I am 66. I am trying so hard to understand non-binary. This was some progress. I did not totally fit the mold and still am not sure about my own self. You kids are cool!
Hi, baby enby here! I just wanted to say thank you for existing. It's not often that older folk are so open to us and nice. Thank you. (I'm sorry I am not good with words but I am glad you exist and are here)
It’s great that your here to learn :) You remind me of my grandma...I recently came out to her. She was very open and it trying to learn. So thank you❤️
@@gaybot8375 You could just try telling her if that’s an option. Kids are pretty adaptive to things like that typically. My lil bro actually loves to change my nicknames all the time and immediately solely call me the new name he’s chosen (which feels great because I’m a trans boy in the closet so my birth name is used by pretty much everyone and it sucks pine sap)
To all the female to nb, congrats on graduating from the cis-terhood. (I am honestly so proud of that) Edit: omg I have never gotten this many likes before! Thank you guys so much! Remember, no matter what, you are loved and appreciated for who you are. You don’t need to try to be anything. Just be yourself and people will love and admire you for it. Have a miraculous day!
I have experienced 'passing as non-binary' I am actually a girl, but I don't pass. I look and sound like a boy, but I wear the military outfit designed for females and it confuses ppl so much that they just call me they/them pronouns.
@@des-astre yeah accept for the fact that I am a girl, so for me it just further cements the fact that I don't pass as a cis girl and that if it weren't for the uniform, they'd be calling me he/him
@@des-astre Oh no, it's okay! I understand that we're working towards different things, and I am aware that all of us dream of being gendered correctly. I am totally aware that the way I am gendered by others would probably be a dream to most nonbinary individuals, it's just not my thing specifically. I hope you smooth sailing to whatever gender you feel comfortable with...
Well, I do look like a boy too (due to having very short hair with the left side longer), but rn I'm having an identity crisis. Idk if I'm demigirl, non-binary or bigender. Anyway, my name is Kuro and you can use she/her or they/them pronouns on me.
TIPS FOR BINDERS!!!! You always hear the "if it hurts take it off!" which is a YES, BUTTTTT if it is your first time (ONLY YOUR FIRST TIME) it is natural for it to ache a bit more than usual, take it slow in intervals (i was able to handle abt an hour at a time for the first week or so) :))) ily all!!!
Another tip for taking off binders!! Fold it up over your chest, and reach up and behind you, tugging on the shoulder blade area and shimmy that bad boy over your head. It's harf to explain but that's the easiest way for me to get it off without dislocating my shoulders like the other version does. Stay safe y'all!
I would also recommend that you get the right size binder 😅 I got one a little too small. Definitely don’t recommend as it puts pressure on areas it shouldn’t.
0:31 This is the exact excuse my parents use for not using my pronouns, they still don't use them. Idk how my pronouns are "uncomfortable" but I hope they realize that my pronouns and neo pronouns make sense and shouldn't be deemed "uncomfortable".
@@acekenny9339 Yeah but the thing is, they just act like I'm dumb. They have been saying the same thing over and over since April, and they just keep going on and using she/her pronouns on me. If I correct them it's "the wrong time". Once I was in the car and my dad kept saying I'm still a girl even though he knows I'm non-binary, almost hit me saying how my pronouns don't make sense, and now mocks me over my identity. So idk what to say about the whole " I'm getting used to it!" thing because honestly, it's pretty easy to get used to. 😅
@@handcrusher2658 Yea that is not nice i do not know much about this subject but aren’t there several non-binary pronouns? So have you asked them to try different ones that you are comfortable with? Oh and a maybe stupid question if someone uses they/them pronouns should one say “they are walking” or “they is walking”.
66 year old grandma type here. Again. I am getting such sweet love notes from so many of you for the first remark I made on this video. I love you all. What is hurting my heart is that I can sense the misunderstanding, rejection and even abandonment for some of you in your replies to me. I just don't know what is wrong with people. You must all be old souls. We have the toughest journeys but also when life is good, it is really good. A lot of it has to do with American culture and I think it is deteriorating beyond repair. There are many places where people are not this hateful and judgmental. But there are also places where the consequences for being different are far more horrific. I hope you understand that you are OK. You deserve to live the life that makes you happy. You don't have to be loyal to abusers. Get out there and explore the world, stick together and make this planet a better place. You are making my existence better! Thanks for all the sweet notes. You don't have to be a genius to be intelligent. Having an open heart, accepting others as they are, respecting others that are different than you, and keeping your mind open is absolutely intelligence. Hugs.
Fern, as a young non binary teen, thank you for your messages. It honestly makes me so happy to know that some older people try their best to understand others in the trans and enby spectrum. I'm still anxious about coming out as enby to my family but I'm so glad that even some older people will accept me. Thank you so much Fern for your kindness. Best of luck and have a great day xx
This comment furthers my feeling justified in not giving my dad the excuse of age for being obviously uncomfortable with the world becoming more diverse.
One time, I heard someone chose Lucifer of Satan as their chosen name, just to annoy the transphobes, homophobes, other -phobes of the lgbtq community.
