Subhanallah, its almost as if Allah directly sent this video to me to answer my worries and doubts about my situation. For context, I work at Amazon as a warehouse guy, you know how it goes over there. They are always blasting music through the whole shift (there are very rare occasions when they dont), lots of gossiping, free mixing of course. Just 2 days ago whilst I was working this fellow workmate told me that I am very boring and have no personality since I dont like to be jokey or flirty around her and her friends (paraphrasing slightly here), and it honestly really did make me feel left out like I was killing the mood like the sheikh said so I started to become a bit jokey with them. Nothing went far but this lecture is giving me the courage to stop this all together before it goes too far. I cant simply leave this job either as I need it to provide for my family and there are not any other places that would be suitable for me that will hire. May Allah give us strength in battling this fitnah EDIT: Jazakallah for all the kind comments you guys left here, may allah bless you and elevate all of you in status wallahi some of the comments brought tears to my eyes. I love this religion so much. As a little progress update, things have gotten better. Alot of the women who used to be flirty have left, and the one that called me "boring" I barely see these days since shes doing other duties around the warehouse that makes it so I dont end up interacting with her much. Another thing is that I have noticed that they play Music way less, so I know Allah is making it easy for me. I still have a ways to go in regards to my conduct around certain people but I will get there inshaallah😁
May Allah (swt) give you a better job where he is pleased with you. But you should set the tone and draw a line between you and them. For the females especially because they have no boundaries that's why it's a problem even if you ask them "how they are? " Honestly. How long is your shift.
Yes a Muslim is the one who fights the difficulties and struggles and desires for the hereafter and the one who does not will not be prepared for the questioning
@Original Blizzardhawk yea the live in enjoyment and heedless not aware of the hereafter so what can you expect they try to get the most "fun" out of anything and everything
MashaAllah, I always feel that this sheikh genuinely wants to share knowledge for the betterment of our ummah rather than showing off his knowledge and looking for credit
This is such a beautiful reminder. My husband of 5 years whom is the father of my daughter cheated on me for almost our entire marriage . With different types of women . Wallah I’m more sad that his sins will fall on my daughter . May Allah protect us from such men yarrab and protect our sisters and daughters .
I'm so sorry to hear this sister. May Allah grant you afiyah and may He grant you the best of husbands who will love and cherish you and your daughter as if he was his own. Ameen. My ex-husband tried to cheat in the first few months of our marriage and this was my second marriage. I am glad I found out in the beginning when we didn't have any children. I am now happily married. We are a patchwork family with his three sons and my daughter from my first marriage. Alhamdulillah. Sometimes Allah tests us to bring us closer to him or to prepare us and appreciate his blessings more.
This lecture made me question myself a lot. I mean a lot. And ive come to the conclusion that I need to take a look at myself and change somethings that I questioned deep down. It made me have an honest conversation with myself. A very scary and real reminder. May Allah protect us all
Subhanallah I needed to hear this. I dress modestly but I don’t cover (hijab, jilbaab etc) I always struggled with my internal matching my external. I have pure intentions , pure heart and a very strong connection with Allah but i always get the wrong attention and this is because of how I leave my house with no hijab. Today I will cover in sha Allah may Allah make it easy for me. Furthermore my husband cheated on me, he was on deen, always prayed but took free mixing very lightly. This is a wake up call for me. Jzk khair
Be careful for the ones that appear more religious - they’re the worst ones, hypocritical. No one should ever shame you for not wearing a hijab. You are as good as you are. Wear them when you’re ready, it’s your journey, between you and Allah.
Absolutely true, free-mixing is not taken as seriously as it should be. Even when I was 12 or 13, shaytan would still whisper. May Allah bless you brother!
Honestly young men (and women) like this speaker need to go to these muslim countries and give talks, wallahi we need it in our Muslim countries just as hard (or maybe harder) as we need it here in the west! Jazzakallah Khair
@@tracywillow5359 idk, maybe the countries where Islam is not practiced as heavily... as there are some Muslim countries where Islam is not practiced heavy.
@@TheKingofdans I live according to what my education, my heart, and my common sense tell me. I don’t live in fear of some controlling, threatening, cruel God. I care for people, help others and worry about humanity more than worrying about earning myself a place in a heaven that may or may not exist. 🙂
@@tracywillow5359 good for you, and you're entitled to that. Ofcourse, you're just a human being, weak and with limited knowledge. You are living on a rock, that's flying through space, with you having absolutely no control whatsoever, your "knowledge" and your "heart" are as fickle as your life. You go to bed not knowing if you'll even wake up, I think I'd take the words of the Creator of the heavens and earth and everything in-between than some person on the Internet who speaks from ignorance. Your knowledge is so flawed that you don't even have the answer to your existence. I suggest you do some pondering and truly marvel at the universe. Cruelty, right and wrong isn't according to your definition but the definition of the Creator. Seek truth, and truth only, and once the truth has been made clear to you, make sure you accept it. Enjoy the rest of your life, but remember, whatever state you were in before you came into this world, that's the same state you'll return to after your passing For you your way of life, and for me mine
@@tracywillow5359 you are truly lost, relying on your ego thinking you don't need to be accountable for a bigger purpose.. feel bad for you. God is forgiving as long as you remember him and repent for your sins because we all commit sins nobody is perfect.
Surahs to read before sleep 1. 2 last ayahs of surah Al baqarah 2. Surah al sajda(We don't know it's benefit, but our Prophet used to recite it before sleep) 3.Surah Al mulk (protects you from punishment of grave) 4.Surah Al kafiroon(protects you from shirk) 5.Ayatul kursi.(Protects you from shaytan) 6. Surah Al Falaq ,Surah Al nas ,Surah Al ikhlas ( u cup ur hands and blow in them then recite them 1 time each then wipe all over your body as much as you can.)( Repeat all this 3 times) Its may help you one day on the day of Judgement. Hope any of you reading may have benefitted (plz spread the word)..As sadaqa jareyah
Why can't men see women who are not related to them as human beings? Why do they need to be told "don't mistreat women if you don't want another man to do mistreat your sister" like why??? I appreciate you sheikh for calling out the bad men. But it frustrates me that some men need to be scared of someone abusing their own sisters in order to respect women
Because it is built into the nature of men. We are visual beings and have urges to be intimate with women. Using the example of safeguarding yourself will safeguared your sisters will help men realise what they are doing.
I agree with you but I think it is to make them realize that if they have a problem with their family members engaging in these things while doing it themselves, then they need to realize that they are contributing to the same problem that is affecting their family members.
Because men are built with desires and you can only put on switch of controlling those desires with morals, intellect and scare tactics. If it was possible to remove these desires there wouldn't be any reproduction now would there? Earth wouldve gone extinct soon after its birth.
But its not always seen as 'abuse'. Men are having illicit relationships. But they won't want their sister to do same. Depending on emaan the hearafter isn't real and tabgible enough to prevent the human from doing sin. So Allah also provides deterrents in this world and in the immediate for those of us with low emaan
Subhan’Allah, the reality of emotional infidelity is devastating. My husband engaged in an emotional affair and it subsequently destroyed our marriage. Another individual’s spouse is not your ‘soul mate’. We were married for over 2 decades 😔
First time I have watched this man, and side from the critism on here I think we need to understand the message that he is giving and learn from that. I was amazed by his talk and found him very good
Scary SubhanAllah. May Allah protect our families Aameen & reward Ustadh for bringing it to the attention of the youth in such an effective manner Aameen
I have been living with this knowing of what my father is doing and I do not have the guts to talk to him about it as it is embarrasing and also something I feel like I cannot change. My father has been chatting up with many women throughout his marriage and since I have become aware of it around 6 years ago. I know how much it has affected my mother when she found out but after a while she stopped caring as she feels like she has lost against him and his behaviour. It pains me to know what he is doing and how he is cheating on my mother. I have tried to bring up this issue with my mother but she seems to not want to engaging in the discussion. I really don't know where to turn or what to do.
