no high value man should have to come in and sacrifice his time and money over her mistakes , not only that but she’s 40 still making 20 year old mistakes it’s freaking ridiculous!
Give her grace. We all have made mistakes. Some wake up sooner than others
@@itsmampeeandmama ok so if we gotta give her grace then we also have to give Jason pope grace for infecting 600 black women with HIV
She is sad. I wouldn't advise my enemies to date this woman.
I'm starting to think the republicans are right about us
@@dmac5808Nah, they know who the degenerates are. They know all of us aren't the same.
She having babies with homeless men. He was living in her house. 🤣
Hobosexual 😂😂😂
I'm so thankful for my father .
I'm thankful for my wife's father. lol
💎
@@Scam-ishI'm thankful that you're married.
Yes I’m so grateful for my father
@@SweetEssie lol yeah one less loser on the market i suppose
Kendra- “why did you have 2 kids by him?”
Her- “because i wanted to be with him but he didn’t want to be with me”
Me- what?
😂
😁😂😸😹
He clearly wanted something that she got ,which don’t make sense , she should’ve stopped messing around with him and giving Him the goods without him working for it
These women 😂
Sure. He knew he had her. When a no good man or woman KNOW they got you, they gonna run game on you.
The fact that she didn't want to say whether or not he was good in bed clearly shows that she is still concerned with who he is/could be sleeping with. And this clearly shows that she still wants him... he just don't want her. This was actually quite sad.
Pathetic really
She doesn't want women after her invisible man.
What do you mean by that. She’s concerned with who he’s sleeping with cuz she didn’t want to answer if he was good in bed ?
@@joyceg7859I think it was that she tried to say her last baby daddy wasn’t good in bed and after Kendra pressed it more she took it back and said obviously the sex wasn’t trash. That just makes it seem like she didn’t want to give him a good review because she didn’t want people to hit him up. If she didn’t want to comment on the sex with him at all she could’ve just said she doesn’t want to comment on the sex but she chose to lie about it first and had already spoken about how good sex was important to her and that she left her first baby daddy because of it so clearly her not leaving this one means the sex had to be good and she just wanted to lie about it
@@jae-annedanae4512 !!! She did actually say that in the video “ ppl already be tryna take my man “ thank you so much for sharing 🌈🌈
Kudos to kendra for finally putting her foot down and str8 interrogating these women!!! Women who are childless and still have a chance need to be tuned in to see these women get there reality check!
Kendra is sounding more like KS everyday. I'm so proud of her!!!! lol
A lot Childless women are outside being whores. We need to teach and prioritize character and morals again
Actually kudos to MR KEVIN SAMUELS😎
@@StatenIslandTony1974 It’s only because she has no choice now but to see it. She was just as delusional as them when she first started. It’s taken a lot of these crazy women to show her the reality out here.
And she’s still not fully out of the 2023 delusion of women today. It’s still ingrained in her.
Getting cheated on an pregnant multiple times by a looser is insane. Leave this 40 year old baby momma for the streets
Can't front brown liquor and a hotel room at 4 am looks fun with her.
Don't let a man tell you he doesn't want you twice.
Kendra - leave her where she is. She is gonna entertain every male with a pulse that reaches out to her and sends her good morning texts after this show, even while she’s suppose to be supervising children that are visiting. 🤷🏾♀️
Probably not every man, he's probably gotta have a little swag, dress well, be tall, Handsome, have other children by multiple women
The answer is simple: she has a four month old; leave the dating marketplace and go back to your child's father. Once a woman decides to be irresponsible with her womb, it's pretty much a wrap for her
No it’s not. There are always plenty of pookies, ray ray’s and simps that will tend to her needs. There is always the male or female counterpart for these foolish people.
Her child's father doesn't want her
Only in our culture do men abusively throw women away after sx and a baby. The leadership is our culture is world renowned. 😊
She doesn't have that option. He wanted to play house but wasn't really ready to settle down. She foolishly had the 4 month old with him. Now 2 kids have a deadbeat Dad and an immature mother.
