After Years of My Dad Enabling His Entitled Wife's (Stepmom) Toxic Behavior, I Finally Went....
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- čas přidán 9. 01. 2024
- After Years of My Dad Enabling His Entitled Wife's (Stepmom) Toxic Behavior, I Finally Went No Contact When She Attacked My Kid Over a Wedding Dispute.
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I hope OP's dad realizes that he lost his kids for Stepmonster when he's old and alone.
_AND_ his grandkids.
People care more for the person willing to sleep with them over their loved ones
He also sounds like a typical simp that listens to everything that his wife says. There's no way that the terrible wife respects him.
that's what happens when you think with your head not your brain
@@f687sNFM Something tells me that the stepmonster may just divorce the father and leave him alone.
"She might feel like she's excluded from the family" and smacking a kid hard enough to split his lip over something you're not dealing with doesn't help. And the dad going "If she ain't going than neither am I" just tells me he cares more about an abuser than the kids she abused. FU Dad.
The fact that the dad said "But she only hit him once!" Had my blood boiling.
She hit that baby hard enough to split his lip, she shouldn't have hit him at all. If I was OP or Jane, she'd get a matching split lip and then some.
@@degenerateangel6891 hell yes 🙌 both parents are horrible
That's what happens when you do most of your thinking between your legs. What a bad dad.
I may hate babies, and think they are the ugliest creatures in the world, but this ain’t okay
Yeah! I mean like how good of a lay she is? good enough to lose all your kids including the stepson.
Ironic of a stepmom to tell a half-brother he ‘isn’t family’.
Biologically she and her son aren't family
@@beverlyarcher546It's not her wedding though.
I feel like you missed something I might be wrong but you are correct the OP and step mother aren't biologically related the child she beat however is biologically related to the fiance by being her half brother she had to adopt after the parents passed away so the first comment is correct in saying ironic how the step mother is screaming at a child they aren't family when they are more family to the involved party then she will ever be also the step mom isn't the one get married the step son and sister of the child she beat is sorry for the lack of proper grammar and structure typing on my phone and can't be bothered
I swear this story could have been written about my late stepmonster. When that witch die,d I nearly did a tap dance on her grave
My husband's own mother said that about his younger half-brother, too. Husband turned around and said that means his half-sisters (MIL's daughters from her first marriage) aren't family, either. She got pissed and still failed to understand the hypocrisy of what she said.
"I love my Dad." But he doesn't love you, and continues to prove it.
I would say love less than he loves his wife.
@@liordagan9342People like that don't love anybody. Everybody around them serves a purpose. The moment you don't serve their purpose they will lose their minds and try to destroy you. In this case, she's the young "hot" wife and he's a sugar daddy.
@@yamairad1
Could be
Real.
You don't need a toxic parent to love you for you to love them.
"I only hit him once"
That's twice too many times
Infinitely too many times.
Once you start, your not gonna stop
At the very least
Shame on those who let SM do this for years and even told op she’s “over reacting “ if you put hands on my child it’s not me you need to worry about. It’s my wife, she will tear you up putting your hands on our kids
Everyone but op and his sister they were raised by her its hard to break free from that ya know? Luckily he starts the process here
If it was my kid who was hit you better believe I’d go to jail for either assault or murder because no one touches my child and I’d do the same if someone was to hurt my brothers future kids and my family knows this considering I jumped out of a moving car when I learned someone threatened to kill my little brother
Love how he named stepmother, "step monster".
The whole time I subconsciously saw SM as step-monster
@@C.G.Gaster tbh, she was.
IM SO SORRY BUT IT CAUGHT ME OFF GUARD WHEN I FIRST READ IT AND I WAS DYING LAUGHING BRO I HAD TO REVERSE IT BACK BY 6 MINUTES BECAUSE I STOPPED PAYING ATTENTION
@@Potatolover1775 😅. Didn't notice it the first 5 minutes too.
“I hope this is my last update, thank you”
20 *minutes remaining to the video*
😂
😂😂😂
Always love those, lol.
She literally tried to make a baby shower all about her for Instagram and social media post. While yeah some people do that, but with their OWN baby showers. She's not the one pregnant, and she doesn't have rights to change anything without permission.
