How Aamna & Hassan Are Raising Their Children | HautePod Ep 2
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- How Aamna & Hassan Are Raising Their Children | HautePod Ep 2
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Tuning into HautePod is like having smart friends in my ears! Educated, refreshingly unbiased, and their humor? It's like a bonus espresso shot for my funny bone. ☕😄. Thank you, Amna and Hassan. Love you guys ❤❤
Very well said 😁😎
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Can't agree more
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And have you thought of starting a book club! will be super fun! a monthly podcast on book of the month! Please Aamna Ma'am
This conversation is the shadow of my opinion. It was such a nice conversation. Go ahead #AmnaHassan..😊❤..
I will never be sick of you guys! You guys are like meeting old friends everyday, and giving us a respite. At the end of the day I sit with a cup of tea and unwind with u guys!!! LOVE IT!
Sameeee same same!!!! Plus my urdu gets so refined and better by hearing it. Love from Germany 🫶🏽
Same! I have to watch their video while ending my day
Same! They are part of our daily lives 😊❤
Same here
As someone who hasn't had a great relationship with her father, it's beautiful to see how invested Hassan is in his daughters' lives, as he should be, loved the way he talks about them, Masha Allah ❤ Amna's journey of raising her sons is equally inspiring and beautiful, mothers are truly special ❤️ loved this episode, seeing this side of you guys apart from all the dramas and stuff
Thumbs up to Amna for raising kids single handedly. I think mothers can raise children as a single parent but fathers can't.
If father has the right mindset then yes he can
All married women operate as single parents in our sexist chauvinist world! Often the male is so incompetent that it falls on the woman to raise the kids ‘alone’ yet being married!!😳 it’s the mother who will get so much attitude to from the kids despite being the main career and also having a profession!
But i dont understand why did she
Amna I'm so happy you talked about this topic I can relate to you on so many levels being in the same age bracket as you and felt kinda relieved to know that those were the norms back then. I always felt angry towards my husband for not helping me with the kids but now I'm not exactly happy but kind of comforted in a different way.
I knew this guy who looked like the Hulk. He raised three daughters all by himself. He was so sweet and caring to them, just like the best of mothers. For the rest of the world he was just a regular tough sort of guy.
When hassan said I want my daughter to know that if somebody hit her to baap duniya hila de ge uska liye, it healed a little part of me inside. A daughter having this confidence can conquer the world.
I really appreciate this new gen of young parents who r both equally involved in their children's upbringing. Its never too late to break non sense cultural norms.
It’s such a fine balance between raising kids that are well adjusted versus those that are entitled. However old fashioned this sounds,there can never be a substitute for good manners and kindness.Everything good in life follows behind❤️
Why do we not mention how important are the 5 daily prayers for our children's upbringing and "tarbiyah". This will give them all the qualities that you guys mention in the podcast as well
Communication with kids starts with trust. It's very important for kids to know that when they confide in you, a) they won't be punished in any way or b) you won't tell anyone if they've asked you. You also need to show vulnerability
Please keep feeding us with content yall are my primary and only source of comfort.
There was nothing special about raising kids but listening to you both is always a pleasure.Amna is so lively and has a very balanced personality.Hasan is cute.Knowing little things about your personal lives brings us closer
I was never excited about any podcast but you people have made me liking it .
This series is one of the best things happened to us viewers. And Hassan's Dil tounnn bachaa hai ji 👏 so classic 😂
You guys are born stars!!! Thank for yet another refreshing yet extremely insightful HautePod. It was lovely to get glimpses of you both as parents!! I have a question for you both- how important is it or how involved do you make the kids in your life? When Aamna mentions bring more or less a single parent, how has she dealt with discussing her relation with the boys’ father with them? Does Hassan discuss or are his girls aware of his interactions with celebrities? How does he keep his girls grounded on that front? This one needs a part 2… for sure!! Thank you for all that you do x
Listening to Amna telling stories of her kid's childhood in such a candid way was so intriguing and fun to listen . She was so honest throughout. We want more of such candid talks that feel like home ❤
Lovely to hear Amna's journey! I am more interested in her joinery actually! if you can do more podcast on her journey as a women in this is society. it would be lovely.
Already waiting for next podcast.. really really enlightening to hear the mature conversation between two smart people. Please continue doing such conversations.. love and duas ❤
Don’t agree with Hassan about children to see you fighting. It makes them very anxious and you won’t even realize that their anxiety is because of your fights or bickering.