@God-Love-Freedom NEWS FLASH: We don't live a culture anymore and haven't for a while. This is all a direct result of being raised on television (and they say marketing has no power) and the wrong idea_narrative gets pushed to the forefront. I thought a woman having a child was the highest honor she can give a man. What happened with that?
Kendra: when did he go to jail, you left all that out!
Her: you didn’t ask that!
Me: this is why I don’t believe a word these people say when it comes to relationships.
They will lie by commission or omission.
Ok, people should assume all men went to jail. THAT'S some ghetto sh_t for real.
@@momann1822Yeah I was thinking how many men i her life went to jail if she thinks Kendra was supposed to know to ask that. Most people never been locked up but apparently she knows a lot of them 😅
VETTING is a skill, can't get mad for what you don't ask.
If we slow down and consider what is really happening here... This is a foul deal for a new man.
She's not even over that man...trust she will be playing games to make her ex jealous
@@poetryinmotion1708This is easily the type of situation where the baby's father will still be smashing.
@@poetryinmotion1708 I'd bet good money that she's on the show now JUST to make him jealous. 😂
Nobody's taking this deal unless they're literally underneath the bottom of the barrel and need somewhere to stay or a woman to take advantage of
A lot these contestants as far as women are bad deals but only men can see that other women think she is probably great too
Who in her age group want to help raise a newborn 🤦🏾♂️. At 40 they trying to be done with kids or they should be aging out
At 40 personally imma want all my kids to be basically grown so I can travel with my husband, I don’t want to still be changing diapers
She can try to find her Travis Barker😂😂😂😂😂 jk
I’m 44 she is invisible to men my age and so are other women with small kids 😂😂
😂
She lacks emotional maturity. Unfortunately, she will likely repeat choices she made in the past regarding relationships. Until she gets therapy. If anyone decides to reach out it will probably be for one reason only, and it won't be for the reason she stated she wanted. 🙏🏽
At 40 years old, she would definitely benefit from some therapy! Then she talking about, “This b$&#@ trying to take my man” 😮😳🤨
She also lacks brain matter.
Honestly this is proof why you really can’t mess with people with infant children. It’s hard to cut that soul tie. Making a baby is making that soul tie stronger. Seems like she only on the show because her baby daddy refuses to be with her - but if he ever wanted her she would be with him so quick.
The kitty is imprinted...he owns it. You are 1000% correct, many many women are a text away from a quarterly reconnect (I literally reach out once a quarter). I have a couple women that will give me a soft no for a reconnect, the more persistence on my part provides her the rationalization that 'just this one time' is A-ok for her :) Persistence helps her to separate from it being cheating, it's more like her helping a friend in need. ,,in her mind.
Facts!!!
Facts! One baby mama is all I can deal with.
Yep that’s why I can’t do men with kids under a certain age. Too much unresolved or emotional baggage.
That part 💯 Which is why she kept stating “I’m not goin to let another woman just take him from me” Little girl, he ain’t never been yours!
I had a baby 4 months ago, he won’t let me put him down for 10 minutes. Where do you find the time to look for men??
An Unwedded Baby-Mama, like this D. lovin' desperate broad, look for the peen "by any means", that's how they find the time😂lol😄
She probably drops the baby off at her mama house while she scouts for men
Her vag not ready yet
Selfish people find a way.....
WARNING: THIS 40 YEAR OLD FEMALE IS IMMATURE. This became a therapy session. This woman needs therapy and make better choices, she dated a jailbird. I wish her the best.
She’s very immature!! This was very exhausting!!
@@akimat418 yes. This is 40, trying to be the new 20. Who talks about winie sizes that much? I hope she gets the help she needs before going into the dating pool.
If I had four kids, I would focus on their upbringing. I'm not sure she's healed from giving birth.
Prime example of hearing what you want to hear, instead of hearing what is actually being said to you.
I thought kendra would drown in this sea of female delusion. She is getting more stern because she is learning to swim. I am proud of her growth, i take my hat off to her bravo.
Silly woman. Kendra is not embarrassing her; she’s doing an excellent job of looking that way all by herself.
