There was one day early in my second trimester that somebody said that to me and I actually believed them because I felt really good that day and I felt like I looked cute. The other times people would say that though... Not even a little lol
People don’t realise that it’s not necessarily weight gain during pregnancy, but fluid shift. You get swollen and puffy and can have a hard time recognising yourself. It’s NOT the same as regular weight gain because ✨ hormones ✨
Except I thought this & it turns out i had actually gained 40 pounds in pregnancy and then shot up another 20 a few months after i gave birth 😭 im down 30 from that now and its been almost a year
@jaydee5638 it's not easy!! I had to loose 50. I went on a strict diet and exercise routine at home. I stayed consistent and it came off. Mind you I had a c-section. Men have it way to easy!!! Something I want to discuss with God when I get to heaven. 🤣🙏😂
Most of mine was water weight, I couldn't even wear flip flops from the first month I was pregnant. I didn't have preeclampsia or anything wrong, I was just a big water balloon 😂 I looked so swollen and I was so uncomfortable
Not body shaming she just stating facts. Stop with the body shaming cuz half the time u woman claim body shaming.its just pure truth/facts and u can't handle truth and will make up shit for true facts now days oh he's controlling he's abusive domestic violence. All over true facts
@danutahavercroft2850 I agree but damn chill out dude. Also you guys should stop saying “people are body shaming you” instead be positive rather than commenting about something that already happened its depressing
@@danutahavercroft2850 besides the puffiness, don’t you notice a change in her smile? Sometimes it doesn’t make much sense to talk about weight… Her world has changed. Emotions and hormones play a big role in weight gain and loss. She is finding her new self. Her body is already amazing and capable of so much, that is a fact. She is beautiful, that is another fact. Unless she is unhealthy, her weight doesn’t really matter. And if it matters to her, it is not for us or anyone else to comment on. Let’s be careful about what we say and the impact it has on others.
@@danutahavercroft2850 I mean the music is kind of implying that the way she looked pregnant is worse than before. Not sure if I'd call it body shaming but it does give an idea that it's bad and I think that's Not necessary.
Its hard to see yourself change into someone you dont recognize. I totally relate to this, even when everyone says “you look the same”, i dont FEEL the same and it shows!
Yes! I struggled with body dysmorphia while I was pregnant because I did NOT recognize my body. I would cry and tell my husband I’m so fat lol I know it sounds ridiculous but he would have to comfort and remind me that I wasn’t fat I was pregnant and carrying our child. It didn’t help also that my insensitive father in law would say things like “whoa you’re huge!” Like thanks, I’m very well aware of my size. He even asked me, literally hrs after giving birth btw, how much weight I’ve lost already!
Yeah my face was so different before I got pregnant and even after giving birth it never went back to the way it was 😅 and I miss it I look at old photos of me and I’m like “why don’t I look like a cute elf anymore?!!” 😂 (it’s an inside joke when I was younger I would do this face and call it my ‘elf face’ and make my friends laugh because they always said I looked like an elf)
We’re allowed to be insecure about a change in our appearance we aren’t fond of. I hate being pregnant. I hate the way my clothes fit and look on me. I never feel beautiful. And that’s okay. It’s temporary. Sorry it’s uncomfortable for you when people share their experiences with their insecurities, but don’t tell us not to feel that way. We’re allowed to.
@@allysmyers1605 nah it’s uncomfortable to see a beautiful pregnant mom being that vain instead of respecting and ACCEPTING her body. Pregnant bodies change and we all get that. You don’t need to put a negative song on about it. Spread positivity
@@melissamyers4878 we’re allowed to feel that way. I’m sick of being told I have to feel beautiful when I’m pregnant. I don’t. I just don’t. It doesn’t mean I’m not, but it’s hard to accept our bodies changing. The only reason people tell us not to say those things is because us feeling anything negative makes them uncomfortable. We aren’t allowed to experience real life and be honest about that experience, and I’m sick of being told I’m not allowed to feel my feelings. It’s bs. I’ve been pregnant three times, and I hate the way I feel and look every single time. It’s temporary, and I know what I’m doing is creating life and how beautiful that is. But I’m not gonna pretend it isn’t difficult just because it makes you uncomfortable to hear about reality. Some women don’t like being pregnant, we don’t HAVE to enjoy it.