i know probably no one will ever see this nor care but i just realized this is me. i always felt that im neither a boy nor a girl and that im just me. this makes me so happy, confused and scared. just... yeah. (sorry needed to tell it somewhere)
hey guys! remember, if your non-binary, or anything else that has something to do with not being male or female, you dont have to go by they/them! i myself am non-binary, and i use it/its pronouns! everyone is valid, you use the pronouns you want to use, and no matter who, what, or where you are, your still so valid!! ♥️♥️
When they acted like their parents it just.... Oh G O D. MY MOM AND DAD AT THE EXACT SAME. My mom is constantly invading my privacy and doesn't listen to my therapist because "tHEy ArEN't P A R E N T S!" They almost never use my pronouns and told me that going into the boys bathroom is "INaPplROpRIaTe" and "FOrciNg YOuR BeLiEFs ONtO OThERs"
im non-binary and i use they/them pronouns but i dress in what society would say is 'girly' but in my household clothes have no gender same with colors and overall looks. the other day i was hanging out with this 6 yo and her brother who is now 9 and she took off her ring so we could jump on there trampoline and the boy put the ring on and said "wow i look good in this" and the girl said "no you can't wear that! boys can't wear rings!" and little dude came back with "tell that to our dad who has his ears pierced" then i explained to her that there isn't such thing as boy and girl things
That's perfectly fine! Your gender and your gender expression can be the same, different, or anything in between! If you do bind, however, just remember to be safe and take breaks if you need it :)
To be honest I’m shit at pronouns so my solution is to assume everyone’s just a bunch of bees operating a human and this has worked so well. just thought I’d share that because I don’t wanna misgender people even if it’s an accident
as an afab feminine presenting enby, it really annoys me when people say I can't be non binary because I "don't look like one" NON BINARY PEOPLE DON'T OWE YOU ANDROGYNY OKAY 🤚😃
If you can't wear binders for whatever reason then i have some tips Sports bra's they are much more comfortable and they do make you a bit flat not as much as a binder would and do not work if you have big boobs Loose shirts they arent as effective as binders or sports bras but if you dont have big boobs you should be fine Layered clothing so this would be an alternative to loose clothing and a bit more effective do not wear this in the summer if you live in a hot place like arizona for your own safety if you have big boobs this may be the best one for you
You are a female. Unless you’re actually trans, as in female to male, you’re a female. Being non-binary is the funniest crap I’ve ever heard and you’re a joke for identifying as one
I'mma tell y'all about my fellow NB friend Avery When we first met I got a crush. But it sucked because I didn't know what I was crushing on. Their hair was short and white-blonde, they always wore overalls and the colors were like denim and yellow. Their voice was pretty neutral, and they were flatchested(7th grade, hadn't gone through puberty) and I had to listen for a solid MONTH for someone to say he or she. Mind you, I had no idea what NB was. They ended up rejecting me when I asked them out (Just got out of a relationship, needed time), but we still good close friends now. When I told them that story, their mind was blown. They'd achieved true androgyny before they even knew they were NB. And I think that's beautiful.
"I didn't know what I was crushing on" I relate to that so hard, and used to strive for that, which I have since acknowledged is an unrealistic goal, due to the excessive amount of testosterone that has been flooding my veins at increasing levels for 22 years.
I have a plan to send my mom pictures of chest binders and... Stuffs... To hint that I prefer they/them pronouns. She's very supportive and not at all homophobic or transphobic but I just wanna have a little fun.
I told my mom about binders and that they can flatten your chest if you don't wanna do surgery and she just said "you want one, don't you?" And I just responded yes and she said "I can't get you one right now since they're a bit pricey but maybe soon." **Happy dance intensifies**
I don'r know if my parents are homophobic or transhobic. When someone on the TV is talking about trans or gay people they change the channel or ignore it. The last time i talked to my mom about trans people she said that it was a bad thing, but we were watching a movie and a character said that she was lesbian and she didn't care
Ah, I really needed this! I've only been out as non binary for a bit and today I had my first not so great interaction... Someone called me broken, said that there's only two genders and asked me what's in my pants. I starting to feel bad for being non binary.
I came out to my mom as non-binary and she said “that’s confusing, explain more?” After I actually I explained she said “oh that’s a cool way to be” and I almost started to crying happy tears 😭
@Sister Bear well, its when a nonbinary person is like feminine or something, or just attracted to females. like megan said, its actually called trixic, but i identify myself as a nonbinary lesbian because im somewhat feminine.
My biggest achievement as a non-binary is that i can make everyone question my gender. I go by he/him mainly but i don't mind she/her or they/them pronouns either. And y'all i attract people like a magnet, I'm living for this shit. I'M AN UNSTOPPABLE SUCCUBI.
@@nothanks673 yeah i most definitely agree trust me, so that's why i like to put feminine and masculine in "" to emphasize that the fact that clothes are labeled that is stupid and made up by society
Ugh it is SO hard to explain being NB to my friends because when they think of trans they think of boy ---> girl Or girl ---> boy And they cant get girl ---> non binary (Which is me) And my friend thinks im over exaggerating because I asked her to respect my pronouns and not constantly deadname me on purpose even though it makes me uncomfy
It's a bit of a jerk move but you could use the opposite pronouns for that friend (who doesn't understand why the wrong pronouns make you uncomfortable) and they'll pretty quickly correct you, and you can then point out that that's what they've been doing to you. It might help them understand why respecting pronouns are important. And for the others not understanding things you could find some resources online that may better explain these things to them, it might help :)
I made a bracelet that I wear that says “they / them” so my friends don’t forget but since I can’t find the bead I need to make one that has my name I have a feeling they are still gonna say the wrong name- [the friend that messes up my name doesn’t purposely do it, I can tell because he normally uses it correctly but forgets and calls me the wrong name and my friend always points it out and whispers to me “he just called you *my dead name* “ and all I say is “I know it’s fine he’ll figure it out”]
As a Christian I just want to say, Jesus does love you, so do I, I want you guys/all to feel safe and happy in your body(and life) non-binary=a person who's just different- lgbtq+ as a whole = people who deserve safety and love just as much as anyone else.
@@scoootaloot6391 Gender-Fluid people are actually just vapor that shape into a human body whenever they so feel like it, so in conclusion, your just a homophobe so please go away
Warning: I basically tell my whole life story and it’s pretty boring :) I’m AFAB, and legit everyone calls me a girl and uses she/her pronouns when really i’m in the closet hiding the fact that i’m non-binary, i only have 5 friends and only trust 2 of them so those two know that i want to be identified as non-binary and respect my decision, they also use my preferred pronouns even when around others but people always correct them saying “*she/her” which is pretty annoying. I’ve always hid my chest which to my mum isn’t a big deal because the first bras she got me were sports bras and just thought that i felt more comfortable when i wear them instead (which i do but that’s all my mum knows, she doesn’t know my whole non-binary thing) the reason i haven’t came out is because even though i’ve felt like this for 2 years, i’m just not ready to tell them because of how things are in my family (everyone is supportive when it comes to sexuality but from what i know, my family don’t know any non-binary’s/genderfluid/genderqueer/transgender/etc personally)
@@urban_gse_ I don’t really have any advice on coming out as I haven’t myself but what I can say is that even though you don’t know who I am, i support your decisions
Thanks Mr. Demon for teaching me LGBTQ+ meanings. I want to learn what the sexualities/genders mean to help support people with those sexualities/genders.
I love that you use your platform to spread awareness and amplify people’s voices! (and not just talking about this one video lol) Could you possibly do a nonbinary transfem compilation if you haven’t already? I feel like they are definitely underrepresented
My friend publicly came out as non-binary and I said I knew. They asked “How on earth did you figure it out?!” Their name is Cactus. And they wonder how I knew😭
This is the first video abt nonbinary I watched since I came out and because I'm so fed up with the constant misgendering at work. Thank you so much for spreading all of this positivity and care and just amazing people 🥺 This really warmed my heart and I have tiny happy tears in my eyes.
