Ben & Emil on: online dating

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  • čas přidán 22. 10. 2023
  • Today our topic is online dating. Ben went pee in a gutter on a date once.
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Komentáře • 279

  • @maxkleban
    @maxkleban Před 7 měsíci +380

    This is the greatest series ever on the internet and it only just started

    • @louisbrown1421
      @louisbrown1421 Před 7 měsíci +1

      This is the most uncomfortable thing I have ever seen 🥰😍

  • @celinaghost
    @celinaghost Před 7 měsíci +408

    emil texting like a psychopath and justifying it with elements of style took me out

    • @Greatlakeskyle.
      @Greatlakeskyle. Před 7 měsíci +1

      I get it. When I see how mushy gushy dudes get it makes me want to do the opposite.

    • @isabelamanda2898
      @isabelamanda2898 Před 7 měsíci +7

      It’s the most Virgo thing he’s ever admitted to

    • @joshshak
      @joshshak Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@isabelamanda2898 Woman comment

  • @reagansmith9509
    @reagansmith9509 Před 7 měsíci +258

    the way ben tells stories is just incredible. plot twists around every turn

    • @rentaltoast2201
      @rentaltoast2201 Před 7 měsíci +6

      i could listen to him talk for hours honestly

    • @shanemhmm
      @shanemhmm Před 7 měsíci +3

      his storytelling is the first thing that made me a fan

    • @l4eternal
      @l4eternal Před 7 měsíci +2

      Holy shit it’s incredible

  • @sauerproductions
    @sauerproductions Před 7 měsíci +98

    new character unlocked: whiskey ben

  • @turnerwilliams814
    @turnerwilliams814 Před 7 měsíci +207

    I love when Ben and Emil lovingly fill us with content

  • @Sweatervest42
    @Sweatervest42 Před 7 měsíci +98

    Ben being an unhinged texter and Emil being the most hinged is just what I would have guessed, and both make me feel better about myself

  • @mightypistachio1726
    @mightypistachio1726 Před 7 měsíci +112

    I love this series because I pretend Ben and Emil are my close friends and we're at lunch and I'm just focusing on my meal while they just talk

  • @basilliketheleaf
    @basilliketheleaf Před 7 měsíci +47

    This is like the straight boy version of UUUHHHnnn with Trixie and Katya (i love it)

  • @thenerdgasm524
    @thenerdgasm524 Před 7 měsíci +179

    I feel the fact Ben is drinking during these shoots is hilarious, please keep doing it.

    • @benandemilshow
      @benandemilshow  Před 7 měsíci +124

      i will not be drinking again as it was a bad idea. i am hogging the conversation

    • @ricosuave69x
      @ricosuave69x Před 7 měsíci +51

      @@benandemilshow more like pigging the conversation

    • @thenerdgasm524
      @thenerdgasm524 Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@ricosuave69xholy smokes, i was thinking about saying something like this too hahaha

    • @lfreeman2162
      @lfreeman2162 Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@benandemilshowit was a great idea

    • @Chilam.
      @Chilam. Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@benandemilshow nooo, it's great please don't stop

  • @oogabooga9079
    @oogabooga9079 Před 7 měsíci +21

    The way Emil says Ben can’t think of a book is so good

  • @Robbb___
    @Robbb___ Před 7 měsíci +20

    I would have completely expected Emil to be a cordial and business-professional texted, it just fits his vibe

  • @ttusna
    @ttusna Před 7 měsíci +44

    I love these shorter videos and stories they tell us! They're like appetizers or snacks that get me through to the main course

  • @nicoleosaurus13
    @nicoleosaurus13 Před 7 měsíci +59

    Love this series. It's just so good right from the start.

  • @umairshaikh3682
    @umairshaikh3682 Před 7 měsíci +33

    hey guys! you should do an episode with me in the middle

  • @Shotsshotsshotz
    @Shotsshotsshotz Před 7 měsíci +31

    Next episode, Emil gets to be drunk and do all the talking. Fair is fair.

  • @olivianoelani4363
    @olivianoelani4363 Před 7 měsíci +12

    Texting is definitely a form of poetry!! A text has to have the perfect rhythm. When you know someone well, you know how they text, so it’s easy to understand their tone and what they mean, etc. But with strangers and acquaintances it’s an extremely delicate balance! Discussing this is a huge passion of mine lol

  • @tess3000
    @tess3000 Před 7 měsíci +21

    My favorite thing by far about this series is the physical contact

  • @Chilam.
    @Chilam. Před 7 měsíci +16

    Ben being drunk each one of these makes it like 10x funnier love the dynamic between the two of you, keep up the good content boys!