Your mother should tell him right before him and in front of you so he can feel the embarrassment and that may help you all to be together and he may give up on his evil actions
@@thehiddenhunter6534 My mother has told him before, she even said that if he doesn't care for they should get a divorce. My dad got angry at her and didn't speak to her for a few days. After that my mum gave up on the issue and she doesn't want to bring it up again.
Assalamualkum sister, sorry to hear that. This is very serious. You should bring in a shayak or a person of knowledge to talk to him. 1) You both need to forbid this evil and remind your father of what he is doing and where he will end up in a respectful manner. Don't stop caring this is the shayton trying to misguide your father. Don't take what he does to you personally. It is hard, but have sabr. 2) If that does not work then bring a person of knowledge in. If this has been going on for more than 6 years then you need to get someone to remind him. 3) send him videos of the dangers of Zina on his phone or about the punisment of Allah or the hellfire 4) If all that does not work then there might be a problem between your father and mother. A problem like your mother would refuse making love or she would not beautify herself for your father. Not trying to blame your mother. It can also be that he works in a very mixed workspace. In that case I would recommend your mother and father with a person of knowledge who deals with marriage problems to come and talk to both of them to end this problem once and for all. 5) Make a lot of Dua all the time. When it is raining, at the last third of the night, every sujood in payer, Ask other to pray for your father without exposing his sin for example you can go around an say " my father is not doing so well could you please make dua for him." It is a right for a Muslim to make dua for his brother if he ask. Fast then break it make dua for your father. Add to the dua, not just make dua for your father make dua for your parents' marriage problem. Hope this helps. Allah knows best
@@shukriy6268 Thank you sister, your kind advice is heard. I however, my mother has had enough of his behaviour. I don't believe shaitan is the one telling her to look the other way. My mother has gone through many difficulties inher married life and she has told him about the issue and he seems to just turn a blind eye on it. My mother does dress nice and takes care of herself very well. My father is the problem and he simply doesn't care. Maybe there is an intimacy problem I am unaware but maybe this is also not the case. I am so embarrassed to speak up about it and nor can I. I think I will expressed my emotions once I can find the right time, but right now I don't feel comfortable bringing this issue up to father.
@@jannah5921 @-', B l o s s o m b u n n y ,'- @-', B l o s s o m b u n n y ,'- Assalamualaikum I am glad to hear from you, again. I was just saying that your mother should not stop trying. If it is hard for you to find a three problem because either you would not know where to go or whatever other reasons. I recommend you search to a channel name " Gabriel Al Romaani" then go to the about tab then click the link that say " positive Islamic counseling" it will have a big S as it image. He is really good with these kind of situation and I am sure he can help you more than I can. By the will of Allah. One thing that you need to understand is that people are a test you and you are a test to others. I think that is a part of an Ayah if I remember I will tell you. Anyways that is why you need to be patient. When you are dealing with a hardship you are not supposed to just live with it. Just like every sickness has a cure. Every problem has a solution. You have to solve this problem of your parents because it is a right upon you to fulfill for your sinful father and your mother. There is no " when I am really" sister you don't know when you are going to die. It doesn't matter how embarrass you are. You don't want to stand in front of Allah and he will ask " why did you not advise your sinful father. Hope this Help.
JazakAllahu Khairan Shaykh for such a lecture. It really puts things into perspective. May Allah give us the tawfeeq to rectify our mistakes and change ourselves where we go wrong
Honestly brother and sisters, make duaa for yourselves and your families. When you prioritise the Deen and the pleasure of Allah SWT above all else, clear your intentions for study, work and for your children, Allah SWT opens doors for you and closes the ones of fitnah and harm. I can testify to this and have seen many small miracles, SubhanAllah.
I love this channel and the amazing lectures, but if the moderator(s) for Abu Taymiyyahs channel could disable the live chat that would be more beneficial I think. BarakAllahu feekum
Very upsetting marriage counselling, guidance and help an courses needed there are alot of problems between husband an wife they need help from others ie masjid an so to help before things hit rock bottom. Haya and modesty needed for all Muslims
Allah humma baarik dearest respected sheikh JazakAllahu khayrun wa Ahsanal jaza Allahu ilayk always such spiritually uplifting inspiring talks Alhamdulillah 🤲😭🤲😭💝 may Allah subhaanahu ta aala always bless protect guide and help us all to stay on the straight path Aameen thumma Aameen 😥🤲💝
This is a very true subahanallah, some people are blind to see what goes in their own households, especially in family gatherings. And most of us are left with questions in our minds, why certain things happen. A step ahead of breaking a relationship subahanallah. 😔😔😔😔
Same story at every college and university, I suffered immensely. U have a choice to either please Allah or these corrupted individuals. Try to memorize relevant translation of verses of the Quraan. Read surah muminoon (23) verses 1-11...
Girls. Try to continue your education through Distance learning. There are prestigious universities offering degrees off-campus, 100% online and hybrid as well. You’ll get the same degree just as those who attended physically ( traditional route). Regarding work and job, there are also opportunities like work from home now. May Allah (swt) ease our affairs and keep us steadfast on our deen.
Yes but I'm a sister who still single because no one in the community knows I exist yet. I am pure etc. We shouldn't lock women away either. I am also alahuma barik a person who is well equipped (not an ugly or stupid) the first univeristy was made by a muslim woman. What about people like me who are looking to marry but truly because of low quality men in western communities or countries have a hard time finding a person? Do I just stay in the corner of my room for someone to find me?
@@PB-si5zt you are allowed to leave sister, it's not human nature to be locked away from humanity. that will lead to mental illness. just adhere to the rules and regulations and you will be okay inshallah
@@PB-si5zt Sister, I'm having a hard time finding husbands for my younger sisters too, lol. They both work outside of the house while wearing Hijab and everything. The muslims in my comunity seem a little bit off, so we intend to save up and move away later, lol. My older brother and I are also looking for a wife. And as you put it, my sisters are also "very well equipped" both mentally and physically, mashallah. It really boils down to making dua and asking for a righteous spouse while putting in the effort. It's really difficult in this western society for practicing muslim men and women to find practicing spouses. May Allah make it easy for us to find spouses before we grow too old. Ameen.
@@tunakpreston8240 Ameen especially in this wishy washy world. May Allah s.w make it easy for you and your family. Here in Australia it's absolutely a trial. There is a lack of any pure men. Having to explain to none muslims no we dont club or drink whilst borthers (and sisters) do. I can only imagine how many people are struggling in muslim countries to hold on to their deen and not fall into western pressure. Tayibeen la tayibat (pure is for pure).
honestly at that point tell that to us brothers too, A brother in these environments is a huge fitna for him and would probably have a harder time controlling himself. we shouldn’t think that only sisters need to be away from these places filled with shaytan influence. listen to the video how can we expect the sisters to be protected if the brothers in this ummah can’t even guard themselves. It’s a huge problem in university
My world is too small, thanks for the story, really open my eyes even more, I hope all of us are protected by Allah SWT from those filthy situations 🤲🤲🤲❤️❤️❤️🌱🌱🌱
I grew up in saudi arabia. When I was like 8 or 9, my older brother and I would walk our younger sister to school. The older girls at that school who were probably around 14 to 16 wearing niqab and everything, used to wear perfume. That was, and still is my fitnah today. Now I live in the states, so the fitnah is far more than just perfume, but it's still one of the things that make it very hard for me when I'm dealing with females.