She’s soo embarrassing
Yep
How do you say "Hell No" in EVERY language?
I'll say it in Spanish for you...¡No!
Here’s French: sûrement pas 😂
In Amharic- ebiyew
😂😂😂😂😂Maya in Somali
Chest tats, 4 kids, there's zero upside
Tell me your ratchet without telling me your ratchet.🤔
She's supporting 4 kids by braiding hair???? You mean the state of New York is supporting you and your kids😅
Braiding hair is extremely lucrative. You can do one head for $450-800
@shawndaniel5503 Especially if she good...
It’s definitely possible
Sometimes I wonder how some people survive from day to day.I hope she gets counseling and gets her life together because she has 4 babies to take care of.This is why there are so many messed up adults in the world.
Legitimately, I wonder how they manage to not just walk into traffic on any given day just because they don’t understand that moving cars are dangerous!
Social aid
Yep yep yep
The part of this that makes me sad is she had this man who clearly used her within his convenience was around her boys :(. Your life doesn’t have to stop once you have children, but you do have to be careful about how you date. Why have someone who’s not serious about you in your babies’ lives? I hope she watches this back and hears herself also. Sometimes we don’t realize how silly we’ve been until we see things from the outside looking in.
Do not allow a man to move into your home, don’t even entertain one who would even consider it, do not link yourself to a man in jail or prison in ANY way (you know in your heart of hearts that you are WASTING YOUR TIME and can do MUCH better,) stay out of situationships, stop having children with people who haven’t made a legitimate and significant commitment to you and most importantly stop prioritizing the physical over the character and heart of your partner
They won’t listen black women love pookie and ray ray moving in their homes.
He was in jail. I'm all for family reunification bc it's not like he was a random. They had kids together. They need to get therapy and work it out.
@@SweetEssie if you think that this CLEARLY scattered woman and the useless degenerate she described to Kendra have a chance at a stable/healthy/viable relationship, your judgment is off and you are clearly lost. I pray you wouldn’t link yourself to someone like him. Sometimes people shouldn’t be together, whether they have children together or not. Sometimes it’s best to end things, spend some time alone, sort yourself out and raise your children. That’s the issue I see with many of Kendra’s guests, their lives are in shambles and yet they are still looking for companionship. Priorities are clearly off.
@shannas7698 I wouldn't be linked to someone like him, but whether you or her like it or not, she's linked forever because of the 2 children.
@@SweetEssie this is true, however entering into another ghetto union with him would be bad for her and her children. The “relationship” is not viable and she should move on as a single woman for some time.
As soon as he falls out with whoever he is currently sleeping with... and needs a place to stay, he will be at her front door and she is going to let him walk right in smh
Or around tax time
I don’t want to be this kind of older, lonely and desperate person!
😂😅
I know female associates well ova 40 in these delusions! They literally make up stories about men that ain't their man😂😂
And dumb
I believe after she realized she was the fool, she tried to back peddle and be contrary. A man had one time to tell me we are not together. Come on baby, you’re 40. Kendra does a great job of getting to the bottom line and self reflection even if they don’t want to admit it.
By any means, if someone says they don’t want to be with you, leave them alone. If they say that, they’re not joking.
💯This is proof that some men don't have to lie to us because we lie to ourselves. Girl... go heal... you don't need to date now.
Desperation, no self esteem, attachment issues, god damn I need to work on myself too 😂😂😂
Don't fall for this woman. She still loves her babies daddy still, and he will always be in her heart. So pass this one up. She makes a good side chick.
Not even a good sidechick because she’s irresponsible with her whom.
@asdfghj13579fly your right. She would make real problems for the home front.
There's a spiritual/philosopher dude I follow that says women that have a baby for a man belong to that man FOREVER. So men should never try to seriously be with a single mother
I agree she is a great side chick stop over late at night bust her ass and get out of there before one of her 4 kids see you lol
She will use another man's money to take care of HIM .
These are the men that get reward with legacies.... same story, different chick.... and no one is surprised but the actually girl involved
Another one...those earrings, tanktop and manly tattoos were clear signs. I believe she's still sleeping with the last kids father. She spent this entire segment defending this man who clearly never wanted more than sex and a place to rest his Playstation.