  • @J.A_C.K
    @J.A_C.K Před 7 měsíci +8

    Ben is his own Seinfeld character. The music was perfect

  • @tigerburger1625
    @tigerburger1625 Před 7 měsíci +13

    Ben is so good at starting out by saying nothing and eventually twisting it into something very interesting and worth your time

  • @TheHenryzx
    @TheHenryzx Před 7 měsíci +8

    Larry David has to be ghost writing the Ben character, it's just too good

  • @l4eternal
    @l4eternal Před 7 měsíci +6

    BEN. “Your correspondence is always very professional” 😅😂 that is so funny

  • @1oosh
    @1oosh Před 7 měsíci +15

    i'm liking the short form content in between the podcasts 👍

  • @natcosmicgirl
    @natcosmicgirl Před 7 měsíci +9

    Ben doing the tiktok girlie hand is top 5 moments of this month

  • @kelsey5093
    @kelsey5093 Před 7 měsíci +11

    Ben explaining the Tinder match thing was literally boy math

  • @natcosmicgirl
    @natcosmicgirl Před 7 měsíci +11

    The background music choice for this videos is flawless it really brings the whole vibe together, elite content

  • @KanadasKid
    @KanadasKid Před 7 měsíci +11

    i would love to see an episode on household cleaning

  • @kim.96
    @kim.96 Před 7 měsíci +11

    this is the straight man’s UNHHhh

  • @phiamil
    @phiamil Před 7 měsíci +4

    this is the straight male version of Unhhh, 10/10

  • @tinylaw95
    @tinylaw95 Před 7 měsíci +16

    I love this concept and never want it to end

    • @benandemilshow
      @benandemilshow  Před 7 měsíci +11

      sorry but this was the last one :/
      lol jk

    • @titoortiz7685
      @titoortiz7685 Před 2 měsíci

      @@benandemilshowit was in fact the last one

  • @evelynb.2434
    @evelynb.2434 Před 7 měsíci +13

    it’s okay emil! i didn’t know how to text like a regular person until 3 years ago when I had two friends confront me bc they thought i was mad at them bc i texted with periods 😂

    • @emilderosa
      @emilderosa Před 7 měsíci +16

      I refuse to change. Proper texting is nothing to be ashamed of. (Just to be clear- I am NOT mad at you.)

    • @MajorHuggles
      @MajorHuggles Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@emilderosa I do the same thing. It's ingrained in me at this point and I've been doing it since I was a teenager.

    • @theendoftheworld9921
      @theendoftheworld9921 Před 7 měsíci

      ​I have doubts this is the real emil. If you check the subscriptions of this account

  • @jamesmanley9427
    @jamesmanley9427 Před 7 měsíci +5

    The close up of Ben’s grippers touching Emil’s sock covered foot took me OUT

  • @jakeb4962
    @jakeb4962 Před 7 měsíci +8

    This is a masterpiece boys

  • @hillster9880
    @hillster9880 Před 7 měsíci +5

    i love this format so much

  • @andrewdaly8283
    @andrewdaly8283 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I can agree with Ben. I got ghosted on a coffee date from a hinge match and it was so weird. If you change your mind, no worries, but don’t just leave someone hanging.

  • @JigglyTatas
    @JigglyTatas Před 7 měsíci +1

    Dillon always popping off with these edits *chefs kiss*

  • @amdonut8091
    @amdonut8091 Před 7 měsíci

    I really love THIS, like whatever format this is, I really really liked it

  • @yescarolinecansing
    @yescarolinecansing Před 7 měsíci +3

    that whole conversation about the way emil texts lmao he's such a lawyer fr

  • @ashms20092
    @ashms20092 Před 6 měsíci

    You guys are the only creators I sit through every ad for, and I subscribe to patreon but I pop over to CZcams for the regular episode.
    Keep it up with being incredible!

