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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
  • In this beautiful story meet Mehak, a modern Indian woman who believes in the power of self-determination and supporting her family. She connects with Arjun through a matrimonial site, and their bond grows stronger with time. The story takes an unexpected turn when they decide to introduce their families. Arjun's parents arrive with their own expectations. However, Mehak's strong-willed nature and commitment to supporting her mother leads to a showdown that tests the strength of their relationship. She stands firm on her beliefs, while Arjun must make a life-changing decision. The question arises: Will Arjun take a stand for love and support Mehak's dreams? Or will societal pressures dictate their fate?
    #whynot #arrangemarriage #familydrama #shortfilm #womenempowerment

Komentáře • 468

  • @LifeTak
    @LifeTak  Před 11 měsíci +74

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    • @ankusht2789
      @ankusht2789 Před 11 měsíci +4

      I don’t why but I really luv the character of mother in your videos
      She always done justice
      Plz convey my message to her that she is awesome
      Her work
      Her acting
      ✨👌👌

    • @dyalsaraswati3915
      @dyalsaraswati3915 Před 11 měsíci +3

      ARJUN GUJRATI BRAHMAN FAMILY SE HOGA .BRAHMNO K H AISE SANSKAR H K LDKI SHADEE K BAD KAM NHI KREGE .BGAIRA BGAIRA

    • @krishnabhakthi890
      @krishnabhakthi890 Před 11 měsíci

      Bakwas tha

    • @twinklekhandelwal7324
      @twinklekhandelwal7324 Před 11 měsíci

      This is half truth only. Every coin has two faces. The so called independent girls these days earn, have bad attitude towards the inlaws, agreed she should have if they are bad but if not then???
      Don't you think a mother who is a homemaker , cares for her children do you regard her as a laid back and old fashioned??? A homemaker is working. 24/7 for her family so she is no way less than an independent woman. Don't compare these two please ...and if possible show the full truth that how the real papa ki Paris destroy everyone's life these days....

    • @tanpuia1890
      @tanpuia1890 Před 10 měsíci

      arrangemarriage

  • @roronoazorro8822
    @roronoazorro8822 Před 11 měsíci +236

    A friendly suggestion To all those girls out there. Stay away from "Mumma's Boy" type men. They will behave nicely and confident/outspoken outside the house, but infront of their parents they will become a completely timid person. They will always take side of their parents even if they are wrong.

    • @abhishri5864
      @abhishri5864 Před 9 měsíci +1

      100%

    • @suhanisharma8132
      @suhanisharma8132 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Thank God atleast somebody spoke it👍

    • @kirtikhandelwal6822
      @kirtikhandelwal6822 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Correct....such people remain same throughout life, it's becomes difficult to adjust with them, suffocating hota h

    • @riscnx
      @riscnx Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@kirtikhandelwal6822 Speak for your own cast, kind & gen.

    • @naturalnature1818
      @naturalnature1818 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Mumma's boy ye hain to hum bhi papa mumma's girl hee hain.. ye log bhool jaate hain😂

  • @mariadcosta2437
    @mariadcosta2437 Před rokem +98

    My mother didn't take a stand and ended up as a homemaker instead of continuing as a working woman. I could sense her unhappiness so when it was my turn to make a decision I chose to remain single.

  • @reetusingh48
    @reetusingh48 Před 11 měsíci +67

    Hats off to girl’s mother!!
    Society needs such mothers! ❤

  • @shende28
    @shende28 Před 11 měsíci +99

    Being a doctor myself, in one of jeevansathi match i talk to a doctor, he said even if u earn u have to cook everyday after marriage, i asked if he can he said shamelessly that he only knows how to eat.
    That was just speechless moment for me. How can u expect working doctor whose job 24×7 to cook each and everymeal beyond me, i said to him brother look for someone else.

    • @sarbjeetkhosaUcan
      @sarbjeetkhosaUcan Před 11 měsíci +11

      U made the right decision

    • @NISKAT1114
      @NISKAT1114 Před 10 měsíci +8

      U hv made da bst decision sis

    • @bimugdhabiswas2812
      @bimugdhabiswas2812 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Asking someone for cooking after marriage is a shameless thing?? Really, you are so mean..

    • @aarnamalhotra3349
      @aarnamalhotra3349 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​@@bimugdhabiswas2812do u have any common sense at all?

  • @softwareproff7885
    @softwareproff7885 Před rokem +62

    Whoever tell ‘shaadi ke baad fix ho jaathe hain’ - it cannot be. It’s worst maintaining both but still have to do. Here, mother is ❤ awesome.

  • @Byte-sizedGerman
    @Byte-sizedGerman Před 8 měsíci +24

    Applaus for her mother. Not all parents understand their daughters. Even in today's world some parents just want their daughters to bow down to their in -laws even if their own daughters are right.

  • @DrRohiniM
    @DrRohiniM Před rokem +75

    Being the only daughter, I needed this rn...
    I'll make sure to stay as strong as her and get married on my own terms, confront my in laws before hand and speak clearly

    • @DevangiBari
      @DevangiBari Před rokem

      Don't get married to a loser!!!!!!! All men are one!!!

