How to be classy | For Black Women

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  • čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 363

  • @nakkie326
    @nakkie326 Před 3 lety +359

    1. Less is more
    2. Always dress for the occasion
    3. Avoid skin tight clothes
    4. Avoid spandex
    5. Don't show too much skin (relative)
    6. Invest in basic color pieces
    7. Wear the right dress size
    8. Wear the right jewelry
    9. Watches
    10. Learn to walk in heels
    11. Always do your hai
    12. Keep your nails in good condition
    13. Wear the right make-up
    14. Wear your colors
    15. 5 minute no makeup makeup look
    16. Etiquette and manners (listen to the video)
    17. Smile (listen to the video)
    18. Turbans (listen to the video)
    19. Wigs (listen to the video)

  • @latajanee4410
    @latajanee4410 Před 3 lety +537

    I’m glad I found this because I’m trying to dress class and not boujee. That’s a cute style too but I’m getting older and trying to make a wardrobe that I won’t have to replace every few years

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety +15

      I'm so glad!

    • @beautifulqueen748
      @beautifulqueen748 Před 3 lety +4

      Amen to that

    • @MissDopeful
      @MissDopeful Před 3 lety

      Girl!!!!

    • @indigo6485
      @indigo6485 Před 3 lety

      I feel you on that

    • @maxinefowler1186
      @maxinefowler1186 Před 3 lety +11

      My Mother taught Me this. I guess Mothers don't do that anymore. My Mom wore a mink coat to go shop for Groceries. I am Black, and I went to work for the World's largest Airline. Next, I worked for a Bank, the Man that hired Me said I am glad that airline showed you Black Women how to dress. I said my Mother taught Me, he laughed said that's a fairly tale. I said no, stop being condsending.

  • @PeukinsPoint
    @PeukinsPoint Před 3 lety +122

    Love that you specified the difference between boujie/classy.

    • @MeMe-ht2hd
      @MeMe-ht2hd Před 3 lety +12

      Correct, for the young female who watches this or older and might not know the difference these examples sets them up for success, because they know what to avoid and what to aim for based off these visuals.
      Cocoa Styling, does an superb job, I wish her health to continue to bring these videos to us.

  • @samanthamponela6466
    @samanthamponela6466 Před 3 lety +366

    It's been hard finding videos that show black women. Thank you so much!

  • @deegoldendust1677
    @deegoldendust1677 Před 3 lety +155

    It’s nice to see my photo being represented in such a elegant way. Who would’ve known I had to be on the cover of someone’s CZcams video. All-around great video

  • @ItsMeTotally
    @ItsMeTotally Před 3 lety +191

    This is much needed in the day-and-age of Cardi B and Megan the Stallon who I both enjoy but do not like them to be representing of all black women. We need balance as white women and every other group to be shown not ONE WAY as black women. Not all of us are sexualized and actually many of us want quality gentlemen as well.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety +20

      Yes! That's why I like my Style series, all sort of different styles and aesthetics with examples that look like us

    • @ItsMeTotally
      @ItsMeTotally Před 3 lety +6

      @@cocoastyling Thank you, and please keep doing what you are doing. I support this channel 100%.

    • @leannewheeler5351
      @leannewheeler5351 Před 3 lety +6

      @kj 100% truth!

    • @codishaa
      @codishaa Před 3 lety +2

      Amen

    • @lisas9462
      @lisas9462 Před 3 lety +1

      @kj Neither is this influencer.

  • @saramyles4750
    @saramyles4750 Před 3 lety +86

    can you do a version of this video for plus sized women ... ive noticed that sometimes wearing loose fitted clothes can make plus size women look bigger

  • @JustOnePageAway
    @JustOnePageAway Před 3 lety +24

    I appreciate you including the beauty of natural hair.

  • @pamhatch160
    @pamhatch160 Před 9 měsíci +3

    This was an amazing tutorial. I am clearly a white woman . Most of my girlfriends are black women so I wanted to watch and see the styles recommended. I took away classy styles and advice for myself as well . What a beautiful video. I'll share with my girls too. Thank you Cocoa.

