ARE ALL CHRISTIAN MEN CORNY? | EP 8 | Eden Awaits
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- In this episode we discuss singleness and the fears surrounding it, what to do in the waiting, growth in any season and how to be content with this phase of life. We hope you’ll listen even if you aren’t single as we talk about how to support your single friends and family members! ⭐️
VERSES:
1 Corinthians 7:8-9
Philippians 3:7-9
Isaiah 55:8-9
We’re so excited for our new season all about relationships, if you enjoyed this episode join us in two weeks for our next one. We're so thankful for you! 🦋 Ciarra, Hailey, Ashley, and Tara
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"I'm only as content as I am connected to the Lord" love that line! Thank you ladies for sharing and encouraging
I need this reminder all the time!! Thank you so much for listening and taking the time to comment!! We appreciate you. 💛
I’m a Christian man and is 32 and never been in a relationship my whole life. I’ve questioned God so many times the same way you ladies do as well. Like what about me? Am I ugly? Or what’s wrong with me? But you guys nailed it with that bible verse in the end with his thoughts are higher and his plans are far greater. I do hope one day God will show me a women of God that will challenge me and that will love me like Jesus does. Thank you ladies for this! This was eye opening that even you beautiful ladies go through this and not just me. Thank you and God bless! 😊
This is relatable. God will bless you at His perfect timing. I'll pray for you.
Thank you so much for listening and sharing! It definitely always makes me feel better when I realize I am not alone. We are praying and believing with you! 😊
Should be focusing on Biblical masculinity
I hope your situation gets better soon
Are you marriage material? Have you developt the capabilities and attitudes of what a man or a husband according to the bible is? See what you are comunicating to women bro, they are interested in a husband so there is a demand! Make sure you are a product that can supply that demand and choose/invite one.
Also this is social media, your profile picture and name doesnt suit for this purpose.
Big hug from a latino. God bless you
The huge problem in the Christian church today is the over emphasis and attention on relationships at stages where people aren't ready for marriage, this creates problems.
Thank God when I got saved at 19, I wasn't at a church were there was a heavy focus on dating but growing in God and having good godly relationships so when I was ready for marriage I started courting my wife - it was great.
When is someone ready for marriage?
People
aren't ready for marriages but ready to have sex. Make it makes sense from the Christian perspective
@@iespinosa31 ...because biological maturity is not equal to mental maturity? The fact that you just got the 'tools' to use something does not entail that you know how to use them
This. I was saved at 22 while in the army...but I was also in therapy and teying to learn to deal with my anxiety and how to talk to women. I was still going to clubs and that's where I met her amd rushed in cause she was the first to act like she liked me. Never seemed to attract girls in school so I rushed in.
@@bruno4499the millions dollar question
The most attractive man on planet earth is the Man of God in church…worshipping, praising, and learning about God. And, if he has his Bible open in church and taking notes too…whew, that man is fire. 🙌🏻 🔥 There is nothing “corny” about that.
Mature Christian men recognize mature Christian women and vice versa. Our identity is in Christ, thus just continue being your authentic self and keep your heart beating for our King Jesus.
And, lastly, just be sure to prepare for what you’re praying and seeking God for. If you’re serious about being married, your lifestyle should be indicative of that.
God Bless and may God provide in due time to the godly singles. 🙏🏼🩶
“My soul, wait silently for God alone, For my expectation is from Him. “
~ Psalm 62:5 ((Amen)) 🙌🏻
Appreciate this.
@@gnvtr20sAbsolutely! Have a blessed weekend. ☺️
I will throw something out to everyone who‘s looking for the “perfect, biblical, ready to lead” husband or wife with corresponding adjectives. And I will say that as long as your partner is open to Christ, these things can grow over time. They don’t have to be there day one. I can say with certainty that any marriage will have a ton of difficulty by itself and it WILL grow you and you won’t be ready for all the challenges on day 1 of your marriage anyhow. So don’t be so picky that the person you’re choosing has to be all those things on day one. And all that can go out the window instantly with a sudden illness anyhow and you may have to carry ALL the weight. What’s important is that you agree that when difficulty comes you will work it out together and negotiate and submit to each other and put Christ at the center. The rest will grow over time. And just as a side note, being single is SO much easier than being married. you don’t know how selfish you are until someone else has needs around you when you’re at your lowest yourself. So don’t be so anxious, enjoy being single as much as you can and trust that God’s will is done.
