Wayback Wilkos: Abusive Boyfriend Wants His Family Back
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- Tim claims the mother of his partner is ruining their relationship & preventing them from getting their family back together. Watch what happened now... #TheSteveWilkosShow
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“Makes me look like a deadbeat”
Lady in Audience: YOU ARE🗣
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We Stan that lady😌
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@@KxngSamurai 😂😂😂 booom!
😂 wannabe Eminem
That guy is actually a real threat. Her mother isn't any kind of an issue but he's focusing on her because he doesn't want his wife to have anyone to run to when he becomes abusive. He's only going to get worse the older he gets.
Isolation is the first thing that an abuser does. At least from what I've noticed and experienced
@anaysia that's what me ex did to me with everyone in my life he didn't like/approve of
Eh she’s just as guilty as he is.
The way she plays the blame game and can’t take any responsibility is a red flag.
I’ve been with women like at and she’s a walking red flag.
@@kevinlackey7511 ....Bro you REALLY telling on yourself right now.
Yeah apparently a lot of abusive boyfriends and girlfriends do that so that the victims won’t have anyone to run too when they get abusive. A lot of the times people say that it’s better to stay single than to be in a bad relationship. But the thing that I always ask myself and I’m not saying that they are wrong. Is how to they know that for sure though? Not that they already had experience
He looks like a dollar tree Jeffrey Dahmer
😂😂😂😂
More like the wish website version lmao
color scheme and everything lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao I didn’t think that I would ever say this but that’s an insult to Jeffrey Dahmer
What's also a red flag is how he views his kids. He wouldn't talk to his son because the relationship with his mother is broken. So to him, the children are nothing more than pawns or chest pieces. He doesn't have the queen so the kids are of no value. She's good to walk away.
Most males see kids like that . That's why its soo easy for them to walk away from their own families.
@@Armelleee Are you sure it's 'most' - the majority of men? A quick google says that 50% of children in America are from broken families, which sets me thinking that some of the fathers from this 50% will see their children, with the other 50% caring enough to stay with their partner, which makes the suggestion that most males see their kids as pawns, appear to be a perspective which is built upon shaky foundations.
@@Armelleee I struggle to have as much access to my nieces as I would like (nothing dodgy, just people dynamics) and that tugs at my heart.
The way you worded this was amazing honestly very insightful
@@timothydraper3687farty on da licker
new drinking game! take a shot every time he makes an excuse for why he doesn’t go see his kids
I think the “didn’t even talk to him but walked past” deserves 3 shots
When he says "know what I'm saying" 🤭
Oooh wait it's only 1pm and I still got to pick up kids from school and go to wrk what a buzzkill
@@jordangrice7573 fuck drunk we finna DIE😭
We all gonna be drunk drunk 😂
“I can’t look at them kids and realize I had something with you and lost it.”
If you’re a deadbeat just say that
Crying 😭
Right. He doesn’t care at all about his kids. He just wants her and wants to control her
@@kaelincampbell1930he was a licker
Ah a narcissistic person not being able to keep control of things 😂 my favorite cup of tea
Lmfaooo omg yesss !!!! Best comment I’ve read so far 😂😂 And sooo true !! 😅
They go absolutely nuts😅😩
@@CrimeQueen333pee pee on da spammy
Same
Classic narcissist. Always blaming others. Gas lighting. Never taking responsibility for their actions. It's ALWAYS someone else's fault 🙄😒 She deserves so much better. I sincerely hope that she and her kids are happy now and he's out of the picture permanently.
He's not a narcissist, he is a manchild, he needs therapy, he is insecure and this can make him very dangerous if pushed over the edge at some point.
This is what I call a selfish horrible father. He’s calling her names and He’s using every excuse in the book. Props to the woman for standing up for herself and releasing that she’s not with the right man
Yeah exactly this guy has got to be the dumbest guest on The Steve Wilkos Show he can't even walk 20 minutes to go see his kids hell where I live at the mall is an hour and 30 minutes away by walking and I've walked there several times and he wants to try to work things out with his wife come on give me a break! 😡
Yea but hes obviously got mental issues. The fact that he actually admitted that he cant look at his son because hes hurt by losing her. He just admitted that. And theres countless good men and women who go through that. And sometimes its out of control. He needs help.