  • @AswathyNair25
    @AswathyNair25 Před rokem +203

    Being the only daughter of a single mother I know what this stand means ❤......she just did great

    • @zoeyanaqvi-zn7482
      @zoeyanaqvi-zn7482 Před 11 měsíci +2

      True

    • @SureshKumar-gu9cu
      @SureshKumar-gu9cu Před 11 měsíci +8

      Woman taking a stand is fine. But boy taking a stand to support his parents is wrong. Wow, what a double standard mind.

    • @zoeyanaqvi-zn7482
      @zoeyanaqvi-zn7482 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@SureshKumar-gu9cu yes humanity- care and support is a must in every relation.

    • @epitomeofelegance9144
      @epitomeofelegance9144 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Exactly my life story...only daughter of my single mother

    • @SureshKumar-gu9cu
      @SureshKumar-gu9cu Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@zoeyanaqvi-zn7482 That is a generic statement you have provided about humanity care. But in reality people have started to ask women to take a stand and putting down men taking stand. Feminism is becoming equal to putting down men and their choices and their desires. That is what this youtube channel is also propagating if you look at it. In the name of women empowerment they are doing men hating and put down men. Some do it subtly like this channel and some do it directly like the vocal feminists.

  • @nehagupta9267
    @nehagupta9267 Před rokem +145

    After marriage all problems will get resolve , this is the worst mistake we all do

    • @SharanjeetKaurSohal
      @SharanjeetKaurSohal Před rokem

      So true..... Make things clear before marriage talk with ur parents..... And that guy also.... I am always clear about this thing in life..... Thats why i feel blessed and whenever someone tell to me he is handsome u reject have reason for it i have no regret at all

    • @nikitafernandes461
      @nikitafernandes461 Před 11 měsíci +5

      @nehagupta9267 so true after marriage nothing changes
      It becomes a very hard time for girls to adjust

    • @sann5146
      @sann5146 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Why marry at all, anyway?

  • @meenaiyer5856
    @meenaiyer5856 Před rokem +72

    I was the only support of my father and till his last breadth I supported him emotionally and financially My Mother and Sister died early in life and I am proud to say my Husband supported me and also jointly conducted my father's last rites All Men are not same I think it is necessary for Women to change and accept another women in son's Life

    • @riscnx
      @riscnx Před 6 měsíci +2

      I think you are just luck that you found the person that suited you.
      There are good men & women, who's parents raised them with idea to never depend on their kids (not financially at least)... But if their partner does not go forward with similar philosophy... there will be conflict of interest.
      It's not necessary for women to change & accept another women, because that another women may not aways want best for the family.
      If a mother has dedicated her whole life on a family, why should she change herself to please someone who hasn't even accepted the family?

  • @devikap8089
    @devikap8089 Před rokem +268

    Even if it is the 21st century, this video reminds me that still many girls live under the shadow of societal pressure. From taking a stand for themselves to working hard to chase their dreams and make it a reality still seems like a herculean task. How I wished the boy would have altogether taken a different stand in the end rather than succumbing to his parent's wishes.....

    • @scintillatingconquistador28
      @scintillatingconquistador28 Před 11 měsíci +6

      Toh aise ladko se shaadi hi mat karo problem solved

    • @SureshKumar-gu9cu
      @SureshKumar-gu9cu Před 11 měsíci +1

      Wow, typical double standard feminism screwed up brain. You are saying the girl is good for taking a stand. But the boy also took a stand to support his parents. But then he has suddenly become bad for doing the same thing as girl (which is taking a stand) and he is expected to do differently while the girl can do what she wants to do and she need not do differently. Wow, double standards.

    • @sonakshi-jl6gq
      @sonakshi-jl6gq Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@scintillatingconquistador28good

    • @payalagrawal6791
      @payalagrawal6791 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Jhuthe logo k sath kya kare .. yaha to clear to bol Diya k unhe job karne vali ladki nai chahiye ... log to pehle bolte h haa job Karo Hume koi problem nai m.. fir mukaar jate h ... these people are way better

    • @raisinasalim7034
      @raisinasalim7034 Před 9 měsíci

      He represents a vast majority, 😄

  • @deshpremi7685
    @deshpremi7685 Před 11 měsíci +31

    I had a love marriage. And had to face this after marriage and also a child as i was working in a different city. I took a stand for myself and my baby. I can relate with this so much. And its giving me a different strength as if this channel is also supporting me.
    Thank you.

  • @prasannakauta94
    @prasannakauta94 Před 11 měsíci +11

    Girl is very clear in thoughts, matured and responsible. She deserves better guy (being beautiful doesn't matter, its personality and financially stable that qualifies).

  • @shardaas
    @shardaas Před 11 měsíci +50

    One thing I always found out is you can never change someone after marriage. It’s very hard. The girl is right. I am glad she did what was right for her. The boy will get a girl too I am sure but I hope she is okay with staying home. Forcing someone is where problem arises. Also I am glad the girl talked openly. People who talk both ways are really hard to manage. That’s the main issue. Telling something to you and something else to mom is a bad idea. He can never decide for himself

    • @jb3144
      @jb3144 Před 11 měsíci +5

      And the thing is why try to change someone. Rather find someone whose thoughts, goals and values align with yours than finding someone with a different outlook and then trying to change them.