And the fact that she refuse to acknowledge the fact that op had a boy speaks volume. She really wanted a girl, and just didn't want to accept the fact, it's a boy not a girl she dreamed to have. She is toxic, and I would suggest keeping her away from the son and future children, especially daughters. Heaven knows what she would do and say to the child when op isn't present.
My grandfather did the same thing to me except reversed. He even showed up to the hospital with a blue stuffie and boy clothes.
The woman's a classic narcissist. As in, meets the criteria to be diagnosed with malignant narcissism. I was spawned of such a person and unfortunately share DNA with three others.
I think we've already seen a taste of that
Okay but Nina and Laura are total *badasses*
I know! That whispered “Nice try!” was beyond epic!
Absolutely! Give them a round of applause. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻⭐⭐⭐
I can’t believe I’m saying this, but damn, I have seen the baby shower one before, I thought it was stand-alone, didn’t think it was a whole thing
I'm almost certain that the stepbrother's (4year) girlfriend actually left him because of his horrible mother. He just refused to acknowledge it at that time.
What a pathetic father. He failed both his own children and his grandchildren. If he outlives her he’ll propably come crawling back
Yeah... OP is a better person than I am cause it sounds like even if it's 30 years from now, he may allow his father to come crawling back (as long as he apologizes). I couldn't do it, if my father repeatedly chose someone who abuse his children AND grandchildren over me, well I guess I don't have a dad anymore.
That guy will only realize his mistake when he'll grow old, take off the rose tinted glasses and see that all his children left him, he didn't see his grandchildren grow up and btch has either somehow turned even worse trying to seize control over all the family, has cheated on him, started to abuse him or has just abandonned him bc she didn't need him anymore
She hit a child. Any excuse anyone makes for her need to be banned from anywhere near children
it's funny how some people like OP's father need to lose almost everything precious to them to even have a slight chance of understanding one's fault. Bet SM is gonna project her toxicity on him and the rest of the family members since OP and his sister are gone and he's still gonna stick with her
Maybe I'm just a bad person, but if I were OP, I'd have planted the seeds of distrust with the final phone call with the father. Ya know, "can't wait until it's revealed that she's cheating on you."
Lets be real here, there's extremely high probability that SM is cheating on OP's father.
Thats my thought as well.
I don't think she could cheat on his dad. She's 50, who'd want an annoying abuser who's 50 as a partner.
Even though doing something like that might feel good, it can easily backfire as it gives ammunition for people to use against you. Saying only what is needed feels like eating shit, but often is what yield the best results as having the honest trust of allies is a superpower
@@anybody81662you'd be surprised... Some people think serial killers and p/dos and shit are hot or likeable. I have seen people knowingly date them or simp for them. Even going as far as to defend them. It is disgusting.
@@anybody81662
Don't say ridiculous things for every 50 year old women there are even older men looking for a partner, no young guy will want her but guys her age and older will.
I had a stepmom like this. She, at one point, was my dad's mistress. She never liked me and I didn't like her. When she would get all hoity toity talking about love, honor and respect and all those things, I pointed out that an honorable woman doesn't break up marriages. Of course, it takes two to tango but it was fun watching her face twist up like a quickly aging grape when I called her out on her crap. The abuse started right after the ring went on her finger. First it was emotional, then verbal and sometimes she would slap me on the arm or around my shoulder. One time she went to swing for my face and I ducked away and she ended up hitting the wall. Dad walked in on it. He tried to say that I had started the conflict and I was known for being a drama queen. I was 12 for Christ's sake. When she would sit next to me I would flinch and she put her arm around me and pull away. My dad and my grandparents tried to make it out like I didn't like being touched. Then I would get up and stand away from everyone. They asked me why I was being so difficult. I said “because I feel like she's going to hit me.” You could have heard a pin drop. My dad and my grandparents jumped down my throat while my stepmom sat there looking awkward. They all denied she would ever do that. I yelled back at them: “How the hell would all of you know?” My relationship with my stepmom went from toxic to nuclear after that. It didn't help at all that she still had one daughter who lived at home and she was a total crap starter. She accused me of going in her room. I didn't do that because I respected boundaries but it didn't stop my witch stepsister from stirring the pot. My stepmom got in my face and yelled at me. Then she took a swing at me and this time I couldn't tuck out of the way. She slapped me. I screamed. My dad came running in and he saw me holding me holding my face. My dad went off on his wife. He ranted about how no one was going to treat his kids that way. I decided to butt in and say: "Except for you, right dad?” I went and locked myself in the bathroom. I could hear them screaming at each other. Apparently my stepsister ran out the front door and across the street to the neighbor's house. When I finally came out of the bathroom, it was clear my stepmom had been crying. She had the nerve to say to me and “I hope you're happy.” I said some choice words to her and told her she would never have had to deal with me if she didn't break up my parents and violate the commandant that forbids adultery. She started to take a step towards me and I told her if she laid another hand on me I would call the cops, file a report and have her arrested. She worked for the county and any charges against her would cause her to lose her job. Unsurprisingly, my dad and her split. Apparently it wasn't okay for someone else to abused his kids except for him.
