My Baby Shower | grwm, prepping, and reflections~
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- čas přidán 8. 07. 2021
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Jenn, I LOVE that you organized your own baby shower. Sometimes tradition just doesn't make the most sense. Not everyone has a mother or a sister that is able to throw a baby shower for you... And I have always felt weird about the concept of burdening or expecting one's closest friends to take on planning such an event... Your shower was beautiful!!! :) Congratulations!!
Aww thank you! Yes, some traditions are so antiquated. Life should be on our own terms. n_n
This!!!! 💕💕💕💕
Up till today, I honestly thought that baby showers were supposed to be planned by the preggy mummy herself LOL oh well I guess I'm pretty advanced
100%!
I actually love this too! I depended on others when I got married. I was severely disappointed. (Not in a bratty way that had ridiculous standards …more like mom didn’t help until last minute just to criticize my husband’s efforts, sister denied my request to be a bridesmaid, bridesmaids didn’t buy a gift or attempt/attend a shower or bachelorette, several family members and church members didn’t show up to wedding)
Yeah it was sad. Lol
Jenn's vibe during her whole pregnancy is such an inspiration.
So true!
SO TRUE!! She is an angel😭
yeah
I know! Mine is in 2 weeks and I’m so stressed out and overwhelmed
HONESLTY! I agree finally someone who I can relate to. I really loved what Jenn said about baby showers, and empowerment in planning your own. Someone one said to me "omg you're planning your own bachelorette party, that so sad what about your friends" and I felt SO judged. But I realize now the planning was because I know what I like, what is in my budget and what works best for me. I feel Jenn has opened up more than ever and she is truly amazing for it! Cant wait to plan my own baby shower one day!
Such a special baby shower! So happy to be a part of it. I'm missing your family's Korean food already
your outfit was so cute weylie!
Thank you for helping me out with it! 🥺♥️♥️
Where did you get your suspender dresss weylie!?
The empanadas look fire, Weylie!
Everyone looked so cute!! Weylie where did you get your outfit from?!
The prettiest pregnant gal I’ve seen✨
You're too kind. Thank you, Lills! T-T
There isn’t one significant one, all women are the prettiest of all, strong and beautiful especially durning this process.
@@_vincentvangrowing_5469 relax ❤️
agreed
You SK-II ad came on when I started the video and was so confused 😂😂
When cheekie was looking at Jen like "Okay we get it now rub me belly hooman"
Hahahha, she LOVES her belly rubs.
Hehehe soon there will be two
lol are you Jamaican or Caribbean?"
You have the greatest friends ever and I strive for this level of frendship with mine ☺️☺️
Thank you! I really do feel so blessed with the friends I have. Wishing the same for you! x
@@tombradshaw7995 Very true. I like this!
I just absolutely love that you planned the shower yourself and didn’t wait for someone to do it for you. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but there’s just something ✨chefs kiss✨ about doing things on your own terms. ❤️
Wow what a positive way to look at this. I was super depressed and upset that no one would plan one for me and that I had to do it all myself
YES and I feel similarly abt other events! I used to get all sad waiting for my friends to do something for my birthday, for example (very hs stuff haha), but I’ve since discovered the empowerment and joy that comes from planning celebrations myself. 🥳 We know exactly what we want and there’s none of that “waiting for someone else to ~make~ you happy” stuff.
@@Tiffunny23 Yeah I was feeling like that too. This is a much more empowering way to look at it.
@linearline It is typically the grandmothers or friends of the mom that would plan the baby shower
I love that Weylie was the first to arrive 😭❤️
I LOVEEEE Weylie!! 🥰
Jenn, I have loved watching you grow and blossom over the years, you are such an inspiring individual to so many people!! Thank you for always sharing your beautiful content and wisdom
Aww thank you so much, Lyv.
as someone who’s grown up with the channel over the years, it’s so beautiful to see your surrounded with your loved ones during this huge milestone. wishing you and your baby all the best ☺️
I love the gender neutral baby shower theme 🥺 🍼
Thank you!! n_n
Yeah😍 we did that when my brother was born. All his stuff were in a gender neutral color (no blue). I don't mean I necessarily associate blue with boys but... well society...
Jenn, I'm so excited for what the future has in store for you as a first time mom! Your mindset has evolved in such a positive direction and I hope you know how lucky your baby will be to have a mom as great as you :)
Thank you so much, Hana! This message is SO encouraging.
The yellow dress gave me such Beyoncé Lemonade vibes. What a welcoming for the new bb 👌🏻
I feel like if I ever became pregnant I’d feel somewhat like what you feel? most pregnant people are so like enthusiastic and so positive all time about being pregnant and I mean this is nicest way but you seem so like “meh” and chill about it and ready like just pop the kid out and I love that!! The rawness of how you feel about pregnancy is so refreshing to see in a space where most people shove it down your throat about how great it is when I know deep down it’s probably really tough! I hope I conveyed my message well because it’s kinda hard through a comment!!! Love all your videos and been watching you since your tartan party!!