    • @shardaas
      @shardaas Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@jb3144 So true... Thats exactly on point. False promises never work. Find someone who shares and understands your value and who you understand too. Both your goals and values should be similar.

    • @mikkunmummaworld9895
      @mikkunmummaworld9895 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@jb3144 agreed.....

  • @PKSD2019
    @PKSD2019 Před 11 měsíci +147

    This had happened in my sister's life. Its a normal arranged marriage through matrimony. Firstly they agree for everything. They accept all ur conditions. They said she can work, they dont want dowry, they need a daughter, etc. Its bcoz they liked her a lot and horoscopes matched excellently. After marriage they literally did everything reverse of what they said. Harassed her mentally and physically too. But she was strong enough to leave that house. She got divorced after 7 years of struggle and now living independently and peacefully.
    Its common sense. No body wants to put a bad impression on themselves especially when they meet for a match. They act, pretend , show only their good side. Arranged marriages happen in months. So u don't get enough time to get to know the reality too.
    Divorce is a taboo. So girls and her parents will be compromised after marriage. Few shameless families take advantage of this and spoil girls lives.
    Tell them before hand that if any of ur conditions are not true , if u face any kind of violence, abuse and if things go till Divorce then u will not hesitate to file cases on them and take a huge amount as alimony.

    • @MrDipakDash
      @MrDipakDash Před 11 měsíci +6

      Everything you mentioned is correct.. if any man behaves double standard after marriage. But why the girl will demand huge alimony which you mentioned last line?

    • @shamiselvan1918
      @shamiselvan1918 Před 11 měsíci +18

      @d.s.k.prasanthi3344 What u said is correct.. infact I'm facing these problems in my life.. As an MBA graduate I have now become a house maker for my husband's family.. I'm not financially independent so I can't help or support my family when they're in debt.. I took a break from my career.. after marriage I lost my job, health issues, pregnancy,body changes, mental stress harassment, violence who will handle those things?? even after divorce why do some ladies ask alimony?? Bcoz they lost their whole life believing that their marriage life will be better but the truth is they never get better until we get out of that.. the pain we undergo during delivery will be a nightmare for our life.. but any husband will help after delivery when their wife is suffering from postpartum depression.. bcoz of our children we compromise so many things.. after divorce women need some time to stand financially until they need some alimony to look after their children.. bcoz it's husband family fault who cover their lies with honey and spoil women's life.. in this generation also divorced men get easily married bt divorced women was easily judged by this society.. divorce is still taboo for women.. once the women open their mouth and say 'no'..divorce rate will be increase in India..

    • @shilpakamath
      @shilpakamath Před 11 měsíci +16

      ​@@MrDipakDashthat's a punishment for deceiving her and destroying 7 precious years of her life.

    • @PKSD2019
      @PKSD2019 Před 11 měsíci +14

      ​@@MrDipakDashin this case , she lost 7 years of her life. She is now earning 15k per month even though she is a double pg holder. All her oppurtunities were snatched. She went into depression and got a heart problem. Who is gonna pay for this ? She suffered in that home. She was not given the status of a wife. She has no children bcoz he was impotent. My parents have sold their land for marriage. Boys side must compensate for their wrong doings. Many families dont allow their DIL to work after marriage. And when divorce happens they don't compensate the loss she had for staying in such relationship.
      Im definitely not in favour of women who demand alimony without any reason, by filing false cases or to threaten the husband or who are capable of earning and still demand it.
      Im talking about women who innocently quit jobs after marriage for the sake of family and work hard as home makers without any pay. And these ppl are tortured and left on the roads after divorce. So they must take alimony.

    • @hrishant100
      @hrishant100 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Wife quit her job 😂😂😂 so that she needs to compensated, why because job is the alternative of the husband.
      She have to have one for survival.
      Delusional wife before marriage - hey future husband you must earn more than me so that I can choose n pick when to have ur replacement or not. But you must commit you won't look any other women.
      If the girls are so determined to take care, commit to take care for the life marry for love marry a broke he won't restrict you.
      Ask him to move in ur house...
      Oh you can't do that for complete life... but guy is lying and deceitful 😂😂😂😂
      What a joke....

  • @rumisworld4222
    @rumisworld4222 Před 11 měsíci +18

    Most of the girls get fluked by the statement shaadi ke baad dekh lenge , things will be fine after marriage. Don't marry with assumptions every women has its own life should not be taken for granted. So marriage is not important being happy is be it single or any relationship status.

  • @sewaniguria7332
    @sewaniguria7332 Před rokem +42

    Every girl should be independent in their lives.. Career first then other....
    I loved this video... Good lessons for society ❤❤❤❤

  • @niluferessa1475
    @niluferessa1475 Před 11 měsíci +15

    The girl made the right decision. Proud of her. 👍

  • @rajk2677
    @rajk2677 Před rokem +52

    The sad part is that what the partners promise to each other and their expectation change dramatically once the marriage is solemnised. All the claims of undying love before marriage vanish into thin air.