@@naviifra2374 SIster did he even say anything about men being perfect or women being not perfect?! why do many women respond with these replies? he never said anything about men being perfect or not!!!!
I am a revert and I have been in many mixed scenarios. I can say from what I have experinced in all the years that most casual posts on social media and mixed gatherings bring only these things ..lust, envy and open doors for users and disrespectful comments and conversations.
Well it leads to emotional and sexual affairs. Theres also the concept of gheera which men and women generally posses but men to a much higher degree. Where we dont want anyone of the opposite gender to be unprofessional with our partner. Many liberal/Western men dont have this in their hearts so they dont understand
JazakAllahu khayr Ustadh , I wish to share something inshaaAlalh so that perhaps change and benefit can come. You mentioned at 36:47 " thats why you shouldnt even be looking at the niqabi women. I couldnt agree more. Sadly though There are some brothers amongst us who Allah has placed in positions of teaching who teach our noble sisters and deem it appropriate to look at them and at times joke with them. Without mentioning names Could you please advise such brothers to teach with a barrier. For verily What man would be comfortable to send his wife to such classes and what could possibly make such a thing okay.😞 بارك الله فيك
Thats why people should learn their religion so they fear Allah & keep away from the forbidden regardless of male or female doing the haram its bad either way may Allah guide us away from devilish acts insha Allah
this story at 1:08:45 has really disturbed me. this poor woman was just trying to do her job and mind her business, and this man who has a sickness in his heart has somehow felt he could invade her space and declare his lust for her despite him having a wife and kids. then abu taymiyyah made it seem like she was purposely inticing him and brings out an "excuse" and that she's been "caught out". is telling someone to leave you alone an excuse now? is doing your work and working hard being "caught out"? have some shame and stop blaming women for everything, this man is the problem, he is the type to not take no for an answer, perhaps even resort to sexually assaulting this innocent woman. i hope this woman reports this creep and he loses his job. i really fear for her safety.
I don’t know how you twisted what the sheikh said to fit the feminist narrative that he doesn’t blame brothers. He was just reciting what was written. Many of the stories the brothers were the wrong ones. Not to be judgemental, but you sound like you are dealing with a paternal wound. Stop coming into comment sections projecting your pain, anger and accusations on a sheikh trying to benefit us instead go heal your wounds my sister.
I am disgusted and disturbed by the brothers actions and through this towards this woman, she was minding her own business doing her work and and wasn’t entertaining his disgusting advancements the fact he tried to tarnish her reputation in front of her bosses bc she wouldn’t allow his to get his way or any sort of access to her even tho he is a married man just shows no matter what we do we just can’t win, he claimed he feared Allah yet he is following his desires harassing this poor woman when she doesn’t want anything to do with him I feel bad for his poor wife, I don’t know what is more disturbing the fact that he tried to sabotage her at work because he couldn’t get his way or the fact that he wished divorce upon her and her husband and was lusting after another woman asa married man this is a disease of the heart wallah may Allah protect us from these kinds of people
@@mina.j97 ameen. it's so scary how the devil convinves them that women entice them to do/think evil when really it's their own lack of respect for God.
Allahumma barik brother/sheikh Abu Taymiyyah may Allah keep expanding your knowledge and similar sheikhs around the world 🌎 similar to you and may Allah protect you and the ummah of rasoolAllah ﷺ 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾 Jazak Allah kheir, Alvon
It’s very important to mention that brothers should not take sisters as enemies but rather be cautious of the ones that aren’t mahrams for fear of falling into sin together. Remember you are accountable for your sins.
I am at the part about the niqabi women and their eyes. And brother you are so right! I am a woman, I wear niqab and do not apply makeup . But, I have come across niqabis whose eyes I could see and I, as a woman, was like oh wow what beautiful eyes! 😅 so I can't imagine what a man must be thinking or feeling when seeing those same eyes 😮
The creator knows the fitrah of its creation. The cotton and fire example is a good one. That is why Allah swt has put these restrictions on us to prevent the fitna that will ensue if we do not follow the divine guidance. It is for us; prevention is better than cure.
📢📢 Timestamps for filthy Husbands and dirty Fathers.📢📢 0:01>> Urgent appeal for the draught that's happening in Pakistan. 1:17>> Beginning of lecture and Ustadh's introduction. 1:40>> Ustadh asks some interesting questions to the Brothers present. 4:35>> The concept of what goes round comes around and some incidents related to it. 14:14>> The reason why Ustadh was asking those questions to the Brothers at the beginning. 15:38>> A true story that was told to Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah by His Shaykh. 19:27>> The hypocrisy of some Brothers and what they do. 20:43>> An incident that was told to Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah by His Mother. 28:40>> A Somali proverb taught to Ustadh by His Mother and what it means and some incidents. 37:41>> Men and Women being alone with each other is a recipe for disaster. 39:16>> A story that was posted on Islam Q&A and Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah reads it to the Brothers and some incidents related to it.
Subhana Allah, sad, sad story abt the brother and the sister, terrifying. What comes around goes around. But... if they knew eachother so well, then how could they be so close and not feel something familiar, despite dark room, exitement and all? Just wondering.
I am Christian but have worked alongside Muslims in my time I like to watch these videos n brush up 4 guidance as the quaran seems to have many an answer I'm always looking for about things wich Christianity does not tell me or give me n I don't see a Christian preacher doing vids n lectures like these why don't I convert you ask because 1 my name means god is with you the rising and 2 I like to 🎨 paint and music 🎶 🚬 and Jesus laugh o😂 t loud
that shouldn’t stop you from converting, all muslims struggle with sin. you should do more research, and if you convert you’ll find more fulfilling things to spend your time in than sinful hobbies
Brother, the mercy of your creator is above your sins and struggles in this life. The purpose of this life is to worship our creator alone without partners or intercessors, follow what he's obligated, then to stay away from what he's prohibited to the best of your ability. Jesus (peace and blessings be upon him) was a monotheist who taught and acted upon the same teachings. May Allah guide you to the right path.
I think a woman too has be careful because she has mouth and can disallow any fifth coming her way. She has to stay away from men aswell. May Allah protect us from the plots of Shatan.
Yes sister but I think this was the class for brothers. The sister classes are never uploaded. But when I went to a sisters mad thing in the masjid we where told off too lol
Asalam alaykum brother. Barakallahu laka wa Barakallahu laka fii ilmika. Unlike the disdain from most of salafi preachers, you try your level best to be genuine. I could listen to criticism coming from you and let it pass through the throat but for other few Salafi preachers out there there warns and admonition just don't pass through the throat. My guess is that there is something wrong with a preacher's genuineness when the message doesn't get through to the heart even with the most eloquent of speeches. ALHAMDULILLAH.
Disgusting behaviour.. Please make sure the information is right. I’ve heard false information about me which was not true. Someone apparently ‘impregnated’ me as well. Some sad bastard who could not handle rejection. So false rumours were spread around. Always make sure it’s clarified.
I personally trusted my best friend more than i should, even if I was not at home, he used to come. He ends up having sex with my wife. I had to divorce my wife while we still love each other.