Let's normalize being uncomfortable with the normal changes that happen during pregnancy and that it's okay to accept yourself as you are without there needing to be a negative narrative. It doesn't mean we have to be happy that our bodies are different but we also can express the understanding and accepted uncomfortability with these new changes.
I’m 30 weeks pregnant today (yay!) and I haven’t felt my face was fat until I watched this! Haha strange. I love the way I look though because I know I’m growing a little human and my choices today decide their lives ahead. Stay healthy pregnant mommas. Don’t let this get you down!
@@nyasha2203Omg, get a grip. It's funny because he would do something like this to be funny. No one is saying he would do it to be mean or abusive. Just stay in your grandparents basement. Too scary up here for you haha.
This trend needs to kick the bucket. Women who have insecurities regarding weight or appearance, pregnant or not, do not need to see stuff like this. It’s more appropriate to explain the fluid shift, how you felt and how you feel now if you really want to bring awareness to it.
Or it helps women like me to know that it is normal to gain weight or to look different while you’re LITERALLY GROWING A HUMAN INSIDE YOU!! But yeah we should delete it so people can feel insecure in private.
@@rosalielynch8468 this video in particular is spliced in a difficult and potentially harmful way to those who are pregnant. If you feel great while watching it- congratulations! I didn’t.
If everyone kept all insecurities, imperfections (in their eyes), fears, pains, traumas etc a secret then please tell me how exactly we're supposed to be here for each other, support each other, lift each other up and bring awareness to stuff? Why don't you keep your comments and opinions to yourself so that your opinion doesn't trigger anyone? K? Or are you the exception to the rule and everything you say, think or post is NOT triggering at all? Plus I really don't think she posted this as some OMG I HATE MYSELF PREGNANCY POST. Gees ya'll, yea she might be insecure about it but she could also just be like "hahaha look at the difference". No deeper meaning or hidden agendas. Geez ya'll.
If everyone kept all insecurities, imperfections (in their eyes), fears, pains, traumas etc a secret then please tell me how exactly we're supposed to be here for each other, support each other, lift each other up and bring awareness to stuff? Why don't you keep your comments and opinions to yourself so that your opinion doesn't trigger anyone? K? Or are you the exception to the rule and everything you say, think or post is NOT triggering at all? Plus I really don't think she posted this as some OMG I HATE MYSELF PREGNANCY POST. Gees ya'll, yea she might be insecure about it but she could also just be like "hahaha look at the difference". No deeper meaning or hidden agendas. Geez ya'll.
For someone who spoke out recently about not liking people shaming her body and making negative comments about it, she seems to be doing a good job of doing that to herself. This is not normalizing how your body changes due to pregnancy, this is shaming it.
Definitely shaming. And shaming everyone who can relate too. Sorry, you can disagree but that’s how I feel. Don’t give me the whole “we can say that about ourselves, we’re not saying it about anyone else” thing. I don’t believe that. If you’re judging/shaming yourself about it, you are judging others as well. I do not care what you say.
@@11wittykittiesI think they’re referring to the ton of hate Matt and Abby get on Instagram. Almost every comment over there was about how fatphobic this was or about how Matt probably posted this because they hate Matt
The reason why people have a problem with this video I think it's because it's not that people don't have body image issues during pregnancy it's the fact that people are drawing attention to something that is natural and is part of the experience of being pregnant. So many young girls don't even think of certain things but once they see it's another person's issue they all of a sudden become aware of it and then have insecurities or think about it when it wasn't even a thought. If women just stopped complaining and focusing on little things that don't even matter than the world would be a lot better.
@@Dance4lifer524 it's not about blatant complaining. It's about bringing it up. It's like saying look at how my finger bends when I hold a coke. No one cares. People care about looks and weight so it's inherently woven with controversy. Also the effect of the music change.
Women do notice their bodies changing and feel insecure about it. My first pregnancy I honestly feared I would always look like that and it took months for the swelling to go coz i had c section and traumatic experience. So a video saying "it's normal and it will pass" Is not bad.
Beautiful not pregnant and beautiful pregnant! My face rounded a ton too during pregnancy lol. It’s a weird thing to look in the mirror and your face is different haha
I have a naturally round face, and chubbier cheeks. As a young teenage girl who struggles with body image issues, this video made me kinda feel like shit. This isn’t just joking around about yourself, it’s promoting body image issues and negative attitudes towards certain attributes.
