Trans Guy and Girlfriend: How We Met, Dating + Q&A

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  • čas přidán 15. 11. 2016
  • Shaaba and I talk about how we first met, got together and started dating - then we answer some of your questions :D Hope you like it.
    This Is Me. - www.thisismelgbt.com
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Komentáře • 297

  • @aruniya8672
    @aruniya8672 Před 7 lety +549

    Am i the only person who notices the fact ,90% of the time they look at each others eyes and not the camera

  • @JeffAMiller17
    @JeffAMiller17 Před 7 lety +453

    This is absolutely adorable. Congrats on five years, Jamie and Shaaba!

    • @shaaba
      @shaaba Před 7 lety +34

      Jeff Miller
      Thanks very much! 😊 All the best!

  • @doormatt4159
    @doormatt4159 Před 7 lety +141

    Hey Jamie, I've been watching your videos for about a year now. I recently came out to my parents about being FTM. I've been waiting 3 years to tell my parents, but I was always scared. Your videos gave me the courage to come out. I will be getting my first binder in the mail next week!
    Thank you Jamie for making me feel like I wasn't alone
    -Madi H.

    • @shaaba
      @shaaba Před 7 lety +19

      Madison Henke
      This is so amazing, well done for mustering the courage to take such an important step! Best of luck with the rest of your journey (:

    • @FairMaidenDesigns
      @FairMaidenDesigns Před 7 lety +9

      Spoopy Emo I know this is totally random but congratulations on gathering the strength to tell your parents who you are and i hope your first binder is working out! Best of luck on your journey and I wish you the best and that it goes as smoothly as possible! 💞💖💕

    • @pennylane4718
      @pennylane4718 Před 3 lety

      CONGRATULATIONS IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU

  • @huggledemon32
    @huggledemon32 Před 4 lety +69

    Long pause .........."she ran ways from me-there's no point beating around the bush, she ran up the stairs and she wouldn't stop." 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @CookingwithKarma
    @CookingwithKarma Před 7 lety +34

    You two are the sweetest. I couldn't stop smiling the whole way through this video. So much love :) x

  • @1ndoorliving
    @1ndoorliving Před 7 lety +78

    I'm a trans masc guy and my girlfriend and I just broke up after 2 years together. We started dating before I even knew I was trans, so coming out to myself and to her really took a toll on the relationship. We still love each other as best friends though. It makes me so happy to see your relationship work out.

  • @jasonellis4330
    @jasonellis4330 Před 3 lety +38

    Shaaba in 2016: I'm straight. Straight straight straight.
    Shaaba now: lol sike

    • @Auxiliooo
      @Auxiliooo Před 2 lety +4

      That’s what I thought lol 😂

  • @Tellyouwhat777
    @Tellyouwhat777 Před 7 lety +75

    You guys are the absolute cutest. I had to keep pausing the video because of it! I needed time to recover. Thank you for sharing your lovely story.

  • @LibbyWithnall
    @LibbyWithnall Před 7 lety +97

    What a great couple. I've just found your channel so it was great to learn more about you.

    • @shaaba
      @shaaba Před 7 lety +11

      Libby Withnall thank you! Hope you enjoyed it (:

  • @yamiyugicrumpets4603
    @yamiyugicrumpets4603 Před 7 lety +86

    i'm not usualy one to say this but you two are adorable.

  • @CherryBlossom419
    @CherryBlossom419 Před 7 lety +11

    Everything you said about Jamie transitioning and you, Shaaba, what you went through makes perfect sense! My boyfriend is transgender and it was like meeting another person but knowing who he was from the beginning. So happy for both of you!! Best of luck for the future!!

  • @genievetaylor1042
    @genievetaylor1042 Před 7 lety +141

    Jamie + Shaaba= Cutest couple ever!

  • @LaurenJewel
    @LaurenJewel Před 7 lety +77

    Literally the cutest, love you both!! Xx💕

  • @efesgirl999
    @efesgirl999 Před 7 lety +28

    If ever there were two people who belonged together, it's you two! Greetings from the Netherlands!

  • @nicholaswhitby3124
    @nicholaswhitby3124 Před 4 lety +7

    Anyone else watching this post-engagement? 😁 So happy for them

  • @sakshinaresh8114
    @sakshinaresh8114 Před 3 lety +3

    This is the sweetest thing to exist on the internet. It makes me so happy

  • @nicojones9411
    @nicojones9411 Před 7 lety +6

    Rambling videos are the best type of videos 😊 You guys are absolutely wonderful

  • @facuarroyo3249
    @facuarroyo3249 Před 7 lety +117

    You guys are the greatest!