This is extremely sad Akhi….. how did your exwife even agree to that and not scream for help? You dodged a bullet brother that woman was trash and so was your best mate. Tbh though I feel bad for you but you were being a Dayooth… never would I even allow my own brother alone in the house with my wife, let alone another friend and I love my brothers to death! No wonder why Interacting with non mahrams and free mixing are haram and lead to such disgusting outcomes! May Allah guide us all.
You should never allow a person of either male or female to go sit with each other as the devil is the third & why are they there if the other one isn't home learn religion it tells you not to do this
Amazing don't bring friends in your houses for regularly visits once upon a time too often they gets too comfortable and destroy your marriage 💑 🤵♀️ 👰♂ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♀️ 👰♂ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♂️ 👰♂ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♂️ 👰♀ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♀️ it happens a lots keep your friendships out of your 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 .
Well, married Muslim women also have affairs! We need to come out of this daze that only Muslim men are immoral when it comes to marriages and women are by default innocent or incapable of sin. Yes, the ratio of men seems higher but if we are to tackle this problem, we need to realize that women also abuse men financially, verbally, emotionally by blocking access to kids in divorced, physically by getting their corrupt fathers, brothers involved to assault the husband, fake abuse and call cops, etc let’s hope toxic feminism doesn’t get to us like it has gotten to those who came before us!
Funny. Had this lecture been about women and one of the sisters complained that he failed to speak about the misbehaviours of men, all of you would latch to her comment and label her a feminist😂.
@@aaliyah3037 there’s nothing funny sister about the wave of toxic feminism that has made western-based scholars not talk about ahadith discussing husbands rights etc while the sheikh has done justice here to a degree I know of scholars in USA , etc who say they really dint want to discuss the evil things women do or the Hadith about husbands rights because that’ll ‘anger young Muslima sisters who are struggling with becoming practicing Muslimas in the west’ that’s because the environment amd media has worked hard to portray all women as innocent victims and all men as evil oppressors. Etc etc
The beginning of that video is sad. Sometimes I’m ungrateful for things I know it could be worst I could literally be struggling for water and food right now. I still rather be in a Muslim land instead of America however.
If I ever try speaking about deen or point out something bad their doing to about 90% of the women in my family they get angry and aggressive, so finally after so many years I've just cut off most of my family from my heart because even most of the males support them, call me 'too extreme' and get angry accessing me of 'trying to disgrace the females of the family' and 'causing trouble'. Does this mean I'm part of the cursed people that 'cut ties of kinship' ?
Wallahi brother the same thing happens to me sometimes! Most people in my family (mom and dad’s sides) are not very practicing. Especially my dad, whenever I tell him that I want to grow my beard, or when I fold my pants above my ankles, etc., he thinks I’m being too strict or harsh. In addition, he sometimes flirts with non-mahram women at his store which he runs, and when I tell him not to do that, he’s like “What’s wrong with it?” I’m sorry for your experience brother. This happens when you are one of the few Muslims on Earth who actually fear Allah and you advise those who don’t. May Allah make it easy for you, may He make it easy for all of us who are struggling with misguided family members. Ameen
Also about cutting the ties of kinship, this is a major sin in Islam and should never be done, even if you don’t have the best relationship with your relatives. I’m not here to pass fatwas or give professional advice, but what I can tell you is that you should keep a certain distance from your troubled relatives without fully cutting ties. Insha Allah, I hope you understand what I mean. For more information, you should talk about this to someone who has very good knowledge of the Deen. Allahu musta’an.
Subhanallah, its almost as if Allah directly sent this video to me to answer my worries and doubts about my situation. For context, I work at Amazon as a warehouse guy, you know how it goes over there. They are always blasting music through the whole shift (there are very rare occasions when they dont), lots of gossiping, free mixing of course. Just 2 days ago whilst I was working this fellow workmate told me that I am very boring and have no personality since I dont like to be jokey or flirty around her and her friends (paraphrasing slightly here), and it honestly really did make me feel left out like I was killing the mood like the sheikh said so I started to become a bit jokey with them. Nothing went far but this lecture is giving me the courage to stop this all together before it goes too far. I cant simply leave this job either as I need it to provide for my family and there are not any other places that would be suitable for me that will hire. May Allah give us strength in battling this fitnah
EDIT: Jazakallah for all the kind comments you guys left here, may allah bless you and elevate all of you in status wallahi some of the comments brought tears to my eyes. I love this religion so much. As a little progress update, things have gotten better. Alot of the women who used to be flirty have left, and the one that called me "boring" I barely see these days since shes doing other duties around the warehouse that makes it so I dont end up interacting with her much. Another thing is that I have noticed that they play Music way less, so I know Allah is making it easy for me. I still have a ways to go in regards to my conduct around certain people but I will get there inshaallah😁
Ameen
Stay strong 💪
May Allah (swt) give you a better job where he is pleased with you. But you should set the tone and draw a line between you and them. For the females especially because they have no boundaries that's why it's a problem even if you ask them "how they are? " Honestly. How long is your shift.
Yes a Muslim is the one who fights the difficulties and struggles and desires for the hereafter and the one who does not will not be prepared for the questioning
@Original Blizzardhawk yea the live in enjoyment and heedless not aware of the hereafter so what can you expect they try to get the most "fun" out of anything and everything
If I were you I would say I am not here to talk to you or enjoy myself this is my job and not a cafeteria 😜
MashaAllah, I always feel that this sheikh genuinely wants to share knowledge for the betterment of our ummah rather than showing off his knowledge and looking for credit
Agreed… may Allah accept it from him. The only westerner that I will listen to for a reminder.
He’s not a sheikh . He’s an Ustaaadh.
Jaisay kurnee Waisay bhurnee is an Urdu language saying similar to that
This is the exact reason why I enjoy his lectures it's so pure.
oooh Ma Sha ALLAH u feel that way
This is such a beautiful reminder. My husband of 5 years whom is the father of my daughter cheated on me for almost our entire marriage . With different types of women . Wallah I’m more sad that his sins will fall on my daughter . May Allah protect us from such men yarrab and protect our sisters and daughters .
May Allah ease your pain sister and help you through this difficult time. Sending love from another sister
I'm so sorry to hear this sister. May Allah grant you afiyah and may He grant you the best of husbands who will love and cherish you and your daughter as if he was his own. Ameen.
My ex-husband tried to cheat in the first few months of our marriage and this was my second marriage. I am glad I found out in the beginning when we didn't have any children. I am now happily married. We are a patchwork family with his three sons and my daughter from my first marriage. Alhamdulillah.
Sometimes Allah tests us to bring us closer to him or to prepare us and appreciate his blessings more.
@@ummisra alhamdulillah I'm so happy for you sister. May Allah bless your marriage
@@LoveCisse ameen yarrab sis x thank you 🤲🏽❤️
@@ummisra ameen yarrab for all all yarrab . Thank you . May Allah continue to bless your beautiful family ❤️
This lecture made me question myself a lot. I mean a lot. And ive come to the conclusion that I need to take a look at myself and change somethings that I questioned deep down. It made me have an honest conversation with myself. A very scary and real reminder. May Allah protect us all
AlHamdulillah. That’s a very positive outcome and a good sign for you inshaAllah 👍🏽
Alhamdulilllaah
Subhanallah I needed to hear this. I dress modestly but I don’t cover (hijab, jilbaab etc) I always struggled with my internal matching my external. I have pure intentions , pure heart and a very strong connection with Allah but i always get the wrong attention and this is because of how I leave my house with no hijab. Today I will cover in sha Allah may Allah make it easy for me. Furthermore my husband cheated on me, he was on deen, always prayed but took free mixing very lightly. This is a wake up call for me. Jzk khair
May Allah make it easy for you to observe the hijab and keep you firm upon his straight path, ameen x
@@thobaaa ameeeen thank you! Hijab and abaya has been in for one week straight Alhamdulilah
@@Sunsun12279allahuma barik may Allah make it easier for u🥹🤲🏾🤲🏾
Be careful for the ones that appear more religious - they’re the worst ones, hypocritical. No one should ever shame you for not wearing a hijab. You are as good as you are. Wear them when you’re ready, it’s your journey, between you and Allah.