I agree but also its so hard to not argue in front of kids, i hate to make my kids anxious and therefore even if the argument does happen in front of kids its important to resolve it as soon as possible. I tell mine that parents can disagree and can argue but that doesn’t mean they don’t like or respect each other.
I discovered Something Haute because of Tere Bin reviews and then I came back for Kuch Ankahi and Ishq Murshid Reviews. I have watched both the HautePod episodes and for me, it is the most enriching kind of content. The mass communication student in me was extremely happy when both of you spoke about your journeys as well as setting up the CZcams channel. There were so many important points about print and digital media as well as media entrepreneurship. Thoroughly enjoyed the conversation today and got to learn a lot from both of you. Both of you are the most inspiring and entertaining personalities. I pray for your health, happiness and look forward to more amazing HautePods. Sending you lots of love from India ❤
I have started rewatching your channel only because of HautePod episodes. Real humans talking about real stuff from their real lives with honesty ❤ Much better than watching cooked up unreal conflict-ridden stories of Dramas
A very mindful discussion. I could totally relate to you as a parent and as a 'family'.
I would like to request a HautePod on restarting career for women after a long break.
Thank you...this was really a good one! Please don't stop talking about parenting!💙
I've waited for this eagerly. Never fangirled over anyone except you guys. Loved the episode ❤
U both are more than welcome in any format❤️
This must be new for you but I have always listened to your videos as podcasts, it’s my favorite format🩷 but im glad it’s becoming official and that you guys are adding new topics 🫶🏼
Just loved the podcast❤️ I think there should be a part 2 as well, where you should share some details of the parenting methods you used or use and also tell us what worked and didn’t work for you as parents. The whole podcast sounded very postive..but parenting is also not so positive at times. You have days where you feel tired and overwhelmed. I have a similar situation like Amna where I have to do most of the parenting. I would like Amna to share what kept her going without feeling burnt out? Here in the west we dont have house helpers, so its even tougher for a mother to raise kids. Did Amna have house help and other help while raising her kids? Please share some tough parts of your parenting as well and how you deal/dealt with them. Now when Amna have grown up kids, whats her challenges now? Please please make a part 2 of this podcast because we’ll love to hear your thoughts 🙏🏼❤
Omg how adorable are you Hassan? Such a sweet Dad!
Your girls are lucky to have you Masha Allah!
Stay blessed and enjoy your family 🙌🏻💖
Also, the point Aamna mentioned about the rat race, I resonate with it, you have to keep the child's personality in mind when it comes to education. If a child is innately competitive, you ought to support them through the challenges while constantly reminding them that their only competition is their own self.
Its so nice to know you guys are such present parents. Listening to you guys reminds me of my own parents. My dad has always been a very involved father which is very unlike desi fathers. And so is my mother. I feel parents need to build a trust situation with their kids only then they will share their feelings with the parents. Now being a parent myself I try my level best to respect my 3 year old as an individual and not shove him away
I didn’t skip a sec of this video, Thank you for such a valuable podcast! May Allah bless both of you and your loved ones.
This was a brilliant second HautePod by you both. Thank you!
Although I don’t have children of my own yet, I definitely could relate to almost all of your concerns and conversations about learning and unlearning parenting/behaviours from one’s own parents.
Growing up we did not have enough support and ease of communication with our parents especially around sexuality and biophysical issues, but Im hopeful those who listen to you (our extended Haute family) will be learning and practising a lot better than those before us.
Also, khush houti hai k Pakistan main ajj kal k zamaane main bhi app donou jese woke and aware parents hain. Your children will be better of the lot. Alhamdulillah! Go you guys!!! ❤❤
I would like to listen more from Amina, although i loved listening from Hassan but I think Amina didn’t get enough time to speak! Amazing podcast as always.
Salaams, wonderful conversation! I wish that all young adults listen to this important conversation and follow the advice. Being aware parents is paramount in raising human beings. Please more and more of these episodes.
The best thing about you guys are that your ideas are always and absolutely original . Every other drama reviewers are copycats . Like I had followed others too and noticed how they copied you or trying to compete with you . That's why something haute is so popular.
great topic, great people, great conversation. I'll really appreciate amna who single-handedly raised their kids as a working mother. Thank you guys for this amazing HautePod.