*quickly throws hoop earrings in the bin* LOL! I didn't know...😕
@aishageorge3056 It's not the hoop earrings. It's the combination. Don't toss your tank tops in the bin, too 😂
Kendra pretty much broke it down. Bravo. Important information the guy who's interested needs to know. Especially that her baby daddy was just released from jail and she will go back to him, all he has to do is ask.
Baby daddy owns that kitty. Her new boyfriend will come into a fucked up situation.
@@Jazzy-mt3ht 😂😂💯 he calls and she out quick, fast and in a hurry.
Ladies, this is a PSA. Casual relationships should NOT lead to permanent babies. The more I watch the more ridiculous this interview gets. How in the world do you feel comfortable cominh on a show and tell the world, you had 2 kids by a man who told you to your face he didn't W A N T you. Then have the nerve to say I'm not going to talk about his sex because I don't want these women to take my 'mam'. Then goes onto describe the new man and her focus is D*CK. You can't make this ish up. Ladies, we have to do better.
African Proverb; A fool at 40 is a fool forever…🙄🙄🙄🙄
Edit; A smacking lip fool at 40 is a fool till thy kingdom come..🙄🙄
*They don't even let the breast milk dry all the way up before hitting🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ the Market*
You ain't lying... 😂
😂😂😂😂
Let’s all bow our heads for the shot out and delusional !!!😫
Kendra's app is going to be worse than Tinder and POF. I can see it now. Not a shade at Kendra at all, just going by the guests on here. Good luck to the men that join!
Why in the HELL is she on a dating show with a 4 month old? Lady you need to be focused on that newborn and not a man. She's another single mother statistic. Fellas keep getting your passports and expanding your dating pool.
If a man is literally telling you that you’re not his girlfriend you really need to take that and listen what is there to fight for if he’s not wanting to be with you You’re literally wasting your own time and his time
Ain’t no way I would’ve kept coming back for more I don’t care how he look or how big his package is
There are some people that feel like they can’t move on to someone else that’s why they choose to stay and tolerate the toxic relationship that they are in
This is sad! 40 and acting like a 20 year old, good luck to whoever get with her!!!
She couldn't answer the question "What made you decide you didn't want it anymore?" Because it wasn't her choice it was his.
The classic sign of let them keep talking. 40 years old and for the streets. He blew her back out, and that's all she needed. Ma'am, keep draining balls.
Any man hearing ALL these details about her past with her ex will judge her and continuously throw this $hit up in her face. In other words she will not find any man of quality once they know that she let a jailbird move up in her house.
I need men and women with children 2 and under to focus on their children and not dating.
I think single mothers lose sight of the fact that some men are predators and will solely go after them to have access to the children. These type of men think that they "deserve" access to your children as part of their payment or getting something back for helping financially with kids that don't belong to them. BE CAREFUL LADIES!!!!😊
This is sad! She is a 40 year old woman and her decision making process is so convoluted! Just think how she is going to lead her daughters!! We need and CAN do better in the black community.
This woman has red flags all over her shoulders, y'all better run.
I LOVE watching these shows to support Kendra and I also find them entertaining. I am embarrassed to say I find them entertaining, because at the same time I find a lot tof these sad to watch. This show really sho wcases how delusional men and women are(mostly women) in their search of love. As a single divorcee who has been single and abstaining for a long time I understand the need and want to be in a healthy relationship, but I do not understand the willingness to come on a live show and showcase ALL of your worst attributes in the hopes of finding true love. I truly hope everyone finds what they are looking for.❤
Finally a woman that sees most delusion comes from the female gender majority can’t even find a man with a pulse but come up here demanding the best 😂😂
The spirit of Jerry Springer lives on
I make sure my teen son watches this to see a slice of blk female nature in the west- hood mama's looking for big peens,, dark-skinned with swag. Basically adavistic mating habits. That way he will know what to expect, and he can better understand the type of men they look for and are quick to lay down with
The macabre entertainment. "Lehme smash".