@@tifawt3736so the more religious they look the worse they are? I don’t think you thought that through properly.
I wish the people of my culture can watch this and learn from it for a change and not take free mixing so lightly.
Same
Spread the word to your culture
What culture is this sister?
@@redman6790 My guess is South Asian, my cousins dont think much of free mixing so im ashamed of my culture for that
@admirald.rifter1819 they could be Turkish or Balkan or persian too
Absolutely true, free-mixing is not taken as seriously as it should be. Even when I was 12 or 13, shaytan would still whisper. May Allah bless you brother!
Allahumma Barik brother Nasim seems like he has a lot of ghirah even though he's only 10
MET THIS SHEIK SEEMS LIKE A VERY HUMBLE GUY VERY KIND MAN MAY ALLAH SWT GIVE HIM LONG LIFE AND BEST HELTH.
Honestly young men (and women) like this speaker need to go to these muslim countries and give talks, wallahi we need it in our Muslim countries just as hard (or maybe harder) as we need it here in the west! Jazzakallah Khair
In all and complete honesty, I have never encountered men as flirtatious and womanizing as those I work with from the Middle East.
@@tracywillow5359 wow, where in the middle east exactly??
@@liby254 take a guess
@@liby254 and I don’t mean 1 or 2, I mean a whole lot.
@@tracywillow5359 idk, maybe the countries where Islam is not practiced as heavily... as there are some Muslim countries where Islam is not practiced heavy.
This lecture is such an eye opener, its unbelievable
Yes, that’s right. Don’t believe it.
@@tracywillow5359 what's your way of life?
@@TheKingofdans I live according to what my education, my heart, and my common sense tell me. I don’t live in fear of some controlling, threatening, cruel God. I care for people, help others and worry about humanity more than worrying about earning myself a place in a heaven that may or may not exist. 🙂
@@tracywillow5359 good for you, and you're entitled to that. Ofcourse, you're just a human being, weak and with limited knowledge.
You are living on a rock, that's flying through space, with you having absolutely no control whatsoever, your "knowledge" and your "heart" are as fickle as your life.
You go to bed not knowing if you'll even wake up, I think I'd take the words of the Creator of the heavens and earth and everything in-between than some person on the Internet who speaks from ignorance.
Your knowledge is so flawed that you don't even have the answer to your existence. I suggest you do some pondering and truly marvel at the universe.
Cruelty, right and wrong isn't according to your definition but the definition of the Creator.
Seek truth, and truth only, and once the truth has been made clear to you, make sure you accept it.
Enjoy the rest of your life, but remember, whatever state you were in before you came into this world, that's the same state you'll return to after your passing
For you your way of life, and for me mine
@@tracywillow5359 you are truly lost, relying on your ego thinking you don't need to be accountable for a bigger purpose.. feel bad for you. God is forgiving as long as you remember him and repent for your sins because we all commit sins nobody is perfect.
This lecture hit differently….SubhanAllah.
May Allah preserve you.
“What goes around comes around” this is an Islamic concept yes!! Also day of judgement we will be paid back for what we did in this life.
Fair enough
I like the sheikh .I like his calmness.may Allah give you everything
Surahs to read before sleep
1. 2 last ayahs of surah Al baqarah
2. Surah al sajda(We don't know it's benefit, but our Prophet used to recite it before sleep)
3.Surah Al mulk (protects you from punishment of grave)
4.Surah Al kafiroon(protects you from shirk)
5.Ayatul kursi.(Protects you from shaytan)
6. Surah Al Falaq ,Surah Al nas ,Surah Al ikhlas ( u cup ur hands and blow in them then recite them 1 time each then wipe all over your body as much as you can.)( Repeat all this 3 times)
Its may help you one day on the day of Judgement.
Hope any of you reading may have benefitted (plz spread the word)..As sadaqa jareyah
Jazakallah khayr, may Allah grant your Jannah, Allahumma Ameen.
Add tasbih Fatima by saying before sleeping:
33 times Subhanallah
33 times Al hamdu lillah
34 times Allahu Ackbar
Jazakhallah khair
@@mohammeduddin1528Jazakhallah khair
@@ACZcamsCommentatorJazakhallah khair
Why can't men see women who are not related to them as human beings? Why do they need to be told "don't mistreat women if you don't want another man to do mistreat your sister" like why???
I appreciate you sheikh for calling out the bad men. But it frustrates me that some men need to be scared of someone abusing their own sisters in order to respect women
I think its just used as a way to emphasise not doing something they wouldn't want done to one of their own
Because it is built into the nature of men. We are visual beings and have urges to be intimate with women.
Using the example of safeguarding yourself will safeguared your sisters will help men realise what they are doing.
I agree with you but I think it is to make them realize that if they have a problem with their family members engaging in these things while doing it themselves, then they need to realize that they are contributing to the same problem that is affecting their family members.
Because men are built with desires and you can only put on switch of controlling those desires with morals, intellect and scare tactics. If it was possible to remove these desires there wouldn't be any reproduction now would there? Earth wouldve gone extinct soon after its birth.
But its not always seen as 'abuse'. Men are having illicit relationships. But they won't want their sister to do same. Depending on emaan the hearafter isn't real and tabgible enough to prevent the human from doing sin. So Allah also provides deterrents in this world and in the immediate for those of us with low emaan
Subhan’Allah, the reality of emotional infidelity is devastating. My husband engaged in an emotional affair and it subsequently destroyed our marriage. Another individual’s spouse is not your ‘soul mate’.
We were married for over 2 decades 😔
May Allah give you better than what you lost. Ameen.
So did you leave him
First time I have watched this man, and side from the critism on here I think we need to understand the message that he is giving and learn from that. I was amazed by his talk and found him very good
Can I know what kind of criticism please? Genuinely intrigued
@@omara1055 it was just a few comments I read from other posts
So everybody else got this video when they most needed it eh? Subhanallah.
either u hide ur playlist, or stay away from music.
Scary SubhanAllah. May Allah protect our families Aameen & reward Ustadh for bringing it to the attention of the youth in such an effective manner Aameen
I have been living with this knowing of what my father is doing and I do not have the guts to talk to him about it as it is embarrasing and also something I feel like I cannot change. My father has been chatting up with many women throughout his marriage and since I have become aware of it around 6 years ago. I know how much it has affected my mother when she found out but after a while she stopped caring as she feels like she has lost against him and his behaviour. It pains me to know what he is doing and how he is cheating on my mother. I have tried to bring up this issue with my mother but she seems to not want to engaging in the discussion. I really don't know where to turn or what to do.
Your mother should tell him right before him and in front of you so he can feel the embarrassment and that may help you all to be together and he may give up on his evil actions
@@thehiddenhunter6534 My mother has told him before, she even said that if he doesn't care for they should get a divorce. My dad got angry at her and didn't speak to her for a few days. After that my mum gave up on the issue and she doesn't want to bring it up again.
