Loneliness Is on the Rise. Are Closer Neighbors a Solution? | Retro Report

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • Loneliness is on the rise, and it may be as harmful to health as cigarette smoking, medical experts say. Now some Americans are embracing a collaborative living arrangement called cohousing as a solution. Lesson plan for educators: retroreport.org/video/lonelin...
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Komentáře • 29

  • @carlborman5165
    @carlborman5165 Před 8 dny +15

    Pandemic for me was incredible. Work from home. Was easier with small children no daycare. I lost all my " fake " friends.i took the time to love myself and really take care of me. Being alone is awesome. Not needing no one is incredible

  • @duo315
    @duo315 Před 7 dny +3

    4:57 Maslow's hierarchy of needs; no one thing is ever enough, ever

  • @macthesaltydog
    @macthesaltydog Před dnem

    Cohousing does a great job balancing privacy with community. Most new mainstream housing only gives you only privacy, which fosters loneliness. Also, cohousing is an amazing place for kids. They can run free with loving, trusted neighbors keeping an eye on them. I raised my 3 kids in Heartwood Cohousing. It's the best thing that could have happened to them. They often express how grateful they are to have been able to grow up here. They had many adults who were very positive influences for them. Their teachers regularly commented on how mature they were for their age and how skilled they were at communicating with people of all ages. Our kids (now in their 20's) have remained incredibly close to all the other community kids they grew up with - like family.

  • @nowaywithyoueveragai
    @nowaywithyoueveragai Před 8 dny +1

    The social fabric was totally ripped apart in the last 30 years. Was it the growing polarization? The crime? The lifestyle?

  • @Rambam1776
    @Rambam1776 Před 8 dny +1

    This might have been nice for me at one point, but now in my age I'm not really fit for any community.

  • @CK-hu8vz
    @CK-hu8vz Před 6 dny +1

    Seems like a great idea until you get trapped near an annoying neighbor. I do have my community along with my privacy where I live. I prefer having my own home. It is about balance for me.

  • @trishemerald2487
    @trishemerald2487 Před 8 dny +5

    No.

  • @marianmorgan2156
    @marianmorgan2156 Před 3 dny

    Love it

  • @Oxol33
    @Oxol33 Před 21 hodinou

    Our media keeps telling us that our neighbors are our enemies, if they have different political opinions, skin color or religious beliefs. What did anyone expect would happen?

  • @SusanA1056
    @SusanA1056 Před 3 dny

    Except that it doesn't take into account the disabled or the elderly, who perhaps couldn't get from their home to their vehicle, I like it.

  • @TheSouthIsHot
    @TheSouthIsHot Před 4 dny

    Don't buy more house. Buy more LAND.

  • @cortashaelam320
    @cortashaelam320 Před 2 dny +2

    Relationship with God is the most important. You're not here for yourself, you're suppose to serve others, then you won't be lonely.

  • @heathwolfe4579
    @heathwolfe4579 Před 8 dny +4

    There is nothing wrong with being lonely. I love being lonely. There is nothing wrong with being lonely. Some people can't make or force other people to like them. That's why some people are lonely. 🤔

    • @NohjAnec
      @NohjAnec Před 7 dny +1

      Well actually, loneliness can be as bad for your health as smoking. True story.

    • @LukusCannon
      @LukusCannon Před 7 dny +1

      “Thing isn’t bad for me, must mean it’s not bad for anyone!”

    • @jeshkam
      @jeshkam Před 6 dny

      ​@@NohjAnecIt depends.

    • @seanwebb605
      @seanwebb605 Před 5 dny

      @@NohjAnec I think that what we are saying is that for introverts we like to spend quite a bit of time alone. That doesn't always make us lonely, isolated or depressed. In fact when we are pulled into large social events too much we become nervous, anxious or on edge. Extroverts impose themselves on us. And despite this example of dirty hippies, social events also create the opportunity for "mean girls" and "bullies" and unprovoked conflicts with people that we would prefer to avoid. As bad for you as smoking X cigarettes has become a crutch for some lazy journalism. They use it for sugar and other health issues.
      No doubt some people are lonely and need more friends, more family connection, more friendly exchanges at work and in the world. My own social circle has become too small and my time socializing with family and friends too rare. But the last time I took some vacation time and reconnected with family and friends it proved to be too much. I caught up with one set of aunt and uncle, went to a baseball game with an old work friend and had dinner with another set of aunt and uncle. It took me a month just to recover. I have been on vacation all week and this time I chose to text an uncle, I'll see a baseball game with the same old work friend on Friday and quite by accident I ran into an old friend and caught up a bit a couple of days ago.

    • @Grace-jb7me
      @Grace-jb7me Před 19 hodinami

      I think you mean alone. Alone and loneliness are two different things

  • @charlesb7019
    @charlesb7019 Před 7 dny +3

    Absolutely not! More space between neighbors is the solution.

  • @stephtraveler7378
    @stephtraveler7378 Před 8 dny +3

    None of the subjects in this study are attractive. Just stating the obvious. I think its hard to really give the programs a balanced view knowing it looks like everyone in your documentary is unattractive (some even are not well kept. long straggly hair, unshaven, wrinkly clothing....) Is this a solution for misfits?

    • @jennypennylane5851
      @jennypennylane5851 Před dnem +1

      In that case, I'd fit right in. I've been a misfit for most of my life.
      Just saying.

  • @seanwebb605
    @seanwebb605 Před 7 dny +1

    You're trying really hard not to call it a hippy commune. But it is what exactly? Very sloppy, messy, disorganized.....hippy commune.
    Jones Town. Manson Family.