@@renu639 I think as content creators with a younger audience, especially of women, they should be aware of how the internet can impress body images issues on to their audience, which can lead to eating disorders and just general issues. So yes, I think it’s their responsibility on some level, to avoid promoting toxic beauty standards. I’m not gonna come at them with my pitch fork, I just think they shouldn’t post things like that. We can disagree, but there’s no need to be rude
@@Raccoon_in_gutter just having a preference over ur own body is now toxic beauty standard?? You know no one should be that insecure that a single video of someone with their own preferences of their own body could cause eating or any other disorder...
@@renu639 I’m struggling to understand your point. Do you think this video has some purpose, or good effect? Because I think it’s part of a LARGER problem- it’s not just this video. You seem to be annoyed at the very idea of the problems with promoting toxic beauty standards. You’re attacking me, calling me too sensitive, when I’m the one trying to make some ounce of social progress while you shout petty insults with no logic to your arguments. It’s not their job to cater to ME, but it is their job to be aware of how their videos can have a negative affect on their GENERAL audience. I’m not the only one who feels this way, I was using myself as an example to a widespread experience in our culture that shamed women. I hope you can understand what I’m saying, because I’m done replying.
You grew 2 humans inside of you, that excess skin should be like a trophy to you. Don’t let that bring you down! We love you Abby and hope that you and all your family are having the best start to summer. HAPPY SUNDAY SWIMS!😎☀️🌞👙🍉⛱️
Man I was hoping to look at the comments and have a good laugh. Like why can’t pregnant mamas all just laugh at the fact that most of us balloon during pregnancy. It’s very known side effect and it’s the worst. Why can’t we all just be laughing and saying things like, “girl right I feel u 😂😂😂😂” self compassion is great and all but everyone needs to learn how to find humor again.
wtf lol what the heck you smokin dear Queen Princes Abby ??!! your face went from gorgeous hawt to precious adorable irresistible smooth pudgy smoochable warm cozy soft baby face features!
I know it’s her body and she’s joking around, but positing this normalizes a negative attitude towards pregnant women’s bodies changing. I think Abby looks beautiful before and after, and I understand she’s also spreading awareness in a way, but making it sound like such a negative thing puts pressure on people to uphold ridiculous standards. I hope she’s doing good with her mental health and knows she is beautiful.
🫤 this makes me really sad. Chubby, round, and fuller faces are cute too! I can understand being frustrated not feeling like yourself during pregnancy, but the way this video comes across is not it.
What is the whole point of this video? You gained weight during pregnancy… BIG DEAL! You still looked amazing while pregnant and you shouldn’t bash yourself.
Yep, that's God's gift of a baby to you! What a blessing that your body prepares for the baby, all over, our body accommodates with every part of our body. Plus the pregnancy "glow"! Blessings abound!😊❤
yall are so sensitive. this video is about HER. and she felt like she wanted to post it. that’s HER choice. on HER CZcams account. it isn’t about every other woman with body issues or whose pregnant. y’all need to get off of their tails for once.
Although I agree that it's her account and she can do whatever she wants, she is also an influencer and has a large audience. If you break it down and ask her honestly why she actually wanted to post this, what would she say? Like why is it important - what's the benefit to society? It honestly seemed out of character and off brand. I do agree that a lot of younger people are hypersensitive. I also know that pointing out things frivolously about your body only creates more attention to things that don't matter. There wasn't even a description of the point of the video. I think everyone and their mother knows that the body swells and gets bigger during pregnancy. Everything has to be considered under the current social climate.
@@mjey1 I get that. Truly. But overall, its her youtube. It doesn't matter the benefit to society because she is allowed to post what she wants to post like any other person can. She didn't flat out say that pregnant women are ugly or fat, she was simply showing the difference in swell and maybe she enjoys her look before or after pregnancy more. And that's okay. She isn't here to baby everyone, if anything, she is just keeping it realistic as always. Which is something that should be implemented WAY more into our society now. With all respect.
@@jayyleighh12 yeah I get it I'm just looking out for the bigger effects social media has. When you see certain content over and over again it subliminally enters people's minds, especially younger people. I'm thinking about it more from the backlash she's going to get. I'm older and see all this stuff taking hold of younger people's minds and it's sad.