I got divorced when my son was 6 months old, he is 5 now mashaAllah, I have been as single as a parent can be. Everything from finances to emotions, I'm the only one for him. He doesn't even know his father. It is alot of fun but sometimes it gets very lonely. I do have times which are rare where the loneliness reaches an extreme. I love being a mom but I wish every girl a lovely partner to raise their child with.
Ammin Allah apko bht sari khushia day sister..dua kijiye Allah tala mujy oulad ata kr den
Ye to meri sister ki story h same..or mere nephew ne bhi kabhi baap ka pyar nhe liya mjhe usko dekh dekh kr dil kat’ta h..mene or meri sis ne hr cheez di usay khush rakhte lekin father ka pyar zroori h..or jb 12 ya 14 years saal ka tha mera nephew to baap se mila agay se no response to mera nephew ab apne father ka zikar bhi sunna nhe chahta…
Allah ap k lye or ap k bete k lye boht asani farmaye Ameen
Proud of you!
Being a mother of a 5 and 3 years old, it is the much needed podcast for me and i can relate with a lot of things... enjoying alot
Very nice topic , really enjoyed listening to both of you and appreciate your parenting skills.
Really enjoyed this conversation 😊 Aamna I must say that I related so much with you hearing your experiences, being 33 years old with 3 young kids I’m doing the exact same thing that you did in terms of raising kids since handedly. Looking forward to the next episode 😊
Love the haute pod. Feels like you are in your drawing room having tea and conversation with wise and positive friends. Especially the conversation is so soft spoken feels good to hear. We Appreciate your hard work. So many people alone doing some work and listening to Amna and Hassan
I can watch u too talking anytime❤....such a nice session for parents ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this insight 👏🏼 People need to have more open conversations about raising children
Again!! Absolutely love this haute-pod!! Such a great topic, respect and so much love for your vulnerability and sharing your experiences. It’s wonderful to be able to relate with your thoughts while simultaneously learning from both your stories!
I’m from Dhaka, Bangladesh. I love watching your all kinds of content and conversations. Your new venture HautePod is very interesting.😊
Omg yayyy Haute Pod no.2 is here 🤩🥳
Gosh! I have never ever listened to any podcasts but here u both are & cant stop hearing u talk 😍🫶🏼
First year of my daughter going to school, one day my daughter came home crying saying someone called her something. I immediately wrote a letter to the teacher and CC the principal that I will not tolerate bullying. I sent a happy child to school and I expect the school to return a happy child at the end of the day and every day and I don’t want my child to tell me she doesn’t wanna go to school because of anxiety she in felling inside of her.
The principal talked to my daughter and she saw the school counselor and they took care of that problem. I know the girls who were “mean” to her had to take some after school behavior classes and learn to be kind with others and what not.
From my end I felt like I did the right thing and my daughter knew I was and always will be there for her , but after few years I realized that she stoped sharing her problems with me because she thought I overreact to the problem.
Now she is grown up and told me that at that time her leaving the class to talk to the counselor and principal and her teacher being careful while talking to her she felt she wasn’t a normal kid and kids avoided playing with her. That’s why she stoped telling me the details whenever I asked “ how was school “
An advice from a parent to parent would be that you never know how to raise the kids. Just go with the flow because kids will never be satisfied 😉
I was thinking the same thing. If my parent had wrote a letter to my principal whenever someone said mean thing to me, alot of people might have avoided being friends with me. Parenting is tough. I think its better to teach your kid to handle bullies. You intervening shouldn't be the first step.
The colour combinations you both have is like wao wao wao😂😂❤❤
Very nice Hautepod!! The way Amna you said you raised your children single handedly same with my Mother. I think that generation was very different. Me & my brother confide everything with her. We are both 30+ but she still listens about our work & stuff & tries to understand. We were never previliged but our parents tried to provide us whatever was in their capacity. And I am so grateful for our upbringing, that we have turned out to be decent human beings, we are able to live a comfortable life & give our parents the things that they were not able to enjoy earlier. Also, I personally think good education is very very important and a parent must make the child realise that. A parent must not push the child to come top of the class but always encourage them to improve. Just pass hojao feels a very wrong thing to say to a child.
enjoyed this episode as well....
quite relatable to most working mothers.....
looking forward to more such episodes.....
Your podcast have a taste of its own. It's not monotonous and typical. Please keep up the good work.
