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(3/3) Groom's Family Change Wedding Plans Last Minute
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- čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
- Uh oh….😳😳😳
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Part 1: • (1/3) Groom's Family C...
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Part 3: • (3/3) Groom's Family C...
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This would be grounds for ending the whole relationship for me. I will not tolerate my fiancee bending to the will of their wish-disreguarding child endangering gaslighting family members over plans agreed upon months ago that prioritized safety.
I’d have told him to have fun with his family because I wouldn’t be there. If he can’t stand up his mom now then he will always put her first after the wedding. She’ll throw a fit because she doesn’t like the baby’s name and demands it be something she likes. She doesn’t want them to go on a private honeymoon so the entire family has to come and the couple has to pay for it. Can’t go see the bride’s mom on Mother’s Day because she has the entire day planned and she refuses to share. I can see it now. I’ve seen it happen. My sister’s in-laws showed up on their honeymoon.
Noooooo😳
To the bride. RUN FAST, RUN FAR, RUN NOW! If he bends to her wants that easily, your life is going to be hell. He will put mommy ahead of you every time.
The answer is No. This is My and Your wedding not your families wedding. If they can not deal with how we agreed to do things then they can be absent. I am the bride and that is final.
Yeah, if he caves in now, he will never back her up in the future & she should tell him he has to choose between her & his mom. When you marry, your partner comes first. The son should have told his mom, if that's how she felt, then she need not come to the wedding & will no longer be part of their lives. This is their wedding, not hers...they discussed this months ago & the fact she doesn't agree now is irrelevant. Any family member who goes along with you will no longer be a part of our lives as well. He needs to tell her the bride-to-be is going to be his wife & she comes first in his life, followed by any kids they may have. End of discussion.
Absolfuckinglutley!!!!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
I think the best response of groom to mom is: "I choose option 4." With your attitude you are disinvited.
Yeah I think we call the wedding off! BYE!
You know, my grandma apparently joked that a mother of the groom's job on the wedding day was to "wear beige and not say anything" While that's extreme (she had pretty caustic sense of humor, ok? ) it's still better than this!
She is correct. Although beige is not necessary, but brides mother gets first pick then you “coordinate”. In my case bride thought my dress too formal. We went shopping together and she picked my dress. 😊 My goal is to the favorite MIL.
@@lindab.716 Right, you want to match the aesthetic.
Well, if this wedding even takes place, it won't survive unless he grows a spine. Also, this shows why every thing should be recorded or in writing. It might work if they elope without any notice or family.
Yeah, if my fiance caved, I'd be calling it off. Scenes of future chaos.
Please do a part 4: Jade’s reaction!
No way woukd I marry the guy. He cant control mommy. And that won't play thru my marriage
My MIL and her side of the family did not come to the ceremony or the reception. We said "Ok." and had it all without them. I spent years getting revenge over this.
anyone else talking about how it went from cassidy to nora to jade??
😂
Candle relationship. All the warning bells are ringing
This is a power play by the mom. She’s trying to establish that her rules go. If I was the bride, I’d run. This is just the beginning. More will come.
Here's an unpopular opinion: that plan kinda sucked. IMO, if the bride wants to have a child-free wedding, that's totally fine. However, it's a little bit of a pain for the parents to have to get the children all dressed up (which most children hate), keep them still and quiet during the ceremony, heard them during pictures, get the children to the place where the babysitter is and then get back before the reception starts. Tell me the bride doesn't know anything about children without telling me the bride doesn't know anything about children. The other issue with the plan is what you're going to do about dinner for the kids. Are the parents going to be expected to run out and get the kids a Happy Meal before dropping them off, or will there be something at the play area? The only way that groom's mother and sister are TA is by agreeing to this in the first place.
A much better arrangement would be for the kids to also be at the reception but leave after the cake is cut. That's the way a lot of people handle it, and TBH, most parents (as well as most of the older relatives) are going to be so wiped out that they're going to want to go home after cake anyway. So, assuming that the reception starts at 6 or 7, the kids and their parents will probably leave about 8ish (9 at the very latest), and that would still give the other adults plenty of time to do adult stuff.