This is probably the most wise, reasonable, and balanced comment in this comment section.
This was really encouraging. 6 months ago I broke off an engagement because I put God first, and it’s been so hard being single. I get scared thinking that there is no one else for me. This has helped me know how to pray and have hope again. Thank you.
Thank you so much for listening and sharing. Putting God first is always the best thing, even though it may be hard! We are praying for you!
Gentlemen, if you want a Christian woman who appreciates you, including any 'corny' flaws . . . look overseas!
Where in the overseas? Be specific, please
@@MagmaUpwelling Thailand, the Phillipines, Laos, Vietnam, and many more!
@@SaintCloud555 Are there Christian women in Thailand? I think they are few and far in between
@@SaintCloud555 What about European countries?
@@MagmaUpwelling not really sure, but Eastern Europe could be good
The fact that they are talking bout this is kinda sad. The media treat Christian men as squares and women today buy into this. They also struggle with contentment and get into relationships with insane expectations. These same relationships don’t end up lasting. If u want to be a good spouse stop having frivolous convos about a man being “corny” and instead focus on what makes a good Christian wife. How can you respect a husband be grounded and weather the storm in ups and downs of marriage. Learn what contentment is and how to remain content even with little means. Learn endurance and patience. These are qualities more and more Christian women and women in today’s climate lack. Focus on that instead.
Notice how they didn't respond? They don't care. You're corny to them.
@@EbonthePhenom 🙄 I wasn't calling you corny. I was saying that you are corny *to them* .
@@rockymvvrcianu6846 corny is being married multiple times despite being in your early to mid 20’s taking about u finally found your soulmate etc etc. I could care less what they think. These ain’t the types of wives guys want. I’ll tell u that much. Can’t tell u how many of my friends got divorced this year cuz their wives got bored/weren’t happy blah blah blah.
@@rockymvvrcianu6846 gotcha. This whole convo they having is weird and just proves a lot of guys points and exposes alot of red flags.
@@EbonthePhenommaybe the friends could look into why they weren’t happy. Not trying to start anything but is it bad a woman wants to be happy in marriage. Obviously there will be trials and hard times but over all a good tree bears good fruit so marriage should bring joy.
Fellow Christian here! I love this kind of sit down chat set up. I found it so intriguing. I don’t necessarily believe that God will give everyone a spouse. Some might have a desire to have a lamborghini or someone might have a desire to have kids naturally but they can’t (and instead have to adopt) and everyone desires not to get terminally ill but that doesn’t mean we are immune from diseases like cancer etc. I do believe that God will give us the desires of our heart if they are in line with his will.
You made a great point. God is not a genie that grants our every wish. He knows what is best for us. We are not guaranteed to reach all of our life goals or get everything we may desire in this life....The point is to love and serve God despite whether you get those things you want or not...because some of the things we want can harm us in the long run...I learned a long time ago sometimes the answer to that prayer can be a NO
@@dsetgetatme youre so right. I’m tired of seeing ppl on social media give others false hope into thinking their future husband is out there because it’s not true. Sometimes Gods answer is no and we should be ok with that.
@@ShekinahFineArt Exactly!
Seeing young people pursing Jesus is beautiful!
Love from Gambia ❤
I'm glad I stayed to listen. It has blessed me. Thank you all for sharing!
Thank you for listening!!! 💛
As a Christian Male, I share the same doubts at times hopin and prayin that I will eventually meet somebody. I know that there are others who feel the same way but it gets a bit lonely when all you see are the people who are not single. Thanks for this vid, good to know Im not by myself in the process and in thought
I would suggest focusing on biblical masculinity. Our society really likes to shame and emasculate men. This group of young ladies is not for you.
I'm genuinely curious, where do christian guys like yourself hang out? In church it is like 70% women 30% men, many of whom are already taken. Similarly for Christian conferences even ones targeting singles like I went to one last year and it was like 95% women honestly it was disheartening, like I don't know where you guys are
@@zoetsahai its hard to find anybody even within church settings. I go to church on sundays, and weren’t many people my age and other christian gatherings but never got to the point of bein in a relationship. Its hard out here for real
@@jpeters868 hey that’s amazing thank you for saying this! will look into more activities as such. That being said, I would like to understand why say someone like yourself who is I assume is a God fearing man and wants a God fearing woman doesn’t go to church. That seems like a.. I don’t know, not really biblical or logical and I personally would hope the man I meet goes to church and understands its importance. Yes the people are the church but the bible also says do not forsake rhetoric gathering of believers and when you look at the disciples days and first century Christians and following on, you get a picture that church was important. Of course it has to be a word based Spirit filled church. I hope to hear your thinking on this.