  • @KanraLovesHumans
    @KanraLovesHumans Před 7 lety +1

    These videos always make me feel so much better about myself. Thank you two for existing ^^

  • @Livikyu
    @Livikyu Před 7 lety +10

    11:53
    was so "This Morning" haha, you two would genuinely be great presenters :')

  • @avaw924
    @avaw924 Před 7 lety +25

    You guys are literally goals. I want to be in love as long as you have been. :D

  • @liasaia8316
    @liasaia8316 Před 7 lety +13

    oh my god DOES ANYONE SEE HIS EYES AND EXPRESSION WHEN HE LOOKS AT HER?!

  • @allaboutmissraygi5423
    @allaboutmissraygi5423 Před 7 lety +1

    I love your energy- y'all are just so cute and happy. This is one of the gems of small youtube

  • @parrotdoesasploot2381
    @parrotdoesasploot2381 Před 7 lety +25

    My new straight ship.You're amazing.

  • @horrorshock666
    @horrorshock666 Před 7 lety +40

    You're so sweet together 🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️

  • @sodaradio4622
    @sodaradio4622 Před 5 lety

    MY FAVE CHANNEL EVER OMGGGG
    YOU GUYS ARE THE CUTEST!!!!! MY HEART AAAH!!😍😍😍❤️

  • @DaBoom1987
    @DaBoom1987 Před 7 lety +1

    That's so cool. Your anniversary is on my birthday!

  • @auntynick2648
    @auntynick2648 Před 7 lety +3

    Glad i got here early and y'all are so cute!!!

  • @northerncaledonia2901
    @northerncaledonia2901 Před 7 lety +6

    You two are so amazing. I'm so happy for you :)

  • @larryhuffine2814
    @larryhuffine2814 Před 2 lety +1

    I absolutely love everything they do omg I love these two I am so grateful to get to watch them

  • @Thelizabethjane1028
    @Thelizabethjane1028 Před 7 lety +10

    5 years !!! Aww, they are goals !!!

  • @rewasbadr
    @rewasbadr Před 7 lety +13

    thIS WAS SO CUTE YOU GUYS ARE SOOOO CUTE omg

  • @emilyanneparker
    @emilyanneparker Před 7 lety +2

    you guys are adorable omg you make my heart so happy

  • @MrHkause
    @MrHkause Před 7 lety +10

    Yay, I'm glad you liked my question :) I'm the one who started dating after 7 years of friendship. And I really recognize Jamie's story of being a bit awkward in the beginning regarding couply things. The winky face was there to indicate that specifically the intimacy in the beginning was... weird. There were several moments where one of us would go: tomptiedom... I'm kissing a cool person here... tiedieliedom... "WOW, WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?!... oh right :$" And then we'd just take a break and laugh it off :p

    • @MrHkause
      @MrHkause Před 7 lety +5

      Also, btw, for me it felt like getting to know this person I knew so well all over again, because there was this romantic and sexual part of them that I didn't get to experience as a friend at all. And it's genuinely something I've been quite sad about, because I do feel to a certain extend that the person who I knew before has been overwritten by this new loving and sexual being. And I also really loved having them around as my friend. Does that make sense?

  • @jennifert4189
    @jennifert4189 Před 7 lety +1

    awww yu 2 make me smile :) congrats on 5 years (and a half by now) Cyber hugs x

  • @deciphermysoul926
    @deciphermysoul926 Před 7 lety +10

    That's awesome! You guys are sooooo cute together.

  • @MistressPrime
    @MistressPrime Před 7 lety +1

    You two are incredibly sweet and adorable. It was delightful to watch this video. :)

  • @KLabye
    @KLabye Před 7 lety +1

    beautiful video. glad to see you two enjoy being with each other. enjoy your days and spend then with love

  • @TheRogueDM
    @TheRogueDM Před 7 lety +4

    5 years... wow in a way I'm little jealous, but good on you both. :D You are both utterly lovely and deserve each other, and it's wonderful that as a couple you are now more accepted by extended family. I've just taken a look at your website and I'm really impressed. I've sent an email your way too... ;)

  • @antoniobookworm8134
    @antoniobookworm8134 Před 7 lety +1

    this is hands down my favourite video ever. it is really adorable, funny and beautiful. i love listening to to your story. love it. i want some one like you have shaaba, so adorable. My ideal relationship. well done

  • @sabukurian5220
    @sabukurian5220 Před 4 lety +11

    Both r so cute couples
    Houndred years live happy
    Best wishes from
    Kerala state,
    INDIA

  • @pinkpowderpoof
    @pinkpowderpoof Před 7 lety +1

    you both are adorable. love how happy you guys are❤

  • @twiklepink
    @twiklepink Před 7 lety +4

    the way he looks at her is so sweet. much love. xxx

  • @tomistrans8682
    @tomistrans8682 Před 7 lety

    Jamie.....the first thing I noticed was your t-shirt. ....congratulations on 5 years....this was a great video and you two are a great couple keep up the good work

  • @katherinedemaio4931
    @katherinedemaio4931 Před 4 lety +2

    You two are absolutly lovely together❤😍❤
    Definitly a couple goals af!
    You for sure are making my heart melt.
    I wish you soooo much good things!!!! Love from france.