*PLEASE have compassion, consideration, patience, and appreciation for your self and your body. It is literally going overtime and overdrive to create your beautiful miracle of a baby/babies.* It’s NOT fair to compare your body before and after when there is a MAJOR factor involved in the negative tone (judging from the music you chose). It’s ok though it’s human to have flawed ways of being/thinking/feeling, but also human to rewire, adapt, and conquer. I invite you and anyone feeling negative about this experience to adjust and shift your mentality so your emotions can follow easier (hard enough that hormones are fluctuating too). Shift to the fact that you are BECOMING and ARE a mother. It would have been best to post this video without that kind of music to shed light to other pregnant mothers that they are not alone and empower them. This however, could be doing the opposite. But hey we are all human and make mistakes. Everything can be a learning lesson. Nothing to be ashamed of. Embrace the good AND the bad and make greatness!* May God bless you and your beautiful family and your platform for a positive impact in the world. Shout out to all our mommas and mother figures in this world.
And then they dare tell me “you’re glowing!” 😂
I had that greasy glow 😂😇
What about voice change ..I feel it's real .. please share thoughts everyone
But she isss
She’s now a mom and that’s a beautiful time in her life
No one ever told me I was glowing when pregnant…😂
There was one day early in my second trimester that somebody said that to me and I actually believed them because I felt really good that day and I felt like I looked cute. The other times people would say that though... Not even a little lol
People don’t realise that it’s not necessarily weight gain during pregnancy, but fluid shift. You get swollen and puffy and can have a hard time recognising yourself. It’s NOT the same as regular weight gain because ✨ hormones ✨
Except I thought this & it turns out i had actually gained 40 pounds in pregnancy and then shot up another 20 a few months after i gave birth 😭 im down 30 from that now and its been almost a year
@jaydee5638 it's not easy!! I had to loose 50. I went on a strict diet and exercise routine at home. I stayed consistent and it came off. Mind you I had a c-section. Men have it way to easy!!! Something I want to discuss with God when I get to heaven. 🤣🙏😂
@@carmenakanana2518HAHA yess like what about men what do they get to do😂
Most of mine was water weight, I couldn't even wear flip flops from the first month I was pregnant. I didn't have preeclampsia or anything wrong, I was just a big water balloon 😂 I looked so swollen and I was so uncomfortable
@@carmenakanana2518 amen! 😂
Please, don't body- shame yourself. You are beautiful, Mom of 2 young babies. ❤
Not body shaming she just stating facts. Stop with the body shaming cuz half the time u woman claim body shaming.its just pure truth/facts and u can't handle truth and will make up shit for true facts now days oh he's controlling he's abusive domestic violence. All over true facts
Matt keeps pointing these things out to her. Matt is the problem
@danutahavercroft2850 I agree but damn chill out dude. Also you guys should stop saying “people are body shaming you” instead be positive rather than commenting about something that already happened its depressing
@@danutahavercroft2850 besides the puffiness, don’t you notice a change in her smile? Sometimes it doesn’t make much sense to talk about weight… Her world has changed. Emotions and hormones play a big role in weight gain and loss. She is finding her new self. Her body is already amazing and capable of so much, that is a fact. She is beautiful, that is another fact. Unless she is unhealthy, her weight doesn’t really matter. And if it matters to her, it is not for us or anyone else to comment on. Let’s be careful about what we say and the impact it has on others.
@@danutahavercroft2850 I mean the music is kind of implying that the way she looked pregnant is worse than before. Not sure if I'd call it body shaming but it does give an idea that it's bad and I think that's Not necessary.
Its hard to see yourself change into someone you dont recognize. I totally relate to this, even when everyone says “you look the same”, i dont FEEL the same and it shows!
We don’t look the same 😂 the change was just gradual for them so they didn’t notice the difference. But we notice because we know what we look like.
Yes! I struggled with body dysmorphia while I was pregnant because I did NOT recognize my body. I would cry and tell my husband I’m so fat lol I know it sounds ridiculous but he would have to comfort and remind me that I wasn’t fat I was pregnant and carrying our child.