  • @ashoojit
    @ashoojit Před 11 měsíci +10

    Definitely. If you can't stand for yourself, who else will stand for you

  • @nalinipriyagundlapuri5538

    Very good decision and clear discussion before wedding... wish I had done the same 24yrs back... May be I would have led more peaceful life

    • @musicalsoul2835
      @musicalsoul2835 Před 11 měsíci +3

      I wish I too had done this 13 years back.. 😞

  • @anweshabhattacharya4947
    @anweshabhattacharya4947 Před rokem +493

    Excellent. The girl did the right thing. The boy as well as his parents are shameless people who wanted a maid and not a loved one for their family.

    • @isharawat4272
      @isharawat4272 Před rokem +5

      Correct

    • @mehulgosar
      @mehulgosar Před rokem +14

      Completely disagree atleast for parents, atleast thy were clear beforehand, agree for boy, he manipulated and no doubt he was shameless

    • @anweshabhattacharya4947
      @anweshabhattacharya4947 Před rokem +24

      The boy's parents wanted a stay at home bahu.. which would have been okay 10 years back.. even today it's a personal choice.. but standing on the current date and asking the girl's mother, who is all alone, what she would do after her daughter's marriage, is completely inhuman and gives the proof of their low mindset..marriage is a bonding between 2 families.. if the boy's parents are human beings and need care, so are the girl's parents.

    • @RaviChandran-mj1qk
      @RaviChandran-mj1qk Před rokem +2

      I also agree with this.

    • @mehulgosar
      @mehulgosar Před rokem

      @@anweshabhattacharya4947 they were never against she supporting her parents -watch the video again - that is managable even if she is housewife and husband can take care of her parents financially - my simple point is whatever their thoughts were, thy were clear upfront and thts very good part of it! Not judging their thoughts but conduct which I really appreciate!

  • @vidyarj85
    @vidyarj85 Před 11 měsíci +10

    आप सब का बहोत बहोत धन्यवाद ऐसे टॉपिक पे फिल्म निकालने के लिये...बहोत जरुरत है ऐसे विषय को highlight करने की..❤❤

  • @shuchi6381
    @shuchi6381 Před rokem +7

    True. One should take a stand. I regret not taking one. And I still suffer because of that. I wish I had taken my stand…😕😕

  • @kunalkumar6783
    @kunalkumar6783 Před 11 měsíci +6

    That's the stand I want from today's girl. Be Powerful.

  • @Simple_Indian
    @Simple_Indian Před rokem +13

    Fine episode. Sadly, even in this modern era, many women are conservative and expect their daughter-in-law to be a home-maker. Some are greedy too, and expect their DIL to both have a career / job AND take care of household chores. Due to high cost of living and rising expenses, women are forced to work to add to family income. So, it's unfair to expect them to manage career / job and home all by themselves. Many men have started helping in household work, but it's still a tiny number. Women should always have the choice of how they want to lead their life, even after marriage. Liked Mehak standing her ground and saying that she will support her mom even after marriage. It's good that Mehak decided not to marry a wimp like Arjun who agreed to her terms in private but stayed silent in his parents' presence.

  • @shruthit.g.9475
    @shruthit.g.9475 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I am definitely such mother. I don't want to restrict about anything on my daughter. I will always trust her for everything. I will raise her in such a way that she becomes an independent smart and kind woman

  • @gowd3092
    @gowd3092 Před 11 měsíci +82

    Everyone has their own preferences. if you want a DIL who should stay at home after marriage, then choose a girl who doesn't want to work. But stopping someone to work is rude. No one has the right to stop supporting our parents, irrespective of gender.

    • @hrishant100
      @hrishant100 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Stay in live-in don't marry.

    • @neetusingh-kt2no
      @neetusingh-kt2no Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@hrishant100 why to even be in live in relationship ?? Those are even worse than marriage !

    • @hrishant100
      @hrishant100 Před 11 měsíci

      @@neetusingh-kt2no everyone is free to choose what they want to do. No restriction...

  • @asmasayed9228
    @asmasayed9228 Před 11 měsíci +33

    It’s easy to take a stand when your family is supportive of it. Nevertheless, it’s important to take a stand. No matter how difficult it seems, how alone you feel at that time. One should always choose yourself over oppression of any kind. With time, things eventually fall in place.

  • @Firstinformation1
    @Firstinformation1 Před rokem +112

    Before 12 years, I was in the place of Mehek, and I can feel how tough it is to search a life partner who will support you in everything.
    🤞 I got that one who supports and loves and cares me and my profession 😊

  • @psych_facts.
    @psych_facts. Před 11 měsíci +15

    Story of Indian daughters in the most subtle manner 😊

  • @aartisharma1516
    @aartisharma1516 Před rokem +6

    Mehak did the right thing women can take both responsibility house and job ...they can manage both things simultaneously

  • @aradhanabhardwaj5044
    @aradhanabhardwaj5044 Před 11 měsíci +14

    Keep telling these stories..our society and our women need to take the responsibilities ahead of household..and everyone must be responsible for household chores..