Yeah she's strong and absolutely beautiful, so are those precious kids. She's obviously the kind of woman that won't take any bs. Hope she finds someone who is good to her and her kids. He should have appreciated how lucky he was to have such a beautiful family. Flys off the handle way too fast and walks away. Not a good sign at all.
Yeah I’m kind of glad to see that she knew that this man was not good for her. A lot of men and women don’t want to admit that they know the person that they are with is not right for them. But this young lady was very smart and glad to see that this guy wasn’t right for her
"are you a wae veteran?" "no" "so you aint get your legs blown off". i died.
That was the best line I’ve ever heard!
Thank you Steve for breaking it down Barney style for him. Unfortunately he still doesn’t get it.
“Barney style” 😂😂😂
That’s amazing
@@kitkat80088 Ha ha ha 😂😂😂 that's funny
I had an ex just like that. Didn't want anything to do with his kid once the relationship was over. Blocked every attempt for my new husband to adopt her, too. But it all worked out in the end. Because once she came of age, SHE made the choice of who she wanted to be her dad and there was NOTHING her biological father could do about it. In the end, the kids will KNOW who was there for them and who truly loved them.
I’m glad it all worked out for you but it’s a shame how long he forced you to wait. He sounds like such a loser. I hope your new hubby gets to adopt her and loves her to death!! Good luck!!
@@Scratchingforcash oh she made the choice to have my husband adopt her the father's day after her 18th birthday. She didn't need her bio-dad's permission anymore.
@@ms.munchkin8264 that’s totally awesome!! I’m so glad you and your daughter found someone so amazing!!
So my situation is completely different I’m dealing with a narcissist ex she has our daughter in her custody I’m on probation I been there for my daughter since she was born. When we first separated she had no problem with letting me spend time with my daughter we had a better co parenting relationship now that she’s in a new relationship and soon to be married I hardly hear from her when it’s pertains to mourn daughter the only way I can see her is through visitation with my ex mother in law who literally hate’s me. It’s hard for me but I still try it’s gotten better to where my father has her for certain holiday’s so I do what I can to go see her and spend time with her she knows who her father is and she loves me it’s her mother that’s trying to drive a wedge into our father daughter relationship everything she does is in spite of me yet she’s the one that’s getting remarried you’d think she’d be happy and let me be a father to our child but she keeps doing thing’s to hurt my pride as a man I keep taking the high road her new husband has never once introduced himself to me…
I would crawl in glass and flames to be with my kids.
That's the truth
I walk 20 minutes sometimes just to get to a bus stop. I'd walk any time to see my kids if I had any. One time I walked 7 hours to work when the public transportation went on strike.
😆 work will replace you in a heartbeat.they don't care if you walk 12 hours for work.
Lmfaoooooo that's a bit excessive
You will do what you have to do
@@NikkiM6593 lmfaoooooooooo nah you right but you're hella wrong for that 🤣
Why don’t you have a car?
SIS WENT OFF👏🏽 and I LOVE IT
Ikr
"I dont have a license!"
Then get one.
"They blocked my number!"
Then get a new number.
"Everytime I go out, I get jumped!"
Then get a weapon for self defense.
All his excuses have easy solutions. He needs to grow up.
I agree he worst than a little child
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He could used a bike or uber
Maybe he does get jump
@@reginaldmerriweather4713 no he doesn't he is lying and making excuses
How many times is this dude gonna say “YouknowwhatI’msayin”?
Hes worse than j-roc lmao
25 times XD
If you did a drinking game, drinking every time he says that, you would be drunk in the first 10 minutes
Why do people do that?
She comes out pointing fingers. Not good on her part.
Drink every time he says:
"you know what I'm sayin'?"
I am now dead, y'know what I'm sayin'?
That girl doesn't love you anymore. You broke her. You are nothing but toxic. He came on saying he wanted his family back and proceeded to make the weakest case imaginable. On a side note, she is way out of your league.
The way the mom came running out on stage 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She's a strong woman who isn't going to take his abuse. I'm very proud of her...