  • @softshell812
    @softshell812 Před 3 lety +18

    My tips are: if you have a clothing staple that's good enough quality to hang on to for a while: GET IT TAILORED! $15 Investment will make you look so much more polished. Also, DIP NAILS. Short or almond, chill and neutral dip nails take 20 mins.

  • @latoyairaborofficial
    @latoyairaborofficial Před 2 lety +17

    Soooo glad you mentioned that it’s ok to wear your natural hair. I’ve been trying to find classy hairstyles that don’t make me look like a teacher Or a toddler. Do you mind creating a video about how to wear your natural hair in a classy manner?

  • @shameshaj5984
    @shameshaj5984 Před 3 lety +27

    Lots of Love My healthy beautiful Women!☀️

  • @alexandrajames3174
    @alexandrajames3174 Před 3 lety +77

    This channel was much needed and I hope it continues to grow.

  • @yupthatsme89
    @yupthatsme89 Před 3 lety +29

    I'm so glad I found this channel. I'm to enhance my wardrobe for my 20s.

  • @Wooddweller
    @Wooddweller Před 3 lety +11

    I am so tempted to change my style to the classic style. I am 30 and no longer a teenager but I am having such an issue with trying to grab the attention of my future husband. Wherever he is.

    • @AbdulKareem-uy6hk
      @AbdulKareem-uy6hk Před 3 lety +2

      My Sister, you will find him. Less is more. Quality Gentlemen attract feminine, articulate and well dressed women. The key is to be confident in your skin and attire...

    • @MologadiMakhafola
      @MologadiMakhafola Před 3 lety

      He will find you with the classic style. Mine did 😍

  • @_CDeville
    @_CDeville Před 3 lety +71

    I’m so obsessed with channels like this!!🥰🥰

    • @kaylahreed8899
      @kaylahreed8899 Před 3 lety +1

      What other do you know of?! I love this one as well

  • @adorablebelle
    @adorablebelle Před 3 lety +15

    1. Less is more
    2. Always dress for the occasion
    3. Avoid skintight clothes
    4. Avoid spandex
    5. Don't show too much skin
    6. Invest in basic color pieces (she offers color analysis for black women!)
    7. Wear the right dress size
    8. Wear the right jewelry
    9. Watches
    10. Learn to walk in heels
    11. Always do your hair
    12. Keep your nails in good condition
    13. Wear the right makeup
    14. Wear your colors
    Bonus Tips on...
    No makeup makeup look
    Etiquette and mannerisms
    Smile
    Turbans
    Wigs

  • @yvettekirkland5950
    @yvettekirkland5950 Před 3 lety +1

    I agree with everything. Loved this!

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 Před 3 lety +7

    Great video. Thank you for showing us at our best.

  • @renatamitchell9535
    @renatamitchell9535 Před 3 lety +3

    I love a classic look that never goes out of fashion. Thanks for this video. 💝

  • @gypsymoon474
    @gypsymoon474 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes!! 🥰❤️ I love these tips!!

  • @Queenshar40
    @Queenshar40 Před 3 lety +5

    Happy I came across this!

  • @wendyrs1087
    @wendyrs1087 Před 3 lety +11

    Black women so beautiful

  • @cnashford2
    @cnashford2 Před 2 lety

    I was brought to your channel thanks to my love for the dark academia aesthetic. Your videos are so great! Thanks. - a new subscriber

  • @Cristina.Antoniuc
    @Cristina.Antoniuc Před 2 lety +2

    Keep going girl. It was aesthetically pleasing to watch. We absolutely need more content from you 😍🌹

  • @naomia472
    @naomia472 Před 3 lety +12

    First time on this yt channel just subbed and liked. I absolutely loved this video it made me feel fantastic!! Like a queen! Thank you Mrs cocoa!❤️

  • @oluwademilade6863
    @oluwademilade6863 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you so much for this .

  • @Bond_MrsBond
    @Bond_MrsBond Před 2 lety

    Wow this video makes me feel so good🥰🥰 thank you!

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 Před 3 lety +5

    I love understated outfits...