  • @emma-sk3jw
    @emma-sk3jw Před 7 měsíci +1

    this is the first ep I’ve watched and was immediately flashbanged with feet. won’t be continuing but thought i would comment so y’all get that engagement

  • @Cheebo_
    @Cheebo_ Před 7 měsíci +3

    I love love love this series ❤

  • @jakubmrczk4546
    @jakubmrczk4546 Před 7 měsíci

    Love the music and editing on these great job boys

  • @deancollins3804
    @deancollins3804 Před 4 měsíci

    One of the funniest videos I've seen. love you guys so much

  • @eon6274
    @eon6274 Před 20 dny

    I find it hilarious that I only just found this channel and every video I've watched so far has had Ben talking about pee in some form

  • @Bloyjob
    @Bloyjob Před 7 měsíci +1

    I don’t understand how these guys aren’t blowing up, they are one of the best podcast duos out there

  • @CWAladyatheart
    @CWAladyatheart Před 7 měsíci

    this is fantastic, more of this series pls & thnx

  • @realjames1
    @realjames1 Před 7 měsíci +1

    the best series on the internet and it's not even close

  • @spicymayoluvr
    @spicymayoluvr Před 7 měsíci

    this is the best series on this platform

  • @stephaniewaldie3831
    @stephaniewaldie3831 Před 7 měsíci +2

    loving the dry texter + period usage rep

  • @jadechaya9025
    @jadechaya9025 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I’m too tired to think of something witty. Just wanted to say I love this series

  • @reagansmith9509
    @reagansmith9509 Před 7 měsíci +2

    i adore these

  • @1984watchr
    @1984watchr Před 3 měsíci

    They perfectly capture the awkwardness of online dating... from "knowing it's not going to work out' but "making out anyway" to the creepy following on instagram or facebook prematurely, to the passive aggression when a plan "just doesn't work out." I have a theory. We are all good people, but online dating causes too many misunderstandings and it's better meeting in a genuine and authentic way. I don't miss how the misunderstandings with a total stranger would ruin my day or how I would feel guilty for not wanting to continue to date someone who was into me, but I wasn't into them or being lead on by someone I liked because they didn't want to be honest and tell me they didn't feel the same. Too many mixed signals. Too many times you just "ghost" so you don't have to go through an awkward conversation to explain your incompatibility. I remember having conversations with people just because I felt bad or waiting to get a call back that never came. It's just too heart wrenching for sensitive people, I think.

  • @likemysnopp
    @likemysnopp Před 7 měsíci +1

    This is perfect 😂 keep em coming !

  • @ryanschiller6265
    @ryanschiller6265 Před 7 měsíci

    i love these sm

  • @danielclark876
    @danielclark876 Před 4 měsíci

    these guys are chill as hell

  • @oriannaisabella7041
    @oriannaisabella7041 Před 7 měsíci +4

    When I was in my early 20s, I had a college mate ask me out over Facebook messenger. I happen to be logged in at the time so I immediately responded with an enthusiastic Yes! He did respond with “wow that was fast.” We never did go on the date 😂.

    • @1984watchr
      @1984watchr Před 3 měsíci +1

      He was not looking for a date. He wanted an instant ego boost. 😂

  • @shaizzypaizzy
    @shaizzypaizzy Před 7 měsíci

    Loving this new show boys

  • @hamcheeselettucemayosandwich
    @hamcheeselettucemayosandwich Před 7 měsíci +1

    It’s as simple as having charm, confidence and incredible good looks

    • @1984watchr
      @1984watchr Před 3 měsíci

      Yes, very simple.😂actually just incredible good looks and you can have the intelligence of a rock... Oh, wait nevermind intelligence wasn't even mentioned. Charm and confidence are really one and the same.... you could also call them swag or game.

  • @PhatLutt
    @PhatLutt Před 7 měsíci

    My favorite part is when they kissed and Ben smiled after. So sweet.

  • @nicocorn123
    @nicocorn123 Před 7 měsíci +4

    ben speaking facts honestly

  • @juanrincon777
    @juanrincon777 Před 7 měsíci +1

    liked the video during the ads that play at the beginning

  • @zachletendre8618
    @zachletendre8618 Před 7 měsíci +2

    No shit I met my current girlfriend on Tinder and Ben’s breakdown of his 100 matches example is so true this man is so wise

  • @__mika84
    @__mika84 Před 7 měsíci +4

    late night AIM chats taught me that people only use periods when they are mad at me

  • @jrhntr
    @jrhntr Před 7 měsíci +5

    Reporting live from the gutter

  • @Brandeecline5
    @Brandeecline5 Před 7 měsíci +1

    These are the BEST! ♥️😂

  • @al200604
    @al200604 Před 6 měsíci

    I fucking love this series, it's perfect

  • @paytonnicole331
    @paytonnicole331 Před 7 měsíci +2

    This is so giving UNHhhh. I love

  • @seabass6139
    @seabass6139 Před 7 měsíci +2

    “The Tuesday before the Wednesday”- Ben

  • @treble6824
    @treble6824 Před 3 měsíci

    I found people who love telling stories as much as me, and in a similar style, SUBBED