I needed this, my mum just told me that when your non binary it is un-necessary to use they/them pronouns and how they make sentences hard to read. Now I wouldn't really care that much, if it wasn't that I'm a closeted enby with multiple enby friends
Okay funny story: I was watching a video giving advice and tips for playing a non binary character in a video game. I noticed at one point the person got their pronouns wrong, so I pointed that out in the comments. Keep in mind that this is still going on. Someone replied with something along the lines of “Dude, who cares?” I proceeded to tell them that it made some people more comfortable, and I told them that if it’s an accident that they messed up the pronouns, it’s alright, as long as they fix their mistake and try to get it right. They gave me a lecture about how it’s “Harder for people to use grammatically” and they proceeded to go on about how they were fine with people being open and supported when it comes to sexualities, but they thought it was hard for people to change their perspective of someone and use they/them pronouns. I told them that “It just makes some people more comfortable” Then pointed out the fact that they seemed to be using They/Them pronouns for the person they referred to, so everyone basically, and seemed to have no problem with doing so. They have yet to reply to the message, but I wanna see their reaction so bad.
I felt so called out with the three dogs in a Trenchcoat. Yes I am 707 Fireflies that make a hive mind and I’m agender (they/them). Loving it. Just the steady stream of wholesome :)
I'm a cis girl and I've always felt like a girl. But I experience chest dysphoria and I really like presenting androgynous. I don't care whatever pronouns people call me. Does that make me trans or non-binary? I'm confused because people say I'm non-binary even though I like being called a girl and I'm comfortable with she/her pronouns. Please help me out.
While experiencing dysphoria or wanting to dress differently doesn't inherently make someone trans/nonbinary, the two together would put you somewhere on the enby spectrum, maybe demi girl? And please remember that you don't have to use they/them pronouns to be nonbinary, you can use whatever pronouns you see fit.
I'mm not sure if I'm nonbinary or genderfluid yet, but I definitely don't identify as a girl. I don't like she/her pronouns or being called a girl but I like my girl parts and boobs and looking feminine and stuff so I feel you lol If you identify as a girl then you're a girl! You don't have to be girly or like your girl parts to be a girl, you are what you identify as and you are what you feel you are I understand the feeling and I realize that it doesn't matter what you like, wear, etc. It's what you want, what you feel, what you identify as!
Imo, you can dress/present pretty much the way you want regardless of whether or not you want to be identified as any particular label, if someone asks or something then it might be easier to explain if you were comfortable saying "oh well I'm non binary so I like being androgynous" but if you don't identify as such and its just that you feel more comfortable in those clothes then whatever feels best. If it were me, I wouldn't likely label myself non-binary if I still felt completely feminine in identity and perspective, but wearing andro. clothes doesn't make you less of a girl in itself.
Today's been a horrid day for me but the one thing that actually made it liveable was when I finally FINALLY came out as non-binary. I had been questioning for months and I finally decided I don't need a gender. I told my mom and my dad about it and now I'm so proud to be able to say "hello! My name is Finn, I use they/them pronouns and I live in an accepting household"
@@scoootaloot6391 How do they not exist? Can you give me a reason? Why are you on this video, which is literally "NONBINARY TIK TOKS" if you think they don't exist? You wanna call me 'Mr Special' when all you're doing is trying to validate yourself and your wrong opinions on gender.
I don't know why but i fall in love with non-binary people because there so beautiful showing who they are. if i did that i would get kicked out of my house for even showing i was non-binary. because my parent are a little homophobic and i'm 13. but i love they way your not scared to show who you are and i love that. your AMAZING.
i am not ready to tell my parents i'm non-binary, because i don't want to hear my mom talking for like 2 hours, just to tell me she accept me, i am not that pattient, so i guess i have to wait
Thank you for making theses videos! I’m not non-binary myself but I’m try my best to educate myself on more sexualities/sexual identities. You all are loved and have value. I completely support whoever you are, and who you will become. Stay happy! 💞💞
I get asked all the time ‘are you plural because of your pronouns?’ So I loved the three dogs in a trench coat and you will refer to me as such. It was really sweet, and I love this compilation.
Just a reminder neopronouns are only a satire thing and not serious, the only real pronouns are she/he/and they, neopronouns are just satire..so I really hope you don’t expect people to call you them and get upset when they dont
@@kayleemoon._6045 That's not at all true and if you think so please actually read about it from our perspective instead of just watching the first "why neopronouns are stupid" video you see
@@AstralArbourSys they aren’t stupid, they just aren’t meant to be taken seriously, your a human, not a ze, you can be either she/he/or they pick which ever idc just don’t tell me you expect people to call u some shit like ze
Story time:I work at frappe. This guy called me a lady while I was trying to get my friend an americano,and I TOLD HIM that I use Xe/Her. So when my friend left,he looked at me,and spammed “SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE1!1!!”. I was so mad,that I reported in in training later. The guys excuse was ‘Well you looked like a girl’ Dear Mine4diamonds64 Stop it,get some help!
as someone whos hyperlax (my joints and other body parts are way too flexible) i CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH how important it is to take off the binder if you start to hurt. i basically have rubber ribs and they got really squished in the binder once to the point of hurting for weeks after and i had to go to the doctor. so listen to your body. if youre in pain even before 8 hours of wearing a binder, take it off
Happy new year! 🎈🎆🎊
I like your pfp ^w^
You too mate!
@@opalplaystudios4386 Thank you!
Y E S
Happy new year even it was 2 months ago
I find it hilarious when someone calls me "female to male transgender" its like me calling my 19 yr/old sibling "baby to adult human"
BABY TO ADULT HUMAN JKHSGJSKGK
HELL NAHH NDNK
JJAKSJAJSJ
Not the same... at all.
@@Draftspike its just a joke lmao
im nonbinary and i use he/they pronouns, but my mom refers to me as “y’all”
is that ok with you
@@yourlocalcupofconfusion322 yeah, it makes me feel like a god lol
@@yourlocalcupofconfusion322 my names rain 0-0
@@eggfroggowo that's amazing :D
(just so anyone knows my name used to be "child of the rain" so that's why rain commented that ^)
@@althea535 your chosen name or birth name? my middle name (chosen) is rain
To all non-binary pals out there: You are heckin valid and we all love you ❤❤
Thank youuu
Tyyy ;w;
Thank you!