    • @shilpakamath
      @shilpakamath Před 11 měsíci

      Your last sentence is especially to be noted and brought into practice in every house with working woman

  • @AuthorBooksReader
    @AuthorBooksReader Před 11 měsíci +20

    To all the girls if you are financially independent, you have your own house, then please take a stand in such situations. these rules that a girl should look after the family and all were all set because back then the girls were not educated and were not financially independent. now we as women should stand for ourselves and ask for equality because that is the thing that no one is going to give us.
    The other name for marriage is basically a full series of women's compromises. we are asked to change our surname even though we are no longer dependent on our husband's salary. the baby born is given the surname of the father even though the baby grows in the mother's womb for 9 months. also, she is equally contributing to his/her growth.
    We as a woman should ask these questions to ourselves that , why do always we need to compromise why not men.?
    we should bring a change which we want in the world. lets break the old age stereotype.

    • @Unknown_18_19
      @Unknown_18_19 Před 11 měsíci

      👍

    • @AuthorBooksReader
      @AuthorBooksReader Před 11 měsíci

      @@user-mu3bt8iv4q I never see any man changing his surname to his wife's name after marriage. can you please mention where you saw this miracle?
      also, I hope you are aware of female infanticide? if you don't know please google it and you will get to know that more than 10 million female fetuses may have been illegally aborted in India since the 1990s and 500,000 girls were being lost annually due to female foeticide.
      why do think female infanticide happens? and why not male infanticide?
      you know someone very rightly said that women are the biggest enemies of women.
      Despite being educated and knowing the fact we as women are not ready to take a stand for our rights which are our own and nobody has a right to take them away from us.
      female foeticide is damage that is caused due to passing only the father's surname to the child. Don't you think this is enough for us to take a stand? just imagine a world where both surnames are passed or any other equal laws and all these murders will automatically reduce.
      I urge you to support equality and take a stand for that because you do not know how much damage has already happened because of that and how much more can happen. because after knowing these facts if we don't support and take a stand for equality then we are equally responsible for all these murders in the womb because finally killing is killing no matter if you kill outside or inside the womb.

  • @Love_DivineAnn
    @Love_DivineAnn Před 11 měsíci +5

    If only women around me give back up support. Bless you both for making this video to inspire women to support each other. This is unconditional Love support.

  • @AkiraNandini
    @AkiraNandini Před 11 měsíci +5

    There will be no discussions after marriage. Every thing should be decided before itself. The samething happened to my friend and thankgod I told clearly about this to my husband and inlaws before marriage.

  • @deepanjaliganguly1096
    @deepanjaliganguly1096 Před rokem +8

    This is what people usually do they say we don't have any problem if the girl wants to work after marriage and after marriage they make such circumstances that she is not able to continue her job......atleast here they have cleared their intension before hand only

  • @drpritee2751
    @drpritee2751 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Woman is always doing compromises for her family and to keep her marriage alive. But there is no point in suffering. Cause people never understand it. So taking right decision at right time is very important for a girl. Kudos to the team for this excellent work

  • @prachiraizada8429
    @prachiraizada8429 Před rokem +8

    Very well done girl,perfect decision And her mother was absolutely right that he's not supporting you now, what will he do later.

  • @partharoy7527
    @partharoy7527 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Its a short video..but the matter is for long even the whole life... the earth will not become flat after marriage, its better to take a stand for yourself ... every girl should be enough independent that no one can dare to threaten in any way... it should be 50-50 from both side..no less no more..one can adjust with things but should never compromise ... very relevant topic..😊😊

  • @ritushrivas9306
    @ritushrivas9306 Před rokem +7

    Best decision.. He is mumma's boy and at least showed reality before marriage. Else once she is married to the guy their in laws will make her life hell.

  • @tanushrikanu8988
    @tanushrikanu8988 Před rokem +16

    I have not listened such thing infact I am facing it. Recently, my father has expired, Did all the rituals but when fixing the financial matter for my mother, my husband asked me how much time will it take to settle? As I was not in the house, his mother had to cook, my husband felt bad for his mother so he asked me to come fast leaving my mother. As I am not working woman so I had to come leaving my mother. I am against the society norms where boys mother will get all the priority and a girls mother will not get any rest.. Why such things still prevail in the society? I wish if I were matured enough during my marriage then such things would not happen with my mother.. I really feel sorry for my mother.

    • @cg5611
      @cg5611 Před rokem +3

      Not too late,take a stand.

    • @anviraut9369
      @anviraut9369 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@cg5611what do you mean bro ?

    • @cg5611
      @cg5611 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@anviraut9369 don't keep quiet, when you are aware of the right and wrong.