  • @Andyyy444
    @Andyyy444 Před 7 lety +1

    This video is so cute that you two are so in love it makes me so warm and fuzzy😊

  • @SilverFlame819
    @SilverFlame819 Před 7 lety +4

    11:55 - Hahaha. Totally got my Like in that moment. You guys are adorable. :D

  • @swisscheese16wyles22
    @swisscheese16wyles22 Před 5 lety

    The thumbnail is adorable!

  • @ravenatnite1
    @ravenatnite1 Před 7 lety +1

    You two are such a cute couple! And congrats on five years! I wish you many many more too. :)

  • @George-iq1vt
    @George-iq1vt Před 7 lety +2

    GOD y'all are so FREAKING CUTE honestly this is the best purest relationship ever

  • @kellyfranca7355
    @kellyfranca7355 Před 4 lety +4

    u guys r so amazing together ♥️

  • @SuperYoutubaki
    @SuperYoutubaki Před 7 lety +5

    this should be a movie. like a rom-com. i'd watch it. you look so cute together

  • @Galvion1980
    @Galvion1980 Před 4 lety +1

    These two are just so unfeasibly wholesome it's preposterous XD I adore them

  • @beth-annmckenzie4845
    @beth-annmckenzie4845 Před 7 lety +7

    This made me smile.

  • @stangingkiller
    @stangingkiller Před 7 lety +9

    Omg Jamie did you go to Essex Uni?! I'm pretty sure I unknowingly met you last year with my boyfriend who was involved in an experiment.

  • @mnob1122
    @mnob1122 Před 7 lety +1

    I LOVE this!!

  • @PencilComet
    @PencilComet Před 7 lety

    YOU ARE SO ADORABLE TOGETHER. Can't handle it.

  • @ladytaeminheart
    @ladytaeminheart Před 7 lety +15

    thats exactly how my friend came out to me but he said he was the g in lgbt

  • @aidenbryant9025
    @aidenbryant9025 Před 7 lety +1

    You two give me hope in finding someone accepting of me being trans xx :)

  • @dimpyxyz
    @dimpyxyz Před 6 lety

    Awwww you guys are so sweet... 😊😊😊 All The Very Best For Your Future guys...

  • @glassfractals93
    @glassfractals93 Před 7 lety

    You two are so cute together :3 Love your vids Jamie 😊

  • @Nicolinka19
    @Nicolinka19 Před 7 lety +3

    you two are awesome... i can feel the love and warm from you two. I'm in relationship but.. I'm so unhappy, i would love to find what you two have. :)

  • @dylreesYT
    @dylreesYT Před 7 lety +1

    You two are perfect, I love you both 😍❤️

  • @KillerD.actor0
    @KillerD.actor0 Před 7 lety +1

    You guys are adorable ... love you guys ❤

  • @amywonderland9297
    @amywonderland9297 Před 3 lety

    You two are to cute I can't even deal :P So happy for you both!

  • @Katistic1
    @Katistic1 Před 7 lety +1

    congrats on 5 years together!

  • @namixful
    @namixful Před 7 lety +1

    I can't even. This is so adorable. -SQUEE- ♡♡

  • @jesr2317
    @jesr2317 Před 7 lety +4

    yes, make a video about your website!

  • @loycos3648
    @loycos3648 Před 6 lety +1

    you guys are so cute!!!

  • @user-ih2ez9os3l
    @user-ih2ez9os3l Před 7 lety

    the starting part is so cute

  • @jesmackin5833
    @jesmackin5833 Před 7 lety

    Your anniversary is the same day as my birthday!

  • @zeroberto45
    @zeroberto45 Před 7 lety +1

    Shaaba, are you a singer!? Besides being beautiful and a very good-humored person, your nice is so nice!

  • @shradharajput45
    @shradharajput45 Před 7 lety +1

    god bless you both of you...your love is your sunshine in heavy emotional darkness...just be together....

  • @georgieb4724
    @georgieb4724 Před 7 lety +1

    You two are adorable! When did you first say "I love you" x

  • @lola_dash788
    @lola_dash788 Před 7 lety +1

    Your girlfriends so beautiful :) you guys seem like a great couple! I love how you two look at each other

  • @poulamiaditiantora837
    @poulamiaditiantora837 Před 7 lety +1

    you guys are so adorable..... cute cute cute....can't decide who's sweeter.....