Hahah thanks Alix. Pregnancy is definitely a different journey for everyone. So far I think my pregnancy has just been a new event/addition to my life and I'm happy to share these moments with you all. Also WOW throwback to the Tartan Party!
Most super enthusiastic, bubbly pregnant women are hiding their fear, I'm sure. Speaking as a mom, we're all scared shitless going into parenthood but the norm is to hide it well. I wish society would change and let parents be humans, not just parents. You're allowed to be happy for the blessing and horrified, tired, sad, frustrated etc. at the same time. Same with parenting. You can love your kids to the moon and back but have big "MEH" parenting days, days when you just don't want to do the mom thing. Totally normal! It's not all magic, even though lots of moms pretend it is so!
also forget to mention…YES to dresses with pockets!!! we need more of them!!
All dresses should have pockets!!
Omg Cheeki LIVING at 3:51 😭🥺😍
She loooves to cuddle!
“Whoop the grandparents are here!” 😂😂
Every time I see your pregnant belly I think "Wow, pregnancy never looked so good before"
It kinda makes me excited for when I'm gonna have kids as well ☺
I still can't believe you are pregnant, we are the same age and I have been there since the first video and It has been so amazing to see you grow up in such an elegant, sweet, organized, happy, full of love, young woman, I am so happy to see that you have accomplish so much, with such grace, lucky baby, saludos desde Costa Rica. 💕🌻 A lot of LOVE for you and your family.
(Seems like It was yesterday when I was watching you at your parents house, in your room, so I could get some fashion inspiration) 💗
You are like an older sister I never had and I really really wish you all the best for the next phase of your life! Can't wait to learn and grow with you :)
Omg Jenn your backyard is beautiful! I'm glad the shower was a big success, wishing you well through the rest of your pregnancy!
I watched you 10 years ago for the first time. Ever since, you haven’t changed. So humble, so graceful and ever so beautiful. Seeing your growth has been such an amazing journey of self reflection in so many ways💕 Praying for your good health and the baby’s as well💕
Congratulations!! Your videos are always so heart-warming and you're honestly such an inspiration for people of all ages! I love how open and truthful you are in sharing your experiences - it's almost like you're an older sister/mentor for your viewers :) Wishing you the best of luck with the remainder of your pregnancy :)
Aww thank you, Farheen! x
You deserve a world of joy, Jenn! So happy to see you happy ♥️
Aww thank you, Emi! Wishing the same for you! x
You have such an amazing community around you, also so cool that most of them came early to help out! Glad the baby shower went amazingly. So Happy For You Jenn!! 🥺🥺👏👏💐💐🌼🌼
I know! I felt incredibly loved and supported this day. Thank you! x
Absolutely stunning! Everything looked amazing, well thought out, intimate, inviting and very much you and Ben! Congrats again on everything! I was a one and done person when it came to my daughter and I don't regret that decision. As much as everyone wants to put their two cents in, always choose what works for you and your circumstances.
I don’t know when or how I’ve known your channel, but right now I feel like I’m part of your beautiful journey and I’m so blessed to be one of your subscriber. Keep shining💜✨
You look absolutely angelic and your friend group is literally goals ❤️
Thank you so much, Blessing! x
AHHHHH I WAS WAITING FOR THIS VLOG!!!!!
Before I start watching I just wanna say how I’m excited for this new chapter for you and Ben. Sending my love to you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Aww thank you!!
this was so incredible! Looked like such a lovely time and it was so great seeing how everything came together! Sending so much love and light 💡🪴💌
Thank you, Jay! x
Hey Jen! I've watched you since I was a young girl as you talked about your struggles. Now Im 25, married, experienced the struggles you talked about in the past, and now I get to learn from you about this special moment. Thank you for sharing your experiences and proudly sharing your mental health journey as well. Congratulations and may you have a healthy birth!- From a fan who cant wait to see how it all unfolds!!!
I'm so happy for you and Ben. I'm glad you'd took control over your baby shower. I know you'll never forget this beautiful day that you shared with fam and friends Congrats! The fact that you stay true to yourself is all that matters. I love how you'd picked neutral colors and planning came out so amazing!
I love your community of friends and family who cherish everyone's individuality. Best of both worlds👌
Totally relate to the feeling of expectations on how to act at an event where you are the center of the party. Really made me not like events like my birthday or our wedding shower, so love the simple idea of just having fun!