Yeah man you knew who your dad and her were. I wish everyone who was abused growing up, understood that they are doing their children a massive disservice by keeping them around the people who abused them.
Yeah, my dad and grandmother are the only imidiate family members except siblings who didnt abuse us and even themselves where abused. I can understand that it cant be easy to be in that situation, but they where adults and we where children and thats why I dont have a great relationships with them. We dont argue or anything but we are very low contact for my own sanity, as its hard not to have negative emotions about them sometimes.
The way Step Monster was, I wouldn't be shocked if the first girlfriend the stepbrother had was harrassed by the filth until she [the girlfriend] had to end the relationship in order to escape the insanity.
Edited to add after thinking about it: the filth, AKA the Step Monster was so desperate to be accepted by the paternal family that she shot herself in the foot several times by inserting herself into anything and everything and made everyone hate her that much more. It must have gotten under skin to see that Luke and Jane were cared for while she [the filth] was seen for the trash she really was
"But SM's pictures looked like Barbie had puked all over Hello Kitty's birthday party" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I loved that “ nice try” 🤣
OP didn't want to know the gender until birth, and that's what I did as well. I loved the fact that it drove people crazy that we didn't know (and wouldn't tell them if we did)!
oh, gosh, when he was relating the baby shower, I was scared she'd somehow gotten to a nurse or tech and gotten the gender. Even knowing they had a boy.
LOL I have that same personality.
tbh i never understood why it's anybody's business. you can ask, and if they don't want to tell you, accept that. also, i understand having a preference, but to be disappointed and to show it is awful. i wouldn't want any baby around that person.
Because of her actions he has lost all three of his children his two biological and his stepchild and I can almost guarantee he's going around thinking they're all three exaggerating and ungrateful but what they need to understand is that if all three of your children are forced to cut contact with you you were not a good person you are not a good parent you do not deserve to have them in your life you deserve all the s*** that comes flying at you if that is the case ruined three innocent lives because she's f****** unhinged and then physically assaulted a f****** toddler and she still got off in my opinion so lightly a restraining order which she can hide she doesn't have to tell people that that's active she doesn't have to tell them why it happened she can even make up reasons as to why it happened definitely deserves worse than what she's gotten and she definitely doesn't see that it's her own fault it's happened even our own son wants nothing to do with her
OP seems like a really good man who truly cares about the safety and wellbeing of his family. I hope they’re doing well.
I dont think i would ever forgive my dad, specially not after the stepbrother also cutting contacts with the step mother. If it isnt obvious for the father that the step mother is the problem then there is no point even thinking about him ever again.
I'm not sure which is my favorite part. Uno Reversing her Baby Shower Bull Shit, or her own biological son cleaning his hands of her after getting the true story.
Shame on the commenters who asked for that video/proof. Wtf is wrong with people
I think it's possible they meant to post on something like Facebook so that OP's family could see the evidence, not necessarily on Reddit.
OP's dad is the textbook definition of a simp. All that energy for someone who assaulted a minor and the minor didn't even do anything that deserved an assault.
Let’s make it worse: she assaulted a toddler for being happy he was going to be part of his sisters wedding
People say they hope the dad wakes up. The dad gets to sleep with the stepmonster so not having his kids or grandkids is the least of his worries.
Age catches up with all of us. Sex is good and all, but it's not the end all be all forever.
hold the fuck up, she beat up a kid and people were STILL on her side?