  • @naydrasnowfield8404
    @naydrasnowfield8404 Před 3 lety +26

    I’m 17 and even though I wanna dress classy, I don’t wanna look too serious for my age. Do you think this would be right for me?

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 2 lety +9

      The classy style work for everyone, however, you can mix it with a few preppy elements to make it a bit more youthful.
      This is my video on the preppy style:): czcams.com/video/m2dXieb7ETw/video.html

    • @naydrasnowfield8404
      @naydrasnowfield8404 Před 2 lety +1

      @@cocoastyling thank you so much!!!

  • @juliennelomocso6294
    @juliennelomocso6294 Před 3 lety +4

    came across your channel and i am in love ❤❤❤ this is so revolutionary! 😍
    I hope this channel grows!

  • @msmarvellous9597
    @msmarvellous9597 Před 4 lety +9

    Thank you 💕

  • @Victoria-up6vz
    @Victoria-up6vz Před 3 lety +4

    Girl, I just subscribed ❤️💃🏾💃🏾

  • @viviancovington7813
    @viviancovington7813 Před rokem

    Absolutely brilliant! So helpful. Thank you.

  • @TULIP.1689
    @TULIP.1689 Před 3 lety +7

    Great video! I am streamlining my wardrobe to be all classic. To do a classic style you can wear things that skim your figure but DO so tight it looks like you were poured in. If it’s gaping or pulling anywhere it is TOO tight!
    Focus on good quality basics. Less is more with this style. You can find great pieces second hand. Window shop the better stores so you can recognize the labels if you happen to thrift. Quality is better than quantity. You don’t need labels and too much flash with it. You don’t need designer necessarily especially when you’re starting out. You could even sew your own clothing and it would be just fine.
    Stay OUT of the leggings, hoodies and the like. You can wear slimmer sneakers preferably in a solid colors. Unless you are doing something active stay out of the athletic wear.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety +1

      Those are great tips!💖
      Quality over quantity is definitely important in this style, but that doesn't mean it has to be expensive, especially with timeless pieces, they are easier to find.

  • @mindfulkento
    @mindfulkento Před 3 lety +13

    Hi ! I found your channel yesterday and I subscribed immediately because I love the content and the fact that you are focused on black women.
    Can you do a video about accessories please. I am a fan of accessories more than clothes. But sometimes I have the impression of doing too much or badly associates them.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety

      Sure! They are also a very important part of an outfit

  • @So_IJustGotHere
    @So_IJustGotHere Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for creating this channel. So excited for more videos to come

  • @CC-pu6qn
    @CC-pu6qn Před 3 lety +4

    This is my first video, subscribed. I’m light skinned but I’m here for this. Any type of black female empowerment, I’m here for it!

  • @deniseoates7147
    @deniseoates7147 Před 3 lety +4

    Very good content and with melanin skin women in mind, very valuable information. I really like the selection of pictures used. Thanks for sharing and blessing to you and all in the many days to come,

  • @elizabethngato4643
    @elizabethngato4643 Před 3 lety +27

    I could listen to you talk for hours🔥

  • @maserati925
    @maserati925 Před 3 lety +1

    Good video, most of these tips I have learned from my mom🙂

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Před rokem +1

    Love this video!!! Black women come in a variety of ways! Time to let the world know

  • @JanelleMac
    @JanelleMac Před 2 měsíci

    This is great advice! I just subscribed! ❤

  • @Asteriyea
    @Asteriyea Před 3 lety +5

    Love the pictures you selected to demonstrate your points. Keep up the good work!

  • @janeecelamadieu1136
    @janeecelamadieu1136 Před 2 lety

    I love classic style but I also love the Academia style and classic glam styles too

  • @bcoral8101
    @bcoral8101 Před 3 lety +10

    I'm completely biased, but wow...black women are fine AF

  • @kristelk5802
    @kristelk5802 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for the video. It was awesome

  • @shaniyaweaver1072
    @shaniyaweaver1072 Před 3 lety +8

    This was surprisingly helpful. Thank you

  • @cecel_reis
    @cecel_reis Před 2 lety

    i appreciate this channel so much

  • @amplyfesociety2570
    @amplyfesociety2570 Před 3 lety +16

    Truly enjoyed this video.