Thank you I need that more than ever now. Thank you!!!!!
Rainbow Vibes Only 🏳️🌈 TYSM! I love u too!
I am 66. I am trying so hard to understand non-binary. This was some progress. I did not totally fit the mold and still am not sure about my own self. You kids are cool!
Hi, baby enby here! I just wanted to say thank you for existing. It's not often that older folk are so open to us and nice. Thank you.
(I'm sorry I am not good with words but I am glad you exist and are here)
You're cooler Fern!
It’s great that your here to learn :)
You remind me of my grandma...I recently came out to her. She was very open and it trying to learn. So thank you❤️
Fern Webb 66?!
WOAH! You must be an awesome grandparent! TYSM for being so accepting!
Eijiro Kirishima I could never come out to my non-immediate family. You have balls of s t e e l
nonbinary means:
N - Numerous
O -
N -
B - Bees
I -
N -
A -
R -
Y -
that's why we use they/them
I love this
As a non binary person I can clarify that I am a bunch of bees lol 🐝
NB means non black...and NB has nothing to do with non binary please call it enby not NB
@@kayleemoon._6045 yeah i only learned that after posting this. ill fix this
@@kayleemoon._6045 uuhh.. Shut up please ?
I died when
‘They/them? What are you, plural or something-“
YEEEEESSSSSS! I AM THREE DOGS IN A TRENCH COAT! AND YOU WILL REFER TO ME AS SUCH! AAAA-
My favourite animal is dog so this speaks to me
*me too I died a year ago from that*
2:57 :)
That's a mood
This killed me XD
"Auncle" I love that so much. Also the one with the mom asking about her child's partner was so sweet.
@@gaybot8375 You could just try telling her if that’s an option. Kids are pretty adaptive to things like that typically. My lil bro actually loves to change my nicknames all the time and immediately solely call me the new name he’s chosen (which feels great because I’m a trans boy in the closet so my birth name is used by pretty much everyone and it sucks pine sap)
Lol just say ankle
@@nuclearpepperonirollsonabike
That’s a body part tho
@@fictional-girl_05 it's a joke lol I'm just kidding
That's the best one I've heard so far damn
To all the female to nb, congrats on graduating from the cis-terhood. (I am honestly so proud of that)
Edit: omg I have never gotten this many likes before! Thank you guys so much! Remember, no matter what, you are loved and appreciated for who you are. You don’t need to try to be anything. Just be yourself and people will love and admire you for it. Have a miraculous day!
Thank you
u w u
t h a n k y o u
W h y t h a n k y o u
I am honoured, you have to be proud
ty 🐠🐠
Me: (finally comfortable with my sexual/romantic identity)
My gender identity: henlo frien
why is this me
Duuuuude this is literally me
FDJGHSGKJHDK SAME
I can only be comfortable with one at a time
That was me.
I would like to have a non binary cottage core parent with a bunch of chickens
I NEED THIS
Hello then I am now you Honorary Parent
Relationship goals
I’ll be that :)
@@tocacherry206 thank you for the offer I will consider
I have experienced 'passing as non-binary' I am actually a girl, but I don't pass. I look and sound like a boy, but I wear the military outfit designed for females and it confuses ppl so much that they just call me they/them pronouns.
Oh, what a dream...
@@des-astre yeah accept for the fact that I am a girl, so for me it just further cements the fact that I don't pass as a cis girl and that if it weren't for the uniform, they'd be calling me he/him
@@clovermanipura1687 Yes, I understand your struggle, sorry.
@@des-astre Oh no, it's okay! I understand that we're working towards different things, and I am aware that all of us dream of being gendered correctly. I am totally aware that the way I am gendered by others would probably be a dream to most nonbinary individuals, it's just not my thing specifically. I hope you smooth sailing to whatever gender you feel comfortable with...
Well, I do look like a boy too (due to having very short hair with the left side longer), but rn I'm having an identity crisis. Idk if I'm demigirl, non-binary or bigender. Anyway, my name is Kuro and you can use she/her or they/them pronouns on me.
I do not want to have the gender conversation with my parents... I'm afraid of coming out. DREADFULLY
You don't have to come out to be valid, stranger, but if you do, make sure you'll be safe first. Have a backup plan if you need it.
Same
Same-
@@darkspector3692 ME TOO
I did something similar as I only came put to my siblings and now I'm waiting for everyone else to figure it out
TIPS FOR BINDERS!!!! You always hear the "if it hurts take it off!" which is a YES, BUTTTTT if it is your first time (ONLY YOUR FIRST TIME) it is natural for it to ache a bit more than usual, take it slow in intervals (i was able to handle abt an hour at a time for the first week or so) :))) ily all!!!
Another tip for taking off binders!!
Fold it up over your chest, and reach up and behind you, tugging on the shoulder blade area and shimmy that bad boy over your head. It's harf to explain but that's the easiest way for me to get it off without dislocating my shoulders like the other version does.
Stay safe y'all!
I would also recommend that you get the right size binder 😅
I got one a little too small. Definitely don’t recommend as it puts pressure on areas it shouldn’t.
"you're not nickelback" is literally my favourite tiktok ever, it lives in my head rent free
0:31
This is the exact excuse my parents use for not using my pronouns, they still don't use them. Idk how my pronouns are "uncomfortable" but I hope they realize that my pronouns and neo pronouns make sense and shouldn't be deemed "uncomfortable".
I think bc you've had she or he pronouns your whole life, but sometimes I forget not to use they/them.
@@acekenny9339 Yeah but the thing is, they just act like I'm dumb. They have been saying the same thing over and over since April, and they just keep going on and using she/her pronouns on me. If I correct them it's "the wrong time". Once I was in the car and my dad kept saying I'm still a girl even though he knows I'm non-binary, almost hit me saying how my pronouns don't make sense, and now mocks me over my identity. So idk what to say about the whole " I'm getting used to it!" thing because honestly, it's pretty easy to get used to. 😅
@@handcrusher2658 that's stupid, yes. But in the first week or so, I understand slipping up. Thats not slipping up tho.
@@acekenny9339 Yeah, it hurts honestly
@@handcrusher2658 Yea that is not nice
i do not know much about this subject but aren’t there several non-binary pronouns? So have you asked them to try different ones that you are comfortable with?
Oh and a maybe stupid question if someone uses they/them pronouns should one say “they are walking” or “they is walking”.