Christian men have the same stigma on Christian women. That all godly girls aren’t bad and all bad girls aren’t godly. I believe this is from the enemy and not true. It’s a matter of exposure. The truth is when you a stereotypical “attractive” person you deal with more temptations and access which makes being godly more difficult. So thus categorically there are less attractive Christians because it’s difficult to have it and deny it for Jesus! But it’s so worth it. But it’s on both sides
Definitely worth it!!
@@EdenAwaits nothing in life is better! Our Lord is greater than anything this world has!
@@matthewlopez8521Christian men are great, we aren't the problem
Such a powerful video. I had to watch this twice lol. I appreciate you ladies allowing the Lord to use you on this platform. I thank Him in advance for the success you all will see and the lives you’re going to inspire.
First video I’ve watched of you guys and you four are an absolute joy to listen to! Very refreshing. Instantly subscribed ❤
These words mean so much to us. Thank you so much for listening and subscribing! We appreciate you!! 💛
I am the biggest cornball. Daily gym goer, marathon runner, 3x or more Bible study groups, monthly reader, Jesus follower, non curser, abstinence advocate. CORNBALLS unite!! 😂😂
Don't listen to these harpies.....if a wmn is focused on swag and personality, is a red flag
Nah bro you’re just an adult. Young women focused on this stuff aren’t really worth dating tbh. Who wants an overgrown child?
so good. I always feel challenged when I listen and that is no different today. I love y'all so much
We love you! 💛
Im about 5 minutes in
Y'all definitely have something here!
Intruiging conversation for single Followers of Christ
This was so refreshing to watch. So much love from Ghana. I really needed to hear this. I also love your sisterhood. God bless you all 🥹
Thank you for watching!
This was really good! Very encouraging 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Soo good. This convo encouraged me and gave me some things to reflect on ❤
I am so glad! I am proud of you for taking time to reflect. Praying your reflection time is so sweet with you and Jesus. Thank you so much for listening!! 💛
this was too real 😂 great video guys! ❤ GOD bless y’all
This was so good. Just confirmation for me.
I love how God is always so faithful to confirm things for us!! 😊
Ahh I'm trying not to cry while listening to this episode
It’s ok to cry!! 😊 Thank you for taking the time to listen!
Sooo gooodd. Praying that I can have community that you guys have🤍
Thank you so much for listening!! I remember praying that exact prayer for a while and God answered it!! What God does for one person; He can do for another, so we are believing God is sending you the most amazing God friendships! 💛
Women don't know how hard it is to be single and 49 years old and been rejected so many times it not even funny they lead you on and put so many unrealistic expectations on the guy people are not perfect. Being a man is harder than women realize because they play with your mind and emotions .
Brother, sorry for your pain. Have you considered looking in Southeast Asia? You may find that Christian women there don't play mind games and instead respect you as a man. Many blessings with your path, and may things get easier for you in the future.
Bro avoid western wmn
As Christians, such words like ' corny' shouldn't be in our dictionary...that's how pure our hearts should be
People can be corny to manipulate you. It definitely should be in your vocabulary.
Absolutely true 💯🙏
@@victorygarden556 then they're just manipulative.
@@sunithagirish2139 Jesus said be “wise as serpents, as gentle as doves”. The wise part seems to imply we should talk about such things and make people aware, instead of excluding it from our dialect or proceeding without the discernment.
@@victorygarden556 my case is against such words as corny. There's no gentleness nor wisdom in using such terms. Only cynicism and cynicism is the language of the devil. Blessings
I think: Even when i person is a Christian, being on social media still has a tendency to bring about unrealistic standards to a Christian woman.
It's crucial to stay grounded in the word
Beautiful young Christian women, wait on God!! Marrying wrong person will be very very stressful. Marriage is no joke, life will make relationship grow!!