  • @TheChefSteph
    @TheChefSteph Před 3 lety +1

    Very insightful video with great tips!

  • @JayLeiRay
    @JayLeiRay Před 3 lety +3

    This was so helpful 😍

  • @Pursuitofsimplicity
    @Pursuitofsimplicity Před 3 lety +3

    Excellent. Please keep up the good work. It is needed.

  • @Bezvlel
    @Bezvlel Před 3 lety +1

    This is such an excellent video

  • @veronicapurcell6239
    @veronicapurcell6239 Před 3 lety +12

    These looks are so functional, and versatile while being quite beautiful. Very much enjoy and appreciate all the care tips. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @Rosefleur5346
    @Rosefleur5346 Před 3 lety +3

    I Love this video , thank you .

  • @ashgas1898
    @ashgas1898 Před 2 lety

    I love your channel!

  • @Phinanollytv1
    @Phinanollytv1 Před 2 lety

    Wow I really love this

  • @DearNiquo
    @DearNiquo Před 3 lety +5

    This an amazing channel. I am obsessed.

  • @mkalinecpf5206
    @mkalinecpf5206 Před 3 lety

    I think this is wat l really wanted, l having struggling with colour match 4 my skin

  • @milliemi4759
    @milliemi4759 Před 3 lety +1

    Great! Video and advice. Thanks so much for sharing. I think I'll subscribe ☺️

  • @looksbysellox
    @looksbysellox Před rokem

    lOVE IT, Thank you

  • @tinaswisphers3433
    @tinaswisphers3433 Před 3 lety +44

    Thank you for creating this video! and this channel dedicated to black women! this means so muuchhh!! ive been searching for a channel like this!! also your accent is so pretty!!

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety

      Thank you!

    • @normajean7882
      @normajean7882 Před 3 lety +2

      Every race of women. Telling. the black woman how to dress. What colors not too wear on their dark skin what you know with your accent. Scared too help the white woman because millions of them need help. But you are looking at their best and our worst. I don't need you. Go figure

    • @lisas9462
      @lisas9462 Před 3 lety +1

      @@normajean7882 Thank you because I agree. Within the first few minutes of the video I knew that this wasn't a blk influencer. But she uses the name Cocoa styling for blk women and even gives a reply that she is blk. OK...Rachel Dolezal.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety +2

      @@normajean7882 Well, if you read the description you would know that the reason why I made the channel is that I am both black and a fashion stylist.

  • @unapologeticyogi9439
    @unapologeticyogi9439 Před 3 lety

    Subscribed! Blessings queen.

  • @shirleyowens9936
    @shirleyowens9936 Před 3 lety +2

    Love it!!❤️

  • @codishaa
    @codishaa Před 3 lety +1

    I needed this video. Thank you

  • @thanksmudyira3547
    @thanksmudyira3547 Před 3 lety +3

    The best video i do not need to watch other videos now.

  • @AMaudeThing
    @AMaudeThing Před 3 lety +1

    Great I came across your Chanel. Cool tips.

  • @carolnewman8590
    @carolnewman8590 Před 3 lety

    Thank you!!!

  • @Phinanollytv1
    @Phinanollytv1 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the video 📹 please do more on how to look simple and classy to a luxury event 😊 I have already subscribed to your channel

  • @arimorr
    @arimorr Před 3 lety +41

    Just got to this channel! I love it. Is it best to pick out a particular style? I didn't realize until now that I had an affinity for dark academia, Boho, unisex clothing. As I am getting older I have heard that I should pick a particular style, but I don't want to put myself in a box. I do however, want to dress more classy and feminine.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety +17

      The best style to chose is your own personal style! You can take inspiration from lots of aesthetics, you don't have to commit to a particular one. I will say that understanding the basics of the styles and aesthetics that you like can help you give them your own personal touch:)

  • @whatscbg4875
    @whatscbg4875 Před 3 lety +23

    Well done. Beautiful esthetic.
    Classy. Black. Beauty. 💜

  • @matifadzagondo157
    @matifadzagondo157 Před 3 lety +1

    I love your channel 🥺

  • @susannakitto5655
    @susannakitto5655 Před 3 lety +6

    I liked and subscribed before watching anything

  • @_tshepiiyy
    @_tshepiiyy Před 3 lety +4

    Just found this now... New subbie😊💕

  • @empoweredwoman1021
    @empoweredwoman1021 Před 3 lety +4

    I so happy to find you. Please do videos for older women.