Assalamualkum sister, sorry to hear that. This is very serious. You should bring in a shayak or a person of knowledge to talk to him. 1) You both need to forbid this evil and remind your father of what he is doing and where he will end up in a respectful manner. Don't stop caring this is the shayton trying to misguide your father. Don't take what he does to you personally. It is hard, but have sabr. 2) If that does not work then bring a person of knowledge in. If this has been going on for more than 6 years then you need to get someone to remind him. 3) send him videos of the dangers of Zina on his phone or about the punisment of Allah or the hellfire 4) If all that does not work then there might be a problem between your father and mother. A problem like your mother would refuse making love or she would not beautify herself for your father. Not trying to blame your mother. It can also be that he works in a very mixed workspace. In that case I would recommend your mother and father with a person of knowledge who deals with marriage problems to come and talk to both of them to end this problem once and for all. 5) Make a lot of Dua all the time. When it is raining, at the last third of the night, every sujood in payer, Ask other to pray for your father without exposing his sin for example you can go around an say " my father is not doing so well could you please make dua for him." It is a right for a Muslim to make dua for his brother if he ask. Fast then break it make dua for your father. Add to the dua, not just make dua for your father make dua for your parents' marriage problem.
Hope this helps. Allah knows best
@@shukriy6268 Thank you sister, your kind advice is heard. I however, my mother has had enough of his behaviour. I don't believe shaitan is the one telling her to look the other way. My mother has gone through many difficulties inher married life and she has told him about the issue and he seems to just turn a blind eye on it. My mother does dress nice and takes care of herself very well. My father is the problem and he simply doesn't care. Maybe there is an intimacy problem I am unaware but maybe this is also not the case. I am so embarrassed to speak up about it and nor can I. I think I will expressed my emotions once I can find the right time, but right now I don't feel comfortable bringing this issue up to father.
@@jannah5921 @-', B l o s s o m b u n n y ,'- @-', B l o s s o m b u n n y ,'- Assalamualaikum I am glad to hear from you, again. I was just saying that your mother should not stop trying. If it is hard for you to find a three problem because either you would not know where to go or whatever other reasons. I recommend you search to a channel name " Gabriel Al Romaani" then go to the about tab then click the link that say " positive Islamic counseling" it will have a big S as it image. He is really good with these kind of situation and I am sure he can help you more than I can. By the will of Allah. One thing that you need to understand is that people are a test you and you are a test to others. I think that is a part of an Ayah if I remember I will tell you. Anyways that is why you need to be patient. When you are dealing with a hardship you are not supposed to just live with it. Just like every sickness has a cure. Every problem has a solution. You have to solve this problem of your parents because it is a right upon you to fulfill for your sinful father and your mother. There is no " when I am really" sister you don't know when you are going to die. It doesn't matter how embarrass you are. You don't want to stand in front of Allah and he will ask " why did you not advise your sinful father. Hope this Help.
Seems like most parents who failed in raising their children properly from a young age, an let the streets, TV raise them. This is what happens.
watching filthy TV shows are normalized nowadays sadly. Its very dangerous watching that filth with no remorse or intention to stop either.
@@Omar-qt4sh Exactly. Especially shows like Love Island
i am the child, raised by the internet
JazakAllahu Khairan Shaykh for such a lecture. It really puts things into perspective. May Allah give us the tawfeeq to rectify our mistakes and change ourselves where we go wrong
Lol. People calling everyone sheikh nowadays you misguided
I love this shiekh subhanAllah, his wisdom and urge to share his knowledge to become beneficial for the ummah ma shaa Allah ya Rabb
Honestly brother and sisters, make duaa for yourselves and your families. When you prioritise the Deen and the pleasure of Allah SWT above all else, clear your intentions for study, work and for your children, Allah SWT opens doors for you and closes the ones of fitnah and harm. I can testify to this and have seen many small miracles, SubhanAllah.
The eye makeup comment is so true! Your observation, evidences & advice is truly spectacular. Thank you. 📣
Yet he said zero about how men dress
Thank you Sheikh for your words of wisdom. May Allah protect you and continue to give you words of wisdom.
I love this channel and the amazing lectures, but if the moderator(s) for Abu Taymiyyahs channel could disable the live chat that would be more beneficial I think. BarakAllahu feekum
Ustadh, please keep uploading videos. We are glad that you are uploading videos regularly.
This one will be interesting…
Very upsetting marriage counselling, guidance and help an courses needed there are alot of problems between husband an wife they need help from others ie masjid an so to help before things hit rock bottom. Haya and modesty needed for all Muslims
SubhanAllah my little sister does that while in salah. May Allah protect us and guide us and the young ones who are the future of Islam
May Allah reward you ustad and protect your family amen!
I have huge respect for this brother..
Brilliant Shaik Abu Taymiyya.
It's great to listen to your talks as it alhamdulillah boost one's imaan.
May Allah always shower you his blessings.
Allah humma baarik dearest respected sheikh JazakAllahu khayrun wa Ahsanal jaza Allahu ilayk always such spiritually uplifting inspiring talks Alhamdulillah 🤲😭🤲😭💝 may Allah subhaanahu ta aala always bless protect guide and help us all to stay on the straight path Aameen thumma Aameen 😥🤲💝
Lol you people call this man sheikh
This is a very true subahanallah, some people are blind to see what goes in their own households, especially in family gatherings. And most of us are left with questions in our minds, why certain things happen. A step ahead of breaking a relationship subahanallah. 😔😔😔😔
Allah bless you and your family.We ask Allah for guidance for our children and our younger generation.
U share relevant knowledge that is real beneficial and motivating.
Same story at every college and university, I suffered immensely. U have a choice to either please Allah or these corrupted individuals. Try to memorize relevant translation of verses of the Quraan. Read surah muminoon (23) verses 1-11...
Girls. Try to continue your education through Distance learning. There are prestigious universities offering degrees off-campus, 100% online and hybrid as well. You’ll get the same degree just as those who attended physically ( traditional route).
Regarding work and job, there are also opportunities like work from home now.
May Allah (swt) ease our affairs and keep us steadfast on our deen.
Yes but I'm a sister who still single because no one in the community knows I exist yet. I am pure etc. We shouldn't lock women away either. I am also alahuma barik a person who is well equipped (not an ugly or stupid) the first univeristy was made by a muslim woman. What about people like me who are looking to marry but truly because of low quality men in western communities or countries have a hard time finding a person? Do I just stay in the corner of my room for someone to find me?
@@PB-si5zt you are allowed to leave sister, it's not human nature to be locked away from humanity. that will lead to mental illness. just adhere to the rules and regulations and you will be okay inshallah
@@PB-si5zt Sister, I'm having a hard time finding husbands for my younger sisters too, lol. They both work outside of the house while wearing Hijab and everything. The muslims in my comunity seem a little bit off, so we intend to save up and move away later, lol. My older brother and I are also looking for a wife. And as you put it, my sisters are also "very well equipped" both mentally and physically, mashallah. It really boils down to making dua and asking for a righteous spouse while putting in the effort. It's really difficult in this western society for practicing muslim men and women to find practicing spouses. May Allah make it easy for us to find spouses before we grow too old. Ameen.