This is really good, i am 38 years old and single, received Jesus 4 years ago, baptized in 2021,
Through God's grace, currently my husband is praying for me, and i am too, i will meet him soon ❤
That's so awesome!! I really believe your prayers are making a difference in your future husbands' life! 😊
Therapy works better than Jesus unfortunately 😢
@@6thandHarrison good luck with that 🤣🤣🤣
@@cappucinella9120 who said I need therapy? I just read Proverbs and some Song of Solomon and I’m good 😉
@6thandHarrison I love the book of proverbs 🥰, God bless you
I understand what homegirl was saying..... Christian men are portrayed as dry, somewhat socially awkward and not having an edge to them. But I want to let you ladies know, yes there are Good Christian men who are masculine and check some of those other boxes that you would find attractive in a mate.
Thank you for your content! The Kingdom needs it! Praise Jesus!
Thank you!!
They talk about Christian men being corny, but they are being super cliche and corny themselves, just repeating cliche things they hear in the churchian echo chamber. It's like, be unique and authentic! I love Jesus and i know what they're talking about with Christian men, but they're kinda doing the same copy cat thing on their end.
I personally don't belive everyone is called to have a partner even if they desire it...
I know someone who preached on this, and it was the fact that she had this desire, is getting old had crushes, prayed for her husband, but never ended up with anyone...
It's a hard Juggle and something I struggle with. I desire a future partner and even have a one-sided crush ATM. I keep telling myself "God I'm content with Just you even if I don't have a partner but I do pray for one, and I'll use this time of singleness to grow and prepare myself in ur word, pls help me."
But having these feelings crushes me, my desire crushes me.. and I can't do anything about it....except pray
Yea. It’s all made up. There is no reward in whatever people are calling dating which stems from purity culture. If you’re a player, you’ll def get more Christian girls than you can handle. Not a player, maybe you’ll be lucky enough to find someone before you start having to act out of desperation.
@6thandHarrison my crush has never dated anyone, but to me he is the most handsome guy alive. Its his drive and passion for the bible and how open he is that draws me to him. Not because he is a player.
bukkyg2080 Why not let him know you like him? Maybe he’s shy
@awsambdaman I told him I was interested, but he did tell me in the nicest way possible that he wasent interested in me, and he has a type so.
Which is fair everyone has a type.. just unfortunate I'm not that type. We still good friends and study the bible together now and then... so I'm greatful to God for him in my life, even if he isn't the one for me.
This was fire
Next podcast title. Are all good Christian women MID.
hahaha... nice.
growing in love as opposed to falling in love. So many missed opportunities by individuals because their hearts did not align with God's desires...but the right person is already in their life. Now it is even harder , if your heart's desires are not in the right place, as Jezebels and Delilahs are all over the church, intended to delay your journey, and send you off into the wilderness.
Just as the israelites have to go Conquer the land that God has intended for them.....due to their disobedience, they never got it. So yes....even if God intended it for you, You YOURSELF can screw it up.
Clicking on this video was the best decision i made today 😊'
the girl on the far end on the left sorry I don’t know her name 😭 but her story is literally ME!! I wanted love so bad that I let it consume me and kinda made it an idol so I been trying to detach but I have no clue how but this helped so much. It encouraged me. Amen! 🥺🙏🏼🩷
Great talk ladies! Jesus is lord
Thank you for listening!!! 💛
I’m about to go in are y’all ready? If not just skip this comment lol. 3:36 lol just, no. That’s why y’all are single. I understand what you people are saying, and you’re not really talking about preferences so much that you’re talking about attraction. Yes, you should be attracted to your spouse, but if you find a good man that loves Jesus, that isn’t “corny”, then go for it dude. If not, then you honestly have no reason to complain. God provided; it’s just not what you thought it would be. There’s no need to over analyze this. Do you know who God wants you to marry? The Christian man that you end up marrying. There’s desires you’re going to be killing for the rest of your life. You never stop dying to self. Even the desire to have a “not corny” husband. If it’s not one thing, it’s another. I’m not saying to just jump into marriage because of desperation. Absolutely not. Do nothing out of fear. Just recognize that things don’t always look the way you want em to. Find a good Christian dude and marry him. It’s not that complicated. God gives gifts of romantic love and pleasure and that’s great, but all these things point to Him. To a greater pleasure and love that fulfills. Marriage isn’t even about the marriage. It’s about God and His glory and how He loves us.