    • @sonujain2348
      @sonujain2348 Před 11 měsíci +2

      pls take care of u r mother . apne husband ko bolo ki jese unko mother se pyar h vese apko bhi apni mother s pyar h . vo kuch bhi bole dhyan mat do . apke father k jane k bad vo akele ho gai h unka khyal rakho pls. sare husband or INLAWS to society s conditioned hote h

    • @tanushrikanu8988
      @tanushrikanu8988 Před 11 měsíci

      Thank you everyone for your advice.. I will definitely try to take a stand against this and will also try to convince my i law's to take care of my mother

  • @angrybird2227
    @angrybird2227 Před 11 měsíci +7

    This boy is very clever. He just try to manage both side. After marriage he is going to stop his wifes job for sure..
    Every woman should awar from this type of people.

  • @shefalidoshi2731
    @shefalidoshi2731 Před 11 měsíci +5

    To the people in comment section who's saying- How badly we wished Arjun took her side infront of the parents! I am glad he didn't try to be the So called Supportive Guy on upfront. Bcz So many cases reflect that such boys n families agree before marriage just for the sake of saying it but later on they put mental pressure indirectly on girl of handling everything job , ghar, khaana, inlaws, bahar ka grocery, family needs and when they miss out on even one thing- they force her to leave the job by putting all the blame that She can't handle things properly and She's not treating that home n family of her own!!
    All of that puts the girl in extreme emotional stress n eventually physical sickness too.
    So i feel this was better
    To see the clear picture before marriage and no forceful compromises later!

  • @ranikalra4239
    @ranikalra4239 Před rokem +4

    Right decease
    She is brave.
    Every girl should be like this girl 😊

  • @SidraKarim-dh5bp
    @SidraKarim-dh5bp Před rokem +9

    I hope no one get married to a guy like Arjuna, who is just a mama's boy and wants someone to babysit him and his parents

  • @aakritisrivastav6360
    @aakritisrivastav6360 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you for such a wonderful video. It is very much required to make the society realise that girls are not bounded after marriage to follow their in-laws and husband. It is her personal choice to work , to cook or anything.

  • @vandanasrivastava3085
    @vandanasrivastava3085 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Very supportive girl's mother, girl's decision awesome

  • @hkmehandiratta
    @hkmehandiratta Před 11 měsíci +3

    Cant say that boys family were wrong either, butvI like the clarity from both sides. The girl shown went extra miles and understood in one sentence - Ye aaj tumhare liye stand nahi le sakta, Shadi ke baad kya lega...❤

  • @satya8837
    @satya8837 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I was from a rich family and had many servants, after marriage I came to America.
    The sad thing is that they think I am a bahu and Its only my job to do all house chores.
    There friends and family used to come almost every day for lunches and dinner.
    Even After forty years I feel bad and used, Once I asked my husband
    Would you like your daughter’s husband to treat her like you guy’s treated me?
    And he said big NO..

  • @sindhumenon7383
    @sindhumenon7383 Před rokem +15

    Girls mom is amazing👍😍😍 liked the concept❤❤

  • @kkrighthere
    @kkrighthere Před 11 měsíci +9

    Congrats Mehak, for NOT having this rishta pakka

  • @afreenkhan9093
    @afreenkhan9093 Před rokem +1

    Brilliant.. And lucky mom support krragi... Mene to phli hi btaya tha k job krungi phir bhi unhone decide krlia nhi krne denge aur parents ne bhi kuch bhi bola.. Phir ghr se freelance work starrt kia to ismein bhi problem. THANKS TO God, jo mene un logon se peecha churalia...

  • @ladenwithelation6554
    @ladenwithelation6554 Před 11 měsíci +3

    It's the same with me , mere papa ke baad mummy or me bas , and I can feel the character in this video , usne sahi decision liya shadi nhi hogi chalega lekin parents ko suffer karne de yeh nhi chalega....

  • @sairamsharma6185
    @sairamsharma6185 Před rokem +17

    nice decision, after marriage nothing changes 😊😊

  • @aish0072
    @aish0072 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Wow amazing video it’s about time women stood up for themselves

  • @vsrig
    @vsrig Před rokem +9

    Girl’s mom - Nirupamaji amazing as always!

  • @sapna319
    @sapna319 Před rokem +18

    Excellent video - precise message portrayed fabulously in such short time 💯💯

  • @dancingnachos3634
    @dancingnachos3634 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I can't believe I am still watching this in 2023. When will the Indian society stop being regressive

  • @amazingthings5477
    @amazingthings5477 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I wish in society ppl will think for others the same way they think about themselves

  • @deepikakhurana6443
    @deepikakhurana6443 Před 11 měsíci +14

    I don't know why it feels like sharing this here on comment section.... My father died three years ago and I'm the only child. Being a daughter it feels terrible to accept the fact that i have to leave my mother alone after marriage. Why women have to make such hard choices. The man whom I want to marry support me in everything but he fails to understand this situation of mine. I feel helpless

    • @deshpremi7685
      @deshpremi7685 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I agree with you completely. And when it is in a different city, it makes it more difficult.

    • @MissPayal0112
      @MissPayal0112 Před 11 měsíci +6

      Dear Dipika..This is not the Fact..This is just the situation which you have accepted...
      Insaan single bhi reh sakta...Shadi karna jaruri nahi hai..Bahot soch samazkar karna shadi..Shadi Parents ke sath se jyada jaruri nahi hai..