I’m sorry I’m sorry but the “you’re not nickel back” is the funniest thing I’ve heard all day
I read this comment, forgot about it, and when that clip came up, it almost caught me off guard.🤣
66 year old grandma type here. Again. I am getting such sweet love notes from so many of you for the first remark I made on this video. I love you all. What is hurting my heart is that I can sense the misunderstanding, rejection and even abandonment for some of you in your replies to me. I just don't know what is wrong with people. You must all be old souls. We have the toughest journeys but also when life is good, it is really good. A lot of it has to do with American culture and I think it is deteriorating beyond repair. There are many places where people are not this hateful and judgmental. But there are also places where the consequences for being different are far more horrific. I hope you understand that you are OK. You deserve to live the life that makes you happy. You don't have to be loyal to abusers. Get out there and explore the world, stick together and make this planet a better place. You are making my existence better! Thanks for all the sweet notes. You don't have to be a genius to be intelligent. Having an open heart, accepting others as they are, respecting others that are different than you, and keeping your mind open is absolutely intelligence. Hugs.
Fern, as a young non binary teen, thank you for your messages. It honestly makes me so happy to know that some older people try their best to understand others in the trans and enby spectrum. I'm still anxious about coming out as enby to my family but I'm so glad that even some older people will accept me. Thank you so much Fern for your kindness. Best of luck and have a great day xx
This comment furthers my feeling justified in not giving my dad the excuse of age for being obviously uncomfortable with the world becoming more diverse.
Hello,i'm enbie,and I identify as a God
Hello, I'm enby, and I identify as a piece of s--t
One time, I heard someone chose Lucifer of Satan as their chosen name, just to annoy the transphobes, homophobes, other -phobes of the lgbtq community.
My enby partner said they identify as Satan-
@@mushroomlover479 Nice!
I identify as a God that had taken in several million souls,so refer to us as they/them :)
*copies link to immediately send to my enby partner because they are amazing and deserve to know they are valid*
This is sweet but NB means something else so maybe use enby next time?
@@TheBirdGuy923
Okay thank you for letting me know! I'll edit it!
@@mushroomlover479 yup, no problem but I feel bad because your heart isn’t there anymore 😕
@@TheBirdGuy923
Its okay! I know the creator saw my comment. I don't really need a heart on my comment.
You got that right, all good humans are valid!
i know probably no one will ever see this nor care but i just realized this is me. i always felt that im neither a boy nor a girl and that im just me. this makes me so happy, confused and scared. just... yeah.
(sorry needed to tell it somewhere)
that's beautiful and so are you
Me too
I'm so glad you're figuring out who you are, that's wonderful :D
Dude you’re so awesome and valid >:DDD
My pal, I'm proud of you. And I love you in a platonic way. You're valid, you're awesome. And I'll respect whatever pronouns you use.🤩😍
Celebrating New Year with Mr.Demon and my non-binary pals
hi nice to meet you
Ayee
Happy new year
Sup
Brogan AYYYYYYY
Happy new year to u too!
I identify as a girl but I still really want a binder..??
Edit: I’m nonbinary lol
I'm nonbinary and I'm here for you i hope you're able to get one soon
@·Ēłłē· ᗩsђ ah, I forgot I posted this, turns out I’m nonbinary
@·Ēłłē· ᗩsђ thanks, and good luck finding where you’re comfortable! :)
@ᗩxᗴlle that’s great! I’m so happy for you!
hey guys! remember, if your non-binary, or anything else that has something to do with not being male or female, you dont have to go by they/them! i myself am non-binary, and i use it/its pronouns! everyone is valid, you use the pronouns you want to use, and no matter who, what, or where you are, your still so valid!! ♥️♥️
You are heard 💕
wait how
I actually chose ze/zir specifically to avoid the singular and plural ambiguity of they/them.
Someone: “they them? Are you like plural?”
Me: *laughs in DID system*
what’s DID system? Sounds cool.
I need the knowledge to brag to my best friend who loves grammar lol
*Laughs in OSDD system*
When they acted like their parents it just.... Oh G O D. MY MOM AND DAD AT THE EXACT SAME. My mom is constantly invading my privacy and doesn't listen to my therapist because "tHEy ArEN't
P A R E N T S!" They almost never use my pronouns and told me that going into the boys bathroom is "INaPplROpRIaTe" and "FOrciNg YOuR BeLiEFs ONtO OThERs"
Martial
I'm sorry tht is happening to you. I accept u and I love u who u are and ofc, God does too.
I am both your mom and dad now
@@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx888 :)
@Sister Bear eh well 4 more years and I'll be outta here
I’m so sorry that is happening to you. I would always respect you!
Oof. Hope they both learn to be decent human beings.
im non-binary and i use they/them pronouns but i dress in what society would say is 'girly' but in my household clothes have no gender same with colors and overall looks. the other day i was hanging out with this 6 yo and her brother who is now 9 and she took off her ring so we could jump on there trampoline and the boy put the ring on and said "wow i look good in this" and the girl said "no you can't wear that! boys can't wear rings!" and little dude came back with "tell that to our dad who has his ears pierced" then i explained to her that there isn't such thing as boy and girl things
You’re not non-binary. No one is. You’re a girl or boy and it’s sad that people are still parading around as jokes
@@scoootaloot6391 Why did you click on this video then
@@scoootaloot6391 o its u the fucking homophobe
@Franco Cavalli No one saying that their not their birth sex, they just have a different gender from their sex, dumbass
@@scoootaloot6391 mhm. im not non binary anymore, im transgender, im a boy now thank you
My mom got me some binders for christmas and I cried so hard on the inside
How nice of your mom! :3
that's amazung! congrats i’m so happy for you!!!!
That's amazing! I really want binders but the second I nearly ask I chicken out.
Awesome!!
I thought u meant school binders nvshvdf- but congratulations !
I'm a cis girl but I wonder if I should get a binder. Sometimes, I just wanna present more masculine.
That's perfectly fine! Your gender and your gender expression can be the same, different, or anything in between! If you do bind, however, just remember to be safe and take breaks if you need it :)
That's pog! Go for it! Also remember to bind safely :)
Same. I’m actually juxera tho. Not many people know what that is so look it up if you need to. I just haven’t figured out how to explain it yet.