@@tunakpreston8240 Ameen especially in this wishy washy world. May Allah s.w make it easy for you and your family. Here in Australia it's absolutely a trial. There is a lack of any pure men. Having to explain to none muslims no we dont club or drink whilst borthers (and sisters) do. I can only imagine how many people are struggling in muslim countries to hold on to their deen and not fall into western pressure. Tayibeen la tayibat (pure is for pure).
honestly at that point tell that to us brothers too, A brother in these environments is a huge fitna for him and would probably have a harder time controlling himself. we shouldn’t think that only sisters need to be away from these places filled with shaytan influence. listen to the video how can we expect the sisters to be protected if the brothers in this ummah can’t even guard themselves. It’s a huge problem in university
Best lectures of the century. Allahuma barik fi ka wa zuriya ka
Don’t exaggerate please, but, it was a really good lecture Alhamdulillaah.
Subhanallah May Allah protect the Ummah
My world is too small, thanks for the story, really open my eyes even more, I hope all of us are protected by Allah SWT from those filthy situations 🤲🤲🤲❤️❤️❤️🌱🌱🌱
I grew up in saudi arabia. When I was like 8 or 9, my older brother and I would walk our younger sister to school. The older girls at that school who were probably around 14 to 16 wearing niqab and everything, used to wear perfume. That was, and still is my fitnah today. Now I live in the states, so the fitnah is far more than just perfume, but it's still one of the things that make it very hard for me when I'm dealing with females.
And the guys were perfect?
Why don’t u go back to Saudi Arabia ? Because a lot of our backwards desert beliefs usually mean our Muslim countries aren’t appealing to us anymore
@@naviifra2374😂😂😂
@@naviifra2374 SIster did he even say anything about men being perfect or women being not perfect?! why do many women respond with these replies? he never said anything about men being perfect or not!!!!
I am a revert and I have been in many mixed scenarios. I can say from what I have experinced in all the years that most casual posts on social media and mixed gatherings bring only these things ..lust, envy and open doors for users and disrespectful comments and conversations.
Well it leads to emotional and sexual affairs. Theres also the concept of gheera which men and women generally posses but men to a much higher degree. Where we dont want anyone of the opposite gender to be unprofessional with our partner. Many liberal/Western men dont have this in their hearts so they dont understand
Lowering gaze can resolve all of these problems
MashaAllah my late husband. Always told me that he had lots of friends but they are on the road..Alhamdolillah!
22:30 This was a Crazy Story, I wanted to scream man. May Allah Protect us.
JazakAllahu khayr Ustadh , I wish to share something inshaaAlalh so that perhaps change and benefit can come. You mentioned at 36:47 " thats why you shouldnt even be looking at the niqabi women. I couldnt agree more. Sadly though There are some brothers amongst us who Allah has placed in positions of teaching who teach our noble sisters and deem it appropriate to look at them and at times joke with them. Without mentioning names Could you please advise such brothers to teach with a barrier. For verily What man would be comfortable to send his wife to such classes and what could possibly make such a thing okay.😞
بارك الله فيك
Thats why people should learn their religion so they fear Allah & keep away from the forbidden regardless of male or female doing the haram its bad either way may Allah guide us away from devilish acts insha Allah
this story at 1:08:45 has really disturbed me. this poor woman was just trying to do her job and mind her business, and this man who has a sickness in his heart has somehow felt he could invade her space and declare his lust for her despite him having a wife and kids. then abu taymiyyah made it seem like she was purposely inticing him and brings out an "excuse" and that she's been "caught out". is telling someone to leave you alone an excuse now? is doing your work and working hard being "caught out"? have some shame and stop blaming women for everything, this man is the problem, he is the type to not take no for an answer, perhaps even resort to sexually assaulting this innocent woman. i hope this woman reports this creep and he loses his job. i really fear for her safety.
They always blame women for abusing us
I don’t know how you twisted what the sheikh said to fit the feminist narrative that he doesn’t blame brothers. He was just reciting what was written. Many of the stories the brothers were the wrong ones. Not to be judgemental, but you sound like you are dealing with a paternal wound. Stop coming into comment sections projecting your pain, anger and accusations on a sheikh trying to benefit us instead go heal your wounds my sister.
I am disgusted and disturbed by the brothers actions and through this towards this woman, she was minding her own business doing her work and and wasn’t entertaining his disgusting advancements the fact he tried to tarnish her reputation in front of her bosses bc she wouldn’t allow his to get his way or any sort of access to her even tho he is a married man just shows no matter what we do we just can’t win, he claimed he feared Allah yet he is following his desires harassing this poor woman when she doesn’t want anything to do with him I feel bad for his poor wife, I don’t know what is more disturbing the fact that he tried to sabotage her at work because he couldn’t get his way or the fact that he wished divorce upon her and her husband and was lusting after another woman asa married man this is a disease of the heart wallah may Allah protect us from these kinds of people
@@mina.j97 ameen. it's so scary how the devil convinves them that women entice them to do/think evil when really it's their own lack of respect for God.
Allahumma barik brother/sheikh Abu Taymiyyah may Allah keep expanding your knowledge and similar sheikhs around the world 🌎 similar to you and may Allah protect you and the ummah of rasoolAllah ﷺ 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Jazak Allah kheir,
Alvon
It’s very important to mention that brothers should not take sisters as enemies but rather be cautious of the ones that aren’t mahrams for fear of falling into sin together. Remember you are accountable for your sins.
I am at the part about the niqabi women and their eyes. And brother you are so right! I am a woman, I wear niqab and do not apply makeup . But, I have come across niqabis whose eyes I could see and I, as a woman, was like oh wow what beautiful eyes! 😅 so I can't imagine what a man must be thinking or feeling when seeing those same eyes 😮
Very beneficial lecture jazaakallahu khair ustadh
The creator knows the fitrah of its creation. The cotton and fire example is a good one. That is why Allah swt has put these restrictions on us to prevent the fitna that will ensue if we do not follow the divine guidance. It is for us; prevention is better than cure.
I needed this dearly
📢📢 Timestamps for filthy Husbands and dirty Fathers.📢📢
0:01>> Urgent appeal for the draught that's happening in Pakistan.
1:17>> Beginning of lecture and Ustadh's introduction.
1:40>> Ustadh asks some interesting questions to the Brothers present.
4:35>> The concept of what goes round comes around and some incidents related to it.
14:14>> The reason why Ustadh was asking those questions to the Brothers at the beginning.
15:38>> A true story that was told to Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah by His Shaykh.
19:27>> The hypocrisy of some Brothers and what they do.
20:43>> An incident that was told to Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah by His Mother.
28:40>> A Somali proverb taught to Ustadh by His Mother and what it means and some incidents.
37:41>> Men and Women being alone with each other is a recipe for disaster.
39:16>> A story that was posted on Islam Q&A and Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah reads it to the Brothers and some incidents related to it.
Jazakallah brother
Jazakhallah
9:03 "Wa men ya3mel mithqala tharatin sharran yarah "
Thank you this was very beneficial
Jazakallahu khayran Abu taymiyyah
1:17:45 current stamp
May Allah SWT save us from bad stuff
Aameen
Subhana Allah, sad, sad story abt the brother and the sister, terrifying. What comes around goes around. But... if they knew eachother so well, then how could they be so close and not feel something familiar, despite dark room, exitement and all? Just wondering.
Jazak Allah Khair Sheikh
For example if you treat your parents bad your children will treat you bad as well
Come to Saudi Arabia...still very conservative and safe
Alhamdullilah. In shaa Allah they allow us to make Hijrah there one day
This is not true at all sadly.