You have done podcasts about “how you met” and “ Raised children “ , now it’s time to do one podcast about your marital life, (Hasan & Iqra) Aamna & Haider) please 🙏
Amna & Hassan, I recently started watching/listening to y’all as my mother motivated me to do so (since she always talked about you guys). I absolutely love most of your review videos & recently your podcast videos were very innovative & informative. You guys have become my traveling companion ❤
Suggestion- I really hope one day you all do a podcast video (based on your experiences) on how to handle/make/break relationships (especially in terms of marriage- in a general /universal way)!! Thank you & much love all the way from US!! May Allah bless you both!! 😇🧿
You both are awesome so nice to see the second haute pod. ❤❤❤❤
This was so fun you guys! Please continue with this conversations forever and ever!!!
Love love and only love to both of you❤❤❤
I love this haute Pod room setup
Those walls texture and colors are so complimentary to you guys and setting the right ambiance/mood
The reason I like your reviews is because it is clearly visible that two educated People are having a conversation which is filled with such ingredients that are necessary to make it meaningful. I like how you guys bring up important things that are unfortunately ignored by the people in our society on every platform they are being provided with. Such eyeopener conversations are extremely required ❤❤
This HautePod’s topic was very important, interesting and informative. Enriched by your discussion and thoroughly enjoyed.❤❤
Dear Aamna pls do share your horror encounter as you once mentioned in one of the episode of SH😊🙂
It was a mixture of emotions watching the podcast. On one hand, it was uplifting to see the way children are raised in positive environment. On the other hand, person growing in a dysfunctional environment, this seems too utopian. Sad but it can be a foreign concept that some people grow up in supportive, loving & trusting environment
Same
What an amazing sensible conversation you guys had, bravo #Amna #Hasan Bhai. Keep growing x
Keep doing it.....
Intelligent conversation..Really enjoyed it
I loved loved loved this one podcast. Literally learnt a lot from both of you. Please do these in regular intervals. 👌👌💕💕💕
Finally..i was waiting..since i dunt find a single drama worth watching i was not able to watvj the reviews but missed u two😂...i know u ppl love dur e fishan but its a task to watch her..please do regular haute bites and haute pot..ik b acha drama nahi hai is wekt..mutlub roastable wala acha b nahi hai unfortunately..please do this regularly
I am from India and never misses any of your show. Can you please discuss Pyar Ke Sadqay… one of the best drama ever made… loved Yumna in it
they have reviewed it when it came out you can go watch their old reviews
It was such a delight hearing both of you on a personal level. I respect and admire you both so much. Being a parent myself and about to have my second baby, I could relate to this topic so much. Especially raising kids outside of Pakistan, there are so many things you have to be mindful of. Thank you for bringing up this important topic.
Please do an episode on how to maintain healthy relationship with your spouse and in laws
You guys are right that parents are not connected with their children that much..
Abhi I'm only on the intro so just wanted to leave a comment on that. I love you guys for the refreshing conversations you have, your dynamic, the humor, the unapologetic disagreements and yet alignment and space for each other. I didn't know you guys before something haute and it was lovely to listen to your journeys in the last hautepod and I was blown away k bhai you guys have YEARS of experience in the field and THAT is where all of this comes from. It was lovely! Please keep doing what you do ❤❤
Amna n Hasan it is so refreshing to see both of you interact.
Honest and Genuine reviews.
I am from India n love both of you.
What a valuable hautepod for a parent like me having toddlers… please talk more on this topic … keep rocking 👏🏼👏🏼
Keep making this type of podcast, about different topics
Sharing this with my friends with kids, immediately! thanks a ton guys!❤
Very nice, pata hi nahi chala episode kab end hogai 👏🏻
Ese topics pr discussion sun kr apna bhi check n balance hota hai. ❤ I have 3 kids (10, 8, and a 7 yr old) I was confused about how much we should toughen up our kids and how much we should pamper, after hearing this, it kinda cleared up.