P.S “praying for my husband” is peak Christian cornball btw so pot meet kettle. It’s especially corny for people that don’t end up married. It’s not bad to pray for a future husband, but to assume that you will be married and you’re praying for the man that God is “preparing”. Come on now 🤔
P.S.S the only single girls in here are single because they won’t humble themselves. No reason y’all should be single 😂
This why I'm a passport bro, you can't even find good wmn in the church
@@berrymckockiner5883 lol ion know bout that one, but you do you man 😂
@@LaymensLameMan I mean these wmn represent the vast majority of Christian wmn and these wmn aren't it
@@berrymckockiner5883 lol nobody is perfect when you meet them. I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable marrying a “passport woman.” Wouldn’t be able to tell if she loves me or is just waiting for the papers. If it works for you that’s dope, but I think I’ll take my chances here.
😂 I love it. I have been a gentile forever and as I look into this and I felt the same thing. I don’t fit in with the other guys at any church I’ve ever been to. “Corny, unattractive, not cool, not funny, not fun.” And always bringing up hypocritical dogmatic platitudes a la the Pharisees if they don’t understand biblical history. Big barrier to entry.
Can Christian women be virgins and wait until marriage nowadays? Understand the guy might be 5'06" and average looking but has a passion and love for the LORD.
Absolutely they can! Especially if that’s something you value and hope for, I believe the person the Lord has for you will meet that desire.
I am a married man to a CHRISTian wife. We have a marriage centered on JESUS. We raise our kids that way and I work and she manages the household.
If you value a 6'04 guy (probably is mentally fragile and emotionally also, because he has been told how great he is since he was a child, doesn't face adversity until he is an adult (look at shaq if 1 person criticizes him, he breaks down over it - he is a well known example) that person should be lower on a husband scale) if you value things the world tells you to, you act as the world. Also dating, where does the Bible mention dating??? Really it talks about marriage. If a women dates a guy for greater than 4 months, move on to the next guy and the same for the guy.
@@calebdiscool40what a ridiculous comment. People can be attracted to certain physical traits and not be vilified for it. What a poor attitude
@adelaide3409 you may go through a few divorces, or wasted time long term relationships
@@calebdiscool40 what???????
lol my husband is for sure not corny & is a true man of God
Love this!
Loved this episode though! Keep going beauty’s!!!!!
what kind of mics/recording system do yall use?
We use the Zoom Dynamic Mic (ZDM-1) and the Zoom Podtrack P4 Recorder. It’s our first episode using them and we love them and they are better than the system we had last season.
i liked this
Thank you so much for listening!! 💛
I been praying for my proverbs 31 wife . Trying to be 1 timothy chapter 3 man .
You all picked up on something that Modern Christian men are corny but that is not the root of it. The problem is that none of them portray strength in their virtue, they just want to be nice guys.
Strength in the world is different than strength in God we acknowledge that God is our strength there is no need to lift a ton of weights if you already got God on your side
@@AdamWilliams-mc9li Not talking about physical strength, a lot of the same guys I’m referring to have muscles and are strong but mentally remain childish.
@@benmetzger7040 oh okay I apologize my kind is usually attack these days for no reason but I don't worry about it so much I'm here for people that need me not for people who don't appreciate me
The Coddling of the American Mind, or No More Mr. Nice guy, are nice reads relating what you are talking about. @@benmetzger7040
Nature tries to guarantee healthy parents for kids and health markers are physical strength, good looks, athletic, aesthetic, facial symmetry, kind loving, mature, healthy mindset etc. People used to pick the parents of their kids carefully before the birth control pill released in 1960.
Unless I missedsomething, I am confused with title. What constitues a christian man as "Corny" and what does that title have to do with what is discussed in the video.
I’m halfway through the video bro waiting for the exact same thing
Probably just means socially awkward/inept
Bro avoid these misandrists, if a wmn cares about personality, it's a red flag
She said she wanted her man to be Christian but also have "a little swag" ... so.... should tell you all you need to hear about these women.
@@AmJusSaiyan this is why I avoid most Christian wmn
Yes.
The girl on the right has such a lovely smile.
We have got to let go of the word Corny, Often since a Christian is just a person who was once in the world it should make sense that they were someone before giving themselves to christ. No somehow that gives them the auto title of corny? For probably showing discipline?
“The knight is a man of blood and iron, a man familiar with the sight of smashed faces and the ragged stumps of lopped-off limbs; he is also a demure, almost a maidenlike, guest in hall, a gentle, modest, unobtrusive man. He is not a compromise or happy mean between ferocity and meekness; he is fierce to the nth and meek to the nth.”
- C.S. Lewis
Christian women want prince charming and live together happily ever after.