It didn’t help also that my insensitive father in law would say things like “whoa you’re huge!” Like thanks, I’m very well aware of my size. He even asked me, literally hrs after giving birth btw, how much weight I’ve lost already!
Yeah my face was so different before I got pregnant and even after giving birth it never went back to the way it was 😅 and I miss it I look at old photos of me and I’m like “why don’t I look like a cute elf anymore?!!” 😂 (it’s an inside joke when I was younger I would do this face and call it my ‘elf face’ and make my friends laugh because they always said I looked like an elf)
Ur still beautiful. Why u gotta put urself down like that ?
When did she "put herself down" mam?
We’re allowed to be insecure about a change in our appearance we aren’t fond of. I hate being pregnant. I hate the way my clothes fit and look on me. I never feel beautiful. And that’s okay. It’s temporary.
Sorry it’s uncomfortable for you when people share their experiences with their insecurities, but don’t tell us not to feel that way. We’re allowed to.
@@allysmyers1605 nah it’s uncomfortable to see a beautiful pregnant mom being that vain instead of respecting and ACCEPTING her body. Pregnant bodies change and we all get that. You don’t need to put a negative song on about it. Spread positivity
@@melissamyers4878 we’re allowed to feel that way. I’m sick of being told I have to feel beautiful when I’m pregnant. I don’t. I just don’t. It doesn’t mean I’m not, but it’s hard to accept our bodies changing. The only reason people tell us not to say those things is because us feeling anything negative makes them uncomfortable. We aren’t allowed to experience real life and be honest about that experience, and I’m sick of being told I’m not allowed to feel my feelings. It’s bs. I’ve been pregnant three times, and I hate the way I feel and look every single time. It’s temporary, and I know what I’m doing is creating life and how beautiful that is. But I’m not gonna pretend it isn’t difficult just because it makes you uncomfortable to hear about reality. Some women don’t like being pregnant, we don’t HAVE to enjoy it.
Let's normalize being uncomfortable with the normal changes that happen during pregnancy and that it's okay to accept yourself as you are without there needing to be a negative narrative. It doesn't mean we have to be happy that our bodies are different but we also can express the understanding and accepted uncomfortability with these new changes.
I’m 30 weeks pregnant today (yay!) and I haven’t felt my face was fat until I watched this! Haha strange. I love the way I look though because I know I’m growing a little human and my choices today decide their lives ahead. Stay healthy pregnant mommas. Don’t let this get you down!
Did Matt make this?
This killed me 💀🤣
😂😂😂
We don't know but that is an unnecessary comment and they could take it as hate
@@nyasha2203Omg, get a grip. It's funny because he would do something like this to be funny. No one is saying he would do it to be mean or abusive. Just stay in your grandparents basement. Too scary up here for you haha.
Why all the comments saying this😂😅
matt posted this
Oh god 😂😂
@@emitorresbunhe would tho
I agree
Agreed.
You still looked absolutely adorable, Abby!!
Hmmm
🤭
It’s okay, we all go through this, our body physically goes back to normal after 2 years, it’s not negative it’s transformative
very inspiring woman 😘❤❤
This trend needs to kick the bucket. Women who have insecurities regarding weight or appearance, pregnant or not, do not need to see stuff like this. It’s more appropriate to explain the fluid shift, how you felt and how you feel now if you really want to bring awareness to it.
Or it helps women like me to know that it is normal to gain weight or to look different while you’re LITERALLY GROWING A HUMAN INSIDE YOU!! But yeah we should delete it so people can feel insecure in private.
@@rosalielynch8468 declaring that women should feel insecure in private is the opposite of sharing experiences through pregnancy.
@@rosalielynch8468 this video in particular is spliced in a difficult and potentially harmful way to those who are pregnant. If you feel great while watching it- congratulations! I didn’t.
If everyone kept all insecurities, imperfections (in their eyes), fears, pains, traumas etc a secret then please tell me how exactly we're supposed to be here for each other, support each other, lift each other up and bring awareness to stuff? Why don't you keep your comments and opinions to yourself so that your opinion doesn't trigger anyone? K? Or are you the exception to the rule and everything you say, think or post is NOT triggering at all?
Plus I really don't think she posted this as some OMG I HATE MYSELF PREGNANCY POST. Gees ya'll, yea she might be insecure about it but she could also just be like "hahaha look at the difference". No deeper meaning or hidden agendas. Geez ya'll.