I love the post baby shower reflections… so relatable! It’s an amazing feeling to feel so loved! 🥰 to have a true village with u to help raise n guide ur baby!
i love the idea of throwing your own baby shower! i feel the same way about bachelorettes and bridal showers. i know my friend would love to throw them for me, but a part of me really doesn't like the idea of "burdening" them of that responsibility. thanks for stepping out in this super small way!
Also.. congrats on the baby! I've watched you for so long and it's awesome to start a new chapter with a new member to the family
The amount of love and support that surrounds you is truly so magical and such a blessing! So happy for you 💟
Jenn-congrats for the babyshower-u all looked so happy and your lucky to have such a group of people who care so much about you . Your so young and still i admire so much ur qualities: ur hardworking, organised, collected and on top of all ur smile and your laugh make me happy too. Ur way of being is such an inspiration to me and the fact you grow and share your growth with us, is making me emotional. The way you show ur vulnerabilities and yet still able to face the challenges in your life are inspiring. Thanks for sharing urself with us here and letting us witness everything you wish to share.
I love planning my own events! You'll know how the day will go and have everything just the way you like it.
Yesss! Are you a Virgo too? LOL.
@@imjennim Nope, a Cancer :)
Agree 🥰
Starting watching you when we both had side parts ♥️🙏🏽 so excited for this next chapter for you!!
Omg Jenn! I’ve been following you for such a long time and watching this video had me emotional! I’m so proud of you and all you have accomplished! You are going to be an amazing mom just like you are an amazing role model! Thank you for sharing these intimate moments with us and I hope all goes well 💖
anyone else living vicariously through jen?
Me and it is borderline getting unhealthy
Congratulations! Sending prayers and blessings for a healthy birth💕
Thank you! I appreciate this comment! x
Ugh, you vibe on another level of liberation. And, I'm here fkn lovin' it. 🙌
That was beautiful! I’ve enjoyed your growth over the years. Thank you for sharing. You deserve all the good Jenn!
Yay! I’ve been waiting for this video ever since I saw your IG posts and stories! Your baby shower setup was so aesthetic!!😍🤍
Thank you, Cheryl! xx
3:40 Cheeki is so adorable!😂😂🤍 Also, your living room is so beautiful!
You're vibe is simply beautiful. I think you are a person people really enjoy being around to. All the best for you 3
I NEEDED to hear this while I start planning my baby shower. I'm so specific on what I like and want, the theme, colours, overall vibes, everything.
I definitely think it’s more meaningful that your friends and family showed up early to help set up than having someone to plan the whole thing :)
you are so blessed and loved!! thank you for sharing all these beautiful moments of your life 🥰
Jenn everything looked so beautiful and magical✨ I’m happy you’re happy🥺💕
I remember watching videos of you getting overwhelmed planning for your wedding day, and Its amazing to see you getting to understand yourself more and figuring out ways that keep you happy!! Now you’re planning your own babyshower!!🤍✨
Your video are so sweet and calming they're just so peaceful and your voice I could listen to it all day
I was waiting for this video. I wish you and Ben a safe delivery. I hope baby is healthy 💞
Thank you, Marisol! x
You are literally glowing! What a beautiful baby shower. Looking forward to seeing your new addition💗
Everything will be fine. Trust your body and go with the flow. Wishing you health & happiness 🧡
It’s been so wonderful to watch you go on this journey of living out your life over the years! Your big sis advice and experiences make me less fearful of navigating my 20s :) Thank you for making this channel such a comforting corner of the internet.
I totally agree Jenn with planning things yourself. I did that when I got married. I never like to put that burden on anyone and also put the expectation that in the end will let me down if not met. I rather know what is happening and do what makes me happy in the end. Loved your shower and can’t wait to see your new baby soon! 😄 ❤️
Oh my goodness...from watching Jenn when she was in college to her being married and about to have her first child - time truly does fly ✨ Congrats Jenn! I can't wait for your family to grow!
I felt so whole watching this. Just so many blessings to you guys.
Love this for you! I hope the rest of your pregnancy goes just as well or even better!
You are Gorgeous! You planned so well and your friendships are so precious! 🥰😍😍😍
LOVE THIS and YOU! Thank you for being my constant CZcamsr inspiration for my own channel! Love always ❤️✌️
Beautiful shower Jenn!! Everything looked perfect - decor, food, surrounded by your loved ones. I also planned my shower back in Feb 2018 & I’m so happy I did it. Yaaas to breaking tradition 😂
your baby shower is GOALS
such a great video 💖💖 luv u jenn! and congrats!!
Aww thank you so much! x
omggg aww this is such an exciting time for you! super excited for you and also happy 3 million subscribers!! 💗💗💗
Thank you, Su-ting! x
Truly so beautiful!!! Congratulations Jen!