  • @SoHawful
    @SoHawful Před 7 měsíci +1

    Damn these two have great chemistry, they should start a podcast

  • @13Gisang
    @13Gisang Před 6 měsíci

    "You Can Still Make Out When You Know It's Not Gonna Work Out" - Ben Cahn, c. 2023

  • @isabelamanda2898
    @isabelamanda2898 Před 7 měsíci

    Every time I learn something new about Emil, it’s the most Virgo thing EVER. This man must have a Virgo moon too. I loves it

  • @DomTheBom-ru6ib
    @DomTheBom-ru6ib Před 7 měsíci

    Yet another banger

  • @himiko6893
    @himiko6893 Před 7 měsíci +1

    i love dillon and when he chimes in but mic that mf up

  • @abagoftoast
    @abagoftoast Před 7 měsíci

    This changes everything

  • @Shaebutterforthesoul
    @Shaebutterforthesoul Před 3 měsíci

    I took an edible and wanted to watch something funny and interesting, then this came up. I love you guys! The background is very soothing😂

  • @SkimoStories
    @SkimoStories Před 7 měsíci +1

    This series should be called “Emil provides drunken consolation to Ben”

  • @eanreed4884
    @eanreed4884 Před 7 měsíci

    , inquisitive banter gentlemen. Top drawer

  • @martinjanson1361
    @martinjanson1361 Před 4 měsíci

    In the days of so much bullshit on social media, the genuinity of these two is so refreshing

  • @Toxicstreams
    @Toxicstreams Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love when Ben just talks to emil lol

  • @vaniasq78
    @vaniasq78 Před 3 měsíci

    “You can make out even when you know it’s not going to work? I didn’t know that”
    😂😂😂

  • @BoxShifterGaming
    @BoxShifterGaming Před 7 měsíci

    THANK U FOR THE VIDEO

  • @bubbaplayzz8046
    @bubbaplayzz8046 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I LOVE THE EXTRA CONTENT BOYS 🤩

  • @juliavanhoose
    @juliavanhoose Před 7 měsíci

    3:56 gawww! I also text with proper punctuation and people hate it. They think I’m a psycho because I use periods! I know from messaging Ben on Instagram that he is not like this and I find it strange. I am strongly with Emil on this.

  • @acandy462
    @acandy462 Před 7 měsíci +2

    cant come up with a good comment so… just happy to be here 👍🏾

  • @juliaa6399
    @juliaa6399 Před 7 měsíci +1

    love this format, would love to be a guest but unfortunately i am busy. thanks for the invite though

  • @willstemler1805
    @willstemler1805 Před 7 měsíci +6

    imagine if whiskey ben and chocolate ben came together as one

  • @thelung9153
    @thelung9153 Před 7 měsíci

    Emil’s interpretation of the word “gutter” does help that Oscar Wilde quote make more sense; it’s probably easier to see the stars if the gutter you’re lying in is up on someone’s roof…

  • @laurabaxter1995
    @laurabaxter1995 Před 7 měsíci

    God bless these gentlemen

  • @sessionswithceej
    @sessionswithceej Před 7 měsíci

    oh hell yeh this is a topic I know all too well. boy the stories I have... im single and off dating apps now

  • @erinruth2158
    @erinruth2158 Před 7 měsíci

    i finally have another show to watch while i eat my lunch

  • @rileytuthill950
    @rileytuthill950 Před 7 měsíci +2

    This is my favorite thing in the world

  • @morticiablackwood
    @morticiablackwood Před 7 měsíci

    You guys should have a podcast

  • @melaniegarcia1721
    @melaniegarcia1721 Před 7 měsíci

    Damn this was so good!! 10/10

  • @TarotTarot1
    @TarotTarot1 Před 2 měsíci

    Love this…I laughed so freaking hard

  • @Pseunolia
    @Pseunolia Před 7 měsíci +1

    Man, I can never predict Ben's stories

  • @TarotTarot1
    @TarotTarot1 Před 2 měsíci

    6:33 I so agree👏

  • @shessocrazyloveher
    @shessocrazyloveher Před 7 měsíci

    i need an episode of dillon sitting in between you two asap

  • @andiesorder
    @andiesorder Před 7 měsíci +1

    Not only I stand for Ben’s rights, I support Ben’s wrongs

  • @amdonut8091
    @amdonut8091 Před 7 měsíci

    This was SO good 💀