Yeah. How screwed up is that? Honey, she would have been sporting a split lip AND on the freaking floor!😮😮
OP shouldn't feel too sorry for his father, he made his choice. I'd disown my own father if he made that same choice.
I have heard this before (stayed in case of more updates) and it is a sad tale.
Though I will take away the "it was like Barbie puked all over Hello Kitty's party"
Yeah, I put that in a bag for later use as well 🤣
That killed me, my dogs are still scowling at me, and my soul is circling the ceiling, trying to ping me with ghost Cheetos.
She splitt the lip of a 3 year old boy.
grrrrrrrrrrrrrr...
To think a grown woman would hit a child, splitting his li p then trying to excuse herself as only hitting him once is despicable. She sounds like she's got some kind of undiagnosed condition. She needs to be kept away from kids well done on your swift actions on protecting that poor boy.
Anyone attacking a kid over anything don’t deserve love or anything but no mercy and that father is not a good grandparent or dad
Hitting a freaking child is so out of line >:(
I am so glad OP and Jane went NC with stepmonster and Enabler Dad.
I would be in jail so fast if my stepmom hurt my child.
I would be smiling in my mugshot too. 😁
Luke is not part of the family? SM is not part of the family! She is just your dads wife! Not a blood relation! This is so upsetting, even listening to you has reduced me to tears, i am soon to become A SM. I will be lucky to get a bonus daughter age 16, my son is an adult and 32 years old. Your dad will come around, but your MIL has gotten everything she deserves and more! Dont feel bad things eventually work out. This to shall pass!
Just think of it this way, the wedding will be cheaper if half your family wont come..tbh you have to be better off without them surely
Hope OP and Wife have a long and happy life together
Good Job on pressing charges. She should be in jail and your dad can take a flying leap.
i was eating a cookie when he said you get an invisible cookie like HAHA GOT A REAL ONE 😋
😂
The father reaped all this just for a glory hole.
May OP and his be blessed.
Some of OP's phrasing have literally left me gasping and rewinding to review what my laughter had drowned out. When Barbie puked all over Kitty's party, I startled my dogs. OP for the win!
Not family? He’s literally the brides little brother…
Jane sounds awesome.
I heard that story before, it's nice to have some updates
Man, do you realize how killer the stepmonster must have been in bed for the dad to defend her to that level? Like she must have had fireworks shooting out of there or something
Yeah crazy how a man that says, "you should forgive me and her because we're family" never stands up for his kids against her
It has to be the best way to be called a dumbass, the way Jane called OP a dumbass for worrying that she would blame him. :D
yeah it was really funny
If I had been the one to organize a baby shower and the SM did that with the boxes of decorations. I'd take hers and replace them with my own. The look on her face when she opened them would be priceless.
Barbie puked over Hello Kitty's birthday party had me...
The stepmother is appalling. She assualted a child, and OP is right to ban her from his house and the wedding.
If at any point OP, or even someone in their situation, reads this: The *second* your kid is old enough that you can let other people take care of them (Schools, babysitters, Daycares, Etc.), make absolutely sure that they understand that there will *never* be a reason that either parent will be allowed to pick up your kid. SM has shown she's unhinged, and I wouldn't put it past a narcissist to try and steal something they've been told they can't have.
"i dont plan on updating before the wedding unless something big happens"
"update: something huge happened"
every time...
Sorry ladies about this next bit but. Wow she must have one hell of a magic box for the dad to stay with that level of crasy.
This was one of the best written stories I've seen for awhile. Good job.
Absolutely love the descriptor of "Most instagrammable ever"
So maybe I misheard this but OP’s dad cheated on his gf to be with this awful woman? Well I can see why OP’s mom divorced him in the first place. This SM sounds like a sociopath. Who the hell tries to be the matriarch to two kids whose actual mother is alive & around? That’s stepford wife territory right there.
"I'm not worried about them trying to show up at the wedding"
*checks time left on video* 22 minutes
"DO IT FOR DAN!" Like always :D
Don't invite them to the wedding! Keep your family away from them. NC!!
Imagine taking your toxic wife side over your children, he'll regret it when she runs off with some dude she met while scoping out better partners.