Right finally seeing a mom who’s putting her children first other then herself and leaving their abusers it’s so relaxing
@@420bluntly_I agree w u; also, ur user name is perfection 💚💚
Hell, even when he sees his kids he doesn't acknowledge or speak to them. bc of his "pride." How big he must feel giving his 4yr old son the cold shoulder. All bc the mom doesn't take him bk. Sadly, that 4yr old little boy looks at his dad as a hero. His 2 little kids are the only 1s who respect this "man." & he for some reason cant let go of his pride? I didn't understand how pride even kept him from speaking to his kid? What does breaking your son's heart infront of others your mad at have to do w/pride?
Steve definitely doesn't tolerate people not putting their children first.
Unless they are women that is. He goes easy on the women but hound the men. I see them equally
He don’t talk to his baby because he knows it hurts his son & his wife. Man is a narcissist
Yes, he is trying to force the mom to stay with him by threating to destroy the little Boy emotionally
@@GiGiLGS I agree, they don’t single give a fuck
@@GiGiLGSpee on da Gina
I love how she was sticking up for herself, I can tell she built of a lot of strength and she’s been waiting to be heard
he really said, "too much pride" lol
He could hurt her mom seriously because he blames her for everything. He needs some extensive help before ever trying to work it out but praying she stays away from him. Praying for this family. Thank you Steve! I have just started watching these videos but love the way you handle things.
She’s so beautiful, I can’t get over her beauty and strength! Go girl!!
Yea she's fine af. I don't understand these abusive mean men that get these beautiful ass women on this show and mess up over and over. Im very humble and would honestly feel so blessed to have her.
His little glasses are cracking me up. Boy, you don't deserve a woman or your kids.
Classic Nerd
“Why don’t you call?!”
“You blocked my number”
“”Shut up! I blocked you because you called me 90 times in one day!”
“I called so I can talk to her and work things out!”
“SHUT UP!!”
Make sense of that.
I think she wants him to shut up
@@benbignardsspammy
Let me at him" 😆😆😆 From the audiance.... I love it!!!!
4:58 he had too much pride to talk to his son? No we don’t know what you’re saying
Right
Exactly.
He's admitting where he went wrong... I thought the first thing to fixing the problem, is RECOGNIZING the problem ...
@@martikamiles9926 he was not, you have to hear him speaking again
THIS IS WHY YOU DON’T HAVE KIDS WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE YOUR PRIORITIES IN ORDER!
Yes ma'am 😔💞
PREACH!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
One mo' 'gain!! 😁😁
Facts! 💯
OMG Why didn't Steve tell this guy to stand up?
He stood up when the mother of his children appeared on stage.
Also, calling her Mom was the right thing to do! She was standing up for her daughter and trying to protect/defend her!
Poor excuse of a father he really did throw an excuse for everything smh
That's the type of man that knocked her up specifically to keep her as property. Then when she got older and demanded respect he tried to rip everything away from her so he could continue to cheat and be a shitty partner. Then is using the excuse of not being with her equating to not being able to parent, to still place blame on her in each scenario. You can tell he's hit her. You can tell he has so much anger towards her finally leaving and he don't even want to walk 20 minutes to see her? Nah something else is going on
Im pregnant and walk 45 mins to work some days when my car is acting up. He has no excuse🤣
Be careful! Make sure you eat properly and don't overwork yourself! 💪🏾
He caught black eyes?!!??! 😂😂😂😂
My baby dad used to say that lame stuff. “I can’t be around our son cause he’s a spitting image of you and reminds me of you” smh
A man of many excuses. Legend has it he's still arguing about how he still can't see his kids...when he totally could.
He only wants to be a father when he’s with the mother. Sheesh.
Ugh! 😫
Kudos to the mother of this girl. 😊
Tim is "saying" an awful lot but doing very little to improve the situation; blaming the mother for "interfering" in his relationship, won't accept responsibility for his actions, and is reluctant to admit when he's proven wrong, but the reality is he's the one with the problem.
Exactly. I can’t agree with you anymore.l that. He’s definitely not doing anything to change. I’m way better at taking responsibility and I have no kids. If those were my kids I’d be there with them EVERY DAY after work regardless what’s going on with my girl.
He won't change. And the fact that you're not "in love" with him is the best push to leave him and not go back. He WILL NOT CHANGE!
I walk 20 minutes to get to my job. The epitome of a dead beat.
This guy’s abusive game is using the kids to try to get the wife back. A whole vibe of “oh I can’t be there for my kids if you don’t wanna be with me.” Shameful.