If everyone kept all insecurities, imperfections (in their eyes), fears, pains, traumas etc a secret then please tell me how exactly we're supposed to be here for each other, support each other, lift each other up and bring awareness to stuff? Why don't you keep your comments and opinions to yourself so that your opinion doesn't trigger anyone? K? Or are you the exception to the rule and everything you say, think or post is NOT triggering at all?
Plus I really don't think she posted this as some OMG I HATE MYSELF PREGNANCY POST. Gees ya'll, yea she might be insecure about it but she could also just be like "hahaha look at the difference". No deeper meaning or hidden agendas. Geez ya'll.
For someone who spoke out recently about not liking people shaming her body and making negative comments about it, she seems to be doing a good job of doing that to herself. This is not normalizing how your body changes due to pregnancy, this is shaming it.
No it's not
@@littledove2010yeah it is
@@littledove2010yeah it is. Its not just " oh my body looks different" just listen to the music she used.
Yep! Shaming on full blast
Definitely shaming. And shaming everyone who can relate too. Sorry, you can disagree but that’s how I feel. Don’t give me the whole “we can say that about ourselves, we’re not saying it about anyone else” thing. I don’t believe that. If you’re judging/shaming yourself about it, you are judging others as well. I do not care what you say.
Being pregnant rn, I relate so hard to this. Retaining water like a sponge rn lol.
Same 😂
Drink nettle tea (or ask your midwife is safe for you, i dont wanna cause your harm but was never swollen doing that) DO OWN RESEARCH
Smiling happy and pretty the whole time :) 🌸
Interesting message to spread.
What message is it exactly? I think she's just showing how she looked during her pregnancy and looked pretty sometimes and puffy other times.
Still gorgeous
CZcams comments are so different than ig bro
Ikr! That's why I'm sticking to CZcams😂
Facts. People seem more honest on CZcams
@@11wittykittiesI think they’re referring to the ton of hate Matt and Abby get on Instagram. Almost every comment over there was about how fatphobic this was or about how Matt probably posted this because they hate Matt
The reason why people have a problem with this video I think it's because it's not that people don't have body image issues during pregnancy it's the fact that people are drawing attention to something that is natural and is part of the experience of being pregnant. So many young girls don't even think of certain things but once they see it's another person's issue they all of a sudden become aware of it and then have insecurities or think about it when it wasn't even a thought. If women just stopped complaining and focusing on little things that don't even matter than the world would be a lot better.
she really wasn’t complaining she was just saying that
@@Dance4lifer524 it's not about blatant complaining. It's about bringing it up. It's like saying look at how my finger bends when I hold a coke. No one cares. People care about looks and weight so it's inherently woven with controversy. Also the effect of the music change.
Women do notice their bodies changing and feel insecure about it. My first pregnancy I honestly feared I would always look like that and it took months for the swelling to go coz i had c section and traumatic experience. So a video saying "it's normal and it will pass" Is not bad.
Beautiful not pregnant and beautiful pregnant! My face rounded a ton too during pregnancy lol. It’s a weird thing to look in the mirror and your face is different haha
I have a naturally round face, and chubbier cheeks. As a young teenage girl who struggles with body image issues, this video made me kinda feel like shit. This isn’t just joking around about yourself, it’s promoting body image issues and negative attitudes towards certain attributes.
Why the hell you think someone else has to be responsible for your insecurity
@@renu639 I think as content creators with a younger audience, especially of women, they should be aware of how the internet can impress body images issues on to their audience, which can lead to eating disorders and just general issues. So yes, I think it’s their responsibility on some level, to avoid promoting toxic beauty standards. I’m not gonna come at them with my pitch fork, I just think they shouldn’t post things like that. We can disagree, but there’s no need to be rude
@@Raccoon_in_gutter just having a preference over ur own body is now toxic beauty standard?? You know no one should be that insecure that a single video of someone with their own preferences of their own body could cause eating or any other disorder...
@@renu639 I’m struggling to understand your point. Do you think this video has some purpose, or good effect? Because I think it’s part of a LARGER problem- it’s not just this video. You seem to be annoyed at the very idea of the problems with promoting toxic beauty standards. You’re attacking me, calling me too sensitive, when I’m the one trying to make some ounce of social progress while you shout petty insults with no logic to your arguments. It’s not their job to cater to ME, but it is their job to be aware of how their videos can have a negative affect on their GENERAL audience. I’m not the only one who feels this way, I was using myself as an example to a widespread experience in our culture that shamed women. I hope you can understand what I’m saying, because I’m done replying.