If i were you i would start with sports bras then work your way to binders
- a cis girl who's chest makes her super uncomfortable
@@karina_martinez420 yeah that’s what I’m doing.. I’m wearing a tank top underneath my hoodie right now that has a sports bra built in
To be honest I’m shit at pronouns so my solution is to assume everyone’s just a bunch of bees operating a human and this has worked so well. just thought I’d share that because I don’t wanna misgender people even if it’s an accident
Yay thanks
have you ever seen meet dave
Everyone is genderless until proven guilty
the vibes in this community feel so welcoming holy shit i finally belong?! i love being nonbinary 🥺
You've always belonged 🥺
as an afab feminine presenting enby, it really annoys me when people say I can't be non binary because I "don't look like one"
NON BINARY PEOPLE DON'T OWE YOU ANDROGYNY OKAY 🤚😃
First of all, love your name and pfp,
Second of all YEESSSSSSS
@@aphelion2165 oh tysm :)
Wth is afab enby
@@andreaac4499 AFAB- assigned female at birth ENBY-non binary
YES EXACTLY THANK YOU
I ain't enby but I'm doing research for my characters
heyhey, just an idea
🌟neopronouns🌟
cuz I don't see many rep on them
or ppl who don't use any pronouns
or ppl who use any pronouns
thx
@@nalu4313 I don't want to get into that topic of neo pronouns but I do have a character that uses all pronouns
@@i.dont..exist_ whats double trouble
@@TheLizardKing140 if you have questions about non binary stuff I'd be happy to help!
@@i.dont..exist_ Napstablook uses they/them pronouns too! I feel like they're forgotten a lot ;;
If you can't wear binders for whatever reason then i have some tips
Sports bra's they are much more comfortable and they do make you a bit flat not as much as a binder would and do not work if you have big boobs
Loose shirts they arent as effective as binders or sports bras but if you dont have big boobs you should be fine
Layered clothing so this would be an alternative to loose clothing and a bit more effective do not wear this in the summer if you live in a hot place like arizona for your own safety if you have big boobs this may be the best one for you
"much more comfortable"
SCUSE ME ITS NO-
I'm a closeted enby and it's so awkward because my dad was like "your cis female" and I was like "uuuuuuum, yep yep yep definitely a cis female!"
You are a female. Unless you’re actually trans, as in female to male, you’re a female. Being non-binary is the funniest crap I’ve ever heard and you’re a joke for identifying as one
Ignore the dumbass that replied above me, you're amazing and your identity is real and valid :)
@@scoootaloot6391 Actually, nonbinary is a valid gender, you're just rude. Why does it affect you, anyway? You don't have to identify as nonbinary.
@@scoootaloot6391 you're a joke for saying this
I keep thinking I'm a female and it invalidates me so much, my brain fucking sucks 😔
I'mma tell y'all about my fellow NB friend Avery
When we first met I got a crush. But it sucked because I didn't know what I was crushing on. Their hair was short and white-blonde, they always wore overalls and the colors were like denim and yellow. Their voice was pretty neutral, and they were flatchested(7th grade, hadn't gone through puberty) and I had to listen for a solid MONTH for someone to say he or she. Mind you, I had no idea what NB was. They ended up rejecting me when I asked them out (Just got out of a relationship, needed time), but we still good close friends now.
When I told them that story, their mind was blown. They'd achieved true androgyny before they even knew they were NB.
And I think that's beautiful.
"I didn't know what I was crushing on" I relate to that so hard, and used to strive for that, which I have since acknowledged is an unrealistic goal, due to the excessive amount of testosterone that has been flooding my veins at increasing levels for 22 years.
“ *you’re not nickelback!?* “
Can't identify as Norbert
That don't make sense
Only nacho and cool ranch
you’re not born nanabanana
*THERES ONLY TWO GENDERS NACHO AND COOL RANCH*
@@gayunicornprincess69 IM NACHO
I have a plan to send my mom pictures of chest binders and... Stuffs... To hint that I prefer they/them pronouns. She's very supportive and not at all homophobic or transphobic but I just wanna have a little fun.
I told my mom about binders and that they can flatten your chest if you don't wanna do surgery and she just said "you want one, don't you?" And I just responded yes and she said "I can't get you one right now since they're a bit pricey but maybe soon."
**Happy dance intensifies**
@@kisagamez7460 Aww yay! Congrats! 🎉
I don'r know if my parents are homophobic or transhobic. When someone on the TV is talking about trans or gay people they change the channel or ignore it. The last time i talked to my mom about trans people she said that it was a bad thing, but we were watching a movie and a character said that she was lesbian and she didn't care
@rudolfshitler If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all. Your hate is not welcome here.
@rudolfshitler Gtfo
Ah, yes. Nothing like some good old NB TikToks to end the year... *Sips tea*
Also happy New Year everyone!
I love your profile picture❤️
ok but the convo between that folk, their dad and the dads gf is sooooo cute 🥺🥺 i wish more parents could talk openly like this with their children!!
Ah, I really needed this! I've only been out as non binary for a bit and today I had my first not so great interaction... Someone called me broken, said that there's only two genders and asked me what's in my pants. I starting to feel bad for being non binary.
I came out to my mom as non-binary and she said “that’s confusing, explain more?” After I actually I explained she said “oh that’s a cool way to be” and I almost started to crying happy tears 😭
the most aggrav9ating moment is when a non-binary kid's parent will say: she identifies as they now or something
**cries in happy trixic**
edited because people dont know that a nonbinary lesbian is another term for trixic :/
Same, it's called trixic if your enby and are attracted to females. Toric if your enby and attracted to males
Monochromatic Demondog
*Sobs in happy panby*
Edit 5/5/21: turns out I'm bi
HELLOW FELLOW HUMAN NON-BINARY LESBIAN
AAA IVE FOUND MY KINDDD YESSS
@Sister Bear well, its when a nonbinary person is like feminine or something, or just attracted to females. like megan said, its actually called trixic, but i identify myself as a nonbinary lesbian because im somewhat feminine.
You heard him, Mr. Demon has dubbed 2021 the year of the enbys
YES
Yes!
YES
I will use this year to convert all my friends to enby-ness
Now everyone join me for the chant 🪘🔥
My biggest achievement as a non-binary is that i can make everyone question my gender. I go by he/him mainly but i don't mind she/her or they/them pronouns either. And y'all i attract people like a magnet, I'm living for this shit.
I'M AN UNSTOPPABLE SUCCUBI.
I remember I told one of my friends about non binary and he was like: “so like they’re just flat down there?”
Wait what if someone sewed half of a famale and male collared shirt ?
someone did that actually! it was really cool! the "female" one was pink and the "male" was blue!