He keeps saying there's no excuses, yet he keeps making them.
Some men are quick to blame women for breaking up the family & say its their fault they're a single mother, but at the end of the day, most of us leave because of toxic shit like this. Women are strong, but we can only take so much & tend to leave to protect our physical & mental health. Hopefully this guy moves on & doesn't continue to ignore his kids.
She’s the reason he can’t see the kids she took them and left hopefully he took her to court and took custody
@@Probablydeservesitwow you're so edgy. Everyone here is super impressed.
@@martymcfly5764 explain how I simply stated facts
@@Probablydeservesit The courts are not going to give him those kids. He quite literally could find a way to get to the house where his kids reside and doesn't. He also openly admitted that he ignored his son because his wife left even though it was fault which he said as well. She is better off without him and can be a good mother to her kids because she isn't dealing with the unnecessary stress and drama from her ex husband
She was too pretty for him, especially given the circumstances.
they look like siblings
Thats what I said to
Thats why he's soo insecure.
@@ninidecoss2633 no they don’t
Exactly! She is drop dead gorgeous and he knows it
The mom aged really well. Looks more like her sister than her mother.
He is a prime example on watch who you have kids with.
Yes, exactly. Also do not have them out of wedlock. And both man and women need to choose wisely.
@10:18 lmfao every time I walk and I leave my house, I get jumped, I catch black eyes, I get beat up lmfao WHAT?! 😂 😂
Girl, don't go back to him.. any one that can hurt their childs' feelings, is just dead to me. That little boy's heart was probably crushed when he did that to him
everyone takes a shot when he say's " know what I'm sayin." lol.
My all time favorite is "Mighty Joe" need to bring him back! Lol 😆
If your husband calls your mother being supportive & helping you “a problem”..,he’s the problem 🙄🙄
Edit: This guy is such a L O S E R . If you can’t look at your kids with anything but love , regardless of you being with the mom or not : you’re a deadbeat . Dead. Beat.
I agree, i feel like most people seem to forget that when you have a child with someone, it is no longer about you. That child is priority number 1.
@@kemaree364 yep!
Getting parents involved in a argument with your spouse will ruin your marriage.
A "NERD" who needs his a@# kicked.
It's sad that I see so many intelligent and beautiful women put up with such disgusting excuses for men.
I refuse to take anyone seriously that ends every sentence with "you know what I'm saying" 🤦♀️
He’s the victim every time. That’s his problem
CHEATERS accuse PPL OF CHEATING!
Cheaters wont change. Once a cheater always cheater.
some cheaters can change. depends on the type of person
@@TheBestCZcamsr0173Yes, but most don't change. Not if they do not even acknowledge the cheating and the pain they create.
I man who’s not willing to make sacrifices is a man who you need to run away from
For a guy with no excuse he sure makes lots of excuses. SMH
My name is.....
Mr. Excuse
20 minutes to see those sweet sweet
Children...
How could you not go..
You can’t just change if you’re this guy.. I think the only way he could’ve fixed their relationship, is if he came to her being 100 percent apologetic and willing to listen to her.. he would’ve needed to go to therapy, or maybe get a psychiatric evaluation if he were serious about working on his issues. And this guy definitely has serious anger or jealousy issues if he’s willing to treat a woman like that.. obviously you can’t just decide to get rid of deep rooted issues in your life. You can decide to work though them, if you’re serious about changing though..
She has one awesome mother that was so sweet her momma loves her.. I think her mom is right.. her daughter deserves to be treated with respect and he's not given that... She's beautiful and has a kind heart that he don't deserve.. with My kindest truest respectful words melody aka the lostgirl 💕 thanks Steve
20 minute walk away from his kids and he can't walk to see them. SMH, what a worthless, pathetic so-called father. I don't care if I had to walk 20 hours there's nothing that would stop me from seeing my kids everyday.
I haven’t seen a pay phone in a very, very, long time. However, Walmart has pre-paid throw away phones so you could get a working phone just for calling for $50. You could also call your provider to change your number, AT ANY TIME FOR FREE.
“But I can’t drive” 😂🤣
I've walked 20 minutes to get a hug before lol. If you can't walk 20 kids too see your kids that's awful
20 minute walk and Tim chose...he CHOSE...not to see or talk to his kids. You don't look like a deadbeat, Tim, you ARE one. 😠😠
Tiffany, great choice breaking up with him, he's a loser in every sense of the noun. Hope all went well after this taping.