    • @nikitafernandes461
      @nikitafernandes461 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@MissPayal0112 so true but nowadays girls are taught to adjust

    • @MissPayal0112
      @MissPayal0112 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@nikitafernandes461 when we are financially independent then no one can teach us to adjust...This is the basic requirement women should understand for themselves..

    • @yoginagowda7410
      @yoginagowda7410 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Same story

  • @aashasamel-fernandes1896
    @aashasamel-fernandes1896 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Beautiful subject n very well presented!
    It's understood n should be accepted naturally n easily that the girl will b taking care of her parental home n parents after marriage too!! 🙏

  • @rajyashreetripathi7472
    @rajyashreetripathi7472 Před 11 měsíci +20

    Love this clip. A very pertinent and timely theme that is well presented. Cudos to the Production Team. Gender discrimination and double standards for men and women have plagued our society for way too long. Unless girls take a tough stance that their careers are just as important and that they have no less responsibilities towards their parents, nothing will change.
    Men also need to understand that marriage is a partnership, with both husband and wife having equal rights as well as responsibilities.

  • @archanaprasad6429
    @archanaprasad6429 Před rokem +6

    Everything was good but everytime khana bana itna issue kyo ho jata hai its a survival skill every single person should know. Sab mil baatt k karo 😀

  • @mirrorthetruth1790
    @mirrorthetruth1790 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Absolutely Right in any relationship everything should be clear before marriage bcs After that They both hv to suffer.

  • @moushumibose5648
    @moushumibose5648 Před rokem +12

    Loved the story.
    All girls should be like Mehak.

  • @ManpreetKaur-sd6jg
    @ManpreetKaur-sd6jg Před 11 měsíci +5

    did I ask for any explanation? ❤❤Loved words of mom at end

  • @ambikadas65
    @ambikadas65 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Beautiful video👌. A very good message conveyed to the society 🙏

  • @jayashreevijayaraghavan9194

    Excellent! Good decision by the daughter!

  • @dikshanarula6067
    @dikshanarula6067 Před rokem +4

    Same situation I m facing my mother also did same thing
    Thx god for such supporting mother

  • @voicewidme8158
    @voicewidme8158 Před rokem +205

    What is the need to even ask to take care of your parents financially. This itself is a shame to ask other person just because you are a girl

    • @babusonamolla1045
      @babusonamolla1045 Před rokem +17

      No need to ask obviously but society par ehi chalte aarahey so pehle se bata dena chahiye...

    • @pragyanidhi2264
      @pragyanidhi2264 Před rokem +23

      Exactly.... kya husband apni wife se puch k apne parents ka khayal rkhte hain? To yha pe agr ye single girl child h to problem kya hai support krne me, iske liye kisi ki bhi permission ki jrurt nhi hai i think.

    • @manidipabanerji370
      @manidipabanerji370 Před rokem +4

      Exactly

    • @prachigl5563
      @prachigl5563 Před rokem +4

      Very well said . Their shouldn't be a question about it . This will happen . That's it . EOD

    • @yoginagowda7410
      @yoginagowda7410 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Muje toh ek larke ne bhut sunnaya jab mn boli k mom ko support karna hn financially..

  • @breakaleg6117
    @breakaleg6117 Před rokem +20

    Apart from women empowerment, in today's life it is very important to work both the partners due to the standard of living and inflation. It is really not possible only for a man to run the whole family with so many members when it is the case for only son.

    • @nikitafernandes461
      @nikitafernandes461 Před 11 měsíci

      So true 💯💯

    • @shilpakamath
      @shilpakamath Před 11 měsíci +5

      The guy should work in kitchen side by side just like the wife who works both outside and in kitchen

  • @Princesssonny7
    @Princesssonny7 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Mammas boys will never change.

  • @nishalohat5705
    @nishalohat5705 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I have the same situation. Really no one can understand. Still I'm looking for the right one for me. Thanks for sharing the video of this concept 🙏🙏

    • @LifeTak
      @LifeTak  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Glad you liked the video!

    • @hrishant100
      @hrishant100 Před 11 měsíci

      Earner marry the broke and decides what life path should be followed... brokes wait for others to take decision

  • @sugandhadogra1781
    @sugandhadogra1781 Před rokem +5

    If i was her , i wud have told dem - darwaza wahan hai , aap ja sakte hain 😅

    • @LifeTak
      @LifeTak  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Hahaha. Right☺

  • @bindumadhavi158
    @bindumadhavi158 Před rokem +7

    Superb story and at the same time very nice pair of Mehak and Arjun.Such a handsome and decent actor.,👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

  • @PoojaSharma-yy1vg
    @PoojaSharma-yy1vg Před 9 měsíci

    This is so true. This exactly happened with me in the month of october. Guy was so demanding mere papa ke liye breakfast bana dena,ye fast karna dega ye ritual follow krna pdega kahi pe bhi he didnt mention his parents making adjustment for future daughter in law and he was completely emotionally immature. He has no house of his own, no masters degree,business is in loss and his max salary goes in paying emi's and he had the audacity to ask a girl to marry him. I am also a single girl child without dad and i ain't leaving my mother for such b***ard ever.