Yeah
Clothes have no gender
@@nothanks673 yeah i most definitely agree trust me, so that's why i like to put feminine and masculine in "" to emphasize that the fact that clothes are labeled that is stupid and made up by society
Yeah like who cares if like they have to be labeled as anything
Ugh it is SO hard to explain being NB to my friends because when they think of trans they think of
boy ---> girl
Or
girl ---> boy
And they cant get
girl ---> non binary
(Which is me)
And my friend thinks im over exaggerating because I asked her to respect my pronouns and not constantly deadname me on purpose even though it makes me uncomfy
It's a bit of a jerk move but you could use the opposite pronouns for that friend (who doesn't understand why the wrong pronouns make you uncomfortable) and they'll pretty quickly correct you, and you can then point out that that's what they've been doing to you. It might help them understand why respecting pronouns are important.
And for the others not understanding things you could find some resources online that may better explain these things to them, it might help :)
Anyone else just want their family to accept them, stop using the wrong pronouns, stop misgendering them and let them be who they are..?
I made a bracelet that I wear that says “they / them” so my friends don’t forget but since I can’t find the bead I need to make one that has my name I have a feeling they are still gonna say the wrong name- [the friend that messes up my name doesn’t purposely do it, I can tell because he normally uses it correctly but forgets and calls me the wrong name and my friend always points it out and whispers to me “he just called you *my dead name* “ and all I say is “I know it’s fine he’ll figure it out”]
I read this at one point, and I still find it funny.
"The NB in Non-Binary stands for NUMEROUS BEES"
As a Christian I just want to say, Jesus does love you, so do I, I want you guys/all to feel safe and happy in your body(and life) non-binary=a person who's just different- lgbtq+ as a whole = people who deserve safety and love just as much as anyone else.
People like you are why I still have faith in humanity 💛
That moment when you have a gender identity crisis in the middle of math and you have to act as though you aren’t questioning your entire life.
My gender fluid went like:🌊💛◻️💜🖤
Lmao yess
That’s not real
@@scoootaloot6391 Gender-Fluid people are actually just vapor that shape into a human body whenever they so feel like it, so in conclusion, your just a homophobe so please go away
@@scoootaloot6391 dude-
okay all of these are cute but the one with the enby mom is so fricking adorable and wholesome i might cry-
That one with the non-binary mom was so cool, it seemed like the happy ending of a movie
I have a non-binary friend!
They're super nice and we share the same interests
That's cool! I'm glad you share the same interest with them and support them.
Leave him/her until he/she figures out his/her crap or support him/her changing. Y’all are ridiculous
Wtf dude?
If they identify as non-binary how does it hurt anyone? By finding their identity they’ve already figured out a lot more crap then most people have to
@@nullandvoid42 Agreed, they are officially non-binary. I support all pronouns. There are more than just she/her and he/him.
People really be like
"He's nonbinary"
"She uses they/them pronouns"
Me realizing that it isn't normal to slouch while walking around my own house as to hide my chest because I'm uncomfortable with it:
Warning: I basically tell my whole life story and it’s pretty boring :)
I’m AFAB, and legit everyone calls me a girl and uses she/her pronouns when really i’m in the closet hiding the fact that i’m non-binary, i only have 5 friends and only trust 2 of them so those two know that i want to be identified as non-binary and respect my decision, they also use my preferred pronouns even when around others but people always correct them saying “*she/her” which is pretty annoying. I’ve always hid my chest which to my mum isn’t a big deal because the first bras she got me were sports bras and just thought that i felt more comfortable when i wear them instead (which i do but that’s all my mum knows, she doesn’t know my whole non-binary thing) the reason i haven’t came out is because even though i’ve felt like this for 2 years, i’m just not ready to tell them because of how things are in my family (everyone is supportive when it comes to sexuality but from what i know, my family don’t know any non-binary’s/genderfluid/genderqueer/transgender/etc personally)
Same I'm scared as FRICK cuz my cousin came out and it didnt go amazingly well and I'm afraid my mom will think I'm lying or something.
@@urban_gse_ I don’t really have any advice on coming out as I haven’t myself but what I can say is that even though you don’t know who I am, i support your decisions
Non binary people have the best sense of humor ngl
YES I NEEDED MORE OF THESE
Thanks Mr. Demon for teaching me LGBTQ+ meanings. I want to learn what the sexualities/genders mean to help support people with those sexualities/genders.
I love that you use your platform to spread awareness and amplify people’s voices! (and not just talking about this one video lol) Could you possibly do a nonbinary transfem compilation if you haven’t already? I feel like they are definitely underrepresented
I cried at the one about the family of they/thems! It was so touching.
This is the best way to start off the new year
My friend publicly came out as non-binary and I said I knew. They asked “How on earth did you figure it out?!” Their name is Cactus. And they wonder how I knew😭
This is the first video abt nonbinary I watched since I came out and because I'm so fed up with the constant misgendering at work.
Thank you so much for spreading all of this positivity and care and just amazing people 🥺
This really warmed my heart and I have tiny happy tears in my eyes.
My bi panic is off the rails with this one. Y’all are valid and I will hype you up if I see you in public!
I needed this, my mum just told me that when your non binary it is un-necessary to use they/them pronouns and how they make sentences hard to read.
Now I wouldn't really care that much, if it wasn't that I'm a closeted enby with multiple enby friends
Okay funny story:
I was watching a video giving advice and tips for playing a non binary character in a video game.
I noticed at one point the person got their pronouns wrong, so I pointed that out in the comments.
Keep in mind that this is still going on.
Someone replied with something along the lines of “Dude, who cares?”
I proceeded to tell them that it made some people more comfortable, and I told them that if it’s an accident that they messed up the pronouns, it’s alright, as long as they fix their mistake and try to get it right.
They gave me a lecture about how it’s “Harder for people to use grammatically” and they proceeded to go on about how they were fine with people being open and supported when it comes to sexualities, but they thought it was hard for people to change their perspective of someone and use they/them pronouns.
I told them that “It just makes some people more comfortable”
Then pointed out the fact that they seemed to be using They/Them pronouns for the person they referred to, so everyone basically, and seemed to have no problem with doing so.
They have yet to reply to the message, but I wanna see their reaction so bad.
Did they ever respond?
The "You're not nickelback" fucking sent me! XD
Non binary rights all the way 💛🤍💜🖤
You guys are valid 1000% ❤️
:O NON-BINARY TIK TOKS!!!!!!! I HAVE MY BEANIE ON!