Mostly women? I see both being equally dysfunctional. I'm not sure why you wanted to make one worse than the other.
No matter what women say, pookie will always get th3 best of women, them saying 100k is a cap for the Kendra show !!
this is the best? 😂
U know 😂 u know .. the pookies be having them stressed out ..
They actually do need the guy with money at a certain point. But they'll always be accessible to the guy with good sex.
💯💯💯..especially bw
It's not exactly cap. If Pookie doesn't commit (which he never does) in their mind the non poolies have to make up for it with money.
She had a baby 4 months ago and is already on the prowl. Give that broken kitty kat a break🫤 🚩🚩🚩🖤
Between this broad and the unemployed "divorce court"alum today, ladies y'all taking MASSIVE L's today.😂😅
Divorce court alum!!! Priceless😂😂😂
She said…”I want someone to accept my new born 4month year old”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
No ma'am. We'll keep looking. You're not it
She wants a simp , she don’t want a real man that’s gonna put her in her place
She's a damn BOP!
😂😂😂
I'm laughing way too hard 😂😂😂
Brandon Jamal has proven that hahaha 🤣
Her womb is still healing. This is tragic 😢
You modern women say the darnest things.
@@lightel652darnedest
Truth just barely passed ax week checkup 😢😢😢😢
Whoever falls for her going to share her with her BD
I wish there was a better vetting process for this show. But it’s definitely entertaining…
Better than Jerry n Maury‼️IMO
The process is, if they on this show....avoid them
Truthfully... similar to Kevin Samuels clips...
yall should know that these are just the hightlights from
a longer version.
She has more sane people on the Live show. Many of them
STILL have wild expectations...some don't though.
@@jesterarts734 that’s cool. It would be good if she would highlight all the couples or married folks that are in good relationships as a result of her show. That seems like it would add a lot of credibility.
@@CloudSephiroth True, assuming there are many. I think I’ve seen one…but honestly…I’m sure the ratchetness gets more views.
Kendra crack me up everytime she says she is a journalist 😂😂😂
I love her to pieces but the follow up questions per her journalism degree are primary school level at best😅ie what would you say to the man that says you have 50-11 kids and is cautious.
Pookeisha says every time "well i guess he ain't the one for me😅
@@JustBree716 not to mention her scribbling stick figures to the answers to their questions ,only to ask it again
@@Bnizzofashizzo😂😂😂
This is someone that shouldn’t be looking for a new guy. Not only should be focused on her children, but she needs to focus on herself. She continues to make poor choices in partners and wonders why she’s in the situation she’s in. She’s also not over the latest baby daddy.
Congratulations, you played yourself. And while doing so, brought life into this world to suffer from your decisions. Do I even need to list the problems kids in this environment are forced to face?
So sad
Why would you do that chest tattoo... terrible. All of this conversation about this man matches the chest tattoo.
Black blob in the middle of her boney chest. So unattractive
Lord she said women always want to take her man? … girl he was homeless!!!! Ugh this logic don’t make no sense. Lord not he was in jail. Girl log off you don’t even need internet privileges
But the dick was good
She's one of those ppl that think if you talk louder, it makes it right.
This Guhl said.. cheating ain’t a deal breaker for me, respect is!! WTH did I just hear?? If he cheating sis, he has no respect.
Y'all started that cheating respectfully bs, now it's out of control 😅
This show makes me heal my inner child cause Chile... lord knows I made mistakes in dating... I've accepted my part in all of it. I'm always thankful a child didnt spawn out it.. whew 😥
Just raise your kids!
She is not ready for a relationship. She’s just trying to move on because the men don’t want her anymore. You can tell her face conversation she’s going through that stage I don’t need you I can move on to so that this point she just gonna take anything.
Problems
1. When women like her say "everything was good", her definition usually means she puts up with any and all BS of the guy.
2. Women like her NEVER LEAVE any man. When they say they left someone, its a big fat lie. The dude just runs off and never comes back.
3. She has no idea what a man should be doing because she has no idea what she should be doing.