Amna and Hassan You both are raising your kids so well ... Entire podcast is so good 😊want to see your kids someday 🥹🥹
This one is one of the best conversations I’ve ever heard about raising children ❤❤ learnt alot from you guys
Really enjoyed ur conversation.. Aamna big fan of yours. Listening ur talks so impressed n proud of u. Love from India❤❤
I am not a parent even not married yet but I really enjoyed this podcast.❤
Same I am just 18 and enjoying it but still now our generation understand each deep thing we are really observant about all things 😅
samee
The aesthetics of the podcast are on point 👌🏽
Wow, you pick up the perfect topic for haute pod, I was waiting for your opinion for raising of teenage boys
Loved it Hasan and Amna. Im 22 and I can relate to you guys bcz you both are cool parents hehe! Never stop doing these podcasts
Hassan and Amna thank you so much for sharing your insight on parenting … so much to learn as a parent myself. One challenging aspect I struggle with is breaking generational cycles … not necessarily directed towards trauma or abuse but even simple ways or parenting styles. It is easy to accept that we are living in a different time and we cannot raise our kids the same way our parents did but then to unlearn certain behaviors is difficult especially if u become a parent at an even younger age than @amna you mentioned.
Btw I relate with Hassan at this point having 3 little girls around Amira and Aliza’s age
Absolutely 💯 agree regarding unlearned behaviors. I find it soo challenging with my 4 and 7 years old in this time and age. I try to be a mindful parent but it's a work in progress.
lovely, insightful conversation. lovvvvving these Hautepods!
Awesome conversation Aamna ji and Hassan. I really had a good time hearing you both how you raise your children and how it’s not a textbook way, and it all depends from parent to parent. Hassan, you said something about privilege, all I wanna say, is rather than telling children how privileged they are, you should show them how privileged they are, by sometimes taking them to an orphanage especially on their birthdays, take them out to see homeless children, or children who don’t have parents, living in an orphanage and maybe give them a treat, make goodie bags for them, or give them food, and have your children do these kinds of gestures, spend some time with those underprivileged children so they can see how privileged they are, as opposed to us telling our kids how Alhamdolillah welloff they are or how lucky they are, more than hearing it they need to see it. This is what will make our kids grateful for everything. I live in the USA (Michigan) and Alhamdolillah have two girls 10 and 8 yrs old so I completely understand how parenting can be challenging sometimes.
First I want to say I love the frame and listening to both of u are amazing and Amna is very inspiration for anyone
Lovely to know abt you guys, looking forward for some more advice and the do's ndonts with kids. God bless you both
I enjoyed, learnt and related so much to this conversation. Very glad you guys had this topic of conversation for this episode❤
I did something. My husband is always away from home on business trips. I have only one child and I am a full time working mom. I really enjoyed it. Now he is 24. My husband always appreciates it. I love this conversation. Most of the time I listen to your podcast while I am at the gym. Love you guys.
Wow such a thoughtful and insightful conversation simply loved it and you guys are simply awesome you guys should do more often❤❤❤🌟🌟.
I liked the podcast alot but there is one thing that I must say - I am sadened to see how little part religion plays in our parenting. It seems like religion only applies for "Alhamdulillah", "InshaAllah" and "MashaAllah".
We get to know so much about parenting through the Seerah for instance. But unfortunately, we do not want to let it inside us.
Such an amazing video. Both of you are so inspirational. Hats off to aamna for raising her kids so well all alone and hats off to hassan for being an exemplary father that is so involved in his children's lives. My relationship with my father was only limited to my studies. He used to ask if i am studying well how my exams are going and that i should be at the top. I dont remember me having any other conversation with my father. So listening to hassan i felt so envious of his daughters. I wished i had such a relationship with my father.
Kudos to you both❤️
bst topic
I listen each and every episode if your show
Highly insightful session for me. Is conversation ko sun ke lag raha hai meri parenting tu hue hi nahi hai😂
I am 36, and for the last 15 years, I haven't had anybody to share my stories and everyday things or problems with anyone. As my friends were toxic and my siblings were busy. Many people don't have anybody to share things with anyone.
This episode was very interesting. Next one should be about your childhood and adolescence memories.
I always love these two ..❤❤❤their bond with fine boundaries
Oh wow
I recently had annual function in school and my theme was let your child have a say ….. in that I educated parents about some wrong common behaviours they do and that’s not right for them and how they are suppose to communicate with their children and all and now listening to u both is so refreshing and I feel great
Bravo both of you ! So great to hear this one as a parent too. And so many things to relate with Aamna , like tool box thingy from her father, almost same for me I know how to change bulb, fuse and change the tire of the car all thanks to my father. Now I’m abroad and all those hand on things and that mindset make me do things with my own two hands with out depending on any one most of the time.
Amna's husband ?
Interesting Conversation guys love to hear you both always❤
Loving this new series ❤
Oh my my. It's here. Yesterday only I request u to upload second part. Thanku so much. Masha Allah u both are looking so gorgeous.