BEANIES
@@nightshade8928 YES
I love beanies
@@XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX Don't we all?
My non-binary cousin is calls themself Beenie.
I felt so called out with the three dogs in a Trenchcoat.
Yes I am 707 Fireflies that make a hive mind and I’m agender (they/them). Loving it.
Just the steady stream of wholesome :)
3:34 this parent literally sounds exactly like my mom. she’s done all these things
I'm a cis girl and I've always felt like a girl. But I experience chest dysphoria and I really like presenting androgynous. I don't care whatever pronouns people call me. Does that make me trans or non-binary? I'm confused because people say I'm non-binary even though I like being called a girl and I'm comfortable with she/her pronouns. Please help me out.
While experiencing dysphoria or wanting to dress differently doesn't inherently make someone trans/nonbinary, the two together would put you somewhere on the enby spectrum, maybe demi girl? And please remember that you don't have to use they/them pronouns to be nonbinary, you can use whatever pronouns you see fit.
I'mm not sure if I'm nonbinary or genderfluid yet, but I definitely don't identify as a girl. I don't like she/her pronouns or being called a girl but I like my girl parts and boobs and looking feminine and stuff so I feel you lol
If you identify as a girl then you're a girl! You don't have to be girly or like your girl parts to be a girl, you are what you identify as and you are what you feel you are
I understand the feeling and I realize that it doesn't matter what you like, wear, etc. It's what you want, what you feel, what you identify as!
Imo, you can dress/present pretty much the way you want regardless of whether or not you want to be identified as any particular label, if someone asks or something then it might be easier to explain if you were comfortable saying "oh well I'm non binary so I like being androgynous" but if you don't identify as such and its just that you feel more comfortable in those clothes then whatever feels best. If it were me, I wouldn't likely label myself non-binary if I still felt completely feminine in identity and perspective, but wearing andro. clothes doesn't make you less of a girl in itself.
@Franco Cavalli so your not supporting non binarys?
@Franco Cavalli oh I understand,sorry for the misunderstanding.
The three dogs in a trenchcoat one gets me every time :D
Today's been a horrid day for me but the one thing that actually made it liveable was when I finally FINALLY came out as non-binary. I had been questioning for months and I finally decided I don't need a gender. I told my mom and my dad about it and now I'm so proud to be able to say "hello! My name is Finn, I use they/them pronouns and I live in an accepting household"
Four minutes ago :)
Also, as a nonbinary adgender person- I like dis :3
@@jayrteev1902 what. The fuck.
Did you not watch the video? What are you doing on the video?
@@jayrteev1902 and how exactly are they not a thing? Do I just not exist then?
@@jayrteev1902 Ah, and you're not gonna respond. Good. I don't even want to waste my time on a shithead like you.
@@NoOne-pg4qu no he’s right. They don’t exist mr special
@@scoootaloot6391 How do they not exist? Can you give me a reason? Why are you on this video, which is literally "NONBINARY TIK TOKS" if you think they don't exist? You wanna call me 'Mr Special' when all you're doing is trying to validate yourself and your wrong opinions on gender.
As a person still trying to figure out my gender identity, these help me out a lot
I don't know why but i fall in love with non-binary people because there so beautiful showing who they are. if i did that i would get kicked out of my house for even showing i was non-binary. because my parent are a little homophobic and i'm 13. but i love they way your not scared to show who you are and i love that. your AMAZING.
i am not ready to tell my parents i'm non-binary, because i don't want to hear my mom talking for like 2 hours, just to tell me she accept me, i am not that pattient, so i guess i have to wait
Thank you for making theses videos! I’m not non-binary myself but I’m try my best to educate myself on more sexualities/sexual identities. You all are loved and have value. I completely support whoever you are, and who you will become. Stay happy! 💞💞
💛
Excuse me! Pardon! Sorry!
Yep definitely not a Pansexual here to see and blush over some, or a lot, or all of these fabulous and amazing people. O3O
Me, a lesbian :)
"Are you plural or something?? YES IM THREE DOGS IN A TRENCH COAT"
Me: dying on the floor laughing😭😭😭
that ‘you’re not nickelback’ was so threatening
EYYYY yes! Perfect way to end 2020!
Ikr
13:03 this litterly made me cry 🥺❤‼️
"YES!! I'M THREE DOGS IN A TRENCHCOAT!!" Is my new motto.
I get asked all the time ‘are you plural because of your pronouns?’ So I loved the three dogs in a trench coat and you will refer to me as such. It was really sweet, and I love this compilation.
8:13 I’d love them as an uncle, mine is a cop sadly and we have a bad relationship so I’d love to have them instead 🥺👉🏻👈🏻
Don’t get arrested…get it…, I tried ok
Adults don’t get it.
“Your a girl/boy”
“What’s in between your legs decides your gender”
“It’s just a phase”
“They/them is plural, not a human gender”
I just came out to my friend and she was so supportive, I’m actually crying and my screens wet
Aww, I’m so happy for you!
@@lyricaall thank you!
Thank you so much these are the absolute cutest so happy to have such an amazing community 🥺💗💗
My parents are still confused by they/them, wait until they find out I use neopronouns too 😂
@@ziivual Neopronouns are pronouns other than he/she/they, yes. Ze/zir is one example.
Just a reminder neopronouns are only a satire thing and not serious, the only real pronouns are she/he/and they, neopronouns are just satire..so I really hope you don’t expect people to call you them and get upset when they dont
@@kayleemoon._6045 That's not at all true and if you think so please actually read about it from our perspective instead of just watching the first "why neopronouns are stupid" video you see
@@AstralArbourSys they aren’t stupid, they just aren’t meant to be taken seriously, your a human, not a ze, you can be either she/he/or they pick which ever idc just don’t tell me you expect people to call u some shit like ze
What are you doing to the English language damn
Story time:I work at frappe. This guy called me a lady while I was trying to get my friend an americano,and I TOLD HIM that I use Xe/Her. So when my friend left,he looked at me,and spammed “SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE SHE1!1!!”. I was so mad,that I reported in in training later. The guys excuse was ‘Well you looked like a girl’
Dear Mine4diamonds64
Stop it,get some help!
as someone whos hyperlax (my joints and other body parts are way too flexible) i CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH how important it is to take off the binder if you start to hurt. i basically have rubber ribs and they got really squished in the binder once to the point of hurting for weeks after and i had to go to the doctor. so listen to your body. if youre in pain even before 8 hours of wearing a binder, take it off
this. this is a good way to start my year
yes.