As for the issues with the venue, both problems can be solved. First of all, the open bar and smoke room can just be opened up after the children leave. However, I've been to a few gatherings where adult beverages were served, and there were also children at them. You just have the adult stuff in a separate area from where the rest of the food and beverages. The only way this works is if the venue itself has a kid area (or if the place you have in mind is an easy WALK to and from the venue as getting kids in and out of a vehicle is a huge pain in the neck, especially if they are still young enough to need to be buckled in by the parent.) Anyway, there are a bunch of really nice venues that have kid areas, and if she wants kids at her weeding, she needs to pick a kid-friendly venue for the reception.
So, to sum it all up, the bride needs to decide whether she wants a child-free wedding or not, and the wedding and the reception need to be a both-or-neither thing.
If you saw the previous videos, it’s a venue that is not child friendly. Open bar, smoking area, pond, etc. so the couple decided no children at the reception and the family agreed. Then the MIL and SIL decided they wanted the kids at the reception, to which the couple said no. Then they pull this. No way. That’s a deal breaker. If the groom can’t stand up to his mother now, what’s next?
@@benu_bird Okay, then. Like I said, the only way that MIL and SIL are behaving badly is by going along with it at first and then changing their minds later. If they had told the bride from the beginning that she if she wanted kids at the ceremony, they also needed to be invited to the reception, it would be completely understandable.
If they have their hearts set on that particular venue, then they need to have a child-free wedding. It is generally considered rude to invite a guest to the ceremony and not the reception, and IMO, children should not be the exception.
Or maybe the plan would work if
1. There were arrangements for someone else to transport the kids from the ceremony to where they're going so that the parents can go straight to the reception
2. Have a really, really long cocktail "hour" to give the parents PLENTY of time to drop the kids off and get to the reception. A good rule of thumb might be to take how long Google Maps says the total trip is, double it, and add 30 minutes to give parents time to load the kids up in the car (trust me, just this part can take 10-20 minutes), drop the kids off, and then get to the reception, getting the kids changed into play clothes somewhere in the process. Oh, and did I mention that if the babysitter is a hired professional, they're probably going to want the parents to fill out a form and sign some kind of waiver saying that the parents will not sue the babysitter or the establishment if the kid gets injured or something?
Oh, and I'm also assuming that the bride arranged for some sort of dinner for the kids (even if it's just pizza), and that the parents aren't also going to have to run through a McDonald's or something.
But even the really long cocktail time is not something I would recommend because the other guests would get really bored.
Anyway, if I were the SIL, I would probably just make arrangements for my kids to be left at home/the hotel room for the entire evening, but that's just me...
Well that was highly unsatisfying. You need to work on your endings, dear. I wanna see the fam show up with kids, be turned away, try and sneak in, and be escorted away with MIL and SIL screaming until one of the kids falls in the koi pond.
And the wet child gets handed to grandma and then throws up all the water he swallowed, which ruins her dress. At which point this would be my reaction! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He needs to grow a pair - or get them back from mommy. That would be a hard pass. Tell him to have fun at the reception without her and he can pay for it too!
If he caves inbefore the wedding, he is going to cave in to his mommy after the wedding.
I like the idea of an elopement. Bridal couple should go on a fabulous honeymoon and have a great party for friends and those family members they wish to invite. Of course, MIL will blame the bride for the elopement and hold it against her forever. Maybe cutting ties with the spineless fiance might be a better option.
I would cancel the wedding, take the money and pay for my family to meet the groom and I in Las Vegas at a wedding chapel with an Elvis impersonator. Let his mom orchestrate someone else's wedding.
nope just nope proper answer is you either come and follow the rules or don't come
So is there some kind of exchange program where she can get a husband with a spine
I don’t understand why HIS mother is blaming HER for everything happening at THEIR wedding!
Nope- leave him now.
I would not marry him.
I would tell mom then I guess yall will miss the wedding.
Part 4 please!
Elope