I am Christian but have worked alongside Muslims in my time I like to watch these videos n brush up 4 guidance as the quaran seems to have many an answer I'm always looking for about things wich Christianity does not tell me or give me n I don't see a Christian preacher doing vids n lectures like these why don't I convert you ask because 1 my name means god is with you the rising and 2 I like to 🎨 paint and music 🎶 🚬 and Jesus laugh o😂 t loud
@Jesus PBUH worshipped Allah I did not mock him every body has hardships in life
that shouldn’t stop you from converting, all muslims struggle with sin. you should do more research, and if you convert you’ll find more fulfilling things to spend your time in than sinful hobbies
Brother, the mercy of your creator is above your sins and struggles in this life.
The purpose of this life is to worship our creator alone without partners or intercessors, follow what he's obligated, then to stay away from what he's prohibited to the best of your ability.
Jesus (peace and blessings be upon him) was a monotheist who taught and acted upon the same teachings.
May Allah guide you to the right path.
Jazakalah kheir sheikh for your lectures they really help
These people are disgusting.. (the ones in the stories) woe to them! I fear for this Ummah I genuinely do!
No one is perfect ask Allah for protection no one is free from Shaytan may الله سبحانه وتعالى forgive us
I think a woman too has be careful because she has mouth and can disallow any fifth coming her way. She has to stay away from men aswell. May Allah protect us from the plots of Shatan.
Yes sister but I think this was the class for brothers. The sister classes are never uploaded. But when I went to a sisters mad thing in the masjid we where told off too lol
May Allah guide us.
I’m gonna give her dawah 🤦🏿♂️ May Allah guide us. This dunya is tricky tricky.
Barakallahu feek.
Subanallah regarding to story of Sina I heart something similar happen in Germany but it was it about reaping.
Asalam alaykum brother. Barakallahu laka wa Barakallahu laka fii ilmika. Unlike the disdain from most of salafi preachers, you try your level best to be genuine. I could listen to criticism coming from you and let it pass through the throat but for other few Salafi preachers out there there warns and admonition just don't pass through the throat. My guess is that there is something wrong with a preacher's genuineness when the message doesn't get through to the heart even with the most eloquent of speeches. ALHAMDULILLAH.
So if a man can’t control himself around a niqabi shouldn’t he look for psychological support?
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
جزاك الله خيرا
Is it possible to send a link to all those stories especially Umm Muhammed.
Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Did you find them?
theauthenticbase.wordpress.com/2010/06/20/victims-of-mixing-true-stories/
Barakallahulakkum
May allah reward u
Don't ever make premiere because CZcams puts 2 min countdown before the starts of the video with music.
Its youtube not him
What's the best way to benefit from these lectures?
Not only in Pakistan but also- here in kenya
Ma sha Allah ❤🌹🌹🌹
Jzk amazing lecture
00:05 Please put link in description
جزاك ﷲ خيراً
subhanallah alhamdulillah allahu akbar
I don’t think there is a nursery rhyme what goes round comes round please enlighten me
VERY TRUE BRO GOOD REMINDER
Assalamu 'alaykum. Was the Arabic that was mentioned before 59:45 from the Qur'an or a hadith?
Its verses from Surah An-Nisaa [4:66-68]
Thank you!
Disgusting behaviour.. Please make sure the information is right. I’ve heard false information about me which was not true. Someone apparently ‘impregnated’ me as well. Some sad bastard who could not handle rejection. So false rumours were spread around. Always make sure it’s clarified.
I personally trusted my best friend more than i should, even if I was not at home, he used to come. He ends up having sex with my wife. I had to divorce my wife while we still love each other.
This is extremely sad Akhi….. how did your exwife even agree to that and not scream for help? You dodged a bullet brother that woman was trash and so was your best mate. Tbh though I feel bad for you but you were being a Dayooth… never would I even allow my own brother alone in the house with my wife, let alone another friend and I love my brothers to death! No wonder why Interacting with non mahrams and free mixing are haram and lead to such disgusting outcomes! May Allah guide us all.
@@hussainak8914 this is so disgusting subhanaAlah
may Allah guide her and all of us. May Allah ease the pain of love in your heart.
You should never allow a person of either male or female to go sit with each other as the devil is the third & why are they there if the other one isn't home learn religion it tells you not to do this
Amazing don't bring friends in your houses for regularly visits once upon a time too often they gets too comfortable and destroy your marriage 💑 🤵♀️ 👰♂ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♀️ 👰♂ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♂️ 👰♂ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♂️ 👰♀ 😉 😀 💑 🤵♀️ it happens a lots keep your friendships out of your 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 🏠 🏘 .
What?you got some weirdo friends then lmao ,you don't do that, don't tell others what to do
Well, married Muslim women also have affairs! We need to come out of this daze that only Muslim men are immoral when it comes to marriages and women are by default innocent or incapable of sin. Yes, the ratio of men seems higher but if we are to tackle this problem, we need to realize that women also abuse men financially, verbally, emotionally by blocking access to kids in divorced, physically by getting their corrupt fathers, brothers involved to assault the husband, fake abuse and call cops, etc let’s hope toxic feminism doesn’t get to us like it has gotten to those who came before us!
What made you think that isn't the case when such examples were already shared in the lecture? Did you watch it?
@@sb_1389 I was taking about the video title being very biased against men!
@@Quantum-1157 ...and did you watch the video?
Funny. Had this lecture been about women and one of the sisters complained that he failed to speak about the misbehaviours of men, all of you would latch to her comment and label her a feminist😂.
@@aaliyah3037 there’s nothing funny sister about the wave of toxic feminism that has made western-based scholars not talk about ahadith discussing husbands rights etc while the sheikh has done justice here to a degree I know of scholars in USA , etc who say they really dint want to discuss the evil things women do or the Hadith about husbands rights because that’ll ‘anger young Muslima sisters who are struggling with becoming practicing Muslimas in the west’ that’s because the environment amd media has worked hard to portray all women as innocent victims and all men as evil oppressors. Etc etc
20:00 sad story.
The beginning of that video is sad. Sometimes I’m ungrateful for things I know it could be worst I could literally be struggling for water and food right now. I still rather be in a Muslim land instead of America however.
آمین آمین
If I ever try speaking about deen or point out something bad their doing to about 90% of the women in my family they get angry and aggressive, so finally after so many years I've just cut off most of my family from my heart because even most of the males support them, call me 'too extreme' and get angry accessing me of 'trying to disgrace the females of the family' and 'causing trouble'. Does this mean I'm part of the cursed people that 'cut ties of kinship' ?
Wallahi brother the same thing happens to me sometimes! Most people in my family (mom and dad’s sides) are not very practicing. Especially my dad, whenever I tell him that I want to grow my beard, or when I fold my pants above my ankles, etc., he thinks I’m being too strict or harsh. In addition, he sometimes flirts with non-mahram women at his store which he runs, and when I tell him not to do that, he’s like “What’s wrong with it?”
I’m sorry for your experience brother. This happens when you are one of the few Muslims on Earth who actually fear Allah and you advise those who don’t.
May Allah make it easy for you, may He make it easy for all of us who are struggling with misguided family members. Ameen
Also about cutting the ties of kinship, this is a major sin in Islam and should never be done, even if you don’t have the best relationship with your relatives.
I’m not here to pass fatwas or give professional advice, but what I can tell you is that you should keep a certain distance from your troubled relatives without fully cutting ties. Insha Allah, I hope you understand what I mean.
For more information, you should talk about this to someone who has very good knowledge of the Deen. Allahu musta’an.
@@fardeenmahmud8866 jazak'allah khayr bro. I hear you
clearly understandable.
nothing last forever