  • @aspiringfemininity8626
    @aspiringfemininity8626 Před 3 lety +10

    This was an excellent video.

  • @nubi688
    @nubi688 Před 3 lety +2

    GREAT VIDEO!

  • @FaonaBonne
    @FaonaBonne Před 3 lety +3

    This was helpful

  • @pinkcarterinc.
    @pinkcarterinc. Před 3 lety

    Great content 💕💕

  • @fashiontisiconic586
    @fashiontisiconic586 Před 2 lety +1

    I loved this video 👍🏾👾

  • @DriveByConversations
    @DriveByConversations Před 3 lety +2

    Really good tips thanks 😊

  • @krys_tal1845
    @krys_tal1845 Před 3 lety +7

    just found this channel, love

  • @mariedunkley4750
    @mariedunkley4750 Před 3 lety +1

    This is so Great!! You’re a sweetie so classy! Thank you for these great tips! Love seeing my people with such chic styles.

  • @Renoclark
    @Renoclark Před 2 lety

    Pretty good channel, keep up the good work

  • @shellylen4582
    @shellylen4582 Před 2 lety

    What are those green harem pants. Been looking for those for a minute

  • @ShesooBreezy
    @ShesooBreezy Před 2 lety

    Love this game, queen. 👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾 💯💯💯 💎💎💎💎

  • @stoneychi8648
    @stoneychi8648 Před 3 lety +1

    *Just got this recommended after watching Anna Bey and I'm glad*

  • @FeliciaFollum
    @FeliciaFollum Před rokem

    Ok that last Boujee style with the lock knots was sooo cute!!

  • @beauty2307
    @beauty2307 Před 3 lety

    Love the video ❤️, how about how to keep it cute and classy while dressing sporty if that makes sense. I have 2 little boys and wear sneakers all the time

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 3 lety

      Maybe mixing it with a few preppy elements can help, I have a video on it!
      czcams.com/video/m2dXieb7ETw/video.html

  • @ms.ppettigrew3167
    @ms.ppettigrew3167 Před 2 lety +4

    I just viewed the video and I must say that I am impressed. In an age where everything is sexualized, to be respected one must present themself respectfully. I am a older woman and I must say bravo young ladies.

  • @shante4954
    @shante4954 Před 2 lety

    Great job

  • @rosaryofthecross7149
    @rosaryofthecross7149 Před 3 lety

    Love it

  • @niki-mars955
    @niki-mars955 Před 3 lety

    I love this channel! I'm definitely booking a consult.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 2 lety +1

      Yay! Thank you:)

    • @niki-mars955
      @niki-mars955 Před 2 lety

      @@cocoastyling I' can't wait. I have it on my goals list for quarter 4 this year, so I'll be in touch around October/November. I've already emailed you with an enquiry and you came back to me. 💗

  • @1432amer
    @1432amer Před 3 lety

    Can you do a self care, hygiene series?

  • @daniesavage
    @daniesavage Před 3 lety +2

    I'm just now finding your channel. I'm wondering, do recommend any stores that sell classy not bougie clothes?

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  Před 2 lety

      I will be posting some brands on my blog soon!
      www.micahlumsden.com/

  • @defiantlypinki1107
    @defiantlypinki1107 Před 3 lety +2

    Good job 💕

  • @slimgirls78
    @slimgirls78 Před 3 lety +1

    Excellent video. I have subscribed.

  • @lyfeasmemecsit6203
    @lyfeasmemecsit6203 Před rokem

    🤎Thank you !🤎

  • @yasminekalantari1762
    @yasminekalantari1762 Před 3 lety

    Please make video about Layer rules