About the payphone thats true, they have pretty much removed all of them everywhere. I remember about 12 years ago my phone broke and by this point I didn't have a house phone since pretty much everyone just used cell phones. I tried to find a payphone and drove around for about an hour going to all the places they used to be. I went to malls, stores, shopping centers, a hospital, doctors and dentists offices and not a single one was found. I had to eventually go to a friend's house who wasn't home but they were a close friend so I was allowed to be there even if they weren't and got the hidden key to go inside since they still had a landline. Everything else may of been BS but I believe there wasn't a payphone available for him.
This is old so payphones may have still been around
Payphones were still around when this episode was taped
@@dushunalston3806 which was when, if it was within the last decade no they weren't.
They're still around. I've even seen them in the middle of the desert. Pay attention.
@James Cook They kept one in my small town til about 2012.
J-Rock really let himself go. Gnomesayin.
Should’ve just stick to “changin” nomsayin
Every time one of these comes up, I look at these girls and think, “how did a guy like that land a girl like that?”
Drink every time he says “you know what I’m saying”😂
She is gorgeous, why is he treating her like that? He won the lottery by marrying a girl like that and he’s taking her for granted. Pretty sad
Some people are just evil sadly.
Honestly, it’s probably because she is so gorgeous that he’s all jealous and crazy.
Not making excuses for him but it makes sense as to why he started being like that. He has low self esteem, knows she’s drop dead gorgeous and it prolly has eaten away at him so much that he turned into this pathetic loser
This dude said nah, i am, s a y n, 2000 times lol
If Tim really wanted his family back, he’d go to individual counseling to figure out his problems than and only than after lots of counseling come to the show. I know 3 months isn’t long enough with counseling let alone without
Yes, he needs help!
Man's punching well above his weight anyhow, regardless of anything else
Tiffany's gorgeous 😍
Dude forreal
@Smokey Taboo, not to mention, she went OFF LIKE GURL. SPEAK YOUR TRUTH ❤
You see that. Apparently a lot of men and women that are parents do this. They do not want to admit what they did is wrong because they are on tv. And not only that. This guy clearly doesn’t sound like a good father at all..
Thts the same thing what my baby father did but baby fathers like him and mine they are cowards
Yup, blame everybody else but themselves. Total losers.
Ayo what ? Ain’t no way his excuse is “its 20 minutes to walk I can’t do it” my guy, I’d walk any amount of time if that was the only way for me to see my kids. He’s buggen ain’t no way
For a guy who insists that he "has no excuse" this guy is giving an awful lot of them
From a fathers perspective he is a clown I would walk to another state to see my kids like it honestly makes me mad because these woman don’t deserve to raise kids on there own I’m glad she has her mom to help her god bless her
“ you know what I’m saying “😂
totally off topic but her and her mother are beautiful😍😍
Bro … this fool wants HER not the kids that’s what happens when you have kids by someone obsessed with YOU
If you had a drinking game every time he said “You know what I’m saying,” you’d be drunk
“ You know what I’m saying” 🥴
“There’s no excuse.” Proceeds to make every excuse under the Sun.
Him: I've lost my family because I'm jealous & mistreat my wife. I don't know what to do.
Me: Seek therapy
Ik this is an older episode but I really hope she’s with someone that sees how much she’s worth and how absolutely beautiful she is. Because she is so freaking gorgeous and doesn’t deserve a deadbeat dude that’s never around.
He will never change!!
He can be abusive and terrible but can't be man enough to even make eye contact with Steve. Real piece of work. Man doesn't deserve his wife or kids.
I find it funny how this guy keeps on blaming everything on her mother when her mother isn’t even the issue. Another fragile guy who can’t take accountability
steve prolly goes home every night thanking his lucky stars for his wife and kids {vice versa for his wife}
Him running off the stage and returning 😂😂😂😂
I hope she didn't take him back!!!!!!!!!!! He will NOT change!! I speak from experience!!!!!!!!!!!
He doesn’t care about anyone but Himself If he loves her he needs to change
Steve is slipping he's been letting people sit lately
He doesn’t want the kids. He wants her. He only wants the kids if he can have her too. Narcissist.