  • @marianafernandez3179
    @marianafernandez3179 Před 6 lety +1

    Omg! So romantic! Love this story

  • @aikoazure1304
    @aikoazure1304 Před 7 lety +7

    Awww You guys are so cute! Congratulations! Also, I'm kinda in the same position, because my boyfriend is trans ^^ he was born a girl and coming out a boy, so once again, Congrats!!

  • @mitalikambli5592
    @mitalikambli5592 Před 7 lety

    you guys are so cute!

  • @anothersoulintheuniverse
    @anothersoulintheuniverse Před 7 lety +1

    You guys are extremely adorable!

  • @julialedra
    @julialedra Před 7 lety +1

    You guys are adorable

  • @intheblinkofaneye1912
    @intheblinkofaneye1912 Před 7 lety +1

    You are so cute together!!! So happy for you :)

  • @MeldaRavaniel
    @MeldaRavaniel Před 7 lety +3

    *box of tissues* such happiness! awwww.....

  • @leemaambrose9254
    @leemaambrose9254 Před 2 lety +2

    I am Indian I love you both are super couples

  • @dandelion7313
    @dandelion7313 Před 7 lety +3

    She's so amazing, ur so lucky! Greeting from California💞

  • @djdb1214
    @djdb1214 Před 7 lety +1

    OMG GOALSSSSSSS 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @AliceQuinnRose
    @AliceQuinnRose Před 7 lety +3

    I describe it like this: You know when you see someone you haven't seen in a couple years. It's still them you can tell it's still them, but they've changed so much over the two years that they're almost a different person.
    Thats what it's like for people who know someone who's just comet as transgender. Or at least thats my 2pence

  • @dreh1564
    @dreh1564 Před 7 lety

    YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE!

  • @Jarvs.Larrz.
    @Jarvs.Larrz. Před 7 lety +16

    hey i love you vlogs so gretting from mexico 👍☺👍☺

  • @Paschini128
    @Paschini128 Před 7 lety +2

    Lol how you guys first got together bit how me and my girl friend got together lol. I gave her a love note and she knew I liked her. She was just waiting for that day to come, but when she got it she freaked out. At end of day we talked and she tried to friend zone me. I was pissed that happened but after weekend I was gonna talk to her about it, but on Monday she said she would give it a go. And that's how it started. We were already friends back then too but only for only for 2 months I think. But to me she was someone who seemed like I knew them for ages.

  • @ashy2074
    @ashy2074 Před 7 lety +2

    That free elf thing is from Harry Potter and Harry gives the sock to dobby. Just thought I would clarify for anyone who didn't know! 😂

  • @eszterjuharos7698
    @eszterjuharos7698 Před 7 lety +3

    You are the cutest couple I've ever seen.

  • @illrollwithit
    @illrollwithit Před 7 lety

    the "how tall are you" part was just the cutest

  • @Sofigarella
    @Sofigarella Před 7 lety +5

    Jamie you're so handsome! And you have a lovely gf, i wish you two the best

  • @DangerScone
    @DangerScone Před 7 lety +4

    Not sure how I've never run across this channel before, but you both seem pretty awesome.

    • @DangerScone
      @DangerScone Před 7 lety

      Oop, going back through your videos I recognize that photo of you in the red jacket so obviously I've seen you online somewhere. :D

  • @jugular2797
    @jugular2797 Před 7 lety +39

    are people from the UK really in college by 16 or am i just an ignorant american?

    • @shaaba
      @shaaba Před 7 lety +44

      nick i guess
      College to us in the UK is the last 2 years of high school for you in the US. People often get confused when we say college 😋 When Americans say college, we call that University. Hope that helps!

    • @alicelucy1333
      @alicelucy1333 Před 7 lety

      nick i guess yes I'm 17 and in my second year at college

    • @robinumans
      @robinumans Před 7 lety +1

      nick i guess I'm Dutch and I got in college when I was 15

    • @agneslee7593
      @agneslee7593 Před 7 lety

      Hiro Hamada Als in universiteit?!

    • @robinumans
      @robinumans Před 7 lety

      Nee HBO, ben nu wel ingestapt in 2e jaar universiteit

  • @FragrenceAtMiracleEd
    @FragrenceAtMiracleEd Před 7 lety

    you guys are adorable together #goals

  • @mv5984
    @mv5984 Před 7 lety +2

    You're SO handsome, and lucky you found the right lady! Good for you two

  • @ArielleChristine
    @ArielleChristine Před 7 lety +1

    Absolutely love you both...❤

  • @catlhings8721
    @catlhings8721 Před 7 lety

    you guys are so cute❤️