They don't want to come.they don't need to,stand ur ground.
Everyone has move on. All is left is if dad is willing to clear his eyes for once
And in the legal eye (by what i know) Luke is OP's step child so he is family and also by blood on OP's wife side of the family
It took me a long time to realize watching these videos that bil means brother in law and sil means sister in law
i hope this is my last update. *20 minutes left in the video*
I only got one name to call OP's dad,
SIMP👎👎
Dad 1000% hates his grandkid. Who tf doesnt divorce over that?!
I like OPs wife. She seems like good people.
And has a great family!
Why didn't you call the damn police in the first part.
Always be courteous when it’s quiet.
Stepmother basically called OP's fiance a ho. That Luke is not OP's. If I could talk to OP. and the fiance. I would have them do a DNA test on both OP and Luke. Then show the results to SM and his dad. I would say that the sm does not realize how much OP's dad's side has accepted her. She is unable to see that fact. Thus her jealousy over Jane and Luke is very much unfounded.
She is also instinctively hates OP and his sibs due to the fact they give evidence that his dad had relations with their mom. And they do not have any of sm's DNA in them.
For all you folks, this is why many step parents have troubles accepting their stepchildren. And why they let their offspring if any to terrorize the offspring they are steps to. Seen this type of action before with an ex-bf of mine.
It is why I became leery of ever becoming a stepmom myself. And I had a chance a few decades ago.
Why is always the parents or siblings?
yes
@@LEG4CYGD_GNT well maybe not always but it's still feels like it
@@user-cq7zd9zu4t yes
I'm so happy that stepbrother left as well. SM and "Dad" don't have any of their kids or grandkids, and I love that.
Hours upon hours of minecraft parkour footage that never loops.... That's the wild part
Ik it’s not that funny but I laughed my butt of when he stepmosters
Alcoholic Aunt brought out on a wheelchair
Crazy, I’ve only ever heard the baby shower update as a story on its own, I didn’t know how insane SM was.
The real question is what does sm stand for
@@Step-zn9jr step mom
I know someone EXACTLY like his stepmother
When your kids go NC ans you still don't get it
Hey Telltale would you be able to post a link to the story or author in the description of these videos so I can read the comments and stuff?
u/DrOogieBoogie42
It's usually pretty easy to find these stories. I just googled "stepmom hit my son reddit" and the first search was one of the updates
had to relisten to the part where laura whispered "nice try" bc THE AMOUNT OF TRIUMPH I FELT
Good on OP,always press charges
I am glad that you realized quite early on that you needed that footage and the nanny cam as well and I'm glad you were smart enough to get seen by the police that she is abusive because this may come in handy in future times when she abuses somebody else's kid and trust me you are not alone. I wish you and your fiance who is hopefully by now your wife a long and happy life.
So this is what violence is for. I get it now!
I remember when I was a kid my grandma pulled my hair because she thought I insulted her child and her and my oldest uncle had a huge talk telling her that if she ever laid a hand on me she will get in huge trouble with not only the family but with the police. And since then she has been a kind grandma and im glad
I´d only let the father in if he ditches the stepmonster.
Im glad she called op a dumbass for believing it was his fault hopefully she laughed and kissed him when calling him that
This one story takes THIRTY MINUTES TO READ
I love that you say step monster instead of step mother
Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
Watermelon.
Wisest words I've read all year.
😂@@LEG4CYGD_GNT
This cured my sinus infection due to its wisdom
Pure joy
I'm wanted in Atlantis for arson
Step monster💀
I was just watching a video that was sad then when I clicked this video I said “anyways time to listen to some drama”
Wow I hope ops dad likes the fact that he's now has no contact with his child or his grandchild because of a psychopath who attacks a child
Ayo! The aunt getting shit faced is what makes this 100% believe, bro! Because only a wine aunt will 100% do that at a wedding.
Sooo how is your stepsons no family but you stepmother is? That has zero logic
Now people leaving the dad's side one by one because of his beloved wife.
He'd die alone if stepmonster chose to leave him too lol
My dad’s dad is similar to op’s. His current wife is a nightmare and my dad was the only one of his children to still be talking with him. The wife finally won by getting my dad banned from their home and grandpa chose his wife over his son.