@@renu639Ew, projecting
I think it’s the music that makes this feel some kind of way.
Ya think?! 😂😂😂😂
I didnt even notice a difference
You grew 2 humans inside of you, that excess skin should be like a trophy to you. Don’t let that bring you down! We love you Abby and hope that you and all your family are having the best start to summer. HAPPY SUNDAY SWIMS!😎☀️🌞👙🍉⛱️
❤
🎉
Yessss
You are beautiful either way!!!
Same girl, same. You are gorgeous though!
You’re so real for this 😭😭
Honestly don’t see a difference. Some people just have wide faces when they smile or in general
Abby's face was beautiful before pregnancy, it was beautiful during pregnancy and it is still beautiful now that she gas given birth.
I don’t think she’s talking of it negatively, just a funny vid of how bodies change during pregnancy
Exactly!
It's literally just a tiktok trend moms are doing right now I don't get what's up with these comments
Abby you are beautiful. I wish you hadn’t changed your teeth. The original ones were totally cute.
You look perfect every day abby
Girl you still look pretty , your just naturally pretty 😍
Same. Hormones make everything swollen.
Man I was hoping to look at the comments and have a good laugh. Like why can’t pregnant mamas all just laugh at the fact that most of us balloon during pregnancy. It’s very known side effect and it’s the worst. Why can’t we all just be laughing and saying things like, “girl right I feel u 😂😂😂😂” self compassion is great and all but everyone needs to learn how to find humor again.
AGREE!!!! I was also hoping to see the comments that not only relate but support her! I haven’t really found any 😭
This deserves to be shared with the world.
I definetly see a difference but you are still as beautiful as always!! ❤❤
I agree
Did Matt make this…
LMFAO 🤣😂🤣💀
Genuinely curious 😂
We all get puffier for a 9 months.
Water retention, is a protection for a baby😊❤
It’s ok hon! I’m sure those are just the best vs the worst pictures and either way you’re still beautiful 😂 but I understand!
What a blessing to know that your precious boys have a wonderful momma.
Don’t worry your still beautiful
Girl you are literally always gorgeous!!!
wtf lol what the heck you smokin dear Queen Princes Abby ??!! your face went from gorgeous hawt to precious adorable irresistible smooth pudgy smoochable warm cozy soft baby face features!
Beautiful regardless!
Your STILL PRETTY ABBY OKAY❤❤❤
Come on..... I find both of them beautiful
Ugh same here. And after birth too 😢
Women gain weight during pregnancy, it's normal
You were growing a human inside your body, one you breastfeed it goes away.
That’s why Moms are the Grestest Queens ever ❤️❤️🤌
Beautiful both times!!
Not really
@@youngty127hater alert
I know it’s her body and she’s joking around, but positing this normalizes a negative attitude towards pregnant women’s bodies changing. I think Abby looks beautiful before and after, and I understand she’s also spreading awareness in a way, but making it sound like such a negative thing puts pressure on people to uphold ridiculous standards. I hope she’s doing good with her mental health and knows she is beautiful.
It is called life!!!! You look so pretty! Enjoy!!!!
When the music started to play for the after pregnancy, I laughed. Im sorry, but it was funny
Still pregnant or not u r so beautiful n I’m so jealous xxx
you’re beautiful either way’
This is a really sad thing to post and your literally encouraging other pregnant women to be insecure and judge their bodies
I don't see a difference. She's glowing period.
Your face was extremely beautiful before during and after ❤❤❤😊
Beautiful then and now ❤
The music during pregnancy 😂😂
yet she’s still gorgeous
And you're still beautiful Abby 💕💕💕
You look even more comforting and sweet during pregnancy😊 you have grown into an amazing mom. Keep it up!
You still look good Abby
Abby nooooo don’t compare yourself to yourself! You are you for a reason and you are beautiful
Same! And my ankles were no more 😂
🫤 this makes me really sad. Chubby, round, and fuller faces are cute too!