I feel like you should just fall in love with whoever you're attracted to. + If you find that you fall in love with and that are not Christian. Then maybe that's just your cross to bare. Because as a Christian man I wouldn't want to be with any girl that thinks I'm corney
No bud, don’t be unequally yolked. That’s not a burden God gives us, that is calamity we bring on ourselves. Not worth it, trust me I’ve done it lol
@@Dodderyfeline31 I wouldn't do it, but some girls that are Christian feel a draw to guys that are still in the world. And no matter how many times you tell them they shouldn't do it, they do it anyways. So If they want to do it go ahead. Best case scenario she convinces the guy to convert. Worst case scenario they got divorced.
@@chriscodling6573that’s my experience too. They wanted the bad version of me. When I wasn’t being bad and following my flesh (thus causing them to leave while I was waiting on god to give me direction), they went after the bad guy and guilted the bad boy into becoming churchy 🤷🏻♂️.
Describe a corny Christian
Always beyter to wait for God's timing than yo rush into a loveless marriage and someone that ran to ever5else besides God and me and complain. At 44 and after a dark period, even after being saved and baptized, i came back to Jesus and praying more reading the bible more...and working on myself and raising my son. Its going to be hard, especially in this world but we are going to suffer while on this world. I just have nobidea how to talk to women, i cant read signals...i think ill be like Paul and single...work for the Lord
This was an interesting and timely chat from you guys. I've recently posted a video on my channel 'Will christian men need 50 relations...' Its connected to this discussion. I would like very much to discuss this further.
The algorithm got me. Jesus is king. 🙏
I can tell you that just because you have a desire in your heart does Not necessarily mean that God has planted it there (does it say this in the Bible?) because there are many godly women who have desired children and husbands and who got neither in the end. I am not saying this to dash hopes but the Bible says that Hope deferred makes the heart sick. So don’t convince yourself that all your desires will be met because some may not be from God. Keep asking Him & listen to him intently to know for sure.. We sometimes ask God to align our desires with His as our desires aren’t always what He has planned for us. I want to see this backed up by Scripture if possible please? We have a heart’s desire to be healed from sickness & disease but it doesn’t always happen. I believe that God planting Certain desires in our hearts for Him to make those things happen - is more of a human opinion not actually biblical. Please by all means correct me if I’m wrong? I also had dreams about marriage & I believe it was from God but I also try to make sure I don’t pin all my hopes into this dream because ultimately I just want a heart that desires whatever God desires for me - it’s not always easy but I pray through it
Hi! Absolutely. If you play it back to 4:15, the scripture Ashley is referring to is Psalm 37:4-5 which says, "Delight yourself in the Lord, And He will give you the desires and petitions of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; Trust in Him also and He will do it." We definitely have the same mindset on this. If the truest desire of our hearts is God, all other desires will fall in line. He will change our desires to align with His will. Like you said, it's not always easy and praying is the best way to get through it!
@@EdenAwaitsI think this is naive to believe, and you must have not been through enough adult disappointments in life. Like 40 years of disappointments. Ask your parents how many things they hoped for that never happened even if they prayed for it
Do an Episode on Christian women being corny too
Young men keep your eyes in the scriptures.
Listen with both ears. Both eyes open. Just the title of this video should speak to your spirit.
I hear a lot of worldly “I want” and “I asked god to give me a wink” and I also hear the culture of the world.
2nd Corinthians 11:14
You are in the middle of a spiritual war for your soul and the battle is hot
So we're corny now for obeying Jesus? Right.
Breaking Curses 101 on CZcams
Pursue God, not a spouse.
Yeh they are SpongeBob is the exception 🤔
Huh
For me, all perfect gift comes from above. There is a marriage made in heaven. To me I would seek that kind of marriage. There are only two things I'm looking for a spouse. A woman after God's own heart and a woman who knows God and knows herself who she is to God. Which means a woman who puts God first, His truth, His word above else in her life, who puts Jesus above all even her future husband.
As Jesus said "love you neighbor as you love yourself," if Jesus commands his children to love even our enemies, how much more how we treat our future spouse. Our spouse could never be our enemy, right? So that means how you want to see yourself before God so as our desire to our future spouse to be with and in God too.
So I would like to be with a woman who loves the spiritual more than the cosmetics, material things. A woman who looks her life in above not on things of earth. I hate divorce.
Goldberg eats corn the long way
If Eden awaits, that means everybody's supposed to be nude.