  • @meera1860
    @meera1860 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Great job...the girl did the best thing...tat boy was hopeless

  • @cuteanjali9792
    @cuteanjali9792 Před rokem +3

    Absolutely well said dis girl nd her Mother❤️❤️❤️well played

  • @sangeetakulkarni8770
    @sangeetakulkarni8770 Před rokem +12

    Today's generation is smart.Spwcialky the girls they know what they want ,are focused.

  • @revathyrajendran3567
    @revathyrajendran3567 Před rokem +3

    Take a stand for yourself...💯
    Always ❤💯

  • @mayuribanore776
    @mayuribanore776 Před rokem +3

    Really it's nice nd every one do it confidentially ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @SnehaSingh-qw2id
    @SnehaSingh-qw2id Před 11 měsíci +2

    He should have chosen a girl who wants to be a home maker.

  • @Karansharmaheyitsme
    @Karansharmaheyitsme Před 11 měsíci +2

    thank you so much for this video! I am glad u guys are raising this point.

  • @indunagpal7313
    @indunagpal7313 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Very proud of the girl. Hope all girls have the courage to take a stand against these hollow traditions. They want smart modern girls, who think 50 yrs back. Weird combination.......

  • @nareshsood5091
    @nareshsood5091 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You are giving lot of FOOD FOR THOUGHTS to the younger generation!

  • @imtiazalam8796
    @imtiazalam8796 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Excellent story lady should stand for right

  • @prrashantmehta583
    @prrashantmehta583 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Very good movie. Basically, in India it is very difficult to discuss about matrimonial disputes and its complications. What I think is selection of a right life partner for marriage is very difficult task in India or may be in the world as both male and female are liars. Before marriage and after marriage both version are different. To select someone, you have 2 options 1. Either you ignore everything after marriage, 2. Or you have to speak truth about yourself each and every thing. Now if we speck 100% truth about our self then we know there are good chances of rejection so in general practice we speak lie about our self to be selected. Mere khayal se ladkine shaadi se mana karke thik hi kiya. Actually, khud keliye stand lena bahot badi baat hai, aur aisa wahi ladki kar sakti hai jo dependent ho. Otherwise aaj kal to shaadi keliye wahi ladka pasand kiya jaaa hai jiski salary handsome ho. Fir agar shaadi na bhi chali to koi baat nahi maintenance to mil hi jaayega.
    So, humare samaj me aisi ladkion ki zyada zaroorat hai jo independent, jo khud ke liye stand le sake.

  • @pragyanidhi2264
    @pragyanidhi2264 Před rokem +15

    Worst decision lete lete bach gyi😊 thank god

  • @ankita3558
    @ankita3558 Před rokem +3

    Superb
    Sahi samey per sahi decision 👍🏻

  • @senoradelvita
    @senoradelvita Před 11 měsíci +2

    Better to have a broken engagement than a broken marriage because the husband and wife are on different pages.

  • @PreetiSingh-bh1ff
    @PreetiSingh-bh1ff Před 11 měsíci +3

    इसकी मम्मी इतनी सपोर्टिव है👍और हमारे यहां तो बस बोझ समझ के किसी भी गलत घर में रिश्ता करने को तैयार पड़े है😢कोई फीलिंग्स को नहीं समझता ☹️ये शादी बस एक डर है, लव हो या अरेंज दोनो ही रिस्की है, लेकिन मां बाप शादी के बाद लडकी को अलग समझते है😢, इतना मॉडर्न होचुका समाज फिर भी सास ससुर खाना बनाने वाली नौकर ढूंढ़ रहे😢

  • @raduvedi
    @raduvedi Před 11 měsíci +3

    Very nice mam 👏👏👏👏

  • @Apurwahhhhh_
    @Apurwahhhhh_ Před 11 měsíci +1

    why my blood started boiling after watching it ?!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @prakruthiyemkar4130
    @prakruthiyemkar4130 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Awesome video, almost same thing happe is to me but little different. They encourage me to work outside as well as at home. But doesn't like any job I take up. When I started working then they started pressuring me to balance home and work in spite of having night shifts. I was shattered. Then started pressuring me for baby. Now I left my Job, I am mother of 2. I moved out of my in laws home. Now I am looking after my 2 kids who are 3 and 1.5 years old. Now she is saying I will have to start working in few years. Who will take care of my kids and home. Am I a human or a robot. Even in 2023 this is how it is. But I am taking a stand on this. I will decide when and what I will do with my life and time.

    • @sonujain2348
      @sonujain2348 Před 11 měsíci

      r u seperated . how did u manage jon n kids

  • @jyotirmayeeswain5282
    @jyotirmayeeswain5282 Před rokem +4

    This video was revolutionary

  • @renukadevnani1819
    @renukadevnani1819 Před rokem +1

    Very good decision taken . Very supportive girl mom

  • @besimadervishi5853
    @besimadervishi5853 Před rokem +2

    She is right. Very sad how people think. She has parents to. ❤

  • @lilygracedsilva6436
    @lilygracedsilva6436 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Well said and done. Good decision.