I can understand being frustrated not feeling like yourself during pregnancy, but the way this video comes across is not it.
Your still preetttyyyyyyyyy❤😊
You still look great imho 💜
Ur beautiful ❤️
Still beautiful !!!
& boyy I can definitely relate, aaaah pregnancy 😅 Its like an entire theme park of a roller-coaster 🎢
Your still just as pretty
What is the whole point of this video? You gained weight during pregnancy… BIG DEAL! You still looked amazing while pregnant and you shouldn’t bash yourself.
Don’t be insecure you look gorgeous either way❤❤
pretty either way❤
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It’s okay Abby! You’re still an amazing mom and you’re still pretty 😊😊😊
Yep, that's God's gift of a baby to you! What a blessing that your body prepares for the baby, all over, our body accommodates with every part of our body. Plus the pregnancy "glow"! Blessings abound!😊❤
You're still really pretty
You look so gorgeous🎉you go girl❤
😂😂😂😂😂 sorry but this is so true why’s it like this 😂😂😂😂
yall are so sensitive. this video is about HER. and she felt like she wanted to post it. that’s HER choice. on HER CZcams account. it isn’t about every other woman with body issues or whose pregnant. y’all need to get off of their tails for once.
Although I agree that it's her account and she can do whatever she wants, she is also an influencer and has a large audience. If you break it down and ask her honestly why she actually wanted to post this, what would she say? Like why is it important - what's the benefit to society? It honestly seemed out of character and off brand. I do agree that a lot of younger people are hypersensitive. I also know that pointing out things frivolously about your body only creates more attention to things that don't matter. There wasn't even a description of the point of the video. I think everyone and their mother knows that the body swells and gets bigger during pregnancy. Everything has to be considered under the current social climate.
@@mjey1 I get that. Truly. But overall, its her youtube. It doesn't matter the benefit to society because she is allowed to post what she wants to post like any other person can. She didn't flat out say that pregnant women are ugly or fat, she was simply showing the difference in swell and maybe she enjoys her look before or after pregnancy more. And that's okay. She isn't here to baby everyone, if anything, she is just keeping it realistic as always. Which is something that should be implemented WAY more into our society now. With all respect.
@@jayyleighh12 yeah I get it I'm just looking out for the bigger effects social media has. When you see certain content over and over again it subliminally enters people's minds, especially younger people. I'm thinking about it more from the backlash she's going to get. I'm older and see all this stuff taking hold of younger people's minds and it's sad.
Always beautiful! ❤️
*PLEASE have compassion, consideration, patience, and appreciation for your self and your body. It is literally going overtime and overdrive to create your beautiful miracle of a baby/babies.*
It’s NOT fair to compare your body before and after when there is a MAJOR factor involved in the negative tone (judging from the music you chose). It’s ok though it’s human to have flawed ways of being/thinking/feeling, but also human to rewire, adapt, and conquer.
I invite you and anyone feeling negative about this experience to adjust and shift your mentality so your emotions can follow easier (hard enough that hormones are fluctuating too). Shift to the fact that you are BECOMING and ARE a mother.
It would have been best to post this video without that kind of music to shed light to other pregnant mothers that they are not alone and empower them. This however, could be doing the opposite.
But hey we are all human and make mistakes. Everything can be a learning lesson. Nothing to be ashamed of. Embrace the good AND the bad and make greatness!* May God bless you and your beautiful family and your platform for a positive impact in the world. Shout out to all our mommas and mother figures in this world.
Abby you're such a stunner!!
Ur pretty either way😊
you are beautiful abby!!!❤
She is so beautiful and her kids are so blessed to have Matt and her as parents. These kids will grow up to be amazing humans. 😊
Omg thanks for sharing this! Feeling extra puffy this pregnancy and insecure, and your post made me feel less alone
All body types are beautiful
What changed? xx
People that say she’s beautiful no matter what❤️
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Natural body stuff. Mr matt still loves you. You have healthy boys. Your life is perfect. God has you in his hands and will never fail.
Im 18, not pregnant and my face is fat. It's fine girl be grateful for your health
Girl don’t even you’re gorgeous
Sameeeeeeee 😂
Same girl same 😂 & I didn’t even realize at the time so I’m very grateful lmao
Oh my goodness the background is soo detailed it’s amazing and great video!
even more stunning