I'm planning my own baby shower too for the exact same reasons. Also felt the same about planning my wedding as well. So stressful! Thank you for being so real and down to earth about your experience. So helpful and inspiring!
Being a fellow Virgo, I'm all in for this approach! 🙌
I knew the Virgos would understand immediately.
@@imjennim I'm a virgo as well and I planned mine myself too. My grandma said I wasn't supposed to but I said "watch me". 😂 I also did a gender neutral theme even though I did know the gender. I am so excited for you Jenn! Many congratulations 👏 I was so nervous for the birth and it didn't go as planned but baby is here. 🥰 Wishing you the best!!
YES. I've planned every birthday for myself for as long as I can remember 😂
Jenn, this video is chefs kiss🤌 So beautiful, empowering and so confident. You are the vibe queen 👑
Jen your such a vibe! I love your videos your baby shower was gorgeous ❤️
Jennnnn! You have so much love around you. It's so beautiful and watching you for so long I'm so emotional for no reason lol
Congratulations!! Your baby is going to rock this world like you have!! 😍❤️🔥
I also love a dress with pockets!!! You looked so lovely! Wishing you all the best for the rest of your pregnancy! ❤️ Can’t wait to see all the greatness in store for you and Ben!
The best of friends 😊 You had a beautiful baby shower! 🍼
Jenn, soooo happy to see you all glowy! You are such a free-spirited person. Loved the fact that you are not someone who waits for other person to throw you a baby shower, rather takes on the initiation oneself. This is such a simple thing and yet, we set a whole universe of expectation that some of our friends or family members will do it for us. I truly feel immense pleasure watching you, Ben, and Cheeki. You guys are such a vibe! Loads of love. XoXo
Aww I am so happy for you Jenn!!! You have been such an inspiration and I can't believe how fast time is passing. When you pulled out that conair curling iron (I still have mine as well!!!), it made me feel so, so nostalgic. Thank you for always being so open in sharing your life, you have helped me in so many ways - from fashion to beauty to relationships to mental health to LIFE. It truly feels like I am growing (haha) with you. Congratulations once again!!!! 😍❤️😍❤️
Your community came through! You have so much love and support around you. Beautiful shower :) and great that you took charge of it yourself!
Swing someone who so clearly works on her mental health and truly puts in the work to keep a positive or productive mind set is so inspiring. Your so strong and confident in yourself that I hoped in my mental health journey I spearhead with the enthusiasm you do. I use to be scared of having a kid one day but she is the definition of BABY IF YOU WANT IT DO IT🤍👸🏽
I just love how authentic you are 🤍
Everything was absolutely stunning, you looked gorgeous too Jenn!❤✨
I'm so happy for you!!! stay healthy and be happy💖💖💖
As soon as you posted your baby shower's pictures on insta I have been waiting for this video.And it was absolutely worth it😄🥰
You are so inspiring to me Jen, thank you for sharing so much with us! Love from Australia c
So beautiful. Every stage of your life that you've shared with us has been so raw and special. I've been inspired and encouraged by you for YEARS (I'm too scared to do the math, LOL). This makes me hopeful for a fun family-making future.
Thank you, Lanie! x
The baby’s so lucky to have all these caring, loving people in his/her life before they’re being born! ❤️
Jenn how are you so perfect😫 cant wait to see your baby btw. You and Ben are going to be the best parents❤
omg this is so beautifullll, idk why but everything feels so beautifulll, the relationship between them all are so healthyy oh gosh 💓 love it.
What a sweet video. Congratulations Jenn.
It was so nice to see your friends come early just to help out. Love seeing good people being friends with other good people. 💜
So happy for you and this next chapter in your life
I loved the makeup part where you showed the makeup product on the video. also weylie coming was awesome! this prego reflections is really helping me because I plan to soon!
Thank you for introducing monica vinader!!!! Just wanna let you know I am obsessed with your videos lmaaaaaaooooo such a great personality ✨❤️
Everything is soooo gorgeous!!! You are such a lovely mom to be.
i love the conair you curl! i’ve had mine for a few years and it’s still working great
You’re going to be an amazing Mom 🥺🥰 congratulations!
Congrats again Jenn !! Loved that you went the non traditional route and did what worked best for you for your baby shower … I had a great friend who volunteered to plan which I was extremely grateful for (as I just wasn’t super in the mood of planning; I had no clue what went into a baby shower such as the games lol) but she also worked with what I wanted and really my goal was that everyone came, ate, and had fun. ❤️
Jenn, you are absolutely GLOWING ✨ also your baby shower theme is just so you and Ben, I can't get over how good it looks 🍃☀️
Why thank you, Lia! n_n x